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"Welcome to Sema Podcast 🎙️ - where I sit down with friends from all walks of life-entrepreneurs, professionals, coaches, and counselors-to chat about everything from personal growth to business and wellness. Every now and then, we’ll have special guests drop by to discuss current affairs and hot topics. This is more than just a podcast; it's a platform to bridge the gap, share experiences, and inspire each other. Join us for real conversations, fresh perspectives, and a whole lot of wisdom. Let’s connect, learn, and grow together! 🚀 #SemaPodcast #RealTalk #BridgingTheGap
LOVE MAKES YOU WEAK. Br.Gabriel Al Romaani. The Relationship Coach
Polygamy in Islam: An Honest Conversation with Brother Gabriel Al Romaani
In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with Brother Gabriel Al Romaani to explore the often misunderstood topic of polygamy in Islam. Together, we delve into the historical, cultural, and religious contexts that shape the practice of polygamy, and discuss its relevance in today's world.
Brother Gabriel shares his deep insights on the wisdom behind this practice, how it is implemented according to Islamic teachings, and the responsibilities that come with it. We also address common misconceptions and provide clarity on the rules and ethics that govern polygamous marriages in Islam.
Whether you're curious about the topic or seeking a deeper understanding of Islamic marital practices, this episode is a must-watch. Join us for an honest and respectful conversation on a subject that continues to spark debate within and outside the Muslim community.
Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful discussions on Islam and its practices!
Gabriel Al Romaani Links
galromaani?hl=en (instagram)
alromaani.simplybook.it/v2/ (course booking )
www.muslimalpha.com (masculine course)
Timestamps:
00:00:00 Intro
00:03:28 What is Polygamy
00:14:41 Men are weak
00:17:52 Is polygamy medieval
00:20:36 Polygamy saves you from heartbreak
00:28:10 Men should not fall in love
00:30:56 is polygamy misogamy
00:34:44 Are women alien
00:39:00 a women nature
00:40:00 fairness and equality
00:44:20 concept of polygamy
00:48:15 women are more attracted to a man who has multiple wives
00:52:45 POLYGAMY advantages
00:56:35 Penis envy
00:58:30 Polarity of energies
01:02:15 closing advice
#Polygamy #Islam #GabrielAlRomaani #MuslimMarriage #IslamicTeachings #FaithTalks #polyandry
In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with Brother Gabriel Al Romaani to explore the often misunderstood topic of polygamy in Islam. Together, we delve into the historical, cultural, and religious contexts that shape the practice of polygamy, and discuss its relevance in today's world.
Brother Gabriel shares his deep insights on the wisdom behind this practice, how it is implemented according to Islamic teachings, and the responsibilities that come with it. We also address common misconceptions and provide clarity on the rules and ethics that govern polygamous marriages in Islam.
Whether you're curious about the topic or seeking a deeper understanding of Islamic marital practices, this episode is a must-watch. Join us for an honest and respectful conversation on a subject that continues to spark debate within and outside the Muslim community.
Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful discussions on Islam and its practices!
Gabriel Al Romaani Links
galromaani?hl=en (instagram)
alromaani.simplybook.it/v2/ (course booking )
www.muslimalpha.com (masculine course)
Timestamps:
00:00:00 Intro
00:03:28 What is Polygamy
00:14:41 Men are weak
00:17:52 Is polygamy medieval
00:20:36 Polygamy saves you from heartbreak
00:28:10 Men should not fall in love
00:30:56 is polygamy misogamy
00:34:44 Are women alien
00:39:00 a women nature
00:40:00 fairness and equality
00:44:20 concept of polygamy
00:48:15 women are more attracted to a man who has multiple wives
00:52:45 POLYGAMY advantages
00:56:35 Penis envy
00:58:30 Polarity of energies
01:02:15 closing advice
#Polygamy #Islam #GabrielAlRomaani #MuslimMarriage #IslamicTeachings #FaithTalks #polyandry
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Mjomba huna mbaya masha,Allah ,chadwick here from Birmingham great work chan
Good luck with your definitions.
😂 More famous than Michael Jackson and Mohammed Ali? 👀 Gen Z thr generation all generations are united in disliking! Its as if they have no brains 🧠
😂 More famous than Michael? Put some respect on MJ's name.
