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Unfortunately I’m not a gracious receiver no one ever gave me shit to be grateful for 🤷🏽‍♀️ and because my father did me how he did me I am the way I am. I can sit down and do all the healing work I desire but until god present me with the proper opportunity to see it from a different lense I can only operate from what I have experienced and until I experience something different 🤷🏽‍♀️ but I’m so screwed up I can’t even allow myself to experience something different cause it doesn’t feel normal. I’m too use to not receiving, not being protected or provided for shit is sad

❤ I love this! This has to be true… my mother is one spoiled wifey. My parents have been married now for 46 years and to this day… she gets whatever she wants … and my dad is so proud to do it all! I’ve been a wife twice and a girlfriend a couple of times… none lasted more than 4 years!!! This new relationship or partnership that I’m in now… I think I’m realizing from your video that I’ve been doing it wrong for years!! My partner offers to give me gas money and I’d say “that’s ok I have gas money “ Or he offers to give me money for food and I say “no that’s ok… I’m good” Or he says … just recently… can I take you shopping for clothes or something…. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ and I say…. I just got some that are still in the packaging” He also tried to secretly put money in my purse but I caught him … “ I said thank you “ but I think he was a bit disappointed that I caught him. He said he wanted me to get home and find it and be puzzled as to how it got there… This time around… it’s not even a matter of being spoiled… I just want my feminine energy to one day reveal itself… I pray for the best!

Does this mean also trusting in the unknown?

This is a very nice episode with important information to apply thank you ❤

That’s true , my husband says he dosent even think about how much I make

I am going to be a very spoilt wife😊😊🙏

I need your help

Great content!

It kind of seems like manipulation, but I like. I’m on board! 😉

Thank you 💗

I love the idea of winning with my man. That makes him feel respected and like we’re on the same team 💗

I believe many women in our community have lost our femininity because so many of us are single moms and struggling.

I didn't feed my baby daddy egi, but his coworker did and they are now dating. Although, he tells me they are just friends and denies they live together. He even calls me everyday.

Or we can just ask - How does he see himself as a husband and listen - Telling a man all the things we like and want is why some women end up with the mask being taken off on them. Ladies we have to learn to listen more than talk as well.

I love to dress, beautiful dresses, and heels! I have a closet full of stylish clothes. But I work in construction so on a daily, I'm walking around in T-shirt, jeans, and boots!!!! So they only see me when I'm my feminine self?!?! Oh lordt, I'm in trouble. 😢❤😂

Thank you!

For me to brag on a man it has to be genuine and with some of the rich men I was with were jerks so I couldn’t brag on him if I did it would be smart but phony lol 😹 so I need a provider that’s truly interesting to me not just interesting because he’s a multi millionaire

I lost my baby daddy to his coworker because she boosted his ego. I was devastated, but he recently lost his car and I am putting him on child support, so she can have his broke a$$. Plus, the apartment he lives in where me and my child would spend the night with him at is in this woman's name. She had bought a house, lost it, had to move back in her apartment so he kicked us , well at least me, out of his life saying it was over with us years ago😢. This woman may operate out of feminine, but she dresses like a hoochie.

Good men are not easy to come By

Had a man ask me to go in my purse and return the date he gave me…… I dropped him

this is great info, however temporarily I'm in between blessings and not able to dress feminine atm. I have sporty clothing, and I take very good care of myself. would this prevent me from attracting that provider man?

I love this message. "Men desire us based on how we make them feel." A guy I was dating who was a provider type said I was so emotionally mature and that he just wanted to be around me. I noticed how relaxed he was and he opened up about things that were intimate (not sexual) about his family, etc and I'd just listen and comment if that was necessary. I could tell he felt at peace with me. Not to be confused with 'I was his peace' BUT that he felt at peace with me. We laughed, joked, had serious conversations too. It felt good and he liked that most.

I needed to hear this - thank you so much for sharing

If she is a "trophy" like you describe, she HAS TO be a classic beauty. Everyone cannot pull that off....only a select few women and they don't have to listen to this advice because they're already living it. If she doesn't fit the societal standard other men aren't going to react to him having "her" on his arm. You're contradicting yourself.

If you don't look mixed and exotic with a pear shape, forget it...You'll have better luck creating your own wealth/lifestyle.

Thank you so much for this video! Giving me clarity on this perspective! I have recently been telling myself to become the woman my husband deserves because essentially it's the woman I want to be anyways! This video ties into that so perfectly! It's not about him or doing it for him more than it is about me doing it for me and because it's who God called me to be from the beginning!🥰🙏🏾

Surrender is the absolute key to all things femininity. God will show you how much surrendering means to him, it’s a part of our obedience It can be very hard… the things you have to be willing to lose to get what God really has for you Anything that you’ve acquired without God and of your own doing may have to fall away What God wants you to have will prevail, only God’s plans prevail and give you the desires of your heart Not your strong hands holding onto material things that can be replaced and God can multiply ❤

20:42 yes! This is what ppl think when they see you with him, like how did he get her??? Where she come from??? Are there more like her?? Where can I find her??! Damn! 😅 I think this is how men and on watcher think. When you are a natural charismatic and femininely energetic woman.

