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Honeslty, the chair sitting thing and the cuffed jeans are, like, the two ways in which i am a massive stereotypes. Sadly, the jeans i currently have all fit me.

Do you feel like it’s harder to maintain your relationship because some days you might want a women?

I like lemon things if they're sufficiently tart. Bars vary a lot. And a regular Arnold Palmer doesn't really appeal to me, but I love making it with 2/3 lemonade and 1/3 raspberry iced tea.

TWO MINUTES TO START THE VIDEO??!! ARE YOU SERIOUS??!!

"no you're not gay you just want to be 'not like other girls'" "no no you're just doing it for attention" "you don't think she's sexy, that's just the male gaze of the camera tricking you" "bisexuals just seem so slutty" "oh you're in love with this man now so that was all just a false alarm." The years I've wasted. Fuckkkk.

Bisexual stereotypes I check off are Can't sit in chairs properly Finger guns Cuffed jeans Love lemon stuff Saying "I'm bi" I make puns I wear flannel (sometime over a hoodie while also wearing a leather jacket over the flannel) Love iced coffee Love frogs I have a septum piercing I have an eyebrow split Backwards snapbacks Doc Martins

I should’ve known the second I saw Eliza Dushku in Bring It On… no but fr I full-on lived as a boy from the ages of like 6-11 until I realized I could be a girl and still like all the typical “boy” stuff that I liked and I could wear “masculine” clothes without actually being a boy. My sexuality took me a lot longer to figure out, it took me until my late 20s to realize that I was bisexual because I was attracted to women but I had never dated or hooked up with a girl and then I realized that I knew I liked boys when I was like 3 and I didn’t need to physically be with a woman to be bisexual. Kids made jokes about me being a lesbian when I went through my boy “phase” (I hate describing it as a phase since it’s not for like 99.99% of trans people but I can’t think of another word for it in my case) but I was so overwhelmingly attracted to boys for most of my life that it didn’t even occur to me that I could like both since I grew up in the ‘90s and 2000s and I knew like 1 bi person in middle school who exclusively talked about boys so it wasn’t on my radar at all. Now I consider myself to be bisexual but not biromantic since I’m very attracted to women but when I think of settling down with a person I always think of it being a man, however I know that could change in the future and I’m open to that. It’s funny looking back at certain movies and shows and realizing that I was actually into certain characters and I didn’t just want to be like them which I thought was why I was attracted to them at the time. Why I didn’t realize it when I watched t.A.t.U’s All The Things She Said music video like a hundred times, or when I rewatched Cheaper By The Dozen multiple times to see Alyson Stoner, I’ll never know 😂

Getting recommended this 3 years later when it has essentially no views (which is sad cause good video) is very interesting lol Time to see how many of these I relate to!

I’m 30 and just really accepting and supporting and welcoming my bisexuality. Engaged to a man and he’s also bi and he is helping me support my bisexuality and finding ways to support my self.

Thank you for sharing! I'm a bisexual woman who's married with a child. My husband is supportive of me and sometimes jokes with me ❤😂

I realized that I was Bi when I was 16 in Highschool. A boy always wore really tight jeans in class, and I was constantly checking out his perfect ass! Never acted on my impulses because it was the 70's & it was frowned upon big time! I was also a football player and that made it even tougher to come out.

As a bisexual male in my late 60's, I came to terms with my sexuality while in my 20's. I have accepted the fact that this is how God made me, which has given me peace of mind and self acceptance! I have been happily married to my accepting wife, in a monogamous and loving relationship for many years.

Alot of these bi stereotypes are true about me. I absolutely love lemons, i can hardly sit properly and i am very dramatic

I remember I was more of a Rock and Roll type. But I was obsessed with Britney Spears. I remember telling my friend “I know it’s not my type of music but I’m just really into her videos.” So “creative”. lol. 😂😂😂. I didn’t understand it. 😂😂😂

I’m gonna guess before watching. You’re WAY more intense about your “best friend” relationship than makes sense. lol.

Does straight woman except bi men as easy as straight men except bi woman?

