Wah the starting already quite sad sia, to see someone so cheerful like Chiara cry :") Much thanks to Chiara, Sew, Renae and Prav for opening up to us 🥰🥰 Always remember that your feelings are valid and everyone deserves to be loved unconditionally
To be honest, TSL produce many nice millennials on screen. Each of them has their own personalities. I dont see why you need to leave hateful comments if you dont like them,they are being themselves. If you do support TSL you shouldnt leave hateful comments or rather you should leave more constructive comments instead, for them to have a chance to improve. Remember they have feelings too.
Problem is some people leave mean comments as a way to make themselves feel better or more superior than someone else. Others do it simply because they like the feeling of hurting others.
Chiara, you're beautiful and you're worth everything in the world. Renae you're so strong and beautiful inside and out. Prav you're strong, and is worth so much more than others opinions of you. Sew you're an awesome person don't let others tell you otherwise. All of you are so strong :( I dread seeing all of you sad.. From irl comments to TH-cam comments people should really think before they say anything. We love you 💙
everyone should remember that words hold much more weight than we think, even if it's just a "joke". we don't know what someone is going through so we should always try to be nice to others.
I agree with them. I have friends coming to me telling me about their problems and how their problems are so much worser than mine, the constant comparing. It felt like I didn’t deserve help and that I shouldn’t even be feeling this way because they have it worse than me. It didn’t help at all, in fact it made me feel worse for feeling bad about it. The truth is, everyone copes differently. But we all deserve help. I hope as a society that is stressful enough as it is, we can move forward without traditional mindsets and be more open-minded in terms of mental health. You deserve help. You deserve happiness. You deserve living better! Don’t be afraid to reach out to professionals. It is a long and difficult journey with relapses, but it is so worth it. Even if you think counselling or therapist sessions won’t work, give it a try. You owe it to yourself.
Hey tsl... I know I'm kinda not early, cos this took me quite a while to write. I've been a fan of y'all since the very start, even before 100k. You've never failed to make my day and make me smile, even though the day was rough and tough. I never knew I would find such an amazing and funny channel here on youtube. Seeing y'all cry and being hurt by the nasty comments of others makes my heart hurt, even though we aren't related to each other in anyway. Comments and remarks may be hurtful and offensive, but please don't take it to heart. Y'all are amazing as you are right now, so keep your head up, keep smiling, be happy, block off those hurtful words that come to your mind. You are stronger than you know. You exist to make people who want to watch you be happy, not for the ones that don't want to. Please, please, please for the sake of every 280k of us, keep uploading, and making us smile. Love y'all ❤️✨
i cried . thank you for sharing your struggles and feelings . everyone here is human , and if we can all be nice to one another , the world would be a much better place . you never know how much an " are you okay " can mean to someone .
Oh my this made me tear so much 😢. The 4 of them are so strong and it’s so nice that they have such sweet friends and colleagues ❤️ Love this video so much. More videos like this please.
Mad respect for this video....there is amazing power in vulnerability and thank you for displaying that in this video. Thank you for being so open as well, it must have been so difficult. Really appreciate this video at this difficult period in many peoples' lives...Kudos to everyone to shared and TSL
This is proof that the most cheerful people have overcame a very dark past and came a long way to where there are now. I will never look at cheerful people the same way again.
Thank you TSL for doing this video. I have been in a dark hole like the past two weeks whereas I couldn't sleep well or eating one meal per day. It was really so depressing that one day I just broke down all of sudden after speaking to a counsellor. Eventually, I dropped out of uni after seeing signs that are affecting my well-being. People should be aware more about the mental health issue. Its isn't about really about negativity or weak. So, people that are facing hard times like now or future. Please stay on no matter what. Today might be stormy, but tomorrow it will be sunshine and rainbows. It may not better Today but it will be better than yesterday.
