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When Sarcasm Can Get You in Trouble
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 เม.ย. 2015
- Why do people love to say mean things... then follow with, “I’m just joking”? There’s a bit of truth in every joke, and the hosts are calling it out! Watch out, shady palm trees!
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Loni "You have shaded me plenty of times..." Tamar: "NO, I have given you FACTS." OH SNAP LMFAO i can't with them
Beyoncé hey
Beyoncé yesss
"I'm not shady to my friends" "You have been shady to me several time Tamar" LMFAO
liliatoni and also to her sisters
Her sisters are just as shady
She probably doesn’t consider them her friends.
Beth Grace she was talking about them when she said it lmao
💀
When Tamar said she ain't shady towards her friends it got hella quiet in that audience 😂
😂 'I give facts'
lmaoooo 😂
LOL... because everyone is guilty of that
When loni tried to impersonate Tamar...I was cracking up laughing
Official ChristinaSumner finally somebody did it and it was hilarious 😂
I died 😂
Sameee 😂😂
Tears were streaming down my face! It was hysterical!
I did too! 😂😂😂😂
"we ain't talking about Tamar's flaws LLLLL...LIES!" DEAD😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅
I died and was cremated.
Mariah Muniz that was Mt favorite part. hilarious. frkn live Tamar
I laugh the rest of the video after she said that. It's not what she said it's how she said it. I miss Tamar.
@@stephenanderson1594 she was on Wendy Williams' video today
Tamar: "I'm not shady to my friends."
Jeannie: **stares**
Toni: **stares**
Towanda: **stares**
Traci: **stares**
Trina: **stares**
TheSkorpionShow: **stares**
Terrell: **stares**
TC: **stares**
DIED 😩😩😩😩
inasexymood AND YOUR POINT IS!
Tamar is a big hypocrite..she is the shadiest of them all...she loves to dish it out...but can't take it...still love her though
inasexymood Yup
inasexymood *crying* in Tay's defense though Towanda can be shady herself! even Miss Toni Braxton!
I laughed my ass off when Loni mocked Tamar!
I was on the floor... too funny...LIES
me too! lmfaooo
+Brandon Hunter Me three.
That was to funny
Me too!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love how Loni called Tamar out immediately.
Tamar is the queen at throwing shade lol
Omg yes she is
Destiney Uzaka yet she cant take it....
+JackieJacks exactly!!!
She's the queen of being a narcissist too.
I remember on Tia & Tamera, when Tia said that Tamera talks like a Valley Girl, and then went on to impersonate her, Tamera took that to heart! Lol! Tamera is sensitive when it comes to jokes.
"Lu-lu-lu-lu-LIES!!" Tamar got me dead af with that 😂😂
Loni: you've shaded me plenty times
Tamar: I GIVE FACTS
😅😅
Jessi Solorzano who's the pictures thou
😂😂😂
People who always say "just kidding" after every little "joke" is passive aggressive. They meant what they said but wanna say it in a joking manner so they get away with it, no matter how rude it is.
Elizabeth Taylor Agreed 100%
I used to do that! Haha I wanted to just mess around with them but had to say just kidding in case they got offended.
true
true..im very passive aggressive...
I agree with you.
I don't want to be roasted. Roast bring out what people really think of you.
Me too. Although I do think I'd feel fine getting roasted by my immediate family. It doesn't really matter what bad things they might think of me because we all love each other and are really close, so any insults from them don't really stick with me.
I don't have any friends that I'm close with enough to do the whole roast thing with though. I don't know if I'd trust that they were seriously just joking and didn't mean it. Maybe it just depends on how close and comfortable you are with someone and also how sensitive you are.
NiNi Curlz
Same thing for me. Only my immediate family can roast me. NO ONE else! XD
Sherry Shavon you're right because people dig reallllll deep into their inner thoughts to express how they really feel about you. i couldn't take a roast. Ive already been bullied before lol
Roasting as it's advantages and disadvantages but at the end it depends on how the person takes in all the words that the other person said there are ppl who are half hearted and won't care and others who can hold it for a very long time and even point it out to you at random times... I like watching it but I wouldn't like someone roasting me and at the same time I'm curious as to what others ( fam and friends) think of me ..
You ain't NEVER lied!!!!
I believe when Loni said "You have shaded me plenty of times." that statement should have came out of Jeannie's mouth instead.......js
Tamera is so adorable😍She's the love of my life.
