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I was in love with a man who gradually showed me his inability to keep boundaries. It showed in all areas and it was a disaster. I can’t believe I gave him so many opportunities to step it up and fix it. He didn’t. Ultimately he got super mad when I revealed to him that I was no longer attracted to him. You articulated it so well. It grosses me out to be around men without boundaries. You are automatically put into your masculine energy of protection when there is no protector in the relationship.
I agree with you 💯💯! There’s nothing more unattractive and frustrating than being with a man who can’t keep his boundaries. It makes him look like a weak loser regardless of what his occupation is.
Thats so deep. When there is no protector in the relationship you become more masculine ❤God is showing me this with two men at my job. One is a nice man, & masculine (somewhat healthy masculine) the other is mean & overly masculine (unhealthy masculine) ❤❤❤❤❤❤ also I have joined a 12 step and when I do outreach calls I can tell when Im talking to women in their hyper masculine energy vs feminine energy ❤
@@-Clarence-nah you're lying because masculine men are attracted to feminine women, as it's a rule of nature. If masculine men would be attracted to masculine energy that means they are either feminine themselves, or gay or in the closet.
Fareen- I never comment. Also I love your content. I have a lovely provider man that is my perfect match! I just really love to hear you talk lol that’s why I watch.
Thank you for everything you do. I don't like to comment but I wanted to give support to you because I have remembered who I am because of you. You are beautiful, feminine, smart and a real inspiration. I wish you all the best.
I have had the exact feminine energy you're talking of which i unknowingly displayed when i put up my pics on social media..& of course with boundaries & even my personality has been very flowing chilled out chirpy despite being an introvert & that's why a guy with strong physique, discipline & structure was attracted. But for some reason things did not work out. He pulled away don't know why. And anyhow now i have become very closed off since few years due to my past negative experiences with many people men or women. Ppl have drained me totally & i have begun to keep away from people in general & i just keep to myself, my family & 2-3 friends.
Hi Fareen! I’m on your second book now, and I just wanted to say that it’s so refreshing and enlightening. I’ve been learning about attachment styles for awhile now and I feel like your knowledge just makes sense and breaks it down to its core foundation: Energy. Thank you so much for sharing! ❤
Fareen, could you please consider doing a video about how to speak to a man's heart to create boundaries around him disrespecting a woman over and over. Aka a feminine way that prevents him from responding with ego when you call him out for disrespect
Dear Fareen, I love how you talk about femininity and what it means to be a feminine woman. It’s something I always naturally and intuitively lived by, but at times I felt different from how women around me were functioning… listening to you is a breath of fresh air! If possible would you be so kind to someday talk about your experience of and opinion on the subject of inner union of the feminine/masculine polarities? I do have an abstract feeling of it which is mostly a spiritual concept and how it feels, energetically. I would love your take on how inner fem/masc union or balance manifests in tangible ways both within us and how it plays out in relationships. I appreciate you!
wao! your videos get better & better Fareen ! very helpful perspective on boundaries, there's so much that goes around this ! the part about how much to physically show, insecurity on men wanting women be certain way, SO helpful! these two things got me insecure and anxious in the past. Taking care of your body without looking for perfection feels like a relief! there's no need to compete, there are so many other aspects to cultivate as well. Thanks for bringing clarity, I haven't had it before. Agree the title of the video is not your style but wao who cares, love your content is amazing!!!!
Your content is pure 🔥. I'm so excited about your channel. I've been binge watching all your videos. How do I sign up for your private group? What is the monthly cost? You're amazing! Thank you beautiful❤️
you hit the mark once again Fareen. I was talking to a man recently who decided he wanted to give his attention to a woman who only posted bikini/yoga pant photos of herself. That turned me off so much & that's when I realized he was just an insecure man on the inside. I mean he also would call himself the R-word and would ask me if I thought he was fat... which I should have taken as a sign of insecurity to begin with.
