How we came out and what we know now in our late 20s | PatNes Stories

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  • @lukeyitsnadz
    @lukeyitsnadz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    As a closeted bisexual at the moment, sobrang heartwarming ng video na ito🥺 Sa future na ako magcome out sa majority ng fam ko, for now, enjoy-enjoy muna and taking things slow. thank you mga ma for the representation!!!🏳‍🌈

  • @jenalynjuntilla4824
    @jenalynjuntilla4824 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Yung statement na , " as much time as you took para matanggap mo yung sarili mo, sila din kailangan din nila ng oras para iprocess yung lahat ng yun", "you need to also give them time".😭😭
    Right now yan din yung struggle ko , I've been into 8 years relationship right now.And until now hirap padin tanggapin yung parents ko yung gantong klase ng relationship ang gusto ko.Thank you so much for reminding me that it took time, grabe it hits different 😭😭I hope you do more vlog like this to inspire many people.Thank you Patnes😭❤️🫶

  • @jelliannedecasa9063
    @jelliannedecasa9063 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I also have always known elementary palang that I am a lesbian, but as somebody who grew up sa conservative home and provincial culture, I never knew how to really come out “properly”. I would bring girlfriends and introduce them as bestfriends, then when I was confronted by my fam about being gay, I flat out denied and changed the topic, then I became out with family and friends but had my family restricted sa social media, and then I finally removed the restrictions, but refused to answer questions. My family are homophobic, I know that for sure kase they would have side comments re people from LGBTQIA community. But then one day, my mom died, and I snapped and came out to my dad (we were surrounded by family) - during my mom’s wake. I came out, more so they would know about my SOGIE while they are still alive, and less so that they will accept me. I did not care anymore what my family thinks. It did not matter what they think, I will live my truth, while simultaneously being my father’s kid, my grandparents’ grandaughter, my family’s family. I am finally out.

  • @RovieMae
    @RovieMae 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    for someone na hindi pa out like me, your vlog comforts me. thank you for using your platform mga mama ko

  • @crysteleugenio826
    @crysteleugenio826 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gusto ko yung line ni Agnes na si Pat yung pinaka nagpading sa kanya hahaha. Love you guys! 💛🫶

  • @sandyruzgal6931
    @sandyruzgal6931 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So while watching this vlog, hindi ko namalayan na tumulo na yung luha ako. I think this video gives me comfort and I'm also happy for the both of you po, mama Agnes and mama Pat. Wala lang po, sobrang proud lang po ako sa inyo, sa mga pagsubok na pinagdaanan niyo hanggang sa kung nasaan man kayo ngayon. I wish that some day I will find that strength to come out. I also want to share na I feel that yung message niyo para sa younger self niyo is parang naging message niyo rin for me,medyo assuming ko sa part na ito pero na feel ko lang po na para rin sa akin yun so ayun po I just wanna thank you po for that and also for making this vlog, I hope you continue to make more vlogs kasi isa po kayo sa mga pahinga ko. Thank you for being an inspiration for us. I love you both!💛

  • @seyangsmole7089
    @seyangsmole7089 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bakit naman every vlog inevitable maiyak ako?? Relate si bading huhu love u parents!! Thank u for always inspiring people 🫶🏻 You are home. 🤍

  • @ellainezeaa
    @ellainezeaa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yung vid sa duloooo huuhu bat naiiyak akooo 😭🥹

  • @MADesigns_
    @MADesigns_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So proud of you both! I’m sure this vlog may help other closeted people feel represented and seen 💙💛 Love always wins

  • @moratatrishanicolem9750
    @moratatrishanicolem9750 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    more vlogs plsssssss

  • @china_heart
    @china_heart 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    present mga maaaaa!!! 🫶 loveu always my engaged parents! 😍❤️

  • @justme_KN
    @justme_KN 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mahal ko kayooo PATNES ❤✨ thank you for being a big inspiration to us 🌈

  • @gellaromales
    @gellaromales 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    we're so proud for the both of u our parents 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @Ali_Girl
    @Ali_Girl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks for the coming out story po na shinare niyo mga momshie super useful po siya para sakin sa future kasi as of now im not ready to come out as bi kasi baka di ako matangap ng family and reltaives ko si mama alam ko matatangap ako pero yung oba sa family and relatives namin im not sure but i just wanna say thank u for the representation mga momshie thank i din po mga mama for inspiring us mga ferson na di pa nakaka pag out

