Why Would You Tell Me THAT About You?
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the "for it" remix at 7:44 really slaps
Forehead forehead forehead
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This is a good place to urge people to get a mental health screening.
But broke
Or some therapy at least 😅
@@aphmaple2348 😂
There are in the us at least free therapy through the government medical programs, churches, charity groups etc.
There's even a hotline I can't remember its # but if you feel a need to talk to a professional and are broke you can at least access help.
Was at a party, started talking to some dude who stated that he happened to be a psychopath. Said he could kill anyone without ever feeling doubt or remorse for the deed. Said the only reason he didn't was he didn't want to die in prison.
Well, the good thing to note is that there are people with antisocial personality disorders in every walk of life, and the vast majority of them don't make the news or commit violent crimes. While they may not necessarily have a "moral" code (whatever that is) most have a way to self-regulate their behaviour like we do. You've apparently met one of those people. This is also a good time to mention that, as with anyone else, it's not your thoughts that matter, but your actions. People with ASPD, "psychopaths", "sociopaths", whatever, are still people like the rest of us, are still responsible for their own actions, and that people who don't have ASPD do horrific things all the time.
well, there are a lot of people psichopaths or not that don't commit crimes soliely because of fear of the punishment and not because it would be bad
Lol people who are psychopaths don’t know they’re psychopaths. Sounds like someone wanted to sound badass and edgy
@@TheBengineerTV How does that work? I'm pretty sure you'd know if you were diagnosed a psychopath
It is a well- documented phenomenon: The Stranger on a Train effect. Knowing that we will never see a seat mate again, many will open up and reveal far too much information about themselves. I have been called a good listener, and I often find these moments of revelation to be interesting, sometimes very memorable, sometimes just downright depressing/disgusting/disgraceful...but they will talk. And I remember many of said revelations with fondness.
Random people tell me their personal stuff all the time. I look at it like a gift because they feel I'm a safe person to be vulnerable with. That's pretty special if you think about it, to be recognized as a safe person.
@@trentlane250 a mark to dump on?
That is a really significant statement. I'm curious, why do you think so darkly of people?
@@trentlane250 what you've described is selfish and flat fucking rude. Having a healthy boundary is saying. "I'm sorry, I don't feel comfortable listening to you share this topic. Excuse me," and then exiting. Refusing to offer basic respect is immature at best.
Yes, it feels special and like a priviledge...but it can be exhausting. Furthermore, if the person confesses to a felony, you might be bound by the laws of your contry to report them... But even if it's not illegal, it will often be demoralizing to listen to the secrets of another. It also denies the listener the right to politely withdraw from the person or conversation.
For those trapped in those conversations that make you question... everything, send a friend with the phrase 'Social SOS. Please call me'. This works better if you can explain beforehand to your friends, but the message should provide enough justification to call, even if mildly curious about wtf a social SOS entails. Which can be done after you have been freed.
Really great idea.
I have social anxiety so I ramble and over share when I'm uncomfortable to fill the silence. Its unintentionally makes other people as uncomfortable as I am lol
I do too. I'm learning sometimes it's better to just be quiet. As awkward as it is during the moment the positive interaction payoff makes it more worth it in the end.
I have a friend who takes me home on Friday. First person I have known where we are both comfortable with silence. It's really nice.
Same though only with people I feel comfortable with otherwise I'm polite but as mute as I can be.
same
I gave my hubby's auntie (lovely woman, a bit loopy) a ride to her therapist appointment once and while waiting for her a scraggly-looking older woman came over, sat beside me, and started telling me how she talks to all her cats and how they speak back to her and all the long conversations they have together. I figured she probably just needed an ear to bend so I listened. Eventually, she finished her stories and turned to me, and asked if I talk to my cats or dogs. I told her "I talk to my dog sometimes but it's hard to hold a conversation because he only replies in Mandarin and I don't speak the language." She stared at me for a few seconds like I had bugs crawling out my eyes, collected herself, and sat directly across the room from me staring at me like that until the nurse called her back.
Auntie called me the next day and said her therapist's office had called her and asked that I not accompany her into the office anymore. 😬
LOL I can only imagine the lies that that Woman told about you. Hope your hubby's auntie is doing well.
