Mothers and Daughters | 24 Hours in A&E | Banijay Documentaries
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ย. 2024
- A powerful and poignant episode focusing on mothers and daughters, and coming to terms with mortality.
Filmed around the clock with ninety-one cameras for over two six week periods at King’s College Hospital in South London, each programme focuses on people treated within the same 24-hour period and offers unprecedented
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I lost my husband to small cell carcinoma 11 yrs. ago. We had that very talk about end of life and what he wanted. That was the hardest conversation we have ever had and we have to cater to their wishes and let them die with the dignity they deserve. We had a dog that we had to put down several years before his diagnosis and she was cremated. Her name was Kadibug and we had rescued her from a very abusive man. She looked at my husband as her knight in shining armor and she used to literally push me out of the bed at night. I told him I felt like the dog and she was the wife. When we had the discussion about the end of life he told me he wanted to be cremated and he wanted his and her ashes mixed together and put in an urn, which I had the funeral home do. Where you saw him you saw her and where you saw her you saw him. She spent all of her time with her daddy and she is still with him today. I can still see them waling along the banks of a pond or lake with him fishing and her running and playing. She was his fishing partner and that was an EVERY DAY THING. Beautiful memories. I miss them both with all of my heart.
Your comment brought tears to my eyes. What a lovely tribute to your loving husband and dog. Watch for the signs that they send you, to let you know they are still with you.
Bless you. What you did for your husband and his dog is so beautiful. I'm so sorry for your loss ❤
I hope you smile in your heart when you think of them. You must have been (and still are) a terrific wife and fur person Mom.
Matheus is a very intelligent young man! He will go far in life.
Agreed. He seems like a really nice young man.
He is lovely
there's a particular kind of female kinship which is shown so well in this waiting room chat. i think we undervalue it as a therapy, but for me, just opening up & blurting about my problems to random women i don't really know has so much value, and what they also share or initiate, which most people would consider 'deeply private', makes me think that it holds great value for them too. we really are so much stronger together.
Oh my goodness! I LOVE the lady in the first scene. “Haven’t you heard of EBay? Can’t you sell him?” I’m dead. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 💀
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Best comments of the day 😂😂🤣
This made me cry 😢Josephine was so much like my mum. Her laying in that hospital bed, oxygen nasal prongs, the look on her face and her difficulty breathing. Lost my mum 9 months ago. She wasn’t even sick. Got a call at 1230 hours and was at her bedside at 4.30pm while she was taking her last breath 😢
I lost my mum in a similar way. She did have COPD but had been active and engaged up until the very end. I prayed to be with both my parents when they passed, and I was -- they passed 56 days apart. I'm sorry for your loss, Joanne. Five years later, I still miss Mummy.
@@josi4251 my mum had COPD as well but she seemed to be doing ok. My sincere condolences for loosing your parents so close together. I miss my mum so much. It’s really hard for me to even think about it. Sometimes I have no choice because I’m a nurse so I see and care for people who are at the end of their life constantly. Sending hugs to you
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my father in law I cared for 5 years for from congestive heart failure in october. He had it for years. Then I suddenly lost my dad to the same disease in December. It's devastating
The first thing I thought is she’s so physically and mentally exhausted. I feel terrible for her.
The woman whose Mother sent her to boarding school at 15 and only saw her two weeks a year should stop beating herself up because she gets now emotional in front of her Mother. You have nothing to be sorry for. You were going through a terrible time and whatever you were/are feeling is absolutely okay. I wish you happiness.
I think it's sad that we're so scared of death that we don't even let a dying person talk about it so they can find peace for themselves. Watching them cut her off over and over when she needed to voice her feelings was hard to watch :(
I agree...one of the hardest things I ever did was to tell my dad "it's okay to go if you're ready"!! He was the strongest man I knew. I just didn't want to see him suffer and be in pain anymore. He went peacefully...but I absolutely miss him so much 💔😢💔
@@deannakinsman6790god bless you I was there with my mom ❤️
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I know, that was an awful moment. She should have been there for her and kept her fears to herself.
