At the end of the day, life is getting more financially difficult and using what we have wisely is good financial strategy. Well done for recognizing that it was not bringing you joy and happiness and that the pieces you have now and what you do to celebrate sits so much better and if you feel better about the choices, it's nothing but a win. Congratulations. I love minimalism, it's very mind clearing.😁👩💼
I’m the same- I have designer handbags but will usually buy pre loved and don’t buy designer clothes. There is nothing wrong with flexing your nice handbag (as I have a true passion for handbags) and not wearing anything else designer! Great tips 😊
I TOTALLY relate on Bicester Village - I focussed SO MUCH on the "saving" rather than the fact I was still spending more than I really wanted/needed to. It's yet another thing I've had to become aware of, in my journey to try and curb my luxury shopping.
Here's my story about influence through social media: We have a back yard. It's just a yard with lawn, a swing, a treehouse for the children, and several trees. I decided to make it prettier and started watching gardening videos on youtube to learn more about which plants I could add. The more I watched, the more I realized that my yard is just a yard, not a garden. So I found myself researching plants, visiting garden centers, searching for containers I like, and so on. I made a plan, laid out a schedule of what to plant when, and kept an eye on the cost. Now, I admit that my yard looks a lot better now, and I don't mind working on it a few hours a week. I enjoy the result. But to be honest, it is not a garden and I would never have taken our yard so seriously, if I hadn't started watching gardening videos on youtube. Now I say "it's enough" and only look up care and maintenance info. It's easy to get trapped into thinking you have to do (or buy) more and more.
Amen to that. I have invested into my garden to where I look at it as another room to enjoy. A patio, a foot path, birdhouses and statues make it stunning to me. I enjoy decorating it for every holiday...be it pumpkins now or Christmas decor in a week or two.
I recently cleaned out my wardrobe after moving into my apartment of one year. The entire process was so straining mentally as I cleared pieces of clothing I bought many years ago, hoarded and totally untouched (and completely outdated in style) . I then realized how much money I wasted by buying things I never used . It was a very regretful feeling to have as I bagged and boxed hundreds of pieces that were never enjoyed ! I love your videos and your way of living and thinking is so inspirational . Thank you and keep up the good work Eileen !
I so Appreciate your Honesty Eileen. It's so easy to fall for all the latest and the greatest, especially when it's constantly promoted on social media day in and day out as if it's normal. I sometimes think and wonder, what type of state social media has left many people. So many "MUST HAVES" are being shared....I COMPLETELY understand, a person works, they spend as they choose. But, it still doesn't erase the deception that's displayed on social media for a Click and a Like....One of the reasons it was Designed in the first place. Nothing like wearing a Walmart T-shirt, Thrift Store Jeans and 5 year old shoes with a Louis Vuitton Bag found at a Consignment Shop. I'm Still the same me & I'm happy. Don't let up Eileen!💯🧡
At times I do think- when I did more shopping related content back then, there was more applause; but as long as my content is helping some people, I’ll work hard, show up, and share my voice xx
I do feel better after some retail therapy and I like to buy myself something nice for Christmas and birthdays. I have found that the best way to enjoy indulging in this is to always have handy a “retail therapy list” containing things I really will use and need. Clothes and shoes that have reached the end of their life and need replacing before the relevant season comes around is a good one as are skincare products I regularly use and will of course do so pretty soon. Household items that need replacing are also a good one. Luxury items are obviously not on it. They are too expensive to be anything except few and far between and very intentional. This way I get to indulge myself but be sensible at the same time.
I'm currently in a process of buying my own place and taking a big mortgage for it (as someone who never been in debt, it's a huge amount for me). the mortgage payments will probably be stretched for 20yrs but I'm determined to pay it out much sooner. so the next 10-15 years will be a huge challenge for me to spend as little as possible on unnecessary purchases. the goal is to spend money on mortgage payments and traveling and not "stuff" (god knows I have enough of these). I hope some day to be in a position where minimalism comes as naturally for me as it is for you.
