8 Things SIGMA EMPATHS Do When Dealing With Evil People

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  • @cliffdavis2205
    @cliffdavis2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    As an old guy, age 68, I went my entire life until a little over a year ago, ever learning there existed a category for my personality type. I like many people believed most all people felt and cared to treat others and animals as I did, so you can imagine how surprised I was to learn this. It is amazing how accurate most of what I am hearing is. In this video, consider yourself lucky if all you are dealing with is overt evil as this video suggests, but covert evil is deadly and a nightmare to contend with. They are the most perfect liars you could possibly imagine and they have no conscience.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You nailed it on the head because I was married to one!!!

    • @phyllisquintana9327
      @phyllisquintana9327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Now that I'm dealing with my ex and his sister, I'm the evil one now, no mercy, done with that noise. When a Empathy is push beyond, hell has no fury like now.

    • @Ellie-sx2rh
      @Ellie-sx2rh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💜💜💜

    • @makaylaforbes6719
      @makaylaforbes6719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The one I knew said his favourite game was psychic murder. Driving people to suicide or having severe health issues such as heart attacks/strokes from the stress he would cause. If that isn't pure evil, I don't know what is. You hit the nail on the head, friend!

    • @rebeccaholt8965
      @rebeccaholt8965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I too lived 69 naive years w/o realizing the impact narcissists
      can have on an empaths life. MAJOR LESSON...TRUST YOUR GUT FEELING

  • @vl6741
    @vl6741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I learned to be a sigma. Still caring towards others, but don't cross me. I'm super proud of the strength and balance I have now.

    • @carlamaxwell8923
      @carlamaxwell8923 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Balance ❤

    • @scm0717
      @scm0717 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The same here. I'm realizing that the way I've dealt with bullies/narcissists as I've gotten older is exactly as described in this video. I figure them out and know what the next outburst will be. Then I tell them it's not working, give them a blank stare, turn and walk away.

  • @miguel-ib9lg8kt3h
    @miguel-ib9lg8kt3h 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Once you know who you are NOONE can manipulate you nor emotionally hurt you

  • @Chan.HDZ.1222
    @Chan.HDZ.1222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Very true!! My ex goes nuts because he can't manipulate me anymore 😂😂😂 and I call him out on things. I have a covert narcissist birth Mother it's not new to me at all.

    • @jwilcox4726
      @jwilcox4726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I wish I knew something. I'm an empath but I have never heard of sigma before. I'm so glad you know and are still young enough to have a life. God bless you honey, stay strong, waste no time going where you don't want to go.

    • @ascension4444
      @ascension4444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      All the same here!! Keep up the great work!

    • @ascension4444
      @ascension4444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We've learned the Hard Way, but once we learn we become solid! Impenetrable!!!! I love it!! I've had to endure my own personal Hell to finally learn, but I am soo greatful for the experience and knowledge I've obtained to become who I am today! 💯❤❤❤

    • @Chan.HDZ.1222
      @Chan.HDZ.1222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ascension4444 Thanks!!

    • @Chan.HDZ.1222
      @Chan.HDZ.1222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jwilcox4726 Thanks God 🙏 bless!!

  • @ryanunderwood5465
    @ryanunderwood5465 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are correct. I love when I warn a narcissist that I don’t lose, they feel so egotistical with their words that when it comes to battle they just stare at you with rage and the how dare you mentality because you exposed them not even trying

  • @etaokha4164
    @etaokha4164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My ex went crazy because I didn't do what he wanted and also because he could not control me as I was too strong for him. You take me for granted I show you my real self.

  • @melissagreen_
    @melissagreen_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    It must be very intimidating for a narcissist when you no longer react to their antics and they realise that you have figured them out. They aren't very imaginative and have no idea how to deal with you on such a level, and most likely, they will scurry away in fear.

    • @franksimmons9242
      @franksimmons9242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes. They are pitiful unmasked. Absolute cowards when you see how incompetent they are you can't help but feel sorry for them. No disrespect meant but they remind me of a scared barking dog with his tail between his legs trembling. They see threats where there are none and come up with all kinds of fantastic dramas and epic productions. Interrupting their performance and popping their bubble in the middle of their act can get you killed.
      They spend a lot of time rehearsing and researching us. They feel like we owe them for that they convince themselves they are experts on us. I have seen them telling the same story to different people in different versions and making adjustments for their final performance they can be very convincing. They used to catch us off guard because they were rehearsed and we were broadsided and stunned. For them it was like the rush of heroin to watch us react to their twisted tricks.

