She was 44 with 3 kids. 2 Daughters 14 and 17 the son 18. It was a nightmare became true. Her poor current bf i can just imagine how great it will be when they have their first boyfriend. Well single moms are total lost, they are done and they know it. Most of them will be alone at 50 with the pet and the wine bottle.
Single moms mind list. 1.her kid 2.her family 3.her parents 4.Your money 5. If she is bored a little bit off you. My message: nooo thank you 🙏 i want to be first and not last.
You're right! I married one with two kids that nailed me with manipulation through sex. The minute we were married that sex all but stopped when her kids became the priority. The hostel relation with her ex added stress. There wasn't a week in the ten years that everything was whole.
Two kids, hostile ex, single mom problems, attitude, etc......how do you even get to the point where you're on your knees proposing marriage to this woman?
The thing is, their family should be enough for them. They should understand that searching a new man is in the most cases only causing issues. It's kinda selfish from them because they put the time away that they should have with the kids. Your video is so so true. I experienced it by myself so i know you are right.
I agree with everything you said except the part about if a man impregnates a woman that he's not married to then he has no obligation to help raise the child that he produced with that woman. Marriage is a concept that was created by humans, not by God. So as humans we are animals by nature so any child that is procreated by a man & woman should also be raised by that man & woman whether they are married or not.
@@amazinggrace313 You have no proof of that outside of a man written book that could have been manipulated just as easily as anything else in this world.
@@killingsley you and I are not the same. Clearly. If marriage is man-made then it was a man's idea . Centuries ago women had no say in those type of matters, so go ahead and blame your brothers for it.
@@amazinggrace313 Yes clearly, you are you & I am me. & I'm not blaming anyone for anything, I'm just explaining to you that marriage was not created by God. No other species on the Earth is monogamous except humans so it is quite obvious that marriage is a concept created by humans. I'm tired of people stating as fact something that God allegedly said based on a book that was written by men which cannot be verified as the word of God. Unless God opens the sky & speaks directly to humans, no one should be assuming that God said anything from that book. 🙏🏾
@@killingsley that's not true that no other species are monogamous. We also aren't like the animals in the sense that we are morally accountable, they are not. We are made in the image of God and marriage was definitely created by him for one man and one woman to become one flesh under God. If you don't believe in God , say that but don't act like marriage is some ridiculous construct invented by mankind. and just to entertain your theory ..like I said blame actual men...the gender of man for inventing it..surely it wasn't a woman who put that in place .
@RahBiz keep walking away brother, it’s the most powerful thing we men have, go no contact, keep in mind that every relation has en end, this truth will makes u free, never heartbroken again
Too me dating a single mom is like. Driving another man’s truck around when he has the tittle. Meaning you stand a chance of the woman leaving you going back to her ex her kids begged for deep down inside those kids wanna see mom and dad together again.
In the same way that women need guidance to make good decisions so do men. Women gatekeep sex so that there isn't unwanted pregnancies but they can make mistakes just like men who don't use a condom or pull out or get a visectomy. When you just leave it up to birth control pill as a man you are not doing enough to ensure there isn't a pregnancy. Most of us learn that the hard way unfortunately.
Everything sounded good but saying the guy doesn’t have to raise the kid if he doesn’t want to if he’s not married. Not right at all. He is still obligated to take care of the child marriage or not.
A single dad, who either lost his wife because she died, or broke up for other reasons, are completely fucked, because even IF he meets a new single women WITHOUT a child , she STILL wants to have one from him AND his money to provide in the first place while she won't be committed to the child, that he already brings into the new family.
No, a single dad isn’t the same as a single mom, my brother has three kids from two different marriages, and he’s married to a hot 22-year-old childless woman who takes care of his other three kids like she’s his own, women see a man with kids, as someone who is preselected, men see a woman with kids as a used up woman who already had another man’s kid.
@@Sharpswordherald That's a rare occasion for your brother. The thing is, there are men out there who would commit to a women with a child, if she wouldn't see him as an intruder and JUST a financial provider (aka father) but also as a man she can love even he might not end up as an provider. I've seen way too many single moms who just want a paying father replacement instead of "him" as a whole person, if that makes sense.
