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  • Watch Lucas Hedges, Nicole Kidman and Russell Crowe in the new trailer for #BoyErased, featuring the new original song “Revelation” by Troye Sivan & Jónsi. Written for the screen and directed by Joel Edgerton, based on Boy Erased: A Memoir of Identity, Faith and Family by Garrard Conley.
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    “Boy Erased” tells the story of Jared (Hedges), the son of a Baptist pastor in a small American town, who is outed to his parents (Kidman and Crowe) at age 19. Jared is faced with an ultimatum: attend a conversion therapy program - or be permanently exiled and shunned by his family, friends, and faith. Boy Erased is the true story of one young man’s struggle to find himself while being forced to question every aspect of his identity.

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  • @samquinn3531
    @samquinn3531 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7859

    You put him in conversion therapy with Troye Sivan and you thought it would work?

  • @ainulyaqin5243
    @ainulyaqin5243 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4143

    Lmao, putting gay men in a camp with Troye Sivan doesn't work.

    • @lindseymays144
      @lindseymays144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Think of your own original comment, you little copycat.

    • @ninatheinkling5748
      @ninatheinkling5748 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@lindseymays144 its not that original...

    • @scouser2010ify
      @scouser2010ify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why Troy Sivan isn’t that attractive

    • @clubpenguinhaks
      @clubpenguinhaks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@scouser2010ify Legally Blind? LMAO

    • @scouser2010ify
      @scouser2010ify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mostor actually I am 😂 but he has a weird face in my opinion we’re all allowed to have different types

  • @lala4461
    @lala4461 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6718

    I was married to a gay man who wanted nothing more than to be straight. The extent our church went to in order to "pray the gay away" was disgusting. Nothing "Godly" about the bullshit they spewed. He is still my absolute soul mate and nothing makes me happier than when he and his partner bring their two adopted children over for family dinners. The church set him and myself up for so much pain. It hurt like hell when I knew I had to let him be who is was/is but after some time to heal I wouldn't trade our new dynamic for the world.

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Your husband is the bullshit. What if every man on Earth was like him. Wouldn't that be a nice World?

    • @Ricardo-fv2qi
      @Ricardo-fv2qi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +513

      Now I want a movie about your story!

    • @v1na975
      @v1na975 6 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      @ youre disgusting

    • @Clonest
      @Clonest 6 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      @ update your profile pic, spineless spiteful coward.

    • @ramonag.3267
      @ramonag.3267 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      agreed! So beautiful! @@Ricardo-fv2qi

  • @Pos608
    @Pos608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1232

    The part when he says “because you’re making me angry” really gets me and I don’t know why

    • @amandaong333
      @amandaong333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      it's just too real, i think. gets me too

    • @victoriayornet7130
      @victoriayornet7130 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Because he is finding his voice in a lose lose situation and his voice is beautiful, powerful and strong. It gets me too. It's the Rising. Everybody can hear the Truth in him, even when they don't want to.

    • @tooncafestudios7018
      @tooncafestudios7018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      From what I think, I think it's because people kept telling him that by being this way, hes hating this parents and is building up anger from his parents when that isnt true. He loves them both so much but cant control the way he is. Sometimes anger just comes out from one person and because it's so pent up, he explodes. Its not because of someone in our lives who just wanna help in a detrimental way. But that's just what I think.

    • @diegoa.6417
      @diegoa.6417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because he said in no plain terms, but was by no means disrespectful. He was raised properly in a respectful manner, but their core beliefs were messed up in the fact they practically preached hate. If you get what I'm trying to say

    • @mczac4094
      @mczac4094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's Lucas' acting for me. So convincing. I love him too in 'Ben is Back'. Amazing young actor ❤️

  • @shannonswartz6928
    @shannonswartz6928 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1530

    When my daughter came out to me, I already knew. I had always known. But I cried for days. Only because I KNEW that people she loved...family...would disappoint her by not accepting who she was. I will protect her with everything I have, though. She deserves a beautiful life and I swear to God, she WILL have it.

    • @shannonswartz6928
      @shannonswartz6928 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Ha! So it is, Eerimen...awesome observation.

    • @karmamelk9
      @karmamelk9 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Thank goodness for parents like you. Bless you!

    • @user-hy1yi7xm8e
      @user-hy1yi7xm8e 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Respect.

    • @robertzhukovski6929
      @robertzhukovski6929 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      so much DRAMA. Seriously, people, you have to stop bothering about who is sleeping with who.

    • @abrar2240
      @abrar2240 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Wow i really respect you for this

  • @drakedrones
    @drakedrones 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2078

    I am a straight woman. I do not understand homophobia. How can this be a problem to anyone is beyond my comprehension! 2 adults love each other, want to be together, don’t wanna hurt anyone --> where is the problem in accepting this situation?

    • @Clintsessentials
      @Clintsessentials 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Indeed

    • @kamakazepilot8812
      @kamakazepilot8812 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      cz there are some stinkbrains out there who think they are on the earth to keep everything in order. they succkk. pscyhos

    • @josephy8
      @josephy8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      the first man and woman was adam and eve not adam and william the topic is over

    • @user-xd4sk4pk7h
      @user-xd4sk4pk7h 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      I’m gay and a lot of homophobia comes from defensiveness when someone is unsecure... or they’re just a twat

    • @drakedrones
      @drakedrones 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      ___ ___ human beings have the free will to make choices of their own “preferences” when it does not harm anyone else!

  • @SafirAksel
    @SafirAksel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3396

    Fun fact: The real life pastor in this film just quit being in that program and turns out actually gay and now have a husband.

    • @clowy9052
      @clowy9052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@SleepDaMouse-xd8dn wtf

    • @freddie5411
      @freddie5411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +197

      If you rewatch the movie and pay close attention you will see photos of members, in the hall of the conversion place, who are supposedly "ex-gay." Meaning that the movie implied that the pastor "used to be gay," including all the employees at the therapy place. The leutenant guy even says "that your teachers have overcome." Referring to homosexuality. I watched the film about 7x already 😁

    • @clowy9052
      @clowy9052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@freddie5411 Doesn't some of the film make your jaw clench? I found it difficult to watch at times

    • @mothsforeyes
      @mothsforeyes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@freddie5411
      Thank you so much for sharing. A diamond shaped by the lathe.

    • @s0ftbby346
      @s0ftbby346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Sapphire Axel I hope that he lives with the guilt of hurting people like him forever. He is a victim of this society but as soon as he became an abuser I stopped feeling sorry for him

  • @mediawatcher9225
    @mediawatcher9225 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1435

    I’m not gay or Christian, but this is truly heartbreaking on every level, I feel for these people.

    • @SleepDaMouse-xd8dn
      @SleepDaMouse-xd8dn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mediawatcher it’s lgbt propaganda

    • @genericusername566
      @genericusername566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@SleepDaMouse-xd8dn how? it actually happened!

    • @deepraj4620
      @deepraj4620 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sharon Jensen omg 💯

    • @camillaanghelone
      @camillaanghelone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      i am a christian, and also a part of the lgbtq+ community. i would be thrilled to have a child that is a part of this community. idk how you can say that this is ok and this is loving your child. because it’s not. you’re hurting your child

    • @deepraj4620
      @deepraj4620 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      camilla v true

  • @nicolechappers25
    @nicolechappers25 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3497

    As a Christian I am emotional just watching the trailer! It breaks my heart there are people using Gods name to spread hate and discrimination. God CAN and DOES love you the way you are. Anyone telling you something different is mistaken.

    • @user-hy1yi7xm8e
      @user-hy1yi7xm8e 6 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      Though I disagree about God, you are the type of person I like to see in the church.

    • @phylr3983
      @phylr3983 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      AMEN!

    • @Alien_Truth
      @Alien_Truth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      If only more were like you. x

    • @superfly2535
      @superfly2535 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Nicole Moana First of all, you are a great person and I wish more Christians were like you. Second of all, the Bible is full of extremely backwards and cruel ideas, like the hatred of homosexuality, and on top of that, it's full of contradictions and was written by multiple authors hundreds of years after the alleged events occurred. Many former Christians like myself have come to the conclusion that it's all made up. I don't want to pressure you but I highly encourage you to question your beliefs, the fact that you don't think homosexuality is wrong means you already are to some degree.

    • @cagot486
      @cagot486 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Amen. God loves everyone. We r all sinful and he still loves all of us. God bless

  • @DavidDitmore
    @DavidDitmore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    Thanks everybody for supporting the movie. It was an honor to have a role in this movie - I played "Phillip" - I was one of the conversion camp attendees. If you have any questions about the production of the movie - ask a question in the comments and I'll answer what I can. Thanks again!

    • @minershrub769
      @minershrub769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Thanks for this movie!

    • @nickperez3301
      @nickperez3301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How long did it take to film and what's your favorite experience

    • @chettyx2088
      @chettyx2088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      what is the most important thing you’ve learned while filming

    • @Malignus68
      @Malignus68 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I guess he lied about answering questions.

