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okandwhut
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เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 27 มิ.ย. 2017
Here to create what my heart desires ⚡️
two months in dominican republic.
some of the memories of my time in DR back when i decided to escape my reality months ago lol.
I learned and unlearned so much
i cried
i laughed
i changed
and stood my ground
i barely picked up the camera those days.. i was busy surviving emotionally lmao.
these are just some of my happier memories of my escape attempt.
#dominicanrepublic
#travelvlog
#stayinglocal
i mainly stayed in Santiago, but i traveled to puerto plata often, santo domingo, and went to punta cana. This is not an all inclusive resort vlog lol (i did go to a few though) I stayed locally and basically lived there for two months.
I do not own the rights to any of the music in this video.
background sound:
Willow Smith - Wait A Minute! remix by @FM.4A
I learned and unlearned so much
i cried
i laughed
i changed
and stood my ground
i barely picked up the camera those days.. i was busy surviving emotionally lmao.
these are just some of my happier memories of my escape attempt.
#dominicanrepublic
#travelvlog
#stayinglocal
i mainly stayed in Santiago, but i traveled to puerto plata often, santo domingo, and went to punta cana. This is not an all inclusive resort vlog lol (i did go to a few though) I stayed locally and basically lived there for two months.
I do not own the rights to any of the music in this video.
background sound:
Willow Smith - Wait A Minute! remix by @FM.4A
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just show up.
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today i turned 27. I never saw the day id actually shift on certain ideas, but here's to growth! its soooo ok to change your mind. Happy birthday to me, yay. 26 was a lot, but necessary. Excited for all that is to come within the next 365 days. Hoping for more love, joy, friendship, laughter and MONAYYYY. lol blessings my love. #changeyourmind #scorpioszn
If you’re angry, embrace it
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even if it hurts, and it will, we have to feel what we feel. You can pretend you don't feel what you feel, but who does it harm in the end? after all, emotional intelligence is a crucial part of our self care and overall well being. Why you have emotions and feelings and what do with them 🦋 #selfdiscovery #navigatingchange #navigatingemotions #emotionalintelligence IG: okandwhut
being in a state of becoming
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being in your 20s is a wild ride, proceed with grace here's to breaking out of my cocoon 🦋 IG: okandwhut #navigatingchange #becomingher #feelingalone #quarterlifecrisis #startingoveragain #20something
The choices you make in your 20s (or ever)
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where "doing it for the plot" gets you.. especially before your brain is fully developed IG: okandwhut #quarterlifecrisis #datinginyour20s #navigatingchange #feelinglost
Get up babe, no one’s coming to save you
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You have to be you number one supporter, even if it hurts. Let it hurt babe, cry if you need, but get up. You got this. no one and i mean no one can make your dream a reality but you. instagram: @okandwhut
Not your regular Punta Cana vlog
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we were practically nakey the whole time 😛 we went to this resort in Miches, (close to punta cana) Dominican Republic and it was possibly the best resort trip yet follow me on ig for funzies: @okandwhut i do not own the rights to the music in this video
living alone, the real new yorker experience, dating & more
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I wasn't going to post this one cause December really ate me up 😭 but 97 yr old me wouldn't appreciate that. #livingalone
Stop letting them distract you
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no more distractions no more procrastinating no more mindless consumption #thepowerofnow
how to stand on business: maybe you don't have to go no contact
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This is my take on what #standingonbusiness means and how we can go about it.
days in my life: living alone in nyc, dating, standing on business, being a doggy mom and more
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one day (in my 90s) ill be entertaining myself with the mess that is my 20 somethings. For now, i hope to entertain you, yes you. thank you for watching. Days in my life: Chapter November - living alone in NYC - Dating in NYC - NYC photoshoot - not standing on business for 2 days LOL - Thanksgiving with my family ❤️ - decorating my NYC apartment - staying ready - becoming my highest self IG: @o...
quitting a toxic 9 to 5.
