Car CEX, Dressing $exy, Falling Out of Love + More EXPECTATIONS VS REALITIES In Marriage

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  • @ShalouCuisine
    @ShalouCuisine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Neze’s laugh is so contagious 😂😂😂😂😂
    I enjoyed the topic👏👏👏👏

    • @eluanmark4204
      @eluanmark4204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Like the smile never stops... Love y'all

  • @talkwithtobi
    @talkwithtobi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Nelo can talk ehnnn, Near with the contagious laughter, Adaeze on the calm side throwing points. I really enjoyed this video. 👍👍👍

  • @purityalbert
    @purityalbert 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This is the best collaboration i've ever watched on TH-cam. My goodness! Its the reality and honesty for me. Every single one of you have very distinct and amazing vibes. Omoh, the energy in Adaeze's house on this day can sure light up a Christmas tree. Chai... God bless you ladies for making my Mondays through Fridays bearable at work.

  • @Nezeville
    @Nezeville 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I haven’t started watching but am already laughing 😂!!!!!!!

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @amiirahussein9635
      @amiirahussein9635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You n nelo look alike ya'll looking beautiful I like Ada makeup 👌

    • @adaobiogbanufe1497
      @adaobiogbanufe1497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love your laughter. It makes me laugh too. So contagious. Beautiful collabo!

    • @lisabella6930
      @lisabella6930 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @nursebondemcanada
      @nursebondemcanada 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Communication is key,but communicating the right way is important👏👏👏.

  • @AlmaNgur
    @AlmaNgur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    See ehn!! I was supposed to be the 4th person in this video!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    When am angry, I have found a way to write all I want to say so that I don’t forget what I want to say so that I can reference when we are talking about it.

  • @NnekaNwogu
    @NnekaNwogu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    U guys are absolutely right. Its always good to differentiate between expectations and reality.. let me finish taking care of my kids b4 I will have time to knack 6 days in a week🤣🤣🤣

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 my sister you are capable

    • @NnekaNwogu
      @NnekaNwogu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@NeloOkeke am not oo🤣🤣

    • @Mosiwomeka
      @Mosiwomeka 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣

    • @nkechiamandaanyabolu2009
      @nkechiamandaanyabolu2009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Intentionality is the key,he was there before the kids,so we should try and call all to mind and balance all. I love Neze smile,Ada always calm and Nelo always real.keep the vibes umunnem

    • @TORIMONGER
      @TORIMONGER 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are really funny and I love tuning in to your channel. A real goofball.

  • @sandrabrianafrica3360
    @sandrabrianafrica3360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I can't stop appreciating the beauty... gosh you all look so amazing

  • @sandraezejianyaele
    @sandraezejianyaele 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You ladies are so hilarious 😆. Nelo said communication without compression is noise and l can't agree any less. Some expectations in marriage only happen in movies; you don't agree on everything in marriage. You have to be intentional about your Marriage so that you continue to love each other regardless. Learn to be yourself; don't fake it because you go tire. I have so many points on channel about marriage expectations versus realities. I am new on TH-cam though but l have years of experience in marriage. You three ladies rock. Neze, l will be your first student when you start laughter masterclass; your laughter is contagious. I enjoyed this video honestly.

  • @AdaNwaozor
    @AdaNwaozor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Nelo 🔥 I love your energy. I so much enjoyed this series. 3 beautiful ladies spitting nothing but the truth. I love that you ladies keep it real 💯

  • @GiftyUncensored
    @GiftyUncensored 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What’s no to like about you 3, this is so relatable and funnily not what people like to talk about. Thank y’all

  • @ogeirenediary6693
    @ogeirenediary6693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how open all women were in this video, ahhh nelo is a big influence ooo look how adaeze talk smooth from her heart without alot of hesitation. I am here for this bcos i am a newly wed and this video is making me have an open mind wen stuffs like these show up.

  • @Chykoli
    @Chykoli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The sleeping and cuddling part for me...my dear we sleep with different blankets ooo...I need to turn any how I want and fart inside my blanket anyhow I want 😃 😀 😄

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @bennethezinwa6567
    @bennethezinwa6567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I believe if Oga participates in running things in the home, such as cooking, bathing the kids, bring them to school or pick them up from school. Basically Oga being active participant in the home PLC, will avail more time for bedroom activity. Though not a guarantee some women/men are naturally lazy when it comes to bedroom activities. In my opinion, once a week is too dull! Nelo thank you for the "COMPREHENSION MATTERS", very vital for a healthy and progressive home.

