Truth is, women actually LOVE the concept of patriarchy. It puts them first the same way women would put themselves first, but if it's patriarchy they can blame men. This is why if you ask someone who blabs this nonsense how they would go about getting rid of it and replace it with what they never have a response, they never bothered to think about it, they like their advantages.
“Patriarchy” was around for thousands of years bc that was the best solution for survival. It’s not really patriarchy bc it’s not like the men are tyrants they’re just taking on the leader role.
Friend. They can't even cook or clean anymore, let alone own up to their mess ups. Chivalry. My good man. You'll givw them ulcers, with your suggestion.
Women are to be _ladies_ if they're to expect chivalry, which was once a practice of knights. Not to mention, chivalry was never originally expected to be exercised with common people in mind at all. And, the fact of the matter is, ladies don't really exist anymore. Especially not in Western countries where there are literally no standards women are required to meet to _be_ ladies.
They want a traditional man that will deal with their untraditional opinions. I'm all for us women doing their thing, I just don't understand why it has to be at the expense of men .
And when they actually don’t want that. More importantly mind changes to everyone from 20’ and 30’ so often. So exclude teenagers because it’s a different topic. I tried to be traditional and didn’t get to see this result so don’t worry. Investigation process was priceless to know that below 20’ there are more than a lot of girls who don’t know what they want from life yet.
I don't know if I want a return to chivalry but I do think society could sure benefit with a lot more courtesy, manners, and politeness. Across the board and regardless of sex.
The 2nd lady has an interesting point 🎯 ! ... She means you are never obliged/forced to be chivalrous by default ... Only if you consider it to be the case & by your own decision ... Quite smart and grown-up 👍 .
Chivalry isn't female privilege as defined in this video, chivalry is a code of conduct that both men and women adhered to. Men were expected to hold open doors for ladies, but by the same token, a housewife seeing a group of male construction workers working in the sun in July would offer them water and care about their well-being.
No, chivalry was the code of conduct by knights. Women did not practice chivalry. Women were to be _proper ladies._ What you described here on the womans behalf was _ladylike_ behavior. Something the _vast_ majority of Western women no longer exhibit, which is why they deserve no chivalry.
Chivalrous nature of any form was for the NOBLE MEN AND WOMEN OF YOUR TOWN OR COUNTRY. These people took care of you so you wouldn’t allow them to suffer the mundane consequences that life would offer them. After a few romance novels ,in the early 1500s, they started applying this concept of chivalry to fair Maidens. It is said that after those years men became simps.
"How can a society that places women first be called a patriarchy?" "Very easily. You can call anything anything. Oh, you want it to make sense? No, that's not what this is about."
You should be chivalrous. You dont wait to see if a woman deserves respect. You show her respect, and if she shows you that she doesn't deserve it then you leave. Be the best you can be, and if someone doesn't deserve you just walk away rather than lowering yourself to their level.
In some cases leaving is not an option. If the female is your boss or your coworker because of affirmative action, if she's the mother of your children, etc. In those cases you can't just leave but you have to work with and deal with a completely incompetent entitled bitch whose only goal is to make your life absolutely miserable.
Nah fam. You give me her name. I'll sort her out for you. 5 figure therapist bills and anti depressants. Guaranteed. How else will she learn that you were actually good to her? She needs to experience an atomic toxic jerk like me, that's how.
The second woman is absolutely RIGHT! A woman should earn a man’s chivalry NOT demanded! Like she said, people should talk about what is chivalry means to them!
Chivalry is taught or learned...not an innate characteristic. Being chivalrous means a certain code of conduct or behavior adhered to, with regards to a number of situations and scenarios. This can mean being polite and courteous, like saying hello to people, holding doors open for them. Chivalry is also about helping others, like assisting your neighbor with taking in their groceries, or helping others clean up after a disaster, like a fire or flood. Chivalry also means that you stand up for people, if you feel they are being bullied or unjustly treated. But most of all, chivalry means that you place value in the people around you, and the neighborhood where you live. It could be as simple as picking up someone else's trash, or as significant as saving your elderly neighbor from their burning home. And yes, it can also mean you push in a lady's chair, or open the door for them.