I've found that if I shop online for my clothes & accessories, I save alot in several ways! When I go on Trusted Sites, with purpose, looking for certain things at certain times with expectation of a Mark Down, then I'm much more successful & feel as if I have maintained control over my purchases, then when a SA was able to talk me into buying things simply bc "This Goes with That" or "It looks so good on you" "splurge a little Honey, You're worth it"! (Same reason I never shop with other women) Also the Fuel it takes to go around to various stores & possible parking fees, have also made online shopping more practical! I would spend hours shopping a few years ago, now I am much more practical & have time to do other things I like or just spend time with my husband walking or picnicking! Thanks for all your Videos, I enjoy every one! 🥰🇺🇸
Hi, Eileen! Just wanted to say how much I appreciate your videos and your calm way of speaking in them. Since you talked about great affordable skincare products, I wanted to give you the tip of Cerave Oil Cleanser. I keep it in the shower and use it every night after work to completely remove my makeup without upsetting my very sensitive skin. I highly recommend it! 😊
Hi Eileen, Another nice video from you. Everytime you have a new upload, I am excited to watch it right away. It is very good to share with others that even though we carry designers’ handbags, we are aware of and affected by the inflation’s implications on our living. The hike in interest rate is also affecting our cash flow and surplus every month. However, as my husband and I are frugal and our saving rate is quite high, we are alright with the current situation. As a side note, I wanna share I recently read a book called “Stop Acting Rich”. It was written more than 10 years ago by the author of “The millionaire next door”. The book addresses the issues of luxury clothing, luxury make of cars, and the hidden cost of living in a luxury neighbourhood. I recommend this book to all luxury lovers.
Hi Eileen, i have been watching your videos talking about minimalism. Your videos are inspiring to me. I started to buy Chanel and LV bags and slg last year. I am only interested in these 2 categories. I don fancy for branded jewellery, watches, shoes and clothings. Sometimes your videos will remind me not to overspend.
Lucky I don’t do outlet shopping. I seldom buy clothing but I have a weak spot for tech stuffs as a woman. 😅I have also sold many luxury bags and not only have 4 bags in my wardrobe.😊 I think it’s enough and the other bag I’m buying next will be a small bag as I needed a small sling but yet to find one that I love yet. Great sharing video Eileen.
It's a refreshing take. Can you please do a video on the cheaper alternative to luxury brands like La Mer, Sisley etc? I've been waiting to cut down on my skincare costs. Something that does similar but much cheaper. Thanks 👍🏻 😊
This is such a timely topic. Everything else going up, unfortunately. When I am down, I go for a simple meal. Not necessarily luxurious meal, just some comfort food.
Totally agree. I had the mentality of...I am going to buy stuff because I don't gwt a chance to shop. I am not as thrilled with high end brands anymore. Frankly, seeing Chanel and Hermes on the arms of almost every single reality TV star has turned me off of the brands. They are almost becoming common. I am into uniqueness now. Hand made by someone local. Also, I would now prefer to invest in me, meaning my health. Better foods, a personal trainer, stuff like that
I have made the outlets mistake in the past and I won’t do it again. I felt obligated to buy things because I made the long trip out there and it didn’t make sense to leave empty handed. It is better to save for a wishlist item rather than getting other things not on the wishlist and then still want the wish list item. I think it is so easy to succumb to the Diderot effect if one engages in social media in the luxury world. The only way to reduce temptation is to reduce the time spent in social media.
@@ColourfulNoir I can definitely relate to enjoying luxury/nice things but still reaping the benefits of minimalism. plus currently learning about managing my finances more responsibly. thanks for all the tips :)
I have never done any of those bad habits you have mentioned and that makes me sound like a pathetic alien. But I feel if you really love something , just buy it. Sometimes life can be hard. No need to save every penny.
Dear Eileen, the swirling jewellery boxes made me nauseous, lol. But that's the only part of the video I did not like, and it's wonderful that you have this new skill now! Prices are horrendous. Especially for energy, over here in the Netherlands anyway. Not long now before it becomes cheaper to burn ones handbags for warmth than to buy more gas or electricity, argh. I know some readers would rather freeze to death;). May we all stay warm this winter!
Haha I’m still learning- lighting certainly needs improvement for sure but Collete on the Skillshare class is a pro. She even did the stop motion ad for Starbucks xx
Thanks, Eileen. I’m putting Heimish on my list. What is the serum you use to replace La Mar? If you could a skincare minimalism video, that would be so helpful! 😊
She has become a lot more conscious of the compulsive shopping and mindless consumerism. But she still has this need to buy overpriced name brands, when there are very nice high quality items for a fraction of the price. Most of what folks are paying for in these expensive name brands is the logo, and that is driven by status and insecurity.
