Genetic testing from my point of View || English synopsis in description box

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  • @Love-dz1um
    @Love-dz1um 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the moment you said about termination and that pink positive lines in pregnancy test.. I just couldn't hold my tears.
    It's been almost 7 years that I went through this trauma and it really really feels like end of life.. nothing left to live for.. I still possess that pregnancy kit. It's priceless for me.
    And yes, situations for every single person differs to affect the decision.
    For years, i used to feel so much guilt that may be i could have carried that pregnancy to full term and "we" would have managed.
    But then after my healthy baby delivery, the kind of careless attitude and irresponsible behaviour of my husband towards me and my baby, made me think that what all happened was for good for the baby.
    After the loss my pregnancy at 6 months, I was physically mentally emotionally all alone.. no family support no spouse support.
    If a father cannot be caring and responsibile with a totally perfect child then how would he had been with a child with lots of challenges.
    Despite of Dr advice for genetic testing during my pregnancy with my happy healthy son, i also opted not to go for that test. As I was also prepared to sacrifice anything to manage considering his father as non existent for almost everything except financial responsibility.
    I am very hopeful that your girl will be totally perfect and a game changer in Viraj's life..

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️❤️😘 a tight hug

    • @frillylily8005
      @frillylily8005 ปีที่แล้ว

      No such thing as a perfect child. Someone who doesn’t have a disability isn’t less perfect then one without one. Also Even if it’s harder. If you were willing to sacrifice it all for the child you have now you could have done the same for your child’s gone brother/sister.

  • @poorniviveakha8786
    @poorniviveakha8786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for your English synopsis mam, expecting English subtitles for upcoming videos too..
    God bless you from Tamilnadu

  • @djaiswal2652
    @djaiswal2652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I connected with u so much... Don't worry ur baby will be fine. I am a depression nd anxiety patient nd maine apni pregnancy ke time iske lia medicine li thi. Ab mere bete me mujhe autism ke sing dikh rhe hain. M bhut depress feel krti hu. Not no how I will handle this. Bs aapki video dekh kr kuchh achchha feel ho jata h.

  • @kaberidasadhikary3792
    @kaberidasadhikary3792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You r right dear.. during my pregnancy I had a genetic test (cvs) but my son is still autistic. I think God has a plan for us. We can't change it.

    • @vasanthar4533
      @vasanthar4533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes..true what you said....god has a plan for everything..we need to trust his blessings 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @AbbasAli-ks5nr
      @AbbasAli-ks5nr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @kirtisetty6092
      @kirtisetty6092 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here...

  • @chhayashinde3082
    @chhayashinde3082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Don't worry mam everything will be fine.
    I have a same experience regarding medical opinion.

    • @harshankita-mn4yv
      @harshankita-mn4yv ปีที่แล้ว

      Please aapaki kya problem thi or aapane kese samana kiya

  • @anithakrishna56677
    @anithakrishna56677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well said mam.its everyone different life there opinions there decisions...
    God bless you always ur family
    Viraj and new baby 👶 😍 💕 ✨ 💓 ❤ 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @tesnajoshy3573
    @tesnajoshy3573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Ina,Hw u doing? I want to tell you give all your worries to God and enjoy your beautiful pregnancy with baby kicks .
    My 13 months old baby's development looks normal and my oldest is a wonderful big brother to his lil brother.
    Try to avoid artificial sweeteners from your diet.I was advised by my doc during my sec pregnancy.

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank u tesna yes i will follow this for sure

  • @sharvinreddyinfinity7585
    @sharvinreddyinfinity7585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your informative opinion...... Enjoy the pregnancy period Ina.... Our family blessings always with your family.... Happy pregnancy

  • @jiyanshiridhima7084
    @jiyanshiridhima7084 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANKU SO MUCH DEAR GOD BLESS YOU

  • @roshmin8383
    @roshmin8383 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome....God bless Viraj with a perfect bro or sis.... Blessings to your family

  • @deepaks1110
    @deepaks1110 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello everyone... Anyone did autism panel testing ... My doctor suggested for my 4 year old kid having asd symptoms. But I am doubtful , nor doctor sounded convincing and cost is on higher side (42k) .. Has anyone did this test, if yes, plz request the feedback...

