When A Son Truly Hates His Mother

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  • #jcsinspired #Interrogation
    This Video Is For Educational Purposes. It is meant to show the psychology behind how police interact with suspects to try and get their confession.
    In this JCS Inspired video, we take a look at the interrogation of Joshua Carmona. After his mother is found unresponsive, the police interview Joshua and what he tells them is shocking.

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  • @RedTreeCrime
    @RedTreeCrime  ปีที่แล้ว +973

    If the sound drops randomly it's because some of the names have been redacted to protect the victims.

    • @Mutantcy1992
      @Mutantcy1992 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      It's pretty clear that many of the places the sound drops, they're saying "mom" so I don't understand why you'd redact that.
      Edit: Since this got some attention, I'm not blaming RTC if the original audio had the redactions in it. The way he wrote his comment made it sound like maybe he had done it, but that's the ambiguity of the passive voice for ya.

    • @Moonyxiaa
      @Moonyxiaa ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@Mutantcy1992 It's part of the available interrogation footage.. Not RTC's fault

    • @lindalumae
      @lindalumae ปีที่แล้ว +88

      @@Mutantcy1992 I agree. I thought that was strange. They left in “step-father” and “half-sister” but they redact all forms of mother. Very weird.

    • @ashleighmackenzie8670
      @ashleighmackenzie8670 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@Mutantcy1992 exactly. So weird silencing the word Mum. It’s not even a name!

    • @addie_is_me
      @addie_is_me ปีที่แล้ว +13

      We know. It is not you trying to drive us nuts. Lol

  • @factory2170
    @factory2170 ปีที่แล้ว +1015

    The amount of times that these detectives cut the suspect off right when he was about to answer their question is infuriating.

    • @embeth446
      @embeth446 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      It seemed to me like that had a power struggle going on with what questions they wanted to ask. She’d ask something and he’d cut off the answer because he didn’t like the question or vise versa.

    • @AfG_313
      @AfG_313 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Both were terrible

    • @Faeriefungus
      @Faeriefungus ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In interrogation for reed at least you’re not supposed to allow the suspect to answer certain things you believe they will lie on. You cut that opportunity right out from them in order to rely the message you “know it’s bullshit”

    • @TheRongy
      @TheRongy ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Faeriefungus Reid!

    • @Faeriefungus
      @Faeriefungus ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@TheRongy lol thanks for wasting our time with unimportant things

  • @bigjimslade5583
    @bigjimslade5583 ปีที่แล้ว +1094

    “We’re detectives, we detect things.” Thanks for clearing that up, lady.

    • @joanneshaw3071
      @joanneshaw3071 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      She’s not the smartest detective!!

    • @coryboy345
      @coryboy345 ปีที่แล้ว

      That dumb broad couldn't detect snow in the middle of winter....

    • @rosaliecowhey5868
      @rosaliecowhey5868 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Neither of them are good

    • @samdoors5132
      @samdoors5132 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah you’re right about that and she’s a dingbat

    • @circusofsix
      @circusofsix ปีที่แล้ว +24

      regular genius, that one.

  • @Lara-xc1mf
    @Lara-xc1mf ปีที่แล้ว +4534

    This is so sad. One thing stuck with me was when the female detective said it was about jealousy I think she half missed the point. This guy took his half sister away from the crime scene and tried to get her to the "safety" of his grandfather. The jealousy wasn't aimed at her at all it was resentment to his mother not jealousy to his sibling.

    • @mordyfriedman5647
      @mordyfriedman5647 ปีที่แล้ว +471

      Sadly the detective cares about one thing and that is to further her own career. Sad all around.

    • @intermidable
      @intermidable ปีที่แล้ว +506

      Not only did she miss the entire plot, she walked out in anger when he rejected her repeated attempts to put words in his mouth. Terribly unprofessional and unfair.

    • @TheBOG3
      @TheBOG3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      @@intermidable You can hear someone knocking on the door. She then got up to leave. She probably came back. This interview isn't shown in it's entirety.

    • @kimjensen500
      @kimjensen500 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@intermidableShe was answering the door! Listen...hear the knock before she gets up? She was probably pissed they were being bothered...

    • @badasstrapbass2313
      @badasstrapbass2313 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@mordyfriedman5647 Silly career women...

  • @downwithfaith
    @downwithfaith ปีที่แล้ว +144

    This female detective is devoid of intuition, common sense and even an iota of compassion. He admitted he did things for attention and she immediately misconstrued that to mean that he killed his mother for attention, for just one example.

    • @Chubby_auntie
      @Chubby_auntie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I cannot take her at all. She’s annoying and kind of dumb. He admits this, and she’s said if we’re being honest here you just said it. Like DUH! This was unnecessary.

    • @AT-cy7im
      @AT-cy7im 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed. She’s an idiot

    • @jrambo7495
      @jrambo7495 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You do realize they had to make a Supreme Court ruling that allowed the gooberment to not hire intelligent people. This is what we're left with.

    • @rongenung
      @rongenung 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I completely agree.

    • @pamdangelo6743
      @pamdangelo6743 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I do not like this woman cop!

  • @darknebula310
    @darknebula310 ปีที่แล้ว +1568

    The fact that he made sure his sister was safe is proof to me that he isn't a heartless monster. I wish all parents would realize the effect they have on their children's entire lives. I worry about it every day and always feel like I'm not doing good enough.

    • @stephthinks3109
      @stephthinks3109 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      The fact that you care and worry about it , means that you are doing a better job than you may realize

    • @dr.feelgood.1330
      @dr.feelgood.1330 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That’s good of you and keep going you can only do good greetings from Ireland ☘️🐝🌸✌️

    • @tatt4music
      @tatt4music ปีที่แล้ว +37

      He’s a cold blooded killer. Don’t forget that.

    • @patchrocket1326
      @patchrocket1326 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@stephthinks3109 just by worrying your aren’t doing a great job means you’re doing a great job

    • @m.ccheddarbox874
      @m.ccheddarbox874 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      It took me until I was 37 to truly realize how much my childhood affected me. This is of course after years of drug addiction caused by said childhood. But, I'm better now. I wish it could have happened earlier.

  • @UptownGlitter
    @UptownGlitter ปีที่แล้ว +749

    I think people underestimate the damage done by being abandoned by a parent. Even just perceived abandonment.
    My heart goes out to all those affected by this horrible tragedy.

    • @ashleighmackenzie8670
      @ashleighmackenzie8670 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Yeah I agree. And telling this boy she’s annoyed about the fact she has to finish bringing up a child she never wanted?! What kind of mother says that? She didn’t deserve to die obviously. But that’s disgusting saying that to a child. She failed that boy. Big time. I watch a lot of true crime and interrogations. And I really don’t believe this is a bad kid. And I very rarely say that. His anger towards his mother came to a head and he lost control. Not making excuses for him at all. But maybe if she’d given him even a SMIDGEN of the love and care she gave her daughter that she DOTED ON right in front of him constantly, things would have been very different. Again, NOT making excuses for what he did it’s foul.

    • @islandgirl7304
      @islandgirl7304 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yeah most ppl keep them things to themselves. The difference is she didn't.

    • @elifield7149
      @elifield7149 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      The thing about a murder is the victim can’t speak. This is his version. We know she said these things? Or is this his perception? Maybe it went that way maybe it didn’t. The victim can’t speak.

    • @milana2020
      @milana2020 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@elifield7149 well he's definitely not lying on his side.

    • @nathangifford1424
      @nathangifford1424 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@elifield7149 what if I told you things can be documented and proven to be fact regardless if the victim is alive or not

  • @Dthomas5816
    @Dthomas5816 ปีที่แล้ว +669

    My key take aways on this video.
    1. This is an incredibly sad interrogation of a broken child. Although it doesn't excuse his crime, from one human being to another, I can feel his pain. No child should do anything like this but they also shouldn't be neglected like that.
    2. This female detective seemed like she was just trying to jump through the ranks. This kid seemed like he wasn't lying or holding anything back so the whole good cop bad cop technique wasn't required so it just makes her a bad cop.

    • @bonnie_gail
      @bonnie_gail ปีที่แล้ว +18

      agreed

    • @sirvilhelmofyonderland
      @sirvilhelmofyonderland ปีที่แล้ว

      SPICE is a hard drug. It is NOT synthetic marijuana. It’s nothing like marijuana. It’s addictive, it will drive one insane.

    • @dirtydirt421
      @dirtydirt421 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      She was awful..she doesn't have a clue..most likely department needed to meet a quota

    • @maycollings1333
      @maycollings1333 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I do not see good cop bad cop here. There is a neutral cop and a bad cop. I do not understand why she irritated when he denied that he did it for attention, he did not say that, she obviously put words in his mouth. He needs attention but it would be good attention from his mom. He has never said he kill to archive attention. What is wrong with her?

    • @lauralandon9102
      @lauralandon9102 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      The female detective was excused at the end because she was being too argumentative and the 2 knocks were for her.

