i went to germany and wrote this after crushing some kfc, definitely cried writing it and it means so much that u guys like it, never thought a ballad about divorce would be my biggest song lol
You hear them fight everyday but they don't want to divorce because they said they love you and don't want you to be a 'broken-home-kid', that so called comforting words actually just makes you feeling guilty and burden
This is so true. Mine was mixed with both smile and tear, ups and downs. But what was bad was bad, couldn’t help yourself when it is recalled, even you’re grown. The best thing we can do is to hurt kids as least as possible.
A joyful childhood is a gift that can ease the pain we face later in life. But for many, life becomes a journey of healing the wounds from their early years.
Marina Lin oh my God. I love your videos especially “This is what a broken heart feels like.” Keep up! I hope you will get the recognition you deserve! ❤️
It is the biggest love that "My parents aren't my heroes, they're just like me". We don't need to love our parents without any causes. I think "parents" are also "others". I have hurt my parents, and been hurt by my parents. I won't forget everything so far, but also I'll never forget they have forgiven me everytime and tried to help me. They weren't perfect, but I'll never forgotten. Never.
This song resonates with me so hard. Everyone's gone through the stress of seeing parents fight. Everyone's gone through the fear of wondering whether your parents are going to stay together... It's scary as a kid, and no one ever talks about it. Great song.
I have met people whose parents are divorced, though mine is not likely to, I can still feel the burning tension between them, I just hope I won't get hurt so badly...
As a divorced parent, this part of the song makes me so sad. Parents are human too, just like everyone... why let them go for that? I pray that my kids never cut me out of their lives for being less than perfect.
@@shannongamble2715 I pray that for you too, and I think the fact that you care about them wanting you in their life is a good sign that they wouldn’t just cut you out for being less than perfect. Nobody’s perfect, and they’ll understand that I’m sure. But as a daughter of divorced parents, I’ve been wondering if it’s better for me to “let her go”. I don’t want to cut her out of my life, but I’m so exhausted by her. She chooses herself over us kids every single time. The reason for the divorce is because she cheated on our dad and then left our family to move 3 hours away to live with the guy. And ever since then, I can only remember of her choosing herself or her new husband before us any time there is a dispute. We’re never put first. She doesn’t come to hardly any of our events, and when she does she brings her new husband, despite how many times I’ve practically begged her not to. I don’t want him in my life, and she says that I’m disrespectful for that. But I just want her to try to see things from my side for once, and to care about my feelings. She doesn’t compromise, she doesn’t talk things over. It’s her way or it’s no way at all. And when I’ve tried to express how I feel and tell her that she makes it miserable for me to visit her because her new husband always comes before us kids, she told me that if I’m not happy visiting her then to just not come anymore. She didn’t care to work things out or listen to why I feel that way. She refuses to change, and I don’t like that then she sees that as my own problem. I can’t remember the last time she’s told me that she’s proud of me. She acts like it’s a burden to buy me hygiene supplies for her house. Any time that I ask for her to buy me anything at all, she has a terrible attitude about it. Even for necessities. I don’t ask for much, just what I need and also snacks. For several years now, I’ve thought about stopping putting in so much effort. I still visit her. I still talk to her on the phone every night. But it hurts to put in so much effort for someone that I don’t feel like I matter to. I feel more like a war to win (a war with my dad) than a daughter to love. I think that as long as you love and support your daughter (when the support is reasonable, of course), you should be fine. Support her activities, tell her that you’re proud of her. If you have multiple children, don’t pick favorites. Don’t make them feel like a burden for needing things. Tell them you love them. Don’t view them as pets rather than people. And if they’re mad at you or mention that they’re not happy at your house, try to figure out how to fix it. Don’t just tell them that if they don’t like it then they don’t have to come. I hope all goes well for you. Don’t make your kid feel like they’re just something that you’ll get for winning a war against their father. Set aside the war for your kid, and treat them like your beautiful children that you want all the time, not just when they don’t have any feelings that are different than yours
There is a girl I know recently that she had lost her parents since young. She would never have a chance to feel any scenarios described in the lyrics, though those are not really good examples to define what "family" is. For anyone that stops by, please, if your parents still around, try your best to live with them, till the end. Because this girl taught me, how precious the life is. And let's cheers for her shall we? Her name is Nono, she's the bravest lone wolf that I have met in live. Your girls are strong, rest well, Sir MW & Ms. XL
Why do parents forget that having kids isn't a new start but a responsibility that you take. If you can't be good parents then better not have kids. Coming from experience.
Yeah, completely agree. And that’s exactly how kids become adopted, separated from their two sisters who at least have eachother, think ‘what if’ all the time, and just feel real lonely in a family that isn’t theirs. ...also speaking from experience lol
I spent those years wishing I could grow older. And now that I'm older, all I want is to go back to those days where there was no stress, no anxiety, no pain. Just making sure i got my food ready on a plate before my show was on.
My grandmother and my mother don't have a great relationship.. sometimes I have to deal with the heartbreak.. it's not easy either I'm an only kid and the only one I have to support me is my grandfather in the sky.
@@emaa810 I think it means that is when a child hears the word "hero" to him or her, it means an always right, good and just person. But when we are young and small we think that our parents as heroes but when we grow up that bubble burst as we make discussions different from that hero figure and be more aware of the world around us and see that also our parents are not the hero figures that we use to believe. At least that is what I think tho. I'm just 17.
I think the point of this song is realizing that your parents aren't heroes, they're people too. It doesn't matter how old you are, sometimes you just can't figure out life. Your parents could have mental issues but due to the stigma of their time, they didn't understand it and didn't know how to deal with it. I think a lot of kids only see themselves having a hard time but when you grow up you realize your parents were having a hard time, too.
@@MissGenie0607 yes. Exactly. What I meant by my comment was that sometimes as children we just don't understand what's going on with our parents, or why they fight like children,, since they should consider a child's mental health but as we grow older we understand those are things that happen.
The most hurtful part when ur parents hurts u by words like hell daily and then behave nicely with u...and u can’t decide whether they r good or bad ....