  • @shaheenbegum1181
    @shaheenbegum1181 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi mam my boy is 3 years old now only one word repeat...understanding achi hai ek do bar samjhao to krega wo..but wo kab baat kre ga.one word repeat karha hai like abbaa.....n different different sounds nikalta khud se kya ye baat krega aage???

  • @vysakhv5008
    @vysakhv5008 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You can also add Tuberous sclerosis to the list which may cause autism if there are lesions/tubers in the brain.

  • @anithakrishna56677
    @anithakrishna56677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mam how r u managing house works taking care of viraj, office ,youtube channels and moreover ur pregnant,
    Have u hired workers at home ..how u manage when new born comes ..pls tell some tips so I can manage better too
    Hats of u really love u fr ur useful information motivation words keep inspiring always 💓 💗 💖

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For cleaning i have hired a maid because i cant bend now.. cooking i do.. and rest once i shared in my video autism vs career which can provide u some tips.. also now lets see how things will be with the new baby my parents will come for a month may be to help initially as m all alone only vikrant is there so i will keep posting the vlogs on new channel ♥️

  • @darakshanshahjahan1994
    @darakshanshahjahan1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey super mom Ina , Masha Allah ap pregnant ho m so happy or apka bby bht accha hoga insha Allah Q ki mera beta 2 . 7 yrs ka h arish naam h autism h but beti 1.6 yrs ki h ekdm fine h masha Allah beti ka naam ayzal hai 🥰love u ina sis nd veeraj😘

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank u so much itne sare motivation aur pyar k liye ,🙏❤️❤️❤️

    • @darakshanshahjahan1994
      @darakshanshahjahan1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aforautism6808 love you dear😘😘😘😘

  • @sarikaroy7342
    @sarikaroy7342 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks so much Ma'am..very informative video

  • @vasanthar4533
    @vasanthar4533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hats off to your patience level Ina,
    collection of all this medical data along with ur kid,work,you tube channel, cooking... awesome super mom..you hav a very good clarity on what you want in life.. 👍👍👍
    If possible,can u share ur email id...
    Just for some suggestions..can't type here..
    And take care your health too ❤️❤️

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Insta pe m there dear ina_chawla

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank u so much for all the appreciation .. u made my day

    • @vasanthar4533
      @vasanthar4533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aforautism6808 ok.thank you 👍

    • @vasanthar4533
      @vasanthar4533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aforautism6808 ..yes messaged you Ina.do reply whenever ur free..not sure whether u received....take ur time

  • @puja133
    @puja133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know why but I m feeling this time you will be blessed with a cute baby girl.❤️

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww i will be more blessed to have a cute gudia

    • @vaghelakanchanlakhmanbhai1851
      @vaghelakanchanlakhmanbhai1851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ina my first child is autistic kids but second time god blessed me a cute baby girl .its good to siblings . after my girl birth my son speak didi in hospital it a miracle to me i love my both child my son improve day by day it true.

    • @puja133
      @puja133 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vaghelakanchanlakhmanbhai1851 ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Love-dz1um
      @Love-dz1um 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too feeling same.. little angel Princess

  • @anjlianju3253
    @anjlianju3253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi ina..mera v beta autistic hi...aur sayad mai v hu...mai bachpan me sabko bahut paresan kiya hi ..mai bahut roti thi ..chilati thi...avi v mujhe hasna aur rona ek sath aata hi ...par mai normal life ji rahi hu ..mai PGT teacher hu

  • @snehasonar3616
    @snehasonar3616 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi mam mera 12 years ka beta he use autism diagnose hua tha pehele to mera beta special school me tha ab baki bacho ki tara normal school me jata he frk bs itna he ki use ab 6th standard me hona tha pr ab o 4th standard me he

    • @snehasonar3616
      @snehasonar3616 ปีที่แล้ว

      Par me abhi second baby ka plan kr rahi hu muze ye dar he ki first baby ki tra ise bhi autism to nhi hoga n ….Kyoki me abhi tak mere bete ko dr ki thropy de rahi hu

    • @snehasonar3616
      @snehasonar3616 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pls reply

  • @samrikajaiswal9888
    @samrikajaiswal9888 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mujhe bhi 2 baby chahiye meri pahli baby autism h ...meri beti abhi 2.10 month ki h pr bao ab sbkuch bolti h apna kaam bhi kr leti h ...mild autism detected huaa tha usko isliye hm dono ab 2 baby ke liye dare hui h...