  • @ChrundleTGreat
    @ChrundleTGreat ปีที่แล้ว +727

    I actually feel really sad for this young man. My son was abandoned by his mother and I raised him alone from age 4 to adulthood. At 18 years old his mother tried to reconnect and it made him even angrier with her. Any time a child is left behind by choice it’s going to hurt.

    • @doctorvannostrand
      @doctorvannostrand ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Would you feel badly if it was a daughter who killed her father?

    • @jonlee2217
      @jonlee2217 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      @@doctorvannostrand What a strange question. Are you alright?

    • @mattb6646
      @mattb6646 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@doctorvannostrand the sex really isn't an issue in this case, it's the relationships.. it would be sad for anyone. No one's excusing murder but people can see why he felt hurt by a parent not caring for him

    • @MyersAcquiresSubscribers
      @MyersAcquiresSubscribers ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too brother! Keep on keeping on.

    • @ChrundleTGreat
      @ChrundleTGreat ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@doctorvannostrand WTF does that have to do with the price of coffee in China?

  • @carolnichols2869
    @carolnichols2869 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    I can sooo relate to Joshua. My circumstance was different. My mother raised me and my 5 sibs. She was abusive, but mostly aimed at me. Mental, emotional, and physical. After we were grown, my mom started to babysit. We watched her pour all the love in the world to those kids, and we were all stunned. Where was this love when she raised us? We all had fantasies of my parents divorcing, and we would go live with dad. A few of us had fantasies about my mom's demise. She died of natural causes at 69, we all had pretty much made our peace with her, but it is a lifelong hurt. I really feel for Joshua because there is a thin line between him and me. It was not jealousy. It was anger. You were supposed to love me! Why didn't you love me?! His sister simply showed him that his mother was capable of love. Like him, we had always thought she was incapable. The female detective was rather harsh I thought.

    • @RapturereadyforJesus
      @RapturereadyforJesus ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was abused, but when my children came along, my dad wanted total control over them. I think he was sick in the head and used the kids for supply to make him look good.

    • @breAnnasmama
      @breAnnasmama ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I too was the center focus of abuse in my childhood home via my mother/ bio father , then stepfather and mother the rest of my childhood and into adulthood, long after my bio dad signed his rights away . Never was shown love or wanted .. I’d never want to see harm done to any of my family or anyone , for that matter , I do however relate to the pain and hurt and suffering , as well as feeling trapped and afraid and wishing there would’ve Bn a way out so long ago … I do not ever feel like one is justified in something to this degeee but I do understand the pain there and the deep suffering experienced … also, just in reading ur comment - I want you to know u are so worth it, deserving of love and so many blessings and I am lifting you up in prayer right now to the lord. God bless u and give you healing and peace and love.

    • @RapturereadyforJesus
      @RapturereadyforJesus ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@breAnnasmama your words bring healing to me! ❤️

    • @wecandothiswarriors
      @wecandothiswarriors ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes anger can be so destructive. I was lucky to have good therapists on the NHS England. But I am 57 and this was through my late teens and twenties. NHS has gone down the pan now.

    • @raphaellavictoria01
      @raphaellavictoria01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and? did you kill her? no? then how can you possibly say you relate to this beast?

  • @sickofsnow1506
    @sickofsnow1506 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    The woman was so frustrating. She didn't listen and she kept moving around and interrupting him. The interview would have gone much better without her. She should be so embarrassed with her performance.

    • @ms.memphis10ten59
      @ms.memphis10ten59 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      She moved around, So Much it Freaking bothered me. I'm like, he's trying to explain everything, stop Moving around Lady Damn...

    • @clytnjms
      @clytnjms ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is the absolute worst

    • @EmEm78
      @EmEm78 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I think whoever was observing from another room came and pulled her out of the interrogation because she was ruining the rapport between the suspect and the other detective and just generally being very counterproductive. I'm no criminal interrogation expert, I just watch a lot of them, and she's one of the worst detectives I've seen. They need to keep her away from the suspects, because her approach isn't going to yield good results.

    • @EmEm78
      @EmEm78 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      ​@@ms.memphis10ten59 and she'd chip in with her abrasive misreading of the situation at the worst possible times, constantly disrupting the flow between the suspect and the male detective. I involuntarily said "SHUT UP!" out loud at one point😂
      She'd could really do with shutting her mouth and actually listening, observing her partner's successful techniques and humbling herself.

    • @HollyStAmour-hf6wg
      @HollyStAmour-hf6wg ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@EmEm78 OMG! I did the same thing!

  • @lauren6233
    @lauren6233 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Female detective needs to know when to use the harsh tactics. There was no need since he was being quite open and sharing his own thoughts and feelings.

    • @ameris11
      @ameris11 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Literally no need for her to use good and bad cop, she just a bad cop

  • @loretta_3843
    @loretta_3843 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Did the detective on the left say "we don't want to beat a dead horse"?!😕 Bad timing and awful choice of words 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @AT-cy7im
      @AT-cy7im 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Didn’t you hear ? They detective…. They detect things
      Lol 😂

  • @thomasjensen6243
    @thomasjensen6243 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Neither of my parents ever gave me any attention. My older brother was the hero and my younger brother was the baby. I was beaten almost daily. I left home at 16 years old and never looked back. That was 35 years ago.

    • @joditorkelson8649
      @joditorkelson8649 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I’m sorry that happened to you. You certainly didn’t deserve it. How are you doing now?

    • @thomasjensen6243
      @thomasjensen6243 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@joditorkelson8649 I'm good. I left my family behind a long time ago. I never really had a family to begin with. You can't miss something that you never had.

    • @germainewright7348
      @germainewright7348 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I admire your bravery. Sending big hugs. I wish you well in life. xoxo

    • @thomasjensen6243
      @thomasjensen6243 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@germainewright7348 thank you.

    • @mrd3016
      @mrd3016 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And you didn't kill them, did you? So what's the difference here? You're not a monster.

  • @Ladida555
    @Ladida555 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    The almost eagerness in his voice "do you wanna talk about it?" Like he's just happy someone wants to talk

    • @kathylong3814
      @kathylong3814 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I got that too he seemed suprised the Male detective said he wanted to listen to him ...and meant it.

    • @ChristineNighting
      @ChristineNighting ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This part made me really sad. Perhaps this wouldn't have happened if someone gave him the time and was willing to love and listen to him as a child.

    • @mitakuyeoaysin9652
      @mitakuyeoaysin9652 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kathylong3814 yep keyword MALE. When the female jumped in literally watched his body and face. He wanted no part of any woman especially at that time.

    • @MaisyMimi
      @MaisyMimi ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed and then they kept shutting him down from telling his whole story. This man needs therapy/counselling to let out and work through his childhood issues

    • @KyleeDoucette
      @KyleeDoucette หลายเดือนก่อน

      That part was like aw man if someone had listened to him and hugged him sooner 😭

  • @lianalonge1984
    @lianalonge1984 ปีที่แล้ว +575

    This is the first time I’ve ever felt sorry for a murderer. I know everyone thinks they have the best mom, but mine is phenomenal and she loves me “to infinity and beyond”. I can’t imagine how much hurt/pain he felt.
    The resentment he had for his mom is somewhat similar to Edmund Kemper’s.

    • @oceanelf2512
      @oceanelf2512 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes. Like you, my Mom's and my relationship was incredibly loving, and I could never even imagine killing anyone unless it was out of self defense. But I understand a little about what it might feel like to be thrown over for someone else, though that never actually happened to me. We all experience the odd situation here and there when we feel not always cared about. But it sounds like Joshua faced that full strength every single day of his life, and that could cause a mountain of hurt and resentment. Obviously his relationship with his parents was nothing like mine. What he did was wrong, there's no denying that. But I think maybe if he had been treated with the love his sister got, this could have been avoided. Not saying for sure, but his feeling uncared for certainly helped him to go wrong, long before the murder was committed.
      As for me, I just lost my own Mom in May of 2022 and I've never felt so broken in all my life.

    • @mirrrstery
      @mirrrstery ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree. I am fortunate enough that my mother is incredibly loving and supportive but I can’t imagine going through all the horrible things in my life without her comfort. Must be very painful.

