ADHD/ADD Comfort Audio Girlfriend Roleplay (F4A)

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  • @ТнИя-б5ь
    @ТнИя-б5ь 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Comfort audios is something we all need sometimes

  • @William_Afton420
    @William_Afton420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It's nice to know that people actually do understand ADHD and add. It's comforting and I like it. I sometimes really hate adhd. And it doesn't go well with depression or social anxiety, because I don't get motivated to anything at all anymore and it stresses me out because my mom is always telling that I need to do this or I'll get my phone took away. Like my phone is the only thing I have left basically. And yeah I know that sounds bad, but my phone is my only way to listen to music and music helps me feel better and calm down my thoughts sometimes. My mom doesn't try putting herself in my shoes. And I wish that she would. She doesn't understand that I'm trying. I'm trying to survive every day. I don't want to survive anymore. I want to live my life with freedom. I don't want depression and social anxiety pulling me back into the cave of darkness. That cave of darkness is the hardest place to survive. People always used to say "oh, you should be happy you have ADHD, because then you have all that energy" or something similar. It now makes me mad when I look back at it because they don't understand the real stresses from it.

    • @MoistToucan
      @MoistToucan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I completely agree with you here. No one around me understands my ADHD, and whenever it makes me feel down, all I get are empty words everyone repeats. It's so frustrating that it's so rare to find someone who understands how it works.

    • @my-names-jeff
      @my-names-jeff ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude you are almost exactly like me but thankfully there's these people that you find on here that share your problems and they can just chat or give tips or just be supportive and even though you may not know them for some reason it's quite comforting.. so I hope that yall get better and find some people that understand you or at least try to and help you or defend you.❤

  • @Username-nullified
    @Username-nullified 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Me: *upset, frustrated, and near tears over mental health issues*
    also me, at 5:32: heheh, Canadian sorry

  • @megatman4474
    @megatman4474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Man. Whenever I was hearing this, I was in literal tears because this is what I have to deal with every day of my life. And just hearing you say that it’s alright to be myself, I felt that. Thank you so much, I really needed this.

  • @slowdownnurgonnaa
    @slowdownnurgonnaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is helping me so much rn. I keep having guilt over my impulsive mistakes and it I get so anxious and feeling like I should die. I love the thought of having that special someone who will love me and I'll never have to doubt that when I do something dumb

  • @user-tb3yv1dw9v
    @user-tb3yv1dw9v 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Want somebody in my one school spreading a rumor saying I was autistic even though I have ADHD which is not a type of autism it broke me because everybody in the school called me autistic and it just really hurt. So knowing people are making these audios to help people cop with ADHD. This really helps me through it knowing that I am not doing something wrong in my life and I'm actually doing the right thing and I am just built different...

  • @oli709
    @oli709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    One of my friends got mad at me and told me to be quiet after talking loudly about something I enjoyed, so I felt really bad after :') Thanks for this tho ♥️

    • @anaruchiga
      @anaruchiga 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Oh dear, there is nothing wrong with talking about your special interests. I have autism and sometimes people don’t want to hear me talking about whales and marine biology (and the tons of other stuff I like) but then I will ask some friends “hey, is someone available for my info-dump craziness right now?” And then I will talk about it knowing that I am safe to talk about it.

    • @Moonlight-qy2qv
      @Moonlight-qy2qv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Literally every time I talk I say sorry did I say to much or I’m sorry you were talking cause I got used to this world

    • @antekjestem380
      @antekjestem380 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My friends are getting sick of me, rn I have maybe 2 real friends left

    • @oli709
      @oli709 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @antekjestem I wrote this 2 years ago, and now I have a new group of friends. They've never mistreated me, and they are very understanding. They're so sweet and I love them very much. With time, you'll find new people that accept you. I hope you find them soon

  • @vanshikasood3786
    @vanshikasood3786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    this makes me feel so warm inside, I'm not diagnosed with ADHD yet but I see almost all symptoms in myself. thank you for making this audio!