  • @Mrsstruggler
    @Mrsstruggler 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi mam mujhe pregnancy mein water cist bhi tha ...5 months tk tha voh doctor ne. Bhoot si medicine di thi nd delivery k tym baby k muh mein gnda pani chla gya tha ...ab mere beta km bolta h ...MRI hui toh pta chla ye white matter km h .. voh 3 yrs ka ho gya h kya 2nd baby plan kru?

  • @dip1410
    @dip1410 ปีที่แล้ว

    This moment makes one realize no matter how you worship God or anything..Destiny can not be avoided.

  • @nabeelmohammed7753
    @nabeelmohammed7753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I also have a daughter who has mild autism n a younger son who's normal child,my daughter is 6.5 years n was diagnosed after my son was born.so nothing to worry at all.

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Nabeel i still remember once u shared about good doctor series with me and that also came out to be helpful as in that season one his sibling used to help him a lot 🙏🙏♥️

    • @anithakrishna56677
      @anithakrishna56677 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What dr series mam pls explains??

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anithakrishna56677 netflix good dr

  • @AbbasAli-ks5nr
    @AbbasAli-ks5nr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mam meri pahle pregnancy bahot achi thi sabkuch normal but beta autistic h
    Beti k time bahot se issue the or mujhe ek bar delivery k time pe ot se wapas layagaya bp and heart rate low tha phir dusre din operate krke delivery huyi but beti normal kid hai.sab kismet ki baat h. MMR vaccine k bad autism k symptoms dikhe

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️♥️❤️🙂

    • @bhupeshsharma6140
      @bhupeshsharma6140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bilkul sahi Baat Hai SAB Kismat Ki Baat Hai mere bete ka time bhi sab Kuchh Achcha tha Jab delivery doctor ne bola sab theek hai baccha bhi theek hai Dedh Sal Tak theek Raha aur

    • @yuviyuvi6573
      @yuviyuvi6573 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mmr ke baad kisme autism ke symptoms dikhe

    • @bhupeshsharma6140
      @bhupeshsharma6140 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kitne Year ka hai aapka beta

    • @AbbasAli-ks5nr
      @AbbasAli-ks5nr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bhupeshsharma6140 6.3 years

  • @tejashreemarathe298
    @tejashreemarathe298 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam muje ek question puchna hai mera bacha 1 year 3 month ka hai to use occupational therapy kaise karake le usme kya kya activeties honi chaiye please help me

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Uski grip pe work karna aap k vo kaise kaunsi cheez pakad raha hai.. aur chote chote dhakkan bolt ye sab try karna k khole taki ungli mazboot ho.. ek glass mein pani dalwane ka try karna slowly taki hand movement acha ho baki slides pe chadhna b sikhana and utarna bhi.. aur uske alawa ese hi scribbling karne k liye crayon aur drawing sheet dedo.. spoon holding and roti ka ek bite dedia k apne ap khaye ye sab sikhane pe work karna ap taki jo hum daily life mein age karne wale hain uski practise abhi se shuru hojaye

    • @tejashreemarathe298
      @tejashreemarathe298 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you mam

  • @viralkhakher8447
    @viralkhakher8447 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good determination Ina, all the best.