    • @melissagreen_
      @melissagreen_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@franksimmons9242 Exactly, they get such a buzz from harming others and become addicted to it like a drug, so it can take them a while to register that you aren't playing their games anymore. Remaining stoic and silent until they can no longer stand it because it forces them to confront their own emotional baggage instead of throwing it at us. It works like a charm!

    • @catherinedavis1690
      @catherinedavis1690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Narcissists don’t ever run away they just get more and more evil and hurtful and some get violent. They have anger management issues and blame you for it all. It is very difficult to get away from a narcissist.

    • @scm0717
      @scm0717 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or just get more abusive.

  • @rowan5335
    @rowan5335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I admit that messing with narcissists and Karens is fun. I have to be careful not to like it too much. But if you start something, whoohoo its on! I have people who cross the street if they see me. HELL YEAH

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂🤣

  • @ronaldlaboy363
    @ronaldlaboy363 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video showed exactly how I handled my narc ex girlfriend. Her lust for money n power made me ultimately discard her with no contact. It is what it is.

  • @cristinavillegas4828
    @cristinavillegas4828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Sync!! Been fighting this battle over 40 years, they don't change and hate loss of control. Pray for them.

    • @brendabyrd668
      @brendabyrd668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said...You're very right💯💯💯they won't and can't change...I remember a preacher saying years ago that jealousy and envy is like aged wine, aged wine gets what with time??🙋‍♀️(( BETTER & BETTER)) but jealousy and envy gets what with time??🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ ((WORSE & WORSE))..its just Best for our sake to just step back out of the forest and then we can see and breath better🤷‍♂️😎BC they're toxic to our soul and health...Take Care🙏

  • @juanitahardy8583
    @juanitahardy8583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am happy being a sigma empath....I like my privacy and I do make my own rules. I often turn the tables on narcissist, lots of practice raised by narcissistic mother and been ghosted by the best of them, door permanently closed.

  • @moniquita9747
    @moniquita9747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I didn't know sigma empaths exists. As I slowly evolved for a long time I've been looking on the exact type of empath I am. And I can say at this age of mine I belong already in this kind. Before I was always taken for granted and abused by my compassionate nature not be able to say No. And just fear of not pleasing any narcissistic individual. But now.. I really came to a point that I dont give a fuck anymore. I am still good natured kind hearted empathetic intuitive and highly sensitive individual but I dont unnecessarily involve myself anymore to anyone or anything that doesnt contribute in any way to my growth or my betterment. Cos I already know my worth and how I function efficiently best. So those who attempt to manipulate and leave me because they do not succeed I dont give a sweat anymore. Sure it may affect me a lil bit because of the curse of being an empath but I can easily shrug it off now and just move on and never look back.

    • @Ellie-sx2rh
      @Ellie-sx2rh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AMEN!!! ✌🏾💜😃

    • @brendabyrd668
      @brendabyrd668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow well said💯💯 that's a amazing way to become when there's no other way to be sane, its for your own sanity🤗🤗. But now in their CONTROL freak eyes we are crazy, evil🤦‍♀️So be it, I don't care anymore🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️Take Care🙏

    • @scm0717
      @scm0717 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I never realized that I've been growing into this either. I always thought it was me until I did learn how to figure them oit.

  • @angelm6497
    @angelm6497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Until I heard this podcast I was annoyed at myself for not seeing my domestic circumstances sooner. I felt I was far too tolerant and forgiving. That he was loving sending me into a spin but I also recognise now that I must have been f'ng hard work for him. Never able to get the full joy of destroying me.
    I think it goes back to that strong inner core of light we each hold within that teaches us compassion and forgiveness but also being smart enough to learn as we develop and good enough to never compromise our inner values.

  • @SwanSong1234
    @SwanSong1234 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've learned to walk away.
    I don't need or no longer want to be in negative energy or relationships.
    I am light, though I have a shadow it's mine , it follows me it doesn't over- shadow me. I know my worth.
    I protect myself using my higher power, prayer, Angel's, guides, meditation, cleansing, grounding, staying balanced.
    You don't have to fight ,yell, argue to make your point.
    You simply quietly turn around and walk away & let go of who & what steals your energy.
    Find peace and dwell there.
    Find your like minded, spiritual community who can love you unconditionally for who you are where your Spirit & gifts can grow.
    Truth & Love Always Wins.
    Live ,Love , Laugh it's a journey not a destination 🕊💜

  • @sospita_
    @sospita_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    What I have to add is if you decide to play the narcissists game be very sure they are not psychopathic. Personally I don't know any kind of person with high empathy and intuition that would give a narcassist the time of day. Empaths will most usually be compelled to be around other empaths and seek out and surround themselves with places of peace or be in service to people in need. Empathic people have a strong desire to enjoy life to follow their bliss and live life to the fullest and playing games with evil people is not blissful.