Good explanation by the last girl, men should show it to begin with to show good intentions and intentions going forward...if a woman does not receive it in the right way then it shows her colours not urs respect each other luv each other only good thing can come from it. Never go into a situation in a negative mindset
@@John-q9v9m But she said it should be earned and beated around the bush a bunch. She contradicted herself atleast twice and then said it should be talked about before hand to establish what level of chivalry a woman is in to. Thats just weird city people stuff, what you said is true.. she just didnt say that
yeah the last fella in the brown beanie hat and wearing a hoodie was right! plus Chivalry was code of honour for the medieval battlefield and it only applies to men from noble families fighting against eachother! and during the crusades it became the fashion for a knight to seduce a fellow knights wife while her husband was fighting against the moor/ottermans and when he returned home to find out about his wife being unfaithful the adulterous knight would runaway to the holylands and atone for his sins by slaying a bunch of middle Eastern people then after 18 months he'd return to Europe and the angry husband couldn't do nothing to him because it was against the code of Chivalry!
Treat others how you would want to be treated until they give a reason to do otherwise. You should go into a date already acting in a way that is respectful to the person you are on a date with. Having the mindset that they are only gonna get my good behavior if they earn it, gaurantees that you will never have good behavior.
@pneumaticFrequency being nice and being respectful are two different things. Military teaches you to be respectful, Would you say Military members are nice?
Patriarchy: Women and children first.
Matriarchy: Me, me, me, me, me....
You forgot two last things demanded. She/Her. Tho this new age thought process is flipping that on its head.
Truth is, women actually LOVE the concept of patriarchy. It puts them first the same way women would put themselves first, but if it's patriarchy they can blame men. This is why if you ask someone who blabs this nonsense how they would go about getting rid of it and replace it with what they never have a response, they never bothered to think about it, they like their advantages.
Elliot Roger wannabees.
That's all you are.
“Patriarchy” was around for thousands of years bc that was the best solution for survival. It’s not really patriarchy bc it’s not like the men are tyrants they’re just taking on the leader role.
Facts
Chivalry is sexism that benefits women. - Myron Gaines
Jesus Christ. ... You don't know what chivalry is, do you?
@@BrotherAlphawe know. It’s legit what he said. Women are never chivalrous towards men. While men are always expect to be chivalrous towards women.
@@BrotherAlphawhat is sexism😒
@@BrotherAlphayou can take that "alpha" out of you name now...
Woman should be chivalrous.
Friend. They can't even cook or clean anymore, let alone own up to their mess ups. Chivalry. My good man. You'll givw them ulcers, with your suggestion.
You know that’s too much to ask from the cheapest people on earth. 😂
Women are to be _ladies_ if they're to expect chivalry, which was once a practice of knights. Not to mention, chivalry was never originally expected to be exercised with common people in mind at all.
And, the fact of the matter is, ladies don't really exist anymore. Especially not in Western countries where there are literally no standards women are required to meet to _be_ ladies.
Girl with the beanie gives me hope.
In a way, imo - but she has to take that $h¡t out of her nose... what a waste of a potentially pretty face (and that "man-talk" has to go).
Same man
It's the second time I'm seeing her make so much sense
Most of us are good men most of them dont deserve us.
@TopG371 thats why i said most of us are good men bad men are mostly screwed up by their insufferable satanic momsters.
@TopG371men absolutely are great. You think women built the world around you?
Elliot Rogers wannabee.
Find a good therapist in your area before it is too late.
That's a whole ass lie, if that were true onlyfans wouldn't exist because simps wouldn't exist. Most men are simps that's very much not good.
