Cowl necks and turtle necks work so well for me because I have a long thin face and and long skinny neck. I immediately feel prettier and a little sophisticated when I put one on.
3/4ths are actually great and practical in warmer regions for spring and autumn, because these seasons are unstable and we tend to sweat and feel annoyed by the fabric on our wrists if its midday and we are wearing long sleeves and we are out running errands. I live in Greece and 3/4 sleeves are in every lady's wardrobe
Agree! But also, for me, I do not like short sleeves anymore. Why would anyone want to show the unavoidable, unattractive upper arms when you arrive at ‘a certain age’? 😉
@@janetstraw191 When one feels so hot and uncomfortable and at the same time is busy, they don't care much about that. But with a 3/4 you don't even show your upper arm, just your upper hand 😉
3/4 sleeves are great if you are in water alot...... im a hairstylist and hate when my sleeves slide down and get wet or drag across a clients face. To short of sleeves has a client looking at the arm pits. It is a delicate balance getting dressed!
I love 3/4 length sleeves in the warmer months. Some older women like them as they hide the upper arm. T-shirts usually emphasize a fuller arm and are not as flattering.
As I’m sitting here wearing a 3/4 sleeve boat neck striped top. Lol I think it all depends on you. Living in LA I don’t always need a full sleeve something warm for the morning and evening but not mid day where it maybe scorching.
I own some 3/4 sleeve tops, shirts and blouses. For some reason a short sleeve is sometimes too cold and I just feel a need to cover my elbows. I agree they’re annoying as heck when it comes to putting on a layer over them as the sleeves ride up. But at work I remove the jumper and it feels just right. Serves a purpose for some.
If you’re pear shaped, the cowl necks love you back. They are hard to find and not on trend but look amazing on a small upper body or narrow shoulders.
I like the 3/4 length sleeves. I don’t have to always push my sleeves up. I know you said the ones with the stiff fabric and a button, but I never consider those because the buttons get caught on things. I also think any tennis shoes with long cardigans and wide leg jeans kinda look on the frumpy side. The long cardigans itself feel like bath robes. I see them on other women and can look stylish if not too long. I live in the SW and I know locations, weather, & climate, influence styles. I also try to thrift for styles that look good on me as much as I can so I am not contributing to waste. Thanks. 😊
That oversized geometric pattern sweater screams early 80s Esprit. Back then we would wear with pencil thin high wasted midi length stretch skirts, and flats. Very Classic Also, thank you for plugging not donating to Goodwill, but donating to places that empower women going to work or women in general
As a slender woman with a lower mommy pouch, I make a side tuck so the fabric drapes over it. I agree that tucking in tops/ sweaters look better than not doing it. So I found a way that flatters my body the most.
I've done Cool Sculpting on my abdominal area. It's non-invasive and effective if you have an area on your body that won't respond to diet and exercise, instead of worrying yourself with camouflaging that area with clothing.
3:20 honestly: I think the main issue with this sweater is that you don’t really “pull it off.” Because you have a very classic vibe, so quirky-edgy styles look like a costume or try too hard on you. Whereas inexplicably, I look stiff and awkward, somehow almost frumpy(!) in a white button down. But this sweater here, I promise you, I would get so many compliments in this. I truly think “frumpy” really relates to this issue more than anything else.
Totally agree ! Is has nothing to do with sweater is not even that ugly . Is easy to point that something is good based on basics 😂 now with the internet is so easy to teach e people how to dress and just say “ put on some basic solids balance bottom tops and good fabrics “ that’s easyyy😅
@@ANNAREID29 Took me way too long to learn this. I would buy something that was gorgeous on a hanger, got it home, tried it on: Disaster. Would have my sister try it on: Awesome. So I'd want it back - crazy. As if THIS time, it will work. Since then, I've studied on the Kibbe body types, and things make a lot more sense (re: what I can pull off - it's similar to you).
I’m a 26 year old with a toddler… when I tell you I felt outdated… I mean i felt outdated. I would feel awful going out until I tried some new styles that you recommended. My body is not the same as before I had my son but with the right clothes I can still pull it off. Thank you.
I love that you used the test, "I could do better.". I also use the test, "Would I reach for this first" when choosing my BEST available outfits. Eventually what I don't reach for has to go . The color and value contrast of the first chunky sweater bothered me, but if it had been dyed darker, it might have been cute over a flowy print midi skirt or a trim denim maxi. You are so right about shoes making the difference. At 66yo, I ❤ 3/4 sleeves to 1. Cover calcium deposits on my elbows and, 2. show off bracelets/watches. But most of all, 3/4 sleeves stay dry as I am washing dishes every 90 minutes when I am home. It is a solution for looking my best when doing housework and not letting the sink fill with dishes because I don't want wet, stained sleeves. It's my step up from sweatpants and bleach-stained tops. Dressing better at home makes a huge difference in how I feel about myself. Being retired, I also reacted to COVID social changes by dressing MUCH BETTER for mundane activities like going to the grocery store. BUT dressing better feels like people that I casually run into treat me better. I also treat myself better and go out to eat more often when I am doing errands. I also make more last-minute social plans when I bump into friends and neighbors unexpectedly because I am already presentable. Big FOMO reduction. So, thanks for helping me fine tune my FRUMP-O-METER!
Amazing to read your comment! Well done and I can totally relate to everything you're saying. Sometimes smallest things can have such a great effect. Yes to dressing better!
Your quote “Dressing better at home helps me feel better about myself“ is really poignant. I’ve just started doing that more, and it WORKS. Nicely stated message, the whole thing!
Who's not wearing skinny jeans anymore lol I like all kinds of jeans and that includes my skinny jeans and love all different boots to wear my tail boots yeah i need my skinny jeans this what one says is out of style should say that person just doesn't like it a person can't speak for everyone on the subject some days yeah I'm home and like to dress comfy frumpy lol and then again days i wanna fix up but I can throw on leggings long shirt or long loose shirt sweater boots makeup and go on to town or skinny jeans
Yay! Good video!! Two things I like to do in order to avoid looking or feeling frumpy are 1. Wear a belt! Even if it feels weird at first, a thin black or brown basic belt can go a very long way for an entire look. When I figured this out it changed my whole wardrobe. It also helps us 40 somethings to keep our trendy outfits classy and not look like our teenage daughters. Even though we actually share a wardrobe lol. 2. If I wake up and absolutely must choose frumpy (freezing cold, pouring rain, menstrual issues) then I will commit to a frumpy outfit but do extra with my hair and makeup. Instead of wearing my hair straight I’ll curl or wave it. And with my makeup I’ll do more thank blush and mascara, I’ll do my eyes up a little.