@@madelainemadelaine2934 thank you for saying this, the lack of compassion for her daughter in these comments is awful to see.
Finally a photo of her mom at the end, how nice she looked
Take Josephine home. Dim the lights, light some candles, have any loved ones nearby, relax, hold mums hand, wash her, make sure she has everything she needs, and just let oeace wash over her. The way she described her mum it cant be easy for her to be laying in bed in pain with no hair, no makeup, ect. Then her daughter telling her to shut up when shes trying to say its time? Oh come on.
Exactly.
I know where the daughter’s coming from because she doesn’t want to see her mom pass away. In her mind she thinks there’s going to be miraculous healing and her mom is going to be better and she’s going to live for another 10 years but life isn’t like that. The thing about it is that, even like my mom had to pass away in the hospital and from the moment she was told she was going to die and she had no choice, once they had her settled on a ward, my sister called me right away, I asked my sister to put the phone up to my mom’s ear where I was able to say a heartfelt thank you for being a great mom looking after me when I became a type one diabetic at nine years old and for always being there for me.(I lived in another province and my husbands health was changing.) Mom and I talked every single day and I was the only one in the family that did that. My sister and brother took turns at the hospital with her and she passed away five days later. It’s upsetting losing somebody you were very close to, but you can’t change the outcome when the body is breaking down. One thing mom said to me on that last phone call is that she had a very long lived great life. I’m not made me happy. She passed away at 84 years old.
I don’t like the way the daughter talk to the mother at all in this video. I know she’s afraid actually she’s terrified of losing her mom, but she has to face the fact that her mom is going to pass away and at the end we find out she did pass away , there was no stopping. Now the healing begins with her at this time. You have to be thankful that they were our moms at the end.
Matheus is such a sweet boy! 💖 It makes me miss my innocent days when I want to be with my Grandma more than my own Mom. Olivia was so adorable and brave, and looks so much like my niece.
I recently lost my mom to small cell lung cancer. it was found very late and she refused treatment. I remember having that same moment when I realized she was going to die soon and all I could do was help make her as comfortable as possible. it only took a few weeks. in a way it was easier because I never thought there was a chance she’d make it. I never had that hope. but at that point it isn’t about you or what you want. it’s about how they want to go.
RIP Mrs. Josephine....Wow she was such a beautiful lady...even before she passed....my condolences to her family...It must have been very hard to them..❤I actually cried....
The womwn in the waiting room are marvellous. I hope all went well for them
I remember seeing this episode years ago, it really stuck with me. It particularly resonates, my mother died of lung cancer at roughly the same age. I was ready for it, I was just glad she didn't suffer too much towards the end, but my sisters took it quite a bit harder. Tough times.
My aunt refused treatment .
Didn't wanted go through with treatment.
My grandmother had lung cancer as well and it also spread to her brain. That was how she died. I remember we were at my grandparents house for vacation. Since they live 14 hours away we usually go for 2 weeks during the summer to see them. She was very rough during that time and my mom decided to stay with them after our vacation was over. She died a couple days after we were back home, and my mom thinks she was just waiting for the time when all 4 of her kids were back home.
Mom is still a nice looking woman. And, she’s rocking the bald. I love it.
The lady with cancer... The daughter stated that her mother has beautiful eyes... The daughter and the mother both have the same beautiful eyes. Mom's eyes still sparkle with youth.
What a brave little girl!!! She reminds me of myself when I was little and we share the same name. She is so chatty and cute. She was much braver than me as a child. I was also super accident prone
She has a future in politics. What an engaging wee chatterbox ❤
This was a rough one for me to watch. Cancer, sickness and mortality really hit home.
I don’t even know these people and I feel for them.
That little girl rules.
