How we came out and what we know now in our late 20s | PatNes Stories

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  • We share how we accepted ourselves, and how we told those closest to us in this medyo sit-down vlog around Baguio City. Soft hours only!
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    TIMECODES:
    01:32 How did you know you were queer?
    03:20 How long did it take you to accept yourself?
    08:41 How did you come out to your parents?
    15:24 What is something you would tell your younger self?
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ความคิดเห็น • 52

  • @NadzLife
    @NadzLife 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    As a closeted bisexual at the moment, sobrang heartwarming ng video na ito🥺 Sa future na ako magcome out sa majority ng fam ko, for now, enjoy-enjoy muna and taking things slow. thank you mga ma for the representation!!!🏳‍🌈

  • @karmiee13
    @karmiee13 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    luv u always, parents!! thank u for the representation ❤️‍🩹🫂

  • @jenalynjuntilla4824
    @jenalynjuntilla4824 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Yung statement na , " as much time as you took para matanggap mo yung sarili mo, sila din kailangan din nila ng oras para iprocess yung lahat ng yun", "you need to also give them time".😭😭
    Right now yan din yung struggle ko , I've been into 8 years relationship right now.And until now hirap padin tanggapin yung parents ko yung gantong klase ng relationship ang gusto ko.Thank you so much for reminding me that it took time, grabe it hits different 😭😭I hope you do more vlog like this to inspire many people.Thank you Patnes😭❤️🫶

  • @jelliannedecasa9063
    @jelliannedecasa9063 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I also have always known elementary palang that I am a lesbian, but as somebody who grew up sa conservative home and provincial culture, I never knew how to really come out “properly”. I would bring girlfriends and introduce them as bestfriends, then when I was confronted by my fam about being gay, I flat out denied and changed the topic, then I became out with family and friends but had my family restricted sa social media, and then I finally removed the restrictions, but refused to answer questions. My family are homophobic, I know that for sure kase they would have side comments re people from LGBTQIA community. But then one day, my mom died, and I snapped and came out to my dad (we were surrounded by family) - during my mom’s wake. I came out, more so they would know about my SOGIE while they are still alive, and less so that they will accept me. I did not care anymore what my family thinks. It did not matter what they think, I will live my truth, while simultaneously being my father’s kid, my grandparents’ grandaughter, my family’s family. I am finally out.

  • @ellainezeaa
    @ellainezeaa 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    yung vid sa duloooo huuhu bat naiiyak akooo 😭🥹

  • @RovieMae
    @RovieMae 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    for someone na hindi pa out like me, your vlog comforts me. thank you for using your platform mga mama ko

  • @seyangsmole7089
    @seyangsmole7089 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bakit naman every vlog inevitable maiyak ako?? Relate si bading huhu love u parents!! Thank u for always inspiring people 🫶🏻 You are home. 🤍

  • @MADesigns_
    @MADesigns_ 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So proud of you both! I’m sure this vlog may help other closeted people feel represented and seen 💙💛 Love always wins

  • @07kanne
    @07kanne 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    LOVE YOU!!

  • @china_heart
    @china_heart 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    present mga maaaaa!!! 🫶 loveu always my engaged parents! 😍❤️

  • @jennysimsuangco1418
    @jennysimsuangco1418 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    labyu PatNes💗

  • @sera3967
    @sera3967 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this is so heartwarming 🩵☁️💛

  • @malfigi4019
    @malfigi4019 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love you both! Looking forward to more of your stories n blogs! 🥰

  • @babeviancm
    @babeviancm 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    waaahhhh im crying HUHUHUHUH. Labyu mga mama ko.