Because they're generally submissive, can easily be manipulated, and won't cause the man trouble. Theyre turned off by a woman who canbhomd her own because they cant control her. Men want to dominate and control a woman. Don't let them
I literally love your videos. And your mindset is like a one. You are literally like the best person to get advice from. You are so authentic and honest and real I love it! And this is the truth on whoever is watching this because we’re all attracted to some thing and if someone doesn’t meet those standards there’s not enough attraction there so the person won’t do much for you they’re either using you or just and they’re going with the flow but they really don’t love you because they don’t feel that attraction towards you. Everyone is not attracted to each other and we’re not meant to be attracted to each other we’re only meant to be attracted to our husband and wife. And and that’s crazy that you say all these things because that’s exactly me like people think that I’m stuck up or mean or something but it’s like I’m just not attracted to you and I don’t beat around the bush I will just be on interested and won’t act interested I’ll just keep it moving. I like ppls energy. Compassion and humble and joy and full of life
@Fareen. I have started to be in my feminine energy. To me it means being happy with my self. I wear full Hijab. My hair is covered and i am covered up. I also work with lots of man. Let me tell you. I see them gravitate towards me. Like a moth to a flame. Omg Fareen i am gathering so much data. I have noticed that so much.
14:57 Nice catch with this one about the loyalty being tied to boundaries with people. I once dated a woman who had friends who were part of that man hater vibe but I didn’t know. One time I was with her and her friends who were cool with me but one I didn’t know came to visit. Upon entry & seeing me there (the only man in the room) she immediately when on about “all men are trash” and all that. I was present and waited assuming my girl would say something but she just sat there and let her do that. So I began to question the girl on her beliefs assuming that if she were this bold, she’d at least be able to stand on business about it. But she started to get uncomfortable & feel awkward immediately. But I feel a tug on my arm and look to see my ex looking at me with these begging eyes like “please don’t do this.” It kinda stuck in my mind for the rest of the relationship but I could really explain why & I never talked about it. It made me look at her different that she not only wasn’t going to check her friend but also expected that I wouldn’t either for the sake of her reputation or amicability with toxic attitudes. As a black guy, I kinda expect most women to fold in terms of boundaries, maintaining respect on my name with others, or holding their peers accountable but you perfectly captured why that always rubbed me the wrong way. Now I’m with a girl who would never let something like that happen and one of her biggest values from the beginning has been loyalty. So great connection & very insightful.
A woman has to be comfortable spending time with herself alone. The happiness comes from inside and it just IS. That is a feminine woman. And it does indeed make the woman a magnet for masculine men.
I like your content and agree with almost everything mentioned. However, I do think a feminine woman can have structure. Specially if she likes to take care of herself she will make a schedule and prioritize herself. That’s my opinion. 🙌🏻😉
Hi Fareen, I came across your videos recently, and I have to say, you and Margarita Nazarenko are the best on the topic of feminine energy. Can you do a video on how to handle when a guy you are recently dating asks if you are dating anyone else or on the dating apps? (This is someone who is ready to commit and I am the one who would like to take things slower to make sure we are the right fit, but also not lose him in the process)
I definitely don’t think having a routine and structure in your life (as a woman) is going to stop a man from being attracted to you. Nothing wrong with going to the gym at same time every day and planning your week.
Yes, I didn’t understand this part. If I’m not structured I don’t get enough sleep.. then I’m not as joyful and energetic, and not nearly as thriving and productive. Maybe that is a boundary.. not necessarily structure. I’m soooo happy when I get my ballet class regularly. I’m happily married, and my husband loooooves that I’m into proactively building myself and pouring into myself. I can only do that if I’m structured and bonding space for self care. So I’m wondering exactly what she means. I feel I would find out if I were to just go ahead and read the books.☺️
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On point with everything, I’m just missing the modesty piece 😂 I’m an artist and dancer and showing my body is part of my artistic expression. I hope I can find a high value man who understands and doesn’t mind that ❤ Thanks for your wisdom❤