    • @DavidDitmore
      @DavidDitmore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@nickperez3301 Hey Nick - i shot for almost a month just outside Atlanta - the total film shot for about 2 months. My favorite part was working with Joel Edgerton - such a complete pro. Great actor, even better director.

  • @jaseb4174
    @jaseb4174 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2189

    I waited a lifetime to come out. My mother stopped talking to me, my minister brother told me I’d never be happy and hasn’t spoken to me in 4 years. He told me that if I ever wanted “to come back“ that he would be waiting for me with open arms. But I told him I hadn’t gone anywhere. I was still the good son, still the loving big brother. I was just being true to myself. And guess what? I am happy! Life is too short to hide behind fear and ignorance.

    • @Clintsessentials
      @Clintsessentials 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Exactly!!!💜💜💜

    • @xX_Moonluster_Xx
      @xX_Moonluster_Xx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Heck yeah! I am sorry about your family though. :/ I hope you have people who support you, though. Everyone deserves to be who they want to be without fear and judgment.

    • @brianbruce7243
      @brianbruce7243 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I hope everything is smooth in your years to come my friend i hear you

    • @SlimeDawgy
      @SlimeDawgy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen brother!

    • @kiowalinks16
      @kiowalinks16 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Sir, you have done the right thing to be honest with yourself. My mother also thinks I have a mental disorder. Okay, it is true that I have 2 mental disorders, anxiety and depression that was caused by her. Okay, the point is that you have to be honest, not only to yourself but others and for that, you are strong and God blesses you with so much love and grace everyday.

  • @gabymartinez2814
    @gabymartinez2814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1772

    My parents sent me to an all girls catholic school to avoid me having boyfriend but guess who has a new girlfriend every 3 months?

    • @yesboyjay
      @yesboyjay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      god i wish that were me

    • @kenji1053
      @kenji1053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Lmaoo

    • @caution2749
      @caution2749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😳

    • @deewickie5154
      @deewickie5154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Lol i can relate to this.. catholic schools focus soo much on keeping the girls away from the boys and then are flabbergasted when the girls end up "crossing to the other side"

    • @K1R4AAA
      @K1R4AAA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That made me blush i have no idea why im hetrosexaul tho

  • @cornerentertainmentbad4902
    @cornerentertainmentbad4902 6 ปีที่แล้ว +901

    "A mother knows when something isn't right."
    Powerful stuff.

    • @brianbruce7243
      @brianbruce7243 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha yup i had to tell mine they had no idea lol

    • @sherrianderson9715
      @sherrianderson9715 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nicole Kidman really nailed her role

    • @whiskeyrivers
      @whiskeyrivers 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @InaudibleBoom Emotional doesn't equal illogical. Your comment is shallow generalizing and I would say sexist to both genders. Stop thinking with stereotypes. Maybe try to understand what is actually meant by this phrase. You have not the slightest idea of what mother-child connection is possible of.

    • @whiskeyrivers
      @whiskeyrivers 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @InaudibleBoom You sound like a bitchy queen. What the fuck are you even talking about? Do you love to put people down for no reason? Transgender has absolutely nothing to do with this film. If you don't like the trailer then get the fuck out and let others enjoy it. You obviously have a lot of hate in your heart. I am a LGBTQ supporter through and through... I'm Christian and I'm also bisexual. I am also a mother, and married to a straight man. None of that shit matters, you know why... God made me like this and I will not apologize.

  • @AndyZaturno
    @AndyZaturno 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1423

    When he breaks the news that he is gay, I started crying watching Nicole Kidmans reaction! It was so real. Like she knew in that moment her entire world was gonna about to change.

    • @libbyp.1631
      @libbyp.1631 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Andy Zaturno and Russel Crowes eye twitch at that moment

    • @masonallen3961
      @masonallen3961 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Joel Edgerton isn’t Jewish. What are you talking about?

    • @AndyZaturno
      @AndyZaturno 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eerimen Bzej and?

    • @edtExodus
      @edtExodus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Eerimen Bzej Why don't you move your nazi piece of shit ass out of here, dipshit?

    • @PADARM
      @PADARM 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Eerimen Bzej
      thank you, your comments are making the movie even more real.

  • @maddy5035
    @maddy5035 6 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    troye with an american accent i’m sCREAMINGGGG

    • @dre1038
      @dre1038 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SAMEEE

    • @snowenasouthwell2510
      @snowenasouthwell2510 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      🔵 Boy Erased [2OI8] Fᴜʟʟ Mᴏᴠɪᴇ : [ t.co/AgZXij8jQf ]
      Oóutstanding móvie! Sehr zu empfehIen, es auszuprobieren!

    • @aynaa8921
      @aynaa8921 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HES ACTUALLY GOOD LOL

    • @senoj.rednaxela
      @senoj.rednaxela 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      after seeing troye...
      He has risen!

    • @happycorgi993
      @happycorgi993 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG ME TOOOOOO💕💕

  • @kenji1053
    @kenji1053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    LADIES AND GENTLEMEN
    THE VOLUME ON THIS COMMENT SECTION, IS
    A S T R O N O M I C A L

  • @marvin5307
    @marvin5307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1549

    "stop using religion to hate people"

    • @cameronwilson5323
      @cameronwilson5323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's not how I use it

    • @cameronwilson5323
      @cameronwilson5323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      If you want to see a good example of using religion to hate people look at Islam

    • @mickeymouse2able
      @mickeymouse2able 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Christians, Jewish people, Muslim people, etc. Religion is used all the time to keep people down. To keep people in slavery and mind-bondage.

    • @khuzdaar
      @khuzdaar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Crumbler sea if you want to see a good example of people hating people, look up “ignorance”.

    • @mickeymouse2able
      @mickeymouse2able 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      hush

  • @carlosandzs
    @carlosandzs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    Not gay. Nor do I know anyone going through anything like this. But I am human. I feel like this story will bring a necessary attention to those with dehumanizing attitudes.

    • @Clintsessentials
      @Clintsessentials 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agree

    • @inneedofchangenow
      @inneedofchangenow 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      wordsofwisdom.gr8.com/

    • @inneedofchangenow
      @inneedofchangenow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MorgaineLionett Any state, condition or practice that goes against nature and scripture, "He created male and female" is an indication that something has gone wrong. So, no matter what name you choose to apply doesn’t negate this fact. In conclusion you need to know that God never intended for men to lay with each other and attempt to have sex in some unnatural way. Unfortunately, he’s given us the freedom to choose so therefore we feel whatever we choose must be right or whatever we feel must be right. Nothing could be further from the truth. Truth is not based on our psychological beliefs, emotional state or circumstances. Truth is based on the spoken and written word of God which again you can choose to believe or disbelieve.

    • @MorgaineLionett
      @MorgaineLionett 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@inneedofchangenow He also created women to be servants to men. I don't see you complaining about gender equality.
      God didn't intend for technology to exist, and you don't complain about that either.
      And I have another little something for you: Paul says in one of his letters that "a woman shall not assume authority over a man. She is to remain quiet." Paul states that women, like you, have no right to educate (though you try to educate me about untrue things) men, like me. I'd you want to bring the Bible into this, please do it all the way, or not at all. Also I don't believe that God has a problem with homosexuality, based on my own studies on the matter.

    • @MorgaineLionett
      @MorgaineLionett 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@inneedofchangenow Why don't you stick to 1 Timothy 2:12?
      That's right, two can play that game. Are you going to tell me that this is outdated? Well, so are your views on homosexuality.

  • @thescranline
    @thescranline 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6069

    Oh Lawd Troye Sivan!

  • @MicheleMJJ
    @MicheleMJJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Just accept people for who they are. Life is too short to discriminate.

    • @SleepDaMouse-xd8dn
      @SleepDaMouse-xd8dn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michele Huffman let people live their lives. Stop spreading anti conversion propaganda’s

    • @user-tf2rx5kn8l
      @user-tf2rx5kn8l 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      SleepDa Mouse Conversion therapy harms people and is trauma-inducing. It is NEVER a good thing. Why do you think it was banned from so many places? No, it’s not a choice that belongs to the family because it’s literally mistreatment. Have you even seen the movie?

  • @ternitamas
    @ternitamas 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2501

    to think there are supporters of this therapy in 2018 is heartbreaking. when will humanity understand we're all just people instead of trying to label categorize and separate. hate is a destructive force. love each other. All we need is love

    • @ternitamas
      @ternitamas 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I was raised a catholic because of my family but I don't feel identified with it anymore, it's been years since I decided to believe in love, that's my only religion. If you believe in love you have the power of faith without the double moral standards, without the judgement, without the bullshit of religion!
      Catholicism needs to explain lots of things before they can point fingers and talk about love. From the persecution and atrocities of the inquisition up to the atrocities of these days. Like the hush hush approach towards pedophiles in the clergy and lots of other things. Lots of explaining to do!!
      So I pass...

    • @stjjnr980
      @stjjnr980 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mad Media Do you read your bible ?

    • @stridertherangerwoof
      @stridertherangerwoof 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      YOU DON'T SEE THEM BUILD A CAR, WHAT IS YOUR POINT

    • @jacobrhodes3291
      @jacobrhodes3291 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ChemicalFX can’t tell if you are supporting gay people or not, but there is scientific evidence to show the being gay is in the brain and a lot of the time it cannot be helped.

