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I don’t get it why they feel that they are sexy and that being overweight is sexy and it’s not. They are fat and obese and it’s not healthy. But BW will use that thinking that they are sexy. A fat white woman is more attractive than an overweight black women.

But how do you know these things and how do we address them

A few traits of men raised by single mothers are as follows. Men raised by single mothers frequently have problems with lying. The cause is a mixture of being cowardly due to coddling by the mother (not developing behavioural acted out courage) mixed with a lack of non-negotiable consequences in the mothers discipline leading to development of a behavioural belief that one can just "talk/negotiate" oneself out of consequences. Men raised by single mothers also tend to lack in self-awareness relative to peers prior to the age of 30. This is caused by the simple absence of the father rather than anything the mother does or does not do. Without an adult male in the environment, the boy does not fear and reflect on behaviour nearly as much, which over the years retards the development of the self awareness faculty. Men raised by single mothers are have an impaired intuitive understanding of how to negotiate with other men in adulthood. Which impacts there future employment and earnings potential. I could go on for a long time, but instead I will just say that as the byproduct of a single mother home, being raised by a single mother and not having a good father is one of the worst things that can befall a young man.

To understand a proverb, and the interpretation; the words of the wise, and their dark sayings. Black men don't take the Bible as historical. Neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, the kingdom of God is within you. But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Not church, go within yourself, not church. Forsake not the assembly. Find out what the assembly. Find out what the assembly, assembly is not the church

What if he is 54 years old and never been married?

just like black women'''''''', hate black men ' he only saying that cause he married' to one''''''' arneal ', he gotta say it'''''

I knew a man who raised by single mother. He is low in effort, but would always wanted to be praised, chased, acknowledged and approached first by others. He is the youngest and the only man in the family. He is in his 20s now.

Black men have become evil and diabolical savages. now that they no longer go to church. They have turned from God and turned to their own ways, they no longer have shame about sleeping with men and wanting to be women .They have no use for the women in their own race .they blame everything on black women and their community they hide behind white women and other relationships with none Black women. because they don’t have to be accountable . Lastly, they’re probably mad because God made them black when they really wanted to erase their blackness by Marrying and having babies with non-black women. Some of them feel like God has let them down .by making them black and they have no more use for God at least for now . By they will return when they truly realize that Jesus Christ is Lord and that’s why I know they’ll be back..

Good presentation. Good discussion. You made a point I wish to say something on. Manliness is not aggressiveness,or masculinity. Manliness is the mental disposition that everything in our environment both tangible and intangible are to be used for the development of the community as a whole. So Manliness is therefore a collaboration of both the feminine and masculine energies in the welfare of the "community". Men are trained to cultivate all their powers for society. Women are also trained to cultivate all their powers for society. If the understanding of the black community is so divided that it cannot think of itself as a community even when they become members of the church that same mentality of division and inability to use all resources both physical and mental for the welfare of all would still be prevalent. So basically the males not going to church shows the self-centeredness of black culture and their inability to organize for their own survival. The black males still think it's not his responsibility to save himself. Church is just another scenario where the absenteeism of the black male is lived out...just as it is practiced in the family. The church is a product of society not the other way around.

It's due To The Natural Actual Factuals That Most Medium to mega size Churches ain't doing nothing 4 all People straight detriments vs. benefits MAIN reason why lotta Us Bros grew up in the chuch rebelled & became Muslims 1 4 me at 7 Yrz. old Loco suggested Y'all take dat white jesus & crosses off the walls then called me satan 4 dat there

Here's your answer: Extreme Promiscuity and Arrogance... Which foreign women don't exhibit

The spirit of Jezebel has infiltrated the church and any man who sincerely wants to follow Christ , struggle with the modern church.

You only hate what you fear.

Yeah...this is where you lost me sir. I believe the man is the prize. The woman is the gift

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MEN ARE THE PRIZE BRO! Besides sex, marriage is useless. We do not need a woman for anything. This is why Christian men are leaving the church. You need to wake up and rethink your position! Read Isaiah 4:1!!! You will see right away who the prize is.

