Cyn - I’ll Still Have Me

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  • @imnobody3235
    @imnobody3235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9903

    "Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being."

    • @nehar.7953
      @nehar.7953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Couldn't agree more.

    • @nehar.7953
      @nehar.7953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Ps- it's one of my favourite song.

    • @imnobody3235
      @imnobody3235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      💞

    • @invictusrockefeller8407
      @invictusrockefeller8407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      th-cam.com/video/_qTr1_VASMw/w-d-xo.html

    • @filipzagawa
      @filipzagawa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Sadly, people don't realize that and they just broke other's hearts

  • @saltyshimakei4155
    @saltyshimakei4155 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8380

    This song is both self-empowering and sad and I am not sure how exactly I am supposed to feel about it.

    • @sadboi3119
      @sadboi3119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      same

    • @JessThatsIt
      @JessThatsIt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      You can be sad and empowered at the same time!

    • @vonnytsamara9208
      @vonnytsamara9208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I feel it tho, can relate :')

    • @lorsange1107
      @lorsange1107 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Both.

    • @fiza5275
      @fiza5275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Okay but does anyone notice how she teared up at the very end??

  • @terristockburger8648
    @terristockburger8648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2983

    I'm bawling my eyes out during this song. I'm a 30-something year old person who just started working in a Senior Care Community as a caregiver. All the elderly residences are so sweet. On my third shift, an elderly gentlemen who liked to joke around with me told me he was off to visit his wife at another building. She was suffering with Alzheimer's and they haven't seen each other since before christmas because of Covid. He was so excited. Then when I came back, I asked how it went, and while helping him get ready for bed, he couldn't keep his brave face on anymore. He broke down crying saying 'She just smiled at me.'. She didn't remember who he was. He went on talking about how he loved her, she was his life, if she left he wanted to go too all while crying. I couldn't help but tear up and hold him. I can't imagine being elderly, and many of my friends, family, pets, places, associates, all slowly disappearing from me. ...idk, just wanted to say that. Please treat everyone with respect, because we are all hurting and many feel so lonely, but there are those out there who are willing to talk to you and understand.

    • @pattiallen3741
      @pattiallen3741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Beautiful! Stay strong beautiful soul

    • @StewNWT
      @StewNWT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Thank you for this beautiful comment. I'm a doctor who works in palliative care and I see and feel this all the time.

    • @perfectlyimperfectmae6137
      @perfectlyimperfectmae6137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      and now I'm crying with this... 😭❤️

    • @auntynoa1702
      @auntynoa1702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I am very sure this is not just a job to you.. Thank you for being his listening ear. You are really kind.

    • @Atr42Greasemonkey
      @Atr42Greasemonkey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      God love him poor thing. I also worked in a nursing home for for a few years. The residents have amazing stories both sad and good.

  • @jennapolignone7205
    @jennapolignone7205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2476

    My grandparents are in this!! The first couple interviewd that’s them they are the best :)

    • @pierrebalandras6320
      @pierrebalandras6320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      oh wow !!!!

    • @pierrebalandras6320
      @pierrebalandras6320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      what did they think about the making of the video, and about the song ?

    • @afridatasnimchowdhury2285
      @afridatasnimchowdhury2285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      They are sooo adorable!! 💕

    • @MamaChar
      @MamaChar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      They are beautiful!! It was a pleasure working with them! Please give my regards!! ✌️💃🎶

    • @MamaChar
      @MamaChar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      @@pierrebalandras6320 I am the solo dancer in this video (mamacharblessed) and we enjoyed filming this video very much. As seniors, who have loved and lost, it was a perfect song for each of us! Thanks for listening and commenting! ✌️🎶💃

  • @AmroAzzouzi
    @AmroAzzouzi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1196

    I broke my back 'cause
    I thought you would too
    I'd run in circles
    I thought you would too
    Maybe in another life
    Everything worked out alright
    And things that made this harder passed us by
    But there's no bad dream to wake up from
    Know I got it bad when it's the morning
    And you're all that's on my mind
    If I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    I never thought twice
    'Cause you were my number one
    I put you first 'cause
    You were my only thought
    No more riding on the train
    No more smoking in the ally
    Now my secrets only stay with me
    Everybody knows I'm upset
    They don't even have to ask it
    They know I believed in us last week
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And there's no reason to speak badly
    We just reached our end
    I will see you in parts of me
    In who I was back then
    If I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me, me, me

  • @Julianabaus
    @Julianabaus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6650

    When my grandpa died we were so scared that it would kill my grandma. They were married for over 60 years. They had 3 beautiful daughters and tons of grandchildren. They travelled the whole world many times with their van and dogs together. The goodbye was hard for all of us. But they spend their whole life with each other. Every day for this entire time. And now after his death she retain the van to travel again. To visit all the places they both liked the most. She is such a strong person and I am so proud of her for not giving up on life ♥️

    • @Your_Best_Nightmare
      @Your_Best_Nightmare 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      That's beautiful ❤️

    • @1987samanthakay
      @1987samanthakay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      This made me cry, very beautiful...give her a hug and kiss from me :)

    • @monikamylonopoyloy6223
      @monikamylonopoyloy6223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Such a beautiful yet heartbreaking story. Your grandparents sound to be awesome! I'm glad your grandma didn't give up despite the huge pain she must be feeling. I wish you and your family the best! Take care :)

    • @Nanancay
      @Nanancay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Your grandma sounds amazing, that's so hard to do. The person you love is gone, but very few people even want to keep going.

    • @GoldenArtsOnline
      @GoldenArtsOnline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      OMFG, You manage to bring tears to my eyes, the last time I felt wet in my eyes was 2013, honestly.

  • @MarlieAstra
    @MarlieAstra ปีที่แล้ว +822

    So many of us abandon ourselves for those we love, then when it crumbles we’re left with that broken abandoned person. That’s what this song speaks to in me. It’s really a beautiful song.

    • @fuzzy8593
      @fuzzy8593 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true, wonderful comment.

    • @brittanypenney5880
      @brittanypenney5880 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @sari5045
      @sari5045 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I am one of these people. I tend to lose myself in relationships. The last one was really bad. I was also dealing with a narcissist though but that one damaged me so deeply. 5 years later and I’m still trying to heal. I’ve remained single. I need and want to learn how to love myself first before I can love another. I often wonder about what love used to be like back in the day…..when people stayed married and stayed together thru the ups and downs in life. That doesn’t seem to exist anymore.