    • @Carol-gs5tu
      @Carol-gs5tu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was a hostage of mine, I escaped

    • @SteEle3009
      @SteEle3009 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thja...

  • @margaretbrazzell379
    @margaretbrazzell379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is all to true. I just moved out from a narcissist,dark energy, $ hungry, lier. It was hell dealing with her.! Caught her in so many lies. Thank you for the video.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m sure there’s stuff you would never know about her too they live secret lives separate from you it’s a mess there great liars

  • @kausamsalam8543
    @kausamsalam8543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is so accurate; thank you. I’ve never liked games or manipulations, nor believe in trying to brainwash people. Truth hurts. People have trouble seeing their own faults, as sigma empaths are already reflecting on their/our own weaknesses while helping people.

  • @carlathelibra4228
    @carlathelibra4228 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    #7 reminded me of that scene between Black widow and Loki in the Avengers movie… she plays into his game and then turns on a dime once she gets the information she needs, leaving him gobsmacked.

  • @Mr_Curious
    @Mr_Curious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yes! I'll be 60 this year, but my understanding of a narcissist was misguided at best, until a year and one half ago when I learned about the uniquely consistent pattern of abuse associated with NPD. I want to suggest to all the victims and the people who are trying to help with this problem, we need to establish early learning curriculums for students from the eighth grade to twelfth in our high schools. This kind of behavioral education, at the time when young people are developing their understanding of themselves would be extremely helpful. You professionals out there, you need to develope comprehensive teaching modules for each grade level now. The market for such a product is compelling considering the socially beneficial investment it represents. Teachers, partner with each other and effectively reduce the amount of teen anxiety and subsequent bad or reactive behaviors. Consider teaching personality types in general at the same time. Empathy is a powerful tool for understanding that trama is more than what you can see in someone's eyes or recognize in a bodily injury. No one should have to wait until they are 60 to realize that all along what they considered an emotional weakness, is actually a powerful tool, the intrinsic ability to love without boundaries. A powerful but very delicate tool for healing.
    🙃🦂😇🦄🐉💜

    • @JLBW247
      @JLBW247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The education has been available in the "COMPLETE" Holy scriptures, and it's called spiritual discernment. Relationship with God and listening to the Holy Spirit will NEVER lead you wrong. As humans when we think we know better than God, that's when we get into trouble.

  • @tinamcgee8032
    @tinamcgee8032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you for this video and enlightening us to what a sigma empath is, so now I know that I'm a sigma empath !!!.

    • @doloresjanet
      @doloresjanet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wonder whether becoming a sigma empath is something that develops over time. I finally realize my friend is a narcissist which leads me to behaving differently in our relationship. I will be slowly decreasing contact with her. ❤

  • @Odinfang
    @Odinfang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wow, this explains a lot, up to and including why I resist doing anything with a good chunk of my fam.

  • @iraamos2746
    @iraamos2746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thank you so much 4 sharing your excellent summary! Overall is true & accurate enough!They always change the rule and using God to benefits themselves! 💕😘

    • @tinamcgee8032
      @tinamcgee8032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But, God sees the things we don't see, God hears the conversations we don't hear, and God can make the moves we could never make !!!.
      God knows their wicked ways and God says vengeance is his !!!.

  • @lisamarieromeo6122
    @lisamarieromeo6122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm an I,n.f.j and it's like I'm a target for these narassic ppl my ma, twin sister

    • @CarlosLeePerez
      @CarlosLeePerez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey there Lisamarie. I am an INFP. You want to be my TH-cam buddy?

  • @dennisryan6370
    @dennisryan6370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sigmas view Narcissists as children in adult bodies. Hollywood produced a Cartoon in the 60's, they called "Baby Huey" that pretty much summed up all of their tantrums...... PERFECTLY.

    • @lisastillion2937
      @lisastillion2937 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg...I know exactly what you mean by Baby Huey!😅

  • @prepforlife4425
    @prepforlife4425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There’s so many people that are unaware manipulators. Shut them down before it begins. Discernment is crucial.