Why is the conversation just talking about why men want and whats good for them.. why not whats the in the nature of women and what they want? Plus dont forget that women are aa creation Allah too. So please talk about them empathetically. The world was built for both men and women and not men alone.
The Coolidge effect also affects female animals Why dont u mention that?
Just out of interest, where did this exist “in the laws of Jesus”? It existed in Old Testament times - not with the overt approval of “God”” But Jesus never married multiple women/ had sexual intercourse with children etc. he was reportedly celibate. Even in Islam.
Neither one of u chubbies is joining the SAS! Why should you discriminate against women who don’t? So hypocritical.
How are a square and a circle unequal? Tht is such a dumb analogy.
Wht r this idiots qualifications? Never heard he had any.
Misogyny is defined in the dictionary as either hatred/ dislike of women, or the the UNEQUAL treatment of women. You can’t make up your own definition. Use a different word if you want a different meaning.
U seriously think a man with multiple wives has proportionally more sons? Did u not go to school? U really shouldn’t speak on basic biological matters.
How wld this idiot know wht is or isn’t “against female nature”? or indeed anything about women? hes a chubby misogynist man - I seriously doubt any independent western woman has ever had a proper conversation with him. Hes definitely never had a female friend.
Can somebody please do a muslim brother a favour, in shaa' Allah..? This favour will certainly gain reward for whoever does it for me without any doubt because it involves reconciliation of two muslims over a simple misunderstanding... Somebody message brother Gabriel and let him know that when I messaged him a couple of years ago I was in the middle of some personal reconaisance work fee sabeel illah by "befriending" Mona Alyedreessy to spy on her and garner some inside information directly from her about her goals and intentions. I messaged brother Gabriel because he was following her and she was following him on Instagram and I thought he was a friend of Mona and so I wanted to ask him something and messaged him in DM under the guise that I was a friend of Mona. I couldn't break my cover at that time, but now she knows I am her enemy and not her friend because there came a time where I just had to let her know that I know her game and know she is a munaafiqah who actively runs "DE-CONVERSION" programs. I now know why they were following each other on IG and he had similar reasons to me, he did a podcast with her. I acctually have footage of her sleighting him whilst telling her friends he is a red pill misogynist if he would like to see it. I also have footage of her instructing muslim women in feminism, lying upon Allah and His messenger, distorting islaam, promoting narcissistic abuse of muslim men by their wives and telling them "It is halaal to self diagnose your husband as a narcissist and to abuse him with narcissist abuse tactics because he is a narcissist and an abuser of women" and what she means by this is ANY muslim man who BELIEVES IN and FOLLOWS traditional orthodox islaam properly. She is funded by the Saudi royal family, the UK government, the Scottish government, NHS Tayside among others. Search for her Kingston University thesis for her Doctorate of PHILOSOPHY (English literature and social engineering, NOT psychology) and you will see she runs "DE-CONVERSION" programs. You will see from her thesis that she talks about the psychology of converting to islaam according to the philosophical views of unbelievers. She is a hardcore narcissist and she POSES as a doctor of psychology with her phD by having authored one book on psychology, of which she either has VERY poor understanding or is deliberately LYING about basic level psychology to dress up covert NPD as "codependency", ie. to give the covert narcissist, the perpetual terminal victim narcissist, a cover as a victim so they can blame their muslim husband for being the narcissist. She is very skilled in manipulation and lying and rhetoric and NLP and she mind controls malleable women and distorts the deen and turns them completely against islaam until they view it as narcissistic misogynistic abuse and then start to fight their husband calling him a narcissist and a misogynist and they will gaslight their husband by claiming he has distorted islaam to abuse her whilst SHE will be the one spewing nothing but kufr and feminism. The goals and intentions of Mona Alyedreessy is to COMPLETELY DISTORT islaam into a hardcore feminist mind control cult and turn muslim women into heavily active apostates who FIGHT islaam and fight their husband until it causes a divorce. Her malicious usage of psychology is