    • @chaotic.interference.processor
      @chaotic.interference.processor ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@sari5045 The first verse really hit me. Dealing with a narcissist is the worst. 4 years alone next week for me. After 18 years with her I was left with no friends, no self esteem, a huge empty void in my heart, and hardest of all, questions that will never be answered. Discarded with no discussion and no warning. I thought we had made it. I was so wrong. Sucker punched. I hope that love of which you speak still exists. It's probably just a little harder to find with all the noise in the world. I don't seek it. I seek my self now. Perhaps that love will find me of its own accord. Perhaps it will find you. Keep on keepin' on. You still have you. Peace.

    • @sari5045
      @sari5045 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@chaotic.interference.processor ❤️❤️❤️ hope is a beautiful thing!

  • @settledsea
    @settledsea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1276

    I remembered I first found this song from when I was thinking I would be single forever, and now coming back to it again for strength after losing the love of my life suddenly after a year and a half of being together. 3/18/21. He was 31 and died in his sleep. Life is so unfair. Kaitis was my everything and we thought we would be together our whole lives. Now I must live my life for us both. I love you so much honey. I will never forget you.

    • @genesismedrano618
      @genesismedrano618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      wow your comment. I send you my comfort. You see this song from a different lens. And that lens is the lens I'd love for everyone to look through. That although the love of their lives passed away you know you still have you. The strength it took you to come back and make a comment. To share it with us. My heart. My spirit. My soul. I send it over to you. I send you over my love and comfort. You are needed. You are divine. You are a blessing to have come across.

    • @anastasie5203
      @anastasie5203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I wanna cry

    • @jovanguzman9834
      @jovanguzman9834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      youre so strong.

    • @MickeyValenz
      @MickeyValenz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😥

    • @marcelineMCID
      @marcelineMCID 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      May he Rest In Peace 🌹 stay strong hun hope you are doing okay.

  • @plankton383
    @plankton383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4884

    "Love requires the commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being" ..too deep ❤️

    • @winddragonlundholm1792
      @winddragonlundholm1792 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I thought that was common knowledge and that's why no one want me....

    • @Schneeeulenwetter
      @Schneeeulenwetter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Omar Ilias I liked his response so much! he seemed like a very wise person!

    • @met.drankje294
      @met.drankje294 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alexandra 。 whats the meaning of that?

    • @The90sgal
      @The90sgal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omar Illias exactly wat I heard the loudest

    • @sopanhaung6095
      @sopanhaung6095 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      tell me I'm not the only one who thought he was morgan freeman

  • @atlasmoreas5684
    @atlasmoreas5684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1730

    this song made me feel sad but also calmed at the same time? Like it was saying," it's okay to be upset, I'm here. You're alright." I really like this

    • @sampcdreamer2965
      @sampcdreamer2965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i feel the same way

    • @jj0511
      @jj0511 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here. I couldnt really find a way to describe the feeling it gave me, but you hit the nail on the head

  • @sandipkarmacharya
    @sandipkarmacharya 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    If you‘re going through
    Depression
    Abuse
    Heart break
    Or just have a bad time
    Remember there is somebody on this world who loves you and you make them smile.

  • @beenbetter4481
    @beenbetter4481 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I’ve interpreted this song is so many different ways in so many different circumstances, it’s such a beautifully universal heartbreaking moment. I love it. I will always come back here to mourn or rejoice with her voice. 🖤

    • @johnrad4654
      @johnrad4654 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hey you should come back and listen to this again =)

  • @Travellight21
    @Travellight21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3622

    This is heartbreakingly beautiful

    • @invictusrockefeller8407
      @invictusrockefeller8407 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/_qTr1_VASMw/w-d-xo.html

    • @asenaberhane
      @asenaberhane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      But confidence building at the same time, it’s crazy

    • @jimlahey9253
      @jimlahey9253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Like u

    • @catedoge3206
      @catedoge3206 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes

    • @user-sz4vg4zx2k
      @user-sz4vg4zx2k 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🔻 🎥私の個人的なビデオはここにあります🌺
      shake-body.com/nobiella/?秘密のビデオ
      💖 ここにビデオと写真 💞➖➖🔺🔺🇯🇵
      ライブ配信の再編ありがとうです!この日のライブ配信は、かならりやばかったですね!1万人を超える人が見ていたもんね(笑)やっぱり人参最高!まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした!今後は気を付けないとね. .
      ! 💖🖤❤️#今後は気をライブ配信の再編あり
      がとうです!#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね!#1万人を超える人が見ていたもん(#笑)#やっぱり人参最高!#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした,.💖🖤 #在整個人類歷史上,#強者,#富人和具有狡猾特質的人捕食部落,#氏族,#城鎮,#城市和鄉村中的弱者,#無`'#守和貧窮成員。#然而,#人類的生存意願迫使那些被拒絕,#被剝奪或摧毀的基本需求的人們找到了一種生活方式,#並繼續將其DNA融入不斷發展的人類社會。.#說到食物,#不要以為那些被拒絕的人只吃垃圾。#相反,#他們學會了在被忽視的肉類和蔬菜中尋找營養。#他們學會了清潔,#切塊,#調味和慢燉慢燉的野菜和肉類,#在食品市場上被忽略的部分家用蔬菜和肉類,#並且學會了使用芳香的木煙(#如山核桃,#山核桃和豆科灌木 #來調味食物煮的時候.

  • @noahsannoying5319
    @noahsannoying5319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1958

    Wow time to cry,,, that woman dancing alone at the end got me

  • @therese8958
    @therese8958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I swear discovering these kind of artists is what makes life soooo wonderful!

    • @BubblegumBrown
      @BubblegumBrown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Listen to everything Laura Marling has released. Every song is different and a masterpiece.

  • @tesadityousfirey8915
    @tesadityousfirey8915 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    After losing my parents I've been bawling like a baby to this song, "if I don't have you at least I have me" is a healing way to think about it though

    • @fauzianalwoga
      @fauzianalwoga 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry dear. I lost my beloved mum last year and am looking for everything to keep me strong

  • @misskabalan
    @misskabalan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3236

    I broke my back cause
    I thought you would too
    I'd run in circles
    I thought you would too
    Maybe in another life
    Everything worked out alright
    And things that made this harder passed us by
    But there's no bad dream to wake up from
    Know I got it bad when
    It's the morning and you're all that's on my mind
    If I don't have you
    At least I still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I still have me
    I never thought twice
    Cause you were my number one
    I put you first cause you were my only thought
    No more riding on the train
    No more smoking in the ally
    Now my secrets only stay with me
    Everybody knows I'm upset
    They don't even have to ask it
    They know I believed in us last week
    And if I don't have you
    At least I still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I still have me
    There's no reason to speak badly
    We just reached our end
    I will see you in parts of me
    In who I was back then
    If I don't have you
    At least I still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I still have me
    Me
    Me

    • @0Haseo
      @0Haseo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thanks for the lyrics but it's ( every body knows I'm upset)

    • @misskabalan
      @misskabalan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      0Haseo thanks for the comment!

