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I've only seen 2 videos of you... one from 5 years ago and this one from now... you look very well, healthy, I would even say more handsome. maybe your problem is very similar to mine: the lack of in-person friends, people to talk to in person. have you tried going to churches, religious centers, Buddhists, Taoists... etc., any place that has a message that resonates with you and that allows you to at least interact with people who are similar to you? life doesn't usually change for the better overnight, but a little more social contact tends to improve it, even if gradually, slowly. you seem like a very interesting person. and yes, making friends is extremely difficult, especially when you feel hurt or broken. it's even harder to attract people when you're sad. so, as an exercise, try talking about the things you like instead of talking about your suffering when you meet a new person. eventually, you'll feel better. good luck, from an online friend from Brazil. _o/

Quit drinking alcohol and switch on a carnivore diet. Thank me later

Great message Rosso 👍

Nice video, thanks

Good attitude Ross.

Nice video & good advice 🙏

JESUS IS KING✝️💐❤

I am moving in January 2025 immediately and trust I got a few money save no debts so I gonna leap and trust me my parents are great

Please park your things and move some where immediately, you feel free and achieve more of your goals

Hows everything now? :)

Hey Ross, why don't you do this and then give me an update on where you are at ? 1. Binge Watch Friends Season 1 - 10 2. Go for a 15 mins run, where you burn your lungs out 3. Watch some conan w/ jordan remotes. Tell me what your reaction is like next week. Will wait Good luck and looking forward to it mate.

This was me in my late 30’s early 40’s. I was depressed, no job, no girlfriend, no hope, minimal college. I kept at school even though I was older than professors. Eventually graduated college, got a job, found a girlfriend. Moved out of my parent’s house and got married. Had kids and purchased a home. Now I’m 63 and retired and living life. The moral of the story is never give up and you have to start somewhere!

I’m 37 and at a dead end

R you married ..how r you doing

❤❤❤❤Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤❤❤

Been watching your videos for a good while now. I was (briefly) a cognitive behavioural therapist (well, trainee!) and one of the best things I learned about was something called behavioural activation. It’s practical and focused on planning and executing necessary, routine and pleasurable activities, especially during times when we can’t be bothered. By actively doing something instead of relying on faltering motivation levels can bring practical and mental benefits.

Has anything changed in your life in the last five years?

I always relate to your videos. Even the living with family thing.

I’m 29… still at home. My grandparents are a blessing. I help with the bills, try to cover everything. I suffer from depression and medication never helped. I wouldn’t be ok on my own.

It's tough to have our mind serve us instead of us serve the mind....

I'm almost 32, i graduated in animation in 2017, have not had a job since. I rely on my moms pension and my younger brothers own meager income and try my best to make their lives as peaceful as possible without employment. Now my father who was earning money just yesterday passed away and it hit me like a ton of bricks. I'm terrified of the future, my mom needs more than just her pension and my brothers income, but now eventhough we live with her she is so alone. Alot of her friends have passed away and now her husband, we are still grieving and im uncertain of my own future. Ithought all i needed was a little more time to enhance my portfolio, maybe get involved with an internship course that i was planning on a applying to, but right now, im completely at a loss. my dad is dead, im not living up to my dreams and my mother is struggling and im scared of whats going to happen the moment she leaves also. I love her to bits and while my father and i never had as strong a bond im still devestated after his death. I also have no social life, no friends, i had one romantic relationship but it was more like a penpal relationship and as far as i can see im going nowhere in life.

Eh, I lived with my Mom till I was 29. She had me at 42 and had literally no one else. Dad left us when I was 3, any other family she had was in another state. I created a "work from home" business doing business graphics/commercial art (in a very small town) to help support us. Any women I dated admired me for not abandoning the person who suffered and sacrificed to raise me.

Hello, I watched almost all your videos and I’m so so mad that you don’t get enough attention you literally help me all the way up I absolutely love hearing you’re advices , you really need to do podcasts . sending love❤❤

God and Jesus are your true Parents. SO FUQ THIS universe.