Thank you so much Fareen. I can totally understand the thing with the swimsuit and I think this is a really beautiful thing for the woman and for the man, not showing everyone „everthing“ from the body. What do you think about leading positions as a woman? Do you think its too masculine? I‘m a leading Person and love to help and see people growing. I lead, teach and coach with heart and mind and want to be a role model for healthy leadership because I had a lot experience with toxic leadership. I want that people feel safe at work, have fun to be themselves and want to give them space to follow their purpose. In private I love to be leaded by friends and would give a man this space because I want to live more my feminine energy. The leading thing feels like its my essence and sometimes I‘m afraid not be accepted for that by man but I have to accept it for myself. Would love to read your comment. ♥️🙏🏼
What a beautiful comment, thank you for contributing! I’m not sure what you mean exactly… it is attractive to be a go getter… we can be integrated in our professional lives but still exude femininity.. I hope to be a demonstration of how that looks 🤍. I hope this is helpful. If you need specific insight please book a call or email session as I can only advise so much in the comment section
@10:00 the bathing suit point, I’ve considered removing my 1 bathing suit photo on my social media (although I cropped the pic so it doesn’t show my lower body) but I some don’t agree with that point. I have less then 10 pics on my social media and am actually low key, if 1 pic showing skin when I was on vacation shows a lack of boundaries, so be it
I agree with you for the most part, the bathing suit analogy was a little complicated for me to grasp. I understand your boundaries and they make total and complete sense, however, I would also think that wearing a two piece is also an opportunity for a woman to not so much as “show off”, but wearing what feels comfortable to them and makes them feel confident in their bodies. If these outfits extend past these kinds of situations… for instance the wearing of tube tops, bras and underwear exposed, or very short shorts sooooo short you can see a bum… these kinds of outfits do not compliment a high valued woman. Just my 2 annoying cents 😂
It’s whatever feels best and comfortable to everyone :) But less is always more with men (lol meaning more left to the imagination) - agree with bum comment 🙈🙈🙈🙈
This is so good. Crazy how basic this stuff is but we’ve gotten so far out of ourselves that people struggle so much with these simple things. Self confidence, boundaries, loyalty, respect.. Thank you for helping me so much over the years We can’t attract what we’re not 🙏🏻 Amen 🤍
Ok just a thought I had. If you’re with a man who has kids from previous marriage are you still his number one or are the kids number one just because they came into his life before you did. Always wondered about that because I wouldn’t tolerate a dynamic where someone else is places before me by my partner, even if it’s his own kids.
If he is a good father and balanced his children will always come first. Especially when they're young. It's not advisable to date men with young children. Your number 6 on he priority list.
I loved all of it. And so true. Where I got confused is, I am personally attracted to the unusually handsome quirky guy that is fascinatingly intelligent. And a lil nerdy and sometimes lean. (Think criminal minds or svu) My body type is a short boxy 🤸♀️ gymnastic looking naturally. But I wear spring tones and walk like a girl .. Educated but dyslexic 😆 Can they co exist? Or do I also need to become attracted to naturally athletic men? 🤔 Because some of it is my genetics. I can only do yoga so much to reduce the pectoral muscles 😂
I loveeee this comment and your energy so much! And yes it is absolutely ok to be attracted to the type that you are attracted to. I use myself as an example to give insights but what is true for me doesn’t have to be exactly true for anyone else. It is a blueprint, like a guideline. The MAIN thing that we want to focus on is the energy. I can feel from you your pure beautiful energy! I love it. And you literally brightened my day today! The rest doesn’t matter as the form in the other will find itself drawn to the energy akin to yours. 🤍 I hope this made sense
@@fareenashofficial I get it. So, it is ok to be a boxy and short girl,as long as you live and feel like a posed lady. Healthy Feminine vibes bring masculine men. Whether they like sports or not. 😉
@jaccrazy21 omg yes! You’re perfect as you are and thank you so much for commenting in the beautiful way you did so I could clarify! A man is going to be attracted to your energy. Your body is your body. All I meant was not becoming too muscular although we can be muscular and still be feminine! There is a UFC fighter that is female that is badass in the ring and still very feminine! Ugh! You’re beautiful!