    • @Ilikelasagna
      @Ilikelasagna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I LOST IT IN CLASS IM BAWLING

    • @EclesysGalaxy
      @EclesysGalaxy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm crying lol

    • @harshit_v
      @harshit_v 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      people like you are gold! thanks mate

  • @kenneth1608
    @kenneth1608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2448

    it takes a lot of untapped courage to admit to yourself that you have to choose you, and to free your heart from the burden of knowing that you were not chosen by the person you would always choose in a heartbeat is a great form of bravery- much more, to leave no grudge to the person who did not choose you, I think, is the greatest gift you can give yourself. It's hard to admit that we can not amount to the person they need but it is always necessary. There is a great relief that with everything that has been said and done, you can still find it in your heart to be yourself, to choose yourself and to love yourself.

    • @fairywings4242
      @fairywings4242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kenneth Magkasi perfectly worded

    • @gabes.castro
      @gabes.castro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for that

    • @elenabontia
      @elenabontia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      the way you combine your words plays on the deepest strings of my consciousness. Thank you
      p.s do you write?

    • @chrysterkaecorreos4602
      @chrysterkaecorreos4602 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spot on!

    • @robynnehertruth1120
      @robynnehertruth1120 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      beautifully expressed - both your words and Cyn's lyrics =)

  • @Abraramoudi
    @Abraramoudi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Time flies so fast, I remember I was listening to this song back in 2018 when I was 22 and now i'm 28, this song brings so much memories I thought I will not get over it.

    • @Andreww1080p
      @Andreww1080p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same, I'm here since it released. This song is important to me

  • @japleoj1500
    @japleoj1500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Dear Cyn,
    Thank you for making this song, back in 2018 I was at the lowest point of my life, I was at my freshmen year in College and struggling to figure out my life. Now I’m at my senior year and I am a candidate for Cum Laude, this song had an integral role in my life journey. I’m still figuring out my life and I just want to tell you that this song became my friend when i had no one else. ❤️
    If you’re still at this part of my comment, just want to say thanks for having time to read!

    • @ilanieb2423
      @ilanieb2423 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    • @jasmin1773
      @jasmin1773 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's beautiful. I hope you're fine:).

  • @badvibezzz7394
    @badvibezzz7394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1924

    *”Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being.”*
    Strongest quote I’ve ever heard.💔

    • @candioree8456
      @candioree8456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That was the one that grabbed me by the feels

    • @MrNokkes
      @MrNokkes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I must requote, if you don't mind, especially these days

    • @chuchugiin8390
      @chuchugiin8390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! Agree 😁👍

    • @gloriacutrer2820
      @gloriacutrer2820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right?! Like how fucking perfect is that!

    • @A.C.71
      @A.C.71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      one of the most accurate quotes ever. right up there with Love your neighbor as you love yourself - Jesus Christ.

  • @miae.g6129
    @miae.g6129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1873

    “His name was Bruce and I just thought he was darling” honestly that was so cute, I want to know more about this women and Bruce

    • @N0U6122
      @N0U6122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Mia E.G And her voice was so quaint.

    • @miae.g6129
      @miae.g6129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Jimmy Bob ik, she seems so lovely

    • @SabreenRezvie
      @SabreenRezvie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      that's my grand ma

    • @haleshel2220
      @haleshel2220 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sabreen Rezvie really?

    • @SabreenRezvie
      @SabreenRezvie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@haleshel2220 no ;(

  • @amit9453
    @amit9453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +806

    Lyrics...
    "I'll Still Have Me"
    I broke my back 'cause
    I thought you would too
    I'd run in circles
    I thought you would too
    Maybe in another life
    Everything worked out alright
    And things that made this harder passed us by
    But there's no bad dream to wake up from
    Know I got it bad when it's the morning
    And you're all that's on my mind
    If I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    I never thought twice
    'Cause you were my number one
    I put you first 'cause
    You were my only thought
    No more riding on the train
    No more smoking in the alley
    Now my secrets only stay with me
    Everybody knows I'm upset
    They don't even have to ask it
    They know I believed in us last week
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And there's no reason to speak badly
    We just reached our end
    I will see you in parts of me
    In who I was back then
    If I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me, me, me
    2:03

  • @waves9832
    @waves9832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    i love that it feels like this was written for the older generation, but also ourselves as a message for when we get older. so beautiful

  • @john-qz1sv
    @john-qz1sv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +672

    "there's no reason to speak badly"
    GROWTH

  • @ashpomare8107
    @ashpomare8107 5 ปีที่แล้ว +778

    Sometimes TH-cam recommends me the weirdest videos but today they got it so right and I’m so grateful!

    • @yanausui9778
      @yanausui9778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey J Hope😎

    • @KAMU13
      @KAMU13 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right? Same here, but I’m glad it did.

  • @sheameeker7290
    @sheameeker7290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This makes me smile and cry at the same time I’m 40 and sick and this touched my heart ♥️ I have 5 daughters and 4 grand babies from 25 yrs to 3 yrs 😢😭and finally found my soulmate after abuse for 22 yrs

  • @ReaseRice
    @ReaseRice 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You know, one thing I really noticed was her smile at the end. That smile alone tells a whole story full of bittersweetness, peacefulness, and acceptance. You can tell whoever she’s singing about still is part of her, but she finally accepts that that person’s gone and I think that’s beautiful. Because I’ve felt that before, had that same smile before….

  • @LenaPhoenix
    @LenaPhoenix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1772

    Burst into tears after opening a random song from recommendations?? Sure. Why not.

  • @yuuzhang222
    @yuuzhang222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4588

    If you made it here, you're the main character.

    • @imjarrifried5819
      @imjarrifried5819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      96 people liked this so far, that's a lot of main characters XD

    • @niya9387
      @niya9387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wow that's cool

    • @CDot182
      @CDot182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      someone told me i give off main character vibes today lol

    • @cerenb7909
      @cerenb7909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      11 million? nah.

