10 Things You Need to Give Up If You Want to Be Successful

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    We all have goals in our life that we want to accomplish, but it’s important to make sure we’re getting rid of our unhealthy mindsets and habits that lead to self-destruction. Once we shake those negative thought patterns, we can grow that much more quickly and see real results quicker than we ever thought possible.
    CORRECTION: The quote at the end of part 9 is from Judy Garland, not July Garland.
    This video was sponsored by Rize.
    ⏱ TIMESTAMPS
    0:00 - Intro
    0:56 - 1. Give Up Low Standards
    1:36 - 2. Give Up Making Excuses
    2:16 - 3. Give Up An Unhealthy Lifestyle
    2:46 - 4. Give Up Playing Small
    3:22 - 5. Give Up Living in the Past
    4:04 - 6. Give Up Saying Yes to Everything
    4:59 - 7. Give Up Your Need to Be Liked
    5:39 - 8. Give Up Expecting Fairness
    6:13 - 9. Give Up Not Being Yourself
    6:38 - 10. Give Up Complaining
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ความคิดเห็น • 84

  • @TomekZylMusic
    @TomekZylMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Another point is advice itself, unqualified people won't see your vision or understand it. Gotta trust your own intuition.

    • @kaalad3666
      @kaalad3666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      And seek advice from people who are where you want to be

    • @TomekZylMusic
      @TomekZylMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaalad3666 correct, but those might be hard to reach when you're starting out sadly

    • @Nozoroth
      @Nozoroth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      3:41 KEEP MOVING FORWARD

    • @remotepinecone
      @remotepinecone ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TomekZylMusic wrong they're everywhere, you're just not looking in the right place.

    • @TheDarkOne9942
      @TheDarkOne9942 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unless your intuition is terrible.

  • @avijitmentor
    @avijitmentor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    1. Raise your standards
    2. Give up making excuses
    3. Give up un healthy lifestyle
    4. Give up playing small
    5. Give up living in past
    6. Give up saying yes to everything
    7. Give up your need ro be liked
    8. Give up expecting fairness
    9. Give up not being yourself
    10. Give up complaining
    Short cut -
    11. Give up this f*king mobile.

    • @subratosaha8749
      @subratosaha8749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      11 is too good 😂

    • @rasenowo605
      @rasenowo605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      11 is 🔥😸😸

    • @choonguanquek4180
      @choonguanquek4180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Raise your standards but not setting unrealistic goals to achieve for this will discourages you if you are unable to meet your impossible high standards. Take one step at a time. I might be wrong, don't feel discourage. Drop a comment if you held a different opinion. 🐶🦁💋🦋

    • @darynagorska655
      @darynagorska655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

    • @pikon33
      @pikon33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! I knew someone made a TL;DR version somewhere

  • @warrenbradford2597
    @warrenbradford2597 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need to remember to give up these things so I can grow. I need to set boundaries with anyone who does not agree with my choices. Thank you, Art of Improvement, for your lesson.

  • @BrianHallmond
    @BrianHallmond 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This has been my favorite growth channel lately.

  • @Chandankumar-el9ou
    @Chandankumar-el9ou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Summary
    1. Raise your standard
    2. Give up making excuses
    3. Give up an unhealthy lifestyle
    4.Give up playing small
    5. Giving up living in the past
    6. Give up saying yes to everything
    7. Give up your need to be liked
    8. Give up expected Fairness
    9. Give up not being yourself
    10. Give up complaining

  • @williambreeze2659
    @williambreeze2659 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the video!

  • @sjraneyumo6049
    @sjraneyumo6049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It gave me positive attitude.

  • @fitnessuniverse111
    @fitnessuniverse111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Every video hits the point,right in the center...:)
    Really good work.