@@esmolol4091 one daughter who is about 13 years old with his first wife, two sons with a second wife, one is seven and one is five, Met the new young wife in 2019, married her in 2020, and they just had their first child together in February of this year . The 13 year old daughter is turned against him thanks to her her mom, 400 a month to her and her mom…..and he has his two boys every two weeksOut of the month while still paying 600 In child support to 2nd wife
My advice: get out of bed slowly and quietly get your shit, get in your car and floor it. Tear off the rear vision mirror as you don’t ever want to look back
@karim They are master manipulators which makes them kinda dangerous. I talk about the most of them not all. They also use love bombing tactics to involve you into their chaos. I mean i all experienced it by myself. Every day she said she loves me and that im so great and then a week later she returned to her ex, u kidding me? Its all a show.
Avoid single mothers even if the child is already an adult. I've been there. A great nightmare.
She was 44 with 3 kids. 2 Daughters 14 and 17 the son 18. It was a nightmare became true.
Her poor current bf i can just imagine how great it will be when they have their first boyfriend.
Well single moms are total lost, they are done and they know it. Most of them will be alone at 50 with the pet and the wine bottle.
I’ve been there too!!!! Insane nightmare. 3 months was bad enough. Don’t do it guys! There are many REAL single girls out there!
Yes..key words...even when they are adults...
Single moms mind list.
1.her kid
2.her family
3.her parents
4.Your money
5. If she is bored a little bit off you.
My message: nooo thank you 🙏 i want to be first and not last.
Your 4. Ist wrong.
4. YOUR money
5. MAYBE a little bit you IF she is bored.
@@esmolol4091
AGREED💯 I SHALL. ADJUST
@@felicialartey8865 you are genius :-)
Edit this list:
5) Her stool
6) The worms inside her stool
7) Dirt
8) You (Maybe)
Her kid. The BD. Then her job. Her bills. Her family. Then the new dude.
You're right! I married one with two kids that nailed me with manipulation through sex. The minute we were married that sex all but stopped when her kids became the priority. The hostel relation with her ex added stress. There wasn't a week in the ten years that everything was whole.
Thanks for sharing.
TEN YEARS????!!!!! WTF!!!! So you are a simp?
Ten years dammm bro
Two kids, hostile ex, single mom problems, attitude, etc......how do you even get to the point where you're on your knees proposing marriage to this woman?
@@TruthSeeker714 Marriage was a mutual agreement but I was already entangled in her web.
Maybe men with kids, but in my experience men without kids definitely should not date single mothers.
I find most single Mothers are after financial help and will do anything to trick a man to supply it.
Yes. Watch the video "Why Single Mothers Are Predators".
@@teeaymusik9811 frfr no cap
The thing is, their family should be enough for them. They should understand that searching a new man is in the most cases only causing issues. It's kinda selfish from them because they put the time away that they should have with the kids. Your video is so so true. I experienced it by myself so i know you are right.
Great Video. Powerful message.
Wow, this was spot on!
This is probably the best video I’ve seen on this topic. So well said 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Totally true. It happened exactly that way it happened to me 100%.
Single moms #1 mooch
Watch out fellas I promise you
I agree with everything you said except the part about if a man impregnates a woman that he's not married to then he has no obligation to help raise the child that he produced with that woman. Marriage is a concept that was created by humans, not by God. So as humans we are animals by nature so any child that is procreated by a man & woman should also be raised by that man & woman whether they are married or not.
Marriage is definitely from God.
@@amazinggrace313 You have no proof of that outside of a man written book that could have been manipulated just as easily as anything else in this world.
@@killingsley you and I are not the same. Clearly. If marriage is man-made then it was a man's idea . Centuries ago women had no say in those type of matters, so go ahead and blame your brothers for it.
@@amazinggrace313 Yes clearly, you are you & I am me. & I'm not blaming anyone for anything, I'm just explaining to you that marriage was not created by God. No other species on the Earth is monogamous except humans so it is quite obvious that marriage is a concept created by humans. I'm tired of people stating as fact something that God allegedly said based on a book that was written by men which cannot be verified as the word of God. Unless God opens the sky & speaks directly to humans, no one should be assuming that God said anything from that book. 🙏🏾
@@killingsley that's not true that no other species are monogamous. We also aren't like the animals in the sense that we are morally accountable, they are not. We are made in the image of God and marriage was definitely created by him for one man and one woman to become one flesh under God. If you don't believe in God , say that but don't act like marriage is some ridiculous construct invented by mankind. and just to entertain your theory ..like I said blame actual men...the gender of man for inventing it..surely it wasn't a woman who put that in place .