    • @thebossy1
      @thebossy1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@oceanelf2512 yeah this is one of my first too I feel really bad for him this is very sad

    • @deedeedee9310
      @deedeedee9310 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In all fairness Edmond Kemper’s mom was a freaking hate filled, sadistic, abusive mother. NM. I just got to the point where narrator states Joshua would frequently hear his mother say she never wanted him and how it hurt him to watch her love and nurture his half sister…something he apparently never received from his mom. Yup. That will CHANGE a child and it takes years and intense therapy for kids to grow out of that resentment, hurt and trauma once they become adults. I feel bad for him. I didn’t have a mom like you had..but I also didn’t have a mom like he did. (I take that back..I did actually have a mom like his. While she never told us she didn’t want us she abused us in other ways) With that said..I AM a mom like your mom. My kids are my everything. Best thing I ever did in life was being blessed to be their mom. My kids are 14 and 12 and have never been physically harmed (my mom beat my sister and I right up until we ran away in our teens) have never been abused verbally nor emotionally…nor ever will. I have a very healthy, loving relationship with my kids. I can honestly say I’m both their mom and their friend. And I’m grateful for that as I hope I’m always as integral part of their lives as they are in mine. I’ve been able to forgive my mom so I do now have a relationship with her but it does come with boundaries and she is perfectly aware that I won’t allow her to step over their boundaries. Simply put, I just don’t trust her. I love her and glad we have some semblance of a mother/daughter relationship. I don’t know how anyone can ever hurt someone they claim to love. I can’t stand to see my kids cry…couldn’t live with myself if I was ever the reason for their tears. So many bad parents out there. It’s really heartbreaking.

    • @jennybtx
      @jennybtx ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I can't imagine feeling loved by my family/mother growing up.

  • @cd9400
    @cd9400 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    He wasn't born a monster but he did monstrous things. He wasn't jealous of his sister receiving love and affection from his mother, he just could not understand why she never felt that for him. He absolutely was suffering trauma from childhood as a result. It is no excuse for killing his mother but her neglect of him led him to feel justified in doing it.
    It's a very sad and complicated situation and I feel for his sister, as she was lucky to have had a loving mother.

    • @Scott_Buchanan
      @Scott_Buchanan ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said.

    • @Abruzzo333
      @Abruzzo333 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's debatable. he definitely has some serious mental issues....and they may very well be traits he was born with.

    • @bibitch
      @bibitch ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I hate that I can almost understand where he's coming from. My mom raised my sister and I, and made very little secret how much she resented us and our dad after they divorced. He's been dead for over a decade now and she still can't shut up about how much she hates him.
      When I was ~10 my mom got knocked up from a one night stand (who turned out to be a decent guy who stayed with her after he found out). My brother was treated differently, raised differently, and no matter how my sister and I tried to tell her how much that hurt us over the years she just said we hated him and made us out to be the bad guys. We don't hate him. It was never about him. But she just won't see that. She told me once, to my face, that the reason she treated my brother differently was because she loved his dad more than she did mine. But now she says that never happened even though there's record of it in my old diary from back in the day.
      So yeah, my sister and I are both pretty f*ed up. It hurts to feel unwanted and it hurts even more to know that you are. This guy did something monstrous that can never be undone, but for the first time ever I'm sympathizing with the monster.

    • @augustopinochet3830
      @augustopinochet3830 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bibitch Just wait until she needs care and dish up her shit back. you might be one of those mfs that cant do that but you're missing out big time. never felt more better about issues than pissing in their morning coffee

    • @merryhunt9153
      @merryhunt9153 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bibitch We only have his word for it that his mother didn't treat him right. What do relatives say, neighbors, teachers? You can't make a decision about his guilt based on a half-hour interview.

  • @smokey1517
    @smokey1517 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    It's very sad that this young man thinks that he has found a couple people that truly care about him and what he's been thru in his life so he bares his soul to them. He opens up and talks to them honestly because he thinks he will receive some kind of loving care and support from them. In reality, the detectives he is opening up to could not care less about him, his life or his mental health/stability. The only thing they care about is obtaining a conviction and having him go to prison. I'm sure, when that reality finally dawned on him, he was in an even deeper pit of despair and disillusion.

    • @sweetascandyxoxo
      @sweetascandyxoxo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💔

    • @raphaellavictoria01
      @raphaellavictoria01 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      he bares his soul as much as the next "poor me" narcissist. Is anyone obligated to love him? NO. In life, no one owes anyone, anything. You pick up the pieces and move the eff on.

    • @smokey1517
      @smokey1517 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@raphaellavictoria01 I certainly never implied that these detectives nor anyone else for that matter "owed" him anything......I was speaking from his point of view and how he really believed he had finally found a couple people that gave a shit about him and how once the realization hit him that these did not care in the slightest it probably put him even deeper in a state of detachment from reality......not sure why you refer to him as a narcissist tho........overall, you are right, you're in this life by yourself w/ absolutely no guarantees of love, success, help or anything else.......

    • @dwayneneal3342
      @dwayneneal3342 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@raphaellavictoria01 nobody is obligated to love you either. Nobody wants to hear a word you say. It just doesn't matter.

    • @Southpaw88
      @Southpaw88 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​@@raphaellavictoria01he's an 18 year old kid. But who knows, maybe you're the narcissist because you don't have nearly enough empath to understand that.
      being the child of a narc mother, I can tell you it does things to you that you can't even imagine, it messes you up emotionally and time to time, you'll think about hurting your parents. A LOT.
      Just because you're a narc who can't see themself, or you've had a run in with a narc ex doesn't mean you get to invalidate an 18 year old emotional kid who had to deal with an emotionally neglectful caregiver. That would mess anyone up in life.

  • @rhys1264
    @rhys1264 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    He did something unforgiveable, but I can't help but feel sorry for how he was treated in his early life. This could have been prevented. ;__;

    • @IMWeira
      @IMWeira ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Too bad he didn't just leave. I got away. My Sister was not so fortunate.. She used a .38 police special to commit suicide. I never blamed her but she felt complicit. I blame only the Ogres.

    • @streaming5332
      @streaming5332 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Maybe he was treated in an unforgivable way.

    • @barrronessa
      @barrronessa ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@IMWeira hope you’re doing better now bonnie ❤

    • @StacyK0731
      @StacyK0731 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@IMWeira Oh dear, so sorry for you and for her. My little brother took his own life and it has left me with chronic sadness...

    • @zenaidarivera957
      @zenaidarivera957 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bonnie so sorry for your loss. 🌿🕊🌿🕊

  • @mikeygraves16
    @mikeygraves16 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    I can't believe she actually said the line "So we're detectives, right? We detect things." 😂🤣

    • @monicacarolina6480
      @monicacarolina6480 ปีที่แล้ว

      she was a b*tch who only wanted to solve it (for the statistics) and did not give a damn about his story, even putting words in his mouth constantly of being jaelous etc. Giving him th same sentence as a massmurderer like Cruz...is that justice USA? There should be filters in the system, because he is not a monster. He did something horrible, but his rage, sadness were only towards his neglecting parents. With solid treatment while being in a specialized prison, this man could have a future. But life? Dang. I really dislike the USA justice system, being the country with th most inmates and where prisons are schools for criminals and not focussed on rehabilitation.

    • @TheVioletBunny
      @TheVioletBunny ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yep pretty low tier Cracker Jack box “detectives”

    • @warriorwoman5422
      @warriorwoman5422 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I missed that fortunately but how amateur and insignificant a statement. The shoes and detective pants tell me this is her identity. She’s definitely running on ego.

    • @memyself6360
      @memyself6360 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shes an idiot

    • @alvinsavage7701
      @alvinsavage7701 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She’s probably been a detective for 24hrs

  • @dangermiami1990
    @dangermiami1990 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    The impact of a mother on her son was the key here. The female detective was wrong and probably acted like his mother,sad case.

    • @dangermiami1990
      @dangermiami1990 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@LilithsCosmicLounge We know the importance of a father in the household, that’s a facts , look at single mother homes now on days , more crimes , more depressed kids , more low income homes , lower education, all of that is due to single mothers home. However what we are saying here is that the mother was there , she could have been together with him , and raised him with the help of her parents and she didn’t. The father was missing from the beginning, but the mother was there , she just abandoned him .. right in his face . By the way , do you guys know that kids that come out single father homes have better statistics that the ones out of single mothers home ? Look it up. Oh and by the way single fathers 80% of the time don’t receive help from the mother , financially or physically, the double standards are crazy , mean while single mothers receive help from the father both ways physically and financially 75 % of the time. Take care . Ciao.

    • @lampshade7874
      @lampshade7874 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That is exactly what I thought. The male detective had better motherly instincts than the female did. The young man was screaming for compassion.

    • @pattyfarrington8345
      @pattyfarrington8345 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The female officer was cold and had no idea how to talk to him.period.

  • @tashiamaybe4982
    @tashiamaybe4982 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    There’s such a fine line between interrogation and manipulation.

    • @520jrw3
      @520jrw3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      So true that is why you say attorney before your booty hits the chair

    • @mattb6646
      @mattb6646 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'd say they're one in the same.. interrogation requires manipulation

    • @bjb2099
      @bjb2099 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      exactly...she was a horrible interrogater

    • @Synoopy2
      @Synoopy2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bjb2099 I thought she was matter of fact and methodical. There was a lack of sympathy which I think some people felt was offputting . But he did kill his mother, and she was looking forward to a conviction and locking up his testimony. On his part he should have requested a lawyer first and not talked until after seeing one.