  • @thesevenneedles0451
    @thesevenneedles0451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have a pretty good case of ADHD. My aspergers makes it even harder for me in social situations as well. I have had a MILLION incidents that are exactly what you described. I have lost so many people because of it. I’m doing a lot better, but it’s always interfered with my life. I guess what I’m trying to say is thank you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I wish more people saw it the way your character does. I don’t try to annoy people, but they always see me as an idiot. I rarely if ever have anyone understand, and this audio feels like it was made for me! I really needed this, not just tonight, but always. Thank you so much! It was perfectly written and performed. You’re the absolute best person I’ve ever known help me with this. You’re awesome, and are helping the world in more ways than one!

    • @totallytessaaudio
      @totallytessaaudio  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m so happy to hear this. Exactly why I do what I do. Sending my love 💜

  • @zachinhyrule2351
    @zachinhyrule2351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Im on the low spectrum of Autism and im glad people make asmr videos for people like me!!

  • @donalds4506
    @donalds4506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    THANK YOU FOR INCLUDING ADD! Idk I always felt left out in the ADHD videos, so seeing ADD getting some recognition is nice :)
    Also Bailey loves muffins :)

    • @GiGiTheRealCollegeBabysitter
      @GiGiTheRealCollegeBabysitter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do one for autism but love these kind of support videos

    • @soonenough9108
      @soonenough9108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought add wasnt a diagnosis anymore and just the same as adhd

    • @donalds4506
      @donalds4506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@soonenough9108 When I was diagnosed they told me ADD. They might've changed it since then but idk

  • @darknessrises6123
    @darknessrises6123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This hit hard wish i had someone like this so i could feel happy i listen to these it really makes me feel like its going to be ok

  • @ob2625
    @ob2625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Life is good when Tessa uploads 🥰 your videos are so comforting and ty for this one, My ADHD is wild and I stopped taking the meds for it a while ago cus they made me feel worse like a zombie so I’ve been tryna cope w it without a “treatment” so I’m just tryna make sum good out of all that energy and hyperactivity and be productive or sum, t’s fun but it also can be very challenging in some situations.. ty again ❤️ u really don’t miss w these comfort vids

  • @neonshycare
    @neonshycare 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Whenever people hear ADD/ADHD, they think it’s like a fatal disease that makes us unable to function normally. It’s even worse as I’ve got ADD and Autism.

  • @harrisonbrown5237
    @harrisonbrown5237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I have really bad ADHD and get bullied for it. I don’t really know how to handle it. This helps

    • @jkiture
      @jkiture 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      sorry to hear that friend

    • @rangerarion6937
      @rangerarion6937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don’t exactly have the best advice but, I would recommend something that helps portray your thoughts like drawing, or writing, and you don’t have to share what you make but it feels nice to get your thoughts out sometimes.

    • @cardboardbox1032
      @cardboardbox1032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you haven't already, I suggest asking your doctor about medication. I take meds and it's honestly a life-changer to be able to think clearly and focus when I want to.

  • @4daystolive
    @4daystolive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This video broke my streak of not crying for 2 years

  • @hyrulemaster03
    @hyrulemaster03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've had bad ADHD ever since I was 5-6yo (currently 19) I was feeling like shit and a complete social outcast and have been just really emotional recently; It felt so comforting listening to this and hearing someone who understands, and I actually started tearing up, Thanks so much for making this audio, it really made my night; I really hope you can make more of these in the future!

    • @my-names-jeff
      @my-names-jeff ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've probably had adhd for a long time but I only found out for just about 3 years now and I've figured out that I have pretty bad adhd so I feel you dude and thankfully I have a bunch of friends who are a lot like me although I don't think my dad understands or cares about the effects of adhd...

  • @katthekitkatbar
    @katthekitkatbar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ADHD comfort? 🥺🥺🥺🥺
    Thank you so much dude I've been looking for something like this for so long- and now I'm lucky enough to have found it from one of my favourite channels 🤚😭💫

  • @comrademepmep1634
    @comrademepmep1634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The lion the witch and the audacity of the person who put that dislike

  • @tothemoongaming4758
    @tothemoongaming4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    At last! A comfort video for my ADHD!

  • @cucumber7199
    @cucumber7199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Cucumber Approved ‎‎

    • @tothemoongaming4758
      @tothemoongaming4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I swear this guy is a bot or something. How else could he comment so fast?

    • @enderdude7902
      @enderdude7902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tothemoongaming4758 How dare you question the mighty cucumber! He just has fast...... Idk fingers?

