#7 Talk To Me About Free Mixing || Chai With My Bhai

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  • @hm-hq4bf
    @hm-hq4bf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    This is what happens when u study the deen, your heart becomes so soft. May Allah increase you all in beneficial knowledge and sincerity ameen

  • @khidrrr
    @khidrrr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    This is why I love this channel. REAL issues are discussed and dissected. BarakaAllahu feekum! Jazakumullah khayr.

  • @____5t
    @____5t 7 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    46:03 had me shook, you have everyones respect

  • @starsighting7167
    @starsighting7167 7 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Alot of guys in my ethic community think im rude or mean because I dont say salam to the men. I dont want people thinking im mean, but I dont feel comfortable saying salam to men because most of the time they start a conversation

  • @maryamluu6410
    @maryamluu6410 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Saad my brother may Allah bless you. All of you!!

  • @maxkellerman4313
    @maxkellerman4313 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Look how beautiful Allaah's religion is - He سبحانه و تعالى has put these rules in place to save and protect us.

  • @bobsanches2178
    @bobsanches2178 7 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    brother dawah man don't worry about coming across angry or too serious especially concerning topics like these. sometimes i see another dawah figures talking about very serious and important topics but they'll be smiling and busting bare jokes for the large majority of the video. That leads me ,sometimes, to not take the issue they are bringing froward seriously, but alhamdu lilah you are not one of these people. keep up the good work bro and may allah make our actions and intentions pure.

  • @maryam_harbawi
    @maryam_harbawi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a Revert ive never really understood the problem with free mixing. But i feel this video really highlites why, and in the most beautiful way possible.

  • @AymanTravelTransport
    @AymanTravelTransport 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    And people will argue "come on, it's the 21st century" - well, it's not enough to not fall into the evil, we need to stay as FAR AWAY from the evil AS POSSIBLE, Allah didn't say "don't do it", he said "don't come near it" - and can you do a topic about living in non-muslim countries?

  • @sabinaeasmin7181
    @sabinaeasmin7181 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Very Heart Felt 45:38 .... understanding our deen shouldn't be this complicated .... we come to those with knowledge, these answers are needed to guide us. I completely understand where this brother is coming from and why he posed this question. May Allah reward you all

  • @ahmedw5
    @ahmedw5 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Im glad you guys increased the time. 20 min is not enough.

  • @nahalbutt6178
    @nahalbutt6178 7 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    you guys should do this series as an audio podcast, would be helpful to listen to this while commuting and stuff

    • @muffinman9162
      @muffinman9162 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Nahal Butt go to clipconverter on your internet browser and copy this link, click MP3 and download the file, the site allows you to download long videos

  • @tasneembahadur4944
    @tasneembahadur4944 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Really good explanation on free mixing thanks bhai's :)

  • @Amatullah_1
    @Amatullah_1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    May Allah bless you and reward you brothers and everyone else involved. I can see the sincerety of your hearts. Watching your videos really brings peace to my heart and makes me love islam more

  • @syeda2367
    @syeda2367 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This video was so beneficial and I love the structure and the format of the series too. I can see how stridez (?) is beginning to pick up a lot of Imrans mannerisms and characteristics in the way he talks and expresses himself😆
    May Allah bless you all for the time and effort you put in for these videos.

  • @farryabdi7668
    @farryabdi7668 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    subhanaAllah walai its so touching! i think even social media and commenting here is free mixing!! am done walai i fear Allah

  • @zeenat9564
    @zeenat9564 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Alhamdulillah another fantastic video. Was much needed especially for the time and place we live. May Allah reward you all for your efforts. Ameen

  • @Yusuf-dw1cq
    @Yusuf-dw1cq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Where's the chai?

  • @AlaaSaeed23
    @AlaaSaeed23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    14:20
    The brother meant this ayah:
    "و ما كان لمؤمن ولا مؤمنة إذا قضى الله و رسوله أمراً أن يكون لهم الخيرةُ من أمرهم"
    Surat Al-Ahzab - Ayah 36

  • @strivinghope
    @strivinghope 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the points you guys mentioned! Barak Allahu feekum

  • @muslimdesimom1897
    @muslimdesimom1897 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alhumdulliah, great discussion, Inshallah may Allah make it easy to condense.

  • @yasirqaalib4971
    @yasirqaalib4971 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jazakuaallah khaeran ya ikhwati may allah incress you in knowledge and i aska allah for my and you to meet one day i love you guys for the sake of allah because you are defending the sunnah

  • @maryammehmood5790
    @maryammehmood5790 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    May Allah bless you brothers! Ameen

  • @user-qg1kn5pb8t
    @user-qg1kn5pb8t 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Been waiting for this ALL day :D

  • @fatimagul638
    @fatimagul638 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    jazakallah khayr brothers
    whatever Allah azawajal and our prophet saw told us is all good for us , but to cling on this within the society where free mixing is not considered bad and all other kinds of pressure it is so difficult , may Allah help all Muslims around the world

  • @jarent2652
    @jarent2652 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    nurses and doctors don't cover arms due to hygiene, sleeves carry germs. in a place like the hospital it can be fatal.