    • @xmisterpilgrimx4869
      @xmisterpilgrimx4869 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This. I REALLY didn't like the words they were trying to put into his mouth near the end. They intentionally twisted things to try to make him look worse.

  • @VeeTwoPointOh
    @VeeTwoPointOh ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Know exactly what he went through. Watched my mom abandon most of her kids including myself and favored our youngest sister. Raised and loved her tho. But the rest of us? Nothing. Walked passed her in a grocery store not long ago, she didn’t even recognize me. Her own child. Just a complete stranger to her.
    Thankfully my dad was there for me and raised me.
    This young man’s story is tragic. He could’ve had a great life if only he’d been loved by the person who brought him into this cruel world. He deserved better

    • @maycollings1333
      @maycollings1333 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm sorry to hear your story. I agree with you, he loves his sister, he does have love, and desire to be loved. He could be a good person if he was raised and educated well.

    • @breAnnasmama
      @breAnnasmama ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I ran into my mom and people she knew at her church when a friend who happens to go to the same place had invited me and I went and spoke to my mother who had a cold reaction even seeing me , people asked how I knew her. I said I’m her daughter and they said no- she only has 4 kids and named them , she’d apparently not even acknowledged I exist .. me and my twin sister have had so many hurts , having made known to us early on how we weren’t wanted. Was treated like a burden and neglected & abused from the moment I entered this world and I love my family very much but it’s Bn very painful and hard and have endured so much suffering. My heart goes out to anyone who knows this kind of pain and I will def. Be lifting you up in my prayers as well … i pray you’ll know u are so worthy and deserving of love and pray the lord will be near and give you healing strength and love. It’s so hard as things like that contribute immensely to one’s development and personality for life. I pray my daughter knows always , the love I have for her. How special she is.

    • @raphaellavictoria01
      @raphaellavictoria01 ปีที่แล้ว

      So? did you kill your mother? no? then how can you possibly sympathize with this beast? He killed in revenge for feeling "sad". No one is OBLIGATED to love him. In life, no one owes anything to anyone. He had every opportunity to move the eff on, and leave his mother, who got pregnant as a teenager, alone. But he had no sympathy or understanding for anyone: narcissistic piece of crap.

    • @joettaflyascanbee4659
      @joettaflyascanbee4659 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Didn't notice you in a grocery story? OMG I am so sorry I am so glad you had a loving Dad and you turned out to be a well rounded young man!

    • @PB-ho6dm
      @PB-ho6dm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so sorry! Sounds so similar to my life it really is strange how we all act differently in similar circumstances. I have always felt as if God and His Son Jesus have taken care of me. I don't know why I felt this way because I have always loved the Trinity. I know God loves all HIs children. He gives us choices. I so feel for children that Mother's never love. I went the opposite way. My children and their children have always been my life. Blessings to you. I hope you know Jesus. ❤🙏 I so feel for this young man.

  • @ThisIsJ.Nicole
    @ThisIsJ.Nicole ปีที่แล้ว +339

    That female detective kind of started to irk me towards the end. I appreciate the guy's gentleness towards him. He's definitely not a monster. It's sad what he did to her but all I can feel is empathy for him. He just wanted to be loved and nurtured. I don't see a grown man, I see a sad little boy who was neglected.

    • @beckyberlin6433
      @beckyberlin6433 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I see a child who never felt love and acceptance

    • @beckyberlin6433
      @beckyberlin6433 ปีที่แล้ว

      The FEMALE DETECTIVE IS A HARD ASS

    • @BubbyBold
      @BubbyBold ปีที่แล้ว

      I see a full grown murderer. Emotions don't change what he did.

    • @granny58
      @granny58 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Let him live with you

    • @thurston4mor
      @thurston4mor ปีที่แล้ว +2

      These detectives are so calloused
      Fake emotion

  • @ted1091
    @ted1091 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    It happened to me. I was angry for many years. Then I realized it went beyond just that she resented me and idolized my brother- it was so incestuous it actually helped me realize that they were the sick ones. That was a very liberating realization. It started the path to my own health. They are two very, very disturbed people. I cut her out of my life 11 years ago. It was the best thing I've ever done for myself. I wish I had done it far sooner. I'm not angry anymore because I understand how selfish and disturbed they are. I survived it. I am a strong person. I feel sorry for children who face this reality in their lives. Nothing can compensate for parental neglect or abuse. The harm done is incalculable. It reverberates even through adulthood. But if you can get through it - especially with the help of skilled therapists - you'll come through it solid. And walk away. It doesn't matter whether the abusive parent ever gets it. It's about your own liberation from abuse. Walk away. Don't hurt yourself, and don't trouble with them either. Their day will come all on its own. Your responsibility is to yourself.

    • @elizabethjackson8333
      @elizabethjackson8333 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I am one of six children who were regularly told by our 'mother', "I never wanted any of you; you were all accidents." She was a cold, cruel bitch and we tolerated her abuse throughout our childhood and adolescence. It had a horrible impact on each one of us. It was difficult to feel trust, to feel valued, to accept love or give love. Many, many years ago, I found the courage to tell her about the damage she'd done, and I cut her out of my life. Best thing I ever did. As an adult, I went on to complete my education, develop a career, leave the husband to treated me badly and make a great life for myself. I feel for this kid. I wouldn't say that he was 'jealous' as much as left wondering why he was so undeserving of love and affection. Not surprised that he developed a substance abuse issue. Killing his mother was not right; but I understand why he did.

    • @ql6746
      @ql6746 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So true. Incestuous is it. Letting go makes us stronger.

    • @TheAshesArt
      @TheAshesArt ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It happened to me, too. I escaped 7 years ago. Wishing you all peace.

    • @francesmurphy3560
      @francesmurphy3560 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You show a lot of insight into your situation and were able to forge your own destiny. Congrats. To several of you. Still it must hurt some days.

    • @chc6644
      @chc6644 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for having the strength to share some of your story.

  • @Chemikill69
    @Chemikill69 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    Parents have a responsibility to protect their children. That includes emotionally as well. There's no way a kid could process something as heavy as abandonment and come out of it without trauma. It sounds like his grandma was all he had. When she died, so did the only part of him hanging on. It's sad all around.

    • @waitwhat564
      @waitwhat564 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree. I had a similar situation as this boy. C-ptsd. Had a lot of issues and counselling. It’s a lonely place.
      However my single mother was abused herself and had no idea how to love. She was sick . I had to accept that.

    • @avlsage
      @avlsage ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@waitwhat564 wow same here, my grandma was the only person in my life that I felt actually cared about me & my well-being and helped me prepare for being out in the world. Lost my gma to cancer in 2014 and unfortunately fell into opioid addiction around the same time.

    • @joanneshaw3071
      @joanneshaw3071 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I completely agree with what you’re saying. I’ve watched so many of these videos and this guy is different. I do feel for him 😔

    • @sol-leks6122
      @sol-leks6122 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's no excuse to kill his own mother. He's a monster.

    • @waitwhat564
      @waitwhat564 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@avlsage I get it. Addiction is very common for people with abandonment, rejection, etc issues. I was carried into hospital dying from anorexia which flipped into bulimia, alcohol,opioid , anything ,issues. In recovery now. I hope you find help too. Your not alone 🤗

  • @HDnero
    @HDnero ปีที่แล้ว +7

    His "mother" was the real monster

  • @StacyK0731
    @StacyK0731 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    The male detective was much more effective at the interrogation process than the female. She let her emotions get the best of her, you can easily see when when she gets frustrated, the male remains calm and consistent the whole time.

    • @simbasue
      @simbasue ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Obviously an amateur

    • @andrewnguyen3312
      @andrewnguyen3312 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@simbasue could be done on purpose

    • @ANNIEIEIO
      @ANNIEIEIO ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think she was role playing - I didn't see any of her words or actions as authentic.

    • @toughguychumzee
      @toughguychumzee ปีที่แล้ว +3

      100%. You can hear the contempt and emotions shes having the entire time while talking to him. It’s not about you lady

    • @itsjustmaddisen
      @itsjustmaddisen ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andrewnguyen3312to… sabotage their own case?

  • @Chelsealovescookies
    @Chelsealovescookies ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I have 3 children and I can't imagine loving one more than another. My heart breaks for this poor kid!! Murder for any reason is wrong but I understand where he's coming from.

    • @TonyHawkTuah
      @TonyHawkTuah ปีที่แล้ว

      @Eminem or at least, acceptable.

    • @kingcrayon195
      @kingcrayon195 ปีที่แล้ว

      Such a great mother... god bless

  • @Chiffawndue
    @Chiffawndue ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Honestly, an inconsistent parent is more damaging than an absent parent. Her coming in and out of his life damaged him so much. She should've just let his grandfather raise him and stayed out of his life. He's not a monster, and I wish he could've been loved like he should've been. His "mother" wanted absolutely nothing to do with him, and should've just walked away. She honestly did it to herself. I've no pity for her. I feel horrible for his sister though, which he obviously cares about her.