And some people think they can't wear a belt if they are not thin. I disagree. One of the managers I work with is heavy, and she will belt a dress or a blazer and look amazing. I think if you're heavy, a thinner belt is better. But you can do it!
Great video and had to laugh about your warning not to actually start a fire in your backyard. As someone who lives in the country, we can 100% do this but I keep picturing someone in a neighborhood trying this. Love your content and subscribing!
Tucking...I feel like a front tuck in the middle frames my tummy perfectly. Like, I'm saying, " Hello, let me show you exactly how big my tummy is by picking my top up in the middle and letting it drape down on each side of my protruding belly 😂. But, if the tuck is off to the side a little, then the hem of the top falls diagonally across the tummy, which takes the emphasis off of it.
Showing the waistband so much enhances the proportions that showing a little belly or bottom curve is insignificant. Tucking in, at least in front, or wearing shorter tops is the most flattering for any shape. Our tummies don’t look big to others, we are looking down at them, pushing them out and obsessing over them, that’s all. Women’s bodies are supposed to have curves.
I love cashmere. I admit I’m a cashmere snob. Im also a leather snob. I’ve taught my sweet little daughter in law to be a cashmere and leather snob. Cashmere is so affordable now and I have those tops in long sleeve, short sleeve, crew neck, turtleneck and V neck. However, no matter how affordable they are, I never wash them myself, I always dry clean.
Hi Anna! I’m in my late 20s and just finished grad school in the spring, and I had been struggling to figure out how to dress more professionally! I have been loving your videos, and I feel far more confident and stylish than ever after following your advice! I do have an oddly specific reason for loving the 3/4 sleeves. I am a professional musician, and my instrument is the French horn. That instrument is played by holding one hand inside the bell, and oftentimes long sleeves (even pushed up!) can really muffle the sound. When I can I try to wear sleeves that stop just above the wrist or even the elbow. Just thought you might appreciate that random tidbit! Thanks for another great video 😊
You are by far m favorite fashion blogger reviewer or what ever you can call it! You know your stuff, yuo have style you are beautiful and funny down to earth. Thanks!
Honestly, I think the wide leg pants are instantly frumpy. The trick to 3/4 sleeves is to have a straight hem on them, no gathering or buttons which adds bulk. You want then to have a straight slim look.
Thank you for that line about everybody has a tummy. I have been so hesitant to do the front tuck because of my flap! I will try that side tuck too!! 💗💗💗
Good morning! Let's all enjoy our last day of the weekend🖤 I try to NOT be the one who needs to walk over and throw things in the firey bin, but sometimes I don't even have one F left to give for how I look. That's just where I'm at this wkend😂 Love this channel, Anna🖤
HA!! Love this, Jennifer! ❤️ We all get there from time to time! I am currently in a ratty t-shirt and just let my 8 year old do my makeup so I'm having a day like that too 🤣
You are such a great style coach, Anna. Cute, great taste, funny. Great that you are helping us figure out how to fix an outfit that went wrong. PS, red pants and camel sleeveless sweater was the bomb on you.
just FYI- I had an ill fitting sweater which was made of nice knit wool. I took a chance and cut it up and made an oversized handbag which is really fun. just an idea;-) I am a huge recycler/re-purposer and some things can be used to put under the dogs bedding in her crate to make it fluffier. old tee shirts can be cut into squares for cleaning rags.
I feel called out! I love mock neck tops and sweaters 😅 The fun sweater would like great with black leggings and higher heeled boots or even a black mini with tights ( if you are in a colder climate) but love the colors it does look very cozy!
I truly loved this video! You gave me some new ideas & girl I can't explain that kind of sleeve🤦♀️ I don't wear them either & hate them. 😂😂 Omg "don't actually go start a fire in your yard"....I died😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think a lighter coloured jean (and fitted - the change you made already) might make the sweater feel more like part of an ensemble too which would make it look less frumpy. Not a pale denim, but something like a mid tone leaning teal to pull from the teal in the sweater. White jeans would also ROCK with this sweater imo, and in that case probably any kind of fit. I also think having some jewellery helps a lot, but you did that already from the start 😊
12:00 if your whole shirt comes up when you raise your arm, it’s because the cut of the sleeve at the armhole is bad. It has nothing to do with being 3/4 length. When the whole shirt fits properly everywhere (including the armhole), the sleeves look glorious. Here’s a little secret: the further you’re away from a B cup (industry pattern standard), the worse the shirt will fit everywhere. To fit the bust, you end up buying larger shirts (this increases the drop shoulder). The more drop shoulder you have, the worse the fit is around the arm hole. If you look at women’s clothes from the 1800s (excluding the off the shoulder styles), the armholes were cut really close to the body. They had more arm range than our modern clothes. For example, even if you tailor a suit jacket, because the cut of the sleeve head is elongated bell shaped, it won’t let you raise your arms. That’s why sports blazers exist. The cut of the sleeve is different.
I wear clothes that make me look and feel amazing. I don't follow style "rules" or trends. I don't think about other people's opinions - they can express them if done respectfully.
You definitely hit it on the head, Anna! I feel way less frumpy when I figure out the balance. It means everything. Good tip on the print size as well. And I had no idea Uniqlo sold cashmere!
I truly believe that in a few years, everyone's going to be saying the front tuck is out. LOL Either tuck it ALL in or leave it all out. Front tucking is going to be dated soon. Also, 3/4 sleeves are pretty classic, especially in a 1950s way.
I agree with you.. somewhat.. The front tuck came around because women didn’t want to tuck their shirts in all the way, and also didn’t want to leave them completely out, so what do you do? What do you think will replace the front tuck?