@jaccrazy21 and yes! Doesn’t have to be sports. I like the nerdy type too. As long as he’s manly to me. But yes, we all have different definitions of manly. There is a spectrum. 🤍
@@fareenashofficial Oh thank you. You are the sweetest. Not every manifested person or coach/advisor is as open to respectful comment conversation as you are. So thank you Fareen! Yes, I think I know who you are talking about Ronda Roucy. And Danica Patrick, 🚘 racer, is stunning 😍 model. Thanks for the self esteem boost lol. And yes. And I agree. There are some great masculine teachers and professors of this world 😊 It takes all kinds to keep the world running. 🤓 I wish you the best week ahead. And keep being yourself. I am so happy for you and your man. 🤗
Hmm i have a question sweetie! What is your opinion on plastic surgery? 👀🙏 Because you want to be as natural as possible, but also your best self that is attractive... You don't want to send your subconscious the message that you're not good enough, but you do want improvement And sometimes, more confidence🙈👀 However, we know we must cultivate inner confidence first But sometimes nature needs a little hand, right? 🥺
children and partner should be on par, never place anyone above your kids if you want your kids to have self worth, that's the only bit I would have to disagree with,love your content other than that
That’s not how I meant it 🤍. Children should see love between the couple, therefore the couple should put their interests first which naturally bleed into the children. I didn’t mean it as you neglect the children. Children usually get placed before the couple and usually parents put the needs of their kids before the well-being of themselves. Children can’t see what self-love is and love between parents if it’s not modeled and demonstrated. I’m happy you commented so I could clarify. Sometimes my language isn’t as clear when I communicate.
I think she’s referring to my engagement and ring :) which i don’t always wear and don’t really want to talk about lol. As I’ve noticed women/people are way too intrusive.
@@fareenashofficial Oh okay☺️ Goodness I'm so used to seeing nasty comments about women not getting rings and how that somehow makes them look less lovable and I thought someone did it to you. I guess I'm the one that's jaded lol
How to be crazy attractive to the opposite sex
Regarding attraction, specific attributes play a role beyond the “physical.” Although physical characteristics do matter. In this video for men and women, I outline six significant characteristics and attributes that men and women both need and find attractive in the opposite sex. The first three are non-superficial, whereas the last three are physically oriented because superficial traits matter regarding attraction.
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I was in love with a man who gradually showed me his inability to keep boundaries. It showed in all areas and it was a disaster. I can’t believe I gave him so many opportunities to step it up and fix it. He didn’t. Ultimately he got super mad when I revealed to him that I was no longer attracted to him. You articulated it so well. It grosses me out to be around men without boundaries. You are automatically put into your masculine energy of protection when there is no protector in the relationship.
I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this experience, many of us have been there! The right man will know what to do!
I agree with you 💯💯! There’s nothing more unattractive and frustrating than being with a man who can’t keep his boundaries. It makes him look like a weak loser regardless of what his occupation is.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom im working on my feminine energy,you look good for your age ,new subscriber here ❤
You are right
Thats so deep. When there is no protector in the relationship you become more masculine ❤God is showing me this with two men at my job. One is a nice man, & masculine (somewhat healthy masculine) the other is mean & overly masculine (unhealthy masculine) ❤❤❤❤❤❤ also I have joined a 12 step and when I do outreach calls I can tell when Im talking to women in their hyper masculine energy vs feminine energy ❤
You described me so well at the end. I’m very free flowing. I love men that are very disciplined and structured. The opposite of me.
I love that!! So happy you found my channel 🤍
@@-Clarence-nah you're lying because masculine men are attracted to feminine women, as it's a rule of nature. If masculine men would be attracted to masculine energy that means they are either feminine themselves, or gay or in the closet.
Absolutely true and SAME!
Self confidence is a magnet
Yesss
Fareen- I never comment. Also I love your content. I have a lovely provider man that is my perfect match! I just really love to hear you talk lol that’s why I watch.
Awww I love that! 🤍🥰
You are my favorite TH-camr right now. Thank you Fareen!
Wow! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
Thank you for everything you do. I don't like to comment but I wanted to give support to you because I have remembered who I am because of you. You are beautiful, feminine, smart and a real inspiration. I wish you all the best.
This means SO MUCH TO ME! Thank you! Did you go through the course? That was the first module 😊😊😊😊😊
Energy is everything 🙏
Yesss 🤍🤍🤍
I have had the exact feminine energy you're talking of which i unknowingly displayed when i put up my pics on social media..& of course with boundaries & even my personality has been very flowing chilled out chirpy despite being an introvert & that's why a guy with strong physique, discipline & structure was attracted. But for some reason things did not work out. He pulled away don't know why. And anyhow now i have become very closed off since few years due to my past negative experiences with many people men or women. Ppl have drained me totally & i have begun to keep away from people in general & i just keep to myself, my family & 2-3 friends.