I had the hardest decision to make letting my brother go 😢😢😢I had to respect his decision which I did...Sept 2010...He had cancer 😢😢😢. I miss him so much...He was 51 years old when he die😢 😢😢...
Josephines family is great. It must be so hard to watch your mom die.😢 you can tell they love each other so much.
It's so hard I watched my mom .She was in Hospice no food no water . Morphine every hour it took a while but she finally went home. I prayed for her to go to heaven she was in so much pain .I love you Mom I miss you every day ❤😢🌹🤍🌹🤍💔💔
@@jackiemarini3203 im sorry for your loss.
Ughhhh my heart is breaking made me think of my mom 😢 I have tears in my eyes miss you mom everyday ❤
The way the daughter described mom, looking at the mom I could see her that way .
i wish i could rely upon my mum to look after me, and allow me to look after her. i think that we probably love each other more than anyone else in the world, but i just hasn't worked out. bless all these families, and mums & daughters in particular, who've allowed themselves to be loved and cared for 💖
I hope it does work out for you.
It took me a huge change in my life to get my mum and daughter relationship back.
@@emmaleary3767 thank you x
It's a disgrace the way those two women refuse to listen to their dying mother. She knows she's dying and she wants a DNR (do not resuscitate) order set in place. It is not helping her to have to listen to those two cutting her off and refusing to have the conversation she so desperately needs to have with them. So concerned with their own feelings they are giving no consideration to hers, in fact they're quite dismissive when she wants to talk about the situation.
The one lady, short haired partner of the daughter, did listen to her. When the daughter left to cry Josephine asked her if 'you have my back?' and the lady answered yes.
if i was in the moms place i would tell her to f-off and let the dnr stick her choice not the daughters
That little five year old girl is a doll! She said she was so brave! True! Ten stitches in her head. Wow! And such a chatterbox. I bet she is a lot of fun. I think she will become a great actress one day! 🤩
Love the nurse in the beginning! Funny and compassionate.
Mateus is an excellent young man
Oh gosh, I see Josephine’s eyes and I see my dad on his last day. She’s accepted the end is coming, just wish her daughter would accept it too. As much as it hurt to lose my dad, I was relieved he passed away because his suffering was ended. He was very sick and lived longer than he should have.
We can’t judge the daughter, we all try to do our best.
Every single patient and family member in this episode was lovely. X
My heart goes out to Jacquie …. But Josephine is the one that’s suffering and does t want to be in pain nor live like this anymore. Unfortunately Jacquie needs to comes to terms with that ❤️😢🙏
It is so difficult for families of a terminal patient to get on the same page about end of life care.
Do your research for what YOU want, before it comes time, and put it in writing. Have that conversation with your family no matter how you think they will react. It is important for them to know what you want and to have time to process it.
I see the fear written all over that daughters face she is terrified to lose her mother she is in denial
I felt the same way when my mom was sick, i was so terrified to lose her i was in denial and sometimes refused to even see her because i couldnt cope with accepting her mortality. Thankfully she survived and is still here beautiful and gracious as ever but part of me still hides that away. I want her to just be my mom forever, i dont know if i can live without her.
Josephine has terminal cancer. At this point, it would be a blessed release. Josephine knows what's coming, accepts. Jacquie doesn't want to let go.
Her daughter is a bully. I know it's hard to watch, do and all but I wouldn't want my mom to suffer. I watched my mom suffer until she made the decision to stop. I respected her decision.
Josephine should've been on hospice long before the filming of this episode. I especially didn't like the daughter's attitude.
It’s hard for some people to let go of a loved one. Her daughter is doing her best. Some people don’t want hospice. Her daughter looked after her at home.
@@kimglover6968 How judgemental of you. She loves her Mother and doesn’t want her to die. Shame on you!
@@almaeclu Too bad. She loves her Mother and wants her to fight. Shame on you for judging others when they are in the worst moments of their lives!
