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Q&A | Why I Quit Vlogging, 30s Societal Pressures, Marriage?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 มี.ค. 2023
- Answering the most frequently asked questions to restart my main channel!
#FAQ | Frequently Asked Questions
00:56 Break from Vlogging
01:09 The difference between joanday and this channel
03:16 What type of content to expect on my main channel
03:44 Moving to LA?
04:18 Societal Pressures in my 30s
05:39 What is it like to be 30?
07:11 My 10 Year Plan?
08:08 Advice to my 25 year old self
09:26 What keeps me motivated?
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When you enter 30s, you will realize 5 and 10 year plans will not be as important (personally). So to all the 20-something girlies out there, don't stress yourself too much with plans not going your way. Things will unfold for you always at the right time
Ahh thanks for sharing this🖤
This is our own journey, let’s honor and be grateful for it. ❤️ whatever timeline the society set us to believe we should have, at the end of the day, our happiness is not with conformity but with authenticity. This is who we are and we love ourselves for it! Yey to all single 30s out there! 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Yes its more like living in now and doing your best.
I AGREE 100%.
im so grateful for internet rn
I’m 38 , still single and very happy what I am now. Joan, don’t stress.. Like what you said, live your fullest life! Single life rocks! 🤟🏼♥️
Yes, don't stress! 🖤
Deep down, nobody truly wants to be single tho. It’s against our evolution instinct. Everyone wants to be loved and wants to love. It’s what makes us human. Period. Also, the older we get, the harder to find life partner…especially for women. That’s just fact/statistics.
I can't believe you're back on this channel! I started watching your videos when I was 17 and I just turned 22 last week. 5 years have passed yet I still feel so inspired by you Joan!! I hope you stay happy and healthy navigating you're 30s and of course I will continue to cheer you on
Omg! Thank you for growing with me🖤
I started watching Joan's vlog 4 to 5 years ago, when I was 19, currently I'm 24, and so much has changed. This q&a was much needed for me as I'm at crossroads at the moment, not knowing what to do.
Everything will be okay 🙏🖤
@@joan_kim thanks joan
Joan I have grown up watching you, I was just 14 back in 2015 when I started watching you and i'm turning 22 this year. Thank you so much for being there when I needed advice for my own developing identity for skincare, schedules, friend advice, and just helping get through the weeks by watching ur videos :)
didn't mean to dump al that but I can't believe it's been that long either so keep doing you and thank you!!
Oh my! Thank you for growing with me 🥺🖤
(1) First, Joan, gotta say: The hairdo looks beautiful! (2) John Lennon famously said "Life's what happens while you're busy making other plans." And it's true. So plan for the future, sure, but definitely live for today! (3) Few women your age have worked so diligently to transform their lives as you have, Joan. It's been wonderful watching you grow into such an accomplished lady. (4) I wish you did these Q&As more often...and I bet I'm not the only one! 😘
Aww, thank you so much! Will try to film more 🖤
+1 Up!
i was 18 when i came across your channel, im turning 25 this year. you've been one of my comfort youtubers ever since i became an adult. im thankful i chanced upon one of your beauty videos on a random day, because i got way more than beauty advices from you. i rarely comment on youtube vids, but i had to because almost all the things you said in this vid was something i needed to hear as someone who's in her mid 20s who feels like they haven't achieved much. your videos have been really inspiring and has definitely helped me motivate to work hard for my goals, but also still take time for myself. it's been nice growing up with you, can't wait to see & cheer for whatever the future holds for you, joan unnie!