If anyone doesn’t feel good just text here...remember even when no one loves u...I love u no matter where u live ,look or anything...I love u at last smile☺️💛💛💛
The most sad part about all this is how many people say they relate to this song. This song isn't just about children's parents fighting, its all about how we shouldn't blame them because loving is hard and it is really hard to find someone that you will get on with for the rest of your life. This song is more about love is full of mistakes that we can't always solve, and you can never be able to find someone that is perfect and that will never make mistakes. I remember when i was a bit younger and i always heard my parents finghting, i used to cry and listen to them, never understanding why it was that hard for them to be kind to each other and why they couldn't just talk things through. Now that i get older i understand how hard it actually is for them and how hard it was. Loving is a really hard thing to do, especially when you are thying to love someone because you dont want your children to have separated parents. I am not blaming my parents for fighting, because i know it isn't their fault. I am here for everyone that that see theirselves in this song, and for everyone that can relate to this song. All you need to know is that you are not alone, and you need to understand that loving is really really hard, you need to look up and remember how important it is to believe tuat you can get through it. You can do it, and everying will be fine, you just need to believe that everything will be okay, and to hope. 💕
Antoniaa D Yeah,My family is the brightest,I hate my father also my friends think I have the perfect life just because I have a dog, and my family is rich,They don’t even know half of it..
I know no one cares but I'm listening to this now while crying, I just found out that my mom stayed with my abusive dad because he threatened to kill her and my siblings, we're still with my dad but I'm working hard to get my mom out of here, I never really thought how much shit she went through all this time. I hope we get out of here soon. And hope everyone in this situation gets the help they need
I'm 11 years old. saw my parents fight tons of times. they don't know that I'm hearing them curse. they don't know that I'm traumatized by their fights. I'm just a kid, but I've realized everything. I've realized that love isn't everything.
Yeah me too.. Saw thme fight since I was 8 and they seperated when I am 11.. I'm 14 now and it hurts that whenever I am being with one of them they're always saying negative things to each other.. Not pinpoiting each others sins but it's literally showing out..
You're right, my mom and dad got divorced when I was 5 cuz of some stupid things, and my mom sometimes tells me that I behave and looks like him. And I am messy like my father but it's aren't my fault. I promised myself that whatever happens, I will never EVER blame my child because they are not better but be appreciate because atleast they're trying.
My sister suggested this to me. This is literally my childhood. I remember an 8-year old me walking away in my pajamas from my parents fighting. I left the house weeping so hard, not knowing where to go until I reached the streets. Luckily, our neighbor saw me and brought me to her house and comforted me. Some parents just don’t realize the trauma they are causing to their children. I pray my future children will not experience the same trauma I went through.
😓😓😓😓😓 so sorry darling. I can't even lay hands on mine. I suffered hatred from my own parents and siblings you know how hard that was for me. I'm a fighter I'm still fighting to date. I fought my way out of home to find my life if I had one. But today am a great hope of the same family that treated me like a stranger...
@R. Tolmach Agreed. When I was 10, I used to count how much years are there till I become an adult.....and now that I am an adult, I regret that I took my childhood for granted. Even though it was a great mess, I miss those moments when I thought everything was "normal" and continued waking up fresh and happy.
*"My parent aren't heroes,there just like me"* That got me hard When you feel like you parents are amazing and never have anything negative around them until everything just.....changes
Scrolling down the comments realising how people are suffering and fighting everyday gave me goosebumps also the fact that we don't really know how or what other people are going through.. makes me really sad
You brought tears to my eyes, girl. I grew up in a home where my parents couldn’t find peace with each other. As a child, I was surrounded by constant arguments and bitterness. I made a vow to myself that I would never walk in their footsteps. They stayed together “for the sake of the children,” but it was a mistake that left its mark on all of us. My mum, wise in her way, always said that having children wasn’t the end of the world, that if things couldn’t be fixed, it was better to part ways, hoping that maybe, just maybe, your kids would be lucky enough to have two sets of happy, loving parents. That always stayed with me. And now, after a first marriage that didn’t work out, I’m in my second, and with my new partner of 18 years, we’ve made it work. My daughter is now 22. We all made it through, somehow. You put into words everything I felt as a child, the pain, the confusion, and the hope. It brought it all back. I miss you, Mum. Greetings from Poland.
She's telling a story on behalf of most of us. Every kid has at least complained about their parents because we thought they had a choice to do better and never did. But when you get older, you realise that life is just the same, your parents were just their best to give you the best since parenthood is only learnt by being a parent.
"I swore I would never be like them." "I used to wonder why, why they could never be happy" "I used to close my eyes and pray for whole another family" That hit home.
My mother work hard at other country caring other family to get more money for us for about 15 years... i miss her so much...so please be kind to all overseas filipino worker around the world..thanks
Same it came into my Spotify playlist from nowhere I waa about to skip but the first three lines made me listen to it . This is the most related song by me . I can ever running to find people like me in the comments .
Thats not going to happen. You will never be healed. Its a part of who you are. As we age we learn more and make peace more but you will always be who you are and that pain is a part of it for better and worse.
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THEORY: I feel like people are misinterpreting the song. It’s not just about kids who’s parents are constantly fighting. It’s about how we can’t fully blame them, because love is hard and it’s hard to find someone who will be perfect for you. Love is full of mistakes and our parents made lots of them in it. I remember hiding desperately in the closet wishing for another family, but when I grew up I realized how hard it was for them. I shouldn’t blame them fully, because love is hard. I think that’s the message of the video Edit: I was kinda hoping this wouldn’t get over 2 likes but thank you.
Anyone remember the song “Because of you”? I feel like “Older” gives us a new perspective to see our faulted parents. When we were younger, we always felt like our parents were meant to be the perfect ones, having a perfect relationship, always protecting us. But what we couldn’t see was that they are only humans with flaws and their own injuries. It is only as we grow older, we see how hard life is, how hard love is... Then it seems cruel to blame them...
Been through all three stages. Loving them, judging them when I grew up, now forgiving and praying that peace finds them. It's difficult, they are also human.
But I never prayed for another.family I pray that someday I want to be their parent and they are my child I want to give them a love that I did.not feel with them....
