Charity and Joey On the Realities of Interracial Relationships - The Bachelorette
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ต.ค. 2024
- Bachelorette Charity Lawson and Joey have been progressing their relationship as the season moves along. When it comes to Hometowns and the future, Charity has a serious topic: the realities of interracial relationships. See their thoughtful conversation here, which leaves Charity crying happy tears. From 'The Bachelorette,' season 20, episode 5, 'Week 5.' Watch 'The Bachelorette' 2023 with Charity Lawson MONDAYS 8/7c on ABC. Stream on Hulu.
"I mean every word" broke me. What a sweet man.
Ikr ❤
As a black woman that has never interracially dated but wants to, Joey’s response is what I would want to hear from a potential partner. His self-awareness and awareness of the world has shaped him into the person he is. And his courage to take on the ignorance of the world with Charity by his side is amazing. I really hope she chooses him!
I think she will choose him! They seem to have the strongest connection ❤ He’s so sweet and they seem so perfect together I’d be sad if she didn’t choose him 😭💔
Charity must have wanted to experience interracial relationship too. The way you kissed on all of them, you need to study some morals and self respect.
Witch Please!
Good choice 4 the new bachelor
I am so pleasantly surprised that this conversation was had. It is so important. Bravo to ABC for airing it.
Joey is so caring and listening to the answer he gave Charity had me in tears. Omg I hope he is the one. Can't wait to see
Joey is a good listener and I love him❤❤❤
I wish they didn't have to have this convo and could concentrate on growing their love, but the reality is (as Charity mentioned) this topic is still relevant in this day and age. It's a convo that needs to be had. Congrats to both for handling it with such grace❤❤❤ and class.
This show is all about getting fame
Joey is sweet and real loved his answers.Joey is so sincere he could feel Charity was overwhelmed loved when adked if Charity wanted a hug.Rooting for him.
he will get 10 colored women on the show all with Joey fever.
@@ericalover3025 “COLORED???” 💀💀💀
@@fatimah230 Maybe joey has black fever.
I wish we could live in a world where this conversation isn’t necessary.
Joey handled it very well though.
I seriously don't understand why this world takes ANY issue with interracial dating. It shouldn't matter whatsoever what your skin color is. What matters is your character and how you treat people.
You said it girl, unfortunately not everyone has a beautiful heart like yours, don't loose that about yourself...😊
The devil has always aimed to oppose God (love) in every way possible
Absolutely🥰
Interracial shouldn’t matter, but intercultural isn’t easy
It would be nice to live in lala land with lemon drops n rainbows but the reality is that's not the case. Once folks take of their blinders and come back to Earth then they will see the importance of having this discussion. To be frank this should be discussed on the first or second date.
This was sweet when I heard him said “ I mean every word” Girl I was 🥰🥰- a great moment. Beautiful lady and a great voice
And unless youre a black woman, you can never understand how important this conversation is to have it’s a make or break sometimes sadly
Exactly!
I don't agree at all. I've been black all my life and I don't think these conversations are necessary at all. It's 2023, there are so many interracial relationships now. Honestly, most people don't care.
thats your experience, and in MY experience, most people ive talked to do care, even in 2023 but like i said thats my experience and you've had a different one, and thats cool too! @@rachelmarie3405
@@rachelmarie3405speak for yourself. As a black Nigerian woman, it is very important to have this conversation for many reasons. Our culture is very different.
@adshar20000
Well, I’m a BW whose been in an interracial marriage for 20 years & I can tell you it’s rarely a factor!! The most important factor has been that my husband loves me & places my happiness above all else!!
Joey is so pretty ❤️
Yes he is
I love how Joey is invested ❤ love conquers
Loved Joey from the very beginning. If she doesn't pick him he should be the next Bachelor.❤😅😊
this aged very well!
I can’t believe she let this man go!!! He’s everything. 🙈
JOEY IS A DARLING.❤I LOVE HIM
Charity girl that made me cry.. his so real❤️😭❤️
❤ REALLY THINK CHARITY & JOEY WOULD MAKE A VERY HAPPY COUPLE.....I LOVE THESE TWO TOGETHER. GOD BLESS . LOVE & PRAYERS.