Aw Lol sorry She's Taken😂😁
I see u on latoya's life and now here... you the real MVP
Unkown Girl haha. I see him everywhere too lol.
Unkown Girl Ayyy Latoya forever!!! #HuntyForLife
Ubah Ahmed yassssss 🙌
I agree with Jeannie on this one they need get to get a sense of humor it's OK to play around and roast with your friends and family members they're taking it way to serious
Sometimes people say stuff and really mean it so its all about how they say like Tamera said
Tasha Harris Agreed. But unlike Tamera, I believe that the person trying to roast you and joke with you is DIFFERENT and relatively HARMLESS compared to the person actually trying to shade you and demean you.
Tasha Harris Agreed. But unlike Tamera, I believe that the person trying to roast you and joke with you is DIFFERENT and relatively HARMLESS compared to the person actually trying to shade you and demean you.
Big Z thats why you to watch their tone of voice but i think roasting should be just family or close friends because then you know its harmless.
same
Tamar hair look like organized bedhead
lmbo
+Jayla Blackwell .... LMBO @ "organized bedhead" LOL LOLOLOL
Howling
you triiieddd it
Jayla Blackwell I'm STILL laughing about this comment 😂😂😂
Jeannie seems like the person who would enjoy a good Purge lol...
😂😂😂😂
FACTS 😂😂💯💯
Point blank and the period, most people who throw the most shade usually are the ones they can't handle it! #Boom
They do quite a bit of shading towards Jeannie, but let Jeannie say something slick at the mouth, then they look like they're ready to beat her up! #Ijs
All in all I believe they do share a genuine love for one another. On the other hand, there's a difference between joking with someone, and making every joke on their expense. Some jokes ppl can take toooooo far.
Redayvn Hughley tru dat
YAAAAAAASSSS! *applause*
Just with the Jeannie though. She DOES talk slick, especially in the first season. The thing is now is that they ALWAYS call her on it. And I love Jeannie! I first saw/learned who she was on the now-defunct, Style Network where she did a show like the Fashion Police. She does talk a bit reckless, but I truly believe it's "diarrhea at the mouth". I don't really think she has latent meaning with what she says. She IS quick and funny, sometimes, not so much... but I wish she could say more things along those lines without any drama! :)
you are soooo rightt i see it every time like let her live
Redayvn Hughley why you so indirect
Here's my problem with sarcasm. NOT EVERYONE GETS IT. People need to understand that what you say may not sound the way you mean it someone else. If you need to say something, just say it "straight." I feel like sarcasm is better used with your close friends and the people who know you well enough to know when you're joking or being serious. My close friends and I diss and make fun of each other all the time and it's not a problem at all because we know when it's a joke and when it's serious. I feel like sarcasm is a coward's way of telling someone how they truly feel.
I agree!!
I agree man that's real talk
I have come to the conclusion that at most half the population understands sarcasm and the other half don’t understand it.
"Don't say anything about a person that they can't change" is a good rule to keep in mind.
Omg...Lonnie impersonation of Tamar 😂😂😂😂😂
Tamera: Was that a shade?
LOL! So cute!
Stephanie Pierre she's such a pure soul. i love it!
Tamar hair does look like its abt to fall off lmaooo 😫😩😂😭😭😭
Lol
lol
LMAO dead at Loni's impression of Tamar bahaha
lies Tamar. she always throws shade.
Is it shady for me to say Tamar is the Shade Queen?
Nooooo
yes
She throws reasonable shade
L-L-L-L-LIES! I swear, I am SO glad they chose Tamar to be one of the hosts. I never knew of her prior to this show, and it turns out she is hilarious! I love her and what she brings to the table.
TraitorByTrade so sad she is gone
"L-l-l-l-lies!" omg Tamar 😂😂👍
L-l-l-l-lies 😂😂 loveeeee Tamar
Aw! The pregnant scoot at the end to give the hug was nice haha
If someone looks seriously hurt by what you said then you should stop joking, thats borderline bullying.
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When you're really good at sarcasm, you don't even need to say that you were joking; people will just know.
Rebby Cooper agreed
Right
"borderline tried it" lmao
I kinda miss tamer so am watching episode she is in
Supergirl D same lol
me too
Supergirl D Same
me too T_T
Fatimah D me to
You borderline tried it!