@@ANNAREID29 I tend look back over fashion history to find what's "classic" and exists over multiple eras. Commonly, looser tops are tucked (or sometimes belted) and fitted ones can be left out. The exception would be banded bottoms, which I think may have a revival at some point. For fitted tops, it's a little easier if they are the "right" length for your body proportions. Being plus- sized, I don't usually tuck tops into pants, but do in loose skirts, but that's just personal preference. I tend to prefer my tops more fitted, but I did sorta "tuck" one side of a lightweight loose top into my jeans pocket recently and it wasn't too bad. I've just found that tucking heavier weight fabrics seems to add bulk on the sides. It'll be interesting to see what happens in the future. 😀
My outfit is always very important to make me feel pretty and confident. Clothing is not at all trivial, even for men who say they don’t care, they do, a lot! Every ancient people designed and decorated their clothing to look beautiful, as well as to fulfill their practical needs, it’s just part of being human. I loved the recent YT video, The Lady in Silk, which shows the original, and carefully reconstructed, well-preserved outfit of an ancient (dessicated/mummified) Central Asian lady, her outfit is both practical and beautiful! The hand-woven decorative-banding in pastel colors, natural-white silk gown and robe, wool under-trousers, and wool and fur boots are just amazing (personally, I would have put a silk lining in those woolly trousers). Of course, in those days they didn’t have to stress about avoiding synthetic fibers like I do, everything came from nature, not a petroleum refinery. Interestingly, they use scraps or patches of the same fabric to construct garment details as needed, and because they match, it doesn’t look too bad. When all textiles were laboriously made by hand, nothing was wasted.
You’re a good teacher, the fact that you show the difference of what looks good and what doesn’t is really important. I always play in my wardrobe and try things on and then when they look good I make a note or take a picture that way when I want to get dressed I know what to wear. It seems to me you like a big bold pattern. I don’t have any patterns in my wardrobe except stripes. I am very minimal.😊
couldnt agree more on the 3/4 length sleeves. either push/roll up sleeves to the length you like, wear short sleeves, or long sleeves, but not the wretched 'what-length-am-i-suppposed-to-be-I-am -cutting-off-your-circulation-sleeves'!
Another great and helpful video, Anna. Love your positvity! How you look in your clothing really does make a difference in how you feel and "show up" in the world. *reluctantly puts down gas can and matches*
Been watching probably all your videos and got a lot of great ideas. Latest when I was going through my cashmere cardigans and was going to donate my slim fit hip length cardigans which look really old fashioned until I remembered your black catdigan with nothing underneath and just a few bottons closed. Looked absolutely gtreat on you and turned out not too bad on me either. Thanks for all you tips.
I love your channel so much and how you show the before & after examples and pictures. I especially LOVE and find it SO helpful when you showed us the tight top & tight skirt you used to wear (which did look pretty cute on you;) But then when you showed us the looser top pair with the same skirt, I immediately saw the difference. So much more “less teen” and more stylish sophisticated! I actually snap pictures to keep in my inspiration fashion album! Then, since I’m poor at the time, and trying to transition and elevate my style from young adult to adult I then try to follow your tips and match prices within my budget. I really hate having a budget! And I absolutely love the wide leg jeans listed so although I think $200 isn’t really unreasonable for a pair of jeans I’ll wear for years, $200 at this time is, buy jeans or pay my cell bill. Sadly, that’s been a choice I’ve actually considered! For now while learning on a budget I tend to stick to Amazon bc it’s easy, one stop shop, fast, can be less expensive, and with a lot of exchange’s I can find good pieces or pieces that if only last a season, it’s ok! One thing I took from this video is cowl necks (or sweater dresses, actually a lot of the time sweaters in general bc I’m only 4’11) I love them so much on models & have tried for years to wear, paired with tighter legging follows the rules, right? Wrong, for me. So, it kinda hurts my heart a little but this is a piece that is just never going to look non-frumpy on me, at 4’11, and post COVID weight at 130 vs my normal 120, it’s just too much material for me. Ok, I’ve admitted it. It’s in writing! I don’t even like turtle necks bc I think it highlights the fat under my chin and just isn’t flattering on me. They cut me off… is maybe how you say that. Vs a v-neck that helps elongate me… yes, did I get that right? I have been super drawn to the oversized yet still fitted (or maybe structured) mock neck look with maybe leather leggings or a slim bottom. But oversized is so relative with my shorty 4’11 height! And I get very stuck on the whole having to elongate as much as possible! One thing you’ve gotten me addicted to that I really appreciate & love are the button down blouses! These look good on me and are versatile m. Ugh, fashion is really hard and expensive, following the new trends you like every season, the trial & error & figuring out how to wear on your body type. In addition, the 10ish post COVID pounds are killing me & throwing me totally off even the outfits I know I used to love. Wow! Sorry, that was long and all over the place. If anything comes to your mind on wearing the oversized look and how to deal with 10 extra pounds at 4’11, while reading this, I cherish your thoughts & advice!! Thank you!!
Hi Shawna!!! I love this and it fully represents how we are all at different stages in life, our style, everything! I was definitely a young adult trying to go to adult at one point and feel you! I would suggest looking at places like Thredup and Depop as they have great condition but used high end items alll the time! And Amazon does have good things sometimes you just have to really dig 😃 I think you are on a great path and love that you're dissecting how you look and feel in certain things ❤️
@@ANNAREID29 thank you!! I am trying. It’s SO hard not to slip back into old comfy habits. I just thought of you bc I just saw a cowl neck that of coursed I loved… and I didn’t even click on it. Big girl panties on!!
Also at home, a rolled up sleeve is annoying when I’m doing housework as they will unroll at the most inconvenient times, like when my hands are covered in flour/pastry or the ends get wet. That’s my reason. In winter though I will switch to long sleeve.
I am 5 feet tall with very short arms and I own many tops with 3/4 length sleeves, or have sleeves altered to this length. I find it annoying to have sleeves fall over my hands like the Swedish Chef on the Muppets! Same reason I love short-waisted pants, as long-waisted ones come up to my armpits and make me look like I am wearing a one-piece tube-top jumper! Fashion is so individual, isn't it. You look FABULOUS and I love your fun, fun, fun videos!
I do not feel frumpy until I look in the mirror ha ha, just kidding, well kind of lol But the clothes I have now really are fitting nicely now and thanks to you I know what to shop for to look classy.