    • @deeee4663
      @deeee4663 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      YES! My mom did this to us and it was unbelievable the amount of turmoil it caused for years. I had so much rage and pure hate towards her during that time, I would daydream about her death to calm myself down. I remember sitting my dad down and calmly explaining he needed to kick her out for good or I’d be ending my life or wind up in prison bc of her. It’s insane what parents like this can do to your psyche.

    • @3dguy839
      @3dguy839 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it isn't
      But a robot 🤖 parent that looks like Robin Williams is

    • @valerierodger
      @valerierodger ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, I find it very strange to actually have more sympathy for the killer than for his victim, but here I am. Her death was the direct result of her treatment of him. It doesn’t excuse his actions in the slightest, but it does have the feeling of karma to it.

  • @TheChristianNomad
    @TheChristianNomad ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You constantly tell your child that you don't want him, this kind of thing happens. Bad parents, so many bad parents.

  • @sadfacecommittee210
    @sadfacecommittee210 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    The fact that he made sure his sister was safe and okay truly showed his true colors. Yes he did a horrible thing, and murder is always unjustified, but he obviously harbored no animosity for his sister, it was all directed at his mom for abandoning him and making him feel lonely and worthless his whole life. Truly a sad case all around and I hope that “detective” gets demoted.

    • @theagent7514
      @theagent7514 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah, he was such a hero🙄

    • @startinajackson606
      @startinajackson606 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree with Sad face committee

    • @no1246
      @no1246 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So let's praise the murderer and denigrate the people who put him away. Screw him, and his feelings. Yours too.

    • @sadfacecommittee210
      @sadfacecommittee210 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@no1246 Lmao triggered.

    • @sadfacecommittee210
      @sadfacecommittee210 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@startinajackson606 thank you for being able to consider underlying factors and not just accept the superficial appearance of a case. ❤️

  • @motorcitizen13
    @motorcitizen13 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I feel bad for this man. I wish he could’ve just took time to self reflect, sober up, and try to talk to someone.

    • @tabby73
      @tabby73 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He did have a therapist. Maybe it wasn't a good one or the process was too slow.

    • @justinparkerthewildwolf6394
      @justinparkerthewildwolf6394 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hatred can really destroy the soul

    • @LynnAgain83
      @LynnAgain83 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@justinparkerthewildwolf6394 Not nurturing and loving a child you chose to bring into 2 the world can also change them significantly.
      It's just as important as food and water imo.
      Babies who aren't held, cuddled, interacted with, and who are just left with the most minimum of care but no holding, hugs, love, no expressions, etc. It'd be like having a cold robot 🤖 mother minus the "mothering" just diaper, food, nap, rinse.
      There was a controversial experiment but it's late and the name isn't coming to me.
      I suppose there's many factors that can influence someone's life from birth throughout. Sad anyway you put it. It's obvious this young man had several issues and he probably would've thived had he had attention, affection and basic nurturing.

    • @holdencawffle626
      @holdencawffle626 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't feel sorry for him one bit

    • @justinparkerthewildwolf6394
      @justinparkerthewildwolf6394 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LynnAgain83 thanks for communicating so well like that. Not many people bother to put a nice response together, I appreciate that. It's really sad that a seemingly decent kid can be so deeply hurt, and actually need to destroy the one responsible. I'm feeling a bit strange right now. The child's need for love. It's no joke. The lack of love, and the wrath in response to the lacker. Its perfectly normal reaction really . Not in the law but in reality. I feel he balanced the books for himself and the world should try harder to understand . Fuck his mum

  • @heartworkbykitty7933
    @heartworkbykitty7933 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I feel like I actually understand this man and I feel so, so sad for him and his loneliness. If you grow up emotionally or physically abandoned and then watch the same people who were supposed to love you give that love they somehow didn’t have for you to another sibling…it does something to you. I had the same thoughts as a teen, I just never went through with the plan. I get it. It’s unfortunate that a person is dead. I can’t help but feel sad for the dude even though he did something terrible. The quote that’s in another comment “the child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel it’s warmth” is poetry and pure truth. I can’t finish this one but I just wanted to comment that growing up in that type of dynamic is so, so incredibly lonely and painful.
    I get it, even though it’s wrong.

    • @averysspookshowspectacular6205
      @averysspookshowspectacular6205 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My wife grew up with a sociopathic narcissistic drug addled mother. She had two younger siblings who got treated *slightly* better than her (more neglected than abused). I can only imagine the level of harm and resentment if they were treated the way children SHOULD be treated while she was abused.

    • @lauren.b92
      @lauren.b92 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts. Both my biological parents didn't want me and happily signed me over to my grandparents when I was 5. I grew up with LOADS of pain. Every single day but shit, you don't see me going out and murdering my birth mother. She will get her karma in due time. And if she doesn't on earth, then God will make sure she gets hers. People who were loved by their parents have no fucking idea how it feels to be abandoned by the person who gave BIRTH to them and it's so unfair in a way. This world is fucked up man. I hate it.

    • @raphaellavictoria01
      @raphaellavictoria01 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...and that child who burns down the village should burn too, as a punishment for his evil. That's my personal quote. NO justification. We've all been hurt in various ways. Some were hurt int he same way as him, and they didn't kill anyone. Therefore, he is evil.

    • @amberspaulding
      @amberspaulding 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He did it, instead of just giving up.

  • @RLU-wt8vi
    @RLU-wt8vi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I showed this video to my husband & his friends. They are all detectives in their local PD. They all agreed to the same facts. It was the worst interrogation of a suspect they had ever seen. Their constant interruptions and whatever compassion they tried to show came across as phony and insincere. The female cop sounded more like a reprimanding mother. They actually felt bad for the young man. Not for what he did, but for having to sit in the same room with the two idiots.

  • @calmwoods4506
    @calmwoods4506 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Something the detectives are missing is that sometimes it isn’t that deep. Sometimes it’s exactly as it seems and as it is and that’s all there is to it. He cannot feel love or empathy towards someone that felt nothing for him, nor taught him to feel it. It’s not that he had malicious intent or didn’t care, it’s that he didn’t feel anything to begin with. It didn’t matter anymore, he just needed a release of all those feelings that he either didn’t realize or didn’t address until now. No one asked until now and that’s truly sad.

    • @lauringrace1389
      @lauringrace1389 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So that somehow excuses his actions? Oh okay. Guess I should know this is how America operates now.

    • @nathanron970
      @nathanron970 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dont think its an excuse to bash his mother’s head in with a baseball bat though. My parents split when I was 5 and I felt a lot of resentment towards my father for leaving me. In my 20’s I realized nothing positive is going to arise living with resentment. Swallowed my pride, became the bigger man, and reconnected with my father. For some people it may not work but for me I re-kindled my relationship. Can’t move forward in life if you are so hung-up on the past.

    • @granny58
      @granny58 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And he just wanted to rob her and run away.

    • @robg8203
      @robg8203 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well he had a therapist, so I guess those don't really help😅 at least that one didn't😂

    • @The_Sharktocrab
      @The_Sharktocrab ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@nathanron970 you have the reading comprehension of a tree frog

  • @anyahernandez3116
    @anyahernandez3116 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    I know he did a horrible thing but man I kinda feel bad for him. His mother went out of her way to make him feel unloved and unwanted

    • @nica88
      @nica88 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I can’t imagine making my own child feel as though they were a burden to me and that I didn’t really give a damn about them. Sad.

    • @Jinka1950
      @Jinka1950 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Wait a minute wait a minute wait a minute there’s millions of people in the world who had the same kind of mother and none of them resorted to what this psycho did. Stop excusing bad behavior on history.

    • @HalfNHalf.
      @HalfNHalf. ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@Jinka1950 nobody is excusing his behavior. You can feel bad for someone but not condone their actions. And just because the majority of people wouldn’t resort to murder, doesn’t make it impossible for it to happen. Everyone’s situations are different but of course, murder is never ok.

    • @dianekelly2212
      @dianekelly2212 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So his mum didn’t care for him or so he says …he still had no right to kill her

    • @blahblaahh3004
      @blahblaahh3004 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@Jinka1950 the fact that you aren't able to understand that not everyone has the same brain says it all. Some people also have psychological disorders that can also play a part in this type of crime, understanding something doesn't mean that we are excusing it. We just appreciate that everyone is an individual, not carbon copies of each other. Just because you think that everyone who has been abused should think the same, doesn't make it so.

  • @missmichelleluv
    @missmichelleluv ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Usually I’m angry at the criminal.. but in this video all I feel is sadness

  • @zipsthespacebandit595
    @zipsthespacebandit595 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I feel for him. He's so numb and cold. He could have been so much more had he just known unconditional love.

    • @aljabirxiju9475
      @aljabirxiju9475 ปีที่แล้ว

      funny how the females all sympathize. you just think he is cute and want to sleep with him.