Tamar said L-L-L-L-Lies! LOL!!!
Why is Tamar so afraid of being talked about?? I understand the differences of our insecurities and sensibilty, but being THAT afraid when you're the one who loves shading/roating others, just shows how weak you are when it comes to receiving comebacks! Roasting can be fun, especially when you know yourself well and can actually laugh at yourself too!
Peace! x
La Merveille shes highly insecure and she covers it up by being the loudest in the room and pointing out other peoples flaws
JigglyJello Jay but she doesn't cover ti up though, she has admitted several times that she can dish it but she can't take it. She has also said that she is insecure about things.
Well, then she needs to be quiet.
Y r u attacking someone for expressing who they are...shows how weak u are that u feel the need to do so when she's clearly ok with sharing this information...she's says it all the time that she's insecure so ur nt saying much and if u reply back it will show how even more weak u are...speaking of dishing but cant take it
Lol, how am I weak? If she can't take it, then she shouldn't begin at first.. Admitting it doesn't help much when she continues to do the same thing.
Have a nice weekend :)
I agree with Tay Tay...I don't roast nobody because I don't wanna be roasted! That's not nice. Period point blank! If you have an underlying issue with me then tell me as a friend, but not in front of all of our friends so they can laugh at me because some people take advantage of those roasting sessions and let it all hang out, then some things are revealed that shouldn't have been in the first place. I've seen friendships destroyed because of that. No roasting for me, thank you🙊🙉🙈!
"Im not shady to my friends" - biggest lie Tamar has ever said LOL! we all know your shady Tamar!
TheRacquellShow Her sisters sure but not to her friends
Mmm never heard her shade friends only her sisters
What Tamera said for the most goes along with my thoughts on sarcastic joking. Its a fine line between someone's inner feelings and the reality of the individual being joked about. There is some truth to every joke, I believe that wholeheartedly. I believe that you can say just about anything to anyone as long as you say with it respect. So yes, it is more about how you say it as opposed to what you are saying. *Tone can make a huge difference.* Overall, this is why it is best for people to be *VERY* in tuned with themselves. It is imperative for people to embrace themselves faults and all because once you do that, nothing anyone can say about you sarcastic or not will surprise you or offend you because you'll already know your own truth. I feel like the people who will be offended are the people who haven't accepted and/or embraced the reality of their own selves. Get to know yourself fully. Thats the *only* way to defeat insecurity and prevent people from using it offensively against you. Personally, I wouldnt mind being roasted because chances are I'll already be aware of my own tendencies and if not, then I'll learn/ consider something new which will only benefit me later on if I am to be roasted again. Either way, I win.
4:40 OMG Tamera is so adorable. She just shuffled her way into Loni's arms. Cute af
Tamera is adorable.
"Was that A shade?" 😂 I love how Tamera's not hip to if.
Sarcasm shouldn't say just kidding it should be intended...I believe those people weren't being sarcastic, they were being assholes...don't use sarcasm to offend people! It's being missused
emilaysjonas great point
3:40 i died people. LMFAO
3:39 I freaking lost it with Loni!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Tamar just needs to say "Byroooon" from Madea's Big Happy Family
Lmfaoooo at the thing Loni did after she said "Lies!" 😫😫😂😂
I agree with Jeannie. It's better when the person knows you because then they know what NOT to joke about.
Tamera is so right! its not about what you say, its how you say it! I just love her lol
Tamera is literally a Disney Princess
loni and tamera have the cutest relationship cuz they would be the most unlikely friends in the group but i honestly think theyre actually closer to eachother than anyone else
Absolutely love Loni's makeup and hair today :) Not so sure about Tamar's hair though.
Me too. 😂😂
Roasts are done properly when people use facts and embellish upon those facts. Roasts are done improperly when people just use it as an excuse to say vicious things about you. Roasts are intended for people to express what they really KNOW about you (facts) -- not what they really THINK about you (opinions). You should walk away from a roast being able to laugh and say "yeah, that's true. I am kinda cheap" or "yeah, that's true. I do get excited over Starbucks." Not walk away feeling like people just stood up and insulted you. Jeannie's example of what her brother said about her was perfect. He took a factual characteristic of Jeannie's and poked fun at it. He didn't insult her or try to humiliate her. People who KNOW you, know where to draw the line.