  • @ryn1775
    @ryn1775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I agree. Thank you for the validation. It helps. 🙂

  • @kathyschulz4251
    @kathyschulz4251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Valid. This hits home
    Real talk I don't give a fuck.
    I like my cats and little else. I don't like someone twisting my life for their own gain.
    That's not love. And I know. And I disappear in someone who does me dirt the second I can
    .

  • @davidarundel6187
    @davidarundel6187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds like me , 🤔💜 for some reason they - narcs - gravitate towards me , often to be rebuffed before contact .

  • @makaylaforbes6719
    @makaylaforbes6719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Yessir! That intellectual chess game was certainly draining, and took an incredibly long time, mainly because it took him a few years to understand and grasp in his mind that I had irrefutable proof of his psychological abusive ways and willingness to lie - even if it meant giving his victim a false report of abusive behaviour (he found that out the hard way when I proved his lies to authorities when he tried that extreme action). I finally no longer hear from him, but I feel bad for his next one(s).

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This!!! Truths!! But they still skirt around in your playground with family members and stuff still trying to destroy you until you play the last card!

    • @makaylaforbes6719
      @makaylaforbes6719 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Portia620 Very true! Lucky for me he has to dig way too deep to make it worth his while to find my family. He never met them and they don't live anywhere closer than a two day drive. I'm certain he's lost a lot of sleep over it - I could feel the disturbance in his energy from afar, but not having any way to find my roots, and not wanting to meet any of my friends (he always thought I made up the idea of me having friends), he has nowhere to turn but to his own circle, and he doesn't even trust them

    • @brendabyrd668
      @brendabyrd668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Portia620 you just told the TRUTH💯💯💯 ...its very hard when its family😬..their lies are truths and your truths the are lies, they are told to make you look bad and to themselves look like the poor innocent victim.....they will continue to play minds games trying to pull you back into their controlling patten of deceit even after you have waken up and stepped out of the mazes of lies......Stay Strong BC with family narcissist the evil battle continues..sad 2 say😢😥

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That exasperation you feel on your end due to the manipulation represents an increase in control they feel on their end.

    • @makaylaforbes6719
      @makaylaforbes6719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dennisrobinson8008 does it ever! Just look in their eyes and you'll see that glint of glee

  • @lilmayomouldycrouton170
    @lilmayomouldycrouton170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am worthy. I have worth. And all that is worthy is out of sight temporarily, out of reach. But I had it, God Given, and my loved ones as well.
    To prove my worth would be an immature tactic, but I am aware something has been using my image, my identity and me agaist my will.
    Im praying to God, through Jesus Christ for me and humankind to be healed of other worldly oppression and manipulation. To see clearly. To have my own space. For all souls to be returned AS THEY WERE as GOD MADE THEM.
    This... "schism...." truly terrified me and it's difficult to know whats true anymore. Im asking for your prayers. I have to keep believing God is protecting everything the enemy distorted and those details will fall back into place after the evil goes back to where it came from.

  • @phyllisquintana9327
    @phyllisquintana9327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This so true. People don't understand where I'm coming from eith my rage. My ex is a Narc, he took major advantage of me and used others to help him. I am DONE. I am y own attorney in 2 cases, against his sister and her spouse, you know my ex is hiding somewhere in that mix and I am winning against them for a parcel, 1 acre of land everyone knew is ours but he left it in his mom's name to keep me away from it. Boy he is so wrong. Narcs are sloppy, and leave evidence everywhere, and I find them and using them to win. I even have the attorney missing up. Now I'm starting in my divorce, adding Money waste do I can expose him and his hoarding ways of waste so I can get my interest back.
    My point, I want payback baby, and they don't pissed me off to the limit of no return, I am not satisfied until I ruin them, lost of employment, sued, exposed and just so the world can see what these people are. Until then, in not satisfied. I allowed them to run over me, my marriage was important to me, it ain't anymore, nor is he or they. I'm not a lawyer, in out of college, but I learn fast especially when I'm on a mission. They hurt me and my then juvenile kids far to long, f that now, paybacks baby.

  • @janethatfield5097
    @janethatfield5097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a parent that was manipulating and nark , so it taught me well to see and feel someone that is awful on the inside and out . I am able to stop these types that can drain others and keep them down

  • @juliannavince6776
    @juliannavince6776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I called myself a damaged empath with shaky boundaries cuz well narcs r so good at what they do. Maybe I've learned the hard way so now i laugh at them. Put em on front street.

  • @williamdemarrais8318
    @williamdemarrais8318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for your video. I have to deal with a Narcissist but am an Empath (Sigma I think).myself. I learned a lot .

