Bro doesn't even know what the red pill is. It's not about hating wymin it's about understanding reality of what they want and how to do what's best for you
@@m3redgtHe will be the bitter type though, since he will have enough experience of women that the double standards and outright lies they tell him to his face will bother him. Then when he mentions his issues, he will be told he is a misogynist and eventually, this will wear him down until he truly does feel that way.
The real red pill is the neoreactionary power analysis and the realization that our society is being steered into the ground by an adaptive fantasy in the form of a sovereign memeplex that selects for power rather than truth and that this terminal state of affairs can only be rectified by reembodying sovereignty in the form of a monarch. Curtis Yarvin grabbed the term first, the manosphere coopted it.
Race doesn't matter as much as a lot of people think, but height absolutely does. It's like weight for women. People notice looks first and physical attraction before anything else. Yes, it's unfair that a guy can't control their height and women can control their weight, but it's just how it is.
@@Illumirage Lol Isn't it a meme about how much black men love white women and vice versa? I've also heard of Asian women being particularly fond of white men. Sure, it's not weird for races to stick together, but as IWLGaming said, it's far less important than height. Idk where you got that idea from but put it back.
Every. Single. One. Of my short guy friends who have girlfriends/wives have no-nonsense attitudes with the behaviour of their women. Even the tall guys who are attached long-term have the same attitude. Don't be an asshole, but have the capability to be an asshole and she'll respect you for it. That's it.
Amen. Also, show your gf/wife that you are not a beta by not being kind to everyone at random. show her she is Special by showing her that she is an exception. you do not need to be aggressive, being rude is quite enough in most cases.
@@shadowgirl11 what's so yikes about my statement? They're all great guys. Just because I said they don't tolerate any type of drama fishing most women unintentionally do, it doesn't mean they're shitty to them. In fact, it's the opposite. When I bring my wife down from her BS, she always says stuff like, "Thanks for evening me out when I get out of hand". Healthy women appreciate a guy who doesn't join their emotionally driven downward spirals. We always see the tailspin and right the plane before the crash happens. Anyone who doesn't leads it to the end of the relationship.
The problem is already in the title. He "doesn't want to be redpilled" as if it means to Hate women or something. Anon forgot that he needs to be a Man, assertive, strong, opinionated.
When girls will hit the wall after giving all their best years to random badboys, they will ruin the lives of men such as him. I hope he get over the need of a companion so no one will be able to ruin his life later.
Don't make yourself a victim. Don't put all your effort into catering to women's needs. Do what is good for yourself, and have confidence in that. There is nothing you are "supposed" to do in life. There is only what you want to do. Some people may give you advice, an idea, to help you find your way. But you have to walk it yourself.
Nah imma just put a scale at the entrance of my house, if your over a certain amount then you better have brought your own food and or money to feed yourself, cause they are not gonna drain my fridge and my account
I'm short and brown and can kinda understand his viewpoint. I've just reached a stage where I've accepted I won't be seen as anything more than a friend. Acceptance of that will help you move on and help you focus on things that matter. I now just give the same amount of energy back to people. And what happened is that only some of my male friends have reached out to me. Its been a year since I've talked to any of my friends who are girls and I'm fine with that. Point of my comment is save your energy for people who deserve it. You'll be happier.
😅 yes, he also needs to work out harder, get a broccoli haircut, be more dominant, "just be", earn more cash, be a good wagie......... and all will be fine and he gets a 10/10 babe and live happily ever after. (dude btw, did you ever watch the movie Magnolia with Tom Cruise? watch it)
Doesn't sound like he was trying hard at all. Doesn't sound like he was desperate when he approached them either. If I had to guess, I'd say he's just too nice. I had that problem for years.
Nowadays even height doesn't matter anymore. I'm 187cm, white, decent looking guy, with a moderate gym physique. Still get zero attention from women. As much as I agree with resenting the redpill mindset, I feel like there is one single piece of advice these guys are right about. Go find someone overseas, eastern europe/asia. The women there seem so much more friendly, respectful, and feminine.
As someone who was born and raised in Romania, I can safely say at this point that it's all too late. The western influence reached us as well and it's poisoning the mindsets over here as well and it's becoming worse by the year. I've given up on dating fully for almost a full year at this point and it allowed me to gain some more perspective. Neither side are any better in their own right. Humans just became more sh!t in general and not just in dating exclusively. A lot of folks never heard the phrase "two wrongs don't make one right" before and it shows ... HEAVILY ...
