Give yourself more grace. You don't have to start over. Just turn the page, and you get to write the rest of your story with all of the experiences you've had. ❤
I just watched this part of vlog back and I put the “over” in quotations mark when I was speaking because I acknowledge that I’m not. I am moving forward all with all my experiences, with joy and with gratitude. I’m not sad or beating myself up about anything that’s happened in my life. I just wanted to pick a title that would be strong and resonate with people in similar seasons ❤
I so needed this! 38, single, have kids, own my home but feels like I need to start over. Definitely not where I expected to be at this age, your content, “realness” and transparency is so needed!! Thank you I am a fan!!
I'm 35, and I lived with my mother and young son and I've decided to take on a brand new career path in medical coding last year after many years of going in circles. MANY of us dont have it all together. I love watching your vlogs. I see so much of myself in you. Keep going!
This is exactly why I wanted to speak about this. I know so many of us can resonate with the concept of “starting over”. I don’t know you but I am SO proud of you for taking this leap and I trust that it will all be worth it in the end. Keep going too 🩷
Your title defo made me click! And the thumbnail… it’s speaks 😊… im 36.. going to be 37in Nov, and defo don’t have it all together… but the journey continues! Gods got us ❤
Happy Sunday lovelies! Don’t forget to check out my description box for links to everything featured in today’s vlog including outfits, products and more! 🫶
Starting Over in My 30's is a good title for the season of your life that you are in; I like it. The Everyday People Event was my favorite part of this week's vlog. It looked like so much fun!
I just discovered you and like you said the title, starting over in my 30s drew me. Despite me being a newly 30s babe, I think we are always starting over every single decade we start. ❤
Starting over at any age is very relatable and commendable. Social media, in my opinion, makes it seem like 'most' people of any age have achieved certain things which is most likely not the reality of most people who would care to admit it.
Aww sis I really loved this vlog! You are living your purpose and I am so proud of you!! I feel privileged that you share bits of your life with us, because you are literally blossoming right before our eyes. I know God has so much more in store for you 🤎🤎🤎
Hi Ifeyinwa, I just wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude for everything you do. Your transparency and vulnerability truly inspire me and encourage me on my journey. I’m also starting anew in my 30's, having recently moved to the US from Nigeria. Currently, I’m single, job-hunting, and living with my cousin while I navigate this new chapter of my life. There are moments when I feel like I’m not measuring up, but watching your vlogs has been a bright spot for me. You really feel like a blessing in my life! By the way, you look amazing! I can’t believe you’re turning 37-you definitely don't look it! Thank you for being you.
I am so happy you shared this comment. Picking up your life to move internationally is extremely challenging (and I say this as someone who’s done it several times myself) give yourself grace and be patient with yourself. Settling in takes TIME but before you know it, all the things you worry about now will be a distant memory. I am so proud of you 🩷
I just stumbled on your channel and I’m grateful i did….I’m going to be 31 in October and here i was beating myself up that everything about me came late I graduated late compared to my younger sisters and most of my friends but I’m grateful for everything I lost a friend recently who just got married a month ago and it made me take things slow and easy……when its time everything will play out without stress ❤❤
We're here for the long haul. thank you for sharing your life with us and for being vulnerable. I remember being made redundant about 1.5 years ago, I thought life was ending lol but I look back and see how God has restored in so many ways. Life has its ups and downs but one thing that is constant is God's faithfulness towards us and his love for us. I appreciate you.