The biggest problem is modern women expecting a traditional man when they're not traditional at all🤷
fact
It truly amazes me and it’s actually entertaining when a non traditional woman expects and is surprised that traditional men don’t want them.
They want a traditional man that will deal with their untraditional opinions. I'm all for us women doing their thing, I just don't understand why it has to be at the expense of men .
And when they actually don’t want that. More importantly mind changes to everyone from 20’ and 30’ so often. So exclude teenagers because it’s a different topic.
I tried to be traditional and didn’t get to see this result so don’t worry. Investigation process was priceless to know that below 20’ there are more than a lot of girls who don’t know what they want from life yet.
Modern woman DON'T FUCKING WANT A TRADITIONAL MAN!!!
When was the last time you actually talked to women?
That last person be speaking facts
The first guy nailed it...Its a Paradox
Not a paradox. A lie.
It’s only a lie if they see and agree with the truth.. it’s nothing short of a different paradox movie without the invasion
She’s basically saying, just work around our nonsense
The last lady killed it lowkey
I don't know if I want a return to chivalry but I do think society could sure benefit with a lot more courtesy, manners, and politeness. Across the board and regardless of sex.
The 2nd lady has an interesting point 🎯 ! ... She means you are never obliged/forced to be chivalrous by default ... Only if you consider it to be the case & by your own decision ... Quite smart and grown-up 👍 .
Wow these are really hard hitting questions .
Buck the narrative !
Chivalry isn't female privilege as defined in this video, chivalry is a code of conduct that both men and women adhered to. Men were expected to hold open doors for ladies, but by the same token, a housewife seeing a group of male construction workers working in the sun in July would offer them water and care about their well-being.
No, chivalry was the code of conduct by knights. Women did not practice chivalry. Women were to be _proper ladies._
What you described here on the womans behalf was _ladylike_ behavior. Something the _vast_ majority of Western women no longer exhibit, which is why they deserve no chivalry.
Chivalrous nature of any form was for the NOBLE MEN AND WOMEN OF YOUR TOWN OR COUNTRY. These people took care of you so you wouldn’t allow them to suffer the mundane consequences that life would offer them. After a few romance novels ,in the early 1500s, they started applying this concept of chivalry to fair Maidens. It is said that after those years men became simps.
Yep. Pretty accurate.
Smart lady
chivalry in todays modern dating is conjunction to the just be friends first theory 😂
"How can a society that places women first be called a patriarchy?"
"Very easily. You can call anything anything. Oh, you want it to make sense? No, that's not what this is about."
We don't live in a society that places women first.
"Answer the following questions without starting with 'I feel like...'..."
You should be chivalrous. You dont wait to see if a woman deserves respect. You show her respect, and if she shows you that she doesn't deserve it then you leave. Be the best you can be, and if someone doesn't deserve you just walk away rather than lowering yourself to their level.
Exactly
In some cases leaving is not an option. If the female is your boss or your coworker because of affirmative action, if she's the mother of your children, etc. In those cases you can't just leave but you have to work with and deal with a completely incompetent entitled bitch whose only goal is to make your life absolutely miserable.
Often you can easily spot she doesn't deserve it far in advance
You can still show respect without chivalry.
Nah fam. You give me her name. I'll sort her out for you. 5 figure therapist bills and anti depressants. Guaranteed. How else will she learn that you were actually good to her? She needs to experience an atomic toxic jerk like me, that's how.
Because men have the end goal of providing and protecting. Working towards the families future
The second woman is absolutely RIGHT! A woman should earn a man’s chivalry NOT demanded! Like she said, people should talk about what is chivalry means to them!
Women expect chivalry because they are constantly being told by media, family, and friends they deserve more.
They’re opening legs for men. Is not that chivalry?🤣🤣
Imagine having to even think about the question "Is chivalry a female priviledge". Just trying to find some way to say no, all that was.
Chivalry is taught or learned...not an innate characteristic. Being chivalrous means a certain code of conduct or behavior adhered to, with regards to a number of situations and scenarios.