Meaningful conversation about life outside the TV bubble. Every person has a different set of issues… relationships are hard. Most relationships fail. Like the lottery - only one person wins the lottery!
Charity seems to have been through a lot with relationships and it’s hard to breakdown those walls. There is always fears with every man she meets
Is it just me, or is this the quickest season of the bachelorette? Lol it seems like the premier wasn’t that long ago.
Rachel and Gabby's season went by so fast..not to mention Claire's season LOL
I agree! And they never left the country, which is odd.
Yes! It seems they cut out a few episodes and as someone else already mentioned they haven’t even left the country yet.
I know how she feels. It's very important that we have full support & understanding. It goes both ways & I'm glad that I have that. #Marc❤
I love this man !
I'm surprised she asked that question regarding interracial dating however I think Joey's answer was good. He came across as genuine.
Why did it surprise you?
You're surprised because it doesn't affect you.
I would be more surprised if she didn't ask.
I don't know why we're having this conversation still. Like I don't really see a lot of hate for interracial relationships. Idk if it's just my area or what but I don't really think most people care.
@@rachelmarie3405 Most people don't care??..you must be leaving under rock,i'm sure racism doesn't exist any more to you haa?
Joey deserves to find his happy ever after he is so very cute man is he if he doesn’t win her heart I want him to be the next bachelor that’ll be great he’s a great guy:0)
Ugh Same!!!!
HES SO FINE❤
This is a common conversation that I have had with White men I've dated. I think he seemed super sincere and compassionate. They're both really attractive btw.
Prettiest bachelorette with the best laugh EVER
I am not crying, you are
Actually, I'm not. It was a nice moment though.
@@jenniferhansen3622 Unnecessary
@@Finishnone I know, but I see that comment everywhere.😉😭
The most important conversation.
I agree
Such a real moment here ❤
I love him for her! ❤❤❤❤ 2:44
She is so beautiful 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😇😇😇❤️❤️❤️
He is really a "sound" type person! Can't wait to the End
Joey, way to hold space for Charity. I'd like to bottle the feelings you showed in your eyes for Charity, and keep for me.❤ Charity, I wanted to give you a hug about 10 seconds in, and Joey handled it better.
Wow!! Wish they could be together ❤
Aw that was so sincere🥹❤️
Chris Harrison's fans are so uncomfortable with this conversation😂😂
No we’re not.
Love conquers all. Peace to everyone reading this. We are all brothers and sisters. We are all God's children.
Amen ♥️ 🙏🏼
She is one of the most beautiful and intelligent woman in such a prominent spot light.
Please his mother looked distraught. I thought she was gonna have a heart attack
that scene made me cry😂
Awww 🥺
Let me say this. In my life, I’ve listen to some convincing liars, and it hurts. These liars call themselves, a player, “if a women fall for his words. Which he don’t understand or care, “his words are all he has. it’s not that he’s a player, but a liar. Listen! People are dying for lying. But the doctors can’t diagnose what your, cause of death was because, “ it wasn’t a illness, “BUT A SIN”. 👺
Joey ❤❤❤
Is was at that moment joey wanted some season Chicken....in 2023 i'm swirling...
♥️♥️♥️
I love Joey !!!! But that woman deserves to be wit Dotun !!!!
I think they're both really nice guys.
@@jenniferhansen3622 I agree
It matters if YOU make it matter. Period.
Amen.
Joey is a single tennis pro. I’d be more worried about that!😊
What is wrong with that? I guess I don't understand what you mean.
@@jenniferhansen3622 women hit on those boys all the time!
@@drakecatz1 Oh! I didn't know that.
😂😂 so true
Rich women hit on the tennis pro all the time!
