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I think you are wonderful and I would be your friend for life 😊

41? Like serious my aunt almost 80 and don't look so old

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Sis I can relate to your feelings about friends. There is nothing wrong about you. People now invest their time in relationships that only benefits THEM . I’m subscribing! you have a new friend here in Canada 🇨🇦 let’s be friends i’m 39 years old.

You can always have a friend in Jesus. I don’t know if you have a relationship with Jesus Christ, but it’s not too late for you to give your life over to him. When you surrender yourself to Jesus He becomes closer than a brother. Pray and ask the Lord for what you need and He shall provide it for you. He loves you. God bless!

absolutely nothing wrong with you. As we get older (I'm 50) it gets harder to make friends. Also, lots of people are just flaky AF. And some people just want really superficial friendships, and that's not my thing. I'd rather stay home than have meaningless conversation in a bar. Let's go DO something. Go somewhere. And no drama. I'm too old for that.

No surprise to me that the audience is all men...most men enjoy viewing a beautiful woman.

I am 42 and had both parents while growing up. I had a pretty stable childhood. I do not have very close friends because women can be very competitive. If you are doing just a little bit better than them they will start to treat you indifferent. I had an old friend tell me that all you need in life are at least 2 good friends and your spouse. To be honest I am not really close to my family because they tend to throw shade. Be blessed.

I’m 41 and really relate to your childhood experience of moving home and schools so often you couldn’t retain long term friendships. I only have a one or two real friends but I don’t see them often, but I’ve known them over 20 years and consider them sisters. Not made any close friends like that again. I am a hermit and don’t go out much, so not much opportunity to meet people now. But I don’t get lonely as I’m used to it (I was an only child until 11). But I have recently thought I need to make more effort to stay in touch with people. It’s me. I’m the one who never reached out, including to family. Even though I enjoy my own company I think I’d be a better person if I made more time for others. I think I should find a club to join and force myself into a social life with like minded people. I don’t have kids and see so many single mothers around I think it would be nice to find a female I can be emotional support to, and help, because I know from seeing my own mother go through it, it’s hard.

Remets toi en question. C'est pas normal.

Hiya, just subscribed to your videos because l heard your journey of friends. I am in my 50’s living in the UK. I have had my journey of friends, they are around you for what they can get from you and they disappear. Nowadays, l focus on myself. I have my children and my husband and sometimes l feel lonely but l find things that make me happy so that l am not lonely. I love going to the gym, l travel alone sometimes, love shopping, spa’s, movies. All these things make me happy and cancels the loneliness. You just have to find things that make you feel good and God will put that true person to you and you will develop a good friendship. All the very best keep smiling beautiful lady. God bless you.

Let's be friends 🧡

Exercising discernment can result in such an outcome.

Its interesting because I had many of the exact same circumstances occur which is why i also have had no friends besides temporary phases. Our situations were so alike but there is obviously also uniqueness to each persons situation that leads us to this same outcome. Im 40 male, and became unjustly broke (thats another story), no wife, no kids. So its not easy at all, God help us.

I’m 48 and I completely agree I am feeling the same way

I can completely understand and feel the same. And it can be sad sometimes yes.

I didnt really have anyone for a few years just some fake people. However i met my boyfriend and he is my boyfriend and best friend ❤ he introduced me to all his friends so i dont feel lonely anymore.

You not alone I don’t have friends I have association people don’t understand me or don’t care to contact me no one doesn’t contact me

These people are NOT your friends, there’re takers. You definitely don’t need them. I personally would join a club in something you love to do

I’m a very popular loner, I’m not playing these games smh and I get embarrassed easily so groups (women’s empowerment) don’t even work once they get all drunk loud & obnoxious… a solo act

Hi I'm 58 yrs old and have always liked having friends, friendship has to be nurtured in my opinion not all my friends have been lasting,but I like to keep in touch go out for lunch , and outings I think you should join a club and meet people that way .

What is wro.g with u putting ur dad in a home can't u take care of him I don't get ppl who don't care of their elderly U deserve no friends

You not the only one. Welcome!

I completely understand.. I’m a very quiet person in my personal life.. I also come off as standoff which make it hard to people to gravitate towards me.. I’m very successful and that makes it even harder.. I’m in a new state in the USA and I’m 45 years old with no friends

I see people saying let’s not reinforce loneliness. Let’s not encourage people to be friendless. People don’t naturally want to not have friends. The problem is that we have learned that there is not too many genuine people,We can trust that actually want a friendship versus just having someone they can trauma dump on or don’t go constantly or have a one-sided friendship where you only meet up or only talk to them when they have time for you, but are not willing to make time for you when you need them. Friendships have to be two way street as an only child I do not like having little to no friends, but I have learned The more that I give a person the quality of a good friendship they require quantity from me with a horrible friendship and the exchange is just not even worth it and it’s unnecessary so find your people who love you and appreciate you and are willing to be a good friend to you like you are to them.