    • @tothemoongaming4758
      @tothemoongaming4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@enderdude7902 I do not question him with the goal of slandering his name , I merely ponder on the state of his being. Is he sentient? If so, how and why does he comment so quickly? If not, then who made him to do this?

    • @masontatum5101
      @masontatum5101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tothemoongaming4758 same man same🙄🤣

  • @barbarasupremacy4488
    @barbarasupremacy4488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This came at the perfect time, thank you so much. I’m currently in an overload environment and I feel like my brain is about to explode, and this made me feel safe. I love you for this /p

  • @Isabella.paige.kelly1
    @Isabella.paige.kelly1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m autistic and this helped me a lot i think I might also have adhd to but it takes for ever to try and get a diagnosis and the waiting list is really long so I’ll figure something out eventually

    • @bluepenguin4345
      @bluepenguin4345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I get that. I’m also autistic, and I may also be ADHD. Hopefully I can get a diagnosis at some point.

    • @austinw1927
      @austinw1927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have both ADHD and autism. All I have to say is: it sucks sometimes; it's fun sometimes; it's hard to love myself sometimes; it's easy to love myself sometimes; it's stressful sometimes; it's difficult sometimes; i feel alone sometimes. You'll notice that I say sometimes, to the point where it's annoying, but the point I'm making is, every day is different. Some suck, and some don't. But in the end I see this as a huge gift. I get to see the world in my own special world. If there was a cure to complete get rid of my ADHD and autism i would never take it. Sure i have my issues, but i have gifts and abilities that some people never will understand, or be able to do. I am special, i am abnormal, and I'm different, difficult, and sometimes a total pain, but when I look past that i see the loving, energetic person i am. It is important to take your life day by day. To wake up and live your day like it's the last. Most importantly, you must live everyday knowing that you are special, deserving of love, and it is up to you to decide who you are because you are amazing.

  • @lilynettogingerback
    @lilynettogingerback 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I nèeded this more than words can ever explain... my adhd has been really affecting how i work cause i feel like i dont fit in with new people im training even tho ive only been there a month and its frustrating cause people dont seem to get it...

  • @kaazledazzle6891
    @kaazledazzle6891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    wow. this video made me realize stuff i didn’t without realizing it. kinda feel bad now.
    ADHD STRUGGLES AAAAAY

  • @madalyns9594
    @madalyns9594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    TWO VIDEOS IN 3 DAYS?!?! MAAM, BLESS YOU FOR THAT

  • @tunnelcrawlerwaluigi2690
    @tunnelcrawlerwaluigi2690 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s always so hard to be myself around other people, I just sorta do my best to not have adhd, which is hard since I don’t know what that’s like

  • @bbgorl7470
    @bbgorl7470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was thinking about adhd comfort audios when i was listening to one of your videos and it was the first thing that showed up on your channel. So glad i discovered your channel 🥺❤️

  • @orchid4247
    @orchid4247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for this. This comfort is something I didn’t know I needed.

  • @CallMeLilly.06
    @CallMeLilly.06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have ADHD and i love this

  • @granpappy269
    @granpappy269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg how am I only just now finding this?! Thank you so much for this, it is very much appreciated and needed 💕

  • @officerhoovy3445
    @officerhoovy3445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As a lad whit the AD-HD. Thank you 😌 there aint too many comfort audios for AD-HD

    • @bbgorl7470
      @bbgorl7470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm undiagnosed but i feel so validated listening to this 😔

  • @tomatocoffeereal
    @tomatocoffeereal ปีที่แล้ว +5

    people tell me to shut up all the time because of my adhd and honestly it’s draining for me

  • @LeIouch.
    @LeIouch. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Comfort from you is the same as comfort for the heavens!

  • @gamingplayer45
    @gamingplayer45 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    as someone who has autism and is 22 this feels like home where my autistics at yall

  • @lily6240
    @lily6240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    at first I thought it was weird but it’s actually helping me a lot like wow !!! how just audio can calming you down and help you get better… I’m so grateful ✨💘💘💘 thank you 🙏🏼

  • @DeadHawaiian
    @DeadHawaiian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have ADHD and this helps a lot. Thank you!

  • @t-r-e-x452
    @t-r-e-x452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have Aspeger's so this is just the thing I needed.