The moment I opened the video , I knew I would cry . It’s touching . The paragraphs below are for the people in this video + the last one for the whole tsl team ( I hope these will make your day better when you read them ) To Chiara , you are amazing , you do you ( lol I became fauzi ). In all seriousness , l really like to see you in eatbook videos , you are a sunshine and a beautiful person. Don’t listen to the haters cause people always say, people bully people because they are jealous . Remember the vast majority of us really like you for who you are and you are unique the way you are. Continue doing your best and working hard. Personally, I appreciate everything you do. I may not exactly know what you do in eatbook but whatever you did for eatbook , I’m sure that I appreciated it very much. Saranghae Chiara *( insert Korean heart fingers )* Fighting! To Prav , you can just be yourself , we will accept you for who you are. Those people who can’t accept it , don’t listen to them cause there is a vast majority of people who will accept you the way you are. Be yourself always in all you do. If people can’t take it, then that’s when you know they don’t like you for you. Us tsl fans will always like you for being yourself. If you are having a hard time due to people not accepting you for the way you are , just remember this question. If you act not the way you do, are you really you? Remember there are people out there that appreciate you so be yourself and don’t let anything or anyone put you down. Chin up and smile cause you are you. I quote fauzi “ you do you!” To Sew, I resonated with you although I just became a teenager as I have the passion for video production and I do film and make my own videos . I felt the same pain as you, you probably experienced it worse cause you had a supervisor to tell you the flaws of the video while I only evaluated myself but just remember that everything you do , it will help you to grow and from your mistakes , you will be better at producing videos.From a personal aspect, I love the videos you and the rest of the tsl team produce , it makes me laugh and feel happy whenever a new video is uploaded. I also enjoy watching you when you are in front of the camera , you are funny and although you hate vegetables and fruits but I love vegetables and fruits , I appreciate your hard work and I’ll always look forward to watching the videos that you produce together with the rest of the team. Jia you! To Renae, once you appeared in front of the camera , I knew I would enjoy seeing you in videos ( and maybe together with Rainier, I’m a rainae shipper hehe) I know mental health is something you struggle with and I would never ever judge you just because of that . As people always say , it’s ok not to be ok . When people comment on what you truly feel in a negative way, I know it will really hurt. Personally , I don’t struggle with my mental health but I’ve felt like that too, the comments were minor but that made me close myself off more than I used to. You are fortunate to have friends to talk to freely and I hope you are doing fine nowadays. I may be weird for you to read this since it’s coming from a 13 year old but I hope that this will make you feel better. Stay strong and carry on. I will always be supporting you ! To the tsl team , I hope all of you are doing ok, mentally and emotionally. I love your videos, I’m always happy when a new video is uploaded. I love the tsl videos to a point I have watched the videos multiple times over and over again. When I say tsl videos, I mean the videos from all the tsl channels. Remember the ig live that lasted 3 hours ? I was there the whole time cause I love seeing y’all. When I asked for a shoutout, I did it so I could record it to keep it as memories. I love all of you and continue working hard. I’ll always be waiting for the next video. If there are any hate comments, ignore them because majority will be here cheering you on. I hope I have put a smile on your face. I really really appreciate the work done to entertain us tsl fans and enjoy watching the tsl videos a lot. Once again I will say , I love tsl and I will always be here to watch your videos . Saranghae ( *pretend I’m doing Korean heart fingers* )
Oh man this hits so hard...totally relate left right up down center..... in fact all these years i thought i had gotten over it but looking back at it now it's really painful in and out
Thank you for this Video. Didn’t expect this episode to be directed to mental health awareness. It makes me feel lesser alone after watching it. Currently battling depression n Anxiety myself n undergoing therapy. Hope everyone who is going through this pull through soon.
this video really spoke to me so much, mental health was expose to me during my internship and have been going through ups and downs since then, became super conscious with my metal health too.
Sounds like you’ve been through quite a bit. Must’ve been tough for you.. so I hope you’re getting some support somewhere! Do take care of your mental health! And be gentle with yourself in the process! 💪🏻
Thank you for making this video, and to Chiara, Charmaine, Renae and Praveen for being open and vulnerable! Felt compelled to leave a comment because I resonated with everyone, have been fighting my own mental health battles for over 10 years and have only started seeking help last year (haven't been doing well because most mental health services were disrupted by COVID-19, but as least I'm still alive!). When Charmaine talked about how she was internally screaming for help, but words just wouldn't come out... When Renae talked about how she took the leap to seek help, but felt like everyone else ended up knowing about it (which didn't make things any better)... When Chiara talked about people commenting on how she looked (which is amazing, btw!) and that she's a "try-hard" person... Although the stories, comments and letters were not mine/addressed to me, I started crying because they were the words that I wish I could've said to someone, or someone would've said to me. In a way, it indirectly helped me to heal some wounds that have been burning for years. Words can impact a person's life - it is up to us to decide whether to tear someone apart or empower them to get stronger, and I hope everyone would choose the latter.
Don't worry! You are loved by many despite being hated by others. Don't be affected by these hated comments. Everyone knows that you are doing your best and your videos are excellent! I love you and continue to work hard! I ♥️ TSL
Chiara, I just want to hug you like a sister. I know how you feel when people make toxic comments about your image and mannerism. I just want to say that you should continue to be the person you are! All the best! 加油!
Thank you so much for this. Mental health, emotional health are such vulnerable topics and I'm thankful for this video. I have always felt inadequate, like I'm a piece of crap and this video really spoke to me alot. Thank you so much 😭
i dont understand why people would shame others for all sorts of things, be it mental health issues, body size, or personality. if they really dislike someone so much then just ignore and move on with life. why must they bring pain to innocent people with such hurtful words? all of you in tsl please keep doing what you do, many of us here look up to you and are very thankful for your content and hard work!
Thanks for sharing TSL members, about things that are very personal to you. I feel most of our mental health issues comes from a deep rooted problem that is our lack of control over our mind. There are great methods out there to bring down the 'noise' in the mind (exercising, meditation, being in nature...) Just remember you are never alone and be kind to everyone around you, because you never know what they are going through mentally even though on the outside they seem all bright and happy.... Personally for me meditation has saved my life in ways I cannot imagine. My mind will tell me crazy things but all I do is observe those thoughts and like leaves in a river the thoughts just flow away eventually... Do upvote if you feel this has helped you in anyway and you want it to help others...