    • @AkilaDias
      @AkilaDias 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      ChemicalFX what is your explanation to homosexuality then? because i am gay and what i know is i never found opposite gender sexually attractive or never had any romantic inclination toward them, it always has been with a same gender person

  • @KevinMAbraham
    @KevinMAbraham 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5313

    Putting gay people in camp WITH troye sivan isnt gonna work
    (Edit: this comment got 2x platinum yall!!! wig oh my god tea)
    (Edit again: this got 4x platinum, i would like to thank my parents, and my manager.. also m-)

  • @HANITAI.
    @HANITAI. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1330

    This trailer deserves an oscar

    • @mickeymouse2able
      @mickeymouse2able 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol.

    • @bustamantedavid
      @bustamantedavid 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      pffffff no

    • @kennedythedford9102
      @kennedythedford9102 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      A category

    • @stephaneconstant1302
      @stephaneconstant1302 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ..and this movie too! this movie is already in my fav collection of movies on boxxy software and i wanna re-watch it cause i discovered that boxxy can be run 100% perfectly safe and private if i activate the built in vpn

  • @12dmartine2
    @12dmartine2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Just watched this movie and OMG I cried my eyes out. I’m a 35 year old closeted male, and in my family it’s not accepted. I don’t want to loose my family so I learned how to fake it till you make it. It’s not healthy but I’m content. Maybe in another life I’ll get to live my true life. Not seeking attention, i just related so much to this movie.

    • @titaa56
      @titaa56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I hope you realize you've not been 💯 authentic with yourself in this lifetime. You cried your eye out for a reason. There is an inner true self of you that wants...and NEEDS to be authentically transparent.

    • @newbabies923
      @newbabies923 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where u from btw?

    • @elizas1981
      @elizas1981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I couldn't keep myself in the closet and I'm only fourteen...I have so much respect for you

    • @KimFebriany
      @KimFebriany 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@elizas1981 same, but i'm 17 years old

    • @jeffreytsao5710
      @jeffreytsao5710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Coming out is the single hardest thing I've ever had to do. My family is still healing from it. And yet, I can also tell you that living in the closet, there is never a point that you "make it." Because I was in the closet, I sealed off huge parts of who I was from my family for 33 years, and as a result, I have, and continue to have, many difficulties connecting with people emotionally. Coming out does not make life better, nor does it magically solve all of life's problems. However, when I finally did come out to my family, despite the hardship, despite the heartbreak, despite the pain, tears, and distress, I also witnessed more love than I ever believed possible. My coming out brought my family closer. It doesn't make the 33 years of living in the closet worth it, but it has proven to me that my family is stronger than I ever gave it credit.
      I can't promise that you won't lose your family by coming out. However, you will always resent them in your heart for your choice, and your family will never truly be at peace with you when you keep such a huge part of your identity from them.
      No one can make the choice for you, and no one can say what is, and is not worth it. All I can say is that coming out was worth it to me, despite the pain and disruption it caused everyone involved.

  • @alexandrotirador1385
    @alexandrotirador1385 6 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    Saoirse Ronan: Mary Queen of Scots
    Timothee Chalamet: Beautiful Boy
    Lucas Hedges: Boy Erased
    The Lady Bird gang will slay awards season for sure.

    • @jd899
      @jd899 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alexandro Tirador yeah pretty much

    • @1997residente
      @1997residente 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There is a possibility those three will be in Little women...

    • @rayhanihsannasution4199
      @rayhanihsannasution4199 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Steve Carell will definitely got the oscar for leading actor, Lucas Hedges might be just nominated, Saoirse and Timothée might get the oscar tho.

    • @emilykarols
      @emilykarols 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They are all spin-offs about their lifes after the movie, it’s cleary. She became a actress and play this historic movie. Tim turns out a chemical dependency and about Lucas, the history just continues, and unfortunately, through painfull ways, with Troye Sivan

    • @carolineswn4
      @carolineswn4 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      YESSS I am so excited.

  • @williamshryock1784
    @williamshryock1784 6 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I'm 72, have been out for years - but this one trailer hit me so hard ... to think that there are people who actually have to go through that kind of torture ... I'm crying ... deep and sobbing. How sad we as a people have become ...

    • @Wilson-lx5pe
      @Wilson-lx5pe 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get off TH-cam Grandpa

    • @courcour7438
      @courcour7438 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wilson 7397 nah, you can get off tho

    • @kinguoth3867
      @kinguoth3867 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      William Shryock ikr❤❤

    • @masonallen3961
      @masonallen3961 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you remember Harvey Milk?

    • @masonallen3961
      @masonallen3961 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nice try. That's not my real name. I use a pseudonym online.

  • @sami.raynee
    @sami.raynee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +671

    I came here for Troye, but honestly this seems like an amazing movie and I really want to go see it now skskks (but I mean, still a plus because t r o y e s i v a n)

    • @haneenal-halabi1269
      @haneenal-halabi1269 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you know what song is this?

    • @adrianp.5912
      @adrianp.5912 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@haneenal-halabi1269 revelation, it just officially came out

    • @labibaaahmed4234
      @labibaaahmed4234 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ayyy is that dan

    • @brie5155
      @brie5155 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      at first i literally only watched the movie cause troye was in it, but i have to say I'm glad i watched it! incredible!!

    • @janaecastro2386
      @janaecastro2386 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol right!?!?!? 😂💜

  • @cbp1357
    @cbp1357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    As a believer and a out gay man (I'm currently 25 years old) I first saw this when I was 23 years old. A friend at my church actually told me to watch this. It brought me to tears. I'm very lucky that although I lost my church I went to when I came out, a lot of friends. I didn't lose my faith. I was lucky to have found a place to call my home spiritually. But I believe all Christians need to see this movie. It's so moving.

  • @AndyZaturno
    @AndyZaturno 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1032

    Nicole Kidman looks great in this. Very convincing.

    • @masonallen3961
      @masonallen3961 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn't know she was so good at accents.

    • @redryan20000
      @redryan20000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahahahahahahha

    • @AndyZaturno
      @AndyZaturno 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Susi si And what’s your point you idiot?

    • @teamrockettes
      @teamrockettes 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      lmao. but i'm also mad at whoever put that wig on her.

    • @Expatnema
      @Expatnema 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Andy Zaturno
      Thats nicole. Man she is old now

  • @weshasawi
    @weshasawi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1568

    Troye is winning life, YES!

    • @tonythomas7009
      @tonythomas7009 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lilac um what

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tonythomas7009 , um what

    • @MorgaineLionett
      @MorgaineLionett 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @ Just shut the fuck up, you worthless piece of garbage. Nobody wants to hear how fucked up your brain is.

    • @napoliongodbless5583
      @napoliongodbless5583 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      wesh asawi
      By app

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MorgaineLionett , You would like to shove it down my throat, wouldn't you? ;)

  • @Bonobo3D
    @Bonobo3D 6 ปีที่แล้ว +779

    Watching this hurts. A young man I know killed himself two years ago. His religious parents put him in a conversion program when he told them, as a teenager, that he was gay.

    • @katarinadreams6955
      @katarinadreams6955 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Bonobo3D God rest his soul

    • @d3vilish_angelx
      @d3vilish_angelx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      im sorry that he committed suicide. its so sad that people still think that homosexuality is bad or disgusting, and they put people through things like that...I dont understand it and it makes me sad

    • @daemonhunter100
      @daemonhunter100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      As a Christian myself it pains me to see young people go through something like that. I do not agree with these 'conversion programs'. They do nothing but do more harm than good. What they truly need is for us to show that we still love them despite their differences.

    • @caterpillarbest9844
      @caterpillarbest9844 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      good, 1 less

    • @stevepierce9152
      @stevepierce9152 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      watched a young man die in our ICU from a tylenol overdose. Parents sent him to gay camp, and when he came back he was still gay, they wanted nothing to do with him, so he overdosed; family was not at his death bed. Just the nurses and aides.

  • @MyvIsLove2
    @MyvIsLove2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I want to live in a world where everyone gets accepted for who they are. no matter their skin, their origin, their sexuality, their interests etc.
    let people live. let them be happy. being happy is the most important thing in life

  • @SleepCove
    @SleepCove 6 ปีที่แล้ว +593

    This therapy is now banned in the UK. Should be banned in every country.

    • @itburns5756
      @itburns5756 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Christopher Fitton
      No, it is not banned in the UK. Conversion therapy remains legal in the UK, and has been described by the BBC as "a fiercely contested topic" and part of a larger "culture war" within the UK. In July 2018, the UK Government announced as part of their LGBT Action Plan that they will "bring forward proposals" to ban conversion therapy. So it probably will be banned but it hasn't happened yet.

    • @jkjqu6805
      @jkjqu6805 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christopher Fitton and what about the Middle East Christopher ?

    • @CaptainCaterpillars
      @CaptainCaterpillars 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      JkJQU - Just because it happens in part of the world doesn’t mean it’s ok. Like they say, two wrongs don’t make a right.
      Slaves are still a thing but it’s not as prevalent as it once was. All progress needs is a start.