@@polarbearsaysyummy5845 she's still a froot loop but a healthy one lol
When I was very young, I was quite the entrepreneur. I already had a gig as delivery boy for a railroad hotel. Then, my brother told me that our neighbor (guy in his 60's) would pay us for collecting aluminum cans and certain wine bottles (for recycling). Then, there was a riot in the big city 30 miles away. The neighbor told us that a few of the rioters drove over in a pickup truck. They had a 50 caliber machine gun in the pickup and promised to shoot everyone in the town when they came back. We stopped going to his house and about a week later I saw a documentary on the recycling center in the big city. The neighbor had been very much underpaying us. I knew my mom went to the city once a month and she started taking us to the recycling center. Neighbor lost out because he tried to frighten a couple of little kids. Shame on him.
The fact the wife had the audacity to cheat on the poor guy.
my ex had a new guy he befriended at work, decided to invite him over to hang out - told us he has sexual relations his German shepherds. and he was dead ass serious. was the weirdest moment of my life...
Yikes
Poor dogs
@@lemonzest_ I'd say
yeah, apparently he trained the males to mount him since pups it was really sick and we immediately left for an excuse that my mom needed us *dude was at OUR house and I needed him out ASAP. & cut off all communication.
also, this wasn't a prompted convo. it literally came out of left field. :(
I’ve had many, but a recent one was a new piano student, obese, 62 years old, and completely filterless, who waddled in and informed me, when I asked how she was, that she had been to the doctor as she had “ a nasty infection in her lady-parts.” Shocked, I almost asked if I should put a towel down on the bench.
(I sprayed, soaked, and scrubbed that seat down after she left followed by washing my hands in boiling water. Jesus Christ.)
Guilty from murdering the guy who assaulted his daughter and killed her mother? No. Just for not seeing red flags sooner. And he didn't kill him, he just helped arrange things
nearly every friend i’ve ever had has unloaded various trauma time stories™️ upon me within 3 conversations after meeting lmao idk what it is abt me that screams “yes pls tell me abt ur shitty life experiences”
*TW: s//cide, SH*
While I've heard more shocking things, the thing that was most inappropriate was my friend telling me she was self harming and suicidal. I was probably around 11 (she's a few years older than me).
I know that she wanted to get it out and talk to someone, but an 11 year old kid is not the right address. She told me to not tell anyone, which made me really anxious, and introduced me to a whole range of things I never even thought about before.
Especially considering that I was dealing with similar things to what caused her to feel this way (moving from a city to a small town and not fitting in with the local kids, being an outcast, low self esteem and self hatred as a result of that...) I was at risk. And, while I would never tell her this, her telling me this probably played a part in me doing these things and feeling this way later on- because exposing an 11 year old to that can only cause harm.
I consider it kind to extend connection and intimacy rather than maintaining a cold mask and keeping them at a distance. Apparently this is common with autistics, we don’t like small talk, and we tend to share personal stories as a way of saying “let’s see if we have common ground we can relate to each other over”. My approach works beautifully with neurodivergent people, but can come off as oversharing with neutotypicals.
I have ADHD and every time it happens I feel mortified and can't stop it, have social anexiety from it.
@@doyouliketacosiliketacos5139 in brain scans there is a lot of overlap between autistic brains and adhd brains. So it make sense that we have similar experiences and can relate to each other. And of course a person can have both adhd and be autistic. I think online people use the term AuDHD for that.
Here's my opinion:
For the most part, those people carry a painful experience with them and are looking for an opportunity to bare their soul to someone. They are looking some form of therapy or sympathy that is unavailable to them. They don't want to be judge by people they know so they unload all of that to a stranger.
3:20 Wow. Busy day! He must have gotten up very early in the morning!
Was at a fan convention. My friend had invited someone she'd met online, but never in person to share the hotel room with us. Within an hour after meeting, she was showing us several selfies she'd taken of her dead grandfather. She was curled up with the body on a bed, and had a big smile on her face. Sooooo creepy.
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The thumbnail tho--
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Background music fits the mood perfectly,could do with a laughter track too.