  • @KeonPH
    @KeonPH 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love wins. ❤

  • @justimbastekaryllemaries.8130
    @justimbastekaryllemaries.8130 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    aaaaaa, palagi akong kinikilig kapag may bago kayong upload ಥ⁠‿⁠ಥ thank u, parents :')) tama kayo na coming out is not a one-time but a process. love u both so much!!!! 💗

  • @ellie199x6
    @ellie199x6 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm crying😢 How I wish one day naging brave enough ako to come out to my family

  • @kzyrlst
    @kzyrlst 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congrats Mommies!! Can't wait naman yung future wedding niyo 🥺❤

  • @trixzja
    @trixzja 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love u parents!! you’ll always be an inspiration not just to me but to other people 💟🙏

  • @babeviancm
    @babeviancm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    waaahhhh im crying HUHUHUHUH. Labyu mga mama ko.

  • @Josh21014
    @Josh21014 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ma, sana all ako sa inyo :( dapat ganyan din ginawa ko dati.. dapat ndi ako nagtatago kung anu ako ma. until now nasa Secret Relationship pa rin ako :(

  • @jonahgalfo
    @jonahgalfo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sobrang sarap nyo panoorin

  • @saaammartinez
    @saaammartinez 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hnggg love you both!! Thank you for the representation and hope that it will get better 😊

  • @joy_totheworldofrainbow
    @joy_totheworldofrainbow 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my partner and I never come out to our families,but we know that alam din naman nila,by the way 8th anniversary namin next month☺️

  • @deniellemeer5913
    @deniellemeer5913 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love u mga ma ❤ thank u sa inspiration and representation 🥹

  • @ma.agnestimbang7576
    @ma.agnestimbang7576 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    more vlogs parents 🫶🤙

  • @keithleengentica3137
    @keithleengentica3137 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    finally can watch your vlogs again

  • @jeshceldejuan1476
    @jeshceldejuan1476 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you mga ma!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @nicolepugeda5600
    @nicolepugeda5600 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ILYSM, YOU GUYS

  • @Justvibin16
    @Justvibin16 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so happy for both of you mama pat and mama agnes❤❤❤

  • @jenalynjuntilla4824
    @jenalynjuntilla4824 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So proud of you two❤️

  • @sera3967
    @sera3967 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is so heartwarming 🩵☁️💛

  • @malfigi4019
    @malfigi4019 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All will be alright in time ~💕💕

  • @raine105
    @raine105 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you both ❤

  • @ma.cecildioquino8082
    @ma.cecildioquino8082 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LabYu always❤❤❤

  • @jennysimsuangco1418
    @jennysimsuangco1418 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    labyu PatNes💗

  • @nadja.canete
    @nadja.canete 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🥹♥️ love u guys!!!!

  • @malfigi4019
    @malfigi4019 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you both! Looking forward to more of your stories n blogs! 🥰

  • @jessaaricayabito-on1533
    @jessaaricayabito-on1533 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    loveyouu maaaa

  • @07kanne
    @07kanne 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LOVE YOU!!

  • @motivatzy2883
    @motivatzy2883 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMYGUSH I MISSED YOU MY PARENTS

  • @nins500
    @nins500 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Saan available yung shirt ni Agnes?

  • @alyssacastillo4503
    @alyssacastillo4503 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yung long sleeves sa 14:03 yan po yung suot mo sa Flashback musical concert noooo hahahha qt

    • @PatAndAgnes
      @PatAndAgnes  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hehe yan yung isa sa mga upcoming vlogs

  • @mayelpngn
    @mayelpngn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    attendance check mga ma!!!! 🥹

    • @PatAndAgnes
      @PatAndAgnes  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Check!!

    • @mayelpngn
      @mayelpngn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PatAndAgnes omg!!!!!! 🥹

  • @angelarmena8958
    @angelarmena8958 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @nicolefernandez8839
    @nicolefernandez8839 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💗💗💗

  • @FevSe20
    @FevSe20 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    why is it so hard to come out?

  • @angelicacastillo7669
    @angelicacastillo7669 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    huuugs w/ consent 🥹🫂 ily both, sana makapapicture ako sa apr 27, See you sa Daet!! 🥹

  • @lyricvideo1999
    @lyricvideo1999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is really heartwarming. Thank you guys! Been watching your videos for a while now, super happy 🫶 ako, I'm still processing things, hoping me and my love get to experience this phase soon. 🫶