I never expected this video to make me cry. This video hit home deep in my heart. I always thought that I never let people comments or words hurt me but the truth is I was just pushing it away. Watching this video reminded me about the hate comments I've gotten especially the negative words i say to myself, and i just cried. It's so true that we shouldn't let people criticisms affect you because they don't know the hard work you put in and they don't know what you go through in life.
Chiara, you don't have to care about what other people say because you're gorgeous inside out. I love your energy and vibes and your personality so much. You're special to a lot of people. Love you!!!
videos like these are really necessary as not everyone actually see how impactful a simple sentence be it in a positive or negative way. thank you for producing this particular video.
It's okay not to be okay. I've learned that the hard way. I'm of the belief that a form of wealth is prospering mental health. I'm warmed that we can be open to few, the ones who see us through and true. From psychiatric matters to depression and common ailments that need no mention, I'm happy that within the local cognition, that we are ready to have a conversation. So from a global local from out of the blue, wishing nothing but love to all of you. =)
chiara you’re beautiful the way u are, sew you’re amazing at editing and the videos are getting better day by day, renae you’re never alone and you’ve come so far and grew so strong mentally and u all are wonderful just the way u are🤍
I can relate to renae a lot... In sec 2, I also fell into a black hole and was really depressed and suicidal. I also went for counselling and I told my closest friends about it. But the next day, one of my classmate came up to me and ask if I was seeing a counselor. Then I said yes and he immediately turned to one of my friend and said, "woah it's true sa" while she was like, "I tell you already". At the time I really feel very betrayed and I regretted it.... I feel like if anyone else is going thru, pls really choose your friends wisely and only tell those that support you fully.
That sounds awful :( I had something equally awful happen to me in Sec 2 too... while I was waiting for a bus, a male classmate (whom I wasn’t close to) suddenly said “So I heard you’re the most hated girl in class?” I was so stunned... Choosing the right friends and being the friend for someone else in need is very important! :) nothing is permanent and I’m happy things turn out ok for us all in the end! :)
I hope no one has to receive such hate comments. It really hurts on the inside and it is hard to share your feelings with others. I appreciate the hard work tsl puts in to produce videos for everyone to watch and I know it is never easy. Thank you for sharing your feelings and always supporting your followers. 💞
its always ok to not be ok just know that there will be people that cares about you there will be at least one that you can trust with all your heart and that is real.
Huge respect to TSL for using their platform to shed light on these issues which are usually just overlooked, and to Sew, Renae, Chiara and Prav for speaking out. I know it definitely isn't easy but it shows that yall are comfortable with facing your inner demons, which is the first step to winning the battle with them. To them and anyone else facing similar troubles, know that the people around u care and love u ❤️
This is so heartbreaking, I can’t stop crying 😭😭😭 hugs for all of you and I’m in the similar situation like Sew. I hope I can speak out more about my feelings and be braver in asking for help. Thank you for this video, TSL. It’s really okay to seek help 🙆🏻♀️🙆🏻♀️
To every single tsl member: You guys are really amazing 🥺 I’ve been watch you guys since the very start, from the small tsl office to now a team of many, with sub teams like Zula and eatbook. I may be a really quiet viewer and subscriber like many of the other 280k subscribers but through this comment, you will realise that you’re not alone. The mean comments are from people who truly don’t matter to you and I hope with that you will give yourself more credit of your hard work. Don’t let any mean or negative comments get into you, I hope that the support that 280k of us can let you overcome the any negativity in your life 💗
Hopefully all of you are happy now. I am very touched by what you all had to go through. I am sorry that you had to go through all that pain and no many knew about it. I was crying when you all were crying. Just let that you have people around you that loves and cares for who you are. Ignore these hate comments and people who hate you because you have more lovers than haters. Just remember, there will always be a rainbow after a rain :) Hope all of you cheer up! Stay happy, stay strong, stay safe!
Rarely ever comment on TSL videos but this one REALLY made me tear up 🥺 Having similar thoughts and feelings, I understand that one of the hardest things in life is actually attaining self-validation 😣 It really hurts (like you sometimes feel that literal pang in your heart) especially when external parties decide to pick at your flaws and insecurities ykwim 😩 Really makes validating yourself 1000000x harder than it already is,,, we're all getting there though, one day 😌🙏🏼
Thank you very nice for sharing ♥️ All of you are wonderful and beautiful in your own amazing way, if others can't accept that. It is their loss and not yours. You are worth it ♥️♥️
Add oil , I survived bullying in the SG and today I m still thriving and happy with a son and friends who love me, I understand and I had misdiagnosis from docs before somehow I got better and how I recovered was actually just rest and proper nutrition
I pray for all youths to have proper support and God replaced the bad people with lotsa nice things and I m now very safe back home , hang in there and I would always support the Smart Local team
This was 1 year ago and I haven't seen it then but now I seen it, I am crying cause I understand what they all have been through. I am still experiencing them now, it also feels like a deep black hole I can't get out, but I found someone that really helped me out and even if I fell, seeing that particular teacher, made my day. I'm lucky that she convinced my form teachers not to tell my parents like how I wanted it too be. I'm not fully ok yet but, everyone will need to take baby steps. To others who are picking on others which is suffering, shame on you. You think it is so easy to get out and be normal again but no. It can take years and even haunt you for the rest of your life. Nothing is easy but I know, you will make it out alive. :)) stay strong.