At least this isn't the channel that flashes FUN after horror stories
"my husband died of brain cancer"....it was like a badge to her
My mom was on a date with my dad once.....8 months pregnant and a guy walks up and asks if she's a nun.....she says no but he sits there confessing random stuff anyway! Lol they left after dad went to the bathroom.
A girl I had just hired at my job in college told me she liked Asian guys because she thinks all Asian guys have their finances in order. I figured she just said it because I'm Asian.
I told her, "I already offered you the job, don't make it weird."
lol wtf
Not sure if I should feel bad for laughing at this
Met cute girl few years ago. First thing she told me that she sees ghost, and she had a panther spirit animal who will attack me in my dreams if i didn't buy her make up she wants.
The first time I met my cousin's girlfriend (now wife), she told me about a dream she had about aliens coming out of her butt and how her ehm hole was sore upon waking. She told me that she went into the bathroom to check it out and found that she had stuck the gum she fell asleep chewing into her BH while sleeping. I haven't been the same since. They've been married for 12 years now, lol.
🤣🤣🤣
Idk, the dude who beat the crap out of people and took care of his daughter was morally although not legally justifiable. I'm not a violence person but I understand the inclination.
That hardly sounds cost effective lol. For real tho, that's a great way to gently help someone out of a delusion. Don't disagree, but ask clarifying questions that make them think it through.
I'm very quiet and try to be nice to everyone. People constantly overshare I tend to just say, "that sucks man but I get it." Then hand them a cigarette, usually they just smile say thanks and walk away.
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There is no better content on earth than stories from other peoples’ lives
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6:19 d-did I read that right?! 0.0 the dad was sleeping with his….yes ? 😃💀
Someone in my class in college told me they were being abused at home as well as their sister. Their sister went to the same college as us and it was just us two talking and I mentioned that I’d help out with anything if need be. The sister was so confused and I told her what their sibling said and she denied everything. The sister stated that their parents never hit them and showed me their arms to prove it. Apparently the person in my class had been lying about this a lot for sympathy as they didn’t do well in class, they left after Christmas. Saw them once after trying to enrol back but looked annoyed, probably because they were kicked out for continuous lying and couldn’t be bothered to do any work in the classes they signed up for
'. . . resulted in a baby she somehow still has' . . . Why _wouldn't_ she stil have it?
I guess if she had been beaten so much it could make her lose the baby? Iunno.
Well I certainly wouldn't keep that shit lol
Given up for adoption, or abortion
Wendy's gonna sue!😂
On god i said the same thing why Wendy though?
Uhhhh...I would be the person in question...
I had a _REALLY_ fudged up childhood....like, p*dophilia, parental abandonment followed by said parent revolving dooring in and out of my life for years on end and becoming borderline verbally abusive (not intentional on his part and he did stop once he realized but still...), being essentially verbally and at times emotionally abused by the kids at my school because of bullying, essentially becoming an emotionless shell to the point that I became numb to the abuse the kids at my school hurled at me...literally forgot how to feel emotions...
On the bright side: Once I realized that other people had it worse (I still had a supportive family for the most part and on top of this my mom went to school to be a psychologist/therapist so even if she couldn't actually have me as a patient or anything due to her being my mother she still knows how to deal with this kind of thing better than most parents might) I was able to get over this trauma almost immediately (the only major thing that lingered was the borderline verbally abusive parent thing because well...uh....that kind of screwed me up so much that I developed selective amnesia and I can't really undo that...) and instantly started doing everything I could do to try and help others from having to suffer through things like I did.
Unfortunately for other people....
_BECAUSE_ I was able to get over all this so quickly (I was like...8-9 when I had this realization and it literally took all of 1 minute for me to snap out of it because I was _THAT_ empathetic...) I now have no problems talking about it because it all seems so insignificant to me. Like, yeah that happened but it made me a better person so why should I linger on it? Plus I'm mildly autistic so....
Anyway, I'm actually glad all that stuff happened because like I said it made me a better person and it also made it so that I'm a lot more resistant towards trauma (I wasn't even phased during a potential school shooting aside from a few seconds of panic) which is really convenient seeing as how I have literal crippling anxiety. Like, I should _LITERALLY_ have a _PHYSICAL DEFORMITY_ from how high my anxiety/stress levels are....