This can mean being polite and courteous, like saying hello to people, holding doors open for them. Chivalry is also about helping others, like assisting your neighbor with taking in their groceries, or helping others clean up after a disaster, like a fire or flood.
Chivalry also means that you stand up for people, if you feel they are being bullied or unjustly treated. But most of all, chivalry means that you place value in the people around you, and the neighborhood where you live. It could be as simple as picking up someone else's trash, or as significant as saving your elderly neighbor from their burning home. And yes, it can also mean you push in a lady's chair, or open the door for them.
Was stunned shocked at the same time when a woman opened the door for me, a man😮
Chivalry in some countries is just good manners
Good explanation by the last girl, men should show it to begin with to show good intentions and intentions going forward...if a woman does not receive it in the right way then it shows her colours not urs respect each other luv each other only good thing can come from it. Never go into a situation in a negative mindset
She never said that, she basically said she has never left the city in her life
@scottiedpoy8508 never said she said that just said the last girl explained it well. Then I added my own comments on it.
@@John-q9v9m But she said it should be earned and beated around the bush a bunch. She contradicted herself atleast twice and then said it should be talked about before hand to establish what level of chivalry a woman is in to. Thats just weird city people stuff, what you said is true.. she just didnt say that
Being choosy is a privilege.
Is not a paradox, is a contradiction.
I'll hold that door for whoever is behind me no matter what gender. 99% appreciate it, all that have been offended were female.
yeah the last fella in the brown beanie hat and wearing a hoodie was right! plus Chivalry was code of honour for the medieval battlefield and it only applies to men from noble families fighting against eachother! and during the crusades it became the fashion for a knight to seduce a fellow knights wife while her husband was fighting against the moor/ottermans and when he returned home to find out about his wife being unfaithful the adulterous knight would runaway to the holylands and atone for his sins by slaying a bunch of middle Eastern people then after 18 months he'd return to Europe and the angry husband couldn't do nothing to him because it was against the code of Chivalry!
"Whenever men dominate into something, the women are always whining"
- Pearl Davis
You don't have to be mean, but you also don't owe anyone your kindness
Yo I don't open doors for dudes I don't even open doors for girls anymore😂 They stop saying thank you.
Slim shady made some sense
Q? Why do liberal women always want a traditional conservative man why don't liberal women want a liberal man? Why?...
I like the second girl. She actually seems to use her head
Even if it was earned it would still be a privilege.
A patriarchy with special rights and privileges exclusively for women no matter how dissrespectful or poor their attitude is.
Men will bring up women, but a woman would never bring up a man except maybe her son, hopefully. But statistically...
Going around vega trying to dunk on feminism with loaded questions - i feel like im in 2015 again lol
I always let the lady go first, espesially in deep snow and blizzards...
Shia la buff looks young in this video
We also feed and clothe inmates for free. False equivalency.
I like beanie girl
No it doesn't make sense. Don't go out with anyone who has no manners.
No answer yet, just more BS!
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Weird that he assumes our society does place them first.
It's a fact not an assumption
It's a fact to anyone not completely incapable of intellectual honesty and/or critical thinking.@@scruffmcgruffthecrimedawg5661
No it doesn’t make sense. None of you ever make sense.
I don’t like when women walk right in front of you
Treat others how you would want to be treated until they give a reason to do otherwise.
You should go into a date already acting in a way that is respectful to the person you are on a date with. Having the mindset that they are only gonna get my good behavior if they earn it, gaurantees that you will never have good behavior.
At the same time, nice guys finish last. Being a bit of a d is often effective, sadly
@pneumaticFrequency being nice and being respectful are two different things. Military teaches you to be respectful, Would you say Military members are nice?
Where patriarchy?
Before you comment, THINK.
This is scripted ragebait intended to make you feel angry.
Like most things on the internet, it's _not real._
What about would make anyone mad
Ungrateful brats