This is pure gold. Every video. Information you give by just being you. Thank you Fareen
You look very good at 40, keep doing what you’re doing girllll ❤
Hi Fareen! I’m on your second book now, and I just wanted to say that it’s so refreshing and enlightening. I’ve been learning about attachment styles for awhile now and I feel like your knowledge just makes sense and breaks it down to its core foundation: Energy. Thank you so much for sharing! ❤
Thank you so much!
Fareen, could you please consider doing a video about how to speak to a man's heart to create boundaries around him disrespecting a woman over and over. Aka a feminine way that prevents him from responding with ego when you call him out for disrespect
I love this question! I’ll note it down
Your vibe is the best. That’s what I love about you the most. Your outfit and apartment vibes too 😍
You're the best!
Thanks for the clear information, it’s really helpful. I find your content so useful. Keep sharing your knowledge
Thank you for saying that 🤍🤍
@@fareenashofficial you’re welcome 💖
I loved this video especially how you outline it from the woman/man POV ❤
Good to know! I’ll do more like this ❤️
Dear Fareen, I love how you talk about femininity and what it means to be a feminine woman. It’s something I always naturally and intuitively lived by, but at times I felt different from how women around me were functioning… listening to you is a breath of fresh air! If possible would you be so kind to someday talk about your experience of and opinion on the subject of inner union of the feminine/masculine polarities? I do have an abstract feeling of it which is mostly a spiritual concept and how it feels, energetically. I would love your take on how inner fem/masc union or balance manifests in tangible ways both within us and how it plays out in relationships.
I appreciate you!
Love your work n this video!!❤
wao! your videos get better & better Fareen !
very helpful perspective on boundaries, there's so much that goes around this ! the part about how much to physically show, insecurity on men wanting women be certain way, SO helpful! these two things got me insecure and anxious in the past.
Taking care of your body without looking for perfection feels like a relief! there's no need to compete, there are so many other aspects to cultivate as well.
Thanks for bringing clarity, I haven't had it before.
Agree the title of the video is not your style but wao who cares, love your content is amazing!!!!
Awwww thank you Jazmin! I love the insights you got from this video and your compliments are always so lovely and amazing! Thank you 🤍🤍
Can you make a video on financial stresses in relationships? How to stay in feminine energy while going through stressful phases.
Your content is pure 🔥. I'm so excited about your channel. I've been binge watching all your videos. How do I sign up for your private group? What is the monthly cost? You're amazing! Thank you beautiful❤️
You’re sooo sweet! I’ve closed it for now but I will re-open it soon! I’m so happy you’ve found me!
you hit the mark once again Fareen. I was talking to a man recently who decided he wanted to give his attention to a woman who only posted bikini/yoga pant photos of herself. That turned me off so much & that's when I realized he was just an insecure man on the inside. I mean he also would call himself the R-word and would ask me if I thought he was fat... which I should have taken as a sign of insecurity to begin with.
Yuck!!!!!!!
What’s the R word?
What's the R word?
@@fareenashofficial he would often tell me jokingly that he is "retarded" :(
Probably Rizzler😂
Fareen this video was sooo good!! I could just feel your strength when you speak 😍❤
Love the energy and elegance in your character
You are a great coach.
Thank you 🙏
Agreed
I noticed most men are intrigued by quiet women, can you share your insights regarding that?
Yes I love that. Because it’s feminine, humble and not over bearing 🤍
Because they're generally submissive, can easily be manipulated, and won't cause the man trouble. Theyre turned off by a woman who canbhomd her own because they cant control her. Men want to dominate and control a woman. Don't let them
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Well hopefully it works for me because Im quiet unless he asks me to do something with him (college assignments)
Great video Fareen !
Thanks 😀
Fareen! You ARE crazy attractive! 😍😍😍💕💕😄
Hihihi, trust me I'm at the edge of my seat for this one! 😸🙏
Awwwwwwww 😊😊
Thank you 😊
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You Fareen, are a God Sent Person!