  • @vickieogb1262
    @vickieogb1262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The content i signed up for, another lovely watch ❤❤❤👍👍, FACTS!!!

  • @AbujaYummyMummy
    @AbujaYummyMummy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Papa Ebuka come and take what is yours🤣 Kai Una scatter me with laughter

  • @bellznjollz80
    @bellznjollz80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Nelooooo u just hit it with the first point: Communication without comprehension is NOISE!! 👏👏👏 let me continue watching I'm sure gonna enjoy this...

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Negodu 3 beautiful umu asa😍😍😍😍

  • @floxysfeed4448
    @floxysfeed4448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Plsoo let your husbands gather and do their own amino,you guys shld facilitate that,it will be fun.

  • @doyinoyekunle4195
    @doyinoyekunle4195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This Neze’s laughter ehn! Very contagious

  • @miraumeh5599
    @miraumeh5599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Atugom down👩‍💻let me balance well, abeg who dey my seat. I don't like trouble

  • @ucheobuekwe
    @ucheobuekwe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The quality of this video is amazing! Please what camera was used to film it? 😍😍

  • @Rubychika
    @Rubychika 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so fun and so serious at the same time. I have saved all the videos sha. When I get to that point in life sha, I will go back to these videos to take advice.

  • @naturalinspirationsbynekod2143
    @naturalinspirationsbynekod2143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Nels, Ada and Neze! This was such a treat, just having you three gisting and all. I enjoyed sha, I can't complain when it comes to either of you ladies. 🥰 Ah ah abeg o, this laughter and talk is so real joor. Had to pause, so I won't miss a beat. Lol 😄

  • @ChyHairDiaries
    @ChyHairDiaries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think the single club enjoyed this video most.....on behalf of us, thank you ladies!!!!!

  • @TeewaiVlogs
    @TeewaiVlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Oh my....that eating together and oga finishing the meat,fish or other encouragement in the food is so true o🤣😂😂😂

  • @oduekiokonkwo4339
    @oduekiokonkwo4339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Neze can laugh for africa....I really enjoyed the diversity of this video. really fun to watch

  • @favordestiny5711
    @favordestiny5711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nelo the break all tables .Always say it raw,no pretends where she dey.cute video and crazy ladies, nice fun

  • @christyokoli9328
    @christyokoli9328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Very proud of you guys.I live in Los Angeles and I'm happy how you guys represent Nigerian women cos some people in this part of the world does not know that we have beautiful, educated well spoken ladies like you guys

  • @gloriaukay392
    @gloriaukay392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Umu Ada Igbo,Ekele muo,you can pass as siblings,ndewo nu.

  • @AbujaYummyMummy
    @AbujaYummyMummy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    At rumpled singlet and torn boxers 🤣🤣🤣 this was so hilarious

  • @tinuboroni8607
    @tinuboroni8607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These women just spilled it all out💪💪💪

  • @jenkech5824
    @jenkech5824 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow you ladies dropped some straight up wisdom. Very entertaining thank you so much for such a great video

  • @kehindeakinlabi1650
    @kehindeakinlabi1650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love you guys and I’m about to clock 20 but you guys (Nelo and Adeze) have taught me alot about marriage and family. Because i reallly have this fantasy about family and my future but you guys have made me become more realistic when thinking about family and my future

  • @abbyvictoria2389
    @abbyvictoria2389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really nice video…
    You should do these kinds of sit down videos with other views and perspectives more often, we need to know these realities.

  • @francesjane3544
    @francesjane3544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I kind of connect with Nelo. I love her vibe. She’s my spirit sister😀

  • @Ursula.s_Spot
    @Ursula.s_Spot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really learnt so much from this video. Comprehension not communication, very valid 👌

  • @sheilaochaka4082
    @sheilaochaka4082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Nelo you are awesome I just watched you on Neville's channel and you are the real deal....always on point...beautiful content and very INFORMATIVE 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤❤❤❤💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      awww thank you

  • @Miss_Princewill
    @Miss_Princewill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    3 shades of beauty!!!!! 😍😍😍 what a Triooooo

  • @jynb1947
    @jynb1947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's the way nelo and neze said are you serious same time 😄😄

  • @glamourouscool6114
    @glamourouscool6114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Really enjoyed this conversation😂😂 hard truths, 7yrs in like Nelo.