  • @blingblingshineshine
    @blingblingshineshine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    really needed to hear some of these points. thank you :)

  • @BLESSINGMARIEE
    @BLESSINGMARIEE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Whewww! This video came at the perfect time - every point is what I’ve been thinking lately

  • @akashmathew7340
    @akashmathew7340 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much 😊

  • @j9_njoroge
    @j9_njoroge 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this

  • @iDontProgramInCpp
    @iDontProgramInCpp ปีที่แล้ว

    3:32 Ah shoot, what a great idea! Why didn't I think of that 🤦‍♂️🤪

  • @jeffngarden
    @jeffngarden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate this channel years of helping me transform!!!! Thank you

  • @WhiteChocolate444
    @WhiteChocolate444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @ThunderboltSu
    @ThunderboltSu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    watching this put me in a better mood.

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, very helpful!

  • @brianbordenkircher52
    @brianbordenkircher52 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely some great ideas! Thank you!

  • @bravesoulchannel1685
    @bravesoulchannel1685 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this video. 😎👍

  • @marke219
    @marke219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of best most condensed versions of ingredients for success!

  • @AliN-bb4rt
    @AliN-bb4rt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I do not exactly recall who said it but I think it was one of the early famous scholers of Islam. When during a lecture someone remarked how shameful he felt that so few people had came to listen and learn from this remarkable and wise scholer and to this the scholar replied: "It's not the numbers of the faithful that's important to us but the amount of faith they possess!"

  • @todaysspecialwithrekha127
    @todaysspecialwithrekha127 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice video 👍

  • @Runwithme418
    @Runwithme418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video! I love your content. One correction: at 6:30 I believe that's Judy, not July. 😉

  • @nimivashi15
    @nimivashi15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a lot to give up!

  • @Sergio_Loureiro
    @Sergio_Loureiro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Summarized at 7:24

  • @dncsmedia
    @dncsmedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video A. O. I. - Thanks! Thanks Rize. As an Apple guy, I don't see the usage as I have screen time info and that has sufficed for me.

  • @AnggiSwifty
    @AnggiSwifty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This came just at the right time 😌

  • @plei4119
    @plei4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks!

  • @mikyllaguigayoma8241
    @mikyllaguigayoma8241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!

  • @DrRebeccaHeiss
    @DrRebeccaHeiss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks so much for sharing this! It is so important to remember mindset MATTERS in all areas of our lives. In order to be successful, we have to be HAPPY! :-)

  • @irmaindriani
    @irmaindriani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Raise your standard!

  • @elsenored562
    @elsenored562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:58 1. Give up low standards

  • @lukehanak
    @lukehanak 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cool I've already gave up all of those things.

  • @rosemarietolentino3218
    @rosemarietolentino3218 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can see why not many views.

  • @ShreddedSteel
    @ShreddedSteel ปีที่แล้ว

    ... So be Johnny Cage?
    Whats the catch salesman?

  • @gwarlow
    @gwarlow 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you and Michael Caine from the same region in Britain? Cheers.

  • @AyeZo
    @AyeZo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Know your worth, you deserve to live your life. Begin to think more highly of yourself, repeating a list of daily affirmations is a good place to start

  • @garylockhart526
    @garylockhart526 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't let your past become your future.

  • @goggleheadgaming
    @goggleheadgaming ปีที่แล้ว

    I disagree with the first point. Sometimes our standards are too high, which discourages even trying. I subscribe to Jordan Peterson’s rule: only compare yourself to yesterday’s you.

  • @GrowthMindsetChannel
    @GrowthMindsetChannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    “Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement” ~ James Clear 💪🏻🚀

    • @buk1733
      @buk1733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I read his book: atomic habits. It’s great

  • @pacemax1204
    @pacemax1204 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How you forget your past and keep moving on??

    • @adamskids3
      @adamskids3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s not that you forget about it it’s that you don’t dwell on it and use it as excuses or a crutch.

  • @michaelsmith4904
    @michaelsmith4904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sometimes you stop taking risks because you have been punished too hard for doing so.

    • @etrogneux
      @etrogneux 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      When you’ve been punished, you started to learn. Follow on learning

    • @harrietcraig7817
      @harrietcraig7817 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right. You know what you are after taking risks for 50 years and it backfires? A loser.
      There’s only so many decades to work on yourself before it’s just pathetic. No one respects a 60 year-old who still makes self-improvement lists and speaks like there’s tons of time left.

  • @erajefr
    @erajefr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice story. Are you using Doodly for your videos?