Tamar's hair here looked a mess! Thank God she got a new hair artist!
i liked it
HashSlingingSlasher ok
Lol your sarcasm will also get you in trouble
+HashSlingingSlasher samee
Well she's fired so I guess she doesn't have to worry anymore 😂😭
To this day I laugh so hard when Tamar said “ you borderline tried it “ 😭
I forgot how funny Loni can be... She needs to do more of that on the show. The exchange between her and Tamar had me dying... Even Tamar wanted to laugh, herself!!!
Tamar know she throws shade daily, at everybody lol. I mean I like Tamar, but truth is, she'd have a ball at someone else's roast and then cry when she gets roasted. If you can dish it, you should be able to take it.
3:38 Lmfao Loni
She is Shady she be coming at Jennie with those shades
I am just loving Tamar's hair. Looks absolutely gorgeous.
Loni at 3:40 has me crying 😭😭😂😂
Joking is very touchy thing, especially when it comes to friends because someone always takes it way too far and then loses a friendship. You just have to be careful of what you say and have to know the person you're joking with is a able to dish it and also be able to take it, without getting in their feelings
There's definitely truth in someones joke. Every time
ROFL @ Loni impersonating Tamar.
Tamera: Was that a shade? LOL! she is so cute.
I love how one of the Mowry's sisters expresses herself so put together =)
Thanks for the insight
I didnt want to confuse wasnt bothered reading their names tbh
Lol
Loni: mentions several roasts
Utica: this is the time
I love roasting my friends and I love it when they dish it back out. Some ppl are just too sensitive 😂
2:25 LIESS, THE LIES YOU TELL
L-L-L-L-Lies lol Tamar😂😂😅😹
Lol Tamar said joan! That's old school dmv/bmore slang!
I agree with the statement about being able to do it with your close friends because you know at the end of the day they know you’re joking and shows that you understand each other very well.
sarcasm is weak communication period!
la-la-la-la-LIES!! 😂😂😂😂
Tamar they probably was talking about the whirlwind wig..not joking.
Its 2022 and I still come back to this clip for a good laugh !
Loni: your head not about to fall off
Tamar: she is? Girls she's on tight today (patting her wig) here lately only been watching clips with her in them
I've gotta agree with Tamar, I CAN NOT handle a roast I will literally cry not knowing how to roast back
Yeah sarcasm is still hurting people's feelings! If it's not nice, don't say it-Golden rule✨🙊
Tamera saying "was that a Shade" 😂😂
"L-L-L-L-LIES"
I agree there is a difference between shade and facts...if wat im saying is true but it hurts ur feelings then thats nt shade...
U can speak about someone's looks in a disrespectful way or like in tamera's example with her and adam..just rude and unnecessary is shade...truth and facts are not shady
+912nelle I do agree with you, but I'm sry Tamar does not always give FACTS...she gives SHADE - that is, she gives her opinion, which sometimes is NOT SPOT ON. She needs to know that she makes assumptions and generalizations about people all the time, and sometimes it might hurt their feelings. I really don't like that she called them FACTS - that offends ME.
Someone wise once told me that people who get offended easily are those with big egos.
And if you think about it with regards to this panel, it's true. Loni and Jeannie are the ones with the smallest egos... Is it a coincidence that they are able to handle and even welcome criticism more than the others? I respect Tamera and Adrienne, but this episode is very telling!
I like how every time Tamera says ”it’s
How you say it” everyone else repeats it with her like a class.
Tamera is so cute! and Loni is funny as hell!
Gosh I miss Tamar so much 😭😭😭 they had so much chemistry together 😫😫
lol Tamar "L-L-L-L-LIES"
British roasting is the best and do sarcasm the best
"you borderline tried it!" yesss
“Nooo I have given you FACTS of LIFE” 😂😂😂😂
Ok Tamar wig is killing me!!!!😳😳😒😒😒💀💀💀😂😂😭😭😭
L-l-l-l-l-l-lies had me cracking up...I luv tamar
Tamar can throw shade but can't take it smh
I am the Queen of sarcasm so that's just me
I love Tamera :) she's so sweet!
when loni start imitating tamar I DIEDDDDDD 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tamar's hair was on point! 👌
Loni tried it lol 😂😂😂
I HATE how Adrienne speaks to Jeannie. She's so rude and is always trying to put her on the spot 😒