designed to drive religious muslim men almost completely insane and draw "reactive abuse" from them towards their wife/wives to further convince the wife/wives in the newly found feminist delusions they now suffer. This is designed to end in divorce and heavily active apostacy and the spreading of feminism to as many muslim women as these fully indioctrinated apostates can now mislead into complete misguidance and kufr. She KNOWS what she does DEMOLISHES their emaan so their hearts will be sealed and they will become EVIL devils among mankind and will continue to spread her evil like malignant cancer. She leads men into insanity and suicide and she doesn't care. She is a sorceress and a mind bender and a big enemy of Allah and she seeks to profiteer from what she does in all manner of haraam ways. She is a Moroccan SHI`I and she uses shi`ah narrations and all manner of shi`ah kufr and kufri principles and deception, she is the MOST SKILLED at taqiyyah I have EVER come across, I have never even seen such a manipulative man from among the shi`ah who can use taqiyyah as skillfully as Mona Alyedreessy. BEWARE OF HER!!!! I STRONGLY SUGGEST IF ANY OF YOU BROTHERS FIND YOUR WIFE/WIVES FOLLOWING OR LISTENING TO HER OR ENGAGING WITH HER THEN YOU SHOULD KNOW SHE IS SEEKING TO DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE, POISON YOUR WIFE AND TURN HER INTO A PATHOLOGICAL NARCISSIST AND ABUSER AND FEMINIST PREACHER!!! CUT THEIR TIES OR YOUR MARRIAGE WILL ALMOST CERTAINLY BE BURNT TO THE GROUND, SHE IS A SORCERESS AND ANYBODY WHO DOESN'T REALISE YET THAT SORCERY IS REAL AND SORCERORS AND SORCERESSES ARE ALL AROUND YOU, THEN YOU NEED TO WAKE UP BECAUSE SORCERORS ETC HAVE BEEN MENTIONED IN THE BOOK OF ALLAH, BUT HOW ODD WHEN SOMEBODY TELLS YOU "SO AND SO IS A SORCEROR" SO MANY OF YOU FROWN AND DON'T EVEN BELIEVE SUCH A THING COULD EVEN BE REAL AND PRESENT IN THIS WORLD AND LOOK AT THE ONE SAYING IT AS IF THEY ARE INSANE... قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم إن من البيان سحرً أو إن بعض البيان سحر (qaala rasool Allah sollaa Allahu `alayhi wa-sallam 'inna min al-bayaani sihran 'aw 'inna ba`dh al-bayaani sihr) The messenger of Allah peace and blessings of Allah upon him said indeed in eloquent speech there is magic and indeed some eloquent speech IS MAGIC!!! Magic is something which affects and corrupts the brain and it is done through various means and speech is the main way! Mind control is predominantly done through persuasive speech, manipulative speech, rhetoric, neurolinguistic programming, and other malicious techniques such as malignant dark psychology. So it is NOT strange that in 1447 (2024CE) I am here warning you about a chief sorceress attacking the muslim family units through poisoning the minds of the muslim women! By her own admittance she refuses to reside in a muslim community. She said to me she DESPISES the idea of residing in a muslim community and revealed she resides far from any muslim communities in the UK. Probably somewhere like Haverford West... remote!! If you read her thesis then you can figure out quickly why she resides far from muslims, not only because she is a very heavily active apostate who runs "de-conversion" programs, but also because she has promoted the FALSE idea to the British government that ALL properly religious traditionalist orthodox muslims in the UK hunt down apostates and decapitate them. She is pushing WILD views in the background to GOVERNMENT and is clearly a part of the Rand plot to destroy islaam through falsely branding all proper traditionalist orthodox muslims as "radical fundamentalists" and "capable of extreme acts of vioilence". In fact, perhaps it is the other way around and those Rand scum got these ideas from Mona Alyedreessy and others just like herr; Allah knows best, but either way muslims ought to beware of the cancer that woman spreads and who is behind it... in one breath the UK government tell us muslims we are free to practise our islaam, in another breath deep in the shadows they are seeking to pattern up EVERY orthodox muslim as a terrorist so they can destroy islaam through the modernists and feminists. PAY ATTENTION: the UK government will sponser ACTUAL terrorist groups and organizations such as ikhwaan al-muslimeen because they now recognize them as people who are destroying islaam and as the khawaarij they are, so many ikhwaani distortions of islaam are now being pushed by evil scholars such as Omar Suleiman (ikhwaani), Yasmin Mogahed (generational ikhwaani), Nouman Ali Khan (Khannaas). You may think Mona is a small fish compared to those names, but once you realise who she is and what she is doing in the shadows, the gravity of it, how far and quickly it spreads without her direct involvement due to it being like a cult indoctrination process and