To anyone that's reading this, please know that you are unique and beautiful in your own way. You are not born to please everyone. So stay strong and you do you! :)
I really love this type of episode cause it really teaches me alot of things about how to overcome all this. Especially the Mental health episode and the 20 minutes death note
Renae, so sad to c ur mental struggle😢. But u need to know tat besides Ian(ur family n frens), u still hv Us.... d RAINAE fans🤜🤛🤞. We ❤️ watching both cute R&R n will continue to support both ur friendship, love or watever. Regardless whether u two r together or not 😘❣️
TSL. I wanna thank you alot. I know you all have your hard times and having to face these challenges and problems etc. . But i wanna say that i am proud of you guys. Every videos that you guys shoot... Its been awesome and unforgettable . You gave us full of laughter and smiles even though you all have your own personal problems that you guys are facing. Be strong all. And Keep making videos full of laughters and excitement. Dont let those negative comments affect your life LOVE YOU TSL!!❤️❤️
Be who you are not who the world wants you to be❤️Keep doing what you do😘don't let the negative comments or negative judgements get to you. You are perfect the way u are💜
mean and hurtful words could ruined people's feelings even if what you said/convey is a joke (to you), but to others, it wasn't. all i ask is to be kind towards people.
This video made me cry. And cry again when I realised I would not be able to be a part of TSL because of the type of skills required in most positions. -_-'''
If I had a chance to say to my younger self, it would be, "Don't be so hard on yourself and most importantly, don't allow other people's thoughts about you, to affect how you live your life". We tend to underestimate how much impact words have on individuals. That's why, I believe in the saying, if you have nothing nice to say, don't say.
Wah the starting already quite sad sia, to see someone so cheerful like Chiara cry :")
Much thanks to Chiara, Sew, Renae and Prav for opening up to us 🥰🥰
Always remember that your feelings are valid and everyone deserves to be loved unconditionally
To be honest, TSL produce many nice millennials on screen. Each of them has their own personalities. I dont see why you need to leave hateful comments if you dont like them,they are being themselves.
If you do support TSL you shouldnt leave hateful comments or rather you should leave more constructive comments instead, for them to have a chance to improve.
Remember they have feelings too.
Is jon paul in tsl currently?
A lone cozy dot nope
Problem is some people leave mean comments as a way to make themselves feel better or more superior than someone else. Others do it simply because they like the feeling of hurting others.
It's age discrimination and sadly, no one in Singapore give enough of a damn to address it.
i am eating my dry noodle now it become soup noodle
Haha, this video is quite emotional and quite different from the other TSL videos when they open up and talk about their feelings
Lol but this vid can really make someone emotional
In a world where you could choose to be anything, choose to be kind! ✨
Lovely. Ill remember this mantra for life
Dont worry no matter how negative people say things to u or judge you there will always be one positive person to support you! ❤❤❤TSL
Chiara, you're beautiful and you're worth everything in the world. Renae you're so strong and beautiful inside and out. Prav you're strong, and is worth so much more than others opinions of you. Sew you're an awesome person don't let others tell you otherwise. All of you are so strong :( I dread seeing all of you sad.. From irl comments to TH-cam comments people should really think before they say anything. We love you 💙
The worst ones are the ones you don’t remember
Exactly - how can you plan a proper revenge if you forget who said it to you ..lol j/k :)
the ones your mind choose to make you forget*
everyone should remember that words hold much more weight than we think, even if it's just a "joke". we don't know what someone is going through so we should always try to be nice to others.
i don't think Chiara is a tryhard at all. Super genuine and her bubbly manner is a big factor that makes me watch Eatbook!
this was a stepping stone for me to know that im not alone and someone will always be there for me 🥺
WHEN THEY CRIED I CRIED THEY ARE MY FAVOURITE PEOPLE YOU CANT DO THIS TO MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I agree with them. I have friends coming to me telling me about their problems and how their problems are so much worser than mine, the constant comparing. It felt like I didn’t deserve help and that I shouldn’t even be feeling this way because they have it worse than me. It didn’t help at all, in fact it made me feel worse for feeling bad about it. The truth is, everyone copes differently. But we all deserve help. I hope as a society that is stressful enough as it is, we can move forward without traditional mindsets and be more open-minded in terms of mental health. You deserve help. You deserve happiness. You deserve living better!