I hesitated for a long time about my favorite bag, but I have a lot of options on this site #HIDUPS. It's hard to imagine that I can get nearly the same quality for this price. I want to buy it.
Normally I like to go Shopping with a Friend. I have been trying to get used to Luxury Minimalism for a year, so I hardly ever see her. How can I have fun Shopping with my Friend and still do luxury Minimalism? 🫠
My retail therapy = window shopping and I truly enjoy it😊
Same. It costs nothing (unless you need to commute or drive to go to the shopping centre).
Being able to look at and appreciate nice things without the compulsive urge is a blessing xx
At the end of the day, life is getting more financially difficult and using what we have wisely is good financial strategy. Well done for recognizing that it was not bringing you joy and happiness and that the pieces you have now and what you do to celebrate sits so much better and if you feel better about the choices, it's nothing but a win. Congratulations. I love minimalism, it's very mind clearing.😁👩💼
And when you do buy something, you know it’s because you’ll use it and enjoy it xx
Thank you. It's all about that initial dopamine hit. We chase it over and over again. Breaking the cycle isn't easy. Thank you for sharing this.
Thank you for always being here xx
I’m the same- I have designer handbags but will usually buy pre loved and don’t buy designer clothes. There is nothing wrong with flexing your nice handbag (as I have a true passion for handbags) and not wearing anything else designer! Great tips 😊
Totally agree! Xx
I TOTALLY relate on Bicester Village - I focussed SO MUCH on the "saving" rather than the fact I was still spending more than I really wanted/needed to. It's yet another thing I've had to become aware of, in my journey to try and curb my luxury shopping.
The temptation can be ready for sure, especially when everyone else at the outlet seem like they’re buying with no hesitation at all xx
Here's my story about influence through social media: We have a back yard. It's just a yard with lawn, a swing, a treehouse for the children, and several trees. I decided to make it prettier and started watching gardening videos on youtube to learn more about which plants I could add. The more I watched, the more I realized that my yard is just a yard, not a garden. So I found myself researching plants, visiting garden centers, searching for containers I like, and so on. I made a plan, laid out a schedule of what to plant when, and kept an eye on the cost. Now, I admit that my yard looks a lot better now, and I don't mind working on it a few hours a week. I enjoy the result. But to be honest, it is not a garden and I would never have taken our yard so seriously, if I hadn't started watching gardening videos on youtube. Now I say "it's enough" and only look up care and maintenance info. It's easy to get trapped into thinking you have to do (or buy) more and more.
Amen to that. I have invested into my garden to where I look at it as another room to enjoy. A patio, a foot path, birdhouses and statues make it stunning to me. I enjoy decorating it for every holiday...be it pumpkins now or Christmas decor in a week or two.
I recently cleaned out my wardrobe after moving into my apartment of one year. The entire process was so straining mentally as I cleared pieces of clothing I bought many years ago, hoarded and totally untouched (and completely outdated in style) . I then realized how much money I wasted by buying things I never used . It was a very regretful feeling to have as I bagged and boxed hundreds of pieces that were never enjoyed !
I love your videos and your way of living and thinking is so inspirational . Thank you and keep up the good work Eileen !
Thank you so much xx
I so Appreciate your Honesty Eileen. It's so easy to fall for all the latest and the greatest, especially when it's constantly promoted on social media day in and day out as if it's normal. I sometimes think and wonder, what type of state social media has left many people. So many "MUST HAVES" are being shared....I COMPLETELY understand, a person works, they spend as they choose. But, it still doesn't erase the deception that's displayed on social media for a Click and a Like....One of the reasons it was Designed in the first place. Nothing like wearing a Walmart T-shirt, Thrift Store Jeans and 5 year old shoes with a Louis Vuitton Bag found at a Consignment Shop. I'm Still the same me & I'm happy. Don't let up Eileen!💯🧡
At times I do think- when I did more shopping related content back then, there was more applause; but as long as my content is helping some people, I’ll work hard, show up, and share my voice xx
@@ColourfulNoir , Hun, you may not know it now but soon you'll see how HUGE of a jump start you have of what's to come. Many will need you! 🙏🏾
I do feel better after some retail therapy and I like to buy myself something nice for Christmas and birthdays. I have found that the best way to enjoy indulging in this is to always have handy a “retail therapy list” containing things I really will use and need. Clothes and shoes that have reached the end of their life and need replacing before the relevant season comes around is a good one as are skincare products I regularly use and will of course do so pretty soon. Household items that need replacing are also a good one. Luxury items are obviously not on it. They are too expensive to be anything except few and far between and very intentional. This way I get to indulge myself but be sensible at the same time.
