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He. Jefferson Fisher Is one special human being, we should all learn to be just like him.

I LOVE THIS SO MUCH I FEEL SO SAD wishing I'd had this kind of wisdom or support as I was going through my own marital issues. I've just been listening to another Christian workshop on marriage and divorce in the last few days. It was great because safety has its place in separation when appropriate. It was a great workshop and I did get the gist of all why one should walk away from her marriage. But at the end of it, it seemed like it was mostly on justifications on leaving a marriage though it made sense. Yes, there were points where there was encouragement to stay but all in all, it mostly was the opposite of what you just spoken about here in this great video teaching. This is ALL encouraging and gearing towards SAVING MARRIAGES and I feel your heart in it. I am all in it with you. I wish I'd known or heard of something like this in my time ten years ago. This makes me wonder. Why is divorce spreading like a deadly disease now when thesre is more help and knowledge on preventing divorce? My divorce still hurts after 10 years. Especially hearing about what wor "I" could have done to save my marriage. 😢😢😢Thank you for sharing you knowledge. I could still help someone one day or my own kids!

I think Dr. Wilcox was trying to be too PC. He doesn't acknowledge the proven research that women are hypergamous, and want to marry across and up the socioeconomic hierarchy, and that equality and diversity/DEI has made women now have 2x the university degrees as men and greater income than men under 30! Feminism and DEI have made the vast majority of men unattractive to the vast majority of young women.

Is there a guide/form/template/anything you recommend on how my wife or I can list out the good of our spouse? Like you said, we shouldn't only remember the wrongs in our relationship

Hey please Jefferson could you answer this person because it xould be ibteresting anout to 80/20 proportion

"Would I want to have sex with me?" Definitely an eye-opener! Already have a few ideas on areas where I can improve. Thank you!

love that he has praying parents!

I am grateful that you use the phrase “relationship” now. To expand your scope to give hope to those of us who are not married but committed to our partners.

Thank you for saying that sugar isn't evil, Kimberley. As a sweet tooth who is trying to cut back on sweets for the sake of fitting better into my clothes I need to hear that. 😊 I'm just cutting sweets back for special occasions.

My wife moved in with her brother next door we going to start talking to are pastor and she said she wants to do it to love herself again and she told me it will take more than a month

I recently went through a tough breakup. My 7 year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been really hard for me. I still love my ex so much and can't stop thinking about him. I've tried everything to win him back, but nothing has worked. It's frustrating, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I've been trying to move on, but I can't seem to get him out of my mind. I know it might sound strange to share this here, but I miss him a lot and just can't stop thinking about him.

I'm a 69 yo woman. I've been married for almost 35 years. My husband never wants to have a conversation about anything hard and will give me the silent treatment. Right now it's been 4 weeks and I'm struggling

You are ABSOLUTELY amazing!!! You have literally saved me. I would always engage in arguments and now because of you, I don't cry any more when someone tries to hurt me. I was actually surprised when I didn't cry!!!! I asked myself why am I not crying? Oh yah cuz of Jefferson! God bless you

Thanks again for having me on!

Thanks again for having me on!

Thanks again for having me on!

Great episode, thanks

Communication issues - say what’s on your mind because no one is a mind reader BUT say it well and appropriately AND ensure your partner is COMPREHENDING your message correctly. Being on the same page is key.

Really interesting talk and statistics! I will say, when you guys were talking about traditional couples and “what makes men more qualified to work” and the answer was “patriarchy” I think the question could be reframed to “what makes women more qualified (than men) to be at home?” Both men and women can be stay at home parents, but generally women are more qualified or customarily the home maker role because they are the ones gestating the child. An infant in particular benefits from and requires maternal presence. It all comes down to basic biology. I think we think of this as an oppressive “patriarchy” in our modern age but the fact is traditional roles reflect the basic, undeniable biology of the man and woman in the couple.

Have always enjoyed your podcasts. Thank you!

I really appreciate your coaching program and videos, but this video was VERY long and did not make many valid points that I hoped it would have made.

As someone with an eating disorder, this is one of the most accurate and comprehensive videos about eating disorders I've ever watched. Thank you for spreading awareness!