Don’t be afraid to reach out to professionals. It is a long and difficult journey with relapses, but it is so worth it. Even if you think counselling or therapist sessions won’t work, give it a try. You owe it to yourself.
Renae one was harsh. How could they say something like that to someone who is already struggling?
Fkn ignorance and immaturity man
Psychopathy. And not the "high-functioning" kind.
You’ll be surprised... the harsh truth in our society is that most people will react that way. Human nature is ugly...
Those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter.
Hey tsl... I know I'm kinda not early, cos this took me quite a while to write. I've been a fan of y'all since the very start, even before 100k. You've never failed to make my day and make me smile, even though the day was rough and tough. I never knew I would find such an amazing and funny channel here on youtube. Seeing y'all cry and being hurt by the nasty comments of others makes my heart hurt, even though we aren't related to each other in anyway. Comments and remarks may be hurtful and offensive, but please don't take it to heart. Y'all are amazing as you are right now, so keep your head up, keep smiling, be happy, block off those hurtful words that come to your mind. You are stronger than you know. You exist to make people who want to watch you be happy, not for the ones that don't want to. Please, please, please for the sake of every 280k of us, keep uploading, and making us smile.
Love y'all ❤️✨
Ian's letter, wow. Powerful.
9:43 was something I thought about so often. Chiara and Sew are the epitome of even cheerful people like them go through dark times too.
i cried . thank you for sharing your struggles and feelings . everyone here is human , and if we can all be nice to one another , the world would be a much better place . you never know how much an " are you okay " can mean to someone .
Oh my this made me tear so much 😢. The 4 of them are so strong and it’s so nice that they have such sweet friends and colleagues ❤️ Love this video so much. More videos like this please.
Mad respect for this video....there is amazing power in vulnerability and thank you for displaying that in this video. Thank you for being so open as well, it must have been so difficult. Really appreciate this video at this difficult period in many peoples' lives...Kudos to everyone to shared and TSL
People are just so insensitive and say things without using their brains. Hope you guys stay cheerful and just know that you guys are amazing!:)
chiara so cute bruh who tf has the audacity to fat shame her
Well, you'll be surprised... Chiara's mum (go see that Eatbook video on cheap vs expensive)
Many times, it takes one who have experienced mental issues to understand the torment one will be going through. Really beautiful video.
This is proof that the most cheerful people have overcame a very dark past and came a long way to where there are now. I will never look at cheerful people the same way again.
Thank you TSL for doing this video. I have been in a dark hole like the past two weeks whereas I couldn't sleep well or eating one meal per day. It was really so depressing that one day I just broke down all of sudden after speaking to a counsellor.
Eventually, I dropped out of uni after seeing signs that are affecting my well-being.
People should be aware more about the mental health issue. Its isn't about really about negativity or weak.
So, people that are facing hard times like now or future. Please stay on no matter what.
Today might be stormy, but tomorrow it will be sunshine and rainbows.
It may not better Today but it will be better than yesterday.
The moment I opened the video , I knew I would cry . It’s touching .
The paragraphs below are for the people in this video + the last one for the whole tsl team
( I hope these will make your day better when you read them )
To Chiara , you are amazing , you do you ( lol I became fauzi ). In all seriousness , l really like to see you in eatbook videos , you are a sunshine and a beautiful person. Don’t listen to the haters cause people always say, people bully people because they are jealous . Remember the vast majority of us really like you for who you are and you are unique the way you are. Continue doing your best and working hard. Personally, I appreciate everything you do. I may not exactly know what you do in eatbook but whatever you did for eatbook , I’m sure that I appreciated it very much. Saranghae Chiara *( insert Korean heart fingers )* Fighting!
To Prav , you can just be yourself , we will accept you for who you are. Those people who can’t accept it , don’t listen to them cause there is a vast majority of people who will accept you the way you are. Be yourself always in all you do. If people can’t take it, then that’s when you know they don’t like you for you. Us tsl fans will always like you for being yourself. If you are having a hard time due to people not accepting you for the way you are , just remember this question. If you act not the way you do, are you really you? Remember there are people out there that appreciate you so be yourself and don’t let anything or anyone put you down. Chin up and smile cause you are you. I quote fauzi “ you do you!”
To Sew, I resonated with you although I just became a teenager as I have the passion for video production and I do film and make my own videos . I felt the same pain as you, you probably experienced it worse cause you had a supervisor to tell you the flaws of the video while I only evaluated myself but just remember that everything you do , it will help you to grow and from your mistakes , you will be better at producing videos.From a personal aspect, I love the videos you and the rest of the tsl team produce , it makes me laugh and feel happy whenever a new video is uploaded. I also enjoy watching you when you are in front of the camera , you are funny and although you hate vegetables and fruits but I love vegetables and fruits , I appreciate your hard work and I’ll always look forward to watching the videos that you produce together with the rest of the team. Jia you!