Ahh, thank you for growing with me 🖤
i was in my early 20s when i started following your channel and now im 31.. its feels like we’re growing together and i definitely know how its feels when people keep asking when am i getting married blablabla but now i try not to think about it too much cuz it just not good for my mental health.. for now i just want to focus on my career and want to live my life by doing what single people can do! 😆🥰
Yess, focus on youu🖤
i have been following you since many years ago, youtube and instagram, the era when your hair was longer, everyday vlog, skincare, with edward, ivan, christine from glow recipe. what a long journey and you should be proud of yourself. btw i’m 40 now! have a joanday, joan!💕
Aww, thanks for the support throughout the years🖤
You made me emotional in the end! I started to follow you on Joan Day so I’m curious to see the content that you will make for this channel. I’m here for every era you decide to show up ❤️ 25 year old Joan would be proud of 30 year old Joan!
Ahh you are so sweet! Thanks for the support🖤
Last year I was at the lowest point of my life, struggling with pressure of turning 30 and it's problem
I was so anxious and angry all the time and tired untill I realized that I don't enjoy my life as I used to
It's nice to know that I'm not alone facing this monster ❤
Aww, you are definitely not alone! Cheers to our thirties🖤
Thank you for this recent Q&A Joan! Hearing your transparency about marriage makes me believe that there are others out there who feel the same! Echoing similar thoughts that perhaps marriage may not be for you or that it's always okay to take your time because you can't always force these things! Sending lots of love 💓
Thanks for watching another update🖤
Hi joan!
RE: Marriage, having kids and dating.
I guess you just have to YOU DO YOU and don't listen to other ppl and don't put pressure too much on yourself. those things are life changing. and a big step towards the life you'll never got a chance to reset in the future.
As someone who is married and just recently gave birth. ITS HARD. It's a day to day struggle and it's a choice, a big and heavy one. So if you are not ready about it don't. just live your life the way you want it without having regrets.
Ahh thanks for sharing! Hope you are taking care of yourself🖤
5 or 10 years plan works for teenagers or those are in 20s but for 30s people, its totally different. Your life can drastically change either moving to another country or getting married and having kids or unfortunately having any diseases. So just don't stress yourself and manifest good things
Totally! Thanks for this🖤
Been here since day 1 even before 365 and I feel like I've watched you grown and us, Knights, have grown with you as well. ❤️ Your daily vlogs were what I looked forward to watching every day back in college and I'm so happy and proud of the present day Joan and what you have achieved. 🥹 Take all the time you need and know that we will always support you! Love ya! 🫶🏻
Aww, thanks always for the supporrt!!🖤
So proud of you joan🤍thank you for so much positivity ✨️ ily and will support you forever😌💗
Thank YOU for the support🖤
So proud being one of your joanday knights! Out of all the channels on TH-cam, the space you create here always feels so warm and inviting, and feels as if I’m hanging out with some cosmic spiritual unnie who’ll always tell me that it’s gonna be okay. Thank you so much Joan as always, and excited to see what kind of content you’ve got planned for us this year!! ❤
Thank you for the support!! 🖤
Hi Joan 🌸 Great to see that you are embracing this new era of your life. Looking forward to seeing where it takes you and enjoy the journey 🩵 Sending you lots of Love, stay safe and well 💚💜🖤❤
Hehe thanks for the support🖤
I don't think I have ever seen a video so quickly before. Regardless of what path is taking, I'll still watch. I love this channel and always will.
Hehe thanks for watching🖤
Thank you for being my first ever skin care guru! Thanks for all the vlogs on Joan Day! I can't wait for the upcoming content on this channel! ❤❤❤
Thank YOU for the support🖤
@@joan_kim ❤️❤️❤️
Don't stress Joan.
I'm in my thirty too and i'm not married as well i don't stress about it.
Be happy yourself and love yourself everything will arrived on time.
😘❤
I appreciate you uploading this Q and A. I guess this may be an unpopular opinion to some people, but I do think marriage is not for everyone. It depends on the person and what’s right for you. Joan, as a knight, and as a person who have seen you on this platform for years, I am really proud of you. 🙆🏻♀️👍🏻I hope and know there will be many great things coming your way! As always, I hope Joan and all of you have a great day! 😄🤩💝💕❤️🍀🌸
Aww, thank you! Have a joanday🖤
Always admire the way you talk, keep being you Joan! You are special in your way. God’s timing will always the best. 🖤🖤🤍🤍
Aww, thank you🖤
It is so great to see you and listen to your voice. Thanks for sharing with us and I wish you all the very best and success in your life.