Great tips here, agree about the shapeless outfits & cownecks, Love your necklace, what a great jewelry statement piece, I'm looking for one that looks like 14k g, but of course, I have to get a cheapy one, lol!
Why dump on 3/4 sleeves then PULL YOUR LONG SLEEVES UP TO A 3/4 LENGTH ON YOUR ARMS? Why dump on high -low tops then do a front tuck? Trends have to make sense to me.
I don't particularly care for three quarter sleeves, but I always roll my long sleeves up. I don't know what the difference is. Way back in the dinosaur era when I was a kid, three quarter sleeves were very chic and I don't know why that changed.
You should always wear what works for you and your life. If you feel beautiful and comfortable in … anything… wear that! These are my suggestions. Take them or leave them ❤️
I remember being shocked when I started seeing the front tuck. I couldn't understand it at all. I though it looked like someone went to the restroom and didn't realize they got the front of their shirt stuck behind their button. Almost the equivalent of having tp stuck to your shoe. For that reason, I still don't like it. I'm older though, so maybe it's a Gen X thing. 😆
You’re so funny! Burn those frumpy items in your yard! 😂I appreciate your humor! We shouldn’t take this too seriously! Fashion should be fun, and it’s fun to hear your ideas!
More ideas for donating out of date styles is to an individual, small business or college design course who upcycles clothing by restructuring the piece into something original or to your local theater for costumes.
you are so sweet Anna... no one in their right mind would take offense to anything you say... you are just way too sweet. I love the styles you put out their and I love your videos.. too funny about the fire pit in the back yard... lol... watching from Nova Scotia Canada
In one of your videos, some time ago, you provided ideas for where to find a couple staple items. The items I really need help with include: - A plain white stylish short-sleeve t-shirt - A plain white stylish tank top t-shirt - A plain white stylish long-sleeve t-shirt I’d like ideas of retailers that are higher end than the Amazon options (I have all those and they are great!!), but I want those staples for wearing under a nice cardigan, etc. I had a J.McLaughlin which was lovely, and an Ann Taylor that was 10+ years old, but they yellowed as expected after so long. This is my request for another video of where to find the best basics, maybe at each price point! Keep up the great work! ps The Tory Burch email that hit my inbox yesterday was basically a picture of the you in the trends you described- adorable long denim skirt, etc etc-you are on it!!!
3/4 sleeve is for practical reasons. Washing dishes, cleaning, etc. Busy women save time they don’t have to pull up the sleeve all the time
3/4 sleeves are awesome. Especially when you need to wash your hands frequently.
I hate the bulk when rolling full length sleeves.
I’m 5’9 I love the way the 3/4 length look streamline with dress slacks.
Cowl necks and turtle necks work so well for me because I have a long thin face and and long skinny neck. I immediately feel prettier and a little sophisticated when I put one on.
Then those are your style! Like i said, there are some women who they look great on and others they do not ❤️
3/4ths are actually great and practical in warmer regions for spring and autumn, because these seasons are unstable and we tend to sweat and feel annoyed by the fabric on our wrists if its midday and we are wearing long sleeves and we are out running errands. I live in Greece and 3/4 sleeves are in every lady's wardrobe
Agree! But also, for me, I do not like short sleeves anymore. Why would anyone want to show the unavoidable, unattractive upper arms when you arrive at ‘a certain age’? 😉
@@janetstraw191 When one feels so hot and uncomfortable and at the same time is busy, they don't care much about that. But with a 3/4 you don't even show your upper arm, just your upper hand 😉
@Christiez1985 well-- there are many women who are hot & bothered but still will not publicly show the upper part of their arms.
I love 3/4 sleeve tops! 👍
i don't own ANY short sleeves laso because of my arms. and long sleeves never stay pushed up. 3/4 sleeves are the best way to go.
3/4 sleeves are great if you are in water alot...... im a hairstylist and hate when my sleeves slide down and get wet or drag across a clients face. To short of sleeves has a client looking at the arm pits. It is a delicate balance getting dressed!
I love 3/4 length sleeves in the warmer months. Some older women like them as they hide the upper arm. T-shirts usually emphasize a fuller arm and are not as flattering.
3/4 th sleeves are great for work. They are nice, simple, and practical especially for petite girlies.
As I’m sitting here wearing a 3/4 sleeve boat neck striped top. Lol
I think it all depends on you. Living in LA I don’t always need a full sleeve something warm for the morning and evening but not mid day where it maybe scorching.
I just wore a 3/4 length sleeved shirt and my husband noticed it! He loved seeing my bracelets which are usually unseen…
Nothing will help that geometric sweater!!
I own some 3/4 sleeve tops, shirts and blouses. For some reason a short sleeve is sometimes too cold and I just feel a need to cover my elbows. I agree they’re annoying as heck when it comes to putting on a layer over them as the sleeves ride up. But at work I remove the jumper and it feels just right. Serves a purpose for some.
The flood length wide jeans No they just don’t flatter anyone. 😂
I enjoy looking frumpy from time to time.
If you’re pear shaped, the cowl necks love you back. They are hard to find and not on trend but look amazing on a small upper body or narrow shoulders.
I like the 3/4 length sleeves. I don’t have to always push my sleeves up. I know you said the ones with the stiff fabric and a button, but I never consider those because the buttons get caught on things.
I also think any tennis shoes with long cardigans and wide leg jeans kinda look on the frumpy side. The long cardigans itself feel like bath robes. I see them on other women and can look stylish if not too long. I live in the SW and I know locations, weather, & climate, influence styles. I also try to thrift for styles that look good on me as much as I can so I am not contributing to waste. Thanks. 😊
That oversized geometric pattern sweater screams early 80s Esprit. Back then we would wear with pencil thin high wasted midi length stretch skirts, and flats. Very Classic
Also, thank you for plugging not donating to Goodwill, but donating to places that empower women going to work or women in general
Yes! 80’s Esprit! That was my vibe back in the day 😂
I haven't though about Espirit in a minute but I can definitely see that 🤣❤️
@@ANNAREID29 Esprit and Benneton! Lol
You can tell how old I am!