    • @SleepCove
      @SleepCove 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It Burns I found the “culture war “ quote from a article from 3 years ago. It was. Regards to nut jobs who want to eradicate gay people. Trust me only a handful of bigots want this in the UK, no one else. It’s child abuse, end of!

    • @SpaceFirebird
      @SpaceFirebird 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So true. All that has been achieved with their so-called "cure" is that some of the patients were so intimidated at the end that they pretended to be heterosexual to please their families, etc. And so they lived unhappily until the end of their days. Sad.

  • @angieharper7173
    @angieharper7173 6 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    My kid can be straight, bi, gay whatever. But the important thing is they grow up to be good people with honest hearts. I also want them to finish college, period.

    • @theconductoresplin8092
      @theconductoresplin8092 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ... 🤔 ... Good point

    • @theconductoresplin8092
      @theconductoresplin8092 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And college is mostly sjw propoganda
      So it's terrible

    • @tsarnicholasii274
      @tsarnicholasii274 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh stfu. You conservitard.

    • @angieharper7173
      @angieharper7173 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Earning a college degree has nothing to do with being a republican or a liberal. It's an investment towards a better future but that is my personal belief. I think most people of Asian descent like me greatly value education.

    • @angieharper7173
      @angieharper7173 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's why I'm of Asian descent. Biracial people are everywhere.

  • @isabelsmith6900
    @isabelsmith6900 6 ปีที่แล้ว +493

    I am a christian. I love God. I do not hate on the LGBTQA+ community.
    As a follower of the love, light, and peace of Jesus Christ, I want to make it my mission on topics like this to let people know they are truly loved the way they are. You are BEAUTIFULLY and WONDERFULLY made. God is love, and love is love.

    • @Clintsessentials
      @Clintsessentials 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very nice

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If God is all about love, why is he against the love between two individuals of the same sex. Oh, wait. The Bible said something about our "love" being lust and sexual immorality. Erm...

    • @null-wj1sd
      @null-wj1sd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you ❤️

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Noa...... Why are you attacking her? She said she doesn't believe in this God, she believes in God who accepts you the way you are. Chill out, she is your friend.

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 Do tell how my response is a personal attack on the individual?

  • @jaethibault7619
    @jaethibault7619 5 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    finally a gay movie that i can cry my little gay heart out too

    • @ndpcoop
      @ndpcoop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm not gay, but it will be a good movie for me to see where I can cry my humanity's heart to. Love and peace to you!

    • @Hellurrrrrr
      @Hellurrrrrr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You need to watch prayers for bobby. 10x more emotional than this one. I gaurantee you will love it! True story starring sigourney weaver.

    • @nonpersonal7006
      @nonpersonal7006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jaelee thibault moonlight is also a good watch though it’s not about coming out

    • @shivanab8103
      @shivanab8103 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am not gay and I don't cry often but this movie truly made me cry

    • @ava-qz3hs
      @ava-qz3hs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i cry at love simon, but that'll only work of you cry at romcoms. it's not as heavy as this movie (based off the trailer i haven't seen this yet lol).

  • @mandy2917
    @mandy2917 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3004

    Christians: "God loves all"
    Also Christians: "God cannot love you if you are gay"

    • @ForumLight
      @ForumLight 6 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      God loves all means He's willing to forgive those who sincerely want forgiveness (which means they will seek to deny themselves and deny their sin nature and follow Him). God doesn't instead ignore someone spitting on that forgiveness, refuse to stop sinning, and say "sin all you want, it doesn't matter". It's why He went to the cross. If we reject that forgiveness because we want to live in sins of any kind, we'll be facing God not only for judgment for our actions, but for refusing His offer to forgive and forget. Please read the gospels again and forget what anyone else has "told" you it says. Eternity depends upon it.

    • @DanielSmith-ou7es
      @DanielSmith-ou7es 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Those who know Scripture,know that God does not love all...He loves His own.He doesn't cast sin into Hell,He casts sinners into Hell.He cannot love sin,or sinners.No where in Scripture does it say this.God in His infinite mercy,made a way for sinners to be reconciled to God,through the sacrifice of His only Son,Jesus Christ.Most "Christians" don't read their Bibles or they wouldn't be spewing out false teachings.God is righteous and holy and cannot look upon our sin.But He is merciful and made a way.One Way,through Christ.Repent means to turn from your sin.And yes,if someone is truly grieved over their sin,ALL sin,they can,through the work of Christ in them,be delivered from sin.He is enough.He is able to do what no man can do.

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@ForumLight We live in such a death defying society. So much so, people like you crave immorality and are willing to believe in heaven. And use hell to motivate religious faith. Be that as it may, it is called faith for a reason. Not facts. You can believe in God all you like. It is no different from having faith that Zeus exists.

    • @ForumLight
      @ForumLight 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Noa...... Although it will not make anyone believe, these are things that prove God is real, that the Bible is divinely inspired, and that we will be without excuse when we face Him to give account for our lifetime of breaking His laws *AND* refusing to be forgiven for it:
      The Bible is the only 'religious' book that dares to make prophecies, almost 2,000 that have come true after the fact of them being written down, even up to thousands of years later, proving it's divine origin. Easily searchable.
      Although it is not a science textbook, there are dozens of facts about reality in the Bible that scientists didn't and couldn't figure out until hundreds and thousands of years later, up to the 1890's, also proving its divine origin. Easily searchable.
      All religious texts were written in one lifetime by one person - the Bible was written over 1,500 years through 40 people and reads as one mind.
      The grave of all false religions' prophets has their bones - the grave of Christ is empty - although they're desperately trying to find it to try discrediting Christianity.
      You can_kill thousands in the name of a false religion like islam, and people of that country will bend over backwards to help you build a church where you did it. You dare mention Christ, hand out a tract, and you're met with the utmost hatred. As Jesus said:
      John 15.18-19 *"[Jesus said]If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you. If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you."*
      People who profess faith in Christ have major changes instantly from the inside out that they were unable to overcome over a lifetime.
      It won't really make people believe who need to reject the truth of God, but we know all we need to know. The world seeks to keep us blind to the truth of God. When we face Him, it won't work to say "well how was I supposed to know?" We know all we need to know and will be without excuse.
      I implore people to re-read the gospels yet again and forget what anyone or any book or any church claims it says. Judgment is coming for us all for breaking God's laws - crimes against God - and refusing His offer to forgive and forget in the person of Jesus Christ. Forgiveness is through Christ Jesus, not through a religion that says we must do what they say to get forgiveness from Christ.

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@ForumLight The claim on truth always seems to rest on religion that you happen to be indocnitninated. Reading the Bible or gospels and feeling God in your heart are not evidence. Of course, you would claim that all of the other 4200 religions are false religions. Faith is just another word for ignorance. I care more about wisdom of mind in rationality. Good day.

  • @PandaOfHearts772
    @PandaOfHearts772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    “They say sometimes you got to hurt a child in order to help them, but a mother knows when something isn’t right.” Nicole Kidman’s acting is going to tear me apart 😭❤️

  • @swiftlylovestruck
    @swiftlylovestruck 6 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    "...a mother knows when something isn't right."

    • @Ianisatool
      @Ianisatool 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dads do too

    • @whispererbordah4991
      @whispererbordah4991 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ianisatool His dad is a piece of shit. I knew him personally.

    • @Ianisatool
      @Ianisatool 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whispererbordah4991 what does that have to do with my or their comment? No offense but just asking.

  • @bek-qg6os
    @bek-qg6os 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    for some reason hearing Troye singing mixed with all the heartbreak in this trailer made me cry

  • @owengraziano7288
    @owengraziano7288 6 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    This looks incredibly hard to watch, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. The idea of conversion therapy is so fucked up and personally I know people who have been very damaged by it. It’s a really rough subject and I’m glad this film doesn’t seem to hold back from that.

    • @xxwolf_hunterxx3801
      @xxwolf_hunterxx3801 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lilac And you know what no one else seems to be agreeing with you so far

    • @AndyLeo
      @AndyLeo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lilac I know what’s more fucked up than CT... YOU ARE. Ignorant fuck

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're f ed up.

    • @AndyLeo
      @AndyLeo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lilac thankyou. Coming from you that means... nothing.

    • @cocoabo3470
      @cocoabo3470 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Y'all are hateful and mad because you never got to express yourselves when you were younger... I feel bad for you guys, honestly. Is straight love any better? According to the Bible, the same one I'm sure we've all read, it basically says that all love is bad. Besides. Most straight people get abortions anyways because they don't want to take care of a child... at least homosexuals actually care about the life God gives us.

  • @newflava89AGAIN
    @newflava89AGAIN 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4464

    I smell *Oscars*

    • @swankhood
      @swankhood 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      YouPube it has two of the greatest actors of all time in it, Nicole and Russell

    • @swankhood
      @swankhood 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jameson WTFE bro

    • @theconductoresplin8092
      @theconductoresplin8092 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      An unorganized mess of a movie

    • @apburner1
      @apburner1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You mean you have a pretty good idea that the virtue signalling will be strong?