Thank you 😇
I literally love your videos. And your mindset is like a one. You are literally like the best person to get advice from. You are so authentic and honest and real I love it! And this is the truth on whoever is watching this because we’re all attracted to some thing and if someone doesn’t meet those standards there’s not enough attraction there so the person won’t do much for you they’re either using you or just and they’re going with the flow but they really don’t love you because they don’t feel that attraction towards you. Everyone is not attracted to each other and we’re not meant to be attracted to each other we’re only meant to be attracted to our husband and wife. And and that’s crazy that you say all these things because that’s exactly me like people think that I’m stuck up or mean or something but it’s like I’m just not attracted to you and I don’t beat around the bush I will just be on interested and won’t act interested I’ll just keep it moving. I like ppls energy. Compassion and humble and joy and full of life
Thank you for this :)
@Fareen. I have started to be in my feminine energy. To me it means being happy with my self. I wear full Hijab. My hair is covered and i am covered up. I also work with lots of man. Let me tell you. I see them gravitate towards me. Like a moth to a flame. Omg Fareen i am gathering so much data. I have noticed that so much.
It’s your energy! 😍
I like modesty and classy for myself. When boundaries are in place men who have no boundaries melt away - they get lost fast.
Bingo!
So much value and truth no one talks about in your videos! Thank you so much, Fareen for sharing this invaluable content and wisdom 🙏 bless you 🩵🫶
Thanks a ton
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14:57 Nice catch with this one about the loyalty being tied to boundaries with people.
I once dated a woman who had friends who were part of that man hater vibe but I didn’t know. One time I was with her and her friends who were cool with me but one I didn’t know came to visit.
Upon entry & seeing me there (the only man in the room) she immediately when on about “all men are trash” and all that. I was present and waited assuming my girl would say something but she just sat there and let her do that. So I began to question the girl on her beliefs assuming that if she were this bold, she’d at least be able to stand on business about it. But she started to get uncomfortable & feel awkward immediately. But I feel a tug on my arm and look to see my ex looking at me with these begging eyes like “please don’t do this.” It kinda stuck in my mind for the rest of the relationship but I could really explain why & I never talked about it.
It made me look at her different that she not only wasn’t going to check her friend but also expected that I wouldn’t either for the sake of her reputation or amicability with toxic attitudes.
As a black guy, I kinda expect most women to fold in terms of boundaries, maintaining respect on my name with others, or holding their peers accountable but you perfectly captured why that always rubbed me the wrong way.
Now I’m with a girl who would never let something like that happen and one of her biggest values from the beginning has been loyalty. So great connection & very insightful.
2:50 Subjective. Many women fall head over heels for jerks, I think it's actually the majority.
This video made me feel so much relief. ❤
So happy to hear that!
A woman has to be comfortable spending time with herself alone. The happiness comes from inside and it just IS. That is a feminine woman. And it does indeed make the woman a magnet for masculine men.
I like your content and agree with almost everything mentioned. However, I do think a feminine woman can have structure. Specially if she likes to take care of herself she will make a schedule and prioritize herself. That’s my opinion. 🙌🏻😉
Thank you 🤍
Hi Fareen, I came across your videos recently, and I have to say, you and Margarita Nazarenko are the best on the topic of feminine energy. Can you do a video on how to handle when a guy you are recently dating asks if you are dating anyone else or on the dating apps? (This is someone who is ready to commit and I am the one who would like to take things slower to make sure we are the right fit, but also not lose him in the process)
I definitely don’t think having a routine and structure in your life (as a woman) is going to stop a man from being attracted to you. Nothing wrong with going to the gym at same time every day and planning your week.
Yes, I didn’t understand this part. If I’m not structured I don’t get enough sleep.. then I’m not as joyful and energetic, and not nearly as thriving and productive.
Maybe that is a boundary.. not necessarily structure.
I’m soooo happy when I get my ballet class regularly.
I’m happily married, and my husband loooooves that I’m into proactively building myself and pouring into myself. I can only do that if I’m structured and bonding space for self care.
So I’m wondering exactly what she means. I feel I would find out if I were to just go ahead and read the books.☺️
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On point with everything, I’m just missing the modesty piece 😂
I’m an artist and dancer and showing my body is part of my artistic expression. I hope I can find a high value man who understands and doesn’t mind that ❤
Thanks for your wisdom❤
It’s different if it’s part of what you do 🤍
@@fareenashofficial thanks for your reply
You help me get out off the red pill now 🎉
Thank you so much Fareen. I can totally understand the thing with the swimsuit and I think this is a really beautiful thing for the woman and for the man, not showing everyone „everthing“ from the body.