Yes and Gitano jeans🤣🤣
Love your sense of humor 😂😂😂dumpster fire 🔥😂😂😂😂
i live in a cold climate and i love my jeggings with calf or knee high boots.
As a slender woman with a lower mommy pouch, I make a side tuck so the fabric drapes over it. I agree that tucking in tops/ sweaters look better than not doing it. So I found a way that flatters my body the most.
Love this!! I do a side tuck sometimes as well ❤️❤️❤️
Yes to the side tuck! Covers the tummy ever so slightly while still showing some of your waistline!
I've done Cool Sculpting on my abdominal area. It's non-invasive and effective if you have an area on your body that won't respond to diet and exercise, instead of worrying yourself with camouflaging that area with clothing.
Yep…side tuck works…just not the half!
What’s cool sculpting? @@giggles1219
Uniqlo is my go-to for all basics, sweaters, cardigans and layering pieces. Great quality and very well styled. 😊
3:20 honestly: I think the main issue with this sweater is that you don’t really “pull it off.” Because you have a very classic vibe, so quirky-edgy styles look like a costume or try too hard on you. Whereas inexplicably, I look stiff and awkward, somehow almost frumpy(!) in a white button down. But this sweater here, I promise you, I would get so many compliments in this. I truly think “frumpy” really relates to this issue more than anything else.
You are probably right!! Some things can look amazing on some people and like a fashion disaster on another 😄❤️
Good point!
Totally agree ! Is has nothing to do with sweater is not even that ugly . Is easy to point that something is good based on basics 😂 now with the internet is so easy to teach e people how to dress and just say “ put on some basic solids balance bottom tops and good fabrics “ that’s easyyy😅
@@ANNAREID29 Took me way too long to learn this. I would buy something that was gorgeous on a hanger, got it home, tried it on: Disaster. Would have my sister try it on: Awesome. So I'd want it back - crazy. As if THIS time, it will work. Since then, I've studied on the Kibbe body types, and things make a lot more sense (re: what I can pull off - it's similar to you).
I’m a 26 year old with a toddler… when I tell you I felt outdated… I mean i felt outdated. I would feel awful going out until I tried some new styles that you recommended. My body is not the same as before I had my son but with the right clothes I can still pull it off. Thank you.
Ok, got it, going to start my fire now 🔥
I love that you used the test, "I could do better.". I also use the test, "Would I reach for this first" when choosing my BEST available outfits. Eventually what I don't reach for has to go .
The color and value contrast of the first chunky sweater bothered me, but if it had been dyed darker, it might have been cute over a flowy print midi skirt or a trim denim maxi. You are so right about shoes making the difference.
At 66yo, I ❤ 3/4 sleeves to
1. Cover calcium deposits on my elbows and, 2. show off bracelets/watches. But most of all, 3/4 sleeves stay dry as I am washing dishes every 90 minutes when I am home. It is a solution for looking my best when doing housework and not letting the sink fill with dishes because I don't want wet, stained sleeves. It's my step up from sweatpants and bleach-stained tops. Dressing better at home makes a huge difference in how I feel about myself.
Being retired, I also reacted to COVID social changes by dressing MUCH BETTER for mundane activities like going to the grocery store. BUT dressing better feels like people that I casually run into treat me better. I also treat myself better and go out to eat more often when I am doing errands. I also make more last-minute social plans when I bump into friends and neighbors unexpectedly because I am already presentable. Big FOMO reduction.
So, thanks for helping me fine tune my FRUMP-O-METER!
I loved reading this comment. Thank for typing this!
Amazing to read your comment! Well done and I can totally relate to everything you're saying.
Sometimes smallest things can have such a great effect. Yes to dressing better!
Your quote “Dressing better at home helps me feel better about myself“ is really poignant. I’ve just started doing that more, and it WORKS. Nicely stated message, the whole thing!
As a 90s teen, I love the return of oversized but definitely can’t wear it as the kids do. Balance is key 💯. Can be comfy without being frumpy.
I love your humor!
Thank you, Viktoria! ❤️😃
I have never seen anyone in real life do the front tuck. Am I the only one?
Really?! I do it all the time! ❤️❤️
@ANNAREID29 I do too, always front tuck
Now that I think about it, I have not either.
Dye does effect the feel of a garment so you are not imagining extra soft feel in the pale version.
Love tan and white sweater and jeans and pointed toe flats. Beautiful!!
Please do a video about how to style boots this year (specifically biker boots) since we aren't wearing skinny jeans anymore! ❤
I have that in the works! It might be some YT short videos! ❤️❤️
Who’s not!!?😂
Who's not wearing skinny jeans anymore lol I like all kinds of jeans and that includes my skinny jeans and love all different boots to wear my tail boots yeah i need my skinny jeans this what one says is out of style should say that person just doesn't like it a person can't speak for everyone on the subject some days yeah I'm home and like to dress comfy frumpy lol and then again days i wanna fix up but I can throw on leggings long shirt or long loose shirt sweater boots makeup and go on to town or skinny jeans
@darlenenorris4603 If you are still wearing your skinny jeans, this request didn't apply to you. You do you! Rock on with your skinny jeans! ❤️
Yay! Good video!! Two things I like to do in order to avoid looking or feeling frumpy are
1. Wear a belt! Even if it feels weird at first, a thin black or brown basic belt can go a very long way for an entire look. When I figured this out it changed my whole wardrobe. It also helps us 40 somethings to keep our trendy outfits classy and not look like our teenage daughters. Even though we actually share a wardrobe lol.
2. If I wake up and absolutely must choose frumpy (freezing cold, pouring rain, menstrual issues) then I will commit to a frumpy outfit but do extra with my hair and makeup. Instead of wearing my hair straight I’ll curl or wave it. And with my makeup I’ll do more thank blush and mascara, I’ll do my eyes up a little.
And some people think they can't wear a belt if they are not thin. I disagree. One of the managers I work with is heavy, and she will belt a dress or a blazer and look amazing. I think if you're heavy, a thinner belt is better. But you can do it!
Great video and had to laugh about your warning not to actually start a fire in your backyard. As someone who lives in the country, we can 100% do this but I keep picturing someone in a neighborhood trying this. Love your content and subscribing!
