Lessons from a Quitter
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The REAL reason to set goals
FULL-DAY GOALSETTING WORKSHOP: If you want to map out your entire 2025 and have goals that will actually work, join me in this full day workshop on December 8th 2024.
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Only pick ONE goal
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FULL-DAY GOALSETTING WORKSHOP: If you want to map out your entire 2025 and have goals that will actually work, join me in this full day workshop on Dec 8th 2024. www.quitterclub.com/goals Want more help? Check out my Membership: www.lessonsfromaquitter.com/quitterclub Say hi on social: Instagram: lessonsfromaquitter TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lessonsfromaquitter
What You Get Wrong About Setting Goals
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The reason most people don't stick to their goals is because they're doing it all wrong. In this episode, I'll tell you the biggest mistakes you're making so you can start stop and do it the right way. FULL-DAY GOALSETTING WORKSHOP: If you want to map out your entire 2025 and have goals that will actually work, join me in this full day workshop. www.quitterclub.com/goals Want more help? Check o...
Help! My family doesn't support my dreams!
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Would it be great if everyone supported you? Of course. But it doesn't always happen. In this episode, I'll teach you how to move forward even if everyone in your life isn't on board. FREE MASTERCLASS: The Secret to Create A Career You Actually Love: www.quitterclub.com/secret-class-youtube Want more help? Check out my Membership: www.lessonsfromaquitter.com/quitterclub Say hi on social: Instag...
How to Deal with the Election
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You can’t control the outcome of the US election BUT you can control how you show up. Learning to manage yourself will be the difference between fueling you into action and overwhelming you into defeat. I the episode today, I dive into how you can learn to react to the world around you so that you don’t allow it to consume you. FREE MASTERCLASS: The Secret to Create A Career You Actually Love: ...
Help! I'm Stuck!
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FREE MASTERCLASS: The Secret to Create A Career You Actually Love: www.quitterclub.com/secret-class-youtube Want more help? Check out my Membership: www.lessonsfromaquitter.com/quitterclub Say hi on social: Instagram: lessonsfromaquitter TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@lessonsfromaquitter
Help! I procrastinate all the time!
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Help! I procrastinate all the time!
Help! I don't have any passions!
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Help! I don't have any passions!
From Engineer to Entrepreneur: How Jannese Torres used a side hustle to help her quit
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From Engineer to Entrepreneur: How Jannese Torres used a side hustle to help her quit
Help! I have too many passions!
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Help! I have too many passions!
My honest advice if you’re burned out
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My honest advice if you’re burned out
The Stages of Quitting
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The Stages of Quitting
How to Take Control of Your Career (and Life)
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How to Take Control of Your Career (and Life)
Unlearn what you were taught in school
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Unlearn what you were taught in school
Can You Change Your Career in Your 30s?
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Can You Change Your Career in Your 30s?
What I would do if I quit today
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What I would do if I quit today
How to Love Your Job When You Don't Even Like It
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How to Love Your Job When You Don't Even Like It
How to Change Your Life in 5 Years
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How to Change Your Life in 5 Years
Why You Shouldn't Try to Be Happy All the Time
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Why You Shouldn't Try to Be Happy All the Time
Why You'll Never Feel Ready: Overcoming the Fear of Starting
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Why You'll Never Feel Ready: Overcoming the Fear of Starting
How Mindset Shapes Success
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How Mindset Shapes Success
Why I quit being a lawyer & how I changed my life
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Why I quit being a lawyer & how I changed my life
How to Recognize and Own Your Competence
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How to Recognize and Own Your Competence
Embracing a life beyond the rat race
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Embracing a life beyond the rat race
Math v. Mental Drama: How to actually make a plan and not spin in your head
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Math v. Mental Drama: How to actually make a plan and not spin in your head
Why You Should Quit and Start an Online Business with Gemma Bonham-Carter
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Why You Should Quit and Start an Online Business with Gemma Bonham-Carter
Book Review: Finding Your Own North Star by Martha Beck
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Book Review: Finding Your Own North Star by Martha Beck
How to Use Personality Tests to Find Your New Career With Christine McAlister
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How to Use Personality Tests to Find Your New Career With Christine McAlister
How Traci Connell Used Divorce and Death to Fuel Her Drive to Build a Multi-Million Dollar Business
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How Traci Connell Used Divorce and Death to Fuel Her Drive to Build a Multi-Million Dollar Business
How Tasha Cochran Built a Multiple Six Figure Side Hustle While Working as an Attorney
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How Tasha Cochran Built a Multiple Six Figure Side Hustle While Working as an Attorney

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  • @jacksonamaral329
    @jacksonamaral329 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good approaching.

  • @KenzieNeal-k1j
    @KenzieNeal-k1j 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for your insight! What a story! I was recently told that it is nearly impossible to transition from transactional law to litigation. Yet, here I am hearing about you making that pivot! Did you find that move difficult or am I getting smoke blown up my ass 🤣?

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Listen, of course it can be difficult. But it's also difficult to stay in a practice area or career you hate. So you really just have to pick your hard. I don't think it's as hard as people say it is. It takes work and it won't just happen but it's definitely doable!