Thank YOU for the support🖤
I totally agree with you what you said about these 5-10 years plans. I am also not doing it anymore. It felt like I need to keep myself to them and they gave me a lot of pressure. But I always try to do the best for me, so I stopped.
Yesss🖤
Heed my words, 30’s will be your best decade.
Ahhh! Excited 🖤
Yay she is back ❤ hope your doing great 💕
Hope YOU are tooo🖤
Don’t put alot of pressure on yourself to plan for the upcoming years, Stay happy and healthy love you 🫶🏼
Hehe thanks for watching another update🖤
Joan, I probably already said it before, but I do admire your professionalism and honesty. I love watching your videos since ever lol. And It is great to realise we grow up and we change - it is always for the best. I don't miss my 20s ( well, I wish I had travelled more back there lol) but I am happy with my decisions in 30s and now 40s. Oh goodness! lol! Thanks for inspiring ladies from all ages around the world. and all the best always!
Thank YOU for the support🖤
So happy to hear from you again on this channel ! Thank you for being such an inspiration ~ always take care and have joanday too ! Cheers to a new era for you and for myself too ~ jut entered 30s as well and kinda relate on entering on a new journey/era of my life. 😊
Thanks for watching another update! And cheers to our 30s :)🖤
@@joan_kim 🥂🥰
I am pround of you as a Korean living in Korea. You are able to articulate your ideas especially on beauty. Whatever you do, I think you can do that. I hope people won't ask you any marriage or relatioship stuff anymore.
Hi Joan! I would love to hear your tips about traveling and safety while solo traveling in a future video. I've been supporting you since my college days and I look forward to any direction your channel takes 🥹🫶
Aww, thank you!! And I'll try to do a travel related q&a :)🖤
MISS U AND MISSED U HERE ❤
MISS YOUU🖤
It's crazy because I've been watching your videos for like...8 years! Way before 365 videos 😅 I was 20 back then and now am 28, still single so can relate to your situation of feeling pressured to 'get married and have kids' 😬
You've helped me so much on my skincare Road tho, from those early days of letting us all know about COSRX and their must have snail essence (which I still use to this day ❤)
I still remember your brother Abe making appearances in your vlogs too! Hope he's doing well and achieved his dream job in the end 🙏
Without going on needlessly anymore, thank you Joan ❤
I am so so proud of you Joan, I was watching your channel since it's been started, and I feel very proud of you.
My love for skin care is only because of you. can't wait for upcoming videos🥰
Hehe can't wait to share some updated skincare favs🖤
You're looking amazing Joan! Great to get another video from you!
Aww, thank you! See you again soon🖤
so happy to see u again, started watching you back in high school when you were still reviewing skincare empties and jumping back and forward from english to korean. missed you so much! sending all the loves from the philippines!
Aww, thanks for the support, James!!🖤
Whatever you do just keep showing your face to us or else I can never be happy...glad that you're coming back
Hehe thanks for the support 🖤
“Focus on my relationship with myself.”
Love that. I’m currently 31, and I was pressured ever since I was 21. Because a lot of people in high school got married and had kids as soon as they graduated. That’s fine, but personally I wanted to enjoy my 20s. But I got pressured throughout it. Eventually I did want to have kids (at my own pace) and I just gave birth to my first child at 31. I have some people tell me that that’s “late”. People don’t have to get married or have kids to be happy.
I agree! Thanks for sharing this 🫶🏻🖤
What a surprise 🫰🫶
Hope you stay healthy Joan, no pressure if you still want to takes time for stop vlogging 💖💕❣️
Thanks for the support 🖤
sooo good ! I really love your comeback in this channel ! your area such a gourou for me ! i watch your video for eight years, I grown with you- your are like a big cousin from abroad ! it is so crazy !