  • @madhusingh-co4xv
    @madhusingh-co4xv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Meri beti 4 yr ki hone Bali hai speech therapy or Ot chal rahi 4 month se but koi improvement n hai mai kya karu. Mri karau ya n. Pls suggest me

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madhu ap ghar pe same cheez kitni bar kara rahe ho

  • @mishroha8688
    @mishroha8688 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi ina g autism and music page p komal g n siblings p video bnai the jis m unho n kaha tha k 100 m sy 30per chances hoty hn 2nd baby m r unho n kaha tha k 2nd baby conceive krny sy phly 3months kuch medication r test wagera Hony chay.

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ji genetic testing ap kara sakte ho uspe video uploaded hai already

  • @mishroha8688
    @mishroha8688 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    R Han ak r bat kahoge m n google m autism ke recovery m kahen ye b dekha k mother feed b help krta h ye bat kaha tak such h. R Mera feed to ata he nh na Hony k brabar

  • @abdullahsdiary3591
    @abdullahsdiary3591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Ina m pretty sure there's nothing wrong with Gene's of viraj i mean he doesn't have any genetic issue not your next baby will have ... Have faith ❤️ a very good decision not only Viraj will enjoy the company but u both will also ..

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank u soo sooo much Samina lots of love

    • @abdullahsdiary3591
      @abdullahsdiary3591 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aforautism6808 some months ago i commented here that u should go for 2nd baby but you didn't replied i though you mind it .. 😊 my son now loves his baby brother and plays with him

    • @AbbasAli-ks5nr
      @AbbasAli-ks5nr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abdullahsdiary3591 same here meri beti bahot bat karti hai.. ab beta bhi thoda bolne laga hai.. wo din bhar apne bade bhai k sath lgi hoti hai wo bolta hai Ammarah chup hoja thoda ...itne me hi meri khushi ka thikana nahi hota

    • @abdullahsdiary3591
      @abdullahsdiary3591 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AbbasAli-ks5nr what's age of your kids

  • @pujagosavi1715
    @pujagosavi1715 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello mam I have twins.. boy & girl 14 months but mujhe doubt he ke 2 no autistic he Dr ko dekhay but he said abhi tak koye symptoms nahi he.... after 2 year pata chalega . Baby agar khelate hua gir jae aur ser pe ya bed se to aisa ho Sakta he . Because family me to kisiko Nahi he. Tension hua he m am 1st baby & twins. 😔 What I do plz help & reply

    • @pujagosavi1715
      @pujagosavi1715 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Both are allergic boy ko thoda Kam he girl thoda jaida he. Pehle Nahi tha last 4 months se symptoms Dekha rahe he.. baby girl walk karte he but baby boy abhi tak Nahi chlata. Aur 2hno abhi tak khuch Bolte Nahi ... Sirf mama ... Bababaa...... Kaa itne words Bolte he

  • @urvi0916
    @urvi0916 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agree wid u dear - it's one decision to hv second baby..Genetic testing doesn't give sure shot results ... Gud to knw u ppl r mentally prepared to handle any situation..Dnt wry ,everything will be positive ,gud for u...Gud wishes,tkcre🙂🥰🧿

  • @urmilasaxena4366
    @urmilasaxena4366 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam how we can identify small alphabets to kids when they have learnt capital letters

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello urmila ji please watch the video lkg syllabus there i explained

    • @urmilasaxena8959
      @urmilasaxena8959 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aforautism6808 Thanks Ina....

  • @vaibhavverma5413
    @vaibhavverma5413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mam meri wife bahut kam bolti hai ..but uska iq level bahut high hai...mera beta 4.3 ka hai..uska brain mujhe and Doctor ko bilkul theek lgta hai...wo har cheej ko hmesa se understand karke sign language use krta hai..uski language delay hai..baaki use autism ka koi symptom nhi hai..academic me kaafi achha hai..iq bhi high hai...mam kya ye genetic hai...

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Parents k genes ate hain bacho mein definitely toh apki wife k saare gun aye hain apke baby mein aur iq acha hone is a very very big blessing

    • @vaibhavverma5413
      @vaibhavverma5413 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aforautism6808 thank you mam..🙏..mam aap viraj ko kitne pyar se rkhte hai ..ye cheej bahut motivate krti hai..bahut pyare hai hmare bachhe..ye bhagwan ki banayi hui bahut anmol rachana hai..jo sabko nhi milti...