  • @sadafahmed3387
    @sadafahmed3387 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mash Allah, Soubana Allah, Alhamdulilah, Allah O Akbar.
    May Allah Swt Almighty guide us /and increase us in our Imaan, deen and the Sunna, guidance, closer and closer to the Sunna, ameen.

  • @sufiyusufi4476
    @sufiyusufi4476 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nice title, give a set time every week so we can have our chair ready at that time.

  • @justsaying3645
    @justsaying3645 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    JazakAllahu khair

  • @ahmadb2039
    @ahmadb2039 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Brother I'm at the start of vid then how can somebody work nearly every job contains men and women

  • @amalsoo6596
    @amalsoo6596 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    بارك الله فيك

  • @ROBLOXPlayerish
    @ROBLOXPlayerish 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wallah this never happened to me, I'm first Masha Allah :) Good videos my akhs keep it up

  • @anisaali9013
    @anisaali9013 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Subhan'Allah Subhan'Allah

  • @amira989
    @amira989 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mashallah 😭✨

  • @msh1980
    @msh1980 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    سبحان الله الهم اغفرلنا امين

  • @Sweetstarr100
    @Sweetstarr100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah it's true if you're working in hospital you have to be bare up to the elbows. They say it's to prevent diseases

  • @anonymousbeing2418
    @anonymousbeing2418 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can u please release the video on exams and fasting before Ramadan?

  • @shanjidachoudhury5838
    @shanjidachoudhury5838 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Issues can change (i.e. different diseases which we are fighting, times are different, etc.) but human nature does not.
    1:08:46 brother Abu Bakr's face is my face

  • @gamalaikranosman8013
    @gamalaikranosman8013 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video

  • @ummmaryamummmaryam8892
    @ummmaryamummmaryam8892 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Does anyone know what the name of that tafsir book was and who the author was. Couldn't catch the name clearly Jazakallah in advance

  • @ahmedabdihafidkamaldin2394
    @ahmedabdihafidkamaldin2394 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I wish u guys would be brief ...... I just see the time and get devastated

    • @ummaaisha5195
      @ummaaisha5195 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      unique abdi Really? I get so excited when the video is long! :D

    • @QashMaz
      @QashMaz 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      unique abdi ...lolol

    • @ShhhutUp
      @ShhhutUp 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      unique abdi agreed

    • @khidrrr
      @khidrrr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      unique abdi it's long for a reason, though? I mean, it isn't just a black and white issue. it needs context and knowledge behind it and the explanation of the hikmah, etc...

  • @ilyasyahya2536
    @ilyasyahya2536 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    مع السلامة
    To the timer, your time was not used to the best extent... but oh well 😂

  • @osman2540
    @osman2540 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Uni is bad fitnaaaaaasaaaaaah

  • @youngk596
    @youngk596 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ali dawah sent me here.

  • @nadeeraabdulrahman6504
    @nadeeraabdulrahman6504 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think I know where this issue is mainly targeted at and it's sad that people connect hikmah with age. Subhana Allah just as Allah created us with different physical features, He created us with different levels of understanding and understanding is not something that comes with age, rather it is a gift from Allah. There were so many companions who surpassed Abdullah ibn Abbas in terms of age, but it was him with his small age that Allah chose to grant the ability to understand His book best. A person's level of knowledge should not be measured based on how much it is but how much of it he understands. The prophet pbuh said "من يرد الله به خيرا يفقه في الدين" and not "يعلمه الدين". Just try your best to keep tabs on your intentions and bi ithnillah Allah will be with you.

  • @dawahtube136
    @dawahtube136 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What happend before br saad cried video got cut

  • @kinzachohan7753
    @kinzachohan7753 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    subhanAllah. jazakAllah

  • @Ll_jfdk
    @Ll_jfdk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I broke down at 46:00 subhan Allah 😥

  • @waihedakhtar2579
    @waihedakhtar2579 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    it's a bit extreme views. if there's no females in NHS how do you think our sisters will be able to give birth get treatment from females

  • @Sophia-ey2qq
    @Sophia-ey2qq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Assalumu Alaikum

  • @SHAJ3304
    @SHAJ3304 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why did brother Sa'd cry?

  • @starsighting7167
    @starsighting7167 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a serious question someone please answer. In my culture when guests come over you have to go and say salam, For example if husband and wife come over, my parents want me to go downstairs to say salam even though the man is sitting there. Would that be considered a mixed gathering?

