Sooner or later the guy who gave me too much uncertainty ended up in my black list. I want to be able to plan my life. So, we have to know the balance.
I don’t think it’s even possible for a man to be more handsome/ attractive than this… honestly it’s hard for me to watch your videos.. I can’t handle it haha
Alex, I love listening to your words of wisdom. Best coach EVER! Can you please do a video on when a man is conflicted. Like,, he says he doesn't want a relationship (clearly avoidant!) but his actions show the opposite. I am doing everything you preach. He goes to where i hang out, he asks all about me when I'm not there, smiles, talks and stares blatantly etc when he sees me. Non verbals show he's into me, but he's fighting it. Very frustrating. Interested in your viewpoint on this and how to proceed. Thank you 😘😘
Maybe this is the case for guys.. I wonder? but for women I find that we fall in love when we feel cherished and safe and love.. Or at least me.. Yeah emotional variety is good… as long as it’s not toxic or harmful emotions
What is the difference between being like a reactive puppy: when you say something I dislike I get sad, when you say something I like - I smile, and what you said - showing expressions of happiness when they act good and being colder when they are not. Isnt it also being codependent?
This is for weak men boy mentality , not real men … the world has enough issues and to have a teammate who’s there for u without the roller coaster 🎢 is solid ….. you can tell someone how u feel by not giving them a roller coaster …. Who wants to act all the time …
A guy text me can he see me tonight in Jan I responded he can see me may 31 weekend. He has 51 more days. But he has been tryn to still see me before the date but I’m not responding
Alex your advice works on weak men.. prey.. please give us advice of the alpha males .. the men that don’t fall for the games. Because this does work for the men that are easy … but when it comes to men that get women .. they don’t waste their time
Men who have a lot going on wouldn't tolerate this nonsense, and vice versa. Similarly, men who have stability in their lives and are very organized don't fall for these types of tactics. Just hope that you and your new man are equally yoked.
It still works in the same principles. This is just framed to work universally. Simply put, you show your authentic self while being adaptable enough to act accordingly. If they are being inconsiderate assholes, you dont fawn and become all sweet. You put them in their place. When they are nice and have proven safe and trustworthy, you show them your vulnerable side. You match their energy while not being afraid to show who you really are, what you feel and think. You say, "this is all you can get as of the moment" The insecurity Alex is trying to convey is just about learning to protect yourself. Showing you can be aggressive and stand your ground and have convictions if they dont come correct.
Welp -- 😂❤ I needed that reassurance I had a firm voice and he hasn't seen me in weeks 😂 I also have a very classy yet sexy hot pink dress for my reintroduction 😈🫡
"Stop being selfish. Give them anxiety" 👏😂
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Sharing is caring 😂😂😂😂😂 give give give
Right, lol. I hope no one that does this has children. This is how children grow up to be avoidant.
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Give them space to miss you.
Completely agree. I do this naturally and he is going to be crazyyyy 😂
This is one of my favorites videos of you so far. Basically, men need pain ✅
Oh yes 😂
No lie! The one guy that I somewhat loved? The intensity of the rollercoaster of emotions? Was insane
Sooner or later the guy who gave me too much uncertainty ended up in my black list. I want to be able to plan my life. So, we have to know the balance.
I love when you get in your zone. Your methods flow out like poetry. Dropping true gems as always father Alex.
Father Alex is always so wise and knowledgeable
There you have it, men love drama.
Yes they do love drama, too bad
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How to drive a man crazy, LITERALLY!!
If I dont hear from someone in a month,
I write them off.
You wait a month?? Why not a week or two?
@@monikori6473 Aw, ppl get busy at work and friends. 2 weeks is normal.
I don't like my phone blowing up anyway. Im not needy.
@christineribone9351 lol true. 2 weeks it is :)
@@monikori6473 I'm not exactly "waiting". I really don't put much faith in guys. Mostly I hope they don't call, they're a disruption to my life.
@@christineribone9351 me too,lol. I have been single for 5 years. But I dated someone briefly Jan-March and became trauma bonded.
Men are way more emotional than women. Most gay men admit it.
I don’t think it’s even possible for a man to be more handsome/ attractive than this… honestly it’s hard for me to watch your videos.. I can’t handle it haha
You are literally psychic. Father Alex is spying on me🙊
I want someone to be my peace, someone who's good for my nervous system. If you came playing these games Uma jus dip.
Alex, I love listening to your words of wisdom. Best coach EVER!