Haha! It would look totally normal where you are! In my neighborhood someone would definitely call the cops 🤣🤣
Kind of funny/sad how much time needs to go into disclaimers on TH-cam lol😅
Anna you look like a super model! ❤
Tucking...I feel like a front tuck in the middle frames my tummy perfectly. Like, I'm saying, " Hello, let me show you exactly how big my tummy is by picking my top up in the middle and letting it drape down on each side of my protruding belly 😂. But, if the tuck is off to the side a little, then the hem of the top falls diagonally across the tummy, which takes the emphasis off of it.
Showing the waistband so much enhances the proportions that showing a little belly or bottom curve is insignificant. Tucking in, at least in front, or wearing shorter tops is the most flattering for any shape. Our tummies don’t look big to others, we are looking down at them, pushing them out and obsessing over them, that’s all. Women’s bodies are supposed to have curves.
Agreed!! I love that you said this! ❤️❤️
I love your videos. Realistic, respectful and your humor is terrific. Your tis are super helpful. Thank you. I'm a fan!!
The bird 🦅 belt my favorite! ❤
Thank you! You know I had to bring it back out this Fall! ❤️
I love cashmere. I admit I’m a cashmere snob. Im also a leather snob. I’ve taught my sweet little daughter in law to be a cashmere and leather snob. Cashmere is so affordable now and I have those tops in long sleeve, short sleeve, crew neck, turtleneck and V neck. However, no matter how affordable they are, I never wash them myself, I always dry clean.
Ha ha!! I love that black floral tunic you hate!! I'm 70 and would wear that with slim cotton pull on pants and slip on sneakers.
This video is soooo helpful! Thank you so much for the actual examples. It’s goes such a long way!!!
Hi Anna! I’m in my late 20s and just finished grad school in the spring, and I had been struggling to figure out how to dress more professionally! I have been loving your videos, and I feel far more confident and stylish than ever after following your advice! I do have an oddly specific reason for loving the 3/4 sleeves. I am a professional musician, and my instrument is the French horn. That instrument is played by holding one hand inside the bell, and oftentimes long sleeves (even pushed up!) can really muffle the sound. When I can I try to wear sleeves that stop just above the wrist or even the elbow. Just thought you might appreciate that random tidbit! Thanks for another great video 😊
Definitely appreciated that insight! Thx!
You are by far m favorite fashion blogger reviewer or what ever you can call it! You know your stuff, yuo have style you are beautiful and funny down to earth. Thanks!
Honestly, I think the wide leg pants are instantly frumpy.
The trick to 3/4 sleeves is to have a straight hem on them, no gathering or buttons which adds bulk. You want then to have a straight slim look.
I love that you referenced Fraggle Rock!! ha!
Thank you for that line about everybody has a tummy. I have been so hesitant to do the front tuck because of my flap! I will try that side tuck too!! 💗💗💗
We all have one! You are beautiful, Suzy! ❤️❤️❤️
I love the red sweater!
Good morning! Let's all enjoy our last day of the weekend🖤 I try to NOT be the one who needs to walk over and throw things in the firey bin, but sometimes I don't even have one F left to give for how I look. That's just where I'm at this wkend😂 Love this channel, Anna🖤
HA!! Love this, Jennifer! ❤️ We all get there from time to time! I am currently in a ratty t-shirt and just let my 8 year old do my makeup so I'm having a day like that too 🤣
@@ANNAREID29 😂😂😂
So true!😂. I’m there more times than I would like to admit! 😎
You are such a great style coach, Anna. Cute, great taste, funny. Great that you are helping us figure out how to fix an outfit that went wrong. PS, red pants and camel sleeveless sweater was the bomb on you.
Ya! The camel was amazing on her! 💯
This was a great video. I love your sense of humor; it makes your videos stand out from the other TH-cam fashion channels that are out there.
just FYI- I had an ill fitting sweater which was made of nice knit wool. I took a chance and cut it up and made an oversized handbag which is really fun. just an idea;-) I am a huge recycler/re-purposer and some things can be used to put under the dogs bedding in her crate to make it fluffier. old tee shirts can be cut into squares for cleaning rags.
Great idea!!! Will start looking for old knit sweaters 😀
I make sweater pumpkins for fall with my sweaters I did not like anymore.
@@ritastutler1470 great idea;-)
I like the big sweater and wide jeans on you!
I feel called out! I love mock neck tops and sweaters 😅
The fun sweater would like great with black leggings and higher heeled boots or even a black mini with tights ( if you are in a colder climate) but love the colors it does look very cozy!
I truly loved this video! You gave me some new ideas & girl I can't explain that kind of sleeve🤦♀️ I don't wear them either & hate them. 😂😂 Omg "don't actually go start a fire in your yard"....I died😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think a lighter coloured jean (and fitted - the change you made already) might make the sweater feel more like part of an ensemble too which would make it look less frumpy. Not a pale denim, but something like a mid tone leaning teal to pull from the teal in the sweater. White jeans would also ROCK with this sweater imo, and in that case probably any kind of fit. I also think having some jewellery helps a lot, but you did that already from the start 😊
12:00 if your whole shirt comes up when you raise your arm, it’s because the cut of the sleeve at the armhole is bad. It has nothing to do with being 3/4 length. When the whole shirt fits properly everywhere (including the armhole), the sleeves look glorious. Here’s a little secret: the further you’re away from a B cup (industry pattern standard), the worse the shirt will fit everywhere. To fit the bust, you end up buying larger shirts (this increases the drop shoulder). The more drop shoulder you have, the worse the fit is around the arm hole. If you look at women’s clothes from the 1800s (excluding the off the shoulder styles), the armholes were cut really close to the body. They had more arm range than our modern clothes. For example, even if you tailor a suit jacket, because the cut of the sleeve head is elongated bell shaped, it won’t let you raise your arms. That’s why sports blazers exist. The cut of the sleeve is different.
Fantastic info!!! So sleeves for athletes must be tailored as well.
I wear clothes that make me look and feel amazing. I don't follow style "rules" or trends. I don't think about other people's opinions - they can express them if done respectfully.
You definitely hit it on the head, Anna! I feel way less frumpy when I figure out the balance. It means everything. Good tip on the print size as well. And I had no idea Uniqlo sold cashmere!