Hehe thanks for growing with me 🥹🖤
Hi joan unnie! ☺️💕 take care of yourself and don't worry about us 😘 we'll still be here whenever you are ready.
Thanks for the support🖤
Welcome back blonde Joan!! Haha~~ I have been slacking on commenting since last year but will make it a goal to comment more so you know we appreciate you!
Aww, thank you so much for the support🖤
Girl wow, feels good to see you comeback on this chanel! Wishing the best, as always! 💕
Hehe thanks for the support 🖤
Loved watching your videos over the years and can’t wait to see what you do next ❤
Thanks for the support🖤
Love you Joanie - really missing your vlogs 🖤 was nice seeing you uploaded on the main channel x
Thanks for watching another update🖤
Omg yes morning commute to work just got better with Joan's Video
Hehe have a joanday🖤
So happy to see you again!!! So much love fron Mexico!!! 🇲🇽🤍
Thanks for the support🖤
Thanks for the update. It’s understandable when you reach your 30s some of us realize some things about you and how your life is going. It’s fine that you want to change things up. It’s understandable that you want to take a break from vlogging. You have been doing it for several years. Of course you would want to take a break from vlogging. I can’t wait to see what you have in store for this channel and your vlog channel in the future. I wonder what you have learn from your early 20s to now. The comments about your dating/married/children that’s kinda personal. That’s something you don’t have to share with us. Only open up if you want to. Yes you are right people in their 30s aren’t married. There’s no rush. It’s fine to take each day one at a time. Yes it’s good to have plans but have to remember to live in the moment to.
Aww, thank you for this🖤
ahhh a video on my birthday 🙈 i missed yr sit down chat videos joan!! hehe its so nice to hear your thoughts at a new age of 22 >< (been a subbie for 6 years) 그리고 언니의 머리는 너무 잘 어울려요❤
Aww, happy birthday!🖤
I can’t believe ive been with u for so long, the first vid i saw was the innisfree video abt your fav products, i was 20 now im 25 and i still love ur growth 🥹🥹 ur like my virtual sister❤❤ i love ur videos🫶🏼🫶🏼 this video made me tearful it feels like we’ve grown together🤣 i wish i could meet u irl one day🥹🥹🖤
Aww, thanks for the support!! I hope to meet you one day🖤
This is actually my first time seeing this channel and I think I love the idea of having two channels
Hehe thanks for watching🖤
I'm so sorry for questioning about marriage 🥺, I will not bring up that question again😅, I'm just curious cuz me, myself also don't have plans yet in getting in relationships and getting married but people around me pressuring me 😭😭😭 Thank you for sharing your thoughts and advice. I always thought on loving and improving myself first before anything else. This vlog also is an eye opener to others that this generation is not about having a own family in your 20's but having a healthy relationship with yourself with a positive vibes is most important 🥰🥰🥰 Love yourself and Be kind to yourself🖤🖤🖤🖤
Aww, don't be sorry! Thanks for the support🖤
I feel like growing up with Joan! Happy to see you evolving!~ From drugstore makeup to high end but somehow I still feel relatable. Esp everytime I see your IG meeting up with your Korean-American friends, it seems like nothing has changed from you >,
Aww, thank YOU for growing with me🖤
Missed seeing you on this channel. Thanks for allowing us to grow with you! Have a joanday 🤍
Thank YOU for growing with me🖤
I like your hair❤, I'm 41 this year and single, just follow your heart Joan, we love you no matter what 🤗
Thank you 🫶🏻🖤
Thank you Joan for always staying true to yourself! We love you ❤
🫶🏻🖤
I’m in my early 30s and not married (also not dating lol).. my parents does pressure me to get married and have kids 🥲 But I just ignore it and not think about it. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn’t, it doesn’t 😆 Like you said, I’m just focused on me! I still have a long way to go~ 💖
Yes, you do you🖤
So glad for you! You look so much happier and enjoying life
Thanks for the support, Adeline🖤
Life’s been so crazy for me so I’m only watching this now. Didn’t realize how much I missed watching your videos 🥺💕
Married is Good For some people but not for everyone be happy with self love is The best Joan love you I followed you since you first video ❤️
Im 33 and not married so don’t worry 😊. I’m not ugly, I have a good carrier, and I’m in a culture everyone is marrying around 20 years. It’s not that I don’t want to marry, it’s just that I didn’t find the right person. And also, when the right person came, I wasn’t ready for marriag 😅
I’m telling this, so you get your confirmation about not stressing yourself. We’re all in the same Boat😅 and I like the idea, of taking “it” day by day. That’s a great plan.