Scrolling through the comments I can't help but wonder are there really truly "happy families" out there. Mine's like a broken one that looks harmonious on the outside. I like to think how my life will be once I establish my own family---will it be identical to mine right now or will it be better? Anyway wish happiness to anyone who happened to come across this comment~
Extreme Mayhem I think reason why there are stories where they’re happy is because they want others to be happy. But there are a few ones that have a sad income, but still carry on
I pray for your happiness too. I'm sure you'll be a wonderful parent someday and it's very courageous of you to still hold onto life even though it's difficult. That's true courage and strength right there. You're here for a reason and God loves you. Peace be with you 💛
Life lesson : Heal from your childhood wounds before you decide to have your own kids so that your kids won't have to spend their lives trying to heal from you
If only my parents did that from the very beginning. 💀 It's not my fault my parents don't know how to emotionally support their children. i don't trust myself for having kids. I don't want my cute little kids to experience what i did. No way in hell is that gonna happen. 💔
I feel this song isn't about broken families! Its about how our parents are just like us, humans, who are navigating their lives as they raise us. We should try not be too hard on them, coz they did what they thought was the best. I could relate to most parts of the song, that feeling of anger, fear when my parents used to fight or yell at each other, hiding in a closet sometimes out of fear, wishing I was a part of someone else's family, but we had our happy times as well. They are not superheros, they have emotions and sometimes they came out infront of us, I always think I dont want to do it to my kids, but hey I am not a superhero!
I can relate to this so much. My family is always fighting and I always wanna crawl in a hole and listen to my music and cry and wish for a new family. A better family. I always told myself I wasn't going to be like my brother and sister who were very rude to my mom and as I got older I realized it's not really something I can help. Getting mad at my mom and frustrated but I try to control it and stay calm so I can be that one person that doesn't cause fights and trouble.
My parents divorced 4 years ago and I finally found something that could explain my feelings. Thank you Sasha ❤ It feels great to know I'm not alone :)
i went to germany and wrote this after crushing some kfc, definitely cried writing it and it means so much that u guys like it, never thought a ballad about divorce would be my biggest song lol
it's pretty
It’s absolutely beautiful ❤️
thank you so much the song really hits home❤️
Cool song. One can tell from the lyrics that this song came from within
this really speaks to a lot of people including me, thank you for writing this
*You know what is more painful, families that are broken but not separated.*
touche
Yeah,, ik how it feels
@@gayatri3488 it's the worst feeling.
@@infpsays4055 yeahh 🥺😔
You hear them fight everyday but they don't want to divorce because they said they love you and don't want you to be a 'broken-home-kid', that so called comforting words actually just makes you feeling guilty and burden
"i used to close my eyes pray for a whole another family,where everything was fine,one that felt like mine"
i felt that.
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lalisa we love a Lisa Stan
A happy childhood can cure all your pain in your life but some people spend their life to cure the pain in childhood
My childhood isn't that bad but your comment hit me so hard.
I’m 17 and I’m already trying to cure that pain. It’s true
I'm one of those child that grew up from pain
This is so true. Mine was mixed with both smile and tear, ups and downs. But what was bad was bad, couldn’t help yourself when it is recalled, even you’re grown. The best thing we can do is to hurt kids as least as possible.
It's a beautiful line dear.
A joyful childhood is a gift that can ease the pain we face later in life. But for many, life becomes a journey of healing the wounds from their early years.
You're so right.
Journey of healing❤❤ how true
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"My parents aren't heroes, they're just like me" ~the most heartbreaking truth 😔💔
Yeah..😞💔
Amii....🥺
it really is 😔
Yeah😔
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SASHA HOW DO U WRITE SONGS THAT HIT ME RIGHT IN THE SOUL
Marina Lin oh my God. I love your videos especially “This is what a broken heart feels like.” Keep up! I hope you will get the recognition you deserve! ❤️
omg this comment actually scared me I was like how do you know my name but then remembered...jeezzzz
EXPERIENCE
the more you get old
the more you experience
the more you know
the lesser you understand.
@@Cat-lb3eo Thank you!!
ikr? soo good
My grandfather told me once that no matter how bad is your childhood your are the only one who can change your life :)
R.I.P Grandfather ✊
R.I.P
Rip 😔
my grandpa said me to rock it.
R I P 🥀
R.I.P to my grandma she said the same thing
It is the biggest love that "My parents aren't my heroes, they're just like me".
We don't need to love our parents without any causes.
I think "parents" are also "others".
I have hurt my parents, and been hurt by my parents.
I won't forget everything so far, but also I'll never forget they have forgiven me everytime and tried to help me. They weren't perfect, but I'll never forgotten. Never.
This song resonates with me so hard. Everyone's gone through the stress of seeing parents fight. Everyone's gone through the fear of wondering whether your parents are going to stay together... It's scary as a kid, and no one ever talks about it. Great song.
I have met people whose parents are divorced, though mine is not likely to, I can still feel the burning tension between them, I just hope I won't get hurt so badly...
I WICH MY PARENTS GET DIVORCE
never had to worry about my parents..they never fought (not trying to be an ass i know it sounds like that)
Not everyone, some people aren’t as lucky because one parent is gone.
CantoMando well in the end,my parents got divorced.
“I swore I’d never be like them” and “My parents aren’t hero’s they’re just like me” god that hits so hard
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Like how hard? Please explain
*but I was just a kid BACK then
I’m me. I’m sorry
Yeah
This song actually speaks for lots of kids with broken families.
like mine I have a broken family
Ordinary_ Rozy yeah you right like my family
Yeah
damn!!! True!!
Yeah
been listening to this song for years, yet I always shed tears everytime.
*she is the voice for children who can’t express themselves because of fighting parents*
*thank you*
It's so true
I know right I’m crying
ABSOLUTELY :|
My parents fight and they're strict helicopter parents :)
Thank YOU ❤ its true.
if you don’t understand this song, you are lucky and i am happy for you. If you do, well then i am sorry and we can get through this, i promise.
Thank you
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"sometimes it's best to let someone go"
♡thanks u made me feel better♡
I love this song 😢😢 anyone's listening in 2024😢😢😢❤❤❤❤😊
YesYes! It's an Evergreen Song
Listening right now
Yes am here
Yes after being broken for a thousandth times
"Sometimes it's better to let someone go", that hits hard.