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i had no choice but to quit even while in the middle of an economic crisis and possibly facing a recession. I have no intention of outing this place or retaliating in anyway. I simply needed an outlet to properly move on from this experience. I hope this reaches the right audience and I encourage everyone to stand up for themselves and others. Especially others.
days in my life: turning 26, photoshoot bts, bday dinner, tokischa's concert and more
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soooo I turned twenty sexy and I don't know how I feel about that, but this is how my October went 😛 Days in my life: Chapter October Birthday shoot bts denim themed shoot birthday dinner Tokischa's concert Scorpio szn 🦂 Photographers based in NYC on IG: Vamayerr_ Cartier.lens Music: I do not own the rights to any of the music on this video
How I tone my hair using Wella t18 and t11
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This is how I tone my blonde curly hair at home! I am no professional but I've been doing my own hair for years and thought I'd share (: I hope you enjoy this really short and straight to the point style of video. I show you what I use to tone my blonde hair using #Wellatoners, along with a B O M B outro💗 Products used: Wella T18 Wella T11 10 volume Developer Instagram: @yonairdy Music: @Natura...
Watch me bleach my curly hair | from brassy to blondie 😛
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Watch me bleach my curly hair | from brassy to blondie 😛
Curly hair routine WITHOUT diffusing (:
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Curly hair routine WITHOUT diffusing (:
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Trying the WET LOOK on my 2c-3b curls + how I style my edges :)
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Trying the WET LOOK on my 2c-3b curls how I style my edges :)
Using #LOTTABODY on my curls for the first time in years!
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Using #LOTTABODY on my curls for the first time in years!
How I protect my curls as I get my beauty sleep :)
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How I protect my curls as I get my beauty sleep :)
Tips and Tricks | How to style curls for extra thickness and VOLUME
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DOES SHEA MOISTURE MANUKA HONEY & YOGURT PROTEIN POWER TREATMENT ACTUALLY WORK?
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FIRST IMPRESSIONS: Reviewing the Denman brush 🤔
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FIRST IMPRESSIONS: Reviewing the Denman brush 🤔
How I bleached my hair and kept my curls
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How I bleached my hair and kept my curls
Restoring my curls without Shampoo/Conditioner! (starting from ZERO curls)
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Restoring my curls without Shampoo/Conditioner! (starting from ZERO curls)
The most INEXPENSIVE way to restore damaged curls | Two-Step Protein Treatment
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The most INEXPENSIVE way to restore damaged curls | Two-Step Protein Treatment
So no shampoo or conditioner at all !?
i would say wait a day or two before shampoo bc you dont want to wash out the freshly done toner. just rinse thoroughly with water and condition <3
it should be a crime to be this pretty
Ahora quiero ser TH-camr
Yesss do it!!
Me inspiras
EL GALLOOO JAJAJAJ
Omggg I miss DR 🥲 we needs to go back
Omg we dooo
Love loveeee how it came out!!! What brand of developer did you use?
Thannnk you <3 i used the super star brand, i like that the consistency isn't as thick as other brands + it's usually the cheapest lol
Sheesh I was here for hair lighting and .. yea you're speaking to me !
Omg, love it
😍omg is gorgeous 👌😜
ur awesome
🔥🔥
What color is your contacts? It fits your hair color too ❤😊
We can see through the window at 8:29 why post this
what exactly do you see?
@@okandwhut you not wearing anything?
How did you guys get bud out there 😩 I didn’t know it was okay to smoke on the resort (going to DR next month)
We brought it w us 👀 it’s technically not allowed and very illegal out there, be careful
you made this video for me ? 😳
I did <3
needed to hear this, keep up the amazing work beautiful !
Damn, God put this on my feed for a reason. This completely resonates. Thanks for sharing and encouraging. <3
the enjoyment was contagious 🥰 , 10/10 vlog sister
Thannnk you <3
Betttt
Shrooms in DR sounds like everything I didn’t know I needed
It was truly an experience 😭
💅😤💅🙏🫃🧑🍼👯♀️
Keep it going 🚀
This video helped me ❤ thank u so much, girl 🙏😌
❤️
Thank you so much your advice is actually truthful and i seriously want to change my habits and watching this actually help thank you 🤍
i deleted my socials as well. i want to go out and do things (even if it’s done alone). i love reading & working out. i want to do other things like solo dates and doing yoga/pottery classes.
yesssss same!
