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Life of Jingwen
Canada
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 15 ม.ค. 2020
🫧Learning | Unmasking | Improving
A Letter to my young, ADHD self:
"it's okay. I will be my first child. I will raise myself right this time."
A Letter to my young, ADHD self:
"it's okay. I will be my first child. I will raise myself right this time."
lessons i've learned from 272 days on ADHD drug (real adhder struggles)
This isn’t about whether you should or shouldn’t take medication-it’s about a mindset approach and being honest about my experiences.
For a long time, I struggled with the idea of fitting into society’s expectations. Medication has dramatically improved my quality of life, but it’s not a magic solution. It’s important to recognize that everyone’s brain is different, and some people may never fully understand our thought processes.
I want to open up about the frustrations and challenges I face, from feeling like I need to prove my struggles are real to dealing with the invisible nature of ADHD. Accepting accommodations as a basic human right has been a difficult journey, but it’s essential.
By sharing my story, I hope to make you feel less alone and inspire you to find your own path. Let’s navigate this together and remember-there’s nothing wrong with us. Society might not be built for us, but we can build our own way.
0:00 - Hi
0:05 - Questioning Medication and Society’s Expectations
0:16 - Realizing My Brain is Different
0:47 - Society’s Lack of Understanding
1:07 - Medication to Fit In and Acceptance of ADHD
2:00 - Personal Reflections and Struggles
3:19 - High Expectations and Therapy
4:06 - The Importance of Accommodations
5:11 - Embracing Strengths and Limitations
6:13 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
#adhd #adhdmedication #adhdprobs
For a long time, I struggled with the idea of fitting into society’s expectations. Medication has dramatically improved my quality of life, but it’s not a magic solution. It’s important to recognize that everyone’s brain is different, and some people may never fully understand our thought processes.
I want to open up about the frustrations and challenges I face, from feeling like I need to prove my struggles are real to dealing with the invisible nature of ADHD. Accepting accommodations as a basic human right has been a difficult journey, but it’s essential.
By sharing my story, I hope to make you feel less alone and inspire you to find your own path. Let’s navigate this together and remember-there’s nothing wrong with us. Society might not be built for us, but we can build our own way.
0:00 - Hi
0:05 - Questioning Medication and Society’s Expectations
0:16 - Realizing My Brain is Different
0:47 - Society’s Lack of Understanding
1:07 - Medication to Fit In and Acceptance of ADHD
2:00 - Personal Reflections and Struggles
3:19 - High Expectations and Therapy
4:06 - The Importance of Accommodations
5:11 - Embracing Strengths and Limitations
6:13 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
#adhd #adhdmedication #adhdprobs
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*literally* i quit for the stupidest reason (adhd struggle)
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*literally* i quit for the stupidest reason (adhd struggle)
I HATE MY DREAM JOB...real adhder struggles
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I HATE MY DREAM JOB...real adhder struggles
ME FR
She's just like me fr fr 😭
My Brother
Lmao I have that shirt!
I feel called out
Hay me too 😢😢😢😢 if you ever wanna chat hmu
nah I was the goody two shoes in elementary 😭😭
Yooooo I felt this in my spirit
😅😊
Lol
Holy fucking shit…I always have been told I’m never listening or trying or I’m lazy THIS IS LITERALLY ME HOLY FUCKIBG SHIT SMART BUT DUMB BRO WHATT
Ive been diagnosed adhd and it true
As a person with autism that is close to ADHD I guess but that doesn’t mean you have adhd it mean you don’t like the thing your doing that just means your bored I get this but you won’t go because you do the same thing that I’d do you won’t go saying oh I do that I must have special needs would you
I'm not diagnosed but I think I have adhd. I told my parents about it and since they know nothing about it, (It is not very well known in our country) they didn't care. I don't know how to explain it to them. And I'm already in eleventh grade... 😭
I don’t want to seem like I’m trying to get attention or anything but I feel like this is me idk what to do
Me too 😭
@@lol_idk_yeah I used to have like really good grades in school and stuff but now I just like can’t focus in class or really focus with anything
@@probablyrobert9924 real I started failing this year and I never failed before 😭
This is me and sometimes I feel like I have ocd but just the obsessive part
Yea i have been diagnosed with adhd and ODD and OCD and i have only the time management issues procrastination issues , all of those are from really young age once you over come them adhd is a benefit , i can multitask like crazy and keep organized, although time management still any issue😂. Well enough ranting
Do i have ADHD
I just found out I did 😂
At least u have friends i don't
Accepting how replaceable you are is so important. It teaches you to make effort for your own sake, your own life's moments, the future self you create for yourself. You don't create better habits so others will praise you for how amazing you did at reshaping your future, and tell you how much they desire to have you around. You create better habits past the struggles, so you are in control of your life and your future. It's all for yourself. And because it's all for yourself, all the motivation and willpower has to come from within you; you have to create it when you need it. You can't wait for it to come from outside.