  • @justimbastekaryllemaries.8130
    @justimbastekaryllemaries.8130 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    aaaaaa, palagi akong kinikilig kapag may bago kayong upload ಥ⁠‿⁠ಥ thank u, parents :')) tama kayo na coming out is not a one-time but a process. love u both so much!!!! 💗

  • @malfigi4019
    @malfigi4019 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    All will be alright in time ~💕💕

  • @jenalynjuntilla4824
    @jenalynjuntilla4824 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So proud of you two❤️

  • @ma.cecildioquino8082
    @ma.cecildioquino8082 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    LabYu always❤❤❤

  • @keithleengentica3137
    @keithleengentica3137 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    finally can watch your vlogs again

  • @nicolepugeda5600
    @nicolepugeda5600 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ILYSM, YOU GUYS

  • @jeshceldejuan1476
    @jeshceldejuan1476 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love you mga ma!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @raine105
    @raine105 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love you both ❤

  • @kzyrlst
    @kzyrlst 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Congrats Mommies!! Can't wait naman yung future wedding niyo 🥺❤

  • @gellaromales
    @gellaromales 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    we're so proud for the both of u our parents 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @deniellemeer5913
    @deniellemeer5913 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    love u mga ma ❤ thank u sa inspiration and representation 🥹

  • @Justvibin16
    @Justvibin16 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so happy for both of you mama pat and mama agnes❤❤❤

  • @saaammartinez
    @saaammartinez 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hnggg love you both!! Thank you for the representation and hope that it will get better 😊

  • @bellatrixjaranilla46
    @bellatrixjaranilla46 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    love u parents!! you’ll always be an inspiration not just to me but to other people 💟🙏

  • @justme_KN
    @justme_KN 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mahal ko kayooo PATNES ❤✨ thank you for being a big inspiration to us 🌈

  • @KeonPH
    @KeonPH 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love wins. ❤

  • @ellie199x6
    @ellie199x6 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm crying😢 How I wish one day naging brave enough ako to come out to my family

  • @jessaaricayabito-on1533
    @jessaaricayabito-on1533 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    loveyouu maaaa

  • @ma.agnestimbang7576
    @ma.agnestimbang7576 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    more vlogs parents 🫶🤙

  • @Ali_Girl
    @Ali_Girl 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thanks for the coming out story po na shinare niyo mga momshie super useful po siya para sakin sa future kasi as of now im not ready to come out as bi kasi baka di ako matangap ng family and reltaives ko si mama alam ko matatangap ako pero yung oba sa family and relatives namin im not sure but i just wanna say thank u for the representation mga momshie thank i din po mga mama for inspiring us mga ferson na di pa nakaka pag out

  • @nadja.canete
    @nadja.canete 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🥹♥️ love u guys!!!!

  • @joy_totheworldofrainbow
    @joy_totheworldofrainbow 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    my partner and I never come out to our families,but we know that alam din naman nila,by the way 8th anniversary namin next month☺️

  • @jonahgalfo
    @jonahgalfo 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sobrang sarap nyo panoorin

  • @Josh21014
    @Josh21014 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ma, sana all ako sa inyo :( dapat ganyan din ginawa ko dati.. dapat ndi ako nagtatago kung anu ako ma. until now nasa Secret Relationship pa rin ako :(

  • @angelarmena8958
    @angelarmena8958 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @nicolefernandez8839
    @nicolefernandez8839 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💗💗💗

  • @nins500
    @nins500 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Saan available yung shirt ni Agnes?

  • @alyssacastillo4503
    @alyssacastillo4503 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yung long sleeves sa 14:03 yan po yung suot mo sa Flashback musical concert noooo hahahha qt

    • @PatAndAgnes
      @PatAndAgnes  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hehe yan yung isa sa mga upcoming vlogs

  • @FevSe20
    @FevSe20 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    why is it so hard to come out?

  • @motivatzy2883
    @motivatzy2883 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    OMYGUSH I MISSED YOU MY PARENTS

  • @mayelpngn
    @mayelpngn 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    attendance check mga ma!!!! 🥹

    • @PatAndAgnes
      @PatAndAgnes  26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Check!!

    • @mayelpngn
      @mayelpngn 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PatAndAgnes omg!!!!!! 🥹

  • @angelicacastillo7669
    @angelicacastillo7669 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    huuugs w/ consent 🥹🫂 ily both, sana makapapicture ako sa apr 27, See you sa Daet!! 🥹

  • @lyricvideo1999
    @lyricvideo1999 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is really heartwarming. Thank you guys! Been watching your videos for a while now, super happy 🫶 ako, I'm still processing things, hoping me and my love get to experience this phase soon. 🫶