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This I believe 20 yr old video will go down as a timeless and priceless historical treasure of intentional inaccuracy, delusion, deception and sadism.

@1.20 the collusion between meds and applied behavioral analysis (ABA) and Barkley's sadism (and I do not say this lightly) fully comes out. It is not my darling clone and criminal to double down and create for the child (or older) more punitive measures (i.e. consequences for his/her behavior). No! It is about cultivating with developmental insight, gentleness and compassion the underlying interoceptive foundations of increased feelings of safety in order to help that child slow down. Or embrace the natural gifts and talents of that child by making him feel less pathologized, objectified and estranged and WELCOMED! The complete opposite.

As I commented extensively elsewhere on this fraud, I'll just add a few more here. So a people under apartheid rebelling or certain members of a group or a child rebelling against his emotional neglect and abuse at home and bullying in school and cannot focus on certain set of orderly behaviors or cannot hold in mind a certain sequences in order to complete age appropriate work/tasks and too boot lashes out undoubtedly are displaying characteristics of a brain disorder (ADHD, ODD) encompassing the anterior cingulate, basal ganglia and cerebellum (the latter of which evincing reduce mass, grey matter) or if hypoactive, withdrawn and in a parasympathetic withdrawn/shutdown and/or dissociated state a different set of heretofore attributions which signify a PREDISPOSED genetically disordered imbalance in the brain. ABSOLUTE AND TOTAL BS! This guy is one the darlings of the paid for lecture circuits of the Pharmaceutical cos. He was or is well funded to promote the entire panacea of psychotropics for fictitious "brain disorders" to well meaning but naive parents. Lack of compliance to "societal norms" (lol) which are problematic and diseased to begin with and "Time Management" (well if take a remote tribe in the Peruvian amazon or Paupa New Guinea and put them in Times Square you might perchance find that their "brains" are operating quite differently with respect to the above. This is extraordinarily dangerous and should be not partly but entirely discarded. However, convincing it might seem prim facie this is the view of the marriage of Pharmaceutical cos for 55 years inventing drugs for "brain disorders" which do not exist combined with (two prong approach) ABA and CBT or DBT. Changes in neurochemical, neuropeptides, neurohormones, neurotransmitters, serotonin, dopamine, epinephrine oxytocin, vasopressin, etc, are tremendously dynamic and fluid and change according the state of our autonomic nervous system and subcortical functioning through our experiences with the world. For example, "Do we feel safe with others and environment or are we in a high sympathetic-adrenal arousal fight/flight defensive state or if we feel can't fight or flee, a dorsal vagal parasympathetic withdrawn/shut down and/or dissociated state?" This will then determine what areas of the brain are engaged, how they are engaged, stimulated, activated, under stimulated or deactivated. The above is not "genetically wired in" but is epigenetically dependent and in accordance to Affective Neuroscience, biopsychosocial approach in science today; Interpersonal Neurobiology and Polyvagal Theory, etc. This clown and the pharmaceutical cos he represents would like you to believe that it is the other way around and that the "in utero prewired genetics in of the brain" are driving the behaviors. Naturally, there are many instances of chemically occurring in the environment endocrine disruptors, herbicides, etc., that can affect functioning This clown (quite convincing) is taking descriptive social narratives and pathologizing them (anthropomorphizing them) as neurogenetic brain disorders. Historically, and just one tiny instance, the etiology of ADHD which was called during the time of black slaves (under a different name but similar first coined name, something along the lines of Runaway disorder) signifying a lack of compliance and a disordered mind.

Stop pathologizing, distorting, deriding and bashing our children into grossly misleading caricatures (and just simply scientifically inaccurate) to fit your agenda! You are despicable !

It is NOT about self-control you M-oron! It is about back and forth deepening reciprocal attachment and attunement or what we call dyadic co.regulation, which is a biological-psychological-social process begun with healthy secure based attachment (ie epigenetics which wires prefrontal executive functioning). It through social dynamic healthy co-regulation that the child begins to internally regulate. It is NOT about, “Self-control”. Nor is it through declarative memory schema or visual-imagery.

Executive functioning is driven by underlying subcortical-autonomic functioning. Simply, if you are feeling compromised (autonomic nervous system in a state of fight/flight or withdrawal/shutdown or dissociation - and therefore, not safe) then back and forth interactive affect co-regulation is going to be challenged and thus "attention" will naturally and adaptively follow. Please ignore this well-informed, well-spoken criminal.

You are again willfully, despicably, criminally and deceptively blaming the child and scaring the parents. “He won’t have any friends. S/he will be shunned”, etc. NO , “It doesn’t arise from the inhibitory aspects.” It (what is the it?) arises from the child!s or adult’s Autonomic Nervous System that is under feelings of threat (ie, sympathetic fight/flight responses or parasympathetic withdrawal/shutdown and/or dissociation).

I love it! “ADHD causes ODD.” No my dear despicable and deceptive criminal one, what it causes is greater profits for pharmaceutical cos (for fictitious “brain disorders”) of whom you are affiliated with and sponsored by.