  • @chikajudith648
    @chikajudith648 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A collaboration of three gorgeous ladies. Wooow! The topic was hot mehn! I laughed all through.

  • @oyoyondokikitchen
    @oyoyondokikitchen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Enjoyed watching you ladies…. The eating together is not my thing I never tried it … I just love eating by myself.

  • @RoszeyBrowny
    @RoszeyBrowny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bikonu why am I smiling so sheepishly in public laik this😁😁
    I have laughed my ass out oo my aunties in marriage 😂😂 Nna e no be small thing and Nezeville killed me when she said you were nau tie wrapper and say oga come and take what’s yours, you want or not🤣😂😅🥲😄😃😅

  • @trippledworld9088
    @trippledworld9088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! I really enjoy this video we need more of this can of video

  • @zaiahphilips7000
    @zaiahphilips7000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nezeville papa ebuka come and take what is yours. 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

  • @camelak8953
    @camelak8953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just Nezevilleeeeeee!!! Plus I enjoyed this talk, I learnt a lot.

  • @cherryblue746
    @cherryblue746 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please can we have more of this content? This was hilarious, entertaining and educative . Thank you ladies

  • @tee-kayTv
    @tee-kayTv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Had so much fun watching this☺️☺️☺️☺️
    And yes!Comprehension is key!

  • @uchegbumaryjosephine9746
    @uchegbumaryjosephine9746 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally enjoyed this! More collab biko

  • @EnglishPrepClass
    @EnglishPrepClass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Real talk, truth delivered. BTW you ladies look so stunning🥰🥰🥰

  • @OELuxury
    @OELuxury 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol same. My husband and I, when we enter club, we like dancing with different people with different dance styles BUT we dance together too. However, no sexy grinding ohhh. Lol

  • @johnettekanu1044
    @johnettekanu1044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You ladies are very funny it was so interesting . Its true don't try to change your partner let him or her be.

  • @ogberahaabigeal32
    @ogberahaabigeal32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It still boils down to couples doing what works for them. Nice one

  • @sakehswurld
    @sakehswurld 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been married for 11 years and honestly I agree with you, comprehension is key.
    Everyone communicates but do we really understand each other.
    Nobody cuddles all night biko, how will I sleep properly?
    I always say there’s no manual for marriage, do what works for and your partner.
    I’m still hoping that one day I’ll sit with you ladies🙏 So help me God.

  • @PhayteasPulse
    @PhayteasPulse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The laughter in this video is contagious. You ladies are speaking facts

  • @obiemmanuel2782
    @obiemmanuel2782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You ladies are just too on point

  • @onyinyesspace9085
    @onyinyesspace9085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣🤣🤣 Neze o..."come and take what is yours. Are you doing or not" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @NotesandBebaibee
    @NotesandBebaibee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I enjoyed this video, thank you guys for this, I just got married, I needed this 😀😊

  • @KelechiChukwurah
    @KelechiChukwurah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I really enjoyed this. So true and realistic. I thought that when we get married, he'd be the one to drag me to pray even more...WO ! 🤣🤣🤣 Thanks,dear for this evening laughter. Now heading to the other channels to show love 😘

  • @joycegottalenttv405
    @joycegottalenttv405 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Award winning video, thanks for sharing my beautiful ladies I really enjoyed watching.

  • @obiomachidozie2496
    @obiomachidozie2496 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well-done ladies, the most important point here is to be able to know the Right time to communicate with him or else it will be a waste of time

  • @Nicey_Young
    @Nicey_Young 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Communication without comprehension is noise
    Truee🔥👏👏

  • @simplyjoy6840
    @simplyjoy6840 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought so too Adaeze..it is not always the same dream

  • @theroadsideinvestor
    @theroadsideinvestor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Neze's laughter has me rollingg. Lmaoo

  • @Peppy_Chichi
    @Peppy_Chichi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hahahhahahahahhaha omg I can’t stop laughing at the car sex 😂😂😂😂 chim ooooooooo Adaeze said why will I put my leg 😂😂😂😂😂 my own expectation is that I thought every day somebody will hold my waist from behind while I cook 😃😃😃😃

  • @prestigeofficial8855
    @prestigeofficial8855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awwwwn this is so cute and interesting too. Thank you

  • @winifredkal
    @winifredkal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Oh my!!! I laughed so hard. I love how real and funny you all are. Thank you for this video, still a newbie in marriage😅

  • @obioraperpetua3934
    @obioraperpetua3934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this. I laughed all through. Plz do more of this collaboration

  • @_SarahEzekiel
    @_SarahEzekiel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was soo fun to watch and I relate to most of what you discussed ❤️❤️❤️

  • @amahdesmond253
    @amahdesmond253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its just like you people were in my body nd soul. All you said were all my expectations bfor marriage. And now nne it is a diff ball game. Sometimes I don't even want to see him around me talk more of him touching me. But i love him o,but love is not all.