12:17 WELL, homegirl is not alone with this 😅😅😅
A dude that started working at my job told me he has to break it to his brother's fiance that his Mom's side of the family has incest issues, his Mom included (I think it was after he was born but idk about the brother) That was the first of many many odd things I learned about him, his extended family, his wife, and his 6 kids.
I'm from Nunavut, Canada I'd like to hear who was murdered.
oh shoot uploaded an hour ago?? earliest i’ve ever been
I have a restraining order against a guy so ~3 shifts in I informed my managers that if a specific person comes into the store I will be beating him with a stapler……yeah, fun
Someone told me that people that do not talk are dangerous. Then she asked why I do not talk. Why was she talking to me if she just told me people that to no talk are dangerous?
Coffee. Enemas.
🎶the best part of waking up - is Folgers in your butt🎶
My friend almost killed a 8th grader that said something that made him angry when he was in 7th grade.
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You'd be surprised how many women are into the aiming for you thing. Like, if you're ever at a party and the bathroom is being dominated by girls doing coke or whatever and they're not going to leave just ask if one of them wants to aim for you and I pretty much guarantee you'll get at least one "I've always wanted to try that".
I used to joke about that being a sexual fantasy of mine even though it isn't. Kinda surprised to hear this. Maybe I should actually try it out just to see.
The guy who confessed to kill the daughter's rapist and wife's murderer.... Don't feel a inch of guilty.... I'm sure!
I had a friend of a friend admit to me what he was in jail for. He helped murder his ex girlfriend's mother. My friend didn't even know about this.
wow, never been this early before
Oop same
@Commander Neyo don't be bitter you weren't early babe 😩
“No I have turned my life around. I will not suck nor be sucked upon again”
3:10 this guy sounds like a badass
Weapon du jour: hammer.
18:23 I am now Crying for that five year old girl and her brother 😢🥺
I’m from Vancouver. How did I not know that?
I'm from Vancity I didn't know we were known for thai massages...Then again I'm 17 so.
10:25 um no the patriarchy has nothing to do with this lmao. His HALF sisters. He is the only full relative lmao
6:19 Do they live in Alabama?
La cage aux folger`s: for those who like their coffee in the can.
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Batpoop silly.
Cool.
I think the vaccine story is pretty funny because usually antivaxxers are super insistent about their beliefs, but this lady was just like “yea idk maybe i heard it wrong”
Met a dude who would come to the bus stop from the gym after I got off of work, he was really big on the white man making everything hard for us(we’re black and I agree to an extent but he exaggerated it to the max) and kept on showing me his sex tapes with his girlfriend while going my route home instead of his so he can talk longer. I think he was high functioning mentally handicapped but I can’t say for sure
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I was buddied up for a turnaround . This dude was in my local but this was the first time i worked with him...he would show me pictures of him and his wife in gangbangs... I think me and the construction dude know the same ... the dudes name was J.R. 🤨
This probably should have had the serious music instead
Fix the robot voice strokeouts, yeah?
This is totally unrelated, but my stomach hurts. SAD
Edit: After sleeping it off, my stomach no longer hurts. YAY
Why the Wendy Williams bug picture though?
Y not
@@jeanne5922 but why is it cuz she looks like the bug or what?she has secrets?Sheesh
@@jeniseweeks5534 I'm guessing it's because guests on her show often overshared, and she didn't hold anything back either. Also because she's had a couple of unfortunate scandals herself the last couple of years (relapse of alcoholism; husband had a baby with mistress).
As for the bug part...that seems to be a 'thing' on TH-cam thumbnails. Also it might be to avoid a copyright violation - - they're sort of making it clear the story isn't affiliated with the real Wendy Williams.
Does Anyone have waluigi rule 34?
1:28 Wilson Fisk?
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Hey 👋
This was hella funny 🤣
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What happened to 2nd
Bat poop silly, thank you 😬
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First!
@Commander Neyo I read this too quickly and I thought your name was commander mayo-
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