🤩👏I love how you give straight talk without shame!
More hearts & minds are reached your way🙏
Especially how you share your own story so vulnerably😻👏
Glad you like this kind of content xx
I'm currently in a process of buying my own place and taking a big mortgage for it (as someone who never been in debt, it's a huge amount for me). the mortgage payments will probably be stretched for 20yrs but I'm determined to pay it out much sooner. so the next 10-15 years will be a huge challenge for me to spend as little as possible on unnecessary purchases. the goal is to spend money on mortgage payments and traveling and not "stuff" (god knows I have enough of these).
I hope some day to be in a position where minimalism comes as naturally for me as it is for you.
I hope all goes well! Sending you lots of positive energy xx
I've found that if I shop online for my clothes & accessories, I save alot in several ways! When I go on Trusted Sites, with purpose, looking for certain things at certain times with expectation of a Mark Down, then I'm much more successful & feel as if I have maintained control over my purchases, then when a SA was able to talk me into buying things simply bc "This Goes with That" or "It looks so good on you" "splurge a little Honey, You're worth it"! (Same reason I never shop with other women) Also the Fuel it takes to go around to various stores & possible parking fees, have also made online shopping more practical! I would spend hours shopping a few years ago, now I am much more practical & have time to do other things I like or just spend time with my husband walking or picnicking!
Thanks for all your Videos, I enjoy every one! 🥰🇺🇸
Same here ❤️ when we go traveling, I much prefer to explore the place rather than spending that time doing shopping xx
Love your videos! Looking forward to the day when I don’t have the temptation to shop anymore 😅
Thank you for always showing up xx
Hi, Eileen! Just wanted to say how much I appreciate your videos and your calm way of speaking in them. Since you talked about great affordable skincare products, I wanted to give you the tip of Cerave Oil Cleanser. I keep it in the shower and use it every night after work to completely remove my makeup without upsetting my very sensitive skin. I highly recommend it! 😊
Thank you so much! Xx
Hi Eileen,
Another nice video from you. Everytime you have a new upload, I am excited to watch it right away.
It is very good to share with others that even though we carry designers’ handbags, we are aware of and affected by the inflation’s implications on our living.
The hike in interest rate is also affecting our cash flow and surplus every month. However, as my husband and I are frugal and our saving rate is quite high, we are alright with the current situation.
As a side note, I wanna share I recently read a book called “Stop Acting Rich”. It was written more than 10 years ago by the author of “The millionaire next door”.
The book addresses the issues of luxury clothing, luxury make of cars, and the hidden cost of living in a luxury neighbourhood. I recommend this book to all luxury lovers.
Oh yes, I listened to the audiobook version multiple times. Ps: I also loved the narrator’s voice so much xx
Thanks for the recommendation. Adding this to my must read list!
Hi Eileen, i have been watching your videos talking about minimalism. Your videos are inspiring to me. I started to buy Chanel and LV bags and slg last year. I am only interested in these 2 categories. I don fancy for branded jewellery, watches, shoes and clothings. Sometimes your videos will remind me not to overspend.
Hi Eunice, I'm glad you found my content helpful, thank you for your support xx
Lucky I don’t do outlet shopping. I seldom buy clothing but I have a weak spot for tech stuffs as a woman. 😅I have also sold many luxury bags and not only have 4 bags in my wardrobe.😊 I think it’s enough and the other bag I’m buying next will be a small bag as I needed a small sling but yet to find one that I love yet. Great sharing video Eileen.
