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All well and good, when you are in the financial position to do so 🙄

Thank you for your wonderful down-to-earth inspiration

So basically the advice is get yourself a good spouse and you're sorted. Splendid.

Privelged position to have a husband provide for u.

We have this in common! I was 52 when I quit after working the same job for 31 years and thankfully my guy encouraged me to step away while he has been supporting me even now as I’m trying to figure it all out! You are about 4 years ahead of me and you give me so much hope. I feel such depression in these days and a feelings of what is my purpose always whirling through my head. I know I’ll figure it out. I’m going through the mourning period after leaving all I ever knew behind. My channel really helps. It almost feels like therapy at times getting the thoughts out loud on my channel. This walk and talk was very validating. Thank you❤

Having a providing husband is a plan.

the pension scam, half the people barely makes it to 65, and by the time you get there , you are half the time an arthritic , diabetic, burnt out , sexeless, impotent OAP...... and yeah i know it isnt everybody, but still..... your best life was spent working for a pension of 800 pounds a month..... and you are the lucky ones who own your houses....the millenials, and younger wont even own a pod

Well done you, it does take courage to do what you did. I did the same at age 61. Enjoy whatever you do and your video is very good grounded work. Thanks for sharing.

"I Quit My Job at 52 Without a Plan ", you had plan A since 1000000BC, it is called a husband

This was delightful to watch. 😁

Very enjoyable. I was busy shaking my head yes!

Artificial eyelashes. Why? Why bother? Just do the best you can with your makeup and forget the artificial eyelashes. I'm a healthcare worker and one day I found one on the floor of the hospital. I thought well, I wonder if I might meet up with someone who looks a little uneven. And then if they find it with all the germs on the floor I hope no one would ever think to reuse it.

I suffer alot with imposter syndrome and terrible self doubt. It ruled my life for a year and slowly trying to turn this around 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Feels good tohave more time for yourself. It is becoming tougher to retire early now.

You look absolutely Beautiful!!! Thank you for sharing your life with us. Love the information and encouragement and inspiration. Blessings to you.😊

Lv the Hat xxxx

I just listened to this on my way home from school (work). I am there. It's time, and the universe has used you to help me realize that and start research about other options. My principal also just recently implied that my job is going to be reduced next fall as well. So messages are coming from all directions and I'm going to listen! Thank you!

Agree with everything you've mentioned. And Yorkshire tea is the best 😍

Aww thank you for this! I have this great stage fright that whenever I get up on some sort of stage, my whole body starts to shake, including my voice 😔 it's bec of my fear of being judged, that I might say something wrong, or there might be something wrong with how I look. I am taking baby steps since last yr and will continue until I overcome this 🍀

Tights (in the US) are thicker than "nylons" or "pantihose." I prefer tights because they're thicker and stretchier.... but I haven't worn any of these in many years. It's TOO MUCH TROUBLE! 😆🤣

Now out of your list the only one I don't agree with is sub titles. I can never read them in time before they change. But yes to all the rest.....and g.string just make me laugh out loud xx

I feel like I need 'subtitles' on my life itself, LOL! I get it though. I love the subtitles. Isn't it funny how the older we get, the wiser we get? Especially when we thought we were so wise 'back in the day." Well said friend. I feel like you can just keep adding to the list. 17 just feels like a drop in the bucket. 🥰

I wholeheartedly agree with the entire list. I read an article that the sound on flat screen TV's is not a priority, there's no room for good speakers. They expect you to buy a sound bar, which no... the TV already costs enough. So I always have the subtitles on. Ok yes, my hearing is probably less sharp than it was. I can only talk on my phone with headphones now. Regarding tiny fonts: I can't read them either. My son showed me a great trick though. Take a picture of the package and zoom in on it. That way you don't have to carry a magnifying glass. No more high heels, absolutely need pockets in all dresses (it's the first thing I look for), and no more dressing to impress. After turning 50, I realized no one was looking anyway, I felt suddenly invisible. At first it was disheartening, but I've learned to embrace invisibility. It's nice to walk down the street and not worry about catcalls or harassment anymore. I pass incognito everywhere I go and I love it!

When you drive under the speed limit... no one's ever in your way! 🎉

What makes no sense to you after 50? Let me know in the comments 😊❤

Good video and your videographer did a great job!

So grateful I happened upon you Bev. You talk about my life except I was diagnosed with BPD at 53 (there is a large crossover with ADHD). 6 years earlier I had to leave work due to my deteriorating mental health. Thank you for all you making sense of it for me. Starting a new career right now and overwhelmed by imposter syndrome, which is ridiculous when I compare it to my past career!

watching this has provided me with validation. you describe me and my past 18 months as if you have been a fly on the wall in my life

Don't wish your life away.😂

My thoughts exactly!

My 40s have been tragic and stressful but I will be retiring in 9 years so I’m looking forward to my late 50s!! I am happy to see your perspective on 60. 🎉 aging is a privilege, so many people forget that.

I understand that feeling. It was always easier to act as a character to fit the occasion rather than being me as I was not entirely sure who the real me was. It has definitely been easier since I got my diagnosis as I understand myself better now.

It's extra lovely when you have a sweet human to walk through the open fields with you. I just love that you have the bravery to speak on stage and I know you can since you have done it before. You are a very inspiring human being and I'm thankful I get to know you.

Great message and insight as always Bev. Get well soon

Well said, thanks

I want to be a trauma coach. But I'm afraid of accidentally hurting someone because I don't do it perfectly.

Love the joy in the young one walking, skipping, being.❤

When I first got commissioned in the RAF after being an NCO previously I sat in the Officers Mess at RAF Linton on Ouse as a fresh Pilot Officer waiting for someone to come up and tap me on the shoulder and tell me to get out as I’m not supposed to be here. I’ve had this many times in my career as an entertainer too when in in situations of sharing a stage or a bill with an established artist, always waiting for someone to tell me to leave even though I’m often the headline act. I’ve always powered through it but it’s not easy

What a wonderful start to a video to see my Great Niece skipping through the countryside. Lovely, xxxxx to you both.

Let me know in the comments, what gets you most, self doubt or imposter syndrome?

I'll be 61 Nov 10 n I hate the age. Not happy about getting older . People look at me like I'm already old n done. HATE IT