The guy that found me keeps saying he can not believe that I am single… this tells me he is truly smitten and interested. It’s a great feeling knowing he’s pursuing… and invited me to show effort or reciprocal along the way. ❤

I love your videos! This is true! No matter what life looks like for you, you have to: -find your personal style -find your maintenance routines -stock up on your go to things that make you feel great (body creams, scrubs, bath bubbles, scrubby gloves) -signature scents -signature nails -master who you want or don’t want in your circle -master your lifestyle -pick your hobbies and interests and pursue them. -keep working on mental and spiritual wellbeing… journaling, reading scripture and understanding them, get therapy and discuss your goals and how to get there. It will all pay off. I started from over weight… I loss weight and then got depressed and gained more weight than I ever had before. I had to accept that and go buy clothing that fit me and my personal style- it made me want to lose weight again -now still in the same personal style…at a larger size, I’m losing weight and I am looking for to rewarding my journey with smaller sizes. Cultivating my femininity consistently has drawn the provider male, and he doesn’t care what size I am because I accept myself as I am now… and accepts him as he is now. I live in the moment and have no expectations… I keep my carbs low and take nature walks and rest This peace, acceptance and restfulness is attractive. ❤

11:52 this is what I’m hearing from the new guy I’m vetting right now… He was married, put his wife through nursing school, had 3 children within his marriage, his brother died, he adopted his 2 nephews with his wife support, he’s driven, he has 3 bio and 2 adopted… 2 grown and 2 almost out of grade school, 2 older college graduates. He takes care of his mother on dialysis and his wife gets cancer and dies 2020 during the worst time Covid and having a 5yo daughter. His wife has passed 4 years ago and he desires to remarry When I listen to him, I hear… I cook, I owned a food truck before (I DON’T NEED YOU TO COOK FOR ME AND MY FAMILY!!) He is driven to start his food truck business again… He has had same job 10yrs. that pays well. I hear (I DON’T NEED YOU TO WORK AT ALL, I HAVE TAKEN CARE OF EVERY ONE UNDER MY ROOF) I think he just wants a safe place for his family, a female presence for his 9yo daughter and someone that is peaceful and able to follow his lead. He is simply a home body outside of work and a family man. I am willing to enjoy what he has already been doing… and be a support. I am a nurse professionally but it will be on the back burner, do it when it’s convenient for me. Because being a nurse puts me in my masculine and renders me unavailable to the energy he desires. I wrote his characteristic down so many times over the last 10+ years and he finally came. I wanted children and to be one big family. I cared for his mother in a rehab, he expressed interest when he left his mother told me (he has a great job and goes to church every Sunday… she said ASK ME ANYTHING! 😂)Upon his mother’s discharge he asked for my number. I like that he was never divorced and how strong he is for everyone. He is taller than me and easy on the eyes and fit. His wife was 230lbs before she got sick. He doesn’t mind a little makeup and doesn’t mind wearing wigs, weave or whatever. Encourages low maintenance like locks… which I told him I was considering. He supported that idea. Bless us all ❤

I just opened my TH-cam and saw my face on here. I don’t even have one single person hollering at me 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What kind of man is in my corner: Who dismisses people when they give me compliments. Eg. An old couple told me am so pretty, I look like I have Indian blood in me, he goes.. Oh no maybe it's the wig she has on and the makeup... 😮 Who asks me to look less when I dress up and look good. E.g dress ladylike, femininity check and he goes, and say, Why are you dressed like an old woman, It's just the mal.... 😢 One that doesn't tell me am beautiful, If I ask he says I know am beautiful. Talks marriage only around certain people hesitantly, yet dismisses marriage talks when alone. This man Provides Money, provides well between sheets.. Please help me understand

Thank you for the gentle reminder. If you want to attract and have THE BEST, you have to be YOUR BEST, FIRST 🙏🏿!

As a first born child I'm always in survival mode, I really needed this. Thank you.

Great advice

Love yourself unconditionally. Don't wait until a later date to love yourself.

Take care of yourself and give yourself the best because you deserve it now

I really liked this video! I’m interested in coaching.

This is for normal men, not cheap man whose stingy even to himself

Kendrick said “I rather you TRUST me than to love me”.

Listening to this every day for 30 days! This was so helpful as your other lessons are also! Yes, they are lessons! Thank you for your channel! ❤

lol why don’t you provide for yourself. ? Why do you need a man to provide to a grown woman?.

"You are deserving of the best of the best now!" 🥰🙋🏾‍♀️

Great content.😊👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Idk what it is, the more I prioritize myself in my health, fitness, beauty, and self worth, the men come easy & willing to treat me just as well. Partner or not, you have to do this

This video was everything!!

Thank you for this rethinking

I just met someone and i was feeling undeserving of it. But i realise you know what,i am😊 Thank you for these words❤

I need your help