Even the ones who are married, aren’t satisfied. I feel no one is satisfied. My friends who are married either complain about their marriage or about their children…well…complaining is a hard word, I mean more like being true to oneself and admitting the hardships about marriage and having kids things like that…life is always hard…to anyone…to the ones with a bad ass carrier, to the ones who have a married life with wonderful kids, to the poor ones, to the ones who have lost everything because of an earthquake and so on… in my 30s I have understood that you need to constantly work on yourself no matter how old you get. You need to work on your character, you need to work on your heart and cure it and you need to control yourself and work on self-scrutiny in order to become a better person because at the end when you get older you’ll be proud of yourself of who you become. Everything in life matters…who you become and what you do with your life and the circumstances and your thoughts matters…. 😊😅
Ahh thanks for sharing this🖤
Cheers to our 30s!!
That was so beautiful to read ❤ your words gave me such peace!
@@SomeQuietChaos that’s nice and made me happy 😊
I've been a subscriber since you first started this channel. Glad to see you back on here ❤Don't get yourself too worked up over relationships. It'll all fall in to place when it's supposed to be. Just take it day by day ❤
Yess, day by day! Thanks for the support 🥹🖤
Joan! I love you’re videos they’re so inspiring and real and it helps me be at ease for my life journey and not to worry! :)
Hehe thanks for the support 🖤
I saw your journey, you became so much more i guess of what you expected. You do you!
Aww, thank you for the support🖤
Im 33, single and not in a relationship, I think what I learned being single at this age is that never let yourself feel pressure of getting married just enjoy life take do everything that you want, i have stable job, i have mlthe money, i have the time and im just enjoying everything
Yess! Thanks for sharing 🫶🏻🖤
Thanks for sharing (: Just wanted to say that I absolutely LOVED/LOVE your 365 Joan Day vlogs!! They were so fun and made me have a Joan day too ^__^ No need to pressure yourself regarding vlogs moving forward~ just know that it wasnt the amount of content you put out that was fun, but that you, yourself, is just fun and down to earth! (:
Aww, thank you for understanding! Can't wait to continue sharing updates here🖤
I love how genuine you are ❤
🖤🖤🖤
Have a Joan day are the words i've been missing all this time ❤❤
Hehe have a joanday🖤
Yayy any content from you i definitely look forward tooo ❤
Thank YOU🖤
Its been a while! Started to watch your channel when I was 25, with my channel Lovely Ajumma ( I change it now). now Im in my 30s too and I also get anxious from time to time about my future and feeling left behind. Thank you for being an amazing youtuber. 😊
I'm 33 now ( single ) . BEFORE i used to hear a lot about this topic ( marriage / dating ..etc ) but after all i realized its my own life , i'm the one who will date/marry someone one day. SO WHY SHOULD I LISTEN TO THEM .
I'm happy being single since years.
Just Live your life day by day & one day when ypir heart/mind decides , you will enter in a relationship with the right one for you.