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As a divorced parent, this part of the song makes me so sad. Parents are human too, just like everyone... why let them go for that? I pray that my kids never cut me out of their lives for being less than perfect.
@@shannongamble2715 I pray that for you too, and I think the fact that you care about them wanting you in their life is a good sign that they wouldn’t just cut you out for being less than perfect. Nobody’s perfect, and they’ll understand that I’m sure. But as a daughter of divorced parents, I’ve been wondering if it’s better for me to “let her go”. I don’t want to cut her out of my life, but I’m so exhausted by her. She chooses herself over us kids every single time. The reason for the divorce is because she cheated on our dad and then left our family to move 3 hours away to live with the guy. And ever since then, I can only remember of her choosing herself or her new husband before us any time there is a dispute. We’re never put first. She doesn’t come to hardly any of our events, and when she does she brings her new husband, despite how many times I’ve practically begged her not to. I don’t want him in my life, and she says that I’m disrespectful for that. But I just want her to try to see things from my side for once, and to care about my feelings. She doesn’t compromise, she doesn’t talk things over. It’s her way or it’s no way at all. And when I’ve tried to express how I feel and tell her that she makes it miserable for me to visit her because her new husband always comes before us kids, she told me that if I’m not happy visiting her then to just not come anymore. She didn’t care to work things out or listen to why I feel that way. She refuses to change, and I don’t like that then she sees that as my own problem. I can’t remember the last time she’s told me that she’s proud of me. She acts like it’s a burden to buy me hygiene supplies for her house. Any time that I ask for her to buy me anything at all, she has a terrible attitude about it. Even for necessities. I don’t ask for much, just what I need and also snacks. For several years now, I’ve thought about stopping putting in so much effort. I still visit her. I still talk to her on the phone every night. But it hurts to put in so much effort for someone that I don’t feel like I matter to. I feel more like a war to win (a war with my dad) than a daughter to love.
I think that as long as you love and support your daughter (when the support is reasonable, of course), you should be fine. Support her activities, tell her that you’re proud of her. If you have multiple children, don’t pick favorites. Don’t make them feel like a burden for needing things. Tell them you love them. Don’t view them as pets rather than people. And if they’re mad at you or mention that they’re not happy at your house, try to figure out how to fix it. Don’t just tell them that if they don’t like it then they don’t have to come.
I hope all goes well for you. Don’t make your kid feel like they’re just something that you’ll get for winning a war against their father. Set aside the war for your kid, and treat them like your beautiful children that you want all the time, not just when they don’t have any feelings that are different than yours
@@skylarm570 I hope you will live your life to fullest :)
It sucks to be in a broken family that is not separated and being hurt every day.
Me, every fckn day.
I'm tired.
very tired.
I want them to divorce☹
Damn.💔
Why are you talking about me💔💔
every single day ikr
I understand...it’ll be okay.
"I swore i'd never be like them". This hit me hardly. I remember when i was a kid, i told myself this, after my mom cussed at me
This made me laugh and idk why😂
I’m 14 and I say this to myself every time my parents yell for no reason. This song hit me way too hard bruh
@@sofirosales5202 same
Saturdays with Sofi yep.. can relate
i still pray that i would never be like them
There is a girl I know recently that she had lost her parents since young.
She would never have a chance to feel any scenarios described in the lyrics, though those are not really good examples to define what "family" is.
For anyone that stops by, please, if your parents still around, try your best to live with them, till the end. Because this girl taught me, how precious the life is.
And let's cheers for her shall we? Her name is Nono, she's the bravest lone wolf that I have met in live.
Your girls are strong, rest well, Sir MW & Ms. XL
Wishing the bestest things for Nono ❤
Wishing the best things to u too Nono's best friend ❤🤝
Why do parents forget that having kids isn't a new start but a responsibility that you take. If you can't be good parents then better not have kids. Coming from experience.
Totally correct.
Yeah, completely agree. And that’s exactly how kids become adopted, separated from their two sisters who at least have eachother, think ‘what if’ all the time, and just feel real lonely in a family that isn’t theirs.
...also speaking from experience lol
@@aquasiox
I hope you will find your home 💜
You’re exactly right. I know that for experience too, wishing u the best :(
can't agree with u more.... even 2021 now
Missing childhood, Cartoons after school time, friends, trips, enjoying without tension, eating without tension, sleeping without tension
same I feel to cry thinking about those days and now everything changed and everyone changed too
and i wished to be an adult back then... :(
Yes
Yea I knew it hurt so much in whole life
I spent those years wishing I could grow older. And now that I'm older, all I want is to go back to those days where there was no stress, no anxiety, no pain. Just making sure i got my food ready on a plate before my show was on.
The saddest part is how most people could relate to this song.
I was called?
ikr :(
Me..
💔 exactly.
its 698, its not 699 :)
本当にいい曲です。メロディーが良くて何度も聴いてしまう。
Me too
The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets,
The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears,
And the kindest hearts have felt the most pain ....
Everyone says I have pretty eyes...
People said i have the Kindest Heart And Yeah i have Had the most pain
My grandmother and my mother don't have a great relationship.. sometimes I have to deal with the heartbreak.. it's not easy either I'm an only kid and the only one I have to support me is my grandfather in the sky.
@@brenda7039471987 sorry if your life is that way
@@alexandramanuel5472 thank you.. I appreciate it
The picture of her as a little girl makes this song even sadder.
Keep quiet 😭
That's Sasha 😭😭😔
Im crying, heeelp
Yes.......... Sad..... 😢
This song explained my life :( I’m crying
"My parents aren’t heroes, they’re just like me" - This line hits me different when I'm older... 💔
Anh Do. Everyone ain't perfect so we let some go as we grow older to lessen burdens 💔💔
@@henryhenderson313 💔💔 :(
💔
I've been wanting to know the meaning of this line. Can someone pls explain it?