  • @enigmatowles
    @enigmatowles 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes!! 🙌 this is so true. I adopted this style of goal setting 2 years ago and it’s been working. The self talk became way different. I was building and taking less pressure off of myself instead of focusing on doing everything. You brought up a good point around 11:00. Living life in fast forward will ultimately get us nowhere. My intent is to slow down and enjoy the process more. Where focus goes; energy flows.

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      YES! Absolutely. I feel like this is a life lesson we have to learn over and over again but learning to slow down and actually enjoy what is here is EVERYTHING!

  • @lessonsfromaquitter
    @lessonsfromaquitter 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you want to actually stick to your goals, learn how to do them the right way. Join me for my Full-Day workshop: www.quitterclub.com/goals

  • @enigmatowles
    @enigmatowles 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There is power in the way that you deliver your message. You are right that we should not be using goals as a way to validate ourselves. That mentality is dangerous to our mental health. I want to make my goals more intentional for the coming year

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for the kind words! I'm so glad that it resonated and I love that you're looking to make it more intentional. I have 2 more episodes on goalsetting coming that will help with this!

    • @enigmatowles
      @enigmatowles 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ you’re welcome! I’m excited for what’s to come. 😊

  • @YourPrecious유어프레셔스
    @YourPrecious유어프레셔스 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video! I did too just quit my job as a lawyer. I am trying to figure out my next step. Thank you for giving me the courage to move forward.

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm so glad it helped you! Good luck with the transition!!

  • @agentlala47
    @agentlala47 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i could relate to u deeply, Thnx for sharing ! (:

  • @ThomasHarmonie615
    @ThomasHarmonie615 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am 38 and considering law as a second career.

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good for you! My advice would be to try to talk to as many actual practicing lawyers as you can before you take this step. Get an understanding of what their lives and jobs are like and if that's something you want for yourself.

  • @_M-L-E_
    @_M-L-E_ 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤ beautifully said

  • @eilismcnamara-olde1077
    @eilismcnamara-olde1077 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful and important video today! This is exactly what I needed.

  • @enigmatowles
    @enigmatowles 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for sharing this video today. I appreciate your vulnerability on this one

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate it!

    • @enigmatowles
      @enigmatowles 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ you’re very welcome!!! Wishing you much success! Love your content. It’s needed

  • @francheska546
    @francheska546 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep posting, your videos are so helpful! Thank you 😊

  • @Shahzaibsheharyar
    @Shahzaibsheharyar หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello ma’am I need you help for my mom she kidnye patients I need your help for my mom kidney transplant financially help maam please help me we are struggling I face unemployment poverty hardship we are not fake I’m Christian follower or Jesus Christ please help me I humble request please help me 🙏

  • @Natalie-ni2ey
    @Natalie-ni2ey หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Goli! Trying to watch this video but there's no sound...

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey, I'm so sorry but there is sound on this for me. I'm not sure what is happening. Maybe it's muted or turned down on your device.

  • @tinalute
    @tinalute หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing. ❤

  • @zendonreyland1298
    @zendonreyland1298 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I started out as a lousy stevedore. I didn't think I could write technical books and do technical illustration until I tried them. I could never become a lawyer though. There are way too many laws I don't agree with and too many things I think should be totally legal.

  • @Samael527
    @Samael527 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for making this video. I'm a former attorney who left the law for the exact same reason. This honestly helped reaffirm that I made the right choice. I'm actually working on starting my own business!

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good for you! That's awesome! And I'm so glad this video helped reaffirm your decision :)

  • @realdeal139
    @realdeal139 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the video, thanks for the authenticity and life lessons.

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! I'm so glad it resonated!!

  • @jacksonamaral329
    @jacksonamaral329 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good.

  • @savagesweetheart90
    @savagesweetheart90 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is why I'm staying as a paralegal (in-house or small boutique firm) After 5pm its the next day's problem 😂 Heard enough horror stories from family members who are/were attorneys and friends who are attorneys.

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter หลายเดือนก่อน

      Smart! There definitely is no work/life balance in it!

  • @dododo379
    @dododo379 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This resonates totally with me. Thank you for making this video. I subscribe! Good luck with your projects!

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome! I'm so glad it resonated! Thanks for subscribing!!

  • @Abeewearingjeans
    @Abeewearingjeans 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you!

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're so welcome! I'm glad it helped!

  • @elizabethperales885
    @elizabethperales885 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Now I know this is true

  • @Abeewearingjeans
    @Abeewearingjeans 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As lawyers I am not so sure… we do need to decide to stop… and we May decide that we don’t wanna go back… to me, more then not deciding when I am in a middle of a burnout, is making sure (as much as possible) that i am not deciding based on emotions, but racionally…

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah absolutely. That's what I talk a lot about in the full episode. It tends to be hard not to make decisions from emotions when you're completely burned out. While it might require you to stop for a while to rest and tend to your burnout, it tends to be hard to make rational long-term decisions from this spot.