This is a great show. Thanks for the full episode
The look of fear and anger in Jacquie’s eyes scare’s me. I wouldn’t want her angry at me.
Sending hugs love and prayers from Canada🇨🇦 to all those this film that were were scared or losing loved ones particularly the daughter of the mother with metastasized cancer.
This was a very tough show to partake in. But it’s important to consider these thanks is it something that we all will share in at some points in our life!🕊♥️🇨🇦🙏🏻🕊
I love the answer the Mom said when asked if she had cancer, and she said I don't believe in it!!!
My Mom was Josephine and she passed with brain cancer in 1995 .Also Dad with colon cancer
Rest in Peace Ms. Josephine.💜🙏🏾
I watched my mama die and it was/ is the hardest thing I've experienced. I had to decide whether to turn off the ventilator or not but her body was shutting down and she a ready to go.
Bless Josephine and all the moms. I miss my Mom. Beautiful relationships on here and great care
14:19 wow that is one sweet, loving and smart kid ❤
Josephine has beautiful skin. She is quite lovely as is her daughter. Bless them both.
Beautiful tribute to life.
I don’t think people realize how truly cruel it is to force people to fight when they’re ready to let go of life and it’s just a constant stream of suffering for them. We wouldn’t do that to our pets, why do it to our parents? 🤍
Someone needed to take that daughter aside and explain death and dying and to respect the mother's wishes. It's not about what she wants but what her mother wants. She was being very selfish.
5 yo Olivia is a gorgeous little chatterbox ❤
Wow! Your mom looked like a softer version of Joan Crawford. What a gorgeous woman. Her daughter is also gorgeous. It's those eyes...
Cat bites can be very difficult and they get infected easily. There is something called cat bite fever.
I can't have kids for other reasons, but i make friends with kids and they call me there big sister.... you still can connect to children, even closer sometimes. I also know a lot about cancer... My brother and my mother and my dad all had cancer
That little girl is so cute! I would have loved to have a talkative friend like her at that age. Lol.
I love the family of Josie, she was a beautiful woman.
30:19 The Daughter with the crazy look is giving her false hope and scaring everybody else with that crazy Eye look.
We never want to let our Moms go. Even if it’s far better for them.
The little girl is adorable. 😊
Wow!! Josephine died March 12th of 2012 ad my husband Joe died on March the 4th of 2012. Gave me cold chills.😢😢😢
My wife of ten and a half years what's diagnosed with small cell lung cancer with 3 lesions on the brain 2014 did one round of chemo didn't want to do the radiation because she didn't want to forget Chabad 6:23 2014 she was diagnosed May 25th 2014 didn't even last a month she decided not to TH-cam radiation and no more chemo I told her I was okay with that because that's what you wanted and I wanted her to make her decisions it's not easy watching someone you love die it's one of the hardest things I've ever done
Cancer is a terrible illness to have and you fight for every day that you have and you fight for every breath that you take each day and people that do not have anything wrong with them should put themselves in someone.s shoes that have gone through it or a family member that has
This woman in the waiting room.....telling everyone else's business! 🤨🤭
And the daughter of the woman with terminal cancer....bless her, she's scared of losing her, but she's leaning perilously close to being a bully to her mother because she doesn't want her to die. 💔😢
She's scared bless her and it's not unusual for Londoners and people from the south east to talk bluntly like that ( I'm from there) it's probably how they've always talked to each other ❤
And the woman in the waiting room reminded me of my Nan, she would have shown everyone the contents of your knicker drawer, her mouth knew no boundaries 😂
Shes not a bully how rude
11 years ago today, the world lost Josie. May 28th 2021 💐
Thanks
What a lively girl little Sophia is. Reminds me of me--talk, talk, talk.
Sorry, Olivia
I’m from the Deep South USA and Sara’s mom is perfectly normal rofl! Down here we make friends in the checkout line at the store ! Lol
So much disturbing things with this family. Leave her be, comfort care, pain meds!!!!