To Renae, once you appeared in front of the camera , I knew I would enjoy seeing you in videos ( and maybe together with Rainier, I’m a rainae shipper hehe) I know mental health is something you struggle with and I would never ever judge you just because of that . As people always say , it’s ok not to be ok . When people comment on what you truly feel in a negative way, I know it will really hurt. Personally , I don’t struggle with my mental health but I’ve felt like that too, the comments were minor but that made me close myself off more than I used to. You are fortunate to have friends to talk to freely and I hope you are doing fine nowadays. I may be weird for you to read this since it’s coming from a 13 year old but I hope that this will make you feel better. Stay strong and carry on. I will always be supporting you !
To the tsl team , I hope all of you are doing ok, mentally and emotionally. I love your videos, I’m always happy when a new video is uploaded. I love the tsl videos to a point I have watched the videos multiple times over and over again. When I say tsl videos, I mean the videos from all the tsl channels. Remember the ig live that lasted 3 hours ? I was there the whole time cause I love seeing y’all. When I asked for a shoutout, I did it so I could record it to keep it as memories. I love all of you and continue working hard. I’ll always be waiting for the next video. If there are any hate comments, ignore them because majority will be here cheering you on. I hope I have put a smile on your face. I really really appreciate the work done to entertain us tsl fans and enjoy watching the tsl videos a lot. Once again I will say , I love tsl and I will always be here to watch your videos . Saranghae ( *pretend I’m doing Korean heart fingers* )
Hi Ashlee, o wow, u r surely a very sensible n mature 13yo. I'm oso a RAINAE fan😊. Noticed u always give very supportive comments, keep it up👍
Lee Chong thanks , I really love tsl so I'll give them all the support I can 😊
@@imhoneygreentea4782 My pleasure, Ashlee😉. I'll do d same too💪💪
Love this, its such a good content that many ppl wont talk abt it because they feel that ppl only wants positivity.
renae's struggles resonated deeply with me, im glad shes in a better place now.
Oh man this hits so hard...totally relate left right up down center..... in fact all these years i thought i had gotten over it but looking back at it now it's really painful in and out
Thank you for this Video. Didn’t expect this episode to be directed to mental health awareness. It makes me feel lesser alone after watching it. Currently battling depression n Anxiety myself n undergoing therapy. Hope everyone who is going through this pull through soon.
this video really spoke to me so much, mental health was expose to me during my internship and have been going through ups and downs since then, became super conscious with my metal health too.
Sounds like you’ve been through quite a bit. Must’ve been tough for you.. so I hope you’re getting some support somewhere! Do take care of your mental health! And be gentle with yourself in the process! 💪🏻
Thank you for making this video, and to Chiara, Charmaine, Renae and Praveen for being open and vulnerable! Felt compelled to leave a comment because I resonated with everyone, have been fighting my own mental health battles for over 10 years and have only started seeking help last year (haven't been doing well because most mental health services were disrupted by COVID-19, but as least I'm still alive!).
When Charmaine talked about how she was internally screaming for help, but words just wouldn't come out... When Renae talked about how she took the leap to seek help, but felt like everyone else ended up knowing about it (which didn't make things any better)... When Chiara talked about people commenting on how she looked (which is amazing, btw!) and that she's a "try-hard" person... Although the stories, comments and letters were not mine/addressed to me, I started crying because they were the words that I wish I could've said to someone, or someone would've said to me. In a way, it indirectly helped me to heal some wounds that have been burning for years.
Words can impact a person's life - it is up to us to decide whether to tear someone apart or empower them to get stronger, and I hope everyone would choose the latter.
Don't worry! You are loved by many despite being hated by others. Don't be affected by these hated comments. Everyone knows that you are doing your best and your videos are excellent! I love you and continue to work hard! I ♥️ TSL
This video shows us how important it is for us to think before we speak. We never know how much a careless comment can hurt and scar someone for life.
thanks tsl. really have a lot of toxic colleagues around me. and some of the advices really motivate me a lot. thank you all.
Chiara, I just want to hug you like a sister. I know how you feel when people make toxic comments about your image and mannerism. I just want to say that you should continue to be the person you are! All the best! 加油!
Thank you so much for this.
Mental health, emotional health are such vulnerable topics and I'm thankful for this video.
I have always felt inadequate, like I'm a piece of crap and this video really spoke to me alot.
Thank you so much 😭
i dont understand why people would shame others for all sorts of things, be it mental health issues, body size, or personality. if they really dislike someone so much then just ignore and move on with life. why must they bring pain to innocent people with such hurtful words? all of you in tsl please keep doing what you do, many of us here look up to you and are very thankful for your content and hard work!
YES CHIARA. WE WILL ALLWAYS BE HERE FOR YOU (even if I'm not physically there!)
I can relate to Renae. Sometimes you don't want to say anything coz if you do, people would think you're over reacting.
sew cried in the video... and probably cried again while editing this... props to u sew... all the best ! :)
i cried watching this video !! yall are very strong . i love you !!
this really hit home
thank you TSL, really needed these words. 💕
Wah it’s produced, edited by sew omg it’s really a GOOODDD video! I cried so much sia :’(
Thanks for sharing TSL members, about things that are very personal to you.
