1. Fear of failure (not just trying to change or do new things) 2. Fear of success 3. Not believe in yourself 4. I don’t deserve success or this job or this woman/man or this car or something else that I what like to integrate into my life, maybe to taste it for a while. 5. I want to fit in, I don’t want to be different as I truely am. 6. perfection is fear of shame or be not enough 7. Don‘t change your circumstances and friendships.
ALSO: that's why i stopped sleeping . started 'sleeping' on gifts i thought not worthy enough to give , attention 24/7 to, since i'm not as perfect as i want me to be. i'm too discouraged to be completely awake/ aware to acknowlage what i already have as Human .in a way of i only work half - hearted for my work . Damaging anything that looks like a Way for putting my imperfect Self out .
I've spent my life sabotaging my career, my education, my standard of living. I know I do it and don't know why! I see a pattern but not until afterwards. I feel my potential is abundant but my self sabotage hides it. I have excuse after excuse to the point of hopelesness.
It's true. I was always worried about trying to fit in but we live in a narcissistic society and we'll never fit in. Screw it! Better be myself. I've been alienated by my relatives first because I wasn't good enough for them and they trained me to self loathe. And we always surrender to peer pressure. This words made me change my perspective...
My self-sabotaging comes in the form of substance abuse and promiscuity when I begin to reach my goals. It has taken me a lifetime to realize I don't feel deserving because of all the lousy, hurtful things I have done to other people, most of which are dead by now. It makes no sense but I can't seem to stop this thinking/behavior. It feels as if it has taken on a life of its own.
If you have asked God to forgive you, BELIEVE you are FORGIVEN. I pray that the feelings of regret and all the other negative thoughts have been lifted from you.
Thank you Pastor for this message. How much the devil has stolen from me because I did not love and believe in myself and believe the truths of God about me. I always thought I was less than anyone, the very bottom. This ends now. I am a NEW CREATION and my LORD IS JESUS CHRIST. The old patterns only have power if I give them power. I am not a slave to any old thought patterns or substance. I am a slave only to Jesus and I am called to success, peace and love in Jesus. I will seek Your will and be successful in following it through. Blessings to everyone and much success in your lives in Jesus' name! The devil is a liar!
I just listening to this summer, and I just want to thank you so much for it... It gave me clarity and understanding of myself, that led me to a greater understanding of why my life has been so backward confusing. God bless to you
Beautiful Word. Thank you, I needed to hear this because without realization and action the cycle will continue. God bless everyone, and I hope you all find healing .
@@himynameisandri thank you!! it's been 7 months since this and now I'm at a job I genuinely enjoy and it's walking distance from my house so that's a plus. feeling blessed!!
It’s meh starting and not feeling like I can withstand the pressure maintain the challenge or path I decide to take?? That’s what I don’t like feeling the uncomfortableness of that school that’s an example school is one the main one 🤦🏾♀️
Today love, tomorrow hate, the next day I don't know, all times I look for love, but only find the foes. I have no place to turn, to find Tru hearts of love, I reach out to be hugged, they only push and shove.
1. Fear of failure (not just trying to change or do new things)
2. Fear of success
3. Not believe in yourself
4. I don’t deserve success or this job or this woman/man or this car or something else that I what like to integrate into my life, maybe to taste it for a while.
5. I want to fit in, I don’t want to be different as I truely am.
6. perfection is fear of shame or be not enough
7. Don‘t change your circumstances and friendships.
It’s number 1 for meh. 🤦🏾♀️
Perfectionism was something I’ve always struggled with and I’m finally breaking free from it. Thank you for this word Pastor TD Jakes
Byron Hyde Same, Here. Everything he’s saying about perfectionism is the TRUTH
Me too...but I decided to kill it before it kills me...enough is enough
lol ok
I wish we could talk...bcos this shit is killing me
Same. I didn't even know I was a perfectionist until somebody pointed it out to me
This person is encouraging me to believe in myself ❤
Wow . I now understand that perfectionism is the root of SELF - sabotage ! There's a human never able to be "perfect" so we perfectly make us unable ..to do anything "imperfect" at all . Called us all out. this was loud right ?! ©👑🕊️
ALSO: that's why i stopped sleeping . started 'sleeping' on gifts i thought not worthy enough to give , attention 24/7 to, since i'm not as perfect as i want me to be. i'm too discouraged to be completely awake/ aware to acknowlage what i already have as Human .in a way of i only work half - hearted for my work . Damaging anything that looks like a Way for putting my imperfect Self out .
Hey! Pls can i get the complete video?
I've spent my life sabotaging my career, my education, my standard of living. I know I do it and don't know why! I see a pattern but not until afterwards. I feel my potential is abundant but my self sabotage hides it. I have excuse after excuse to the point of hopelesness.
I also give myself excuses a lot
I'm in the same boat....
You are not alone in this, Sister
You just described me😭
You are not alone I do the same thing but at least you recognize it. When you can see it you can change it @kelly officer
Lord that sounds like me
Is there a way to get the full tape? I believe the complete tape would have solutions to the behaviors he talked about
"Just because they're shooting at you, dosent mean they shot you"
I don't go to church anymore but his words are beyond true and I needed to hear this, thank you for your wise words sir.
My brain needed to hear this
I was asking Divine to send this message - perfectly timed and ingested. I give myself permission to succeed
This is so good 2023
So true all words relate to me amen tomorrow will watch fully
Just came to the realization that I've been doing this to myself my whole life. Stops now!
Thank you Thank you and bless you for your wise words ❤
I love this!
It's true. I was always worried about trying to fit in but we live in a narcissistic society and we'll never fit in. Screw it! Better be myself. I've been alienated by my relatives first because I wasn't good enough for them and they trained me to self loathe. And we always surrender to peer pressure. This words made me change my perspective...