  • @lopamudra5398
    @lopamudra5398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have become a sigma empath now, yes.

  • @amypaul5886
    @amypaul5886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes exactly...i so agree with this post... Am good at knowing now who I wish to spend my life around ...I do not like dealing with narcissist behaviors and know how to outsmart them so it gets boring. But have now learned which people out there I wish to converse with as well as people that are not anything I want to even involve myself with. I know my worth ...do not like dealing with stupids, inmature men people who are not concerned with bettering themselves or to be more awake about the world we live in or what the future holds based on our thoughts and based on if we decide to be cruel or choose to do the right thing in most situations.

  • @rosalynjolly2565
    @rosalynjolly2565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They can't get over on us!!!! They are slow

  • @rhondadavis4285
    @rhondadavis4285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Narcissists are absolutely not concerned about any such thing as consequence.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don’t know about that I go to a lot of ups and hoops Cover their tracks in the biggest with a cover their tracks by contact with as much people as possible show me how wonderful they are

    • @soniajoy3727
      @soniajoy3727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sept îles Québec Canada

    • @soniajoy3727
      @soniajoy3727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @Oreo-qn3lk
    @Oreo-qn3lk ปีที่แล้ว

    That is me and exactly what just happened in my life. You nailed it Thanks. I know for sure that now I am a sigma empath.

  • @manishverma-sb7xw
    @manishverma-sb7xw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1... They pay no heed to them...

  • @edwinasabater6642
    @edwinasabater6642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Outside the restrictions of the convent, but able to apply the service outside.
    I accepted the narcissist but only if they respect my boundaries. And being whole, having a lot of accomplishments on my own, that definitely gives confidence, also handling all challenges in life, never back out of confrontation. I was also able to love them despite of their inclinations. They try to capture this independence and self sufficiency, because they need that supply but they know only on my terms. They cannot go over that boundaries. But if you accept them, make sure to get out of that toxicities and seek to take care of you first, leave and recharge your batteries and enjoy flying and be alone for a time. So you won't feel drained, don't be at their beck and call. I used to tell my mother I need alone time for me, every single day, a few hours just for me. Don't ask me where I go. Give me your trust and as I give you mine for you to breathe also..
    I'm married 52 years, even if he is a narcissist, we are best friends and independence is the most important in our relationship. And respecting your values, if I can do this to my mother ( her dream is to get her other children to College) and I supplied that, put aside my goals in life temporary but with a time limit) so 6 kids went to University . And taking care of management of my husband's mother with a stroke and sister in law with Schizophrenia at the house we built for them, for 15 years in the old country, while we worked and live in the states. That is accomplishments I'm talking about. Taking care of financial and management from here. He is 82 years old and I'm 76 years old both retired. I can tell you, we won't be able to accomplish them without a strong faith and conviction that God will lead me, and I would be able to serve through the needs of family.
    I felt that I didn't just exist, I lived life without regrets, because I was free to choose my way, and in the meantime took along the narcissist in my family and get the same satisfaction in life.
    I would suggest, be your self and nobody but God will guide me. I'm still whole and lived life the way I chose and I enjoyed the best and worse in life. And still able to share the blessings with my family and friends along the way.

    • @delilahgambano8812
      @delilahgambano8812 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have given hope to other women who are in your shoes too ❤

  • @franmayor7541
    @franmayor7541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Glad to discover this, thank you!

  • @murielcarlos1943
    @murielcarlos1943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wooow crazy. So on point. My exact situation. Thank you everything is so true

  • @raggedyann8762
    @raggedyann8762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😢 I hope I can get to the place of not allowing the narcissists and there lies to affect me so deeply.. I’m having a really hard time lately as I have discovered another lie. I’m starting to feel/ wonder if anyone out there is faithful or really cares about anyone else ??? I just always assume that no one would ever want to purposely hurt anyone else. sadly I’ve married into a family that is at times ruthless... I’m completely out numbered and an just plain exhausted and over whelmed to the point it is affecting my health...between them and everything else goin on in the world I pray that I , my children as well as all other empathy can make it thru. At this point I feel like running to the mountains and and living with all the beautiful animals and nature that God has blessed us with!

    • @cynthiabiel7714
      @cynthiabiel7714 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ask for help...quietly..from even domestic abuse organizations...get yourself financially able enough yo leave..living in a studio apartment or a cabin in the woods is better than getting sick...if you get sick because of them they will not help and you will be more stuck with less options....