    • @Jacob-od5yo
      @Jacob-od5yo ปีที่แล้ว

      He had friends tho

    • @elonmust7470
      @elonmust7470 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stop feeling sorry for weak ass people...
      Life gets SOOOOO much worse than it is for this kid...

    • @zipsthespacebandit595
      @zipsthespacebandit595 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Jacob-od5yo that does not equal unconditionally love from family. Friends come and go

  • @elynnr
    @elynnr ปีที่แล้ว +200

    i actually feel empathy for this guy. i never knew how much my own childhood would haunt me as an adult and the amount of work i have to do if i want to try to heal. it can FUCKKKKK you up beyond belief. i cant lie and say that i never wished my family was dead - not bc of me, but in general, so i could finally escape them. i hope he’s getting some type of therapy / treatment. i think life was overkill here. he clearly had very strong feelings about killing one person and one person only. i don’t think he is dangerous enough to permit life. but that’s just me 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @4teenpages
      @4teenpages ปีที่แล้ว +15

      A life sentence isn't based solely off how dangerous he is to society. He has to pay the price for what he did, fucked up childhood or not. I can relate to his situation in ways also but, just like you & millions of other people, I wouldn't go murder someone because I have childhood trauma. An eye for an eye, take a life give your life. That's one of the consequences of killing someone.

    • @handyjayes1
      @handyjayes1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I hear you and have issues to this day at 52 years old, but not in the same way. I wish you all the best.

    • @bluebell2522
      @bluebell2522 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Should not have spoken without a lawyer

    • @itsmealanaa
      @itsmealanaa ปีที่แล้ว +8

      it’s true. i’m 18 and i had a pretty shitty childhood. my dad has said and done horrible things to me and my brother and now that i’m in college (far away) he acts like none of it happened. I want to cut him off everyday but I know I would feel bad. He painted the picture that I’m just the “disrespectful and ungrateful kid” so everyone thinks I am. Idk man. I feel so alone sometimes and I feel like I can’t socialize or function like a normal person

    • @handyjayes1
      @handyjayes1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@itsmealanaa make a good life for yourself and met a loving partner and you'll do well for yourself. Best of luck 👍

  • @gabe-po9yi
    @gabe-po9yi ปีที่แล้ว +32

    “We’re detectives and we detect.” I haven’t stopped laughing yet.

    • @mud6866
      @mud6866 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      your amusement amuses me

  • @G0rdiFl0ndi
    @G0rdiFl0ndi ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Tough case. This is the only case where I've actually wondered if life in prison is the right move... Im not convinced he's a monster, but our "Corrections" system will not do anything to help him.

    • @alexanderorr2528
      @alexanderorr2528 ปีที่แล้ว

      It didn't say without parole so he could technically start applying for it in 25 years I believe but whether he'd get it is a different matter. I agree though, while he obviously should serve a lengthy prison sentence to pay for his crime I think there is basically a 0% chance of him reoffending since this was a very sad and complicated neglect scenario. If our system truly is intended to rehabilitate those able to join society and contribute instead of sitting in a cage costing the taxpayers 50k a year then he seems like a prime candidate.

    • @donnahilton471
      @donnahilton471 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Until his low self esteem causes him to slit his wife's throat because danced with another man or said hi to someone.

    • @Jacob-od5yo
      @Jacob-od5yo ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude beat his mother to death with a bat that's kinda a monster dude bad childhood dosnt excuse anything

  • @SA-bd6nv
    @SA-bd6nv ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The female detective needs to resign, if you can’t keep your emotions in check you shouldn’t be in these field. What a poor performance on her part, she clearly was asked to leave after the knocks, someone outside could see she wasn’t keeping her emotions in check. They already had the confession, there was no need to be so aggressive.

  • @robertgraham5619
    @robertgraham5619 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    To me, that female detective was too aggressive and not paying attention as Josh had already said he was coming down from "spice" but she insinuated that he hadn't done any drugs for a few days. To me, she was trying to get him to confess to be a cold-hearted murderer. I personally have great empathy for Josh. Being told by your mother you weren't wanted is cruel and creates a self identity of thinking of yourself as having little or no meaningful purpose for being. It is easy to see how an 18 year old would feel a desire to eliminate that that created him with yet didn't find him of value. Breaks my heart for all concerned. Wish I could just hold Josh and let him feel wanted, cared for.

    • @trentevenson8988
      @trentevenson8988 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She was hired because of a woman quota needing to be filled.

    • @charlotteallenny
      @charlotteallenny ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm only half way through but yeah she's making me want to scream, listen to him speak and stop trying to twist everything he says into proof that it was premeditated. Damn.

    • @simbasue
      @simbasue ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This female detective is obviously trying to be a star and she's way out of her league.

    • @jonmikolajewski7167
      @jonmikolajewski7167 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And I thought she was gonna break the mold. The first thing she said kept him from shutting down. After that she only harmed the interrogation.

    • @startinajackson606
      @startinajackson606 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me to, he's a good soul, I can see him. I pray God helps him

  • @MadisonHarvill
    @MadisonHarvill ปีที่แล้ว +38

    These detectives seem to have grown up in a stable home. They don’t get what it’s like to go through the things that this kid did. Can’t even seem to imagine it for the sake of this situation. They both were not coming at it with an open mind and wanting to see if from another perspective. Both already made up their minds and were trying to get him to say what they wanted to hear. Bringing up the fact that he was jealous? Or not believing that he’s genuinely sorry? Sheesh.

  • @ChristineNighting
    @ChristineNighting ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This situation is similar to what happened to my mom's best friend when they were 17. She had a brother who killed his entire family. He struggled with not being loved enough compared to his sister. One night he picked three locks in his family's house to gain access to the gun they had in the safe, and he shot both his parents and went into his sister's room and killed her. This is something that deeply affects my mother until this day. It happened in the 80s.

  • @davidburke2453
    @davidburke2453 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    the female detective needs some more training.

  • @GardenOfKayland
    @GardenOfKayland ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yuck to the female detective.

  • @lyndsayw5843
    @lyndsayw5843 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    As a mother, it hurts me to know how this young man was hurt by the person who is most meant to love and cherish him. I'm not justifying what he did. Lots of people are treated badly by their mother and do not kill them. But still, I hurt for the child that he was and for the emotional pain he continues to feel. I think when he said that he was feeling bad for what he had done to his sister as a result of this, it gave me a lot more compassion towards him as well because it's clear he loves his sister.

    • @zythr9999
      @zythr9999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He didn't have a trusted adult he could go to?

    • @zythr9999
      @zythr9999 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you feel the same for the guy who shot up the night club?

    • @lyndsayw5843
      @lyndsayw5843 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@zythr9999 Did you miss this when reading my comment, "I'm not justifying what he did. Lots of people are treated badly by their mother and do not kill them." Or did you just choose to ignore it once you got yourself worked up over the parts of my comment you didn't like. What he did was WRONG. I did not stutter on that.

    • @lauringrace1389
      @lauringrace1389 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@zythr9999 Honestly he should have acted like the adult he is.

    • @zythr9999
      @zythr9999 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lauringrace1389 Very true

  • @LuMarPhoto
    @LuMarPhoto ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Parents: Love and nurture your children. Specially when young. You can hear it in his voice that all he wanted was love and affection from his mother. I believe she’d still be alive. Also, I think his hallucinations and voices is real. Meaning he’s not trying to cop out. This is so sad for everyone.

  • @icarusalchemist1398
    @icarusalchemist1398 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Oh no, it's that female detective! I watched this on another channel the other day, but this is much shorter and she doesn't seem as bad. She's horrendous in the full interrogation!

  • @snowbunny7135
    @snowbunny7135 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Why was that female detective even there? BOY IFF U DON'T GETCHO 🤷🏻🤦🏻

  • @BunsenHoneydew001
    @BunsenHoneydew001 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This wasn't the place for Good Cop, Bad Cop. That female detective made him shut down every time she opened her mouth with that loud, grating, annoying voice that probably wasn't too different than his mother's.

  • @mmsbby23
    @mmsbby23 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Holy smokes!
    The female detective is ANNOYING!
    “I don’t want to put words in your mouth”, then keeps putting words in his mouth. She wouldn’t even let the kid talk.

  • @greenman6141
    @greenman6141 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I don't think he was a monster. He didn't excuse himself. He was someone who had been broken through longing for love. We all ache to feel loved, to feel that we're wanted, to feel a place we belong. He was obviously horribly depressed as well.
    This is all just so desperately sad.
    His story about her visiting for a day or 2 when he was young, and how he'd cry so much when she left - it is just awful.
    If she didn't want him, she should have put him in a good adoption agency.
    I lived mostly in London, New York City and Boston. There are so many couples I know, people with steady, well paid jobs (just saying that to indicate that there would be no financial hardship - NOT because it makes anyone a better person) who spend up to 10 years or more, doing all they can to adopt a child. My husband was adopted, My father was adopted. My daughter's partner was adopted, and about a third of her friends were.
    If he had had the chance to be adopted by a family that really wanted him, and was able to provide the care and love that all children crave....then she would be alive, and he'd be happy.