Hehehee I didn't even think about this as being a bisexual issue. I wrote a decade ago on my FB that I don't understand the obsession with people wanting their partner to look pre-pubescent with all of the shaving, and that those that don't shave their armpits or legs...why is it of anyone's business. It got to me because I thought, that's pretty entitled to want others to present themselves as a potential partner just for you to look at. Ughh! I'm so glad my partner would rather I be completely natural as God made me. =)

I was the "tomboy" that ran around and played rough/tough with other boys --I was allowed to rock that because my dad was raised by a feminist mother. I have always attracted and have been attracted to feminine type of guys. I've had my experiences with girls trying to do "things" with me, which I ran away from, and I didn't view myself as bi, though I could be attracted to girls. It wasn't until later where I was like ohhhhh... =)

DISGUSTING. Stay away from Bi-bi women (bisexual, bipolar)

30.. late in life? Sheesh. I'm 51 and thinking of coming out. I don't feel I've always been bi but rather have become that recently.

Disgusting. The damage you will cause with your sexuality is as bad as Putin. I will never make you feel good about what you’re doing.

So, honest question. I've dated a few bisexual women, one was a gf. Separated for unrelated reasons. And they both stated that they are only interested in a romantic long term relationship with men(me at the time(, but they had no issues broachhing the subject with me about them making out with or sleeping with women.l, but saying theyd be ok with only doing it if I was a part of it. 3 somes basically. Is that a common thing? Where bisexual women only want deep intimacy and romance with men, but want the sexual release woth both? And that they are perfectly fine with only sleeping with women if their man is in on it?

"Twitterpated," is my new (old) word of the day! Thank you.

Pumpkin, I so relate to your story. Thank you for this beautiful post.

OMG Kate Winslet in Titanic 😍 I remember having a vivid dream that she was my girlfriend, and I was like, hmmm 🤔

I feel like, what does it matter, if you're monogamous? You're not going to go screw some other guy, so now you're also not going to go screw some other woman. May as well tell my wife I like redheads too and not just black women, just so she knows, if we ever separate or she dies, I might go for one.

You'r so cute.

I remember the awkwardness when i was a kid of saying something about an actor and then corecting myself and my mom saying "You don't need to do this, i know u are not gay". And feeling akward with boys as much i did with girls. There was also the bit of "i think boys are pretty, u don't need to be gay (am i right guys?)" that as i got a little older became "am i gay? sure i do think boys are pretty, but i like girls, how am i suposed to be gay if i like girls?". And then the realization that "wait, bisexuality is a thing?". there is another one that is debatable, but as a born and raised catholic i cared way too much about what the church had to say about same sex relationships. Maybe it is not with the others, but i wonder if it was a sign.

My wife is also bi but the good thing is she’s faithful but she enjoys seeing other pretty with me

I'm bi and My pitch for and island with just people who are bi.would be for guys just studs and with women plus size or curvy women or women who are in shape

I love this video. Thank-you for sharing your story and being open with your viewers so everyone can benefit from your story.

My inability to sit properly in chairs has resulted in years of backpain

I came out 2 years ago as Bi which I knew back in 1990. Everything you spoke about I can relate to. Thank you.

Just had first date we talked held hands even got a good night kiss first time I kissed a man it was amazing going out next Friday can hardly wait.

I knew going into my relationship with patty I was bisexual thought I would have to hide it thanks to you I could come out to her.

Soon going on a first date can't wait

I see you drink coffee I drink tea I thought drinking tea was a sign I was bisexual.

She is a beautiful person.

Liking boys clothes , activities etc etc doesn't make u gay or bi . U know ur sexual orientation via crushes u have. It stars pre and post puberty - actors, pop stars , celebs, classmates , schoolmates

Like your idea would love to be on the show.

My best friend who I cane out to as bisexual a year ago told me he has romantic feelings for me hoping this works out would love to have lovers of both sexes

I’m bi and I have never heard of lemon bars (have I sinned?)