    • @RaHB7
      @RaHB7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some creatures/plants paralyse or weaken their prey before they devour them….they need the food supply. Stay long enough with narcissists and they do the same. They are wired that way. Educate yourself and plan an escape. It's a journey back to yourself. I did it so I know it’s possible. God be with you.

  • @chosenonpurpose489
    @chosenonpurpose489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    👼April 6, 2022👼
    “BRING ME the sacrifice of thanksgiving. Take nothing for granted, not even the rising of the sun. Before Satan tempted eve in the Garden of Eden, thankfulness was as natural as breathing. Satan's temptation involved pointing Eve to the one thing that was forbidden her. The garden was filled with luscious, desirable fruits, but Eve focused on the one fruit she couldn't have rather than being thankful for the many good things freely available. This negative focus darkened her mind, and she succumbed to temptation. When you focus on what you don't have or on situations that displease you, your mind also becomes darkened. You take for granted life, salvation, sunshine, flowers, and countless other gifts from Me. You look for what is wrong and refuse to enjoy life until that is "fixed." When you approach Me with thanksgiving, the Light of My Presence pours into you, transforming you through and through. Walk in the Light with Me by practicing the discipline of thanksgiving.” (JESUS CALLING)

    • @jwilcox4726
      @jwilcox4726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God bless you.

    • @tinamcgee8032
      @tinamcgee8032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom God bless you and keeping everyone in my prayers 🙏📖❣️🔥🗡️🛡️📯🕊️☝️☁️☁️🌫️🌈👑🌁😊❤️✌️✨🌹

    • @I-Am-Prosperous-I-Am-Grateful
      @I-Am-Prosperous-I-Am-Grateful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ✝️

  • @dyanberg6263
    @dyanberg6263 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The worst part of having a narcissist in my life was that we had 4 kids that exhibited similar behaviors as the father. I did not give birth to four kids to have them victimized by their dad. That’s when it became urgent to distant their father from them to minimize his impact on their personality. I didn’t know at the time that I was a sigma empath.
    We have survived all his lies and manipulations and all 5 of us are healthy and thriving in our lives.

  • @Realjustice3
    @Realjustice3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I proved to people with the recordings I had with my narcissistic mother,all she said was ,"YOU WILL NEVER HAVE PIECE UNTIL YOU DELETE THOSE RECORDINGS ".

  • @riekaakier1526
    @riekaakier1526 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The narcissists know that I recognize them and that is why they are cautious. My weapon is to surround myself with caring people and not give a damn about their opinion of me. They know that I am vulnerable but at the same time strong like a lion. Roar!

  • @bonniehafeman9757
    @bonniehafeman9757 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks again for your beautiful insights.

  • @MegaCyberleader
    @MegaCyberleader 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    NICE WORK. :)

  • @scm0717
    @scm0717 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Once I have a person figured out, I call them on everything that they've said and done. I sit back and wait for the next reaction or action because I now know what it will be and I will not give them the satisfaction.

  • @leighton082981
    @leighton082981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My ex best friend and her whatever you would call him at this point, which was diagnosed with NPD and bipolar in which she also adopted a lot of these tendencies from a terrible toxic relationship.. anyway, they would come to me for advice because I didn't beat around the bush. I was very factual and solid in the advice I did give and if I was unsure I would be very clear about offering the advice... But when things were bad I was the whipping post for both of them. People would use me to get to her and she let it happen for years and years till eventually were the ex-husband and brother-in-law had court orders against them to leave me the f alone.. and then amazingly she met someone even worse. That actually is the person above and it just got even worse and continued to the point where our friendship was extinguished! Narcissists are just something else! My mother displays narcissistic tendencies completely and her wife now is even worse lol. Almost 41 and I have left both of those people out of my life! 🍻

  • @athena3865
    @athena3865 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I told him he doesn't know me, though I know him. Now who's walking on eggshells...

  • @lightningphoenix3096
    @lightningphoenix3096 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well I learned to trust myself. Before I trust others. I used to play the follower. THEN
    REALIZED how many ppl has been playing nice to you. That is when survival mode kicks in

  • @robinmork2828
    @robinmork2828 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stop telling people about us. Very nicely analyzed.

  • @LDRester
    @LDRester 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely agree with number 1. I consider them so irrelevant that I almost didn’t bother to watch the video

  • @McD-j5r
    @McD-j5r 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Accurate. Thank you.

  • @starseed45
    @starseed45 ปีที่แล้ว

    I once had a therapist who was a narcissist but I never let her manipulate me. I would never waste a minute of my time on a narcissist

  • @rodneywallace6810
    @rodneywallace6810 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot on.thats all I'm gonna say.