Lovely and I agree with the comment on "turning the page"...I too believe that this is just yet another chapter or season of the whole story as opposed to starting the story from scratch (if you get what i mean)..but then again, starting over can be the title of the new chapter so either way it works lol x
Thanks hun, the concept of “the next chapter or turning the page” is beautiful and it’s actually a more accurate representation of how I feel in this season to be honest (as you know lol) I acknowledge that I’m 100% not starting from scratch lol but I think I’ll stick with the “starting over” title for now
"Dear Ifeyinwa, remember that you are stronger than any challenge you face. Life may feel overwhelming at times, but within you is the resilience to rise above it all. Take each day one step at a time, knowing that even in the toughest moments, you are growing. Your journey is unique, and brighter days are ahead. Trust the process and trust in yourself-you've got this." Much ❤
OMG THANK YOU! I 100% believe everything you’ve said. I’ve grown so much this year and my days are ALREADY so much brighter. So thank you. I love that I have a community of likeminded people. This is so amazing 🥲
I’m 32 and feel like God wants me to view your video. Feel myself getting desperate and ready to give up but God is still writing my story and yours and every person who feels they should be further along by now ❤
You looked lovely for everyday people dance I’m one of those people to that is eager to give thing away that was so nice of your friend I’m so happy when I see that you post ❤❤❤
Ahh yesss this vlog was awesome. I loved the intro!! You looked sooo nice or everyday ppl - I'm going to try and go to the next one it looked good lol. Love your explanation behind renaming of the vlogs, really intresting to hear the logic behind how this impacts traffic to channels. Your outfit for the lunch at Nobu was stunning btw! You really are glowing and its lovely being on the journey seeing you evolve into your best self. Btw - every makeup look in this vlog was stunninggg, have you changed your routine? Would be lovely to see a GRWM :D xxx
Honestly it was interesting for me to hear my thought out loud especially when I was editing it. I don’t ever plan what I’m going to say or do in my vlogs. This just started as an experiment but it actually subconsciously helped me find an important purpose with my vlogs and that’s been so fulfilling too 🫶🏾
It's funny but not because I just recently left a horrible relationship, I was drained and have felt unfulfilled for the longest and the first thing that came to mind was "starting over in my 30s" after I decided to walk away from the whole situation ... I know it might be hard but me, you and others who feel one way or another will be alright God willing ... Slow and steady 🤞 I love your vlogs I live in Nigeria
You will ABSOLUTELY be ok hun, in fact I’d argue you’d be better off without a horrible relationship. One day at a time is the best way to approach it. It gets easier with time 🫶🏾
@@charn888 aww thank you so much for the suggestions but I don’t thinks these would work for my vlog series name.. I would not highlight being single because “Staring over” for me encompasses so much more than just that. I’m pretty happy with “starting over” and it’s performing pretty well for now. But these are great ideas for subject matter to speak about within the vlogs if that makes sense, so thank you!
3:16 why not use boob tape to hold the bodice in place in front and in back? Caveat: I’ve never actually used boob tape but isn’t that how the double-sided ones are supposed to work?
Give yourself more grace. You don't have to start over. Just turn the page, and you get to write the rest of your story with all of the experiences you've had. ❤
I just watched this part of vlog back and I put the “over” in quotations mark when I was speaking because I acknowledge that I’m not. I am moving forward all with all my experiences, with joy and with gratitude. I’m not sad or beating myself up about anything that’s happened in my life. I just wanted to pick a title that would be strong and resonate with people in similar seasons ❤
I so needed this! 38, single, have kids, own my home but feels like I need to start over. Definitely not where I expected to be at this age, your content, “realness” and transparency is so needed!! Thank you I am a fan!!
I'm 35, and I lived with my mother and young son and I've decided to take on a brand new career path in medical coding last year after many years of going in circles. MANY of us dont have it all together. I love watching your vlogs. I see so much of myself in you. Keep going!
This is exactly why I wanted to speak about this. I know so many of us can resonate with the concept of “starting over”. I don’t know you but I am SO proud of you for taking this leap and I trust that it will all be worth it in the end. Keep going too 🩷
Your title defo made me click! And the thumbnail… it’s speaks 😊… im 36.. going to be 37in Nov, and defo don’t have it all together… but the journey continues! Gods got us ❤
Thank you so much! The older I get the more I realise that we are all figuring out life as we go 💕
Happy Sunday lovelies! Don’t forget to check out my description box for links to everything featured in today’s vlog including outfits, products and more! 🫶
Starting Over in My 30's is a good title for the season of your life that you are in; I like it.
The Everyday People Event was my favorite part of this week's vlog. It looked like so much fun!
Thanks! I like it too! And Everyday People was definitely one of my highlights from last week!