    • @theconductoresplin8092
      @theconductoresplin8092 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Unearnd Oscar

  • @MungMung_vivi
    @MungMung_vivi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +581

    *REVELATION by TROYE SIVAN and i heard that GOOD SIDE at the intro OMG I CRY*

    • @김예림유영차준환
      @김예림유영차준환 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      멍멍비비 IK SHSJSJS

    • @eraserboy12345
      @eraserboy12345 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Where can I listen to the whole song?

    • @loveforever1000000
      @loveforever1000000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      멍멍비비 SAME

    • @rjjustice6240
      @rjjustice6240 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      AH I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO HEARD THE GOOD SIDE AND I WAS LIKE AH IM CRAZY

    • @badhabit7553
      @badhabit7553 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Drowning on my own tears.

  • @rinnittt
    @rinnittt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Troye is so good at an American accent oh lawd that fought me off guard 😂

    • @hqunted8660
      @hqunted8660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It kinda makes me uncomfortable 😂😂

    • @mary-td1pe
      @mary-td1pe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmao your profile pic is sick (rogerina Taylor is hot af)

  • @alexandrotirador1385
    @alexandrotirador1385 6 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Calling it:
    Nominations for
    Best Picture
    Best Director
    Best Actor (Lucas Hedges)
    Best Supporting Actress (Nicole Kidman)
    Best Supporting Actor (Russel Crowe)
    Best Adapted Screenplay
    Best Original Song

    • @KelleyBroussardMackaig
      @KelleyBroussardMackaig 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      This will surely give A Star Is Born and Bohemian Rhapsody a run for their money!

  • @Lia.56SN
    @Lia.56SN 6 ปีที่แล้ว +590

    This is based on many many many true stories

    • @LuLu-lh1hz
      @LuLu-lh1hz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Conservative Hamster
      huh. Ive seen more family's ripped apart by conservative parents.
      So maybe you should be less insensitive.
      And look past your own pride to see that there are actually people hurting because of this. And it is not a joke.
      What ever your experience is, im sorry. But saying things like that is hurtful to people and unnecessary.

    • @lysistrata3119
      @lysistrata3119 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what ur doing is wrong please leave

    • @RaymondHng
      @RaymondHng 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      _Boy Erased_ is actually adapted from Garrard Conley's memoir, titled _Boy Erased: A Memoir_ . It is written, co-produced and directed by Joel Edgerton who also stars in the film as the head therapist at a gay conversion therapy program.

    • @mickeymouse2able
      @mickeymouse2able 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      wasn't Rachel McAdams recently in a movie like that? Called "Disobedience". I must see it.

    • @mickeymouse2able
      @mickeymouse2able 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you shouldn't be mean to your mother and father when you come out to them and they can't accept it right away. You must be understanding of them too. Empathy. The people who scream and yell at their parents for not accepting them are just spoiled rotten (usually white hipster and emo kids from the suburbs. They're always mad about something).
      I'm gay and do not feel ashamed. I told my family and they had a hard time with it. But I didn't scream and yell and slam doors like some maniac. My mother was a full on Catholic woman and was embarrassed by my gayness (she passed away). Oh well, it is what it is. God made me and that's not a mistake. I'm not a mistake.

  • @CedarCritter
    @CedarCritter 6 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    I'm just thankful that I was born in a Christian family that still love me even if I'm gay. I wish others were as lucky. :(

    • @cash402
      @cash402 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Cant relate

    • @elainem3102
      @elainem3102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Sounds like your family are true Christians:)

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sounds like your family are FAKE Christians.

    • @CedarCritter
      @CedarCritter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @ Yes, because Christians that still love others no matter what are obviously fake.

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@CedarCritter , Christians who accept homosexuality are FAKE Christians.

  • @sweetbaybabz7463
    @sweetbaybabz7463 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    This movie hurt my soul. I'm still closeted at 26 and I don't know if I'll ever be fully out, but I'm so glad I never had to attend conversion therapy. It is actual psychological abuse. Amazing film and brilliant acting. I'm so glad that Jared made it through alive.

    • @greysonunlucky1876
      @greysonunlucky1876 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm 15 and still in the closet. All I can say to you is that life is short, and it would be a terrible thing for you to spend more of it NOT being your true self than living freely and happily. I hope you can find people in your life who give you the support you need and the courage you need to be your authentic self.

    • @devinpeirce7152
      @devinpeirce7152 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      sweetbaybabz you don't have to be out . Just live your life like anything ! Why do you feel the need to advertise it

    • @paulandrews298
      @paulandrews298 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      sweetbaybabz It’s sad in this day and age that you don’t feel that you can be your true self. Life is too short and before you know it your old and to never have found love would suck.

    • @alexcarlson4344
      @alexcarlson4344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey guys! Have any of you come out in the years since commenting? I hope so, or I hope u have found inner peace and are accepting of urself. There is nothing wrong with being gay, I know the struggles hard, I been through it myself. But please know that other people are always gonna talk, regardless of if ur out or not. People love to gossip. I hope one day that people will be able to never have to “come out”.

    • @jonathanadamson
      @jonathanadamson 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@devinpeirce7152 This question, "why do you feel the need to advertise it," feels like a micro aggression. Maybe it is just ignorance. Coming out isn't about a need to advertise. It's about knowing where it is safe to "just live your life." "Just living your life" as a queer person inevitably "outs" you, and it is helpful to know beforehand where you will be affirmed.

  • @2pintsblu
    @2pintsblu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    Who's ready to cry violently in the cinema?

    • @angelbaby.13
      @angelbaby.13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Not me cuz they'll probably ban it in cinemas here just like they did with love simon cuz people are homophobic af here 😒

    • @silkensampson6774
      @silkensampson6774 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same in my town. Fucking homophobic

    • @amandafrosty
      @amandafrosty 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Malak Sh the same thing happened in my country too I fucking hate this
      Some people want to watch a gay movie some people don't, let the people watch what ever the fuck they want

    • @MACJunkie88
      @MACJunkie88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      too late- already started from this trailer alone

    • @angelbaby.13
      @angelbaby.13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amanda Pereira IKRRRRRR! where are u from btw?

  • @milesgreen7853
    @milesgreen7853 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    TROYE SIVAN IN A COMING OUT MOVIE?! TAKE MY MONEY!!!

  • @Seetha-Golden
    @Seetha-Golden 6 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    Timothee Chalamet: BEAUTIFUL BOY
    Armie Hammer: ON THE BASIS OF SEX / SORRY TO BOTHER YOU
    Saoirse Ronan: MARY QUEEN OF SCOTS
    Lucas Hedges: BOY ERASED
    Luca Guadagnino: SUSPIRIA
    *This year is AWESOME!*

    • @nikayalazuli
      @nikayalazuli 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Seetha Golden don't forget A Star Is Born

    • @midkrylegda7887
      @midkrylegda7887 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Emma Stone: The Favourite
      Damien Chazelle/Ryan Gosling: First Man
      Barry Jenkins: If Beale Street Could Talk

    • @truesniver5633
      @truesniver5633 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      don't forget love simon

    • @joaomarcos8466
      @joaomarcos8466 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nikaya Lazuli The only nominations I care about are Phoenix You were never really here, Gyllenhaal or Ahmed or C Reilly Sisters brothers, Bale, Adams or Rockwell Backseat, Pattinson for anything since the Dicaprio or De Niro, Pacino, Plemons only come out next year

    • @joaomarcos8466
      @joaomarcos8466 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      MidKry LeGda The only nominations I care about are Phoenix You were never really here, Gyllenhaal or Ahmed or C Reilly Sisters brothers, Bale, Adams or Rockwell Backseat, Pattinson for anything since the Dicaprio or De Niro, Pacino, Plemons only come out next year

  • @harrybharat2303
    @harrybharat2303 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I'm not even gay but this trailer breaks my heart!

    • @marissaburdock6550
      @marissaburdock6550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You don't have to be gay for it to upset you

    • @z.m7483
      @z.m7483 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The world would better when there is man and women. When men turn to softy and lost, the world is doomed. Period.

    • @z.m7483
      @z.m7483 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why you keep deleting my comment? Are you lost too? Looser.

  • @BreyonnaMorgan18
    @BreyonnaMorgan18 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3019

    Thank God, that I was able to lie well enough to not get sent to one of these.

    • @jodiepickelshmit1071
      @jodiepickelshmit1071 6 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Breyonna Morgan I’ve been through the same thing. This is a sad and bitter reality in the world.

    • @RubiconV
      @RubiconV 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Maybe it would have helped? This is a just a movie. It's not real.

    • @BreyonnaMorgan18
      @BreyonnaMorgan18 6 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      Rubicon V Helped What? I've seen "But I'm a Cheerleader." I've seen the aftermath of an exorcism. I've lived through getting it beaten out of me. What would a place like that have done to help me besides taking my religion from me?