What do you think about leading positions as a woman? Do you think its too masculine? I‘m a leading Person and love to help and see people growing. I lead, teach and coach with heart and mind and want to be a role model for healthy leadership because I had a lot experience with toxic leadership. I want that people feel safe at work, have fun to be themselves and want to give them space to follow their purpose. In private I love to be leaded by friends and would give a man this space because I want to live more my feminine energy.
The leading thing feels like its my essence and sometimes I‘m afraid not be accepted for that by man but I have to accept it for myself. Would love to read your comment. ♥️🙏🏼
What a beautiful comment, thank you for contributing! I’m not sure what you mean exactly… it is attractive to be a go getter… we can be integrated in our professional lives but still exude femininity.. I hope to be a demonstration of how that looks 🤍. I hope this is helpful. If you need specific insight please book a call or email session as I can only advise so much in the comment section
Yes, thank you so much for your beautiful answer. This helped me. I have you in my mind for possible coaching. 🙏🏼🌷
@10:00 the bathing suit point, I’ve considered removing my 1 bathing suit photo on my social media (although I cropped the pic so it doesn’t show my lower body) but I some don’t agree with that point. I have less then 10 pics on my social media and am actually low key, if 1 pic showing skin when I was on vacation shows a lack of boundaries, so be it
Do whatever feels best to you! 🤍
17:22 love needs to be nourished… attraction is one of the ways to nourish love
Youre right and you should say it
Thank you
I agree with you for the most part, the bathing suit analogy was a little complicated for me to grasp. I understand your boundaries and they make total and complete sense, however, I would also think that wearing a two piece is also an opportunity for a woman to not so much as “show off”, but wearing what feels comfortable to them and makes them feel confident in their bodies.
If these outfits extend past these kinds of situations… for instance the wearing of tube tops, bras and underwear exposed, or very short shorts sooooo short you can see a bum… these kinds of outfits do not compliment a high valued woman.
Just my 2 annoying cents 😂
It’s whatever feels best and comfortable to everyone :)
But less is always more with men (lol meaning more left to the imagination) - agree with bum comment 🙈🙈🙈🙈
I hear you about the titles! The one video where I used a more click-baity title, it did so well! The other videos with realistic titles, not so much.
Yup! 🙈
I love your pick background in your pic! You look beautiful
I would honestly give you 28 years
Hah! Thank you! 🤍🤍
If I'm single and I flirt with lot of men, is this looks bad? I like to flirt, I'm beautiful and divorced so I'm open for others stratles.
It depends on what you want 🤍
what's your personality type ? MBTI
Fareen you have great style and beautiful clothes I know this is off topic but it would be cool to post what you are wearing.
Aww thank you so much! I think I’m just wearing adidas shorts and a simple tee 🙈
Spot fucking on!
Your body is for yourself, not for your partner, nor others
This is so good. Crazy how basic this stuff is but we’ve gotten so far out of ourselves that people struggle so much with these simple things. Self confidence, boundaries, loyalty, respect..
Thank you for helping me so much over the years
We can’t attract what we’re not 🙏🏻 Amen 🤍
Glad it was helpful!
Hello Fareen, may I ask if you met your partner in dating app?
Ok just a thought I had. If you’re with a man who has kids from previous marriage are you still his number one or are the kids number one just because they came into his life before you did. Always wondered about that because I wouldn’t tolerate a dynamic where someone else is places before me by my partner, even if it’s his own kids.
It’s not an easy situation 🤍
@@fareenashofficial yea I thought so, wise thing to do is probably to look for someone who doesn’t have kids.
If he is a good father and balanced his children will always come first. Especially when they're young. It's not advisable to date men with young children. Your number 6 on he priority list.
I loved all of it. And so true.
Where I got confused is, I am personally attracted to the unusually handsome quirky guy that is fascinatingly intelligent. And a lil nerdy and sometimes lean. (Think criminal minds or svu)
My body type is a short boxy 🤸♀️ gymnastic looking naturally. But I wear spring tones and walk like a girl ..