@@emaa810 I think it means that is when a child hears the word "hero" to him or her, it means an always right, good and just person. But when we are young and small we think that
our parents as heroes but when we grow up that bubble burst as we make discussions different from that hero figure and be more aware of the world around us and see that
also our parents are not the hero figures that we use to believe. At least that is what I think tho. I'm just 17.
i listen to this everyday when i sleep it makes me cry, thank you for this song it bring memories back,the most beautiful song i ever listen
.
My childhood in a song:
Children shouldn't have to go through this. Sometimes parents are the ones who act like little kids.
Fr😔
Hm
I think the point of this song is realizing that your parents aren't heroes, they're people too. It doesn't matter how old you are, sometimes you just can't figure out life. Your parents could have mental issues but due to the stigma of their time, they didn't understand it and didn't know how to deal with it. I think a lot of kids only see themselves having a hard time but when you grow up you realize your parents were having a hard time, too.
@@MissGenie0607 yes. Exactly. What I meant by my comment was that sometimes as children we just don't understand what's going on with our parents, or why they fight like children,, since they should consider a child's mental health but as we grow older we understand those are things that happen.
your line rhymes
My family isn't broken but I know my parents only stay together because of the kids. Not realising it's traumatising to witness their fights.
🥺
wow...the same is going on here with my family ;-(
Feel ya
I feel you 😔
same here
The most hurtful part when ur parents hurts u by words like hell daily and then behave nicely with u...and u can’t decide whether they r good or bad ....
My daily life dude
@@Ivyyy1224 Can relate..but dont let urself down...lets get through this together💛💛
@@allergictohumans4745 thank you so much for this comment...i had no one right now but your comment made me feel a little good...you too stay strong 💜
If anyone doesn’t feel good just text here...remember even when no one loves u...I love u no matter where u live ,look or anything...I love u at last smile☺️💛💛💛
@@allergictohumans4745 you mean we will chat in a comment box..?nvm that made me even laugh 😄
October 2024, who is here ?
Count me in
me 2:09
Me, too
I've been living with this song for months.
I miss the person in heaven so much.
Kudos to those who grew up with a broken family but still remains kind. Y'all are brave souls.
The most sad part about all this is how many people say they relate to this song. This song isn't just about children's parents fighting, its all about how we shouldn't blame them because loving is hard and it is really hard to find someone that you will get on with for the rest of your life. This song is more about love is full of mistakes that we can't always solve, and you can never be able to find someone that is perfect and that will never make mistakes. I remember when i was a bit younger and i always heard my parents finghting, i used to cry and listen to them, never understanding why it was that hard for them to be kind to each other and why they couldn't just talk things through. Now that i get older i understand how hard it actually is for them and how hard it was. Loving is a really hard thing to do, especially when you are thying to love someone because you dont want your children to have separated parents. I am not blaming my parents for fighting, because i know it isn't their fault. I am here for everyone that that see theirselves in this song, and for everyone that can relate to this song. All you need to know is that you are not alone, and you need to understand that loving is really really hard, you need to look up and remember how important it is to believe tuat you can get through it. You can do it, and everying will be fine, you just need to believe that everything will be okay, and to hope. 💕
Wow 😪😪😔😀😀😣😣😃😃😃
85 times so you don't need to count
Antoniaa D Yeah,My family is the brightest,I hate my father also my friends think I have the perfect life just because I have a dog, and my family is rich,They don’t even know half of it..
Thank you so much, now I understand everything about this song. Take care always.
I can’t even read it
''My Parents aren't heroes
They're just like me''
*I felt that*
Be strong!God will help you.❤
I dont even want to be like them
@@Herlinamkt same they kinda toxic :(
I know they love me but, sometimes they just make mistake that they don't know it's a mistake.
I also feel that. I can understand. it's not like my parents can't understand me it's like they don't want to understand.
September 2024....who's here?
I am here also🎉
I can't take this pain I've lost someone I love 😭
Here 2024 😊
Well am here
Me
The scary part is I can relate to everything in this song.
a6n same...
I feel you
feel you
I feel you...
Same as me
I know no one cares but I'm listening to this now while crying, I just found out that my mom stayed with my abusive dad because he threatened to kill her and my siblings, we're still with my dad but I'm working hard to get my mom out of here, I never really thought how much shit she went through all this time. I hope we get out of here soon. And hope everyone in this situation gets the help they need
You gonna get through this girl
I'm with you
You can get through this don't worry you got this stay strong!
Cmon girl you’re strong!!!💪💪
Awe , you'll get through it , just me strong .. somthing like that is happening with me too
You got this girl.
Stay strong, have faith.
I'm 11 years old. saw my parents fight tons of times. they don't know that I'm hearing them curse. they don't know that I'm traumatized by their fights. I'm just a kid, but I've realized everything. I've realized that love isn't everything.
Yeah me too.. Saw thme fight since I was 8 and they seperated when I am 11.. I'm 14 now and it hurts that whenever I am being with one of them they're always saying negative things to each other.. Not pinpoiting each others sins but it's literally showing out..
I'm feel you... Is okeii everything will be okeii just believe in jesus.
Stay srongg 💓💓💓
Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself, you're amazing enough!
aw baby! i feel you too, stay strong
Stay strong honey
who is here in November 2024?
Me
I listę to this at 16 nov, 10 more days and i will be 19
Yes I’m here…
Me
Me
This generation maybe bad but this generation gonna be the best parents cuz we will understand our children's and their problems 🖤
Plz do
@@D4l1ngbxnn1 do what?!
@@Yes_its_au Right ✔
You're right, my mom and dad got divorced when I was 5 cuz of some stupid things, and my mom sometimes tells me that I behave and looks like him. And I am messy like my father but it's aren't my fault. I promised myself that whatever happens, I will never EVER blame my child because they are not better but be appreciate because atleast they're trying.
So true....✨
My sister suggested this to me. This is literally my childhood. I remember an 8-year old me walking away in my pajamas from my parents fighting. I left the house weeping so hard, not knowing where to go until I reached the streets. Luckily, our neighbor saw me and brought me to her house and comforted me. Some parents just don’t realize the trauma they are causing to their children. I pray my future children will not experience the same trauma I went through.