    • @SR3272
      @SR3272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's one way of looking at my Murphy's Law of a life 😂

  • @sameera7939
    @sameera7939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    In 2018 when this dropped, I jammed to it 24/7 thinking I loved the instruments, the vocals and setting but now I realize that I've been drowning myself in these lyrics day by day, and let me tell you, it's still beautiful.
    Everything about just having ourselves as our number one, to put ourselves first, to believe in ourselves is just so potent and bold. It's beautiful.
    Thank you Cyn for an enchanting song

  • @brandanreese19
    @brandanreese19 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love that song wrangles all my Sorrow and pulls it out of my soul.
    The tears are healthy and I appreciate the help these days

  • @CrackaDon
    @CrackaDon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3861

    She looks like one of the digital drawings that hit the front page every day from r/art

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Badguy Birdie Yes 😂

    • @NiteshKumar-ur3td
      @NiteshKumar-ur3td 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      r/ihavereddit

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Nitesh Kumar ??

    • @kllause6681
      @kllause6681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@NiteshKumar-ur3td okay nitesh

    • @adequatelytrying6568
      @adequatelytrying6568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh my god perfect description

  • @autumn6988
    @autumn6988 6 ปีที่แล้ว +829

    Songs like this help people get through things

    • @mralmostknowitall
      @mralmostknowitall 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Caleb Williams yes true ...try sasha sloan - the only ...its also just as beautiful as this one!

    • @sofiatsiakalou1405
      @sofiatsiakalou1405 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      EXACTLY

    • @silverwolfeve
      @silverwolfeve 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's the beautiful power of music... Being understood.

  • @JupiterSun-888
    @JupiterSun-888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I have come back to this song again & again- and right now I am listening to it after a period of releasing someone who was very bad for me & I feel hopeful & renewed- I no longer feel alone or as though I have nobody- because I learned, I have me

  • @MoonBirdsandMonsters
    @MoonBirdsandMonsters ปีที่แล้ว +42

    This song came to me during my darkest times, the lowest of lows. Times I didn’t think I’d make it through. Thank you for your music ❤️

    • @cryptnick_
      @cryptnick_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Going through this right now. This song seems to find the ones hurting and struggling... 💔

    • @MoonBirdsandMonsters
      @MoonBirdsandMonsters 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@cryptnick_I promise you it gets better, even though it may feel like it never will. There is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there 🫂

    • @cryptnick_
      @cryptnick_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MoonBirdsandMonsters Thank you. I'm hanging in there. 🙏🏻🫂

  • @fsantos199
    @fsantos199 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1652

    Lyrics:
    [Verse 1]
    I broke my back 'cause
    I thought you would too
    I'd run in circles
    I thought you would too
    [Pre-Chorus 1]
    Maybe in another life
    Everything worked out alright
    And things that made this harder
    Passed us by
    But there's no bad dream to wake up from
    Now I got it bad when it's the morning
    And you're all that's on my mind
    [Chorus]
    If I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    [Verse 2]
    I never thought twice
    'Cause you were my number one
    I put you first 'cause
    You were my only song
    [Pre-Chorus 2]
    No more riding on the train
    No more smoking in the air
    Now my secrets only stay with me
    Everybody knows I'm upset
    They don't even have to ask it
    They know I believed in us last week
    [Chorus]
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    [Bridge]
    And there's no reason to speak badly
    We just reached our end
    I will see you in parts of me
    If you are wise back then
    [Chorus]
    If I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me, me, me

    • @remzielloga4829
      @remzielloga4829 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      In who i was back then * (last bridge)

    • @candiceannear9890
      @candiceannear9890 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      ' no more smoking in the Ally'

    • @rachelpeck8159
      @rachelpeck8159 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I put you first,
      Cause you were my only thought

    • @Ktvanada
      @Ktvanada 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This song is totally what I am feeling. Thank you

    • @ShubhamSingh-kf4vy
      @ShubhamSingh-kf4vy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Felipe

  • @SocratesSetarcos
    @SocratesSetarcos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4879

    I'm dead inside. No friends. No family. All alone at 25. I've been trying to hold in my pain so I wouldn't have to feel much... But then TH-cam recommend this song..
    It hurts so much..

    • @cianelt9963
      @cianelt9963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +295

      Stay strong, it gets better ♡

    • @asea7095
      @asea7095 5 ปีที่แล้ว +287

      Its going to get better, friend. Reach out to someone who cares. Not all ppl suck.

    • @totallynotaturtle._.5285
      @totallynotaturtle._.5285 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      Socrates setarcos I hope you find one good person to change your life

    • @lizbethgaleno9186
      @lizbethgaleno9186 5 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      I'm here if you need to talk

    • @neversurender2739
      @neversurender2739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      same

  • @imaginaryphi1618
    @imaginaryphi1618 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is beautiful.
    To the people struggling with anything. Here my prayer to you...
    Hope you may be able to carry it lightly. ❤

  • @user-po3ss2dt8q
    @user-po3ss2dt8q 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This song hits differently for different age of people, to be honest. When you have walked a long way, this song just hits those memories back. It feels like home...

  • @DustinKloeppel
    @DustinKloeppel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +817

    i have no idea how i found you, but holy shit. i'm so glad i did.

    • @anilu.s
      @anilu.s 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dustin Kloeppel I found it for katy perry and shit, I'm in love of her music, is artttt

    • @danieldini8685
      @danieldini8685 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dustin Kloeppel samee

    • @danieldini8685
      @danieldini8685 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dustin Kloeppel samee

    • @gabiduncan18
      @gabiduncan18 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @shevanyacicilia3691
      @shevanyacicilia3691 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME

  • @rylinmariel6431
    @rylinmariel6431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1692

    The video is a nice commentary on how in earlier generations - in my generation, in fact - people felt that they were not whole people without a mate. For my own part, I feel like it's a shame it took me til I was in my late fifties to figure that out. Now I'm sixty-four, I'm alone, and I'm reasonably happy. And that brings me to the fact that happiness is vastly overrated - in the sense that in the world today, and this began in my generation, I guess, everyone started chasing this illusion that they could be happy all the time - but that's just not possible. All kinds of things come into our lives: illness, heartache from the loss of loved ones, and it can be possible to attain some kind of superficial happiness "all the time" when you're younger, but as you get older, it's harder and harder to hang onto that kind of happiness all the time, until at last (if you're lucky!) you realize how hollow it is. There is another kind of positivity that one can have, that acknowledges sadness as well as joy, and embraces all that life has to bring, changes what needs to be changed and can be, and accepts what can't, and looks for a greater sense of meaning, in whatever form that sense comes. The ability to be content on one's own is part of that kind of adjustment, and the consequent inner wholeness.