  • @gloriad216
    @gloriad216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My expectations when I got married is that oga will pet me , kiss me and serve me breakfast on bed.
    Reality is when he will wake me up early and ask me to prepare breakfast for him. After two weeks,I couldn't endure because in my father's house I wake up anytime and eat anything I want because I have younger ones. I went back to my father's house and ask oga to stay on his own .
    Then after one week daddy asked me if I was quarrelling with oga I said no daddy asked me to return back to my husband's house.
    I went back to oga's house crying that I will never go to daddy's house😄😄😄.
    This November will make us 10 years together.

  • @simplyjoy6840
    @simplyjoy6840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love such group conversation to increase my understanding and here what other couples are doing.

  • @davidandchy
    @davidandchy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My people! Love u guys!🥰😍

  • @nomzy448
    @nomzy448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Had so much fun watching the three videos from the three channels, me the part of eating together resonate with me o 🤣🤣🤣

  • @momentswithadwoa5264
    @momentswithadwoa5264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this and I'm definitely trying the Car cex thingy with hubby hahahahaa

  • @adaonyeocha
    @adaonyeocha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    😂😂😂 ladies this is so interesting, i enjoyed every bit of the discussions

  • @LearnIgboWithBarbara
    @LearnIgboWithBarbara 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m just 100% Nelo in character🤣🤣🤣

  • @rhodaboateng5822
    @rhodaboateng5822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you ladies so much❤🇬🇭
    I really enjoyed this😅

  • @Nanaekanem6132
    @Nanaekanem6132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly comprehension is really key especially during arguments 💯

    • @lolitasville
      @lolitasville 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally agree dear

  • @chinitascorner3021
    @chinitascorner3021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Honestly, this video is super dupe. So hilarious and entertaining. My stomach is paining abeg

  • @mildredopubiri6161
    @mildredopubiri6161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so much fun, you 3 are so beautiful and a vibe. Seen the videos on all 3 channels and was so much fun and informative ♥️♥️❤️❤️❤️

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    9:18 Peperempe thinking of all the freaky times 🤣

  • @ritaericaobia
    @ritaericaobia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed it thanks for sharing keep it up

  • @zwashebangani8328
    @zwashebangani8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Its the smiles and positive wholesome energy for me❤❤❤❤😍

  • @TeewaiVlogs
    @TeewaiVlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    All points valid💯💯💯💯🥰🙌 insightful and interesting

  • @debbiedo-er9672
    @debbiedo-er9672 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Papa Ebuka come and take what is yours...are you doing or not???" Neze, kee me!

  • @njimbuacolette2896
    @njimbuacolette2896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    You ladies are very interesting, I have enjoyed the discussion and it helps bring certain feelings to realities. Thanks

  • @doreenonekalit9888
    @doreenonekalit9888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    All 3 collaborations were 👌🏾

  • @Allthingsbube
    @Allthingsbube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I see what y'all did here 😁
    You all posted each video at the same time..
    Let me finish watching this one first.😄

  • @osibanjoadebisi7706
    @osibanjoadebisi7706 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I so love you guys... pls do this again so on another topic.

  • @thisischichiworld9894
    @thisischichiworld9894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This conversation is very interesting.

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Adaeze... I totally understand the not liking sometimes

  • @cyndycjay
    @cyndycjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My faves in one video.. this is definitely the video of the year for me.🤣. seeing my faves collaborating together.. you ladies look so GREAT... THIS VIDEO IS AMAZING

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Never loose your individuality

  • @jasmineoladokun2734
    @jasmineoladokun2734 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    18:10..... I dare you not to Laugh🤣🤣🤣 Nezeville, your laughter is contagious 💋

  • @vio4025
    @vio4025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hated that eating together thing we both hated it we just realized we couldn't cope and drifted 🤣🤣

  • @loolar5983
    @loolar5983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was so much fun to watch…great job guys 💕

  • @AbujaYummyMummy
    @AbujaYummyMummy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Almost 4:0 am and I’m here laughing 😩🤣🤣