    • @jodiepickelshmit1071
      @jodiepickelshmit1071 6 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Rubicon V ??? Elaborate conversion therapy is real and in humane

    • @sachertorte1000
      @sachertorte1000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      Hey, Rubicon, you dumbass. "Conversion therapy" is definitely REAL and the film was BASED ON A TRUE STORY.

  • @vinigoeswest
    @vinigoeswest 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1504

    Am I the only one cutting onions while watching this?

  • @heyitsleila765
    @heyitsleila765 6 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    oscar nominations committee has entered the chat

    • @kennedythedford9102
      @kennedythedford9102 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Academy Award for best song

    • @yahyarazi5597
      @yahyarazi5597 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kennedythedford9102 ikr this song fits so perfectly

    • @neilgodfrey2669
      @neilgodfrey2669 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oscar nominations committee didn’t give a shit

    • @sandymoreno1517
      @sandymoreno1517 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Neil Godfrey 😂

  • @rey7318
    @rey7318 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I just watched the movie in cable. It made my cry a lot, because I'm a bi girl in Orthodox Greece :(

    • @connietopia239
      @connietopia239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you go girl❤️όλα καλά θα πάνε

    • @iknowwhatyoudid9979
      @iknowwhatyoudid9979 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Κουράγιο φίλη, κάποια στιγμή θα συνέλθει αυτή η χώρα 😀

    • @SirFaceFone
      @SirFaceFone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ironic, because your ancestors were Hella gay.

    • @iknowwhatyoudid9979
      @iknowwhatyoudid9979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SirFaceFone 🤣🤣🤣 Say that to the macho Greek guys

  • @andregayle
    @andregayle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I was brought up as a jehova's witness and this rings so close to home.. especially the part where the father said "we are not done" and he said "I am, because you won't listen..." That was the exchange with my own father that broke my heart for a long time...

    • @sofiarupil7746
      @sofiarupil7746 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      wow

    • @blossom3970
      @blossom3970 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      My family too :c

    • @ateezbeaches7151
      @ateezbeaches7151 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Andre Gayle my mom and dad are both Jehovah’s witnesses too but I think they’re cool with it since my dad has been asking me if I’m a lesbian since years ago but I denied everytime he asked because I’m not ready to explain yet

    • @angelad.9853
      @angelad.9853 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eerimen Bzej Why do you care if they dont reporduce? Do you WANT this world to be croweded with to many people?

    • @jewelrylover2958
      @jewelrylover2958 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Eerimen Bzej definitely not

  • @gabrielleantille8008
    @gabrielleantille8008 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    See the issue here isn’t religion but people who decide to use religion to justify their anger or hate. This movie is going to be so meaningful to so many. I’m very much looking forward to seeing it next week

  • @AngelofMusic04
    @AngelofMusic04 6 ปีที่แล้ว +524

    Between "Boy Erased" and "Suspiria", November 2nd is going to be a really heavy day.

    • @maziebunny2
      @maziebunny2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      hey now, don't forget Bohemian Rhapsody. and I fear Best Actor will be very heavy for me as I aim to keep my winning streak going.

    • @AngelofMusic04
      @AngelofMusic04 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      maziebunny2 Honestly, I left that one out because of all the problems behind the scenes. I'm still excited for it because Rami Malek looks like he's going to be great as Mercury, but between the drama involving Bryan Singer and the talk that the movie neuters who Freddie Mercury was outside of Queen, my excitement has gone to cautious.

    • @alexisrenisia5126
      @alexisrenisia5126 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Will C why don’t you just watch both instead?

    • @AngelofMusic04
      @AngelofMusic04 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Khaleesi That's my plan for that day. Or technically evening since I know the indie theaters around L.A. will do screenings on November 1st.

    • @maziebunny2
      @maziebunny2 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      and in my town, they do early bird showings for the important ones. and I have a feeling that this and Bohemian Rhapsody will get that treatment and that'll start my Oscar season (which officially is November 1st) right.

  • @Blondie16
    @Blondie16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    At my old school a boy would come up to me and tell me that he was gonna pray me straight and that I was disgusting.

    • @shikhasaha8166
      @shikhasaha8166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Virtual hugs 🤗. Hope you're doing great now..

    • @Blondie16
      @Blondie16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sairindhree saha thank you!!!

    • @Blondie16
      @Blondie16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shikhasaha8166 I'm doing much better now!!!

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like reading the Bible just to quote their own propaganda back to them. :)
      "Judge not, lest ye be judged"

  • @pwrbttmbarb
    @pwrbttmbarb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    I am gay, and I am living in a Christian household. I feel like I'm hiding a HUGE part of my life by not telling my parents, and they've already said that I will not be gay in this house. I've already chosen to move out when I'm 18 bc I can't take it anymore I don't want to hide and lie about who I truly am. I've told my friends and they accept me but not my church friends or any of my family, but I really hope someday that will change.

    • @larisachushparova
      @larisachushparova 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Natsuki is best girl good people think well, bad people think badly, homosexuals think wrong! 😝

    • @larisachushparova
      @larisachushparova 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Natsuki is best girl change what? you belive you only one who has the problems? 😝

    • @TomYafai
      @TomYafai 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Natsuki is best girl everything will be OK in the end. Trust me❤️

    • @AtlantisTheLostEmpire
      @AtlantisTheLostEmpire 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Just a suggestion Natsuki, wait until you move out before you tell them, that way if they do reject ya you'll have somewhere to go and won't have all ya stuff piled up on the curb with no where to go.

    • @luizrcs
      @luizrcs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don't know your beliefs or thoughts, but... Everything IS already fine, NOTHING bad is gonna happen. You ARE a great person, you CAN love anyone you feel you DO. Just like that, everybody's got to learn sometime

  • @tamagoswirl
    @tamagoswirl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1156

    I don’t know why I’m crying in the club rn

    • @BIGFREAKYMAN
      @BIGFREAKYMAN 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ... you aren't

    • @fade535
      @fade535 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Cause you are not in the club lol

    • @Samoa21
      @Samoa21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did that really happen though?

    • @briansco17
      @briansco17 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ain’t no crying in the club... ay ay let the beat carry your tears into ecstasy 🤣

    • @semperrugfy4746
      @semperrugfy4746 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Reioki look this is incredible th-cam.com/video/3Bzz4tNcp-I/w-d-xo.html

  • @kiowalinks16
    @kiowalinks16 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I can relate to a certain extend. My father was the one that was so accepting and loving, he welcomed my partner and I, embraced us with open arms (the best part is that he was Catholic (may my papa's soul r.i.p.🙇🏼‍♂️)). My mother was the one that hurt me the most. The one that was suppose to be my support pillar and show unconditional love, did none of it😶. She was the one that tested my strength and to say, I am stronger than I was before and more proud to be a homosexual, multiracial male🏳️‍🌈. We won't be silenced nor be oppressed🚫.

    • @kiowalinks16
      @kiowalinks16 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Brutus Augustus You don't know even a quarter of the things I had to go through, with and without her. It is quick to say something without going deeper into the matter. Plus what do you mean by 'wanted your soul saved'👀?

    • @devinpeirce7152
      @devinpeirce7152 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kiowa Links she wanted you not to get aids

    • @hizon525
      @hizon525 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brutus Augustus
      Would you still say that if it was the mother who was accepting and not the father

  • @lyanneth
    @lyanneth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I just love how angry and done Troye looks in the trailer

  • @evane179
    @evane179 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This reminds me of how scared I was to tell my parents. They're still critical of it, but my goodness they're a lot more accepting of it than some people. This trailer is some powerful stuff.
    I'm not crying. You're crying. It's just the onions ;-;

    • @gjaneth30
      @gjaneth30 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yo-Yo Master th-cam.com/video/r5z1ebn7y_w/w-d-xo.html

  • @rosesivan1140
    @rosesivan1140 6 ปีที่แล้ว +661

    OMG TROYE'S ACCENT IS MY LIFE.

    • @kyrie8675
      @kyrie8675 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looks like a little pre pubescent boy

    • @ireneirene7868
      @ireneirene7868 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YESSS

    • @Tessa-rp6je
      @Tessa-rp6je 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love him

    • @onedirectioner123432
      @onedirectioner123432 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rose sivan OMG TOTALLY AGREE! At first I was like... something is odd about troye... hmm i wonder whaOMG HIS ACCENT

    • @punchisclap
      @punchisclap 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      shut the fuck up you big wuss

  • @IsaiahSchultz
    @IsaiahSchultz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I just hope against all hope that this movie doesn't end in a death or suicide.... I'm just so exhausted by all the sadness in the world right now; we don't need another LGBT movie that ends in tragedy.

    • @adam-ll1yf
      @adam-ll1yf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Isaiah Schultz Well the man who wrote the memoir is still alive today, and wrote the screenplay for this movie as well. So I think we’re at least a little bit safe.

    • @PADARM
      @PADARM 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      it has a happy ending. search Garrard Conley the real guy

    • @libbyp.1631
      @libbyp.1631 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I feel like im the only LGBT person who likes the dark depressing movies

    • @abuzarzunnaiyyer4479
      @abuzarzunnaiyyer4479 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isaiah Schultz by can you plzz tell me the song name ( Revelation))

    • @masonallen3961
      @masonallen3961 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We can only hope but a lot of these stories don't having happy endings. Conversion Therapy is very harmful to a person and can be deadly. That's why it needs to end.