    • @anitapoof8074
      @anitapoof8074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Thank you for sharing. I hope I can talk more about it with my grandmother, but we are far apart.

    • @fevb.2750
      @fevb.2750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      This is genius! Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

    • @marianah.3306
      @marianah.3306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Thank u for sharing this

    • @Ian-dn6ld
      @Ian-dn6ld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Your comment should be at the top of this comment section tbh

    • @deez2569
      @deez2569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You're AMAZING sir. 💯💕💋

  • @agapelove4992
    @agapelove4992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Self love and self care are the key to true love, abundance, and happiness. No joke!

  • @shawnbronson941
    @shawnbronson941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    LET’S ALL AGREE..... this kid is way ahead of her time. Songs....... the best songs...... make you feel something. And this one rips your heart out🥺

  • @patrickdaviesii4139
    @patrickdaviesii4139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3037

    Okay, but seeing the woman dancing alone amid everyone with their spouses, like. That 100% broke my heart, wtf.

    • @braddavistube
      @braddavistube 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i keep wondering who that is?

    • @elizabethihambo606
      @elizabethihambo606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It broke my heart too 😢😢

    • @BleachFreak4710
      @BleachFreak4710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Oh, i was flat out bawling.

    • @lucaswagner1933
      @lucaswagner1933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      She is not really alone. In her thoughts, the couple are leading the dance.

    • @simpsosh7648
      @simpsosh7648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      She's literally the message of the song.
      --- "If I don't have you, at least I'll still have me"
      She's an older woman, on her own, presumably thinking about the one she doesn't have anymore...

  • @amberperson9418
    @amberperson9418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    "I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then" Amazing lyrics.

  • @jessicavargas8822
    @jessicavargas8822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I just left my relationship of 10 years. This song is getting me through it. I hope one day I get to sway along to it with the love of my life.

    • @nutbastard
      @nutbastard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same boat. I thought I had found my soulmate. Together for 7 years. Ups and downs, we helped each other so much. The only explanation I got was that her "needs changed". I'm still in love with her but we don't talk. Hope you're doing well. It's really rough walking away or being walked out on after so many years.

    • @just1moreepisode.735
      @just1moreepisode.735 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Finding out that there are others who have been in a happy, healthy relationships and they could see their "forever's" with that person .. ending up not being together after years and years of relationship... Its just feels so saddening. Like there are so many who get their happy endings why didn't we.
      My relationship ended last year.. on 18th may ..silly how some dates just get imprinted on your mind. As if someone tattooed it
      .. and I never ever saw it coming.. never expected it. Because everything was just really good. Almost like a fairytale good. Yes we had our fights we had our drawbacks and ugly sides but still it was something I was happy to last forever with
      His life goals changed. His needs became something that didnt align with mine anymore. After 6 years he didn't want the same things anymore . And so it was a separation I didn't want but could do anything about it.
      I thought it might get better with time. But it's been a year and still hurts like hell as if it happened yesterday.

    • @desckUgah000
      @desckUgah000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hope you re doing better now! Everyone is every ones soul mate, I think... its all about energy and vibes when you meet...self love is a major theme for many now a days in the world of virtual opportunity.. blessed be.

    • @jessicavargas8822
      @jessicavargas8822 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​Thank you for the beautiful words. I think I agree in many ways. I am less heartbroken but I'll always wish my first love was the love of my life. And that I could have had a lasting and intimate bond with the same person my whole life 🙏🏽💗 a childish dream, I know
      ​@@desckUgah000

  • @user-yd9tm9es8b
    @user-yd9tm9es8b 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just realized that always give my best for others. And forget that i can say no. Maybe its time for me to lay low

  • @maarez8869
    @maarez8869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3590

    This song makes me miss someone that doesn't even exist.

    • @nkzy9438
      @nkzy9438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Me too! Didn't think I'd see this in the comments. But hey guess there's always someone else that could relate to something you feel.

    • @faithoquinn9356
      @faithoquinn9356 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Fucking same

    • @Summersnow-lr6vd
      @Summersnow-lr6vd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Seriously wtf

    • @nevs30
      @nevs30 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same :'(

    • @joefroeber5886
      @joefroeber5886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jesus?

  • @paolar.299
    @paolar.299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2791

    not joking at all, the best nose ive ever seen.

  • @andiswakona5410
    @andiswakona5410 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I always come back here, I love this song so much. I remember the first time I heard it, I was so sad and broken. I felt so alone and three years later… I am glad I listened to this masterpiece at the lowest point of my life❤. I always remind myself that it was a phase I needed to pass to become who I am now. I still do not understand why I had to experience all that pain but… I’m alright. I’m alright.

    • @maxink1809
      @maxink1809 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you are alright❤

  • @christinebuyain350
    @christinebuyain350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She deserves much more recognition 💕

  • @CharlotteVerras
    @CharlotteVerras 5 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    “Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being.” This one broke me, because I know I can't do it :(

    • @ambrosefox611
      @ambrosefox611 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Correct. I broke up like a week ago due to the same reason u mention. Still hurts like shit..

    • @Camvi6538
      @Camvi6538 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too 😏

    • @PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim
      @PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @fatjune93
      @fatjune93 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It's do-able if it's true love. It happened to me. I can; but unfortunately, he can't. Love is unconditional, so it's worth fighting for; but he always gave up whenever things went down without putting a 100% effort in it. In the end, it hurts when i was the only one who's holding at the end of the rope for us. He has a choice, either to move forward for the betterment, or to stay the same. He chose the later. It's sad.

    • @PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim
      @PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      J. V. The most unconditional love is the one you should have for yourself, because it’s the longest relationship you will ever have.

  • @leticiam.5884
    @leticiam.5884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    I'm afraid I won't be able to stop loving him

    • @user-ef8pj3mi3x
      @user-ef8pj3mi3x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Leticia M. you will. Take your time. Everything's gonna be alright.