In most cases it is the guys own fault. he did not talk about it so i assume he is living in a major city, most likely a blue one. or may god have mercy on him... cali. that is like complaining about getting no meat in a vegan restaurant.
Do you think he’d do better in a rural conservative area with hardly anyone around to date in the first place? And as a short brown man in America that’s the last place I would go in his his situation for a relationship.
@@crowbarviking3890 nope I grew up in a city and live in the country now as an adult I can tell you for a fact from personal experience there is virtually nobody here that is 20/30 something. Overwhelmingly middle aged parents and their kids or old people.
I am overcome with that putrid odor of desperation just from reading the words. Women know when you're desperate. They really know when you're desperately trying not to look desperate. Nothing dries them up faster. Doesn't matter if you're tall and white or short and dark. Desperation is unattractive. My eventual wife fell for me by listening to me talk not to her but to other men. I was genuine, funny, smart and I made it my goal to hear her adorable laugh every day. That's still my goal 10 years and 4 kids later. Take the focus off your appearance and take it off them entirely. Put it on whatever arouses your passion. A quality woman wants someone real
I honestly don’t care about a man’s height. I am 5’9 and only rejected people if I didn’t feel like we had a connection. At 22, I met my now husband; he is 5’2 and stocky. He tried online dating for 6 years, and would get one match every 3 months or so. When we first matched, he actual almost unmatched me because he thought I was a bot. Luckily he didn’t and now we are happily married. For some women, height doesn’t matter.
Sadly, the "Some Women" to Short man ratio is not too favorable. Especially if those same "some women" have the option to not date a short man 🤷🏿 but height can be overcome. It's just a rare personality that can do that
Yeah, becoming good at being single does not make one good in a relationship. To be honest i think the issue is also what he is not talking about. The location. I am 5'8 and chubby and was unemployed and got a girlfriend / now wife. was never single for more than a few months in total since i turned 18
It will never matter if all the things he says here are what he leads with. Women want someone worth wanting- and that has nothing to with being explicitly respectful to women. Women don't want desperate losers... and if you're honest with yourself, men don't want them either.
@@loganblackwood2922that applies mostly to liberal women though. many men are f-ing themselves by chosing to live in liberal cities while wanting a conservative relationship. at that point it is their own fault.. like a meat lover insisting on eating in a vegan restaurant and then complaining about the lack of meat.
@@sirbacon1617it’s funny cause that’s like .00001 percent of PEOPLE not just men on this planet are like that, they are SCREWED if they don’t lower their standards
the difference is guys who “dont try” cus theyre genuinely chill and happy by themselves, compared to guys like this who try to “not care” just in hopes of secretly getting a girl lmao
@Bluman99 seems to be chastising white women for wanting white kids. Placing subtle blame on them for not wanting to mix. Blaming white men for his failures
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Anon actually confused the red pill for the black pill.
Bro doesn't even know what the red pill is. It's not about hating wymin it's about understanding reality of what they want and how to do what's best for you
he's already redpilled himself without realizing
@@m3redgtHe will be the bitter type though, since he will have enough experience of women that the double standards and outright lies they tell him to his face will bother him. Then when he mentions his issues, he will be told he is a misogynist and eventually, this will wear him down until he truly does feel that way.
@@m3redgt hes a cuck beta bitch scared of red pill lol
@@m3redgt Sounds like life did that for him more than anything.
Red pill is about hating women. Having such mindset does not help interacting with women in positive manner
2:50 Grab a passport and go travelling. Results may vary but will DEFINITELY eclipse the amewreka experience.
some people have no idea what "red pilled" actually means. I blame the manosphere grifters for hijacking the term
The real red pill is the neoreactionary power analysis and the realization that our society is being steered into the ground by an adaptive fantasy in the form of a sovereign memeplex that selects for power rather than truth and that this terminal state of affairs can only be rectified by reembodying sovereignty in the form of a monarch. Curtis Yarvin grabbed the term first, the manosphere coopted it.
Race doesn't matter as much as a lot of people think, but height absolutely does. It's like weight for women. People notice looks first and physical attraction before anything else. Yes, it's unfair that a guy can't control their height and women can control their weight, but it's just how it is.
Race matters too. People want kids that look like them
@@Illumirage Lol
Isn't it a meme about how much black men love white women and vice versa? I've also heard of Asian women being particularly fond of white men. Sure, it's not weird for races to stick together, but as IWLGaming said, it's far less important than height. Idk where you got that idea from but put it back.
