Based on your responses of why you have commitment issues or “suck” at dating, I simply think you haven’t truly fallen in love yet. Maybe your partners were fine on paper, good looks, cooperating well with you, etc., but there was no googly “unconditional” love, because THAT person you would never be as willing to let go of. She will come along one day and you will know the exact difference ❤
Not sure if you've come across this book "Longpath becoming the great ancestors our future needs - an antidote for short-termism by Ari Wallach" - sound like someone who might enjoy it. In a nutshell, it asks the question what kind of ancestor do we want to be. Enjoying the podcasts btw - keep up the awesome work 🙂
9:59 love that! Many people, especially the new generation, don’t realize that actions have repercussions. People will see you and treat you differently depending on the content you post on social media. Please talk more about back packing and traveling! Some of us didn’t get that opportunity but I live through by hearing other people’s experiences.
Hello I see myself a lot in your video. I am also 30 years old (team 94) and I am always questioning myself and how I can evolve. I have lived in 4 countries alone and I have degrees in lots of fields that have no connection with each other. and on a heart level the more we delve into ourselves and what we want and don't want the more it's hard to have someone by your side I think. congratulations for your launch on the internet and for getting out of your comfort zone... you convey a positive image and that no one is perfect and that you have to accept yourself as you are. it's very good especially since the networks show a false image of real life.... (I hope I haven't made too many mistakes, English is not my language)
@@farahlouiza1994 hey Farah 👋 I’m glad it resonated with you and you’re definitely not alone! Also wouldn’t have guessed English wasn’t your language if you hadn’t said it.
Great second episode. Like the candid nature of your answers. You're relaxing more, so you are coming across more natural. I look forward to the next episode.
cant wait for the next podcast 😊 i suggest you share more about your mid-crisis, struggle, challenges and how did you overcome it.. something like that haha.. I think you can inspire more people 😊
It’s really inspiring to see someone in their 30s flip their world upside down and come out on top. I’m also about to flip my entire world upside down and it’s the most terrifying thing I’ve ever done. This gives me the little bit of confidence that…this to shall pass 😊 I’d also like to hear what your opinions are on other financial advisors that are popular on social media platforms.
the fact that you recognize your red flags is also a green flag. 💛 also, patriarchal society teaches us that we can only be happy in monogamous relationships. as someone who forced myself to be in 2 long term relationships because of societal/personal pressure and is ending a marriage at 43 because i was miserable, there is nothing wrong with being single and/or unmarried. please keep focusing on you and your personal goals and dont succumb to pressure to settle down unless it really is something you want to do. you have a good head on your shoulders and I wish you all the best and am looking forward to watch your journey of growth!
These were some great questions & answers! I really feel like I got to know u a bit Tom! U seem highly intelligent! Brains & brawn! I am also socially awkward(funny how people assume if you're attractive u can't possibly be) & my favorite podcast is diary of a CEO. Maybe it will be yours now. I have subscribed!
I'm a person that like working with customers but I'm 38 years young now and I want to work remote. On top of that, I'm also stressed financially. I need advice on how to budget well and sticking with my goals. Thank you 😊
Ok, but can we please get your Nan in here? The fact that she made a Tiktok, and is also commenting is so precious!! 🥹 She's got all the young/awkward Tom stories I bet😂
I am, I think it’s important not to discount everything someone says just because you don’t agree with them on certain things. His lessons on purpose and depression helped me through some pretty tough times.
I am, I think it’s important not to discount everything someone says just because you don’t agree with them on certain things. His lessons on purpose and depression helped me through some pretty tough times.
I'm going to be honest, it's pretty hard to watch this with those brown eyes staring back at you 👀 it's so refreshing to hear from the perspective of a man who is entirely focused on his career and growth plus him being flustered at spicy comments makes for an unexpectedly seductive mix 🫣 in all seriousness, we hope that you love yourself as much as we love you (and your awkwardness) Tom! Sincerely, Stranger from the Internet
The audio sounds a little bit muffled but great lighting and finally a shirt that is not white or blue 🙌🏼. Looking forward to more episodes!
@@enchanting_elizabeth will sort a better mic for next time! Thanks Elizabeth
Based on your responses of why you have commitment issues or “suck” at dating, I simply think you haven’t truly fallen in love yet. Maybe your partners were fine on paper, good looks, cooperating well with you, etc., but there was no googly “unconditional” love, because THAT person you would never be as willing to let go of. She will come along one day and you will know the exact difference ❤
It’s definitely the most optimistic way to look at the situation, I hope you’re right!
Not sure if you've come across this book "Longpath becoming the great ancestors our future needs - an antidote for short-termism by Ari Wallach" - sound like someone who might enjoy it. In a nutshell, it asks the question what kind of ancestor do we want to be. Enjoying the podcasts btw - keep up the awesome work 🙂
9:59 love that! Many people, especially the new generation, don’t realize that actions have repercussions. People will see you and treat you differently depending on the content you post on social media.