    • @Janellabelle
      @Janellabelle ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I have no idea why they're having to wait 10 years or more. The foster care system, at least in my state, is bursting at the seams with unwanted children. Sooo many unwanted kids. Not very many unwanted infants though...everyone wants an infant (or under 1 year old). The rest of the children end up stuffed to the brim in foster homes where they aren't wanted, are abused sexually emotionally and physically, and put to work....almost like the foster parent's slave. Actually, exactly like child slaves. One foster child in a neighboring state was worked so hard, with no food, it starved to death in the very field it was working. It is a horrific outcome for any child over one or two.

    • @Joe-ym6bw
      @Joe-ym6bw ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Parents mould the child they created him

    • @angelamuganwa5271
      @angelamuganwa5271 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Janellabelle because they make adoption expensive even though they have a tonne of kids waiting in the system

    • @greenman6141
      @greenman6141 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Janellabelle A key reason is that many of the children in foster homes are not up for adoption. They may have parents who are not willing to put them up for adoption, but who are not able (or willing) to look after them.
      If you are fostering a child, and your job requires that you move to a different country....the child won't be able to go with you. Most of the people I know don't have jobs which mean they live in one place.
      And I can only talk about people I know, not about people I don't.
      In the past if parents weren't doing well, children tended to be removed and put up for adoption. The increase in parents' rights has shifted the balance hugely towards fostering.
      Another huge issue is the dreaded Race. So many people have so many views about it. Why so called white people can't/shouldn't/don't want to adopt so called black children.
      Whatever is said or thought..... it ends up with white Americans going to China, and, as you say, foster homes filled with children in the US The entire argument becomes just stupid and offensive, and the end result terribly sad for many children.

    • @granny58
      @granny58 ปีที่แล้ว

      Boo hoo b.s.

  • @laurawentworth6237
    @laurawentworth6237 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really feel for him because of how is mother abandoned him as a baby. My mother abused me and told me I was a mistake on my 14th birthday. Actually blamed me when I was 4 years old for argument’s that were between my parents. It took my around 50 years to come to grips with the beatings and abuse. Now I’m 71 don’t speak to my 99 year old mother who never apologized to me for what she did. I never thought about killing her. But I did wish she would die in a car accident. I wasn’t going to ruin my life over her. You have to think things out. That’s my story. I wish he had thought about what would happen to him if he killed his mother. Such a shame. Parents should understand that when you abandon a child it’s life long damage…

  • @slaythembeforeme
    @slaythembeforeme ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Female Detective: "We're detectives, right? So we detect things"
    What a genius.

    • @lynnarmbruster4353
      @lynnarmbruster4353 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      she was getting on my nerves

    • @slaythembeforeme
      @slaythembeforeme ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@lynnarmbruster4353 I was especially annoyed when she accused the guy of being pissed off and when he said he wasn't pissed, she tried her best to piss him off.

  • @tinab3627
    @tinab3627 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I grew up with a mother that couldn’t care less about me, loved my brother to death and would do anything for him. I was never once jealous of my brother. I loved/ love him very much. It was all her doing. It’s a horrible way to grow up.

  • @barbaraellison1095
    @barbaraellison1095 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The detectives already got a confession but the woman wanted to make him confess what he clearly didn’t feel.

  • @gamerk1625
    @gamerk1625 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I cant help but feel how easily this could have been avoided.. Even with an explanation by his mother would may have prevented his outburst . Sad Situation .
    Its shows how much young men crave their parents love and attention. Its emotional torture and confusion without it.

  • @gabrielhutchinson4708
    @gabrielhutchinson4708 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    the mother paid the ultimate price for child neglect. how sad.

  • @priscillagraham3723
    @priscillagraham3723 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That female detective was plain ignorant yo. It angered me to watch and hear her actively putting words in his mouth and making inaccurate assumptions. I was confused why someone was knocking during an interrogation but quickly realized that they were pulling her out because she was fucking up so much. These detectives need more training in mental health.

  • @hotlilvixxxen
    @hotlilvixxxen ปีที่แล้ว +717

    This is just so sad. The resentment of feeling unloved and unwanted your entire life has more impact than people imagine. My heart goes out to him even though what he did wasn’t right. Sad all around for everyone.

    • @anitabrown3286
      @anitabrown3286 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      ....experience it weekly....kiddos in my class are often rejected by their birth parents and act out in school.

    • @fab8506
      @fab8506 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@anitabrown3286 terrible. A parent treating their child so coldly or cruelly is criminal. And they may wanna watch their back!

    • @cryhavocandletslipthedogso1873
      @cryhavocandletslipthedogso1873 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am glad to see a comment like this. This is probably one of the most relatable murders I have ever learned about. Parenting is gigantic responsibility many do not live up to.
      I wish his sentence had been more lenient, RTC didn't mention a chance for parole, so I guess there is none...

    • @cryhavocandletslipthedogso1873
      @cryhavocandletslipthedogso1873 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Diana T I am not defending his acts, just to make that clear, but how on Earth is his sister worse off than he is?
      I'll grant you, if you ignore the rest of HIS life (almost as if he died), then you got a point, but neither his nor her life are over. At least his sister knew the love of her mother and is free.
      No need for woman-worsting.

    • @tonyausten2168
      @tonyausten2168 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The mother crime was not abandoning her son, the crime is not loving him after abandoning him, bringing him into her life, and ignoring him. And on top of that, there is a far greater crime she did. The stepfather will not love this son like his bio dad would have. So in the end, this son of Adam, turned into Cain. I am just so thankful to God he didn't kill his half-sister- who would have been his Abel.

  • @ladislavjonas977
    @ladislavjonas977 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Despite what he did, this guy is far from a monster. I understand him completely and feel for him deeply.I hope he will find some kind of solace and peace in his life, even if it's gonna be behind bars. As for the lady detective, she should have started the interview the way she finished it - by walking out.

  • @-pasta4601
    @-pasta4601 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    On one hand, I HATE how youtube screwed over JCS. On the other hand, it is absolutely amazing that all these other channels/content creators stepped up to the plate to continue his video-style. Red Tree even continues to gives him/them(JCS) credit in the video description.
    TH-cam may have screwed over JCS, but the spirit of his channel will never die! 😁

    • @whoisharo4689
      @whoisharo4689 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What happened to JCS? Whats the story with that?

    • @lawill3559
      @lawill3559 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👀

    • @JeanneEllenSW
      @JeanneEllenSW ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was thinking that this channel is the brainchild of JCS- same creators, different name. Love them both!

    • @alexandriafitts9262
      @alexandriafitts9262 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What did they do to him? I loved JCS. He was great!!!

  • @pelican4294
    @pelican4294 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    If only the mother opened her heart and talked to her son, all of this could’ve been different. The son is accountable but the mother failed him miserably.

    • @MitchellLewis-gq7cw
      @MitchellLewis-gq7cw ปีที่แล้ว

      There no excuse for murder

    • @DannyBZ9
      @DannyBZ9 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MitchellLewis-gq7cwto save an innocent life is

  • @Nisie23
    @Nisie23 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    His mom was wrong for treating him the way she did. She was a monster.

  • @pastlane2011
    @pastlane2011 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Very sad, he was hurting so much and after his action realised that what he did didn't fill the big hole he felt in his heart. It wasn't a good decision he made, to take his mother's life, and I think if she had tried to make up for the abandonment he felt things may have been different. The thought of a boy living with parents who provieded a roof and nothing else in loving or supporting him emotionally is devastating. I feel sorry for him and his sister. Something he said early about wanting to give up made me think that he wanted to go back to prison, rather than living the life he had. I do think tha female detective who didn't want to "put words in his mouth", took it upon herself to conflate him talking about doing some things for attention, to the situation, and out of nowhere threw jealousy in to the mix. She stopped him from talking on occasions and I was glad when she left the room.

  • @13ChroniclesOfDagger
    @13ChroniclesOfDagger ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That female detective 🕵️‍♀️ is rubbish 🗑 😒

  • @yourmomlikesme644
    @yourmomlikesme644 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    i’m not excusing his behavior at all, this man had nobody. What he did wasn’t right at all. But i feel for the kid that wanted his moms attention and couldn’t get it. He resulted to other things to escape, to feel like everything was going to be ok. he saw his mom not trying with him, but giving his sister the attention that he was screaming for.

  • @vtorialyn
    @vtorialyn ปีที่แล้ว +27

    How sad this is. It’s just horrible for any child to feel unwanted 😢

    • @joyace9674
      @joyace9674 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @MondoMiami
      @MondoMiami ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You should hear his mom’s side of the story. Oh, that’s right, you can’t. BECAUSE HE MURDERED HER!!!!!!