Just remember the lessons you learned and don't repeat them, that's what worked for me. XXX
😓😓😓😓😓 so sorry darling. I can't even lay hands on mine. I suffered hatred from my own parents and siblings you know how hard that was for me. I'm a fighter I'm still fighting to date. I fought my way out of home to find my life if I had one. But today am a great hope of the same family that treated me like a stranger...
@@flozy-queenactivities9551 I hope you're doing well I had to distant my family also it's sad I know
@@Dahlia10 very sad
even i suggested this to my sister. Unfortunately, so many people like you and me can actually understand the song and can relate to it :(
We need more songs like this that doesn’t talk about sex and drugs
Straight facts!
Agreed
👍👍👍👍
There are already so many but it's just that they are not that popular.
👍👍😄
I can’t believe I miss the song until now, such a beautiful and meaningful song, thank you, I love this song.
"Parents aren't heroes, they're jusy like me"
Oh my god, that moment in your childhood when you realize that and your reality just changes
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@R. Tolmach yeah. I relate to those lyrics so much, because I realized it in 2010 when I was 5 years old and my reality just changed.
@R. Tolmach Agreed. When I was 10, I used to count how much years are there till I become an adult.....and now that I am an adult, I regret that I took my childhood for granted. Even though it was a great mess, I miss those moments when I thought everything was "normal" and continued waking up fresh and happy.
"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men."
- Frederick Douglass
What of Broken Children😔😪
Can they be fixed
"The older I get
The more that I see
My parents aren't heroes
They're just like me"
This hit me like a train
WoW I feel touched
The older I get
The more that I ser
My parents aren't heroes
They
Can you relate, too?
@@zoeykolm6024 Everyone can relate it juste à fact of life
I just wanna say thank you Sasha for this beautiful song,❤
*"My parent aren't heroes,there just like me"*
That got me hard
When you feel like you parents are amazing and never have anything negative around them until everything just.....changes
Hope u feel better now ! Love u! Don't give up! Have faith!
They don't change you just see "THE REALITY"
When I was a child:
"I want to grow old already."
Now that I was grown up:
"I want to be a kid again."
Me too 😭😓😔💔🥺
Right!!!
Growing up is a trap.
Yh I was happy as a kid and I want that now
I don’t wanna grow any older bc that means my mom gets older and you know what happens when old age comes 💔
Scrolling down the comments realising how people are suffering and fighting everyday gave me goosebumps also the fact that we don't really know how or what other people are going through.. makes me really sad
😔
no one ~ that is definitely the truth, everyone has battles and struggles it is actually extremely eye opening as you observed here
Yes😑
P Baruah true.... 😔😔
Listening to this for the first time. Just as soon as it starts playing, the tears bursting out all of a sudden. Yeah, this hit that hard
*this song
It took me 25 years to realise, that my parents aren't heroes.. they too have feelings, hopes, mental illness, heart breaks, and so much more..
Likewise. :)
The comment I have been searching for.
i wish i could like this comment again and again
Me too
@@petrichor3647 same here
She's going to be big in time
Also waiting for that n rooting for her!!! 💖💖💖💖💖
AND I'M HERE FOR IT
Soo soon 💜🎼🎶
Her music is getting more popular alrdy I think. Nice she has talent and people need to see
Fragile As Glass 1000th like on this comment
8 year old me: I wanna be an adult.
18 year old me: I wanna be a kid again.
25 year old me: I wanna be unborn.
Me though lol 😅
Me too
We even have the same age
that is me
Nietzsche thinks the same way as you do.
You brought tears to my eyes, girl. I grew up in a home where my parents couldn’t find peace with each other. As a child, I was surrounded by constant arguments and bitterness. I made a vow to myself that I would never walk in their footsteps. They stayed together “for the sake of the children,” but it was a mistake that left its mark on all of us.
My mum, wise in her way, always said that having children wasn’t the end of the world, that if things couldn’t be fixed, it was better to part ways, hoping that maybe, just maybe, your kids would be lucky enough to have two sets of happy, loving parents. That always stayed with me. And now, after a first marriage that didn’t work out, I’m in my second, and with my new partner of 18 years, we’ve made it work. My daughter is now 22. We all made it through, somehow.
You put into words everything I felt as a child, the pain, the confusion, and the hope. It brought it all back. I miss you, Mum. Greetings from Poland.
5 sec into the song, and already in love with it.
me too
Same bruh. Same.
Her voice
you read my mind
same here
she's not just singing a song, she's literally telling a story..
I hecking love her voice
She's telling a story on behalf of most of us. Every kid has at least complained about their parents because we thought they had a choice to do better and never did.
But when you get older, you realise that life is just the same, your parents were just their best to give you the best since parenthood is only learnt by being a parent.
😢❤❤
"I swore I would never be like them."
"I used to wonder why, why they could never be happy"
"I used to close my eyes and pray for whole another family"
That hit home.
Same
Same...I guess I'm not the only one who's felt like that.
Same D:
Same
vipervip 22 same...
Missing my Mama. May her soul rest in peace. This song is pinning me real bad.
*This song is so beautiful and relates to me a lot. Had a rough childhood*
same
This song makes me cry. I just love this song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Everyone went through stuff and si wish I was naver born
Yes...me too. My parents got divorced when I was little :((
Imli Longs mood
This hit home so hard,she is the voice for lots of kids who’s living in a broken home just like me.
Olivia D me too
I agree with you🖤😔 - I have a friend in my class named Olivia and her last name starts with D, are you her? My names Bella
Bella 4 ever no,I’m sorry xx
yeah mee too
@@bellaw.5195 do you want to be my friend? I can be Olivia like you said
people: talking about their crush
me: no one knows how painful it is to have a broken family
Unfortunately. Many people know how it feels to have a torn apart family.
Fr doe
I have problems with my crush and a broken family xd
Thank god I don’t have that kinda family
Do you know that when playing female puppies, male will often let them win, even if they have a physical advantage
You are the author of your life, make it a best seller! Pray and heal 🙏
My mother work hard at other country caring other family to get more money for us for about 15 years... i miss her so much...so please be kind to all overseas filipino worker around the world..thanks
God bless you, buddy, hope u both r unite asap
I know how you feel...