  • @akashrecorded
    @akashrecorded 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Subscribed. Cause I truly relate with what you said. I ONLY Have a belief to reach the stage where you currently are. Your efforts in your videos will guide people like me who are willing to stick to this approach. Keep making such videos.❤

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! That means so much to me!

  • @EnglishwithAli433
    @EnglishwithAli433 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I subscribed you🎉🎉 And I wish you will complete 1k subscribe soon.

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! Hopefully I'll get there soon! I appreciate the support!

  • @aminataossanatuconteh5089
    @aminataossanatuconteh5089 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Timely and helpful, thank you❤

  • @LighthouseAJG
    @LighthouseAJG 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🔥💎 So true. We put ourselves into boxes so many times.

  • @JIMMYTHEMAN234
    @JIMMYTHEMAN234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Uhh no

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hahah I know that can sound depressing but you can have a different relationship with work to not make it so dreadful

    • @JIMMYTHEMAN234
      @JIMMYTHEMAN234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not trying to be rude but your understanding of work is a lot different than most Americans where we will be luck to get our bodies past 50 so maybe if we could all work white collar jobs sure we could push to 60-70 but my dad is 59 and can't even drive anymore let alone leave the house because of how broken his body is

    • @JIMMYTHEMAN234
      @JIMMYTHEMAN234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some people don't have a choice and sometimes you have so much money invested into a career that already doesn't pay enough that we can just get up and change it cause it'll ruin us financially or physically

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JIMMYTHEMAN234 I'm sorry to hear that. And I understand that this is the reality for many. And yet the reality for so many others is that they can't stop working at 60. They have no way of making ends meet without working into their 70s. That might mean finding a different type of job but they don't qualify for disability or other aid. Unfortunately we live in a very broken system. And all we can do is try to control what we can.

  • @phumziledhludhlu1236
    @phumziledhludhlu1236 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much this is helpful ❤

  • @IsabellaMonsante
    @IsabellaMonsante 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you SO MUCH for this video.

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My pleasure! I'm so glad you liked it!

  • @nicwelch
    @nicwelch 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sounds like a really bad return on investment and this is probably not the path that most people should take.

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not really. It afforded me a career for 7 years that gave me tons of experience and money. And it's now led me to have my own multiple six-figure business. I think we look at ROI too narrowly. You get so much out of even the "mistakes" if you learn from them.

  • @imarainayatali
    @imarainayatali 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you have an email to contact regarding questions?

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! you can email team@lessonsfromaquitter.com

  • @yourfriendlyvillain
    @yourfriendlyvillain 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is exactly what I've been needing to hear. I'm in a 9-5 while I work on my creative project until I can get it to a point where I can go full-time on it. But no matter how much I tried to tell myself that this job isn't forever and it's allowing me to work on my project on the side, I was still making myself miserable thinking I was wasting time with the 9-5. Sometimes you just need to hear the thing from someone else and outside your own brain to get it to click. I appreciate you.

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad that this found you then. You're absolutely right that sometimes you just need to hear it from someone else. So I hope you hear this: You're hooking your future self up by doing the hard thing now. That's something to be proud of! :)

  • @LighthouseAJG
    @LighthouseAJG 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot on!

  • @Rishadows07
    @Rishadows07 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The YT algorithm did a great job with this suggestion. Here's a comment, like and sub to help your channel grow. You touched a bunch of topics - would love to just go into depth with each one of them.

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much for the support! I'll definitely be diving into each topic in depth in future episodes

  • @farhatullah9222
    @farhatullah9222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤good 👍👌

  • @farhatullah9222
    @farhatullah9222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤ hlo how are you

  • @famueduyou
    @famueduyou 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well spoken!

  • @farhatullah9222
    @farhatullah9222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hlo ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @farhatullah9222
    @farhatullah9222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hlo ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @farhatullah9222
    @farhatullah9222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hlo ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @farhatullah9222
    @farhatullah9222 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤very good

  • @Cjdnsdjsjsb
    @Cjdnsdjsjsb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video

  • @gitikamanwani
    @gitikamanwani 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    loved it, yey for video!

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yay! Thank you! Excited about finally getting on video!

  • @miss.moonlight
    @miss.moonlight 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed to hear that today ❤

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad it found you at the right time

  • @michellesgro5514
    @michellesgro5514 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really like how you've mentioned the saying by Seneca, "We suffer more in imagination than in reality," because it sums up a lot. We tend to worry about things that might go wrong, causing us more stress than the actual events themselves. With overthinking, we imagine many scenarios (stories) that are unlikely to happen. It's trying to get our minds around this and back on the right track, and you help us navigate these things in a realistic, doable way. 😊🤘🤙👍🏊‍♀🏄‍♀

    • @lessonsfromaquitter
      @lessonsfromaquitter 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes exactly! That is exactly what happens and that's why learning to manage our minds is so crucial to our happiness!

  • @flysuperman3660
    @flysuperman3660 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excited for this 🎉

  • @GR_BackingTracks
    @GR_BackingTracks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Introduction finishes at 6:57: -> "What the point of the book is... "