pretty sure i have adhd but idk? my brother and my sister got diagnosed and we definitely share the same traits so i’m thinking i should too
You got it. Don't give up! Jesus loves you ❤
Been going thru this….on medication now after I tried taking my own life. Life has been really hard and after my bf broke up with me it made me spiral farther. You’re not alone, we are more than the voice in our head. Cry cry alot and when you’re done hug yourself remind yourself that you’re so strong and you’re not alone even when it feels like it ❤ praying for both of us
You can do this :) you are more than your thoughts :) There is a God, a father who loves you so much and can give you rest you just have to come to him and ask him. God bless you! You are loved!
I have this problem. But ive never cried about it. Ive been living with the voice in my head for years now. Its bringing me down but ive never cried or did anything about it. And i wont because sometimes it helps me.
Im sorry for asking. Just wondering, how is like to have a voice inside your head? Is it like soemone else talking inside your head or just you talking to yourself?
@@justme-p7k yes. Its exactly a voice but not any voice. Your voice. It tells you things your scared about "they dont lke you" "your going to fail" "your parents will get hurt if you dont come with them."
@@justme-p7k it makes you scared of simple things in life. Such as showering or even talking.
I truly hope you feel better.
Hun you are amazing and you got this. Don’t keep it to yourself, don’t bottle it up. You are not a burden💝. God bless you!
This is completely normal, sorry for saying that
she's just lazy!!!
she's just lazy!!!
She’s not, ADHD is a very real neurodivergence
And that's how you search Jesus Christ. He IS the answer for ALL OF OUR PROBLEMS.
I'm sorry❤
I would like to recommend getting closer to GOD, Jesu Christ. It's just little things that makes changes.. doesn't have to be all the time..just read the bible a little bit at a day..know that GOD loves you everyday, every minute and forever...if u ask GOD he will help that voice in your head to go away.. p.s: not forcing my religion unto you.. I'm speaking from experience❤❤ You deserve to live happily and I pray for your blessings ❤
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😮😮❤❤
Hahaha😂😂😂😂
Babe i feel the same this had me in my feels rn i would wish for that to ❤😢😢 oli push myself to jard and underestimate myself to😢😢
I have the same problem
What is it called? Just curious
@@Pyxlotl i think anxiety and overthinking.
Hoping my friends won't worry about me while still being called an attention seeker😭 I hope you'll do better soon. You will.
I hope you're doing well 💗 don’t give up!
U will be okay!! Don't give up. I used feel that.. now it's in the past
This hit home. Especially trying not to bother people cause I feel like I'm already bothering them on a daily basis. Don't want to pile up on people😅 I felt like I was going crazy explaining to people how loud it gets in my head. Glad I'm not the only one❤ you got this girl❤❤❤
I'm never bored cause my brain attacks me the moment i stop doing anything😅
Ok I think I have ADHD😅😅
Girl you are doing so well. You’re amazing and I’m proud of you ❤️ From one ADHDer to another 😉
*the Moment i realized i have adhd*
Me too 😂😂
i have it too 😭
i dont have it but apparently i have adhd
Good old Procrasti'working'. Avoid the tasks I hate with more irrelevant work.
The clean my room first was too real
I do this but I don’t have ADHD or do I???
Do you have trouble focusing?
@@evilduck1504 sometimes but not always
No your just clumsy
@@OliviaJohn-b4p ok good. and I am clumsy😅
getting sidetracked while being sidetracked then eventually losing grasp of what you were supposed to do initially 😅