Vincent Vargas I’m a filipina
ok
Make her proud one day buddy!! all love !! take care !
I was a drug addict for many years, my mom never gave up praying for me. Today I celebrate 4 years clean. God is good
thank you
Even me i'm proud of you sweetheart ❤❤❤
You will be taking drugs again liar liar😂😂😂
It shows your powerful soul dear❤
❤❤❤❤
Wish my mom got clean.
RANDOMLY FOUND THIS SONG AND IT HIT ME IN THE SOUL.
Same bro😏
Same man
Fr tho
Same it came into my Spotify playlist from nowhere I waa about to skip but the first three lines made me listen to it . This is the most related song by me . I can ever running to find people like me in the comments .
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'You exist in the context, the moment in which you lived and what came before you.'
"Based fr"🗣🗣
What's the point of having a family when you dont even feel like you're a part of it? It's just adding to the pain
exactly!
Father and mother is just a word for me like goodbye
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everytime I get asked, "how many kids do you want in the future?" I always think, “I need to heal my inner kid first."
may we all heal one day :))
THAT'S WAYYY TOO RELATABLE FOR ME 💔💔😭
N we r so misunderstood by pple...
omggg ..u r absolutely crct.
This is my answer to when am I getting married.
Feel you friend
Thats not going to happen. You will never be healed. Its a part of who you are. As we age we learn more and make peace more but you will always be who you are and that pain is a part of it for better and worse.
This is not a song this is the true feelings of a teenager.
Fr
FRRRRR
and kids
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WHO IS THEN SATAN ACCORDING TO YOUR WORDS AND OPINIONS?
For me - satan is my enemy, once a glorious Angel, yet as PRIDE was found in him, he lost his place in HEAVEN and felled down to earth and now without a body, only in spiritual form, he walketh around to see whom he : and today on this earth satan is known as god /with little g) and his kingdom is this fallen earth. Be not fool, for he is carring many names: the most known:
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- SATAN,
- THE OLD DEVIL,
- THE Baphomet - the false god/the god of freemasonry.
- The Prince of the air.
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And let me ask a hard question here and there: WHY MALES CAN`T AND WILL NOT KEEP THEIR REPRODUCTIVE TOOLS MORE UNDER CONTROL? WHY ON EARTH ARE MALES SHARING THEIR OWN BODY MEMBERS SO EASILY? WHY ARE THEY UNABLE TO SUDDENLY DEAL WITH THEIR OWN SEEDS THAT START GROWING AND BECAME TO BE AS HUMANS? If males do not ask hard questions from themselves and do not change then complaining about the topic: it`s no use. For MALE was created 1st - that means: on the shoulders of males lays the most. There`s a reason MALES were created in the shape of a match cup - to TRULY STAND STRONG AND BE STRONG. A man sharing his seed here and there IS NOT A STRONG NOR WISE MAN. Raising up all the seeds man has share`d - and raising them up in truth - THEN WE CAN SAY: THAT MAN IS STRONG AND WISE ALSO.
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If under your care are more then 1 child and only one shares your blood and you ain`t gonna feet them, you are then PURE EVIL. And no, being a MALE OR FEMALE ain`t matter here. for to make a child - both: MALE AND FEMALE IS NEEDED. Raising a child/children is the obligation of both. And if one can`t deal with raising a child/children then why sleeping around? Learn to ignore your fleshly desires. Learn to have control over your body. We already have billions broken souls, WHY ON EARTH WE ARE BUSY TO MAKE MORE? No, i`m not against having children and multiplying the earth with new generations. What i am against is: PRODUCING BROKEN SOULS. It is no good.
take care all the children living under your roof or the same will happen as was between 2 1st brothers ever lived on earth: CAIN AND ABLE. Jealously comes forth and one amongst these children, later in life, end up dead way before his or her time. Why? - because a child`s soul is broken. A child do not fully understand all the reasons why adults love one child more then others. That`s usually a reason why later in life, these children are enemies to each other. Raising a child/children, do not care about your own pride and opinions form other humans nor even your owns, CARE ABOUT HOW GOD SEES YOU AND TAKES YOU. Wrongly and unraised children = more violence in this world. And who are these who complain the most about this topic:? ADULTS in their old age. If we /all who are parents, no matter here is all the children are blood sharers or not/ make a way for more violence then no right is found for complain. We, older generations, want truly a change in this world, then let`s raise children in truth and in love. Lets be mad only if they do wrong, not because they do not share our genes.
Not only teenagers but kids too..
This song gives me so much comfort. Makes me want to go back in time and hug them when they were young ❤
😢 yes
I feel the same way about my mom
"I used to close my eyes and pray for a whole nother family" I can relate so much....
... :(
Your strong don't give up trust me it will be better ❤💛💜🧡💙💚💕💞💝
@@kaylee4057 Aww, Tysm 💕😊❤️
Np :)💚💙🧡💜💛❤ the emporting thing that you stay strong 😁💝
M sure this is 💯% copied 😂 your comment lol haha
Put your earphones, close your eyes, and just listen.
I cried.
Apparently every pure heart did.
It's so beautiful ❤
True
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I wonder if tears came out cauz you said u closed ur eyes
This is how my parents are my mom has been devorcied 3 times😔 she found someone new I hope this one is different
“I used to shut my door, while my mother screamed in the kitchen, I’d turn the music up, get high and try not to listen” I swear to god this is me
get up! God with you (:
Right? And the part were their both not right too gosh I've found my new favorite artist💜
I'm doing this everytime they're mad at me. I don't want them to listen at.
Everything will be alright you just need to push through a bit may God be with you my man
same same haha
Anyone 2024 Oct ❤❤❤
she just can't make a bad song ❤️ LOVE FROM MOROCCO
Algeria 👊🏻
She's just amazing. love from Morocco too
morocco too
❤️
Me too 💜 from Morocco 🇲🇦
THEORY:
I feel like people are misinterpreting the song. It’s not just about kids who’s parents are constantly fighting. It’s about how we can’t fully blame them, because love is hard and it’s hard to find someone who will be perfect for you. Love is full of mistakes and our parents made lots of them in it. I remember hiding desperately in the closet wishing for another family, but when I grew up I realized how hard it was for them. I shouldn’t blame them fully, because love is hard. I think that’s the message of the video
Edit: I was kinda hoping this wouldn’t get over 2 likes but thank you.
yes she understands now when she's older that loving sb is hard and sometimes its better to let the love go... so sad
Its is really true😊
So true
yah
I completely disagree.