  • @terrence9552
    @terrence9552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Who else heard the snap chat notification or was that just me-

    • @Mono-xx2um
      @Mono-xx2um 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      naw me too,i thought i had friends

  • @alexanderbarnes3510
    @alexanderbarnes3510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really missed your reassuring voice, thanks Tessa (:

  • @Xxzyte
    @Xxzyte 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Baily loves muffins. Also great video!

  • @0rchid6lues
    @0rchid6lues 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanks for this video! it’s really good! ❤️

  • @masontatum5101
    @masontatum5101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn thank you so I thought I would never get a video like In moments like this cause I have Adhd & have a little bit of ocd😔💕💕💕

  • @annawilliams7398
    @annawilliams7398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wonderful 💓as always

  • @gailkpiano
    @gailkpiano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BAILEY LOVES MUFFINS!!🥺

  • @nathamiell
    @nathamiell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Not enough adhd audios. Good work on ya.

  • @eddiemunsonfangirl
    @eddiemunsonfangirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    O MY!!! How I can relate to this 😅 ps I got told 2 weeks ago I have adhd so I know how all of this feels 🙂 it can be good and bad PSA: to people who have ADHD just be u bc u are amazing❤️🤟

  • @saskiamuller7078
    @saskiamuller7078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you for this💛

  • @mohamedadan6678
    @mohamedadan6678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I literally got diagnosed with it a month ago lol

  • @LukerinoP
    @LukerinoP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    *fails to focus on what she's saying*
    I see so this is what you call ironic

  • @terhisomersalo8588
    @terhisomersalo8588 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don't have a proper dg yet but I try to get one. I'm 35 and I can't do anything right enough to manage. Probably going to revisit this video a few times for validation.

  • @theelectricspiderman2841
    @theelectricspiderman2841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have adhd

  • @briego
    @briego 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    12 mins and another had been said right and careful I'm crying thank you for understanding ❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😊😊

  • @ManiacJaey
    @ManiacJaey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I liked ur background :)

  • @vanshikasood3786
    @vanshikasood3786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    bailey loves muffins

  • @TheGamingAnimal22
    @TheGamingAnimal22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yessss another great one :)

  • @raulstopspam1791
    @raulstopspam1791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Day 10 of questioning "what is ADD ADHD"

    • @weebnerd6942
      @weebnerd6942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder

    • @glakill9780
      @glakill9780 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      google

  • @CrystalMermaid6
    @CrystalMermaid6 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks I needed this

  • @jadejump4711
    @jadejump4711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi! This video was amazing! I don’t know if you take requests or not, but if you do, could you consider an OCD comfort video? Thanks:)

    • @sswcustomsewing4276
      @sswcustomsewing4276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed 100% it is amazing. I also like your ocd request. I suffer from adult add and I am ocd it can be annoying or a blessing depending upon the day.

  • @nikhielNyx
    @nikhielNyx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you

  • @neondragon4406
    @neondragon4406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video

  • @idiotworld5405
    @idiotworld5405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nah cause this made me ball 😭 /pos

  • @larrybryant8714
    @larrybryant8714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you please do some more comfort videos with shushing thanks

  • @zosiaskorczak7588
    @zosiaskorczak7588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Guys, did you know bailey loves muffins?

    • @jessicat5317
      @jessicat5317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its muffin time its muffin time

  • @김건우-r5u
    @김건우-r5u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can you play a role play that is taken care of by your boyfriend because you have a bad cough with a cold?

  • @UltraArska666
    @UltraArska666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mmmmh..... For all ya other AC⚡DCs out there... ✊🏻

  • @Ruby_Eve
    @Ruby_Eve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Like, on one hand these are so good to listen to, but on the other I already have a girlfriend🤔

  • @masontatum5101
    @masontatum5101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bailey loves muffins,🤷‍♂️😅

  • @TiT0.
    @TiT0. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🖤✨

  • @kirillgrishin1805
    @kirillgrishin1805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👍👍👍

  • @jackstanworth7984
    @jackstanworth7984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey totally tessa asmr can you do a asmr girlfriend hair cut videos please

  • @cardo3566
    @cardo3566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💛🌼

  • @Hereandqueer
    @Hereandqueer ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you for understanding me! 🫶