I have been there. The Worst experience ever! Never again !!
@RahBiz keep walking away brother, it’s the most powerful thing we men have, go no contact, keep in mind that every relation has en end, this truth will makes u free, never heartbroken again
Great video bro
Great Video ! 💪😎
thanks!
U have some Great insight. Wish u were still Doin vids..
Same I wish bro would check in
Isnt that Yu Yu Hakusho's mother? She WAS a single mother...a lush too.
Nah that’s Kuwabara’s sister in the picture.
That’s Kuwabara’s sister in the picture but yes Yuske’s mom was a single mother and an alcoholic
@@moonbasemonk In your defense, they both look similar.
Too me dating a single mom is like. Driving another man’s truck around when he has the tittle. Meaning you stand a chance of the woman leaving you going back to her ex her kids begged for deep down inside those kids wanna see mom and dad together again.
Absoloute great video!
In the same way that women need guidance to make good decisions so do men. Women gatekeep sex so that there isn't unwanted pregnancies but they can make mistakes just like men who don't use a condom or pull out or get a visectomy. When you just leave it up to birth control pill as a man you are not doing enough to ensure there isn't a pregnancy. Most of us learn that the hard way unfortunately.
In other words...just don't trust women.
Man are logical, so they would logically know that they are still responsible for their kid regardless of marital status. Take accountability.
Everything sounded good but saying the guy doesn’t have to raise the kid if he doesn’t want to if he’s not married. Not right at all. He is still obligated to take care of the child marriage or not.
Bull shit not my DNA not my problem!!!!
So wait...He's obligated to take care of the child that she had with another guy? Is that what you're saying?
It’s a woman guys she doesn’t think her emotion is talking don’t forget that 🤷
First off why even date a single mom in the first place🚮
No it's not... she's decided to keep the baby... so she needs to deal with it... keeping or dropping a baby is purely a woman's decision...
A single dad, who either lost his wife because she died, or broke up for other reasons, are completely fucked, because even IF he meets a new single women WITHOUT a child , she STILL wants to have one from him AND his money to provide in the first place while she won't be committed to the child, that he already brings into the new family.
No, a single dad isn’t the same as a single mom, my brother has three kids from two different marriages, and he’s married to a hot 22-year-old childless woman who takes care of his other three kids like she’s his own, women see a man with kids, as someone who is preselected, men see a woman with kids as a used up woman who already had another man’s kid.
@@Sharpswordherald That's a rare occasion for your brother.
The thing is, there are men out there who would commit to a women with a child, if she wouldn't see him as an intruder and JUST a financial provider (aka father) but also as a man she can love even he might not end up as an provider.
I've seen way too many single moms who just want a paying father replacement instead of "him" as a whole person, if that makes sense.
@@Sharpswordherald
May I also ask, how he ended up with the kids, I mean, do they live with him, or with the mothers and just occasionally show up?
@@esmolol4091 yes I understand what you mean and I agree
@@esmolol4091 one daughter who is about 13 years old with his first wife, two sons with a second wife, one is seven and one is five,
Met the new young wife in 2019, married her in 2020, and they just had their first child together in February of this year . The 13 year old daughter is turned against him thanks to her her mom, 400 a month to her and her mom…..and he has his two boys every two weeksOut of the month while still paying 600 In child support to 2nd wife
i had heard this video before but lately i was alone for along time so, now i live with a woman with children contemporanies with me 🤫. i tried
Her children are her first priority than yours.
My advice: get out of bed slowly and quietly get your shit, get in your car and floor it. Tear off the rear vision mirror as you don’t ever want to look back
@Black Boy King TV Haha
Bitter much
Is that a new version of "who hurt you?"
@@rusfit4106
Hahaha 😂🤭🤣
So you were rejected by a single mom.
No, manipulated by one.
This is ridiculous. Get over yourselves.
What's ridiculous about it? Is is because it isn't true? What specifically do you find ridiculous about what the man is saying?
No one owes your kids anything except you & the person that you made them with.
@@killingsley Spot on.
@karim They are master manipulators which makes them kinda dangerous. I talk about the most of them not all. They also use love bombing tactics to involve you into their chaos. I mean i all experienced it by myself. Every day she said she loves me and that im so great and then a week later she returned to her ex, u kidding me? Its all a show.