Christianity from a historical perspective was also forcibly imbedded within the Black community by Europeans during America’s formative years. Generation X and subsequent generations have made the most notable “exodus” from the church. Most men that willingly choose to leave probably aren’t going to come back.

I know a lot of blackmen rise in a two parents household that don't go to church we need to stop blame others for our problems

I'm issue was that I got tired of being called a believer and I wanted to know if what I believed was true. I went to find the evidence of what was being taught as the truth in the bible. Spoiler Alert ⚠️...... There is very little to no evidence for most of the bible stories. No Adam and Eve means no fall of man which means no need for a savior.

As I've been commenting for quite some time now; even as an updated point of view and as applying to: Allah, Buddha, Jah, Jesus, Krishna, Yahweh & All The Rest; thus, My take on is: that the Black - Richly Melanated people as a whole, (especially as applying to both African and American Blacks [maybe one more so than the other and vice versa]) we fail in these five to six main areas: 1) The Idea Of A Non-proven One All Omnipotent God/Religions; 2) Not Having Overall Desire Or Values Toward True Ancient, Historical Knowledge & Science; 3) Negative Female Rulership By Non-Postnatal Trained ('Crooked Natured') Women; 4) Limited, Average Life Span; 5) Not Having Economic Productive Type Values (Needing Someone Else To Do What You Yourself Can Do While Also Not Maximizing On The Full Utilization Of Your Community's Or Continent's Natural Resources) & Finally, 6) The Allowed Destruction Of Family; all of this done within our limited average 80-years lifespan

We were not taught to love ourselves or to protect our communities. There have been no solid role models in the homes for several decades. Our black men and women are comfortable having casual sex with no consideration of the long-term effects. Black women are taught that their value is in their aexuality. Black women can easily become married if they are taught differently, and if Black men valued marriage, Our community lacks leadership. Look at the other ethnic groups they love, protect, and provide for their women. Our men are in jail, aren't going to college, or learning any skills; they want to be rappers, basketballers, etc. and have no clear sense of direction. And the ones that do make it hate being Black and don't desire black women. Accountability is absolutely necessary for our women; they lack role model to look up to Women are not natural leaders; black men do not realise that they are still leading the community. The male celebrities are the ones now leading our women and boys. This is why the wigs and bbls are so in demand. Whatever our men desire is what the women flock to Nowadays and for the past 4 decades, all black women are being taught at home is to work hard so you can take care of yourself. Notice how they are excelling at that. When black men realise that they are still in control and influence over their community is when we will stop blaming black woman for being unmarried. Let's wake up and stop being blind. Let's get back to living like God instructed.

(Rueben A)THE CHURCH IS FULL OF BS

That is the Man's fault

The average preacher, reverend, etc!!! Don't know what they Teaching. We are taught to *fear and have faith in God (I personally don't accept that edict - tenet and never have and never will, thus, I don't believe in a God that will punish me for trespasses. No more do I believe a Parent has the right to administer corperal punishment onto their grow children), a dichotomy to the mind, and especially to the mind of a vulnerable child (brainwashing - eurocentric religious brainwashing might I add). But, I digress. " I did not give you the Spirit of Fear 😨"... Let me repeat that; "I did give you the Spirit of Fear 😨"!!! So, now somebody's lying and some recognize the truth and that they are being too.... Fear God, versus, "I did give you the Spirit of Fear,!!!" Now why would my God want me, His - Son to fear Him / Her,??!!!!! Other words kill the spookism!!!!

Homosexuals in the pew.

They cant sleep with their men freely.

Because it is and always been bulls*hit

No one hates black women

Why can’t these men use condoms? If they don’t want a child all they have to do is prevent the egg from being fertilized. I guess that’s not an option?

As a black man im struggling with my current church, its small and i like it but theres no men really. Apart from me and the pastor, plus the pastor i consider a family member as were close but he doesnt dicuss topics such as money and finance and im of the belief that Christians have a right to be rich and wealthy because god is abundance but that is never preached. the church i attend is mostly women and kids. so yeah i feel like my sundaes are going to be tailored towards building my business but that doesn't mean ive lost faith, i love god and the word but i need word that applies today wit this hell were living in

I can only be an expert on me. I hear sincerity in your heart. But you can only say why you do or don’t like church . I believe you are referring to statistics that are factual but are they the Truth ? Is there hope ?