once you realise the danger she poses to the muslims and the level of haraam and kufr and evil in all of this then you will realise why I am here warning you all about what she is doing!!!! It seems to me that MONA is the one who has deceived the UK government and the Scotish government so she can profiteer from what she is doing with their funding and it is her who has misled them in many things rather than the other way around. This is a classic case just like psychologists believing narcissists about their condition to base their theories on, such as the MYTH from narcissists themselves that their NPD is because of childhood trauma - a clever narcissist manipulation of psychologists to give them a pity card and to make out that perhaps NPD can be cured as a psychological disorder. Psychologists may profit from the lies peddled to them by such pathological liars because it enables them to write extensively on a condition of the heart the believe to be a condition of the mind and to author theoretical papers they seek to get peer reviewed and books they can profiteer from. Such is the mechanisms of the capitolist system!! I have PROOF of everything I am saying here, and most of it is easy to find yourselves by simply searching it and reading. I have directed you to her thesis which is VERY revealing itself and is published on the Kingston University official website, so there is no disputing it is her work!! * I wonder who will try to "correct" my spelling "capitolist"... you may not realise it, but there is a very big organization who spell it that way.. pay attention, I did it deliberately as a mockery of those people.. haha I am autistic so I couldn't hold back on mocking those EVIL people!
brother jibreel needs to relax i think he is new to the deen
Sick intro Allahumma barik
I've never been treated better by a Woman than when she had some competition.
Oh no....what will the Christians think about me?
Host need to check his weight
I always noticed how women have it in them to rpocess 2 ideas that dont go together. Literally self contradiction
Wtf is this bs. These beta men are hilarious.
How childish
idk where this idea that women are attracted to men with multiple wives come from , speaking for myself as women that is false
Men are only more physically stronger than women but women are a lot more resilient and stronger emotionally. Women dont need another option to bounce back from breakups
Men are stronger emotionally actually women are much more emotional though
After reading groundbreaking research studies about the behaviour of cats and women, the brother has made the following conclusions: Women are like bitcoin aliens. They have periods and don't know what they want. But if you diversify your investment in them, they will throw themselves at you.
Dear brother Gabriel, my friend was married to a very nice man who was treating her in the best way ever, but after watching your video she found out that he is a “weak” man because he loves her and no other woman… so now she is not attracted to him anymore and she wants to become your second wife. Would you please take her now you strong man?
The question at the end made me laugh 😂😂😂😂😂 ‘u strong man’ hahaha
@@pamk380 thank you for understanding my humor, or to be more precise, my sarcasm lol
Lying is haram. This is a load of Nonsense.
@@BlacFireSan why don’t you go back to wherever you came from
@@BlacFireSan wallah???
He has 3 wives. I bet 3 father in laws too 😮
I sympathize with muslim women. Their lives can't be easy with polygamous men. These men should live in Muslim countries.
Anyone bashing on the Deen of Islam for their treatment of women need only read about the rights of a mother or a wife. Or notice that MOST Muslim reverts are WOMEN.
Yeah, because they fall in love with Muslim men. Generally they then realise what he’s like, divorce and leave the religion. Look at the stats.
Bravery, masculinity is all subjective. Many men do dangerous stunts, or fight wars, or fight crime in dangerous areas - stuff this pseudo alpha Romanian wouldn't even dare of. Edit:Masculinity also includes wisdom & controlling ones emotions, not acting impulsively like a reckless fool to get ur pov across even if it's through haram means (e.g. sitting in a free mixed ali dawah podcast to discuss bedroom related acts or to post stupid vids of thr hawk twah girl and reacting to it).
Insha Allah you’re feeling much better now you’ve let all that out
@@SemapodcstAlhamdulillah for the decent health condition I'm in, always felt good. Things don't look good for you though, esp from the physical aspect
@@maazmustafa2322Alhumdulilah send meh! LOacation""!
@@Semapodcstortogy district Istanbul turkey 🇹🇷 come any time
A Muslim man's mentality should be: "Give me a year, and I'll populate a new Muslim country".