    • @anaclara-bl4qh
      @anaclara-bl4qh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Maybe you won't. Depending on your story, you won't forget him or stop loving him. But you'll (and I can assure it) leave it in the past and move on, so when you look back you'll feel the love, but know it was the best to just leave it behind. Maybe you wont stop loving him, maybe you will, but you love yourself in the first place :)

    • @catherine5684
      @catherine5684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      actually, you can never stop loving someone. if you truly loved them. if it was actual love, you cannot. how can your heart forget about something that once made you so happy? it can't. you may find other loves. greater loves, that will lessen the sting of your past heartbreaks, but no, you can never stop loving someone. once you love them. it's there for good.

    • @leticiam.5884
      @leticiam.5884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm having the best relationship I've ever had and I truly love him. I know that cause I've never felt the same with anyone else. Unfortunately, distance at some point of the next year will tear us apart. We don't know for how long. We promised to enjoy the time we have, but I want a whole life with him. I'll keep in mind that we found each other for a reason.

    • @zainabibrahim50
      @zainabibrahim50 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You will

  • @CallUNexTuesday
    @CallUNexTuesday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This song punched me in the gut. 12 years we were together. I don't know how to be just me and I'm lost. He gave up. I fought so hard but I know it's time to part ways. It still hurts like hell and I'll miss him for a long time being my whole world.

    • @swapnaldeshpande8823
      @swapnaldeshpande8823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It must be really tough, when he was everything for you for so long. It must be too friggin tough cause you were with him for so long, and you probably just don't know how to be without him, anymore. But things get better, and you grow stronger. You will always have you, and that's all you need. I believe you are the only person you need. Stay strong!

    • @CallUNexTuesday
      @CallUNexTuesday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@swapnaldeshpande8823 Thank you kind stranger. I needed to hear this.

    • @sazbear3913
      @sazbear3913 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so sorry that you experienced that, I'm in a similar situation now after 6 years , I can't imagine how 12 felt. I hope you've grown and are proud of who you are today x

  • @boasorte8595
    @boasorte8595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful and admirable to see a young person acknowledging old people.

  • @charinabacalso97
    @charinabacalso97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    I want to give virtual hugs to someone who came here for the first time.. yes, we found the comfort place!!!

    • @ruthacrocha
      @ruthacrocha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      * hugs back*

    • @meadish
      @meadish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Group hug!!!!!

    • @todordanekov6581
      @todordanekov6581 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      free hugs for everyone...i just found this masterpiece

    • @GPWT-video
      @GPWT-video 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🥳❤

  • @armoricaboyle4000
    @armoricaboyle4000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is going to be a rough holiday season for our world. Coming out of a pandemic people are changed, for better or worse. God bless you all. You are loved and we can get through it together

  • @nehaharikrishnan4346
    @nehaharikrishnan4346 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wow. I couldn't have imagined that there was a song that could break me apart and comfort me within a span of 4 minutes, but here we are ❤ 😭

    • @angelinaakicita24-7
      @angelinaakicita24-7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe because you give too much of yourself away 😔 remember to always keep a little bit love for yourself.🥰🪬📿🧿

  • @moseskisebe979
    @moseskisebe979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2996

    This song hits you different when you're heart broken.

    • @user-kx1xm5mb9i
      @user-kx1xm5mb9i 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      you mean hit you like a fucking truck

    • @MissPurpleKush
      @MissPurpleKush 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@user-kx1xm5mb9i One made out of cement & solid steel.

    • @tiffclemons9197
      @tiffclemons9197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed

    • @jaymeals8571
      @jaymeals8571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Every song hits you when your heart is broken.

    • @SpookyScaryBats
      @SpookyScaryBats 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very much so.

  • @fernanorobertomcqueen9773
    @fernanorobertomcqueen9773 6 ปีที่แล้ว +493

    She's so fkng beautiful

    • @Luke-ft5ow
      @Luke-ft5ow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      im sorry you just wasted your precious minutes

  • @annenijhuis5495
    @annenijhuis5495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She slowly captivates you...what a voice !

  • @VictoryDraws2
    @VictoryDraws2 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "Maybe in another life everything worked out alright" oh how i hope this is true. I miss him greatly.

  • @Stranger_In_The_Alps
    @Stranger_In_The_Alps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12162

    If someone notices this, I’m still alive and fighting depression

    • @pam5646
      @pam5646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +372

      i’m glad you’re still here

    • @haleynimmo6637
      @haleynimmo6637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +198

      I noticed, and I'm glad you are still here as well 😘

    • @Alan-cd9iv
      @Alan-cd9iv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Stay strong!
      Is your name a reference to the Big Lebowski censoring on cable TV? I remember the first time watching it on cable and that just cracked me up!

    • @Stranger_In_The_Alps
      @Stranger_In_The_Alps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@Alan-cd9iv yes that is the reference, thank you for noticing

    • @waddlesmom
      @waddlesmom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Hang on there buddy

  • @MuhammadHafiz128
    @MuhammadHafiz128 5 ปีที่แล้ว +556

    found this in my recommendation. her music and her voice.... is a pop music timebomb. ticking its clock to explode anytime soon. watch out.

  • @randomamateur1583
    @randomamateur1583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love that guitar, that chord progression. Just love it.

  • @Wh00says
    @Wh00says หลายเดือนก่อน

    This song will always break my heart. Thank you, Cyn. Lovely.

  • @dt564
    @dt564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I was at a friend of the familys wedding reception. I was 16 years old. I didn't have a very good home life back then, and I had zero confidence, kind of an ugly duckling and even at such an early age was extremely depressed, hopelessl and very alone.
    I was dancing by myself just like the old woman in the video and I heard a voice say " Why are you dancing by yourself? Let me cut in." And it was a handsome guy around the same age, with a pretty smile and an earring.
    I d danced with him and I just laid my head on his shoulder like I knew him forever hahaha*cringe* but it meant so much to me. Afterwards he asked to kiss me and I had my first kiss.
    I never saw him again but his name was Brandon and I smile wherever I hear that name. Never be afraid to dance alone, because you never know who is out there that will want to cut in.

