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Becca Lory Hector
United States
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 15 ส.ค. 2018
Welcome to my world, where your differences are not just accepted, but celebrated.
I’m Becca Lory Hector-an advocate, author, researcher, consultant, and speaker that is passionate about promoting neurodiversity and inclusivity. My journey has been one of discovery, resilience, and embracing my authentic self. From my late-in-life autism diagnosis to creating my own personal development course, my mission is to help others find their path to a fulfilling and self-empowered life.
Whether you’re here to find out more about my journey as a late-identified Autistic, start your own journey, or simply find a space that truly understands, uplifts and motivates you, you’ve found your home.
I invite you to join my dynamic and inclusive community tailored for late-identified Autistic adults, offering you the tools, insights, and support you need to live boldly and thrive while being your authentically Autistic self.
Check out my website:
beccaloryhector.com/
I’m Becca Lory Hector-an advocate, author, researcher, consultant, and speaker that is passionate about promoting neurodiversity and inclusivity. My journey has been one of discovery, resilience, and embracing my authentic self. From my late-in-life autism diagnosis to creating my own personal development course, my mission is to help others find their path to a fulfilling and self-empowered life.
Whether you’re here to find out more about my journey as a late-identified Autistic, start your own journey, or simply find a space that truly understands, uplifts and motivates you, you’ve found your home.
I invite you to join my dynamic and inclusive community tailored for late-identified Autistic adults, offering you the tools, insights, and support you need to live boldly and thrive while being your authentically Autistic self.
Check out my website:
beccaloryhector.com/
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I love the F word! Fitting + good for echolalia for sure lol
This is so true and relatable
Thank you.
Oooh I am with you on that! For sure! Been thinking about that today myself, on reflection, looking at what I want. 🫶🏼
❤❤❤❤
I can relate to that
Glad it resonates
Thanks Becca 😊
Resting isn't too hard for me. I actually usually enjoy it. I've needed more recently. I find dicing and seeing nature very recharging too. In the last several weeks, I've been grateful for the support of family and friends. I've been dealing with health issues. I have a much better support system than I ever thought. Thanks for sharing!
YES!!!
Great topic! I can totally relate.
Thanks!
Hi Becca! Glad to see you back on TH-cam! Like you were describing, there are many little things, or glimmers, that make me happy. I live in a suburban area, but very near rural areas. I talked a drive almost every morning. I often see dear, wild turkeys, and other birds. This morning, I spent time watching a couple of Downey Woodpeckers working on a tree. I also saw an eagle in flight. Unfortunately, I didn't get good pics. Little joys like that keep me going.
Thank you so much for this, Becca! Many things you mention serve as valuable reminders for me. Plus, a light bulb went off on the POTS/salty munchies moment. Are we from the same gene pool? Take care and say hey to Antonio! (Listened on delay due to some Sunday routines).
yes👍 I like this thought process. Miss u Becca. hope things are going good with u🤗💜
Thank you for this video Becca. Sorry, I'm late to watch as always, but this was a great short with a message i think myself and alot of people need. (People who know why u do these videos and appreciate them) Haters gonna....well, u know, say dumb stuff that lets everyone know their level of intelligence, and apparently how much THEIR life must suck. Love to you Becca, u have helped me a lot and I wish I could do the same. thank u again💙
Marie is lovely 😊- great show! ❤ 🎨 ☠️ x
Thank you! Cheers!
Marie is a great educator - I am learning from her 😊
Thank you so much for having me on your show!
Our pleasure!
Hey Becca, wishing you blessings, health and joy for 2023! 🎉🌈
I feel that Minecraft could sponge my life. But I get a lot of joy from watching my nephew build and that is satisfying. He is so creative What a lovely lady. She has a heart of gold 💛
Love suspense thrillers! Often work out the plot but LOVE an unexpected twist 😮
What about underemployment- that’s what I am working to change. Interviewing anxiety has kept us out of jobs in which we have earned college degrees
I almost never use my phone speakers, but when I get a phone I go out of my way to get the loudest I can for the Reason Dr. Price has.