NARC ALERT 🤣🤣🤣
Do you think Gabriel is a narcissist
WHAT KIND OF CRAZY TALK IS THIS? SICK HEAD.
Interesting podcast… while I understand that men would like to have sex with multiple women, it’s also worth mentioning that women like attention from multiple men. So if a woman is truly loyal and doesn’t accept any attention from other men, a man should be loyal and not give attention to other women. And if a man TRULY needed multiple women then why did Allah only create Hawa for Adam and not multiple women? And if a man’s strength depends on how many women he can “handle” (manipulate) then why did the prophet Muhammad (saw), who was arguably the strongest and most alpha man to ever exist, stay loyal to Khadijah (ra) for 25 years, despite being in his prime and her being a widow who is 15 years his senior? And why did Ali (ra), the forth Khalifa of Islam, stay loyal to Fatima (ra) while being one of the best fighters and believers to ever live. Yes, having access to multiple women may strengthen a man’s ego and ensure he can always get the job done because he’s not only reliant on one woman. However, it will NEVER allow him to experience the divine bliss of being in complete spiritual union with ONE woman. It takes two extremely strong and courageous people (man and woman) to choose true love and at the end of the day it is rizq from Allah. Polygamy has been given as an option when love is not a priority or no longer an option. It should be carried out with truth not manipulation and lies. It seems like brother Gabriel is talking from a place of fear and risk management for a man as well as practicality. While his arguments hold some weight, they are not in alignment with the highest truth. He’s looking at a relationship between a man and a woman from the perspective of ego, which is fine, but that will not yield results for true love. For true love, one must see the union between a man and woman from the perspective of their heart and soul and that will allow them to discern their “one” true love. I’m not saying, we can’t have feelings for multiple people, but there’s always one connection that is the strongest and this is backed up by the verse in Surah an-Nisa (4:129) where Allah says we can never do complete justice to multiple wives so ensure we don’t incline to one completely. I believe polygamy should be taken up honestly after true love is not longer a priority. The problem is, it’s very difficult to do it honestly because we all lie to ourselves and barely anyone’s actions align with what they want in a spouse. Women want loyal men but give out attention to so many at once. Men want a loyal woman but don’t lower their gaze. Everything comes at a cost and choosing true love requires many sacrifices but choosing polygamy may require the biggest sacrifice there is, which is true love. Both men and women only truly and completely open their heart to someone when they feel completely safe and this is extremely rare. Women typically open their heart more often because they are emotional and better at processing emotion as Brother Gabriel said. Men usually only open their heart once completely and then if its gets broken never open it up again because it’s too difficult to deal with and plus they are men, they have more responsibility and they have to get things done. Makes sense. I should also add, that most people, both men and women, struggle with love and relationships because growing up their parents didn’t have a great marriage and hence they subconsciously may even believe that true love doesn’t exist. However, from the Seerah we know that it definitely does. So this is where healing work and therapy comes in. This is extremely important, because mental health (childhood trauma etc.) is heavily linked to spiritual health and relationships offer the best platform for spiritual development which is our primary objective as Muslims. We are not here to conquer the world. We are here to become the best Muslims we can be and use the world and whatever is in it, to help us with that mission. We are all on our own journey and at the end of the day, we will all go to our own grave. This worldly life is a game as Allah mentions in the Qur’an and we have no choice but to play it. Men and women were created to need each other on all levels, physical, emotion, spiritual. If our intention remains on growth, we can learn so much from the other gender, however if we focus on winning, there will be a never ending war between us. Respect is crucial and sincerity is paramount. I should also add that we all lose some level of respect for ourselves when we can’t control our selves in front of someone. Most men can’t admit that they are losing control in front of a woman and hence why they overplay the polygamy card. And most women lie about male validation hence why they call some male guys their “friends”. To have true self control we must remember Allah as much as possible and see that as a safe zone. We must always seek Allah’s validation, no one else’s. We must avoid fitna as much as possible and then hopefully Allah will give us the Burhan (proof) that he gave to Yusuf (as) when he was tested with Zulaykha. Yusuf (as) was a handsome young man, the fitna must have been huge for him but with the help of Allah, he was able to overcome it. At the end of the day, Allah decides our fate but it is our responsibility to try our best and ALWAYS be HONEST with ourselves. Human beings are sinners by default and so we must repent sincerely and consistently. I look forward to hearing your opinion on what I’ve mentioned @alromaani