  • @a_space_01
    @a_space_01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am so fucking lucky to have been born in an accepting family. I was so nervous about coming out because being gay was never really talked about in my family, but when I told my parents that I wanted to ask a girl to homecoming, they were so supportive. I've been out for almost three years to my family (not my extended family since they aren't as accepting) and I really couldn't be happier. I can't imagine what these kids go through when their family isn't supportive and they send them to a conversion therapist. It makes me so mad knowing that there are kids who feel like they have no one to talk to about their sexuality. If you truly loved your child, you would accept them no matter what.

  • @sammylee5474
    @sammylee5474 6 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    I screamed as soon as I saw Troye Sivan

    • @MiMi-wc6sg
      @MiMi-wc6sg 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sammy Lee I DROPPED MY PHONE BSCNCKCM

    • @RaymondHng
      @RaymondHng 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Did you detect "The Good Side" in the first 28 seconds?

    • @sara-maudea.1306
      @sara-maudea.1306 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME

    • @shade5848
      @shade5848 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      HOLY SHET IM BOUT TO COMMENT THE SAME

    • @reallycristina6201
      @reallycristina6201 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      RaymondHng started crying when i heard it 😭

  • @Jimmerca
    @Jimmerca 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    This conversion crap needs to end !! It’s very important for stories like this to be told and to get the truth out. Big huge thank to everyone involved in this 🎥 👍🏻🤠👍🏻🏳️‍🌈

  • @hiimsky4381
    @hiimsky4381 6 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    It’s heartbreaking that people use religion as an excuse for discrimination. No religion is supposed to be used for hatred. Not Judaism. Not Catholicism. Not Islam. Religion is a peaceful understanding of the creation of the world and a higher power. It isn’t bigotry and hatred. It’s loving everybody, because that’s how people’s god or gods created people. And they did it that way for a reason. I’m a confirmed catholic but I’m not very religious because I just don’t know what I believe or feel. But religion helps a lot of people, just not this way.

    • @fionaanimates8692
      @fionaanimates8692 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, I'm Sky AGREED! AGREED! Couldn’t have said it better myself!

    • @jewelrylover2958
      @jewelrylover2958 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Conservative Hamster you're fucking crazy. I'm Muslim as well and I definitely don't support that. You sound like a crazy extremist

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is clear that you are not aware of the verses that centre around homosexuals and acts of homosexuality. Both Christianity and Islam do not support the rights of LGBT individuals. With that said, many do cherry-pick parts of their religion to suit their interests, likes, dislikes and political agenda. And there is no objective and concrete evidence that Gods even exists.

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ORIGINAL BIBLE = TRUTH.

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Conservative Hamster is correct and speaks THE TRUTH IN ALL.

  • @peanutbutter6594
    @peanutbutter6594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I cried watching this movie for the first time on a crowded plane and just watching the trailer.........like omfg I'm sobbing at one minute

  • @hearttcar6453
    @hearttcar6453 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This is really an eye opener. Plus Troye! Omg. Enough pretending. This is not a choice! This is who we are. This is not a moment.

  • @dorcaswg5726
    @dorcaswg5726 6 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    This is so heartbreaking as a Christian I sincerely apologize to any person in the lgbt community that has to endure this these people are wrong you are worthy of love anyone who preaches hate was not preaching the words of Jesus

    • @Paolo-uq3fc
      @Paolo-uq3fc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I don't have an issue with gay people etc, but if you are going to bring religion into it the bible very clearly condemns homosexuality.

    • @leocadieux6781
      @leocadieux6781 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dorcas Gitimu It’s mainly because of Christianity if there is always homophobia in the world (or at least the Western world) 😑

    • @colbywhittlesey7247
      @colbywhittlesey7247 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dorcas Gitimu right . GOD loves all his children .

    • @colbywhittlesey7247
      @colbywhittlesey7247 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Tit Cheese of course . But it condemns many other things as well . Sin is sin . And it is no man or women's business to shame or throw stones at others . If you believe in Jesus you treat everyone with respect and let God do the judging . If you sit around and judge everyone you are really only hurting your own soul and could end up in hell just for judging . 🤷‍♀️ people who claim to know God and judge people and treat people nasty are disconnected from Jesus and his true teachings .

    • @reginaphalange9417
      @reginaphalange9417 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the problem is that no one should at first impose its religious view on anyone, if a religion says that homosexuality is a sin, everyone can still believe in something but outside this religion, that's simple

  • @mothra__13
    @mothra__13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Watched for Kidman, but now am interested in this movie as a whole. It is sad that subjective dogma supercedes some people's innate conditional love for their kin.

    • @loganpeterjones
      @loganpeterjones 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      For their kin? So you're not only defending homosexuality but also incest (hashtag gross)

  • @user-wh3vj3vo2j
    @user-wh3vj3vo2j 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Troys voice made me so emotional, he is perfect for the soundtrack because he feels the lyrics

  • @bhaktichohan4949
    @bhaktichohan4949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Troye in this movie is going to make it extra special for me!

  • @casinosnoopy9900
    @casinosnoopy9900 6 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I was 32 years old when I finally found the strength to tell my parents, Nov. 10th 1998, a day I could never ever forget. The hardest thing I've ever done.

    • @shelbybooker1478
      @shelbybooker1478 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Did it get better? After you told them?

    • @casinosnoopy9900
      @casinosnoopy9900 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      My Dad had a bit of a rough time coming to grips with it, but he did. A few years later he told my partner that he loved him. The weight of the world on my shoulders was relieved on that Nov. day. Thanks for asking.

    • @alvarizky713
      @alvarizky713 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      how brave of u, how r u doing now?

    • @casinosnoopy9900
      @casinosnoopy9900 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What a waste of oxygen you are, Dmitry Zhukov

    • @casinosnoopy9900
      @casinosnoopy9900 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Doing well, thank you.

  • @camerakid92
    @camerakid92 6 ปีที่แล้ว +552

    I came out to my family and friends publicly about a month ago and I’m so thankful I didn’t have to deal with any of this.

    • @nestorv7627
      @nestorv7627 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what did they say?

    • @camerakid92
      @camerakid92 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      NestorV S everyone loves me no matter what and said it doesn’t change how they feel about me which is amazing. It feels so free to just be yourself.

    • @suchetadutta1570
      @suchetadutta1570 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congrats...

    • @camerakid92
      @camerakid92 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wood van thank you :)

    • @camerakid92
      @camerakid92 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sucheta Ghosh thanks! :)

  • @martinrobinson9061
    @martinrobinson9061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Just watched this. Its was unreal so deep and upsetting. Its really really great film. Can't believe this goes on. It must be stopped. Thank you all for making this film.

  • @MarcosIsABaritone
    @MarcosIsABaritone 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "...but a mother knows when something isn't right." And this is when the tears started flowing.

  • @muqaddaszaheer108
    @muqaddaszaheer108 6 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    Well that’s a smart idea! Let’s put a lot of gay guys together in one place to tell them to not fancy them 😂😊 Can’t wait to watch ✔️

    • @jeminkim5146
      @jeminkim5146 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Muqaddas Zaheer why all Muslims r homophobic
      Disgusting

    • @Skyler_Momoko
      @Skyler_Momoko 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I know right. Putting a bunch of gay guys in a CAMP together of all places...

    • @jesscateyesquad
      @jesscateyesquad 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Muqaddas Zaheer hahaa yeah when you put it like that seems impracticle 😂😂😂

    • @jesscateyesquad
      @jesscateyesquad 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also reported a really horrible comment hooe you did not have to see stupid thing someone wrote

    • @hadeed-_-5678
      @hadeed-_-5678 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Muqaddas Zaheer Can't believe that's all you have to say after watching something like this.

  • @nftglobal
    @nftglobal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    Troye🖤

    • @theconductoresplin8092
      @theconductoresplin8092 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      In this world it
      Yeet or be *YEETED*
      What will you 🅱️ *E*

  • @perulovesllamas3928
    @perulovesllamas3928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    What if he was gay for god?
    Aren’t priests gay for god?

    • @ndpcoop
      @ndpcoop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Oooooh, this comment is the very best one!!!!! Snap!

    • @perulovesllamas3928
      @perulovesllamas3928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lilac but whhyyyy??????

    • @garryfrost6293
      @garryfrost6293 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good point!!!

    • @Amateur_Ambiance
      @Amateur_Ambiance 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This has to be a stupid ass question. They don’t want to have sex with God. Dumbass.

    • @TheBlessedPlanner
      @TheBlessedPlanner 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Amateur_Ambiance e
      Exactly

  • @lukesbeans
    @lukesbeans 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1155

    Troye always plays someone depressed. Stop it.