Narcissistic Society it’s growing on same speed as technology but I have faith on Q
Same here
My self-sabotaging comes in the form of substance abuse and promiscuity when I begin to reach my goals. It has taken me a lifetime to realize I don't feel deserving because of all the lousy, hurtful things I have done to other people, most of which are dead by now. It makes no sense but I can't seem to stop this thinking/behavior. It feels as if it has taken on a life of its own.
I'm sorry! You should se e a psychologist to help you out of that cicle.
If you have asked God to forgive you, BELIEVE you are FORGIVEN. I pray that the feelings of regret and all the other negative thoughts have been lifted from you.
Thank you Pastor for this message. How much the devil has stolen from me because I did not love and believe in myself and believe the truths of God about me. I always thought I was less than anyone, the very bottom. This ends now. I am a NEW CREATION and my LORD IS JESUS CHRIST. The old patterns only have power if I give them power. I am not a slave to any old thought patterns or substance. I am a slave only to Jesus and I am called to success, peace and love in Jesus. I will seek Your will and be successful in following it through. Blessings to everyone and much success in your lives in Jesus' name! The devil is a liar!
Amen, beautifully claimed 🙌😇
Thank you for uploading this gem! Thanks to this man for his true, amazing words!
This is from starting at 18:40 min into T. D. Jakes sermon on leadership th-cam.com/video/37e9yeGKrrg/w-d-xo.html
Amen!
I just listening to this summer, and I just want to thank you so much for it... It gave me clarity and understanding of myself, that led me to a greater understanding of why my life has been so backward confusing. God bless to you
Where is this video?
I believe saying affirmation to overcome limiting beliefs can help
That is the key, “ what people think of you “
Undeserving.. Amazing 👍
This was my eye opening.
Beautiful Word. Thank you, I needed to hear this because without realization and action the cycle will continue. God bless everyone, and I hope you all find healing .
My breakthrough right here 10 th may,2022
The best part is : secretely talented - I am gonna sing at home!!!
"Chronic underachiever" so true.....
I'm going to be secretly gifted by staying home :) this is common...
Whew how I needed this!
I did not know how much I was psychologically messed up until I watched this
What a fantastic speaker, and accurate message...
What sermon was this from?
Please, where can I get the full teaching? This has hit some nerves, I want to listen to all of it.
THANK YOUUUU TD Jakes.
OMG sorry for the capital letters but you've made may day greater. Blessings.
Which sermon is this from? I'd like to buy the whole series.
This is from starting at 18:40 min into T. D. Jakes sermon on leadership th-cam.com/video/37e9yeGKrrg/w-d-xo.html
Whoa!! All of this is awesome! That "we" will get you every time if you let it!
This has really blessed me thank you
Thanks I needed to hear this
This video got me super inspired and insightful, thanks for your fabulous speach!
I own a business, it could turn over so so much.. If it wasn't for me.. And it's hard.
Thank you, this is so encouraging
Thank you for this word I wish I got here sooner
Where is the full video pls
Such amazing words..!! Truly admire the man 😀
This is so true and so appropriate.
But, what if i feel fear of success and fear of fail in the same time? Hmmm
I needed to hear this today
Thank you for being a 'voice' to God's words. 🙏
I needed this, thank you so much ♥️🙏🏾
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you x
What's the name of the sermon?
God Bless You
Thank you.
Hellow, kindly share the link for the whole summon. Thank you in advance
Exactly spot on. Thank you
Where is the rest of the sermon?
I wish I watched this earlier... seems a bit late now, might have just sabotaged another job. :(
@@himynameisandri thank you!! it's been 7 months since this and now I'm at a job I genuinely enjoy and it's walking distance from my house so that's a plus. feeling blessed!!
What’s this pastor name
Bishop TDJakes
It’s meh starting and not feeling like I can withstand the pressure maintain the challenge or path I decide to take?? That’s what I don’t like feeling the uncomfortableness of that school that’s an example school is one the main one 🤦🏾♀️
I’ve been stuck 20 years cleaning out the trunk. 😪
One day can change it all- I promise you but I know what stickiness feels like. Dig deep to find why you want to find momentum again - sending love
WOOW, so GOOOD!!!
Ty for this ..may I ask this mans name ?
Hallelujah!
Wow. I feel this
Excellent message
Amen very good advice💲
Progress! Thank you...
Thank you 🙏
Hallelujah
Many lessons here.
This message cuts deep
Sorry, but i dont really find any ways mentioned to stop self sabotage.. The man, however, did great job on addressing types of self sabotaging.
He mentioned all the mental attitude and thinking that we may be thinking that holds us back and leads us to self sabotage
That’s so real
hallelujah
Great video!!!
Today love, tomorrow hate, the next day I don't know, all times I look for love, but only find the foes. I have no place to turn, to find Tru hearts of love, I reach out to be hugged, they only push and shove.
Lord, have mercy.
Wow, this is good.
I love this 🙌🙌🙌
What is the name of the man ? I ought to keep listening him;)
TD JAKES
Bishop T.D. Jakes (Dallas, TX)
OUCH & THANK YOU
Wow!!! This is so amazing!!! Thank you
❤
Wow
Oh yes hit the mark
Good old Bishop TD Jakes.💜
Amen
Amen 🙏
SPECHLESS ...
I don't want to study and become a scientist or else my father will suck all my money.
🙌🏾
who is this man????
from starting at 18:40 min into T. D. Jakes sermon on leadership th-cam.com/video/37e9yeGKrrg/w-d-xo.html
This mirror
💯
Oh Lord God
YEOUCH.
2019