    • @RnBCutz
      @RnBCutz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, women can give salaam to men, (and the other way round) even if they are not their Maharim. The obligation or the order to give the salaam and return it, is a general thing for all Muslims and something Prophet Muhammad and his companions did during his time. When salaam is given to the opposite gender, it must be kept professional, there must be no hand shaking, hugs or kisses etc, and if the women is young or is uncomfortable because of the fear of Fitnah the rule changes and its best if she doesn't even be in the same room as the man or even look at him. But in general, it is ok for men and women to give and return the salaam if done professionally in a halal manner.

  • @drahman7269
    @drahman7269 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    shouldn't of delayed the exam video , exams have already started , it's gonna be too late when the video comes out

  • @Umer-
    @Umer- 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can a woman become a doctor. for example a gp.

  • @millionfish
    @millionfish 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Without voting, how do you expect the Muslims in Britian to be treated fairly? Have you not learned from the Tory government?

  • @theunknown8857
    @theunknown8857 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    جيد جدا

  • @deeqa4942
    @deeqa4942 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where’s the chai tho?

  • @fulanah_4
    @fulanah_4 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    is Sa'ad 'Imran's (blood) brother? if yes who is older?

    • @KharismaAnkh
      @KharismaAnkh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Imran . if i remember correctly

    • @saadibnmansur
      @saadibnmansur 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ayu Ayu Asalaamualaykum, Saad is younger

    • @RkRk-kz2gm
      @RkRk-kz2gm 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ayu Ayu, yes they're and 'Imran is older

  • @user-wn6ik9xz1y
    @user-wn6ik9xz1y 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Did you just say voting is impermissible ?? not refuting your point but never heard that in my life

    • @fpatel7772
      @fpatel7772 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      theres a lot of diff. opinions on it. I have heard this tho, am interested to see what their points are..

    • @muffinman9162
      @muffinman9162 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mini Mo the reason it is said is because Shari'a/Allah's law is to prevail however voting in a democratic election shows that the laws of men running in election is better than Allah's. However, some scholars like Sheikh WasiUllah Abbas et al have said it is allowed to vote in recent UK general elections as certain parties and more for the Muslims and the lesser of two evils. It is an iffy issue and I personally do not vote.

    • @freestylerhus
      @freestylerhus 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mini Mo Law is only for Allah , not for man. voting in a democracy is voting for man to make law.

    • @fpatel7772
      @fpatel7772 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      but then things like the muslim ban happens...

    • @fpatel7772
      @fpatel7772 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Freestyler Hus not necessarily, not everyone is out to kill us at all times. Most of the time there are other motives and the killings happen as a by product. Not saying that's okay, but not everyone is an enemy.

  • @sskplo_
    @sskplo_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Imran at 17:42 😂😂😂😂

  • @starsighting7167
    @starsighting7167 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Does that mean we cant go to University?

    • @mohamodislam9247
      @mohamodislam9247 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Riham Elhassan
      For a necessity you can

    • @LuLu-cq8vk
      @LuLu-cq8vk 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if its not for a necessity but something u wanted to do?

    • @Khalid-kp1mu
      @Khalid-kp1mu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I firmly believe we can't.
      There are too many scholars who have prohibited this.Infact I couldn't find one senior scholar permitting this.
      at least we should make sure our children don't get into this situation.

  • @tadhkirahbookstore8320
    @tadhkirahbookstore8320 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    just mention names cuz so we can know who to stay away from in terms of taking knowledge

    • @fpatel7772
      @fpatel7772 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      don't think its about names, they said at the beginning this subject was highly demanded..

  • @parvez7572
    @parvez7572 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    You can't simply say women (and men) have to stay at home to avoid free mixing and zina. It's not suitable in this day and age, Both sets have work and study to provide for their family. In this case, we must have the middle ground.

  • @saalim6485
    @saalim6485 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOLz

  • @xsammieftwx
    @xsammieftwx 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    lol

  • @deltrotter3371
    @deltrotter3371 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Class. Looking forward to the voting episode. Haitham al-haddad is saying it's obligatory for us to partake in democratic elections...

  • @Sophia-ey2qq
    @Sophia-ey2qq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    first lol

  • @Kingad.7
    @Kingad.7 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    can Muslims date Muslims?

    • @alhomsiyyah
      @alhomsiyyah 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ahdiaby01 123 Dating is a practice that developed outside of Islam and often entails physical, emotional, and social intimacy between two people. This is haram as it is prohibited by the Qur'an and Sunnah. Often these boyfriends and girlfriends, irrespective of religion, have no intention of marriage or commitment, but they engage in extra-marital relationships because they're lustful and impatient, especially young Muslims. May Allah ﷻ protect us from this.

    • @Khalid-kp1mu
      @Khalid-kp1mu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ahdiaby01 123 NO

    • @Kingad.7
      @Kingad.7 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      What why?

    • @Kingad.7
      @Kingad.7 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      We're gonna eventually get married

    • @farryabdi7668
      @farryabdi7668 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ahdiaby01 123 Hehe No the only halaal date we have are dates from madina the city of our beloved prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)