I saved 20grand living with parents in two years, then I moved out rented for three years, gave all that money to charity and ended up moving back in with my parents in debt, that whole time I didn’t go out and was sober, its tough out there, but I learned lessons and now got to pay of my debt and save up again for my own place, it will happen eventually, just extremely tough times I’ve had to deal with this.

I bought my house at age 21 and paid it off at age 35. All Washington DC ladies still call me a total loser and a bum on welfare.

The life you are living and the life ive been living is so vastly different. Im almost 40 and have been living on my own since i was 22

Hang in there man. Good vibes ur way.

bible?

I dont get it why some people are so ignorant.Not everyone wants to be married, or to be rent slave their entire life, just to please society.Personally,I think paying rent every month to some stranger is wasting money,if you can ,better save money , invest in your own family property if you are lucky to have one.Rents are expensive,expecially for a single person.Sooner or later,that property will be yours anyway.If you live with family members then sharing expenses,and paying bills is must.The problem starts if family members are not in okay relationship, thats completely different thing.Everyone who ever lived with roomates are probably aware how tough that shit can be.Human social relationships are complex thing always no matter who you live with,but thats part of life.

Habibi, come to Dubai!

If I could afford to live alone, I would. I also take care of my elderly parents. I'm 53

Deforestation is real. Recycling living at home from ancestry, is better. You can always remodel...OVER AND OVER AND OVER

Why even move out? Just live at home and eventually the home will be passed down to you…

Dang you really are a loser 😂

Are you related to Margaret Thatcher by any chance?? I agree repetition can sometimes trump inspiration

I feel bad about my looks. I want to look better. My stomach is awful to me. Ive had health problems that hasnt helped. I dont want feel so insecure. :(

People aren't talking about how housing is just not as affordable as it was during our parents' time. That is a huge factor! If you wanna drown yourself in mortgage just for the sake of showing "you're the man", goodluck. I'd rather be debt free than be "The man" with huge debts.

If you were getting a lot of different knowledge about a lot of different things from living with them, you would not be living with them. They didn’t do their job.

Thankyou for this advice i really need this right now, have a blessed day✨️

These are different times in which we are living. Adjust the "metrics" and do what you feel is right in your heart. Loyalty speaks volumes.

At least you were ahead of the game 5 years ago by living with your parents, or living with someone because these past few years been tearing people down

Well if your parents made you then the least they can do is letting you live with them. That's fair i think, you didn't ask to be born. It's no shame, it's a stress free life😉 Enjoy 👍

It cool to live with your parents now. A guy in work who accountant live with his parents and he 47. He also own two apartments and rent them out.

Why do you always seem to be in a tizz? You always seem to be dysfunctional. Just accept the fact you cannot cope or survive in what is the easiest time (physically) to be alive in human history.

Do you still live with parents?

Back again ay

im 39 this year, working hard and achieved nothing. though, im still gratefull that i am able to provide raising my own fam. not a bigshot but still working towards that goal. it hurts personally not achieving goals ATM but grateful enough that i have the people who makes me work towards working on that goal. ❤

Im 37 and still live at home. I went to college, held jobs, etc.... its just impossible to build a normal life anymore. Even my parents are cool with it, we both mutually agree times have changed, and my generation is simply not going to have the same lives they had. I guess anything is possible, but I don't even think of marrying or having children anymore, I have lived so much of my life without it, it seems not possible to have it anymore. Even some old friends of mine who married in their early 20s had horrible divorces, alot of them tell me in the end I won because my life is simple. Also, I became a religious person and in general that has led me to a less materialistic life. I just feel society has changed and I dont have a place in it, but at some level I am at peace.

I've found that a habit tracker helps me too. It makes me feel accountable because I feel guilty/ashamed when I don't complete the tracker for the month.