@@IllumirageI’ve never heard that ever, and I’m I Canadian, THE melting pot of earth, that has never been stated before, don’t state it again
Im 6’2” and giving up haha height doesn’t equal a meaningful relationship
Over 90% don't date outside of their race.
"JuSt Be CoNfIdEnT bRo"
she sensed Chad's inner light and lack of desperation even though Anon said they both approached her the exact same way LMFAO
Every. Single. One. Of my short guy friends who have girlfriends/wives have no-nonsense attitudes with the behaviour of their women. Even the tall guys who are attached long-term have the same attitude.
Don't be an asshole, but have the capability to be an asshole and she'll respect you for it. That's it.
Amen. Also, show your gf/wife that you are not a beta by not being kind to everyone at random. show her she is Special by showing her that she is an exception. you do not need to be aggressive, being rude is quite enough in most cases.
Yikes lol
@@shadowgirl11 what's so yikes about my statement? They're all great guys. Just because I said they don't tolerate any type of drama fishing most women unintentionally do, it doesn't mean they're shitty to them. In fact, it's the opposite.
When I bring my wife down from her BS, she always says stuff like, "Thanks for evening me out when I get out of hand". Healthy women appreciate a guy who doesn't join their emotionally driven downward spirals. We always see the tailspin and right the plane before the crash happens. Anyone who doesn't leads it to the end of the relationship.
Bro's confused the red pill with the black pill.
The problem is already in the title. He "doesn't want to be redpilled" as if it means to Hate women or something. Anon forgot that he needs to be a Man, assertive, strong, opinionated.
When girls will hit the wall after giving all their best years to random badboys, they will ruin the lives of men such as him. I hope he get over the need of a companion so no one will be able to ruin his life later.
Don't make yourself a victim. Don't put all your effort into catering to women's needs. Do what is good for yourself, and have confidence in that. There is nothing you are "supposed" to do in life. There is only what you want to do. Some people may give you advice, an idea, to help you find your way. But you have to walk it yourself.
2:13 I don’t even need to listen anymore op pointed out the issue right there “confident guys”, he’s playing himself if he doesn’t fix that.
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Move to Asia. Not even joking.
Chad does not care about women and that’s your first problem manlet
Anon got heigh mogged, giving women rights was a mistake
literally
Nah imma just put a scale at the entrance of my house, if your over a certain amount then you better have brought your own food and or money to feed yourself, cause they are not gonna drain my fridge and my account
redpill isn't (wasn't at least) about hating women
Just let go, man. Learn to be happy alone. Stop trying, stop bothering. Ultimately it's not worth it.
Love is a chaotic force anon
I'm short and brown and can kinda understand his viewpoint.
I've just reached a stage where I've accepted I won't be seen as anything more than a friend.
Acceptance of that will help you move on and help you focus on things that matter. I now just give the same amount of energy back to people.
And what happened is that only some of my male friends have reached out to me. Its been a year since I've talked to any of my friends who are girls and I'm fine with that.
Point of my comment is save your energy for people who deserve it. You'll be happier.
He needs to be more confident 😂
😅 yes, he also needs to work out harder, get a broccoli haircut, be more dominant, "just be", earn more cash, be a good wagie......... and all will be fine and he gets a 10/10 babe and live happily ever after. (dude btw, did you ever watch the movie Magnolia with Tom Cruise? watch it)
How lol
@@spacebear916yeah that sound like some of the shittiest advice I’ve heard in a while, and I’ve watched Andrew tate say some heinous shit
@@spacebear916also are you blind and or deaf, the first 3 seconds will make your statement useless
@@gagefallon1566 ever heard of "humour" and "sarcasm" or "irony"? it's quite new concepts so...
Maybe just don't try as hard. Desperation can be smelled off from miles.
Doesn't sound like he was trying hard at all. Doesn't sound like he was desperate when he approached them either. If I had to guess, I'd say he's just too nice. I had that problem for years.
This is very correct, it's like blood in the water for sharks.
OP just needed to become a passport bro 😭
Bro if you cant love yourself how can you expect someone to love you
Nowadays even height doesn't matter anymore. I'm 187cm, white, decent looking guy, with a moderate gym physique. Still get zero attention from women. As much as I agree with resenting the redpill mindset, I feel like there is one single piece of advice these guys are right about. Go find someone overseas, eastern europe/asia. The women there seem so much more friendly, respectful, and feminine.