Please talk more about back packing and traveling! Some of us didn’t get that opportunity but I live through by hearing other people’s experiences.
@@enchanting_elizabeth hey Elizabeth, thanks for this, will cover it more for sure!
Hello
I see myself a lot in your video. I am also 30 years old (team 94) and I am always questioning myself and how I can evolve. I have lived in 4 countries alone and I have degrees in lots of fields that have no connection with each other. and on a heart level the more we delve into ourselves and what we want and don't want the more it's hard to have someone by your side I think. congratulations for your launch on the internet and for getting out of your comfort zone... you convey a positive image and that no one is perfect and that you have to accept yourself as you are. it's very good especially since the networks show a false image of real life.... (I hope I haven't made too many mistakes, English is not my language)
@@farahlouiza1994 hey Farah 👋 I’m glad it resonated with you and you’re definitely not alone! Also wouldn’t have guessed English wasn’t your language if you hadn’t said it.
Great second episode. Like the candid nature of your answers. You're relaxing more, so you are coming across more natural. I look forward to the next episode.
@@michellepatkowski1067 thanks Michelle, definitely feeling a bit more comfortable already!
cant wait for the next podcast 😊 i suggest you share more about your mid-crisis, struggle, challenges and how did you overcome it.. something like that haha.. I think you can inspire more people 😊
@@crystalynericacampos4600 hey crystal, will definitely go into this in more detail in future episodes, thanks for the feedback!
It’s really inspiring to see someone in their 30s flip their world upside down and come out on top. I’m also about to flip my entire world upside down and it’s the most terrifying thing I’ve ever done. This gives me the little bit of confidence that…this to shall pass 😊 I’d also like to hear what your opinions are on other financial advisors that are popular on social media platforms.
I hope your life flip brings you happiness! It’s never easy but often the most formative moments of life
You have your head on straight and you’re focused. Right on 👏🏽
@@giamontalto thanks Gia ❤️
the fact that you recognize your red flags is also a green flag. 💛 also, patriarchal society teaches us that we can only be happy in monogamous relationships. as someone who forced myself to be in 2 long term relationships because of societal/personal pressure and is ending a marriage at 43 because i was miserable, there is nothing wrong with being single and/or unmarried. please keep focusing on you and your personal goals and dont succumb to pressure to settle down unless it really is something you want to do. you have a good head on your shoulders and I wish you all the best and am looking forward to watch your journey of growth!
Thanks for allowing us to learn more about you. I look forward to your next podcast. Great job, Tom! 🙌🏼🎊🎉
Thanks so much Tanya!
These were some great questions & answers! I really feel like I got to know u a bit Tom! U seem highly intelligent! Brains & brawn! I am also socially awkward(funny how people assume if you're attractive u can't possibly be) & my favorite podcast is diary of a CEO. Maybe it will be yours now. I have subscribed!
How did you manage to finance backpacking for 7 years right out of high school, pay for uni, and also complete uni in the Canary islands?
Hi… you should post about your gym journey and body show plz
made my day. ❤
Exceptional for charity😂😂😂
Big handsome man xoxo
Great video Tom!
@@AnneTDote thanks Anne!
I wish you’d come to France haha
I'm a person that like working with customers but I'm 38 years young now and I want to work remote. On top of that, I'm also stressed financially. I need advice on how to budget well and sticking with my goals. Thank you 😊
@@janeseashford8644 hey Jane, I’m putting finance content together as we speak!
You are the blonde version of Henry Cavill😘😘😘
♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️🔥
You look good in black 😃😃
“Because if it wasn’t then you’d die” hahaha
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Yeaaaa
👌🏽
See yourself working in HK?
@@jujubee4372 no plans to at the moment juju!
HEY TOMM
@@seraphieii hey 👋
Ok, but can we please get your Nan in here? The fact that she made a Tiktok, and is also commenting is so precious!! 🥹 She's got all the young/awkward Tom stories I bet😂
@@Steftaculartales I would love to get her on a podcast, leave it with me x
Thomas, you appear to have large hands! So, is it true what they say??
It is true what they say, I need big gloves
Well played!! I was gonna say, you also have big feet! 🤷🏻♀️
Please tell me you're not talking about disgraced Canadian psychologist Jordan Peterson??
I am, I think it’s important not to discount everything someone says just because you don’t agree with them on certain things. His lessons on purpose and depression helped me through some pretty tough times.
I am, I think it’s important not to discount everything someone says just because you don’t agree with them on certain things. His lessons on purpose and depression helped me through some pretty tough times.
I'm going to be honest, it's pretty hard to watch this with those brown eyes staring back at you 👀 it's so refreshing to hear from the perspective of a man who is entirely focused on his career and growth plus him being flustered at spicy comments makes for an unexpectedly seductive mix 🫣 in all seriousness, we hope that you love yourself as much as we love you (and your awkwardness) Tom!
Sincerely, Stranger from the Internet
@@feels0.019 haha, thank you!