How heartbreaking your amazing taking care of your mother 😢. Remember the take Care of you too, u can only help people after you help yourself 😊😊
I don't think it's fair for that young boy .Why don't they learn English.Thats a lot on him 😞
I hear you. I guess somebody has to rise above!
Maybe because English is difficult to learn and learning any language is more difficult the older you get. The hospital and any other place of service should use a translator.
……there were/are 1000’s of migrants’ here after WWII, who’ve never bothered to learn to speak English. They’ve always relied on their kids’, & grandkids’…………
Human brains are able to acquire language much more quickly in the early years. The trauma of immigration also interferes with adult language acquisition.
Olivia is adorable
Josephine is stunning bald. She has a beautifully shaped head, and others can see this. Being a woman, I understand hair being our crowning glory, but still. I'm sorry this had to happen. 😢 Cancer bites, I know.😒
Oh my goodness, Olivia is just the cutest thing EVER! Such a smart little girl, and funny too.
I know this is a weird question but why in these videos does the streets have back and forth lines I notice this in most videos
That's a very bright child
May Josie Eternally Redt In Peace/
Matheus is a little hero
30:12 that is not a friend, she is being extremely rude.
Shouldn't the Portuguese woman had an X-Ray on her shoulder
I find it annoying & strange that so many of these patients awaiting care do NOT have an emergency! Never get away with that here in Canada.
Some ER have 2 departments. “Resus” the department where what most people know emergency cases goes, and the “Ambulatory” where OPD patients goes that usually require immediate treatment like stitching, pain relievers, and/or injections because most offices don’t have these treatments. Some call it “Chronic” and “Acute”. Some bigger ERs have separate “Critical”, “Resus”, “Surgery” departments.
Nice TV show
My heart. .....
Annoying there are no subtitles
RIP ❤
Is the nurse a New Zealander?
Clearly.
My daughter would never be there. For me like this 💔
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Neither would my Son. We used to be glued to the hip, now he can't be bothered with me. After he left home and moved closer to his Dad, things started to change.
I’m so sorry. Hope you have other friends and family that are more caring.
@@SJC49 everyone needs caring remember there are plenty of mothers out there that are worse than horrible to their offspring and for maintaining sanity reasons a little distance is needed sadly plenty of mothers are pure evil please remember
i think Sara has every right to be selfish since she cant have children and the thought of adopting and making that child live through the cancer journey is spot on
We want our loved ones to live forever, it's usually there death that is harder to deal with then our own. But I would be willing to bet she will remember telling her dying mother to "shut up" for the rest of her life. You have to respect a love ones wish and when they decide they are ready there is nothing we can do. It's up to them, medical personal's, and a higher power if someone lives or dies. Nothing wrong with wishing for them to fight on but you don't have the right to force it own them.
I didn't like how her daughter told her to shut up
We would not treat our pets how have cancer to have the pain that we go through to be alive and on life support to be alive or to be left in a lot of pain every day
josephine was quite yellow, indicating her liver is shutting down. in my experience, she's got 30 days.
kk so what would the children want if they were in her shoes ?
The daughter is scary and menacing.
I think the daughter looks like she's in shock.
Caption please
I'm a Greek American and I hate taramasalata
It is up to there mum if she wants to have CPR done and not up to the family there mum is an adult and not a child who has to have there mind made up for them
A lad... looks like a school boy
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That daughter is a bully.
I think in that situation she was under stress and grief. She was losing her mum.
She is very hateful.
No she wasn’t. She was losing her mother. She loved her mother very much. She cared for her at home.
She is not! She loves her Mother and wants her to keep fighting. How judgemental of you. Shame.
The daughter is scared of losing her mother; she sounds cranky but it is the fear that makes her sound like she is mad.
I don't understand why english doctor's doesn't use hospital clothes instead there private clothes 🤔 imagen all bacterias body fluids they can get with them home 🤮