    • @KeelyAnn
      @KeelyAnn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow reading this made me start bawling 🖤

  • @aabvwm5432
    @aabvwm5432 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm back listening to this song. It's been so long. I remember listening to this during one of my lowest times 🙃
    (now, after reading a story with this as one of the songs that the character is listening to, I remembered a lot of memories 🥺)

  • @beebecker9453
    @beebecker9453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This song really fucking hurts when you first discover it during what you think is your forever relationship, and then rediscover it a year later after that person shattered your heart

  • @syifaathirah4570
    @syifaathirah4570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    This song resonates me so much.. i gave in so much in my previous relationship. I put him first without ever thinking twice.. and when he left, it felt like i was breathing under water. Barely alive barely living. Everyone knew I was upset and no one dared ask me. It felt very lonely being in that place.. but slowly, things did get better. And now, I know we have reached our end and there's no point in speaking badly about each other.
    Thanks for being a huge part of my life once. Thank you CYN for this beautiful song! I'll keep on supporting you!!
    If I don't have you, at least I'll still have me 💖

    • @sofiatsiakalou1405
      @sofiatsiakalou1405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I relate to every word you said! And, yeah.. things do get better. Wish you the best!

    • @lexsunsh1ne
      @lexsunsh1ne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This happened to me too. It's always somehow comforting to see others relate to something sad so you know you're not the only one

    • @diharmony5532
      @diharmony5532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Different nations, different people, same feelings. I feel you, dear💖

    • @rahulkoshti9685
      @rahulkoshti9685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I had my breakup at this 1st of October and fortunately, at that day; I also had my birthday..!!

    • @fatmanajmi5624
      @fatmanajmi5624 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      OMG same. But it's okay i already move on now 😅

  • @kacperb8919
    @kacperb8919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2320

    Can we have a moment of silence for the people that still can’t find this song.

    • @lessr5075
      @lessr5075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Tis was me 5 min ago and now I’m crying and so much happier although everything around be is gone

    • @mysteryofautisticsproducti6503
      @mysteryofautisticsproducti6503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was one of them till today.. Wow.. Ive been deprived.

    • @Thibzz180
      @Thibzz180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @asenaberhane
      @asenaberhane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Underrated comment 👏🏾

    • @bunnywabbit7275
      @bunnywabbit7275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes sir

  • @valentino1646
    @valentino1646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I miss him. I miss him so much. But I know at least I still have me. Thank you

  • @riderzworld
    @riderzworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm 9 weeks pregnant. I've been feeling very unhappy with my marriage, and today I had a big fight with my husband that I just left home. I keep telling my baby I'm sorry, because I know I should be happy, and I shouldn't be stressed, so I can keep the baby alive. But I also told my baby, you'll always have me, with or without the father. And it goes to the father too: if I don't have him, I'll still have myself. And I'll raise the baby myself if I have to.

    • @notre1erechaine
      @notre1erechaine หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thinking of you, I wish you the best paths in life. May the warmth of love and care be your light.

  • @someonewithanamepink9918
    @someonewithanamepink9918 5 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    How can there be such a delicate song with such deep emotion? Love your sweet voice too.

  • @Mira-vp1jj
    @Mira-vp1jj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    Can I also just point out that besides sounding like an angel, she also *looks* like one? How is she so perfect?

    • @anniemariekennedy2505
      @anniemariekennedy2505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mira Rose yesss hair goals voice goals basically everything goals lol

  • @fantomanimus6401
    @fantomanimus6401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    When a song really hits all the right notes for me: I play it over and over. It helps me cry and release my emotions. This hits home for me. I don't know if my relationship is going to continue but regardless we had eachother for two years, and most of it was good.

    • @mahmedazeez-bc1un
      @mahmedazeez-bc1un ปีที่แล้ว

      so if it all good what are waiting for لوما ينزل الوحي او كيف يعني؟

    • @mahmedazeez-bc1un
      @mahmedazeez-bc1un ปีที่แล้ว

      take easy girl no one can hurting you because you have the power you need to protect yourself so live the life with a heart full of life

    • @mahmedazeez-bc1un
      @mahmedazeez-bc1un ปีที่แล้ว

      لعلمك كانت احلى ايام عشتها لما كنت اسمع هذه الاغنية رغم عن انف الصحات المرمية والفارغة لانها ايام ماراح تتكرر ولا راح اعيشها مرة اخرى

  • @k8d00r9
    @k8d00r9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I remember hearing this song when I was sad in my relationship years ago and it helped me but we split after 6 years and this song def still helps

  • @StrawberryMilkForYou
    @StrawberryMilkForYou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +665

    This song got me, but can we talk about how beautiful she is. Her face is like the prettiest thing ever.

    • @alfieholloway
      @alfieholloway 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      lana winters yes. It really helps deliver the song I sad to say. Beautiful voice beautiful face beautiful song . I’m sad to say because beauty isn’t given to everyone although people can be beautiful in different ways.... but what she’s been blessed with.... kinda not fair but we get to enjoy it

    • @KyokiPon
      @KyokiPon 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re beautiful too I’m sure :)

  • @brichroberts
    @brichroberts 6 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    BIG FAT TEARS ROLLING DOWN MY FACE RN. That lady dancing by herself just destroyed me.

    • @ashminley
      @ashminley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're not alone

    • @lindseyshupee
      @lindseyshupee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think I might have two tears stuck in my eyes.

    • @misbahkabeer265
      @misbahkabeer265 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

  • @aleriahull1099
    @aleriahull1099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    totally understand why people feel this song shouldn’t be so underrated .. but at the same time .. happening upon it is so beautiful and almost worth the magic it keeps by being underrated .. it’s like our little secret garden; only a few of us know”..

    • @anabeatrice2743
      @anabeatrice2743 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/guJErG6x644/w-d-xo.html🎶

    • @kushsaraswat859
      @kushsaraswat859 ปีที่แล้ว

      It will be our little secret
      😉

  • @KanohiVahi
    @KanohiVahi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "There's no reason to speak badly, we just reached our end" Damn this line feels so healing in the context of getting over a relationship that ended. Well no surprise as that's what the song is about

  • @vvkii4534
    @vvkii4534 5 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    I don't know wether I'm crying over the music video, the song or simply the people I'm thinking about while listening to this song

    • @user-zc9ih8em5r
      @user-zc9ih8em5r 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thatonefriend That person on your profile. He's all I can think about. 🐳🌙️

    • @stabbykahl538
      @stabbykahl538 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      me neither, friend

    • @tiffanymann6193
      @tiffanymann6193 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Struggling with that too

  • @Okayavery
    @Okayavery 5 ปีที่แล้ว +952

    My boyfriend of over a year broke up with me recently. A little while ago I would’ve done absolutely anything to get him back, but now I’m not so sure. I saw so much with him, but I want to be with someone who loves me without a second thought. It hurts, but I know I’ll heal.