I just discovered you and like you said the title, starting over in my 30s drew me. Despite me being a newly 30s babe, I think we are always starting over every single decade we start. ❤
Yes, I started over in my 30s and now at 40, I'm on another new journey and re-boot.
Have a friend currently going through this. Thanks for sharing & being vulnerable. None of us have it all together.
God bless you kn your journey. 🙏🏾
@@dynamiss12 thank you so much and I pray God blesses your friend too 🙏🏾
Starting over at any age is very relatable and commendable. Social media, in my opinion, makes it seem like 'most' people of any age have achieved certain things which is most likely not the reality of most people who would care to admit it.
This is very true too.
Aww sis I really loved this vlog! You are living your purpose and I am so proud of you!! I feel privileged that you share bits of your life with us, because you are literally blossoming right before our eyes. I know God has so much more in store for you 🤎🤎🤎
@@Odichinma thank you so much, I truly appreciate this and AMEN 🥰🙏🏾
Hi Ifeyinwa,
I just wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude for everything you do. Your transparency and vulnerability truly inspire me and encourage me on my journey. I’m also starting anew in my 30's, having recently moved to the US from Nigeria. Currently, I’m single, job-hunting, and living with my cousin while I navigate this new chapter of my life. There are moments when I feel like I’m not measuring up, but watching your vlogs has been a bright spot for me. You really feel like a blessing in my life!
By the way, you look amazing! I can’t believe you’re turning 37-you definitely don't look it!
Thank you for being you.
I am so happy you shared this comment. Picking up your life to move internationally is extremely challenging (and I say this as someone who’s done it several times myself) give yourself grace and be patient with yourself. Settling in takes TIME but before you know it, all the things you worry about now will be a distant memory. I am so proud of you 🩷
@@Ifeyinwa thank you 🙏🏾❤️
The light is back in your eyes! That makes me happy.
This comment made my heart smile 😊
I just stumbled on your channel and I’m grateful i did….I’m going to be 31 in October and here i was beating myself up that everything about me came late
I graduated late compared to my younger sisters and most of my friends but I’m grateful for everything
I lost a friend recently who just got married a month ago and it made me take things slow and easy……when its time everything will play out without stress ❤❤
I am so sorry for your loss, I hope you''re surrounding yourself with love and things that make you happy. Welcome to the channel lovely.
We're here for the long haul. thank you for sharing your life with us and for being vulnerable. I remember being made redundant about 1.5 years ago, I thought life was ending lol but I look back and see how God has restored in so many ways. Life has its ups and downs but one thing that is constant is God's faithfulness towards us and his love for us. I appreciate you.
Thank you so much lovely
I really enjoyed this video.
Oddity inspires you.
But you also inspire so many of us.
I thank God for helping you to share & for being transparent x
Thank you so much for this 🥰🙏🏾
Happy Sunday… you just inspired me to clean out this closet 🫣 I have so many clothes I have never worn or can’t even fit anymore.
Girl I was tired for two days but it’s so worth it!
Lovely and I agree with the comment on "turning the page"...I too believe that this is just yet another chapter or season of the whole story as opposed to starting the story from scratch (if you get what i mean)..but then again, starting over can be the title of the new chapter so either way it works lol x
Thanks hun, the concept of “the next chapter or turning the page” is beautiful and it’s actually a more accurate representation of how I feel in this season to be honest (as you know lol) I acknowledge that I’m 100% not starting from scratch lol but I think I’ll stick with the “starting over” title for now
"Dear Ifeyinwa, remember that you are stronger than any challenge you face. Life may feel overwhelming at times, but within you is the resilience to rise above it all. Take each day one step at a time, knowing that even in the toughest moments, you are growing. Your journey is unique, and brighter days are ahead. Trust the process and trust in yourself-you've got this." Much ❤
OMG THANK YOU! I 100% believe everything you’ve said. I’ve grown so much this year and my days are ALREADY so much brighter. So thank you. I love that I have a community of likeminded people. This is so amazing 🥲
Love the title! It literally tells us where you are in life and that's cool 😁
That’s exactly what I hoped it would do!