    • @520jrw3
      @520jrw3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MondoMiami exactly right. He is scum

  • @virginiajaquez6806
    @virginiajaquez6806 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    These two are so hungry for info that they can’t shut up and let him speak

  • @rja9784
    @rja9784 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    The mother/father dynamic within a family is far more important than most people can even comprehend.

  • @Ceerads
    @Ceerads ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I’m so sorry for him that he didn’t get the help and care he needed way before he killed his mother. It’s obvious that he has a conscience and can feel guilt and empathy. What an awful situation for all involved.

  • @MorgueSlamilton
    @MorgueSlamilton ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My mother failed in alot of ways. So did my father. I watched as my mother gave my sister things I needed. I watched as my father fathered 3 kids that weren't his own. At times I was seething with jealousy. But at some point I realized that I was watching them learn from the mistakes they made with me. And through that I found peace and even purpose that I could have paved the way for my siblings to have a better life. Now, as a parent myself, I'm proud of my parents and know that they did the best they could with what they had... But even at the bottom. The darkest. The worst feelings I had for my parents that still in some ways smolder into my 30s.. I would NEVER even dream of taking their lives.. I don't understand how a person could get there but I understand that they do. I just pray for healing for all involved here. Much love. 🖤

  • @terrileist
    @terrileist ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I work in a mental health clinic, and sadly I’ve heard so many children who didn’t get the basic nurturing in their lives, grow up to do horrible things.
    They often don’t know right from wrong, and end up in an institution and on medications.
    Very sad case.

  • @sammy5674
    @sammy5674 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    So sad. This is why children shouldn't have children. They are still young and growing theirself. She treated her daughter different because she was older and wiser. She probably never even realised he was holding on to (she would come for two days, then I'd cry myself to sleep) and all this other anger. Communication with your child is always key. This is so sad for everyone involved.

    • @CuriousGoodsJessica
      @CuriousGoodsJessica ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are exactly right, children don't have the emotional or financial stability to raise a child and if they do get wiser as they get older they may never realize the damage they did just because they were not prepared, even if they didn't do anything neglectful or evil. All my friends had their first child "on accident", my husband & I were together for 6 years & married for 3 before we decided we were ready for a child. He's the best kid too, almost 21, in college, working almost full time & everyone's best friend. My friends' kids are great too, but they've had problems our son never had because we were older and more stable.

  • @anthonypk7281
    @anthonypk7281 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That female detective needs to see a therapist, and then some retraining. She might have wanted to become a prosecutor.

  • @kellydickerson9574
    @kellydickerson9574 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    His childhood definitely has played a part in his decisions. Being rejected by your only parent is hard enough, and then his gma passing away was another blow to his already sad mental state. Then his baby sister is born and gets the attentions from "his" mom that he never did. Rejection after rejection on a child is only asking for sever trouble if not dealt with and adding drugs on top of all this, Im amazed he didn't do anything sooner.

  • @CoCo-dn1ip
    @CoCo-dn1ip ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Shows how much importance of a 2 parents are in a child’s life.

  • @marielle3548
    @marielle3548 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is absolutely heartbreaking.This very young man had no chance in life with a mother who just did not want him,him taking drugs to patch his pain and no one being there to help him.

  • @In_swedish_the_jam_means_sylt
    @In_swedish_the_jam_means_sylt ปีที่แล้ว +6

    cḿon, asking your interrogator "if you want to talk about it" ... that is pretty adorable.

  • @laurab3876
    @laurab3876 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So cruel for a mom to tell his kid she never wanted to have him... so cruel for a mom to come visit when she dumped him, and not realize the kid was suffering immensely without her..
    So sad to think as a kid he would cry himself to sleep. So so sad!

  • @sodiumoverdose4792
    @sodiumoverdose4792 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is straight up. What that female cop said is bullshit. "We don't want you to manufacture emotions" or whatever... And in fact she's trying to manufacture proof of him being happy he did it, when he's obviously not.
    No cap, I think she has kids an if they did it to her she'd want them to be punished at the full extent, so she wants him punished to the full extent.

  • @prophetascending9021
    @prophetascending9021 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Been binging this channel recently, it's got some of the best case interviews.

  • @gaylaroof612
    @gaylaroof612 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I want to cry for this young man. I can identify a little bit. We lived on a farm, & I had a brother who was 5 years older. Mt parents adopted him when he was 2. My brother got to help my parents w/just about everything, on the farm. I did NOTHING. If it wasnt for my little golden books, & playing my records, I don't know WHAT would've become of me. My grandmother ADORED my brother & cousin. She did so much for them, but not me. If it wasn't for my great grandmother, I wouldn't have felt ANY love or acceptance. In fact, my mother said the same thing...if it wasn't for grandma, she wouldn't have been loved. Mother's brother was the favorite. Parents...BOTH PARENTS, are SO IMPORTANT, & NEED TO BE ACTIVE IN THE CHILDS LIFE. My father worked 3 jobs, so to speak. He worked in construction, his crops, & his dairy cows. I always felt he loved the cows more than me. So, my heart crys for this young man. My parents & brother are all gone now, but whenever I think of them, I tell them I love them.

  • @GrandPrixDecals
    @GrandPrixDecals ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You’re one of 2 TH-cam uploaders I actually have the bell ticked for - cheers 👍

  • @rickjames7576
    @rickjames7576 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That woman police officer DID NOT LISTEN. When he said he wanted attention he meant from his mother, and a father that deserted him, she took it as attention from the masses, then huffily walked out. Do I think he deserves prison ? Yes. It's a tuff case. The thing that gets to me is all the monsters out there that commit horrible crimes just for the fun of it and get away with 14,20,30 etc years. Our "justice" system is so inconsistent. Very frustrating !

  • @Lizzy-ol4df
    @Lizzy-ol4df ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The female detective (who is annoying) mistook his explanation of seeking attention through misbehavior for the reason he committed the crime; for the attention, which is not correct.
    Neglect and abandonment will most often produce irreparable damage to children.

  • @marieh1755
    @marieh1755 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think he’s being honest actually! The female interrogater is wrong . He wasn’t necessarily jealous he was hurt and angry cause his mom let him know often that she didn’t want him or love him apparently and that was stupid of her and dangerous!

  • @johnp8988
    @johnp8988 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This lady cop is bungling this interview.

  • @mkayokay3192
    @mkayokay3192 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We’re detectives. We detect things.

    • @jasonhendrickson8896
      @jasonhendrickson8896 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is a bumbling idiot that is over aggressive and fumbles about like a big uncoordinated oaf🤣🤣🤣

    • @lf3541
      @lf3541 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And this broad was a good enough law enforcement officer to make the grade of detective...imagine who they passed over and rejected if SHE won that prize?
      And people still wonder why the police are so persecuted, lol. This new age of forced transparency is exactly WHY! We can now see them in all their awful glory.

  • @commonsenseisnotsocommon
    @commonsenseisnotsocommon ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's so sad that some parents are a child's literal hero, and some parents are a child's worst nightmare. I was blessed to have amazing parents. Thank you so much Dad & Mom.

    • @RapturereadyforJesus
      @RapturereadyforJesus ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had horrible parents. I tried so hard to be a good parent. I believe I failed, but my children told me I did a good job. I am thankful for my children. They mean the world to me!

  • @AdeleBuckle
    @AdeleBuckle ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for the upload. Much love from South Africa 💕💕💕

  • @ec8787
    @ec8787 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Joshua wasn’t a monster, his parents were.

  • @HansonFan73
    @HansonFan73 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'm calling my Mom and telling her how much I love her after watching this. 🥰😭

  • @heidiwilliams9146
    @heidiwilliams9146 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Coming from a situation where my mother left me at 18 months old and then started up a new family and became the mother I never had as I watched throughout my life I understand how he feels. I never wanted to kill my mother but I was deeply scarred. Then she passes away of old age and I find out my father is not my father so not only did she deny me of having a mother she denied me of who my real dad is. Plays a lot on my mind. Some people take things to an extreme like him

    • @Dthomas5816
      @Dthomas5816 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm sorry that you were denied having loving parents. I'm sorry someone immature and irresponsible was the one who brought you into this world. The only positive thing to come out of your situation is that you know exactly what not to do with a child should you decide to have any. Children are a gift and should be loved unconditionally. I wish you nothing but love and peace. You matter. Take care of yourself. 😊❤

  • @sarahbarby488
    @sarahbarby488 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These detectives especially the woman are extremely frustrating 🤯😤

  • @BossInVegas
    @BossInVegas ปีที่แล้ว +4

    the name of the bat he used was "Rampage" - geez - how fitting

  • @ashleymandina6139
    @ashleymandina6139 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This one really hurts my heart. He wanted his mom to love him as a boy , how sad that his mother didn’t get into counseling 2 years prior to this when he opened up to her about how he felt. She could have worked on their relationship together and he could have gotten the help he needed.