I truly believe that in a few years, everyone's going to be saying the front tuck is out. LOL Either tuck it ALL in or leave it all out. Front tucking is going to be dated soon. Also, 3/4 sleeves are pretty classic, especially in a 1950s way.
I agree with you.. somewhat.. The front tuck came around because women didn’t want to tuck their shirts in all the way, and also didn’t want to leave them completely out, so what do you do? What do you think will replace the front tuck?
@@ANNAREID29 I tend look back over fashion history to find what's "classic" and exists over multiple eras. Commonly, looser tops are tucked (or sometimes belted) and fitted ones can be left out. The exception would be banded bottoms, which I think may have a revival at some point. For fitted tops, it's a little easier if they are the "right" length for your body proportions. Being plus- sized, I don't usually tuck tops into pants, but do in loose skirts, but that's just personal preference. I tend to prefer my tops more fitted, but I did sorta "tuck" one side of a lightweight loose top into my jeans pocket recently and it wasn't too bad. I've just found that tucking heavier weight fabrics seems to add bulk on the sides. It'll be interesting to see what happens in the future. 😀
Well, you’re right, it’s now out of style lol. That was fast.
Love your videos! Feel like I’m visiting with a friend🤗 about clothes. Keep them coming.
Thank you!! I love this! ❤️❤️😘😘😘
My outfit is always very important to make me feel pretty and confident. Clothing is not at all trivial, even for men who say they don’t care, they do, a lot! Every ancient people designed and decorated their clothing to look beautiful, as well as to fulfill their practical needs, it’s just part of being human. I loved the recent YT video, The Lady in Silk, which shows the original, and carefully reconstructed, well-preserved outfit of an ancient (dessicated/mummified) Central Asian lady, her outfit is both practical and beautiful! The hand-woven decorative-banding in pastel colors, natural-white silk gown and robe, wool under-trousers, and wool and fur boots are just amazing (personally, I would have put a silk lining in those woolly trousers). Of course, in those days they didn’t have to stress about avoiding synthetic fibers like I do, everything came from nature, not a petroleum refinery. Interestingly, they use scraps or patches of the same fabric to construct garment details as needed, and because they match, it doesn’t look too bad. When all textiles were laboriously made by hand, nothing was wasted.
Love this, Kimberly! I agree… clothing is not trivial and can make such a huge difference in how you feel ❤️
Honestly, with your figure, you could look great in anything, even if you weren’t “feeling” it and felt frumpy.
I am surprised you have the oversized color-block sweater. You look amazing in anything, I just didn't expect the bold sweater in your closet :)
You’re a good teacher, the fact that you show the difference of what looks good and what doesn’t is really important. I always play in my wardrobe and try things on and then when they look good I make a note or take a picture that way when I want to get dressed I know what to wear. It seems to me you like a big bold pattern. I don’t have any patterns in my wardrobe except stripes. I am very minimal.😊
Shoes are very important ‼️ Many people it’s an afterthought but really shoes can make or break an outfit.
couldnt agree more on the 3/4 length sleeves. either push/roll up sleeves to the length you like, wear short sleeves, or long sleeves, but not the wretched 'what-length-am-i-suppposed-to-be-I-am -cutting-off-your-circulation-sleeves'!
Great video and you’re hilarious
ANNA TOLD ME TO LIGHT A FIRE, OFFICER!😂. You are hilarious. It’s a “metaphoric” fire, people!
Another great and helpful video, Anna. Love your positvity! How you look in your clothing really does make a difference in how you feel and "show up" in the world. *reluctantly puts down gas can and matches*
HAHA!! I love this 🤣🤣
Been watching probably all your videos and got a lot of great ideas. Latest when I was going through my cashmere cardigans and was going to donate my slim fit hip length cardigans which look really old fashioned until I remembered your black catdigan with nothing underneath and just a few bottons closed. Looked absolutely gtreat on you and turned out not too bad on me either. Thanks for all you tips.
I love this!! I’m so glad you were able to rework that item ❤️❤️
As an alternative to 3/4 length, I often tailor my sleeves to 7/8ths. I love bracelets so this solution works well for me.
Also, in winter I enjoy playing with texture by layering cute arm warmers (or long fingerless gloves) with 3/4 sleeve tops.
Any advice for people who feel super frumpy in structured looks? I feel the most frumpy in blazers, button downs, etc.
I love your style, I dress similar and learn so much from you. Classic, elegant . Thanks for ideas.
Great advice, you have amazing taste in clothing 😊
Thank you, Laura! ❤️❤️❤️
Love your take on fashion! Thank you
Thank you, Deborah! ❤️
I love your channel so much and how you show the before & after examples and pictures. I especially LOVE and find it SO helpful when you showed us the tight top & tight skirt you used to wear (which did look pretty cute on you;) But then when you showed us the looser top pair with the same skirt, I immediately saw the difference. So much more “less teen” and more stylish sophisticated!
I actually snap pictures to keep in my inspiration fashion album! Then, since I’m poor at the time, and trying to transition and elevate my style from young adult to adult I then try to follow your tips and match prices within my budget. I really hate having a budget! And I absolutely love the wide leg jeans listed so although I think $200 isn’t really unreasonable for a pair of jeans I’ll wear for years, $200 at this time is, buy jeans or pay my cell bill. Sadly, that’s been a choice I’ve actually considered!
For now while learning on a budget I tend to stick to Amazon bc it’s easy, one stop shop, fast, can be less expensive, and with a lot of exchange’s I can find good pieces or pieces that if only last a season, it’s ok! One thing I took from this video is cowl necks (or sweater dresses, actually a lot of the time sweaters in general bc I’m only 4’11) I love them so much on models & have tried for years to wear, paired with tighter legging follows the rules, right? Wrong, for me. So, it kinda hurts my heart a little but this is a piece that is just never going to look non-frumpy on me, at 4’11, and post COVID weight at 130 vs my normal 120, it’s just too much material for me. Ok, I’ve admitted it. It’s in writing! I don’t even like turtle necks bc I think it highlights the fat under my chin and just isn’t flattering on me. They cut me off… is maybe how you say that. Vs a v-neck that helps elongate me… yes, did I get that right?