    • @TheArtofImprovement
      @TheArtofImprovement  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not used that but all the tools I use in the video creation process are here: artofimprovement.co.uk/approved-resources/

  • @dayy21
    @dayy21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just because you put in the work, just because you are smart or talented, or disciplined, doesn’t mean the Universe or God or your boss owes you anything.
    *No one owes you anything.*

  • @carmenmcallister1124
    @carmenmcallister1124 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Apre

  • @KushAidMan
    @KushAidMan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Also the more you think about something and tell people about it, the less you'll actually do it because your brain feels like you already done it

  • @thepassbtpod
    @thepassbtpod 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No illustration?

    • @TheArtofImprovement
      @TheArtofImprovement  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is an illustration

    • @thepassbtpod
      @thepassbtpod 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheArtofImprovement just didn’t see the link at the end or in the notes. That’s all.

  • @sacdaabdurhman
    @sacdaabdurhman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “One day or day one. You decide.” Imagine where you will be if you start TODAY.

  • @utsavsingh0904
    @utsavsingh0904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    But Rick says "never gonna give you up" why is he still successful?

  • @nhelrebolanan
    @nhelrebolanan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🔥🔥🔥❤

  • @J344Y
    @J344Y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Stop complaining and start doing
    Inaction is a slow death

    • @ItzFisH_
      @ItzFisH_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yessir better ideas

  • @thomasjoyce7910
    @thomasjoyce7910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "July" Garland?
    How is it that you have never heard of Judy Garland but managed to come across something wise that she said?
    She was quotable but she wasn't some obscure philosopher.

    • @TheArtofImprovement
      @TheArtofImprovement  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes it should be a 'd' rather than an 'l'. I've added a correction to the description and amended the subtitles. Thanks for pointing it out.

  • @kennythemessenger9947
    @kennythemessenger9947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This channel helps me embrace Christianity

  • @mrspaceman2764
    @mrspaceman2764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Video Games and youtube😒

  • @darrenwalters9886
    @darrenwalters9886 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is just Nietzche.

  • @user-tw9zn3jr2q
    @user-tw9zn3jr2q 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How to Play the Game of Life
    Why do children wake up with their eyes wide open and jump out of bed while we open them just wide enough to see the phone so we can set it to snooze? Why are young people energetic and ready to “conquer the world” while older people are cautious and hesitant? Can we stay young-spirited forever? After all, if life is not a game, there is no excitement in it. And if there is no excitement in life, what is the point of living?
    If we want to keep enjoying, we need to make life a lifelong game. This game is very different from anything we know. It is not about what we can receive, but about what we can discover! By connecting to other people, we discover new worlds, other people’s worlds!
    How do we achieve this? Quite simply, we need to focus on others rather than on ourselves. This may sound simple, but if you try it, you will realize how self-absorbed you are.
    We are all like that. Even those who feel that they are generous and giving are absorbed in their giving and do not see how much they do it for their own interest, and how they are focused on their own benefit when they give. Giving is fine, but the focus is the point here. Had the focus been on the receiver, the giver would have discovered countless revelations that are hidden from a self-centered eye.
    For the game to succeed, you need partners. It is impossible to play the game of giving without people to whom you can give and from whom you can receive. Therefore, there must be a group of people, up to ten or so, who play the game together.
    In order to succeed in discovering the other players’ worlds, we need to think good thoughts about them. Otherwise, we will have no incentive to approach them, no desire to discover their world. We can think good thoughts about each other if we do good things for one another. These can be the simplest things, but they must make us feel good about each other. Positive thoughts about each other bring us closer, and closeness opens our minds and hearts to others, so we can see the world through their eyes.
    As with any game, the more we practice, the better we get, and the harder, yet more rewarding the game becomes. But unlike any other game, as we improve in it, we will find that our entire perspective on life changes and expands, and we become wiser and more competent.
    The game of life, unlike any other game, reveals to us the secrets of life, the secrets of reality, because when you can look at something from all angles, nothing remains hidden from you...

  • @albertabadicio
    @albertabadicio 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

  • @lindaabraham7421
    @lindaabraham7421 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you