Educated but dyslexic 😆
Can they co exist? Or do I also need to become attracted to naturally athletic men? 🤔
Because some of it is my genetics. I can only do yoga so much to reduce the pectoral muscles 😂
I loveeee this comment and your energy so much! And yes it is absolutely ok to be attracted to the type that you are attracted to. I use myself as an example to give insights but what is true for me doesn’t have to be exactly true for anyone else. It is a blueprint, like a guideline. The MAIN thing that we want to focus on is the energy. I can feel from you your pure beautiful energy! I love it. And you literally brightened my day today! The rest doesn’t matter as the form in the other will find itself drawn to the energy akin to yours. 🤍
I hope this made sense
@@fareenashofficial I get it. So, it is ok to be a boxy and short girl,as long as you live and feel like a posed lady. Healthy Feminine vibes bring masculine men. Whether they like sports or not. 😉
@jaccrazy21 omg yes! You’re perfect as you are and thank you so much for commenting in the beautiful way you did so I could clarify! A man is going to be attracted to your energy. Your body is your body. All I meant was not becoming too muscular although we can be muscular and still be feminine! There is a UFC fighter that is female that is badass in the ring and still very feminine! Ugh! You’re beautiful!
@jaccrazy21 and yes! Doesn’t have to be sports. I like the nerdy type too. As long as he’s manly to me. But yes, we all have different definitions of manly. There is a spectrum. 🤍
@@fareenashofficial Oh thank you. You are the sweetest. Not every manifested person or coach/advisor is as open to respectful comment conversation as you are. So thank you Fareen! Yes, I think I know who you are talking about Ronda Roucy. And Danica Patrick, 🚘 racer, is stunning 😍 model. Thanks for the self esteem boost lol. And yes. And I agree. There are some great masculine teachers and professors of this world 😊 It takes all kinds to keep the world running. 🤓
I wish you the best week ahead. And keep being yourself. I am so happy for you and your man. 🤗
9:10 I'm confused. He doesn't chase? I thought masculine energy is the one who chase. What did you mean there?🤔
Masculine men pursue 🤍
My book goes into this more and other videos as well
@@fareenashofficial ohh I see, thank you!💗
🎉never chase a man or u become one
@user-gu2pb7km8f yes of course! But that wasn't my question
TH-cam algorithms 🙈 The YT game 😋
Hmm i have a question sweetie!
What is your opinion on plastic surgery? 👀🙏
Because you want to be as natural as possible, but also your best self that is attractive... You don't want to send your subconscious the message that you're not good enough, but you do want improvement
And sometimes, more confidence🙈👀
However, we know we must cultivate inner confidence first
But sometimes nature needs a little hand, right? 🥺
Totally ok to make improvements! Extensions etc anything! Just nothing over the top is what I meant 🤍
@@fareenashofficial Gotcha! 😃👍 Thank you for answering!! 💖💖🙏
A person should love you for who you are, sure, but don’t be a slob! Look after yourself and your environment.
Yes!
You don't look like 40....hardly 32-33
Thank you 😊
children and partner should be on par, never place anyone above your kids if you want your kids to have self worth, that's the only bit I would have to disagree with,love your content other than that
That’s not how I meant it 🤍.
Children should see love between the couple, therefore the couple should put their interests first which naturally bleed into the children. I didn’t mean it as you neglect the children.
Children usually get placed before the couple and usually parents put the needs of their kids before the well-being of themselves. Children can’t see what self-love is and love between parents if it’s not modeled and demonstrated.
I’m happy you commented so I could clarify. Sometimes my language isn’t as clear when I communicate.
I love when men who work and has his own hobbies. No codependency here. Turns me off.
21:02 I thought you were 23🤡
You look much younger.
Where's your ring?
Do you believe getting a ring is the ultimate proof of being attractive to the opposite gender? If so then you're jaded
I think she’s referring to my engagement and ring :) which i don’t always wear and don’t really want to talk about lol. As I’ve noticed women/people are way too intrusive.
@@fareenashofficial Oh okay☺️ Goodness I'm so used to seeing nasty comments about women not getting rings and how that somehow makes them look less lovable and I thought someone did it to you. I guess I'm the one that's jaded lol
@@User-rf1ddI appreciate you standing up for me! And I agree with you completely!
Not everyone wears a ring. My hubby and I don't wear our rings. On occasion I will wear my ring. We are OK with it.