Thank you for sharing xx
It's a refreshing take. Can you please do a video on the cheaper alternative to luxury brands like La Mer, Sisley etc? I've been waiting to cut down on my skincare costs. Something that does similar but much cheaper. Thanks 👍🏻 😊
Noted! Xx
What great thoughts! The shopping as self care hit really hard!!
Oh yes it used to be a really expensive self care for me too 🙈
Thanks for giving a name to what I'm feeling...."Diderot effort"
I remember when I first heard about the Diderot effect- it explained so clearly all the confusions I was feeling inside xx
This is an AMAZING video 🙌
This is such a timely topic. Everything else going up, unfortunately. When I am down, I go for a simple meal. Not necessarily luxurious meal, just some comfort food.
My comfort food is definitely a big bowl of pasta xx
i’m such an emotional spender 😢 i need to get a hold of it
Rooting for you xx
Great tips to curb shopping 🛒
Thank you xx
Totally agree. I had the mentality of...I am going to buy stuff because I don't gwt a chance to shop. I am not as thrilled with high end brands anymore. Frankly, seeing Chanel and Hermes on the arms of almost every single reality TV star has turned me off of the brands. They are almost becoming common.
I am into uniqueness now. Hand made by someone local.
Also, I would now prefer to invest in me, meaning my health. Better foods, a personal trainer, stuff like that
Definitely agree with you! Healthy diet, good skin, white teeth, lovely memories are all good investment xx
I have made the outlets mistake in the past and I won’t do it again. I felt obligated to buy things because I made the long trip out there and it didn’t make sense to leave empty handed. It is better to save for a wishlist item rather than getting other things not on the wishlist and then still want the wish list item. I think it is so easy to succumb to the Diderot effect if one engages in social media in the luxury world. The only way to reduce temptation is to reduce the time spent in social media.
So honest. Thanks Eileen
❤️
Thank you for your honesty
love your channel. now binge watching everything:D
Glad you like them! Thank you so much xx
@@ColourfulNoir I can definitely relate to enjoying luxury/nice things but still reaping the benefits of minimalism. plus currently learning about managing my finances more responsibly. thanks for all the tips :)
I have never done any of those bad habits you have mentioned and that makes me sound like a pathetic alien. But I feel if you really love something , just buy it. Sometimes life can be hard. No need to save every penny.
I use The Ordinary. Everything is great!
I tried one of their serums before, it’s really good value for money xx
Dear Eileen, the swirling jewellery boxes made me nauseous, lol. But that's the only part of the video I did not like, and it's wonderful that you have this new skill now!
Prices are horrendous. Especially for energy, over here in the Netherlands anyway. Not long now before it becomes cheaper to burn ones handbags for warmth than to buy more gas or electricity, argh.
I know some readers would rather freeze to death;). May we all stay warm this winter!
Haha I’m still learning- lighting certainly needs improvement for sure but Collete on the Skillshare class is a pro. She even did the stop motion ad for Starbucks xx
Thanks, Eileen. I’m putting Heimish on my list. What is the serum you use to replace La Mar? If you could a skincare minimalism video, that would be so helpful! 😊
I have a full list of my skin care products on my website if you’re interested (link in description) xx
Hi Eileen, agreed all 😊. Wonder if you could share skincare products that is useful and worth to buy instead of using all branded.
Hey molly, I put my whole list of skin care products on my website if you’re interested (link in description)xx
She has become a lot more conscious of the compulsive shopping and mindless consumerism. But she still has this need to buy overpriced name brands, when there are very nice high quality items for a fraction of the price. Most of what folks are paying for in these expensive name brands is the logo, and that is driven by status and insecurity.
Hi Eileen!!!so happy to try skillshare but cant find link?thanks a million!
It’s updated in the description box, happy exploring xx
Agree and agree and agree!
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Thank you
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You will save 💯 % when you do not purchase the item!
It's just stuff!
I hesitated for a long time about my favorite bag, but I have a lot of options on this site #HIDUPS. It's hard to imagine that I can get nearly the same quality for this price. I want to buy it.
Normally I like to go Shopping with a Friend. I have been trying to get used to Luxury Minimalism for a year, so I hardly ever see her.
How can I have fun Shopping with my Friend and still do luxury Minimalism? 🫠
Haha it’s a tricky one! Maybe let her know you’re trying to cut down just so she can cheer you on instead of talking you into just any purchase xx