  • @IKFKSwitch
    @IKFKSwitch 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Re: Boss a narcissist around. I accidentally did that with someone who I didn't realize was a narc, and I just thought was a flake. I had no idea how furious he was at what I did. He was totally hating me. 😆😆

  • @20056sandra
    @20056sandra 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is wonderful 😊 I can understand myself now 💚

  • @Jmg354
    @Jmg354 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, so much,
    Dealing with a master narcissistic sibling, got screwed for 500k
    From manupilations, emotional, and physical abuse,
    Now I know, now I know how to deal with her, thank you thank you, God bless

  • @jaweedmohamed7708
    @jaweedmohamed7708 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's very inspirational and informative...

  • @shareonrivas1458
    @shareonrivas1458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    SOME ITEMS SEEM TRUE TY

  • @lomilomi3535
    @lomilomi3535 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My boss is an evil narcissist...so clever he can be seemingly nice but it is all an act....he wanted to win against me because I stood up to him big time...did not speak a single word to me for 3 months....when he least expected it ..meaning the worst possible time for him I left..never to come back...now He is nice to me so I come back....because He needs me....I cannot even bear to look at him one more time...They are the nastiest people on this planet...but they are no match for a Sigma...they do not realize that we really see them ..and what we see is not pretty

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In the end they play their game and destroy them in the end with the truth.

  • @nicholashenning7334
    @nicholashenning7334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍🏻👍🏻,yep you nialed it

  • @jimlappa7751
    @jimlappa7751 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn’t know I have been doing this all along. I really don’t get embarrassed. I just move on. Not sure I play games, but sometimes I let someone hang him- or herself by not telling them they’re crazy in a room full of people who know better than the know-it-all. That’s fun. I’m not anything special, but I did have showy parents. I just stayed away from those who believed the display. I learned to act dumb. I still do. Maybe I am. I really dig wise people. Whoever did this segment is wise. Cool.

  • @elizabetharmah9971
    @elizabetharmah9971 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's right that true,

  • @leatricegray6363
    @leatricegray6363 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yess right on Point U put voice to what I'm an Hv expierced with a indv

  • @RoselineSeka
    @RoselineSeka 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks

  • @junehansen9749
    @junehansen9749 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im a sigma empath and this i so true. I did all this whit my narcesistisk x.

  • @elizabetharmah9971
    @elizabetharmah9971 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your comments, 👍👍👍👍💕

  • @nagmastergeneral55
    @nagmastergeneral55 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    On point.

  • @alanreed647
    @alanreed647 ปีที่แล้ว

    good, yes stand up for yourself and let the chips fall where they may, they will discard you and thats ok, they did you a favor, dont go back to them , they will eventually return to their typical patterns

  • @jamesdouglas7345
    @jamesdouglas7345 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sigma empaths must be the strongest.

  • @jipsiemune
    @jipsiemune 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's a brutal life

  • @taraarrington2285
    @taraarrington2285 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's always the little dog that tells the big ones what's up.

  • @macfrankist
    @macfrankist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Narcisists often think they are more intelligent this is their downfall when dealing with a more intelligent sigma empath.

  • @LysaChampione
    @LysaChampione 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They even drop pink razors and pillows in dollar stores
    Ask George...
    And Toni

  • @alouettedemer5366
    @alouettedemer5366 ปีที่แล้ว

    For the last half-century since my college days, there has been not only one narcissist in my life. There are two. Narcissism in stereo. And, they work together. It's easy to use their shared traits of paranoia and distrust to turn them onto one another, and then sit back and watch the freak show, a vulgar theatre of the absurd. We sigma empaths can have a dark side which makes us a formidable foe when we've had enough of the abuse. We're experts at human nature and they are not, for their minds are a tangled phone cord.

  • @saumur69ify
    @saumur69ify 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's me 100%

  • @patrickbiron8978
    @patrickbiron8978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi thank you for your videos I don't know if Iam a sigma or ahiok empath could anyone help me with this???

  • @Gomorragh
    @Gomorragh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    sometimes, just sometimes, for the sake of others the sigma empath will not only get involved in the game, but will manipulate the game to a point where the narcissist digs a massive hole visible to all people who know them, and this hole is an ever extending one, they allow one victory while then using that victory to be one that will eventually highlight the stance of the narcissist to others around them who are being effected without realising the cause, eventually the sigma empath will pull the rug of support and acceptance that they have been feeding the narcissist, and in turn the narcissist will try to feed on everyone around them to rebalance themselves. This action alone can finally get someone to learn from thier actions but will teach the people around them to watch for certain things .... It s exceptionally self damaging to the sigma empath as this doesnt allow for the needed alone time, but is sometimes best in regards to a future situation the Sigma see coming within months

  • @seraphinasdotter263
    @seraphinasdotter263 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Narcissistics nearly never change… so it’s futile to try.