I'm curious, what made you able to keep in touch, carry relationship beyond chitchat with your husband but not with friends? You mentioned that friendships weren't a "major priority" after a certain point. I'm not trying to sound harsh, but im wondering what value, if any, you saw in friendships and how that translated to effort with friends. Also, i dont think there's anything wrong with you. The people burning you are just people peopling. I think it's important that you have a community outside of your husband, and i wish you the best in finding it. I actually think the opposite, i think we need friends, husbands optional 😂. My expectations of my friends rose as i started to love myself more and i realized i was getting a short stick end too often. Im lucky cause i really like my own company so i dont feel lonely. I still think community is important so im in the process of rebuiling my community. Try joining local groups that align with your interests and just go with the flow. I see people offering to be friends in comments, take them up on it,. You dont need to be in the same area - you can virtual hang. Sending you my best!

I am in the same boat. 😂 In my case, I found that I was the only one keeping the friendship going. If I stop contacting I noticed that they don't either even for 6-12 months! This led me to eventually stop trying.

Play to your strengths. You're a book worm, join a book club, but don't put all your eggs in the same basket. When meeting new people don't think about forming a friendship. Take things organically and enjoy people for who they are. Sometimes friendships has an expire date and some doesn't. What happened in the past leave in the past and keep communication with your brother as family is family. You're not the same as you were when you were both younger! Going by this video, you come across as a kind, caring thoughtful, beautiful lady. Don't put yourself down. Life is short don't over think things just enjoy life. Much love, 🤍🤍🤍

Our situation are quite similar

Sis Jesus is the best friend u can ever have God bless peace and so much love 💞🙏🇬🇧

You are a LOVELY person. I live in the USA, ...but if I lived close to you ...I would love to be friends with you. You seem to be a woman of quality and perhaps the women you thought could be your friends are not on your level. Take 1 step at a time and perhaps get some counseling about this difficulty you experience. Take it to The LORD in PRAYER.

steer clear of women they are aweful

Your btfl. You have God .that's all u need my sista trust me. Keep shinning

Beloved ok.

After a certain age you realize that most people are not worth the time

Just live your damn life: stop looking for things. Accept and be happy for your blessings you have. Every good thing comes from that.

I'm also in a similar situation. I'm 42, and if my husband and sister who is 2 years younger than me are gone, I will be lonely.

Trust me, there are a lot of us out there. It's ok.

Hello Isabella, What about a regular zoom meetup? Lots of ppl would like to be friends with you and in fact I have three really good online friends. Similar situations to yourself and please DM if you want to

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Hello Part of this is bad character and spiritual attack, witchcraft and spiritual husband I noticed a lots of people don’t want relationship they want someone to use and take advantage of your kindness I suffered from holidays depression My caregiver is the only one that step up to help me get through emotional distress

I'm an introvert too. It's never really been a barrier to me making friends (at all levels, whether in childhood or adulthood), but it's been an issue for others, I believe, in them remaining my friends. I say 'them' b/c if someone has me as a friend-- and they're good people to be around-- they'll have me as a friend for life, but so many people don't seem to view friendship that way. It's a shame. I will say though, being an introvert has at times had me questioning myself, how I'm coming across to others. I realize now that I was normal and didn't have to be an extrovert to be normal. I remember as a kid I quickly made a friend who ended up moving away, so things like that definitely play a part and it uses so much energy as an introvert to the point where you try to find the energy to authentically do that all over again. 🤡 When I was in grad school, I made a cool small group of friends, but had a feeling that it would be temporary, and the vast majority were. Only one person from that group I'd call a friend right now, but we don't talk much at all. LOL (?): It's like, even when I do have friends, the friendships aren't really close until we happen to randomly talk and the interaction is the same each time we do. There was one other friend from that group I was really close to who years after (just a couple years ago) didn't invite me to her wedding; yet, she still has the audacity to react & comment on my social media posts like she did nothing wrong or odd at best. I say all this to say-- like someone else has-- there's nothing wrong with you. If someone is truly your friend, then they should accept you, blunt-talking and all, and if something bothers them, then they owe you the decency and respect to tell you (especially after a long friendship).

Sometimes I feel inferior like I’m not where I wanna be in life to have ppl see value in me. I know my insecurities make me come off weird but I just get tired of not having ppl reciprocate the kind of care that I put into ppl. So I pull away and assume ppl won’t like or accept me. I just don’t reach out to ppl if they don’t reach out to me because I hate feeling one-sided. I want friendship but I’m scared to trust ppl because i think it won’t last.

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It’s not you it’s them.

Friendships take time. It's an investment. U have to have shared values, common interests, sincere affection for each other, etc. Also, coworkers are not your friends. U'r lucky if u find a friend at work. It's a competitive environment. It's fine if u don't have platonic friends. U can have casual friends or acquaintances. Let people earn you,don't give yourself away for free. When it comes to friends, aim for quality, not quantity.

Appreciate your honesty. But you might have autism because of your bluntness and in ability to make friends it could help you understand yourself better. I know private diagnosis can be costly but ask the GP and get on the waiting list asap. Plus, don't take it personal when people who turn up to your weddings or if you turn up to their wedding and they ghost you. It's very common. People are full of shit don't worry yourself.

Maybe she didn't want to come to hospital bc you have an infection..

I came to this video because it hits home for me. I’ve been hurt too by fake friends. I would love to link to anyone who’s interested in talking. I’m in Atlanta but it doesn’t matter if someone is not here also.

I dont have friends or socialising. Im alone but not lonely, i like my own company, and i also like the peace that comes with it. People stress me out. That's just me.