Excellent and accurate sir! So glad I found your channel.

It's soo amazing how some of us make excuses not to go to church but when something bad happen they are calling on God for help.

Loneliness and depression are real issues. Food is substituted for healthy relationships.

This ain't about any balance not even issues the tru church is all about order no order no church.

Because it manipulates and accumulates large profits off lower class and lower middle class black people

Everybody.

As soon as you started off with the reason is envy ,expectation and personal accountability was never mentioned… I stopped watching at the two minutes and 35 second mark.

I don’t know about that. I’ve met men and women who came from perfect childhoods and they still became train wrecks as adults.

This took a minute to get to the point but once you got to it, you hit the nail on the head perfectly

Its mythology

BW are sometimes hated on jobs for not being. .. loud.. nasty...ignorant...etc various stereotyping of the way BW suppose to be...!

I don't hate black women! People I associate with don't hate black women either. I feel bad that thought and feeling is ingrained in them. I am of Scandinavian people. I get restrained hostility from black women. The black woman pharmacist just glares at me and makes transactions difficult. I approach people with pleasant greeting then quickly onto business...my culture quickly getting to business...is that offensive to another cculture? I noticed when I mention the word culture there's an definite repressed bristling. A multi racial friend called me a racist bc during an argument I said, "then all I can say, that's a cultural difference". How is that racist? I get the feeling "culture" is thought of by blacks to be them only. Among my few white and mostly Latino friends (whom seem to me just people from another country and culture with great and not so great features...as us all. Married to one till death did us part). I just wish everyone wld see themselves as American citizens. It's not the motherland or fatherland. It's being taken in by Uncle Sam. So many different cultures and social levels that can be changed if you work for it. So wish to blow up that crippling hurtful mindset to a healthier way. I am so not privileged. I get taken advantaged of too. Put yourself where you want to be. Demons abound in all cultures and around us. If you only identifywith black culture, or anyone identifying with a single narrow culture life will be limiting and harder.

Morning, I was looking forward to hearing your statements or advice on what a woman should do. Some of your points are not good advice. Here are two points you made that is not correct: "Don't give men advice, if they don't ask for it." This is wrong because men should accept advice at any time as this could save him the problem of being hurt, going the wrong direction, needing understanding of something, or lift him up to be a better him and it could encourage him. This statement here is only for independent men who live for themselves, who should be on their own and may not hear the Heavenly Father speaking to them to guide them . "Don't tell a man what to do, how to speak or how to behave." This advice is wrong, too. At various given time a man should be told what to say to win over a woman's father, how to behave in front of her family. If she is not allowed to tell him how to do this then she need to leave him alone and run to the hills.... Because how would he know how to conduct himself properly around her family without her telling him how to please them. There is also other areas why a woman should be able to tell the man how to conduct himself. If he listen and do as required then this man is a keeper because you and him can always work things out and listening is the key to the relationship. Just to put this point even more clearly. A man that listen to a woman and a woman who listen to a man and can follow instructions can survive anything and both of them can also hear the Heavenly Father speaking to them in their situations. How do two people gain direction when they are lost? Let us suppose that you are a man that believe that the woman Eve was the cause for the World to Fall in Sin. When reading the Bible it states that it was Adam that cause the World to sin, according to the Book Genesis and in I Corinthians. as stated: I Corinthians 15:22 For as in Adam all die, even so in the Messiah all shall be made alive. How do two people gain direction when they are lost? I am asking you Mr RC. .

It's not. The. Church. It. Is. The. Precher.

BROTHER TELL THE TRUTH YOU ARE SO RIGHT

I think it's guilty conscience for immoral activity.They don't want to be there ,just in case God shows up.

Thank you for your kind words regarding Black women .. seems like we’re bashed on every side … I’m a Baby Boomer also, it’s all I’ve ever known were very loving kind black women .. That together raised whole black nieghbor hoods .. God Bless 🙏🏽❤️

They try to effeminate bm in the church.