I have commented most extensively on this most dangerous paid for by his multiple conflicts of interest vis a vis many pharmaceutical cos. Retrospectively, I am once again reminded how simplistically reductive, deceptive and criminal he is. He is presuming what “Normal brains” and a set of “Appropriate age level” response are and then in a very resplendently deceptive manner ascribing brain regions that are causal, responsible and targeting vis a vis combination of a psychotropic salad bar and behavioral modification. Well, 1) There is no such thing as, “Normal.” 2) When we peal away (warning: pharmaceutical cos don’t want you to) the external manifestation of descriptors with the so-called qualitative or quantitative “disorder” what we in the biopsychosocial sciences find is an autonomic nervous system under various states of stress which then manifest in the external manifesting symptomatology of a “formal disorder” which then need to be (regions of the brain) targeted by psychotropics and thus symptom reducing in order to re-establish greater neuronal functional normalcy. Well, that is not only dangerous, upside down and a bunch of bs but 100% criminal. 3) Rather, it is about cultivating the underlying interoceptive foundations of felt-safety with others and environment. In other words, not a set of regional genetic brain disorder but rather an Autonomic Nervous System that has been re-tuned or locked into various states of defense (e.g., high sympathetic-adrenal fight/flight responses or parasympathetic withdrawal/shutdown and or dissociation). When that interoceptive (internal) sense of felt-safety with others and environment is re-established, which can be very challenging and problematic for those coming from moderate to severe early trauma histories, then we see, for example, reductions in epinephrine, cortisol, vasopressin and corresponding increases in dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin. 4) We also need to stop scaring people and pathologizing (for explicit trillions of pharmaceutical cos) one brand of “normal.” So in conjunction and within the above I just mentioned, there is a simple word that had long been in circulation, “Neurodiversity.”

This is such bs Jesus. Yeah maybe 50% of this. This dude is cumin hard

God has truly blessed you with a gift. You can put into words what so many of us with ADHD cannot. I have the rare,after puberty, hyperactivity.

Sir, you do not need to hear my story. Please know that you have helped me understand myself. Thank you. ❤

My daughtet has just been expelled from school because school dont understand her ADHD. I am also part to blame because i felt she was a naughty child and felt overwhelmed with school complaints emails. I agreed with the expulsion. I ve been reading and researching about her ADHD/ ODD seriously the past 1 week and with this Video I see her differently and will SUPPORT her 100% ...in a week my approach to her behaviour has taken 360 turn...she is also on vyvance...

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This is such a great speech. I saw some comments saying they cried when watching this video. I thought I wouldnt. However I cried at last. He fully understands what the parents of ADHD experienced. That is so hard to parenting a child like this. So So Hard.

Emotional irregularities 7:30 and on .. man i done been in 3 school districts as a kids lots of problems ect .. only to find out at 46 ive got moderate to severe adhd .. it explains everything to degree of the delay. No wonder I'm so fu ked up and impulsive and a trucker mouth and looking for stimulation to a degree.. 😂😂 impulsive sob i am ..lmao own da shit to a degree .. hopefully i wont hurt anyone or anything. .. I've made a few mistakes but learning fast from the past , dot do that shit again type stuff 😂😂.. meds helping the distraction around more. . And not as irritated with people and for no reason at all .. i enjoy people from a far now .. 😂😂❤.. I'll stay here you stay their .. be kind have a good day knowing what i know now .. not matter how much coffee or caffeine it not enough... and yes pills dont help the skills.. ..

I remember working on a farm when I was much younger. I became thirsty and walked to a nearby building that had a garden hose. After opening the valve and while waiting for the water to get cold I became distracted, at some point cut the water off, and went back to work. Less than an hour later I did the exact same thing. When you have a condition that can, at least for some amount of time, override your physical needs , just imagine how that can impact other, more benign activities. I have report cards from middle school. In the comment section of one my teacher wrote “Lee can do the work if he will learn how to apply himself.” Sure you ignorant b**ch, so teach me how to “apply” myself. My parents were lazy, irrational and overly emotional thinkers so a beating of was in order almost every time I received a bad grade, failed to do homework or was caught daydreaming in class. I felt as though nobody was on my side. And that, along with other things that have impinged on me and will probably do so until my death, have caused me abject misery. NEVER ABANDONED YOUR CHILD. YOU ARE ALWAYS ON YOUR CHILD’S SIDE! “A feeling of insupportable loneliness.” - Poe

Mind blowing! Thank you Dr Barkely

85 slices , 45 years life work , I have brought 2 of your books ! we appreciate you so so much !

As someone who has a lot of imposter syndrome about my ADHD (definitely more imposter than I do about my autism) the driving section is extra scary to hear about, I have had so many instances of nearly being in accidents due to my ADHD and probably my dads undiagnosed ADHD. He is such a risky driver, who speeds, drinks and is as he was saying earlier in the video very angry behind the car.

My husband has adhd… after this lecture I decided that I don’t want children from him. I don’t possibly want to bring such a severely disabled child into the world. A chance of 50% of the child inheriting this horrible disorder is just too much to risk it.

33:29 video game hits hard.