I feel most of our mental health issues comes from a deep rooted problem that is our lack of control over our mind.
There are great methods out there to bring down the 'noise' in the mind (exercising, meditation, being in nature...)
Just remember you are never alone and be kind to everyone around you, because you never know what they are going through mentally even though on the outside they seem all bright and happy....
Personally for me meditation has saved my life in ways I cannot imagine. My mind will tell me crazy things but all I do is observe those thoughts and like leaves in a river the thoughts just flow away eventually...
Do upvote if you feel this has helped you in anyway and you want it to help others...
Jon Paul! Those were the days.. keep it up, you guys are stronger than you think you are!
I never expected this video to make me cry. This video hit home deep in my heart. I always thought that I never let people comments or words hurt me but the truth is I was just pushing it away. Watching this video reminded me about the hate comments I've gotten especially the negative words i say to myself, and i just cried. It's so true that we shouldn't let people criticisms affect you because they don't know the hard work you put in and they don't know what you go through in life.
Chiara, you don't have to care about what other people say because you're gorgeous inside out. I love your energy and vibes and your personality so much. You're special to a lot of people. Love you!!!
After watching this, i wish i could give them a big hug
videos like these are really necessary as not everyone actually see how impactful a simple sentence be it in a positive or negative way. thank you for producing this particular video.
Chiara is seriously so beautiful and she really have such a genuine heart! You are amazing Chiara keep going!!
It's okay not to be okay. I've learned that the hard way.
I'm of the belief that a form of wealth is prospering mental health.
I'm warmed that we can be open to few, the ones who see us through and true.
From psychiatric matters to depression and common ailments that need no mention,
I'm happy that within the local cognition, that we are ready to have a conversation.
So from a global local from out of the blue, wishing nothing but love to all of you. =)
chiara you’re beautiful the way u are, sew you’re amazing at editing and the videos are getting better day by day, renae you’re never alone and you’ve come so far and grew so strong mentally and u all are wonderful just the way u are🤍
When Sew cried, I felt my heart break.
I can relate to renae a lot... In sec 2, I also fell into a black hole and was really depressed and suicidal. I also went for counselling and I told my closest friends about it. But the next day, one of my classmate came up to me and ask if I was seeing a counselor. Then I said yes and he immediately turned to one of my friend and said, "woah it's true sa" while she was like, "I tell you already". At the time I really feel very betrayed and I regretted it.... I feel like if anyone else is going thru, pls really choose your friends wisely and only tell those that support you fully.
That sounds awful :( I had something equally awful happen to me in Sec 2 too... while I was waiting for a bus, a male classmate (whom I wasn’t close to) suddenly said “So I heard you’re the most hated girl in class?” I was so stunned... Choosing the right friends and being the friend for someone else in need is very important! :) nothing is permanent and I’m happy things turn out ok for us all in the end! :)
“Because of how they stigmatize mental health, i felt like eventhough i wanted to reach out to get help bt i couldnt ” ;,)
I hope no one has to receive such hate comments. It really hurts on the inside and it is hard to share your feelings with others. I appreciate the hard work tsl puts in to produce videos for everyone to watch and I know it is never easy. Thank you for sharing your feelings and always supporting your followers. 💞
its always ok to not be ok just know that there will be people that cares about you there will be at least one that you can trust with all your heart and that is real.
Huge respect to TSL for using their platform to shed light on these issues which are usually just overlooked, and to Sew, Renae, Chiara and Prav for speaking out. I know it definitely isn't easy but it shows that yall are comfortable with facing your inner demons, which is the first step to winning the battle with them. To them and anyone else facing similar troubles, know that the people around u care and love u ❤️
watching this made me realise how badly i need someone to be there for me
You all are truly amazing! Stay Strong!
This is so heartbreaking, I can’t stop crying 😭😭😭 hugs for all of you and I’m in the similar situation like Sew. I hope I can speak out more about my feelings and be braver in asking for help. Thank you for this video, TSL. It’s really okay to seek help 🙆🏻♀️🙆🏻♀️
I seldom comment but LOVE YOU GUYS CHIARA SEW PRAV AND RENAE!! Every day/week I look for new videos to watch on TSL/eatbook coz you guys are here :)
To every single tsl member:
You guys are really amazing 🥺 I’ve been watch you guys since the very start, from the small tsl office to now a team of many, with sub teams like Zula and eatbook. I may be a really quiet viewer and subscriber like many of the other 280k subscribers but through this comment, you will realise that you’re not alone. The mean comments are from people who truly don’t matter to you and I hope with that you will give yourself more credit of your hard work. Don’t let any mean or negative comments get into you, I hope that the support that 280k of us can let you overcome the any negativity in your life 💗
Hopefully all of you are happy now. I am very touched by what you all had to go through. I am sorry that you had to go through all that pain and no many knew about it. I was crying when you all were crying. Just let that you have people around you that loves and cares for who you are. Ignore these hate comments and people who hate you because you have more lovers than haters. Just remember, there will always be a rainbow after a rain :) Hope all of you cheer up! Stay happy, stay strong, stay safe!