    • @arabella.1975
      @arabella.1975 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Luke Benson that’s right.. troye is me

    • @advicemany2000
      @advicemany2000 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Luke Benson instagram vadimizkerchi instagram kerchideavadim. TH-cam Vadim Ymnik. Kerch city Crimea Russia

    • @caroled3943
      @caroled3943 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol Luke I thought the same thing

    • @crazyXninjaXfishy
      @crazyXninjaXfishy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      shriner leek Excuse me, Missy! This is a CHRISTIAN TH-cam server!

    • @da96103
      @da96103 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      But is Troye depressed here? He seemed to be more defiant that depressed.

  • @lilochanger
    @lilochanger 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I love Nicole Kidman in these mom roles

  • @klaraholmer7409
    @klaraholmer7409 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Got emotional the second "the Good Side" started playing, sooo exited for this !!

  • @evanreiter747
    @evanreiter747 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was an absolutely beautiful movie. It breaks my heart that 35 states allow this. True Christians do not hate. I waited until I was 22 to come out and I am so happy I did. Some aren’t accepting but it doesn’t make us any less of a person for the person who we love. I hope one day all across the world everyone can be with whom they want. No hate. No more camps. Just love and happiness

    • @cobieguillen744
      @cobieguillen744 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It broke me too. As a gay Christian I want to try and change this. I know I might be met with but this is violating our 1st Amendment! Honestly though is forcefully changing someone just because they're gay, etc. really a right? Wouldn't that be violating the victims rights? Now if there are those that volunteer to go to these, than that is a whole different story.

  • @annm4137
    @annm4137 6 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    Terrible that this is a reality for some young men and women.

    • @kinguoth3867
      @kinguoth3867 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ann M my life

    • @annm4137
      @annm4137 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      hon ty, I hope you have other people in your life who are accepting of you. The people who don't love and accept you for who you are don't deserve you and are wrong.

    • @kinguoth3867
      @kinguoth3867 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ann M thanks but I don't 💕

    • @annm4137
      @annm4137 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      hon ty, I'm sorry, it shouldn't be that way for you. I know nothing about you and you know nothing about me, but know you aren't alone.

    • @kinguoth3867
      @kinguoth3867 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ann M ik ur amazing person + I can't even watch this movie 💔☺

  • @geekyfangirl2951
    @geekyfangirl2951 6 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    I’m in tears watching this. This movie hits extremely close to home for me. This is how my parents are. I once asked my mom what would happen if me or one of siblings turned out to be lgbtq+ and she said that that child would have to talk to our bishop and tell him why we chose to sin and I asked if that child would be kicked out or sent to therapy...she said yes and this is the reason why I probably won’t ever come out as bi I’m legitimately terrified of her or my dad finding out.

    • @beccahamilton21
      @beccahamilton21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Geeky Fangirl I was in the same spot you are. I was terrified to come out, terrified of what my family would say. But over the years, I’ve gotten older and my passion for my community couldn’t be pushed back. Fifteen years later, I’m completely out. It’s not perfect, far from it, but I’ve gotten support from people that I never thought I’d get it from. It’s a horrible thing to hide yourself but it won’t last forever. Believe me.

    • @ricksanchez1149
      @ricksanchez1149 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Don't run from who you are, embrace yourself and love yourself for the awesome person you are. No one is to blame here, we can't blame ourselves for how we feel and believe and we can't blame them for those same reasons, because if we did we'd be just as bad. It's not gonna be easy but keep your head up and keep moving forward. #MuchLove#Suppport#OnePeople

    • @mickeymouse2able
      @mickeymouse2able 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      oh my God! Are you kidding? I come from a Catholic latino background and it was very machismo. My mother hated the fact I was gay. They basically told me "it's okay, but we don't want to hear about it". So I found my own community and "family" etc. Never a question from family if I have a boyfriend, etc.
      When "Love, Simon" came out in the theaters I wanted to go with my sister. She said she didn't want to see that movie. She was tired of always seeing gay characters, and transgender, etc. in movies and television. She said it was being overdone (!!!). Can you imagine?? Meanwhile almost every freakin' movie and television show has a straight couple loving each other and speaking romantically. I'm bombarded with straight couples everywhere and one history making movie (first mainstream big screen movie about a gay teen (Love, Simon)) makes my sister angry. What kind of a double standard is THAT?
      Am I rambling? Sorry. The point is, just because you're meeting with obstacles (we all are) just keep pushing forward and don't let people get you down, even if they ARE family members.

    • @geekyfangirl2951
      @geekyfangirl2951 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      mickeymouse2able I know it’s just hard for me because she has agreed with other people about kicking lgbtq+ people out of homes and I have so many health problems and disability (I can’t a job due to stress migraines) that I can’t really fend for myself if I was kicked out that’s a huge reason why I’m so scared to tell them.

    • @mickeymouse2able
      @mickeymouse2able 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      oh. I'm sorry. It's hard. It's none of my business, but you need to come out when YOU"RE ready not when other people tell you. There are people coming out and re-inventing their lives at 60, 70, 80!!!! When I was only out to my friends and some co-workers I educated myself on LGBTQ his / herstory. So much history out there. Movies like "The Celluloid Closet" (about the history of LGBTQ representation in motion pictures from the dawn of film until 1993 (movie came out in 1993)). Notice how I keep using the word "out".
      Do they have a LGBTQ Center where you live I found the one in New York City (where I live) quite by accident. How about a Pride Parade? Next year in June 2019 should be a BIG one since it's the 50th anniversary of Stonewall.

  • @erinmcdonald1509
    @erinmcdonald1509 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "I've had to ask myself and God if I'm ready to lose you" - terrible that it has to come to that...

  • @whispererbordah4991
    @whispererbordah4991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The dad in this film, Hershel"Marshall" Conley is now the pastor of The Bridge Baptist Church in Mountain Home, AR. He preaches NOTHING but hate against every single kind of person he doesnt like or doesn't agree with him. I used to go to his church when I was a kid. Ive met Garrard and his mother and they are both wonderful people.

  • @RitayanBandyopadhyay
    @RitayanBandyopadhyay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    And the song... #Revelation by Troye Sivan...it will be mind blowing ...can't wait for the song...

  • @Ellieism
    @Ellieism 6 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    "they sent you to fix you but you're perfectly normal"
    this line just hit me.

    • @kappachino2569
      @kappachino2569 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh when Anakin said "I don't like send" that line hit me in the feels harder then a fault in our stars

    • @larisachushparova
      @larisachushparova 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      good people think well, bad people think badly, homosexuals think wrong! 😝

    • @whyisgamora4191
      @whyisgamora4191 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nate Bullard Why are you even here? Are you just here to comment shit like that?

    • @whyisgamora4191
      @whyisgamora4191 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There's no truth in any of what you just said, buddy.

    • @whyisgamora4191
      @whyisgamora4191 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Of course not, I just happen to know the definition of 'truth', ''in accordance with fact''. Bible writings and personal beliefs aren't facts

  • @NesquickBunny
    @NesquickBunny 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Troye Sivan in this movie
    This movie is *straight* perfect.

    • @stephaneconstant1302
      @stephaneconstant1302 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      maybe one of the best of 2018 i know it cause i saw all movies ever made and for free since i became a boxxy software usert

  • @Sl0thba11
    @Sl0thba11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This makes me cry so hard because that’s how I feel and I can’t help it and my parents are Christian and we’ve had this conversation before and my mom sent me to therapy because she thought it would fix but it’s just made me more confident in myself but both my parents think that I’m over it when I’m not

  • @corathus59
    @corathus59 6 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    In my years before retirement I counseled many survivors of these programs. There has to be a special place in hell for any parent who would send their own child to such torment.

    • @AV41388
      @AV41388 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ooooooo

    • @PADARM
      @PADARM 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg

    • @danieldidonato3881
      @danieldidonato3881 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But you would have no problem sending a pedophile to such a place would you?

    • @ativoflegacy
      @ativoflegacy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      well thats a completely different thing

    • @SimonLeeds
      @SimonLeeds 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Daniel DiDonato one is consenting. The other is not. You’re too young to understand. Stay in school kid.

  • @ch3rrywav35
    @ch3rrywav35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    Awwwww the song is so beautiful go TROYE👏👏

    • @mikel1814
      @mikel1814 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's with jonsi from Sigur Ros - sounds like mostly a jonsi composition but it's great with Troye on it

    • @ch3rrywav35
      @ch3rrywav35 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michael Foley Yh I know it’s cause I only heard troye

    • @ch3rrywav35
      @ch3rrywav35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Can X I’m assuming it will be in the soundtrack to the movie which will be released when the movie is cause it’s not in Troyes new album, unless it’s released as a single

    • @mikel1814
      @mikel1814 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's not listed in the tracklist for Troyes new album coming August 31. So it must be a stand alone song for the film soundtrack

    • @ch3rrywav35
      @ch3rrywav35 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can X ikrrrr, like I love his pop songs and all but his calm ones are really nice too

  • @atomicelk2307
    @atomicelk2307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I got chills every time Nicole Kidman spoke. She’s so talented!

    • @swankhood
      @swankhood 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's sure to get a Oscar nomination

    • @health1568
      @health1568 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ironic that nicole was molested by her father

  • @DorEnErnil
    @DorEnErnil 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I literally JUST realized that most if this cast is Australian.