  • @Jettingred4
    @Jettingred4 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came to the point in my life with my Narcissistic friend that enough was enough after knowing and caring about him for over 40 years. He liked to think he was very intelligent, however I’m a member of Mensa and that use irritated him to no end. He was dumb as a bag of rocks. He had a complete meltdown one night when I said I was a bit peckish. He raged that I should speak American and not Peck at him LOL!
    After I flew back East, I just simply went NO CONTACT period! I warned him about his decision to get into a third party relationship and that Karma is a bitch and that he should stop.I haven’t looked back. Thankfully, we live on separate coasts. He is an alcoholic and a determined one! Lot’s of luck chuck! He’s going to be dead in the next 5 years at age 76 sadly. His body is going in pieces. I guess he just has to be right all the time! Too bad too sad! He just cannot control his liver! Absolutely no sense of humor or introspection. Life’s too short to spend one’s time raging at everyone sadly.

  • @AdaliaFrison921
    @AdaliaFrison921 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Husband has been really beside himself and sometimes speechless lately after targeting me. 😂 Don't continue to disrespect and abuse me and my children without expecting Mama Cat to put you in your place, respectfully still. The tatics amuse at this point.

  • @Hunter225
    @Hunter225 ปีที่แล้ว

    I ignore them. I lived with 2 for years. I found them so boring. People's opinion of me don't mean anything to me, so their tricks never work

  • @edwinasabater6642
    @edwinasabater6642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You don't choose your family, so my mother is one, my brother and sister, and my husband and his mother.
    I learned to tame that narcissism.
    As long as you are whole, you know your self-worth. And you have your boundaries and never let anybody intrude in them to manipulate you. You have to accept their nature, and tell the basic truth of what they are doing and even if you love and respect them, will not allow this manipulation and guilt trip. You are on to them, and just tell it as it is.
    My mother told me when I was in High School that I'm thinking to join the Catholic Convent. She informed me that I would pass whatever they give me, except obedience. I follow only God's laws and have a definite self discipline, willful, resourceful, resilient and stubbornness. They will kick me out, she was right. That as I grew older, I can still follow my dream of service, outside the

  • @romanticallyhopelessrose
    @romanticallyhopelessrose 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    On the money

  • @Wellch
    @Wellch หลายเดือนก่อน

    The sigmas have to recognize the narcassists first…then watch out, narcassists.

  • @hopeholistichealermccullou735
    @hopeholistichealermccullou735 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wowzer….

  • @brandyhenry2151
    @brandyhenry2151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Luchi fab 🔥🔥🔥

  • @curtislocus195
    @curtislocus195 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love

  • @KennethDixon-jf3ed
    @KennethDixon-jf3ed ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm dealing with a narcissist who has shot my horses dogs cats and chickens would BB guns shot at them and myself in my wife with a 9 mm and shot me in the face with a BB gun now I'm in the process of teaching him a lesson versus been arrested on one charge their investigating another charge with bodily injury to BB in my face and beat my dog with a water hose so I am in the process of teaching him a lesson using the law every time he turns around he's getting fined by the dog catcher the police EPA the board of health and after he's convicted for shooting me in the face with the BB gun I will sue him for everything he owned

  • @Vyjayanthi41
    @Vyjayanthi41 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is tight rope walking for several years.

  • @Rhapsody-lu2gi
    @Rhapsody-lu2gi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yep 👌😁😎

  • @elizabethmeyer7709
    @elizabethmeyer7709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me 😇

  • @tonyharrison1726
    @tonyharrison1726 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have just ended a 24 year relationship with my deceitful, cheating and porn addicted toxic loosely put man. We have 2 teen daughters and it has destroyed their lives as well as mine. He emotionally detached from me because his dopamine addiction was starving his serotonin love chemical. I should of ended it years ago, but battled it out for the sake of my daughters. Now there is no going back. As a sigma empath, I know my worth and my bar is set way higher than his. He is a snake, so the bar for him is very low.

  • @jessmason2112
    @jessmason2112 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They don't even have a chance in hell. Karma is inevitable and the truth is cold.