Can you please do a video on when a man is conflicted. Like,, he says he doesn't want a relationship (clearly avoidant!) but his actions show the opposite. I am doing everything you preach. He goes to where i hang out, he asks all about me when I'm not there, smiles, talks and stares blatantly etc when he sees me. Non verbals show he's into me, but he's fighting it. Very frustrating. Interested in your viewpoint on this and how to proceed. Thank you 😘😘
Baby, he's playing you. Sending Mixed signals
“Your like Rice, You only have one flavor” lol
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This really is a great lecture
2:28 the hoodie 😂😂
20:03 pure gold 😂😂😂 I love Alex 😆 I’m about to create some beautiful art 🖼️
So this is why men like crazy women 😂so many emotions
I don’t like being on the receiving end of the rollercoaster. Immediately leave that relationship because it’s me, I’m the drama!
Iam watching your video and i accidentally do all the things you recommend not knowing 😂
I accidentally do wrong things
Maybe this is the case for guys.. I wonder? but for women I find that we fall in love when we feel cherished and safe and love.. Or at least me.. Yeah emotional variety is good… as long as it’s not toxic or harmful emotions
Totally Amazing, I like your videos ❤
Alex I'm a young 66 yr You are so right on.
Are these tactics applicable when I've been in a relationship for a year?
Thank you baba
Its so confusing... i thought men are looking for someone to bring peace in their life?🤔
Hahahahahaha girl I’m so done with them men!!! Go date yourself!!!
Marriage ❤
I love you Alexis!! Its been 12 years 😂😂😂 🎥
Facts I’m currently experiencing this after moving in with my bf
That’s your first mistake.
@@Mo.1988 and what’s yours
@@Mo.1988 cuz my man in luv move around bitch
What happens when the rollercoaster flies off the track?? Lol
What is the difference between being like a reactive puppy: when you say something I dislike I get sad, when you say something I like - I smile, and what you said - showing expressions of happiness when they act good and being colder when they are not. Isnt it also being codependent?
This is for weak men boy mentality , not real men … the world has enough issues and to have a teammate who’s there for u without the roller coaster 🎢 is solid ….. you can tell someone how u feel by not giving them a roller coaster …. Who wants to act all the time …
Feel same. But most guys are boys, not men. This is why it works so well with vast majority of guys.
A guy text me can he see me tonight in Jan I responded he can see me may 31 weekend. He has 51 more days. But he has been tryn to still see me before the date but I’m not responding
Dude, forget Ye...you're a darn Guinness no cap
What about drama? A friend had a woman he’s know 2 weeks claim she might be pregnant and he’s the father . Can dark tactics be too dark?
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There is a difference between dark and Borderline...
He doesn't know women can get pregnant? 😮
Alex your advice works on weak men.. prey.. please give us advice of the alpha males .. the men that don’t fall for the games. Because this does work for the men that are easy … but when it comes to men that get women .. they don’t waste their time
I alsp want the answer
Men who have a lot going on wouldn't tolerate this nonsense, and vice versa. Similarly, men who have stability in their lives and are very organized don't fall for these types of tactics. Just hope that you and your new man are equally yoked.
It still works in the same principles. This is just framed to work universally. Simply put, you show your authentic self while being adaptable enough to act accordingly. If they are being inconsiderate assholes, you dont fawn and become all sweet. You put them in their place. When they are nice and have proven safe and trustworthy, you show them your vulnerable side. You match their energy while not being afraid to show who you really are, what you feel and think. You say, "this is all you can get as of the moment" The insecurity Alex is trying to convey is just about learning to protect yourself. Showing you can be aggressive and stand your ground and have convictions if they dont come correct.
Love you and the video ❤
but PLEASE don’t become one of those TH-camrs that use cringey ai art for their thumbnails 😭
Tellytubbies are creepy😂
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That hair in the face is so distracting
Just admit it if you don’t like Afro hair. What’s the difference between his hair and bangs?
@@ALuxeLife that’s a crazy assumption lol
@@ALuxeLifeBangs don't Cover the whole face, LOL. But by the way....love the Afro hair! Love Alex but not for his hair style...😅
@@edytamichalska4655kinda messy and not styled pleasantly 😂 i know hes cute though but maybe hes in his rugged hobo phase 😂😂😂
Welp -- 😂❤ I needed that reassurance
I had a firm voice and he hasn't seen me in weeks 😂
I also have a very classy yet sexy hot pink dress for my reintroduction 😈🫡