Signs he’s not serious about you: 1. He only texts, he doesn’t ask you out 2. Effort is inconsistent (waits 5 days to text you after your date, etc., comes on strong but fizzles out) 3. He’s been seeing you two months and his profile is still active (it means you are “Miss Right Now”) 4. He never talks about a future and doesn’t call you his girlfriend (he doesn’t talk about it because he doesn’t want that) 5. He doesn’t integrate you into his life (you don’t know his friends, family)
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Hi Evan , I'm a little to old for dating advice , but I am enjoying listening to your advice to those who are dating . wish I could have gotten your advice I'm sure you would have saved me lot's and lots of trouble and heartache .I'll keep watching , blessing !
I have experienced the exact reversal of this with some of my relationships. Great points, especially about how a mysterious man is a red flag. I've tried to never be mysterious, and I'm sure it's hurt my efforts with some women, but i know it's helped my efforts with my healthy relationships (like my relationship of the past yrar year and a half)
I think the best advice you can give to women to get a reliable guy is: Lower your standards. Yes, the top 5% of men have tons of options and have the luxory of being very picky. But average guys actually have no options and are more likely to commit. As a 42 year old guy, decent looking, in decent shape, own a house, decent job, 6ft tall. I quite literally have NO OPTIONS. Zero. Online dating doesn't work and women in person simply aren't into me. Or they are married. I have SOME standards, but I'd gladly commit to a decent woman. Those women, aren't into me. And I speak for many average men.
@@devs4806 Thanks, appreciate it. Glad you found someone. I just have to keep at it. Just very frustrating because I am not even close to finding anyone. I'll even volunteer at places with women just to out and about and there is absolutely no interest. The years tick by, and nothing. So I just find it interesting that he thinks guys have limitless options. When I literally have zero.
I feel ya, bro! Oh, and I'm generally considered a good looking guy, 6 ft tall, who is in phenomenal shape and has had a solid career for 30 years and a homeowner in Los Angeles, and even I went through much of what you're describing with almost 80% of my first dates with women that I liked enough to at least want a second date! I've been in a serious relationship the past year and a half, so maybe things will be different now, but I can definitely relate to your struggles
@@devs4806it takes a lot more than being at peace with yourself, I'm afraid. I know a lot of good people who at peace with themselves and still having great difficulties with dating, myself included for much of my past 30 years of dating (in a relationship, now, so hopefully things will change)
I have always thought that men that talk to you all the time or text you and that’s literally it - then I have always thought those men are not that into me. People have disagreed but I know I’m not wrong. Men never ask me out so it’s kind of normal for me to just talk to men all the time and never have things go anywhere.
It’s common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you’re ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there’s always a way forward.
I’m facing significant relationship problems and can’t stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I’m ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
Hello, I find your videos really helpful! However, I'll say that when it comes to dating a guy they might do all the right things but then after couple months they might change their mind and say they are not ready to commit. This is what happen to me when dating a guy, he waited for months to have sex with me, we had great chemistry but after 7 months when I asked the question "where is this going?" He stepped back saying he was not ready for commitment eventhough we both agreed on looking for a serious relationship on the first couple dates .
Feel like this could be an Instagram reel too. ❤ If you want to reach a younger audience. Most people my age prefer short format. Not because we don't have the ability to concentrate but simply because there's so much information out there, not a lot of time, and surprisingly a lot can be understood through a summary
Signs he’s not serious about you:
1. He only texts, he doesn’t ask you out
2. Effort is inconsistent (waits 5 days to text you after your date, etc., comes on strong but fizzles out)
3. He’s been seeing you two months and his profile is still active (it means you are “Miss Right Now”)
4. He never talks about a future and doesn’t call you his girlfriend (he doesn’t talk about it because he doesn’t want that)
5. He doesn’t integrate you into his life (you don’t know his friends, family)
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
Hi Evan , I'm a little to old for dating advice , but I am enjoying listening to your advice to those who are dating . wish I could have gotten your advice I'm sure you would have saved me lot's and lots of trouble and heartache .I'll keep watching , blessing !
I have experienced the exact reversal of this with some of my relationships. Great points, especially about how a mysterious man is a red flag. I've tried to never be mysterious, and I'm sure it's hurt my efforts with some women, but i know it's helped my efforts with my healthy relationships (like my relationship of the past yrar year and a half)
I think the best advice you can give to women to get a reliable guy is: Lower your standards. Yes, the top 5% of men have tons of options and have the luxory of being very picky. But average guys actually have no options and are more likely to commit. As a 42 year old guy, decent looking, in decent shape, own a house, decent job, 6ft tall. I quite literally have NO OPTIONS. Zero. Online dating doesn't work and women in person simply aren't into me. Or they are married. I have SOME standards, but I'd gladly commit to a decent woman. Those women, aren't into me. And I speak for many average men.
You just haven't found the right woman. I'm widowed at 47, it took me a while to find my late husband. Hope you find the love of your life.
@@devs4806 Thanks, appreciate it. Glad you found someone. I just have to keep at it. Just very frustrating because I am not even close to finding anyone. I'll even volunteer at places with women just to out and about and there is absolutely no interest. The years tick by, and nothing. So I just find it interesting that he thinks guys have limitless options. When I literally have zero.
I feel ya, bro! Oh, and I'm generally considered a good looking guy, 6 ft tall, who is in phenomenal shape and has had a solid career for 30 years and a homeowner in Los Angeles, and even I went through much of what you're describing with almost 80% of my first dates with women that I liked enough to at least want a second date! I've been in a serious relationship the past year and a half, so maybe things will be different now, but I can definitely relate to your struggles
@@devs4806it takes a lot more than being at peace with yourself, I'm afraid. I know a lot of good people who at peace with themselves and still having great difficulties with dating, myself included for much of my past 30 years of dating (in a relationship, now, so hopefully things will change)
@@devs4806 it takes a lot more than just being at peace with yourself, I'm afraid. It takes a lot of luck and timing, as well
I have always thought that men that talk to you all the time or text you and that’s literally it - then I have always thought those men are not that into me. People have disagreed but I know I’m not wrong. Men never ask me out so it’s kind of normal for me to just talk to men all the time and never have things go anywhere.
Great info- consistently good teaching
appreciate it, Roxanne
It’s common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you’re ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there’s always a way forward.
I’m facing significant relationship problems and can’t stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I’m ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I'll quickly search for him online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
Thank you, for so much advice, good advice……………..
Damn I love you Evan! Glad your still making content 😊
Hello, I find your videos really helpful! However, I'll say that when it comes to dating a guy they might do all the right things but then after couple months they might change their mind and say they are not ready to commit.
This is what happen to me when dating a guy, he waited for months to have sex with me, we had great chemistry but after 7 months when I asked the question "where is this going?" He stepped back saying he was not ready for commitment eventhough we both agreed on looking for a serious relationship on the first couple dates .
I block him immediately regardless
Feel like this could be an Instagram reel too. ❤ If you want to reach a younger audience.
Most people my age prefer short format. Not because we don't have the ability to concentrate but simply because there's so much information out there, not a lot of time, and surprisingly a lot can be understood through a summary
Thanks. I'm not really trying to reach young people because young people don't pay for coaches.