P R O M O S M
Keep doing your thing queen
Also if they cheat. Never give a cheater a second chance
Your video instantly reminded me of my cousin, who used the same phrase just recently. At the time, I wasn't sure about its meaning, but your mention of TikTok clarified it. Eagerly anticipating more of your content, and by the way, you're absolutely captivating. I'm excited to see and hear more from you soon! Your beauty shines through in your videos.😉 I'm posting this as a TH-cam comment to express my support! 🙂
We call this stage the epiphany phase. You get conscious of your biological clock ticking, you finally realize your type doesn’t offer you stability so you have to settle for a safer “provider type”. Only issue is your attraction to him will fade out pretty fast coz you am had a type, so you break the relationship up after two kids, roughly at the 4 to 6 year mark, and the excuse? Coz y’all grew apart. And back to the cycle of your type, you don’t need no man, men ain’t ish and all that mess women talk about. This is how 25% of black women ever experience marriage, 80% + of black children are born out of wedlock, and to a minority of black men.
that's why we need to stand on our boundaries and only give access to those that meet our non negotiable standards.. the issue is way deeper than this though. We can't keep blaming women for mens’ short comings.
black women are marginalized in every aspect of life from the workplace to healthcare. we need to admit that black men often exploit this vulnerability for their own personal gain. for too many years we blamed the "Ms Independent" type instead of blaming "Mr WeDontLoveTHeMhOeS:" men need to start holding other men accountable for their actions in all relationships, not just romantic ones. this racial infighting distracts the working class from the real battle we face from the financial powers above. keep your head up but learn to listen to women before speaking on them
do you feel like if your ex was trying to grow his mindset and self overall.. would you have been more inclined to welcome him bck ? Nice vid btw
thank you! and if you asked me this a year ago i would probably say yes. Today, I say absolutely not lol. I've evolved and he doesn't align with who I am or who i am becoming.
First time here and I’m glad I stayed. Such a good video, keep going Sis. Wishing you all the best!
This format. More videos like this! Now speak on the proof that your on the right track and How that it’s time to believe the good things that’s in front of you (you did get approved for the apartment. You did pass this semester- keep going)
Your dog standing on big business right now lmao
Always 😂
i love ur content sm i cannot wait to see u blow tf up!!
Thannnnk you <3 🥹
I just quit my job to I’m so glad I’m not alone
Ahhhh we got this babe <3
You’re such a bad bitch 😍 love to see it
proud of u queen ❤
new subscriber❤
Did you have savings when you quit? I've definitely quit jobs before but I had several thousand in savings first because it could take a few months to find something else. I Agree you should quit a job when you dont like it but it is in your best interest to make sure the bills are covered for the next few months before you make emotion driven decisions. It is not an act of self care to impulsively quit a job because you don't like someone there without something else lined up. Quit, but make sure you're covered first. People watching this should watch with caution. DONT DO THIS if you don't have savings/another job lined up!
I never asked anyone to do what I did, simply sharing my experience <3 I disagree, I think we should absolutely make emotion driven decisions after much reflection ofc. Your emotions are here to communicate w you and ignoring what your body is telling you would be a disservice to self. I live alone in NYC lmao, so trust that it wasn’t exactly an impulse. Unfortunately we can’t control everything that happens in life
@@okandwhut I never implied you were asking anything, I just shared my honest response to what I watched in your video. We can definitely control when we quit a job. I just don't want to minimize the financial, mental, emotional implications to leaving a job without a plan. I hope you find what you're looking for professionally! God bless and good luck on your journey!
Thank you <3
You’re such a star 🫶🏾🫶🏾💫
Good luck! I wonder what a reasonable pay per hour is in nyc? 22 dollar is actually pretty goood where i am from. But i get that everything is expensive in nyc🙈
22 an hr is ok if you share your expenses (mainly rent) with at least one other person but def not if you live alone 😭
Keep Creating!
so proud of you babe for always letting your voice be heard❤️you’re on to do sooo many great things
Best Of Luck With Everything
Tuff
yuhhhhhh queen things 👑
Yellow brassy blonde hair colour looks better than white or platinum
Yellow looks better it was better than result white blondes are wrost