I have been super drawn to the oversized yet still fitted (or maybe structured) mock neck look with maybe leather leggings or a slim bottom. But oversized is so relative with my shorty 4’11 height! And I get very stuck on the whole having to elongate as much as possible! One thing you’ve gotten me addicted to that I really appreciate & love are the button down blouses! These look good on me and are versatile m. Ugh, fashion is really hard and expensive, following the new trends you like every season, the trial & error & figuring out how to wear on your body type. In addition, the 10ish post COVID pounds are killing me & throwing me totally off even the outfits I know I used to love. Wow! Sorry, that was long and all over the place. If anything comes to your mind on wearing the oversized look and how to deal with 10 extra pounds at 4’11, while reading this, I cherish your thoughts & advice!! Thank you!!
Hi Shawna!!! I love this and it fully represents how we are all at different stages in life, our style, everything! I was definitely a young adult trying to go to adult at one point and feel you! I would suggest looking at places like Thredup and Depop as they have great condition but used high end items alll the time! And Amazon does have good things sometimes you just have to really dig 😃 I think you are on a great path and love that you're dissecting how you look and feel in certain things ❤️
@@ANNAREID29 thank you!! I am trying. It’s SO hard not to slip back into old comfy habits. I just thought of you bc I just saw a cowl neck that of coursed I loved… and I didn’t even click on it. Big girl panties on!!
I don’t think so I can wear sweaters in the hot and humid Florida . Kudos to you for wearing them 😊
Also at home, a rolled up sleeve is annoying when I’m doing housework as they will unroll at the most inconvenient times, like when my hands are covered in flour/pastry or the ends get wet. That’s my reason. In winter though I will switch to long sleeve.
I am 5 feet tall with very short arms and I own many tops with 3/4 length sleeves, or have sleeves altered to this length. I find it annoying to have sleeves fall over my hands like the Swedish Chef on the Muppets! Same reason I love short-waisted pants, as long-waisted ones come up to my armpits and make me look like I am wearing a one-piece tube-top jumper! Fashion is so individual, isn't it. You look FABULOUS and I love your fun, fun, fun videos!
I love your humor and fashion tips
Your closing was great. It’s a mom’s struggle to put in effort for herself while running around for everyone else.
Along with great style advice, you make me laugh….that’s a very good thing👍🏻
So happy to hear this! Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
I do not feel frumpy until I look in the mirror ha ha, just kidding, well kind of lol But the clothes I have now really are fitting nicely now and thanks to you I know what to shop for to look classy.
Love this, Mollie!! ❤️❤️❤️
Great tips here, agree about the shapeless outfits & cownecks, Love your necklace, what a great jewelry statement piece, I'm looking for one that looks like 14k g, but of course, I have to get a cheapy one, lol!
Why dump on 3/4 sleeves then PULL YOUR LONG SLEEVES UP TO A 3/4 LENGTH ON YOUR ARMS?
Why dump on high -low tops then do a front tuck?
Trends have to make sense to me.
I don't particularly care for three quarter sleeves, but I always roll my long sleeves up. I don't know what the difference is. Way back in the dinosaur era when I was a kid, three quarter sleeves were very chic and I don't know why that changed.
You are the BEST!!!!
So, pushing long sleeves up and dealing with bunched up extra fabric is ok, but 3/4 sleeves are not? Plus, pushed up sleeves never stay up there.
You should always wear what works for you and your life. If you feel beautiful and comfortable in … anything… wear that! These are my suggestions. Take them or leave them ❤️
As an alternative to 3/4 length, I often tailor my sleeves to 7/8ths. I love bracelets, so this solution works well for me.
You can get clear elastic bands to hold pushed up sleeves in place. I love them.
Check out MM personal styling. She has great styling tips as well!
Yeah makes zero sense
I love that sweater Anna
I remember being shocked when I started seeing the front tuck. I couldn't understand it at all. I though it looked like someone went to the restroom and didn't realize they got the front of their shirt stuck behind their button. Almost the equivalent of having tp stuck to your shoe. For that reason, I still don't like it. I'm older though, so maybe it's a Gen X thing. 😆
You have such a pleasant , genuine personality!!! LOVE your humor! I await all your new videos!
Thank you so much, Cathy! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for the oomph I needed to wrangle the sweater cowls into the donate pile.
So no, no, no Anna. Not burning these. ❤️
Would love a video about how to style Chelsea boots with the new wider leg styles. I can’t figure it out! 🤷♀️ Great video!! 😃
Yay, the bird belt is back! I was wondering if you were still wearing it. It's so cute on you!❤
Oh yes! She came back out at the beginning of Fall 😄
As she should!😊
You’re so funny! Burn those frumpy items in your yard! 😂I appreciate your humor! We shouldn’t take this too seriously! Fashion should be fun, and it’s fun to hear your ideas!
Agreed!! And thank you so much for this! ❤️❤️
More ideas for donating out of date styles is to an individual, small business or college design course who upcycles clothing by restructuring the piece into something original or to your local theater for costumes.
you are so sweet Anna... no one in their right mind would take offense to anything you say... you are just way too sweet. I love the styles you put out their and I love your videos.. too funny about the fire pit in the back yard... lol... watching from Nova Scotia Canada
Thank you for this, Heather! ❤️❤️
The poncho would make a good Halloween costume.
But what would my costume be?! I'm all ears! lol
In one of your videos, some time ago, you provided ideas for where to find a couple staple items. The items I really need help with include:
- A plain white stylish short-sleeve t-shirt
- A plain white stylish tank top t-shirt
- A plain white stylish long-sleeve t-shirt
I’d like ideas of retailers that are higher end than the Amazon options (I have all those and they are great!!), but I want those staples for wearing under a nice cardigan, etc.
I had a J.McLaughlin which was lovely, and an Ann Taylor that was 10+ years old, but they yellowed as expected after so long.
This is my request for another video of where to find the best basics, maybe at each price point!
Keep up the great work!
ps The Tory Burch email that hit my inbox yesterday was basically a picture of the you in the trends you described- adorable long denim skirt, etc etc-you are on it!!!
I love these videos.
Thank you, Barbara! ❤️❤️❤️