Love your authenticity always ❤ ❤
I'm 35 and I'm starting over as well in my own way. But I'm okay with it after therapy. Lol. I have a five year plan for reaching my goals.
I’m 32 and feel like God wants me to view your video. Feel myself getting desperate and ready to give up but God is still writing my story and yours and every person who feels they should be further along by now ❤
This makes me so happy. We are all on different paths, and that's what makes life so beautiful
You looked lovely for everyday people dance I’m one of those people to that is eager to give thing away that was so nice of your friend I’m so happy when I see that you post ❤❤❤
Thank you lovely. I give things away then I start looking for it lol! My friends are seriously the best ❤
It’s so crazy how I’m 23 and I can relate to so much of what u said… I love u ify I really wish I have a big sister like u… ❤❤❤
Awwww we're all in this together hun ❤❤
Ahh yesss this vlog was awesome. I loved the intro!! You looked sooo nice or everyday ppl - I'm going to try and go to the next one it looked good lol. Love your explanation behind renaming of the vlogs, really intresting to hear the logic behind how this impacts traffic to channels. Your outfit for the lunch at Nobu was stunning btw! You really are glowing and its lovely being on the journey seeing you evolve into your best self. Btw - every makeup look in this vlog was stunninggg, have you changed your routine? Would be lovely to see a GRWM :D xxx
Honestly it was interesting for me to hear my thought out loud especially when I was editing it. I don’t ever plan what I’m going to say or do in my vlogs. This just started as an experiment but it actually subconsciously helped me find an important purpose with my vlogs and that’s been so fulfilling too 🫶🏾
Ohhhh and I’ll film a GRWM too I don’t THINK I’ve changed anything seriously but I have picked up a few new products
*Looks up every day people in NYC* Literally tonight lol all the way in Queens 😭. Maybe next time hahah.
Ahhhhhhhh definitely go next time! It’s such a great time and I can only imagine how much fun it’d be in New York!!!
The title definitely made me click!
That’s what I want to hear lol
Ugh wish I was a video editor
Am a VA though
I concur with your friend, you deserve a congratulations!!!
Keep shinning
@@PoSHEmediaglobal thank you so much ☺️
Noooooo! 😂 There's enough cuff in the brown pants to keep them. Get them altered.
@@naturalcaramelbeauty there isn’t I’ve taken them to get altered before 🥲
@@Ifeyinwa aww man! Those are nice pants. You truly have tall girl problems like me.
It's funny but not because I just recently left a horrible relationship, I was drained and have felt unfulfilled for the longest and the first thing that came to mind was "starting over in my 30s" after I decided to walk away from the whole situation ...
I know it might be hard but me, you and others who feel one way or another will be alright God willing ... Slow and steady 🤞
I love your vlogs
I live in Nigeria
You will ABSOLUTELY be ok hun, in fact I’d argue you’d be better off without a horrible relationship. One day at a time is the best way to approach it. It gets easier with time 🫶🏾
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Love your content!
I appreciate that! Thank you ❤
Asking for myself lol, regarding the video editor are there specific skill sets you're looking for?
I have a flyer in my community tab
Very beautiful 😻
Thank you! 😊
How about finding who I am in my mid 30s as a title or finding myself in my mid 30s. Or journey single life journey in my mid 30s.
@@charn888 aww thank you so much for the suggestions but I don’t thinks these would work for my vlog series name.. I would not highlight being single because “Staring over” for me encompasses so much more than just that. I’m pretty happy with “starting over” and it’s performing pretty well for now. But these are great ideas for subject matter to speak about within the vlogs if that makes sense, so thank you!
3:16 why not use boob tape to hold the bodice in place in front and in back? Caveat: I’ve never actually used boob tape but isn’t that how the double-sided ones are supposed to work?
7:10 You did!! I should’ve watched a bit longer first. I love that teardrop style bracelet by the way.
@@laviliburd haha I was just about to say I did! Thank you ☺️
Love your authenticity always ❤ ❤
Thank you 😊
Love your authenticity always ❤ ❤