I wasn’t convinced before, but Dotun is better suited for Charity out of that batch of men
I hope not
I agree
Nope
I don’t feel this way or see any difference I guess I never have. And that’s why I don’t understand bc my family has never been like that. I’ve never seen color or race I have always seen the person.
Everybody sees color. Seeing color isn’t the problem. If you “don’t see color” you’re ignoring a major part of someone’s existence
@@Ronelle__hen someone says they don't "see color" they simply mean that they don't see one color as inferior to another. This was a nice comment and there was no reason to pick on it. The meaning of the comment was obvious.😊
@@jenniferhansen3622 Nope! You should do some research on why “colorblindess” is not the solution you think it is. Everybody sees color, and this narrative is harmful, point blank period. 💛
@@Ronelle__ But we know what the person meant by their comment. It was obvious.
@@jenniferhansen3622 And what they meant by their comment is unfortunately a harmful approach to talking about race, what are you not understanding Jennifer?
She's made a mistake. Her loss.
He is not the one. It should’ve been Dotun
Joey's a nice guy. Super bland but still a nice guy
I'd take the nice bland guy that's emotionally present intelligent and aware any day!
@@dexxhax12345me too! I’ll take that instead
Surprised Joey is still there...lol
Girl Please It is Not Him baby It is Her Really sad 😭 love Joey❤❤❤❤
It's 2023. Nobody cares.
You keep believing that smh
Is he just curious?????
Charity’s judgment scares me!
He has never dated a black woman, red flag!! It was good she didn't take him.
Girl that doesn’t mean anything
I'll solve this BS: just pick the "Tall, dark and Handsome " Xavier or Aaron and problem solved.
🤢 🤮
No...she's going to puck the tall dark and Handsome Dotum
He is not the one
Yes, he is. The fact that he was the only white guy that made it to the top 4 means she has strong feelings that go beyond race. I feel like she’s socialized to choose Xavier and Dalton, but they give out platonic brother sister vibes. Charity and Joey have deep sexual and romantic chemistry.
She said that she’s been in an interracial relationship before, so she’s looking for the right connection for herself. Are these guys marriage material is the question 🙋♂️?
Keep colors out the equation .... let lost figure that out on their own
Honestly I don’t think she wants it I think she has a problem with interracial relationships. I don’t think it’s him. I think it’s her.
What?? At one point, interracial marriage was ILLEGAL. This isn’t a unreasonable question especially with how people are still stuck in their dated ideologies
Of course she wants it but she is being cautious and realistic but you would never understand it.
What makes you say that? She’s asking a reasonable question. Is it better to not ask the question and just jump in? How his family feels about him being with a Black woman can make or break the relationship. How Joey deals with it is important.
Her ex boyfriend of 6 years was white and she said he cheated.
Honestly she strikes me as a girl who has only dated white guys her entire life. Maybe she’s grown tired of that though
Charity didn't really need to drag Joey into this topic of convo. But knowing Joey, instead of the opportunity to shine, he gave a very vanilla answer. But I guess that's how most have handled a similar situation, turn the other way unless it concerns me.
Are you joking? This conversation is 100% necessary to have in order to have a successful relationship in today's climate. He came on this show to marry a Black woman and she clearly had men in the past who weren't informative enough about it. What do you mean by the words "drag in to and this type of conversation "? What kind of conversation is that?
I mean this conversation is important to have when you’re dating a person that isn’t the same skin color as you. It’s a reality that both of you will have to face together and it’s important to talk about so you can be together while still giving each other what you need as you navigate. As sad as it is, there are some people who will always give interracial couples a lot of shit just for being together. That’s not something you can just gloss over.
I love this man !
Absolutely and for those who don’t understand why this subject matters they are definitely a part of the problem not the solution and they are the real reason this is an issue
This conversation touches me deeply knowing what my friend is going through. She is a black woman engaged to a white man and his family is uncomfortable with it. She has to endure racism from them as well. I honestly don't even know why she is going the distance when everytime she encounters them she is left in tears. When will we ever be comfortable with each other without treating one race as inferior?
why hasn't he even dated a black women huh? why