I'm late to this party but I related to this so hard. I'm an elder Millenial so was a child in the 80s, teen in the 90's and I didn't know anything about bisexuality. We couldn't secretly Google it until way later. I didn't figure out what I was until I was 42, but I felt exactly as you did as a kid. I just supressed the shit out of it as I grew up in a religious home where it would have been unsafe. I also just didn't think my attraction for women was abnormal I think is ironically what made me not get it. When I understood others didn't really feel the same way it made sense. But my differences with straight women around some gender things like clothes and interests always made me feel not quite understood. You've really validated a lot for me. Thank you.

I'm happy for you and the other women who are growing out at least some of your body hair. That said, I admit I do wish that more heterosexual women also grew out their body hair as well.

May each of you be blessed, and may we one day have a world where women are no longer denigrated for having body hair.

For thirty years I had a dirty little secret before I could come to accept it you will help people accept there bisexuality a lot quicker.

It's funny, for Me I remember having Tiger Beat Magazines and having posters of both Topanga and Shawn from Boy Meets world on my wall. That and being mesmerized by RuPaul the first time I saw them.

In the Roman days bisexuality was considered normal.

I've always known I was "less straight" than other people and identified as such as young as when I was a preteen. I didn't really have any "evidence" of it, I didn't recognize myself as having any serious crushes on any girls, but I always felt like I found girls prettier than a straight girl should. But, obviously, I had to be straight. I was absolutely boy crazy, had a ton of crushes on guys, and yet, there was always this odd compulsion inside me to add qualifiers to my "straightness." Yeah, I'm straight, but girls are pretty, too. Yeah, I'm straight, but I can recognize a hot girl. Yeah, I'm straight, but I'll stare at a girl's boobs sometimes. Girls are just naturally that way! Right? Then, I distinctly remember having my first sex dream about a girl as a teen. It absolutely boggled my mind, I didn't know what to make of it. Yeah, girls are cute, but sex with a girl...? It took me a while (and a couple more involuntary dreams) for me to change my mantras. Yeah, I'm straight, but I could probably kiss a girl. Yeah, I'm straight, but I think I'd be cool with having sex with a girl. I mean, sex is sex, right? I'm still super into guys and love dating them, kissing them, and having sex with them (plus NOBODY can fake the absolutely visceral reaction I had seeing Adam Driver in the Force Awakens the first time, I gasped OUT LOUD like a clown 😅) so I must be straight. Plus, I didn't think I could everromantically date a girl. For a long time, I was stuck there, and I got together with my current boyfriend (who I'm crazy in love with and can never foresee leaving.) I figured maybe I was a little "bicurious" but whatever was going on was negligible, since I'd never really had a crush on a girl. Then, I met my new coworker, and as soon as I walked in room, I felt the wind knocked out of me. She was just gorgeous, her hair was perfect, her outfits were perfect, she was so cute, and sweet, and just this wonderful human being. Suddenly, I'd feel my face getting a little hot whenever she'd give me a compliment, I felt the need to put extra time into my outfits, and I got excited whenever I saw her at work. I could even imagine myself wishing we could hang out outside of work, maybe grab some dinner together, go for a drive. It took me an embarrassing amount of time to realize what I was feeling was a crush. I had a crush on a girl. My entire worldview basically shattered, and suddenly my difficulty with making friends with girls that were "too pretty" (exact words I'd use to describe my difficulty making friends with girls) began to make more sense. Looking back, it probably wasn't lack of self-esteem, but unidentified crushes. There was definitely one other girl I can think of that I absolutely had a crush on, looking back. It was such a strange thing to realize about myself even though, looking back, it seemed pretty obvious. I've kept my boyfriend updated with my self-discoveries and he has been nothing but supportive, further proving I've chosen the absolute best life partner. ❤ But, yeah! I felt like posting about my own journey here! I'm still technically not "out." Only a few close people know, and part of me feels like it would be worthless to identify publicly as bi. I'm in a long-term committed relationship with a man, evidence points to me mostly preferring men (for every ten casual male crushes I have one casual female crush) and I've never dated (or even kissed) a woman and I most likely never will. It would feel like I was stealing valor or something. But, at least in my own mind, I've started to feel as though bisexual is the perfect description for my sexuality.

Thank you for this, Max Caulfield