My wife told me she wanted a 6 month separation just 2 months ago. Then my therapist wanted to meet her. After just 1 hour long meeting my therapist literally told her to “rip off the bandaid” and now she is in the process of filing for divorce. I know I haven’t been the perfect husband but I still love her and feel she is my soul mate. I’m in so much pain watching her walk away. I just don’t have any hope that she will come back. I wish I had a therapist that thought that my marriage was worth saving and not some disposable broken thing that just needs tossed in the trash. I’ve been practicing smart contact and working on my pies, but idk if I should just move on or if I should hold on to hope when there seemingly isn’t any

Oh no!! As i listen more I'm giggling, it's not a work thing at all it's so much about respect for been protection for women and not as because we need it but want to give it you know and appreciate it!!

Kimberly! I love your podcast and the marriage helper one I listen obsessively. I love what y'all do and the topics you cover, I have gained so much over the last few months. Greatly appreciate y'all❤ I have a thought about the traditional gender role discussion y'all were having... I know y'all decided to go forth with it being work/job outside home related. I think that is such a small minor piece of that, I know many many traditional gender role marriages humans and some of the wives work outside home some don't but the major piece in those is much more about the feminine masculine dynamic between the spouses in their personal interactions, in the home, ECT like even if the wife in her personal life as in working outside the home is maybe in her masculine at work, she is able and happy to be in her feminine in her home and with her husband/family!! Not in the toxic ways many speak of masculine feminine dynamic either but the actual and beautiful dynamic❤ I just thought I would throw that out there because even you felt working made you automatically not for in that role! Anyways happy Tuesday❤ love y'all

Omg my wife and I tried marriage counseling but it only made things worse.

What are ways to pull her in if were already Separated and she doesn't want to work things out. Instead she is heartless and mean towards me.

@8:35 - yes, I thought my ex-wife should have worked on the marriage instead of choosing an affair. I was the one in marriage counseling. I even contacted your father in late 2003 or early 2004 and was told he would reach out to her, but he (or his staff) never followed up with me on setting up the call, etc. But yes, when someone is betrayed they often wonder why their spouse didn't put their energy into the marriage instead of putting it into an affair. If she's unhappy, he is too. What sort of person decides they are going to just worry about themself and betray the other? Therefore, of course I thought she could have done more. There was nothing unsolvable until she decided to have an affair and consider no other course of action. He cannot do the work for her. At some point, she has to want to do the work. Hey, at least she demonstrated her true nature.

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Such good information

He's the best !!!

I divorced my spouse out of anger it's coming up on one year. Please pray thank you.

Also this video is video isn't correct. Fat burning will not stop to 0 if you go in Zone 3 or higher...if just increases less because of lack of oxygen. But after the exercise it hold on to fill also glucose levels up. (When you not eat excessive carbs)

Can you do one for men? If you haven’t already done it

Super informative discussion! Great interviewer and great interviewee! ✨

Wow what an amazing piece of advice on YT now a days. Quality through and through. My personal story so far is that I went to my divorced mom and the first thing she told me was to separate and leave my spouse. Although disappointed I understand why she would say that, I am not listening to her. I am not listening to her advise because I have my good Lord that is granting me and my wife some hope. There is hope. There is hope.

It’s important to calculate your max HR to be sure zone 2 is in play. After years of exercise, I think the average citizen should just consistently exercise and not worry about zones.

Good explanation of Z2, though it might have helped if she had explained the relationship (or approx ratio) between VO2 max and HRMax. Most people have no idea what their VO2 max is or its units but they can do %s of HR Max. Also on men v women she didn’t mention that women typically have higher fat ratios than men, in which case is the difference in fat burning that they have higher fat in body composition and so will tend to burn it more (in which case that could be true of men with relatively higher body fat content) or hormonal so specifically related to being a women?

Who is the lady being interviewed? Got it - Dr. Alyssa Olenick

They should delete all the other videos about zone 2 from the internet

Tired Helpless Defeated...all of the above

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Smart girl💪

Too long and too much talk!

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Keep it simpke... Alwaya works

If you are a divorced women, the only way to get over it is to sleep around as much as you can.

2 Corinthians 6:14-16 may be one of the most important considerations in good marriages.

Hormones are, indeed, a tremendous factor in general health. There is no question that we are living in times wherein we are dealing with people with serious sadistic tendencies at work. Negative competition also leads to smear campaigns. Most of us are not equipped to deal with both the crushing pressures of work/life while having to watch your back at the same time. Since you mentioned the scriptures... this one comes to mind (2 Timothy 3:13).