i hope all 4 of you will continue to be strong. all your efforts are recognized. please dont give up
Rarely ever comment on TSL videos but this one REALLY made me tear up 🥺 Having similar thoughts and feelings, I understand that one of the hardest things in life is actually attaining self-validation 😣 It really hurts (like you sometimes feel that literal pang in your heart) especially when external parties decide to pick at your flaws and insecurities ykwim 😩 Really makes validating yourself 1000000x harder than it already is,,, we're all getting there though, one day 😌🙏🏼
Thank you very nice for sharing ♥️
All of you are wonderful and beautiful in your own amazing way, if others can't accept that. It is their loss and not yours. You are worth it ♥️♥️
Add oil , I survived bullying in the SG and today I m still thriving and happy with a son and friends who love me, I understand and I had misdiagnosis from docs before somehow I got better and how I recovered was actually just rest and proper nutrition
I pray for all youths to have proper support and God replaced the bad people with lotsa nice things and I m now very safe back home , hang in there and I would always support the Smart Local team
This was 1 year ago and I haven't seen it then but now I seen it, I am crying cause I understand what they all have been through. I am still experiencing them now, it also feels like a deep black hole I can't get out, but I found someone that really helped me out and even if I fell, seeing that particular teacher, made my day. I'm lucky that she convinced my form teachers not to tell my parents like how I wanted it too be. I'm not fully ok yet but, everyone will need to take baby steps. To others who are picking on others which is suffering, shame on you. You think it is so easy to get out and be normal again but no. It can take years and even haunt you for the rest of your life. Nothing is easy but I know, you will make it out alive. :)) stay strong.
And sorry I couldn't watch it all. My pillow feels like it was just washed.
So much love ❤️ thank you TSL for this video. Let's keep all the positive vibes around us!!
I love how raw and unfiltered this is (‘:
This is sooo sad......Please stay strong no matter who looks down in you 🥰🥰
To anyone that's reading this, please know that you are unique and beautiful in your own way. You are not born to please everyone. So stay strong and you do you! :)
it hits hard :( but stay strong! ❤️
TSL forever. Nothing is too small and you are never not good enough.
You support each other. You can do it!!! #sgunited
I really love this type of episode cause it really teaches me alot of things about how to overcome all this. Especially the Mental health episode and the 20 minutes death note
When i saw the video title i knew i might relate :) smiling on the outside only
Hi Renae, I pray that u wld overcome depression n seek Peace & Happiness
Renae, so sad to c ur mental struggle😢. But u need to know tat besides Ian(ur family n frens), u still hv Us.... d RAINAE fans🤜🤛🤞.
We ❤️ watching both cute R&R n will continue to support both ur friendship, love or watever. Regardless whether u two r together or not 😘❣️
TSL. I wanna thank you alot. I know you all have your hard times and having to face these challenges and problems etc. . But i wanna say that i am proud of you guys. Every videos that you guys shoot... Its been awesome and unforgettable . You gave us full of laughter and smiles even though you all have your own personal problems that you guys are facing. Be strong all. And Keep making videos full of laughters and excitement. Dont let those negative comments affect your life
LOVE YOU TSL!!❤️❤️
love your bubbly vibes chiara!!!💜
CAN I GIVE THEM ALL A HUG
If someone's says something mean to me, I wld tell myself I nvr asked for their opinions, so what they said doesn't matter and I'm fine after that
I needed this :'( thank you
Be who you are not who the world wants you to be❤️Keep doing what you do😘don't let the negative comments or negative judgements get to you. You are perfect the way u are💜
I know I can't
But I feel like fighting every single person that hurt them
My defense against such negative comments is to ignore it, unless its from someone I care about.
NOOO chiara youre dem cute and I love your energy!!!
It's so cute to see Charsew cry.... Love you with all our hearts... :-)
mean and hurtful words could ruined people's feelings even if what you said/convey is a joke (to you), but to others, it wasn't. all i ask is to be kind towards people.
This video made me cry. And cry again when I realised I would not be able to be a part of TSL because of the type of skills required in most positions. -_-'''
The worst thing someone said to me is "Don't know why I gave birth to a son like you"... even after being a sensible and obedient child all my life...
thank you for the sincere video
If I had a chance to say to my younger self, it would be, "Don't be so hard on yourself and most importantly, don't allow other people's thoughts about you, to affect how you live your life". We tend to underestimate how much impact words have on individuals. That's why, I believe in the saying, if you have nothing nice to say, don't say.
Don’t get hurt by those comment your already good enough 🥰❤️💕
Life is short.Stay Happy and Strong.Tomorrow will be a better day.
Turn these negativities into positivities. Don't be affected by them and just do your best.
This is a very very beautiful video to watch
Awesome video🥺😭👏🏻👏🏻