    • @urvi0916
      @urvi0916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vaibhavverma5413- It gud to knw ur kid is bright child wid only lang delay ...God bless him ..Jab bacha pointin/ gesture se apni baat batne koshish kar rha h tat means limited vocalbury/ not motivated to say needs by speakin-- so playfully through games - if u speak daili routine- verbal routine ban jayega - daili wahi baat sunaga- phir apni baat bol ke batya zarur... Develpnmt Peadtrician told me abt 4 yr who cn read whole newsppr himself bt cnt communicate bcz of limited vocalbury,speech & lang communicatn delay

    • @nehaanand6973
      @nehaanand6973 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@urvi0916 my kid repeats what we say most of the time...understanding thik thak hai...receptive language kafi improve hua hai...bas Express krna nai aata....pointing and gesture se sabhi batei krti hai....baki autism wale koi symptoms nahi....how to help?

    • @urvi0916
      @urvi0916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nehaanand6973 - It's gud apke bache ki understanding achi,pointing aur gesture bhi h....Receptive lang bhi improve hui,ur kid repeats wat u say - immediately echololia,bt things express karna nhi ata... ab bus Expressive Lang wrk karna..Aap uski favrte things daili tabhi de- jab woh koshish kare bolne - Ex- Kid pointed to tofee/ chips / Paani- say slowly To-fee/ Ch ips, Pa - ni...pehle bache inital letter,phir 1word bolege,,phir 2 words then Phrases phir sentences ate ..Jab bhi kid koshish kare then praise/ appreciate him for tryin to speak...Baaki Ina ne playlist Speech, Lang communication - 25 Strategies for Lang devlopment - pls see it- daili add vocalbury wrds- bacha jarur bolega- jaye dar Lage thodi...Hope it will help u🙂

  • @nanditac9225
    @nanditac9225 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sound bht less hai ye video me. Sunne me bht muskil ho rhi hai. Baki video me problem nhi hai

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aj tabiyat bhi kharab hai thodi awaz nikal hi nai parahi thi 😩

    • @nanditac9225
      @nanditac9225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aforautism6808 Take care. Kharab tabiyat leke video shoot mat kijiye. Aap khud ke dheyan pe ab focus rakhiye.

  • @muhammadazlan2873
    @muhammadazlan2873 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did u make viraj screen time zero or did u minimize it when u came to know that he is on spectrum?and dis u make hia admission in regular school?

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I made it absolutely zero for initial two years.. yes he is in regular school coping up without a shadow teacher but may be from next year onwards since studies are getting advanced i may need a shadow teacher in school

    • @momofacikid2712
      @momofacikid2712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My kid was on spectrum too but he coped up very well when I admitted him in school. It depends though..

    • @muhammadazlan2873
      @muhammadazlan2873 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@momofacikid2712 he had speech when admitted in school?

    • @momofacikid2712
      @momofacikid2712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My child had hearing loss but we recovered from autism before ci. He has little speech now Alhamdulillah

    • @muhammadazlan2873
      @muhammadazlan2873 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@momofacikid2712 how did u get out of it?i mean therapist or home work?

  • @minaagarwal7379
    @minaagarwal7379 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best wishes always ❤️

  • @Indianmommou
    @Indianmommou 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Didi mera beta 4kg ka hua tha, growth uska itna achha hai ki abhi O 3+hai log use 6+ya7+bolte hai, har ek milestone ko time pe hit kiya tha lekin birth time pe doctor ke galti se isne cry nehi kiya tha, kya e ek reason ho sakta hai? Kya aise baby ko classic autism ho sakta hai?

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Crying se nervous system active hota hai toh han thoda sa iska asar hosakta hai.. main ek video dalingi ispe

    • @Indianmommou
      @Indianmommou 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aforautism6808 ok😌

  • @wajahatsiddiqui5664
    @wajahatsiddiqui5664 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super mom

  • @kusumkumar8057
    @kusumkumar8057 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💓💓❤

  • @pujagosavi1715
    @pujagosavi1715 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam Please reply