Generally Men and woman function their best when they are in a loving monogamous relationship. Of course there are exceptions to the rule but it is importantly to be honest with ourselves. Are we serving our ego or are we serving our highest growth which is spiritual. Quite a few times brother Gabriel mentions the scenario of something happening to your wife, what will a man do… as Muslims we are supposed to rely on Allah completely and have the courage to pursue our hearts deepest desires while being rest assured that even if things go completely left, we have Allah and we will be okay, man or woman. Women have similar thoughts when they financially depend on a man and put their body under great change and challenges to bear his kids. What if he just leaves her or something happens to her, what then? Both genders sacrifice. A woman’s emotion and spirit is meant to temper a mans and vice versa. Through complete devotion to one another, a man is able to control his sexual desires better and a woman can control her emotions better. It is also very important to view polygamy on the basis of religion and use studies as supporting evidence not as the main reason for polygamy. In regard to men and women being equal, yes we are different and there are always exceptions. I do want to add that the prophet ﷺ supported exceptions as well, so for example when nusaybah was taking part in the Uhud, he was encouraging and supporting her. From my understanding, it comes down to competence. If a man can do a female job properly and it’s acceptable for him to do it then he should and vice versa. This idea of a man’s nature is repeated often in this podcast. We should also speak about a woman’s nature which is the need for attention from a man. Both of these natures need to be regulated via marriage, be it monogamous or polygamous. It should also be noted that when Ali (ra) wanted to marry another wife, the prophet ﷺ advised him against it and said Fatima is enough and the want for more is from his desire and that if he still wanted to go ahead with this decision, then he should divorce Fatima because whatever hurts her, hurts him ﷺ. The men who practise polygamy may change their opinion on this topic when they have a daughter whom they love dearly. The point about masculine jealousy in women is inaccurate as Aisha (ra) had immense jealousy over the prophet ﷺ and he was understanding of it. He didn’t even reprimand her when she smashed the plate of food sent by another wife on her day, instead he was patient because he understood that it hurt her feelings. He did get angry when she showed jealousy over Khadijah ra who had passed away because Khadijah had done so much for him. Bottom line, jealousy in women is completely normal and both genders have masculine and feminine energy. Both get jealous. To be honest, it is disappointing that brother Gabriel is using modern studies and celebrity anecdotes to support his points, more than the shariah and case studies from the sahaba, may Allah be pleased with them. In regard to women wanting Chris brown so much that they’re willing to suffer abuse and that men wouldn’t do something similar, its worth studying only fan girls and their sort to see the kind of request they get from guys and the kind of kinks they have. On one episode of the fresh and fit podcast, one escort was saying that a man wanted her to walk him like a dog. Kinks are heavily related to childhood and environment and even trauma, you’d be surprised about the things some men want, they’re just more discreet with it. In regards to being bi-polar, I think a more accurate term would be alter-ego, both genders have an alter-ego, a man wants a modest freak and a woman wants a loyal man who can play the game. Both edges of the sword need to be sharpened. It is true that Allah would never ordain a certain ruling in shariah at the detriment to a particular gender. I believe most woman hate the idea of polygamy because of the way men go about it. If it is to be done, it should be done with truth and honesty, not lies and manipulation but unfortunately most men don’t have the courage to do that. May Allah strengthen us all and give us the courage to always be honest with Him and with ourselves. Aameen. Jazakumullahu khayran for an insightful podcast.
Also, the point about women not knowing what they want and their behaviour contradicting their words… well the same can be said for men, a lot of them say they want a good loyal woman but have OF subscriptions and don’t have patience with the good girl.
Holy wall of yap
Assalamoalekomwwb. Some of your points are on the spot, but some are in my view only pointhing out weakness. The way you explain why a man should have more than one wife points out weaknes of the man and not strength. I also think that men and women have different strenkt, not different weaknesses. We are made different with different purposes to compleat each other. That is what we are taught in islam. Not that we should look for flause in one another. And talk down about each other. This is feeding into the feminisme. Men and women are not eachothers competetives. They are to work together and compensate one another. They have each their own strong point, and if they follow the guidelines from Allah, they would live harmonious life together. A life under protection of Allah.