    • @strawberries4317
      @strawberries4317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stay strong 🖤 All of us here too so u arent alone

    • @Okayavery
      @Okayavery 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shadow Hunter thank you :’)

    • @hellozainab
      @hellozainab 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      going through the exact same thing, and arriving at the same conclusions. we got this!

    • @gladyskamau2537
      @gladyskamau2537 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      OMG
      I got my heart broken just yesterday and TBH I have never felt more pain in my entire life.
      The good news is, it's not over until it's over

    • @MarcoPolo-sx8oe
      @MarcoPolo-sx8oe 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fact need 500 days for heal after broke up..

  • @Aishycheesecrackers431
    @Aishycheesecrackers431 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hope it’s not too late- but anyone who has survived till this moment-you got my.. RESPECT 💯 LET’S KEEP ON FIGHTING TILL THE END!!

  • @giuliavalenza99
    @giuliavalenza99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I send a hug to anyone with a broken heart crying on this song rn. I feel you.

    • @Amelie-gj4zx
      @Amelie-gj4zx ปีที่แล้ว

      very much needed, thank you, stranger

  • @freespirit4225
    @freespirit4225 6 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    [Verse 1]
    I broke my back 'cause
    I thought you would too
    I'd run in circles
    I thought you would too
    [Pre-Chorus 1]
    Maybe in another life
    Everything worked out alright
    And things that made this harder passed us by
    But there's no bad dream to wake up from
    Know I got it bad when it's the morning
    And you're all that's on my mind
    [Chorus]
    If I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    [Verse 2]
    I never thought twice
    'Cause you were my number one
    I put you first 'cause
    You were my only thought
    [Pre-Chorus 2]
    No more riding on the train
    No more smoking in the alley
    Now my secrets only stay with me
    Everybody knows I'm upset
    They don't even have to ask it
    They know I believed in us last week
    [Chorus]
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    [Bridge]
    There's no reason to speak badly
    We just reached our end
    I will see you in parts of me
    In who I was back then
    [Chorus]
    If I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me
    And if I don't have you
    At least I'll still have me, me, me

  • @froglover2752
    @froglover2752 5 ปีที่แล้ว +691

    WHO ARE YOU AND WHY I'VE NEVER HEARD OF YOU UNTIL NOW?

    • @cf8415
      @cf8415 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She reminds me of that spider girl from undertale

    • @QueenOtiot
      @QueenOtiot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My thoughts exactly. What a blessing. 💛

  • @sillygoose7066
    @sillygoose7066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This song helped me escape an emotionally abusive relationship. Had a flashback at work and now I’m home having a good cry to it

  • @betteryearentertainment4004
    @betteryearentertainment4004 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The voice of an angel.

  • @user-jn2dw3cj6z
    @user-jn2dw3cj6z 5 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I wonder why is this so underrated. This video deserves more views. She deserves more appreciation. This is amazing and heart warming.

    • @hhn2002
      @hhn2002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      아릭스 she is getting recognition, this is her most watched video and it was just released, it’s happening now.

    • @user-jn2dw3cj6z
      @user-jn2dw3cj6z 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hhn2002 I hope she get what she really deserves. It's obviously happening right now too. I'll look forward to her in the near future. I would love to hear more songs from her.

    • @poojamehrotra1366
      @poojamehrotra1366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It just released a couple of weeks back. Give the TH-cam recommendation engines a few months. :-)

    • @Alsyoutubeaccount
      @Alsyoutubeaccount 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s not underrated, it’s getting a lot of views for being uploaded less than 2 weeks ago

    • @thevinzicode3435
      @thevinzicode3435 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      this could be our secret from the world.
      only the few us can appreciate songs like this

  • @azurendsc
    @azurendsc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2979

    The woman dancing by herself just breaks me.

    • @sarah_siki
      @sarah_siki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      oh honey there is nothing better than realizing that you love yourself more than anyone else could ever love you. It's exhilarating

    • @SilentRaven8
      @SilentRaven8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      @@sarah_siki were you not paying attention to the story the song gave? "if I don't have you then at least I still have me"
      widow
      grief
      pain
      loneliness
      envy
      that Lone woman dancing by herself is the main character of the video. its talking about losing your married other half like halfway through the marriage or somethin, an when it comes to times both is required (dancing) at least she still has herself. so its comin to terms with it

    • @syzygymasen2418
      @syzygymasen2418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@sarah_siki i-
      that statement is actually good but not in this context, not with this song. they're grieving.

    • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
      @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@sarah_siki wrong video.

    • @hanna2850
      @hanna2850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @e Yes, she's not dancing because she 'loves herself', and she did lose someone. But she's dancing DESPITE losing someone, and that shows some self-love manifesting there. Hope.

  • @LiveOutLoud87
    @LiveOutLoud87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The singers beauty and voice are overwhelming. I listen to this song to remind myself that I’m strong on my own.

  • @sannaq3421
    @sannaq3421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for creating such a thoughtful song that not only resonates strength to deal with heartbreak but also to reflects what love actually is. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @lovingatlanta
    @lovingatlanta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +412

    👍😍@0:23 “Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being.” 💞

  • @sarahd8674
    @sarahd8674 5 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    This gives me a calming sensation as in if I lose a partner. Whether they pass away, break up with me etc. I’ll still have me to pick myself up and think of the good times.

    • @sophiedan5329
      @sophiedan5329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel the same way! It's sort of sad but more so about how you havent lost everything even though they will always be a part of your past.

  • @JuanElorriagaYT
    @JuanElorriagaYT 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love this music so much! It's so beautiful and today I come back here to say. Thanks to create this masterpiece Cyn!

  • @SpiteBellow
    @SpiteBellow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I was trying to keep it together after my girl left me, but this song just left me in shambles. I shed a few tears before but this one hits hard.

  • @sreemoyeedey6772
    @sreemoyeedey6772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    this song makes me feel empowered and equivalently makes me feel vulnerable, all at the same time

  • @siennacahill1715
    @siennacahill1715 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1257

    Me: DONT CRY IF YOU DO I-
    *tears start rolling down*
    Me : DAMN IT!

    • @ambrosefox611
      @ambrosefox611 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel u.

    • @urdadsellsket
      @urdadsellsket 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christ you just read my mind

    • @dora1148
      @dora1148 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @me

    • @nadiacenal7305
      @nadiacenal7305 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAMEEEE

    • @TaunellE
      @TaunellE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would've at a time. But there's none left..