I was diagnosed at 18 with severe combined type ADHD. I’m turning 25 this year and in my summer semester returning back to college after dropping out at 19. I have lost so many opportunities because of it. I am behind my peers because of it. I don’t know how to explain it to my boyfriend or my friends. I slightly hate myself - how much I talk, my absent mindedness, my thoughtlessness, my impulsiveness. I hate it. I’m getting better and I’m learning and I’m better at managing symptoms. But getting my boyfriend to understand is so hard. This lecture needs to be watched by everyone, everywhere. Maybe those who called me lazy or stupid would understand the hell I live through better

I need this in Spanish...

You have done a good job marketing ADHD medication.

Your information is frightening to me. I just was diagnosed as having ADHD. And I am 70 years old. It sounds insurmountable. Plus I have congenitally under developed frontal lobes. And my ability to understand what you are saying is significantly less than it once was. At my age this explains my paralysis even though I am very or quite intelligent.

All teachers NEED to hear this 😅

Let’s go Donald 2024!!!!!

Esto dice todo de porque siempre llegó tarde😮

This approach really worked for my son. I highly recommend his books and videos.

I don’t know where to begin about my experience with ADHD. For the most part, it was treated like a cold. “Just send him to the psychiatrist that’s what they are there for” only for a month later to be yelled at because we stopped all the reinforcement behaviors because I should be “better by now”. It creates a complex of “at my very core, I am wrong” and have a lifetime of self rejection issues. Coupled with being an easy target for bullying and parents that both grew up in emotionally abusive homes, so naturally they became the abusers themselves. and you’ve got yourself a terrible childhood. I’m 35 and I’ve never had a relationship longer than 3 months. Went to every school dance stag, always wondering what was wrong with me and why just nobody seemed to like me or why didn’t I fit in. I wrote up a brief “how I’m feeling” paper for my psychologist since I had a breakdown recently. It was only supposed to be like a paragraph….turned into 13 pages. She had to stop after page 7 because it was too emotionally traumatic. Yay.

SCT , aka ? What

You know nothing.

For me, chunking the tasks, clocks on every line of sight, a watch, lists .

I agree Dr. Richard Barkley is magnificent! I do not take anything from his genius! But I’m sure that he and I would be able to agree on a lot of things! Much Love.

This will be my last comment: and I’m sure it will not be popular with the medical community. There are totally natural pharma to enhance dopamine such as Mucuna pruniens. The only problem is you start with about 1 mL and adjust to what feels right for you, have to adjust. Because you know the (FDA has a hands up). Just like the natural supplement Gymnema leaf, completely gets rid of sugar in the bloodstream. Think of the benefits if you have diabetes. I make these points, because I just want to inform people, they have an alternative to a drug that can make you a drug addict. Or diabetes meds, and they’re beautiful side effects. Much Love.

1:53:19 own it!

1:50:14 great advices for parents 👍

1:44:26 child’s executive age. What is child’s self-regulatory age. There is 30% lag.

Self-regulation

ADHD causes ODD (Oppositional defiant disorder is a type of behavior disorder. Children with ODD are uncooperative, defiant, and hostile toward peers, parents, teachers, and other authority figures)

Is he saying that anyone is always 30% behind developmentally? Or just until maturation? For example is a 30 year old at the level of someone in their early 20s? Asking for a friend….. 🫤

i m finding 8 categories 34:18 . 1 category present withing all - not creating personal space withing . How this happened ? With force . Traumatization of brain to be ready nonstop for stimuli coming (=assumption) . Violation of internal space by impacting force and mind confusing dominance of parents . Making child to grow brain into sponge and free-less dependency on environment . I m opened to discuss just fun: there is no 5 executive abilities . Math decors the one . There is just one execution . Through math we discover basis by going down the ladder

Sounds like he is on the big pharma pay roll. Chemical imbalance is a myth.

This guy is aces, so much info

So, I have "ADHD," but I have always had a strong internal monologue and visual imagery. The disconnect has always been the inability to maintain a goal and not coping well with change. I would love for this man to do a case study of my condition, even though I am almost 30 now. I feel as though he would come away with some better knowledge of the fact that you can't label "ADHD" across the board. That certain cases are different and that certain traits will be present and prominent in some that wouldn't be in others and at various stages in life.

Wow - just teach your ADHD kids to play chess and get a coach and enter tournaments... it'll fix'em.

Jag är strax 32 år gammal, och kan inte känna gemenskap över huvud taget !

- Falha de persistência 17:19 - Dificuldade em se manter no objetivo 20:24 - Autocontrole não é aprendido 25:45 - Motivação 32:04 - Miopia gerada pelo TDAH dificuldade em enxergar futuro 1:13:40 - Dificuldade em organizar tarefas de forma hierárquica 1:14:53 - Tdah precisa de mais responsabilidades, sofrer as consequências das suas atitudes 1:21:35 - Ferramentas para TDAH 1:27:54

Or maybe, just maybe there isn’t something wrong with these people. Perhaps ADHD is a natural reaction to the unnatural conditions we find ourselves in. Perhaps people aren’t happy working for money as we have been conditioned to think. I genuinely believe ADHD is a symptom of some greater issue.