As someone who was born and raised in Romania, I can safely say at this point that it's all too late. The western influence reached us as well and it's poisoning the mindsets over here as well and it's becoming worse by the year. I've given up on dating fully for almost a full year at this point and it allowed me to gain some more perspective. Neither side are any better in their own right. Humans just became more sh!t in general and not just in dating exclusively. A lot of folks never heard the phrase "two wrongs don't make one right" before and it shows ... HEAVILY ...
"Nowadays even height doesn't matter anymore."
lol sure brother, how would you even know at 187cm
same IM in nursing 189cm's (In a proffesion with mostly women) i don't bother Im not ugly or nothing i just am bad with women (am 32)
maybe you're weird
No find a normal chick here. Mixing is cuckery
In most cases it is the guys own fault. he did not talk about it so i assume he is living in a major city, most likely a blue one. or may god have mercy on him... cali.
that is like complaining about getting no meat in a vegan restaurant.
Do you think he’d do better in a rural conservative area with hardly anyone around to date in the first place? And as a short brown man in America that’s the last place I would go in his his situation for a relationship.
@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 the fact you think that there are too few people in the countryside to meet tells me you are a city dweller.
@@crowbarviking3890 nope I grew up in a city and live in the country now as an adult I can tell you for a fact from personal experience there is virtually nobody here that is 20/30 something. Overwhelmingly middle aged parents and their kids or old people.
And there’s the political side gtfo now, your tyrannical politicians are unwanted in this conversation
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986could be much, much worse. Not sure why you're painting that like hell on earth
How tall is OP?
tall as strawberry it seems
I am overcome with that putrid odor of desperation just from reading the words. Women know when you're desperate. They really know when you're desperately trying not to look desperate. Nothing dries them up faster. Doesn't matter if you're tall and white or short and dark. Desperation is unattractive.
My eventual wife fell for me by listening to me talk not to her but to other men. I was genuine, funny, smart and I made it my goal to hear her adorable laugh every day. That's still my goal 10 years and 4 kids later. Take the focus off your appearance and take it off them entirely. Put it on whatever arouses your passion. A quality woman wants someone real
She likes u being gay
100% woman are attracted to confidence first and foremost. If they think you're desperate, they hold all the cards.
what if appearance and women arouse their passion though?
I honestly don’t care about a man’s height. I am 5’9 and only rejected people if I didn’t feel like we had a connection. At 22, I met my now husband; he is 5’2 and stocky. He tried online dating for 6 years, and would get one match every 3 months or so. When we first matched, he actual almost unmatched me because he thought I was a bot. Luckily he didn’t and now we are happily married. For some women, height doesn’t matter.
you're a man
Sadly, the "Some Women" to Short man ratio is not too favorable. Especially if those same "some women" have the option to not date a short man 🤷🏿
but height can be overcome. It's just a rare personality that can do that
You just gotta vibe harder brooooooo
He will choose the green pill _inshallah_
Guy focuses entirely on himself and doesn't understand why it doesn't make him more attractive
Yeah, becoming good at being single does not make one good in a relationship.
To be honest i think the issue is also what he is not talking about. The location.
I am 5'8 and chubby and was unemployed and got a girlfriend / now wife.
was never single for more than a few months in total since i turned 18
Focus on getting rich. That matters most tbh
It will never matter if all the things he says here are what he leads with. Women want someone worth wanting- and that has nothing to with being explicitly respectful to women. Women don't want desperate losers... and if you're honest with yourself, men don't want them either.
What they want is a tall jacked handsome rich dude who is a bad boy but good to them specifically.
@@loganblackwood2922easy enough right?
@@loganblackwood2922that applies mostly to liberal women though. many men are f-ing themselves by chosing to live in liberal cities while wanting a conservative relationship. at that point it is their own fault..
like a meat lover insisting on eating in a vegan restaurant and then complaining about the lack of meat.
@@sirbacon1617it’s funny cause that’s like .00001 percent of PEOPLE not just men on this planet are like that, they are SCREWED if they don’t lower their standards
the difference is guys who “dont try” cus theyre genuinely chill and happy by themselves, compared to guys like this who try to “not care” just in hopes of secretly getting a girl lmao
Red pill isn't about hating women.
I agree with the women, avoid this racist incel
How is he racist exactly?
@Bluman99 seems to be chastising white women for wanting white kids. Placing subtle blame on them for not wanting to mix. Blaming white men for his failures
@@Bluman99 By claiming he is rejected because he is brown and targetting a specific race of girl. Deserved.
@@legendecoton984 that makes no damn sense you're retarded