Can you please invite me? I am a passioned writer and artist
Dani is a complete moron. He excludes autistic people who have different opinion on him and have no problem with the term "Aspie" (he sees it as something demonic). A bit of a language purist. Also, like so many lefties, he continues to whine about capitalism. He doesn't represent us autists very well.
Well, this is incredibly ableist. First of all, my pronouns are CLEARLY stated in the video. Please refrain from misgendering people. I do not exclude people for having a different opinion, I do however provide education on the history of violence towards autistic people - and this includes the fascist history and the disenfranchisement of autistic people from Hans Asperger. This isn't a matter of a difference of opinion, it's empirical and objective fact, it's literal history. The vast majority of the autistic community rejects the usage of the term and label "Aspergers," not only due to the incredibly problematic history of the labeling, not only because of it's reinforcement of the use of problematic and harmful functioning labels, but also because none of the above actually exist any longer as a diagnosis or diagnostic criteria per the DSM V. I stand with the autistic community and with our preferences of language and the rejection of ableism that was placed up us without our consent. I do not, nor have I ever considered anything "demonic" because that's ridiculous and I don't believe that demons exist, haha. As far as my "whiny" stances on capitalism are, that's not on me to educate you. If you don't agree with the socioeconomic, sociological, or political positions listed on my page, then don't come to it - simple as that. I don't need to cater to everyone, my content is not for everyone and that's fine by me. Clearly you had some sort of interaction on my page that has made you reactionary, and while I have no history of interaction from you on my page, it's clear from your comment here that you weren't worth remembering in the first place.
@@TPRA77 I am an Autistic fella, I however refuse to be offended easily over small matters🙄 my faith is in ✝️ I confess my commandment has been aggressive, but what makes my blood oil is this snowflake culture run by feminized men that merely love to judge condemn those who disagree. Wicked!
@@TPRA77 misgendering also is nonsense😎 If you were born male, you are male no matter what. Period.
@@TPRA77 also whether or not you believe demons exist changes nothing 🤣🤣🤣now, I disagree with Locke that Autism was a demon. No, this man is a maniac - just like you lefties are. Nevertheless, I would prefer being around folks like Greg Locke over folks like you. The evangelicals didn’t point fingers at me over my music, my drawings on DeviantArt etc. I had many unhealthy addictions, I had to stop gaming, because it took away my time. A descision that was painful, but maybe saved my life. In fact, I fell in love with an evangelical girl, she loves the LORD. Whether I am good Christian, I don’t know, for I view myself as a bad one. I wish to stop sinning. But I wish people to questioner system. Back in the old days, even liberals like George Carlin began to see what’s goin on. A society, in where Gen Z is trying to draw kids towards them and make them question their gender. Only on Monday I was in the park, I saw innocent kids playing - and I thought in the words of that old Pink Floyd song „hey teacher - leave those kids alone!“ Dani, if I was you, I‘d get on my knees and cry out to the LORD. If you have questions, He will answer you. I used to be a worse sinner than you are now prior to my repentance. I know you laugh at me. But remember that Johnny Cash song? You can run on for a long time, but sooner or later God‘s gonna cut you down!
@@lw97nilslinuswhitewaterweb24 Bahahahahaha, okay dude. Whatever.
Love these conversations with Devon. :) so appreciate his thoughts
Yes!!!
Just found your channel, love it!
So very glad to have you ❤️
This is great, Becca.
Thank you 😊
I am excited to see where you're going. I love the new direction and you have helped me so much through this journey!
That coin spinning is driving me nuts!!!
Hi Becca, I wanted to take a second to let you know how this video has helped me. I am 53, just diagnosed autistic last year after a lifetime of confusion and a few incorrect mental health diagnoses. I want you to know how important it was to me for you to show your meltdown. For a long time, I've been having what I thought we're just crying jags, because what I saw in videos of autistic meltdowns wasn't the true state of what happened to me. Watching this video, I saw for the first time somebody else experiencing what I experience every so often, sometimes daily. It shows me that these are indeed meltdowns. All the emotions get backed up. Everything gets too much, and I end up feeling, like you said during the meltdown when you just need a hug from your mom, like a child. Every time I have these I feel like I can't cope, like there is something wrong with me because I simply can't handle...life. Although I've spent the past year reframing my life and researching absolutely everything there is to know about ASD, as that quest itself has become a SPIN for me, I feel like I'm just scratching the surface. I could never be an advocate like you are, spending so much wonderful outward energy to make us seen and known. My energy is very precious and I need a lot of downtime after an experience, as we all do. So thank you for this. If you were at all rethinking whether you should've posted it, you made the right decision, because you greatly helped me understand a huge aspect of my life.
Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ Let's me know I am reaching the right peeps 😉
You are. ❤
❤️
:)
Well, I’m so excited to see what comes next!
Woot!
I love the message at the end, very motivational! Good luck in your next adventure. 😊
Thank you!! 😊
Wow what a beautiful looking house! 🤩🫶🏼 All that green is so gorgeous and the water area is stunning. What a pleasure to have followed you on this journey. I’m excited to see the next chapter! Next level up career vlog!? I’ve been encouraged and have designed my own colouring book for Amazon… you are so inspiring! Mwah xx 😚
Omg I cannot wait to see it!
I wanna start again #life
You know it's never to late
Schenectady always makes me think of Fountains of Wayne. "Someone to Love" is now on repeat in my brain. Lol. PS - Please consider doing another vlog at some point. We are now all invested! :)
Lol! I hope my life stays interesting enough to require a vlog :)
I'm not often one to comment on TH-cam videos, but I have to say how much I love Antonio's Dual Spires Cinnamon Festival tee - one of the best Twin Peaks homages I've ever seen! Excellent choice, my dude. 😎👍
I'll pass it on lol
Loving these vlogs and updates- great idea about the windows and cats. We’ve done that with a hotel and luggage before 😜👍🏼 I can imagine it being utterly exhausting doing all the driving let alone with animals! Well done you 🫶🏼⭐️
Thank you. You support means a ton <3
What an epic journey! I'm so glad to know your next video will be from Maine - yay!!!
Me too! Lol
So much has happened ⭐️
Soooooooooo much lol
Here for this upgrade!!
Thank you 😊
Wow 🤩 offer is in! Amazing! I can understand your hunting for food… tiresome 😞😢 So have you had people look round the old house yet… not sure if it works differently there? Do you need to sell to buy? My goodness, the thought of an escape room utterly terrifies me! Lol! I guess it’s in line with you real crime thrill seeking side? You can always do it another time. Happy anniversary xx 💋
House buying and selling is all happening. Details coming! Thank you for your good wishes ❤️
Totally understand the hyper focus painting! Although these days it can create flare ups with EDS so I’ve been told to pace myself! Which I hate doing! And off they go! Woohoo 🎉 Will you be doing any driving? Chasing freedom god-damn it! 🤣
In hot pursuit of it!
What's this even supposed to mean?
That our current world is built on a desire for sameness.
Hi future self!
Future self waves back ;)
Great reflections- loving the video editing btw! 🤩 Lovely to see Antonio in the video too 👋🏼- I preferred your blue bedroom too- calming 😌 Great videos for you to keep forever too.
You so get me! The memories are what inspired the blog lol. I am so glad to have Izabelle to help me make it pretty 😍
I wish the decision to disclose or not disclose was not so difficult in today’s workplace. I have not yet chosen to disclose when applying, but have chosen to only apply for positions where my accommodations can be guaranteed by working from home. I am currently autistically out at work now. It works because of my industry type and has felt pretty good.
Something has to shift. We cannot continue to live in the shadows
I’m happy to see you looking so relaxed and happy this week. I love your passion! I’m routing for you.
Thanks for being on my team!
😢 promosm
i needed to be reminded dis thank you
Glad it found you ❤️
Who
Yup :)
I actually liked the green bathroom. I had significant feels at the beginning and just as significant when you showed your empty office. Walter expresses it, too. Bittersweet and finding sweetness to spare, I feel lucky to tag along via your blog. Always: thanks for all you do!
Thanks for watching, Bill. As always, Walter is the best compass I've got!