Yes to this!! You do you🖤
@@joan_kim You too 💜
I’m currently 24 and I don’t see myself getting married anytime soon. It’s just not in my plans right now but it’s definitely a goal
Yes, focus on you 🫶🏻🖤
Me too. When people asking about married make me streeful also. So that way I need your support❤
Everything is going to be okay 🖤
@@joan_kim Thank you❤
I'm in my early 30s and I get these type of questions too; but one thing I want to say to those people who ask others about when they're getting married and having kids, is that it's none of your business. I mean this is in a kind way. You might think it's a simple question but it can cause a lot of hurt and damage to the ones hearing it. You never know if they had a miscarriage and/or have difficulty in having kids. Or maybe, they don't want to have kids and some may have trauma from their parents/childhood that effects these type of decisions. It's the same with asking people if they are going to get married- you never know what they are processing deep inside and your question might be triggering. Please don't take this in the wrong way. Personally, I have hurt a lot of women in my life for asking these type of questions. I learned from my mistake. (Yes, this goes for all women- single or not.)
Ahh, thanks for sharing this! I totally understand 🖤
You look GREAT BABE!I love the hair!
Thank YOU🖤
Love you, Joan!!! Hope all is well
Hope YOU are too🖤
hey Joan, what a suprise at this hour
Hehe hi🖤
조안님 늘 영상 잘 보고있어요,,🤍🤍 조용히 좋아요만 누르는 편인데 한국어 자막 자주 써주셔서 너무 좋아요 영어공부하듯 보고있거든요 희희 (자막 부담드리는 거 절대 아니구요!)
i love u joan eonnie
Thanks for the support 🫶🏻🖤
joan being like my online bff 🥺 i never clicked fast when i saw an update
Thanks for the support 🥹🖤
We love you Joan 🖤🖤🖤💕💕💕
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I missed your vlog, Joan ❤❤❤
Thanks for watching this update🖤
헐 브이로그 관두셨구나 ㅜㅜ 진짜 vlog의 원조 중에 원조라고 생각했는데 ㅎㅎ 시원 섭섭하네용 ㅋㅋ 이 채널도 잘 볼게욥
I read somewhere the thought that.. you actually can't really be a full adult yet in your 20s bcoz you usually just graduated and being forced to live in society and do adult things. It's a decade of getting your bearings and being with yourself and taking care of yourself. So 30s is like your "teenage" years but you're definitely wiser and know better but also you have adult money now.
30s is exciting!! 🖤
Whatever it is, we are still here for you unni. ✨❤️🥰
Thanks for the support🖤
Thank you for this video 🖤🖤🖤
Thank YOU for watching🖤
IDK why but she looks Sooo similar to JHope here !!
Hi Joan, I just went to New York and tried Prince St Pizza. It was the best pizza ever! Thought I’d let you know. Thanks for the recommendation!
Ahhh! I miss Prince St!! Glad you enjoyed it🖤
Kenapa pas banget 🥲. Tahun ini dah mau 28 dan masih jomblo akut. Semangat Joan we can do it
Thank you, Joan. :)
Thank YOU🖤
I acttually watched all of your videos . Y are the one of my fv because your English very easy to hear and learn. I am your fan from Viet Nam! I hope you will come to Việt Nam somes day and make a vlog here. Wish you all the best ! ❤ Tks you for your contents.
Thank YOU for watching🖤
MOMSHIEEE! HOW ARE YOU? Hope you're doing great
Hehe hope YOU are doing great 🖤
I always love your voice and pronunciation since 2016 hahahaha.
Aww, thank you so much! Haha🖤
Awesome video!
Thank you🖤
Keep doing you! ❤
You tooo🖤
new subbie!!! you seem so cool xo
Aww, thanks for the support🖤
Long time no Q&As, I miss it! ❤
Hehe hi🖤
Do u still want to be a reporter? And do u have anything in your bucket list u haven't done yet?
❤❤❤ im here to support you as always from Thailand
Thanks for the support 🥹🖤