No body has to hearts .... it's doesn't matter if allowed have 4 wife's..... And bro u not a women, dont try to be one
I notice men nowadays they are pretending to women in thinking style and behaviour .
Prophet abraham only married after being old when his wife could not have children. Was he weak to be with only Sara until they were both old? Same with prophet mohammed. Married to his first wife for her whole married life until she died. Was he weak? He still talked about her after death because he was heartbroken. Is he weak? May allah be pleased with all of them. Funny how these podcasts are getting morre nowadays. End of times it is more important for some men to talk about feelings then it is to educate children and families. To educate on how to raise children how to have stable homes with an income. How to fight for your beliefs . How to practice as best as you can. Muslim men out here (i know) only trying to make money. Not thinking to much if everything is halal on the way to succes. But omce the money comes in all of a sudden relgioun only is loved because now they want more woman. If there were men like prophet mohammed and his companions, most woman would not care to be co-wives. But these men.... No thx.
Wow im not against polgmny but god he knows how to completely insult beyond anything making us seem so irrational and objects. I’m sorry but if a women has not controlled how she behaves on her period then she is not a women but a girl. considering there are so many women who are great leaders of their families because their men are weak I can’t help but feel completely insulted!!!
We become weak like that since the only thing men think about , talk about is women, and polygamy . how sad
What kind of comment is this? Muslim Men think about Allah (SWT)'s greatness and a plethora of other things.
@@ashrafi7337 you should of understand what I said then you reply . not to just reply with something that has nothing to do with what I have said. And another thing are you seeing the world we are living in . an ummah that which all men 's heart is full of Allah swat would not be in this situation of humiliation . not where there this an ongoing genocide in Palestine
What do you mean by "the only thing men think about" ? Are u okay ??
Gabriel wont be satisfied & fulfilled with even 4 wives!
He has 3 not anymore...
@@MimiPlaysEcos it's become a trend!
@@MimiPlaysEcos and Mahdi tidjani with his 'no strings nikkah' nonsense! Shame on them.
Polygamy spread more sexual diseases. Why you only talking of a mens perspective and nature. It is in the womens nature not to be polygames. So what now, should the women ignore her nature to serve a men. While the men is egoistic and „follow his nature“.
Are muslim women hate themselves? Why they let you to treat them like this? I understand how brainwash could be strong. But not this point to accept this much humiliations and bringing excuse to men faivor infidelity.
If a man wants to marry multiple wives that’s his choice, and if he wants to marry one wife that’s also his choice 😊 just shut up gabriel 😅 if we tell to go and fight or join jihad you will run away
Phrophet Muhammed (pbuh) was in a mono marriage with Khadija for 25 years & he was the best of man. He did not re-marry until after her death.
And what's your point, he got married multiple times afterwards.
Read again...Phrophet muhammed (pbuh) was married to 1 women for 25 years without practicing poly. Does this make him weak??
@@hananoor7934 You didn't put forward that question in your initial comment. You and me both know the answer to that question. The talk is about general mens behaviour and their psychology. Men and woman think differently and behave differently biologically.
Why do I have an impression that there is more sperm than neurons in their heads!?
We need brother Gabriel again with another interesting topic.
What would like the next topic to be ?
@@Semapodcst SSA
@@Semapodcsthow men are abusing second wives rule, secret marriages and also how men marry second then divorce them shortly afterwards.
Another podcast 🥱
Assalamualikum. I am a sister in islam and agree with what was mentioned in this podcast. Polygyny isn't easy from an emotional perspective but it can encourage us to grow spiritually, mentally and emotionally if we learn to regulate our emotions. Polygyny can be a beautiful thing if done well.
I rather polyandry to encourage our family to grow spiritually.
You go against your nature. While the men follow his. This hole podcast is bs
@@kektorie766 You are teaching on what is in my nature. Of course having fun with different men is in our nature. You muslim are so jealous and delusional.
In the USA, you can have as many girlfriends and baby mommas as you want , just don't marry them.
And you can have many baby daddies as well. It is not a one way street in men's favor in non muslim countries.
@RAMONA3118 : the difference is 4 wives and 1 husband you know who the daddy, while, 1 woman and 4 different men, who the daddy?
Get a grip