This song makes me want to be a better father and husband.
be a better one, because ur children/child deserve that its because of my parents reffering more to my father that Im so broken
Yesssss
I just want you to know that i love when you say that
Thank you all for being awesome.
yes you should
This song hit differently,this is not just a song ,this is a feelings/emotion for those pple.🥺💔
Anyone remember the song “Because of you”?
I feel like “Older” gives us a new perspective to see our faulted parents. When we were younger, we always felt like our parents were meant to be the perfect ones, having a perfect relationship, always protecting us. But what we couldn’t see was that they are only humans with flaws and their own injuries. It is only as we grow older, we see how hard life is, how hard love is...
Then it seems cruel to blame them...
"Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes they forgive them." -Oscar Wilde
Been through all three stages. Loving them, judging them when I grew up, now forgiving and praying that peace finds them. It's difficult, they are also human.
Oscar Wilde is my fav author 😳!
True
@@ishakhurana3424 you are absolutely right 🙌 they are also humans and it's difficult.
they forgive their parents everyday
I clicked this by accident
Best accident ever , this song screams my life
Same lol
You made a happy accident UwU
Hahaha
@@trash7582 what the, it's a bit harsh, isn't it?
@@kamiokio9284 srry tho....
Sometimes it's better to let someone go 😢... though it really hurts
I really hope my future children won't find this song relatable..
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Lol
I wish the same...
Just hope you DO a have kids THEN hope that
These are the people that need to have billions of views
Yesssssssssee
Can someone recommend to me some other good songs? And sorry for my bad english
@@aisyahbay6697 um whats wrong with your english?
@@aisyahbay6697 Hi (sorry for my bad english)
@@aisyahbay6697 sure ?
“I used to close my eyes and pray for another family,
Where everything was fine
One that felt like mine”
Oh God, that one line... oh God.
Cadenza Dragon it’s so relatable for me anyways
But I never prayed for another.family I pray that someday I want to be their parent and they are my child I want to give them a love that I did.not feel with them....
relatable lmao
@@ashhh_okumura same...
Who is here September 2024
just drop by .. it hit me the older i get
Me in Thailand😊
Hai
Here
My entire childhood in a song
It will be okay don't worry I hope
Scrolling through the comments I can't help but wonder are there really truly "happy families" out there. Mine's like a broken one that looks harmonious on the outside. I like to think how my life will be once I establish my own family---will it be identical to mine right now or will it be better? Anyway wish happiness to anyone who happened to come across this comment~
Extreme Mayhem I think reason why there are stories where they’re happy is because they want others to be happy. But there are a few ones that have a sad income, but still carry on
I pray for your happiness too. I'm sure you'll be a wonderful parent someday and it's very courageous of you to still hold onto life even though it's difficult. That's true courage and strength right there. You're here for a reason and God loves you. Peace be with you 💛
My family is pretty good
It's gonna be okay ...
there is. mine is. it also depends on how you think of "happy"
Life lesson : Heal from your childhood wounds before you decide to have your own kids so that your kids won't have to spend their lives trying to heal from you
refuckingtweet!
Excellent words 🤞
If only my parents did that from the very beginning. 💀 It's not my fault my parents don't know how to emotionally support their children. i don't trust myself for having kids. I don't want my cute little kids to experience what i did. No way in hell is that gonna happen. 💔
I am not bringing no child to this world.
@@jowaness exactly...💀
I feel this song isn't about broken families! Its about how our parents are just like us, humans, who are navigating their lives as they raise us. We should try not be too hard on them, coz they did what they thought was the best. I could relate to most parts of the song, that feeling of anger, fear when my parents used to fight or yell at each other, hiding in a closet sometimes out of fear, wishing I was a part of someone else's family, but we had our happy times as well. They are not superheros, they have emotions and sometimes they came out infront of us, I always think I dont want to do it to my kids, but hey I am not a superhero!
Every time I hear this song, I cry. She expresses so emotion in her singing.
hi zhang i feel this way too
Jessica Zhang I was the 100th like 👌
I feel the same way. Tears just drop by itself.
shi ues atotuen
Don't mind me, just casually crying at 5 in the morning.
This song hit hard for me. Especially the line "sometimes it's better to let someone go"
Being judge by your own family is a worst kind of pain.
@@ishu_2904 not really
very true and it hurts like hell exactly what I'm going through now
Fr-
@@ishu_2904 ehhhhh not really- maybe but not all the time
Happens to everyone tho...
November 2024, who is here?I'm here.
when I'm listening this song, I found my soul hurts.
Same
Honestly it just hurts
For me it hurts so bad because for me my life
Hey If I grow up I get weaker 😓😓😓😓😓😥😥😥😥😰😰😢😢😨😨😨😰😰😓😥😭😭
This song just matches my problem 😔😔😔😔😓😓😓😥😥😥
I can relate to this so much. My family is always fighting and I always wanna crawl in a hole and listen to my music and cry and wish for a new family. A better family. I always told myself I wasn't going to be like my brother and sister who were very rude to my mom and as I got older I realized it's not really something I can help. Getting mad at my mom and frustrated but I try to control it and stay calm so I can be that one person that doesn't cause fights and trouble.
It'll be alright
I hope it gets better for you and me 😊
I realate. Hope it gets better with all of you
It's not gonne a be like that forever, be strong you're not alone
it is same with me i dont want to become like my siblings who rude to the parents. But now all of us have grown up and we all in good terms
My parents divorced 4 years ago and I finally found something that could explain my feelings. Thank you Sasha ❤ It feels great to know I'm not alone :)
💔
Same expect it’s been 6 years
Take care dear😘
Same
Cheer up! God loves you.
May God fill our hearts and grant us understanding, so that we forgive the ones we love and forgive ourselves too. This is a very very good song.