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Istp here I have always got along with ENTJ as coworkers, bosses, colleagues. Like how you described for; the conversations, doing tasks, games, eating etc. are stuff I relate to. But I have always hated them as teachers, instructors, examiners, gatekeepers, interviewers. (and they don't like me either.)

As an INFJ, I tend to attract a lot of ENTJs and I am attracted to them as well. I usually enjoy the friendship as our conversations are killer when we are connected mentally. However, I have a hard time opening up to an ENTJ man who was "interested" in me because he would dismiss my feelings and actually make fun of me when I'd express a serious concern. It was very one-sided as when he talked about his problems, I would let him open up with no judgement or pretense however when it came to me, he'd be on his phone scrolling and not actually engage with me. I have no patience for that and decided to walk away from the relationship before it even started. It could be that the woman you were with probably felt unsafe. Us INFJs usually know if a future is doomed with a person or not due to our dominant Ni. She probably started letting go before you could even see it. Overall though, great video and I appreciate you sharing your personal experience with us, I hope you find love again soon if you have not :)

hi, ENFP here in a new relationship with an ENTJ. I test as a very typical ENFP. However, i think contrary to what you said, i am very analytical. The difference though is that I like analysing things because it gives me satisfaction and a sense of security to have examined a problem from all possible angles and connected all the dots, examined possible outcomes ect... My ENTJ will notice this and see it as me merely wasting a bunch of time time for nothing, and push me to take action immediately rather than wasting time in the ether pondering how this issue might be connected to the deeper meaning of life (very fixated on efficiency, which might be good for me cos i also have ADHD and can be quite all over the place). He is very confident in himself and his decision making process. I dont think he has had time to see that there is always a method to my madness when I research things extremely thoroughly and make decisions. I sometimes feel like he might get a bit dismissive with me and think he knows whats best on a topic i have done more research on for example. But its early days and we are still feeling things out and getting to know each other. For the most part he motivates and inspires me and I know we will not become stagnant together. I had another 9 year relationship with an ISFJ and that ended in stagnancy. But this relationship by contrast feels very goal, future and progress oriented. Its what I wanted and i manifested it... but now it feels like a bit of pressure too.

So, stop making fun of girls that believe in ghosts because you have no intuition.

Longing/yearning sparks imagination. We must look at the centers of imagination: hypothalamus and the thalamus. Now the hypothalamus ventromedial hypothalamus, would be a great path to consider as mate selection because of the infundibuler and the pituitory gland; so far the hypothalamus, but the thalamus regulates sexual appetite and the thalamus is very much right next to the neocortex which stores long term memory (even muscle has memory but the neocortex should be considered you're long term). But anyway, the phallic marital aid, was invented before the wheel. You can figure out what i am going on about.

Why don't you do videos from isfp perspective? Isfps are so cool, so no worries🤩

Hello from ENTJ woman 😂

Objective personality is kind of questionable when it comes to accuracy. They base most of their decisions when typing someone on their own system as opposed to the systems of mbti and socionics. They do a lot of switcheroo typing like that...

I just found your channel yesterday. I want to say how much it has helped me understand my ENTJ husband of 32yrs. I am an INFP. We have a great relationship but the last few years have been a struggle. I think we were both a little depressed. It has been 4month since I learned about the MBTI personalities. He is not interested at all but thats ok. Just me understanding him better and responding differently has helped tremendously. I look forward to seeing your adventures. I love ENTJ's!

is it possible to an intp to become an entj (with conscious effort)

I am entj, but I like the boy intj when we talk, I feel that he understands me, but he listens to me a lot and asks the right questions. We have a good time as a companion.

I died at Tony Robins's Te. oh my.

<-INTJ. One of my best friends is an ENTJ. He tends to lead most of the time, but when things get hairy and he needs me to grab the wheel, I will steer us through the storm, literally, and get us out the other side. We both have our areas of expertise, and respect the other's though there is often a little friendly competition behind the scenes, though more like a nipping at each others' heals to help each other be our best. One thing he did have to learn though, is that I do not obey, I cooperate as it suits me to do so. I don't tell him what to do either, except as advice, or if I'm saving his life. He is an Alpha, I am a Sigma. Nobody else gets a pass, they all call him boss man. I call him "brother". I have another very close friend who is an INFJ, and while there are similarities in some places, in others the dynamics are completely different. I cherish both friendships, and will fight to the death to protect either, as would they.

It does not work. Stay away. The INFP will only be constantly disappointed and unsupported. The ESTJ will never understand the INFP and treat them like inferior objects to control as they please because the INFP has terrible people pleasing and boundary issues. I repeat... DO NOT entertain the thought of this pairing AT ALL!

My best friend is an entj. I am infp. Everything you said I kept nodding. Have to say this has to be least toxic relationship in my life just on the sheer fact I can speak my mind around her and she won't get offended. Not to mention she is true to her word. Entj may not deliver always, because they figured they overestimated themselves, but if they communicate this I won't be upset for long and will learn to accept it and let go. We have a lot of common interests and I love her. Entj are true to their words which can't be said for other type. For example istp, estp or esfp. They have integrity. I am grateful for her. So guess I went into the gushing side of an infp lol. Yeah, she is probably best person in my life.

Hm This is the first instance where I’ve seen you say or do anything that doesn’t ring true with Entj - it’s not like us to give deference to highly regarded (established) professionals in a field over our own analysis thus far Then again… you sound very ardent about it… fixed and grounded.. which doesn’t square with isfp IP types are often the most indecisive and skeptical and they get mixed results every time they test. If they had to make a hard pivot like that I think they’d marinate in it for a while and wouldn’t be so resolute. As an ENTJ however, I can make a hard pivot on a dime with no shame and I make decisions quick enough to cause an anxiety attack to an IP around me. An ENTJ drastic conclusion jump sounds like what you’ve done here, but hey

4:01 yes! just described me to a T

I love you entjs too 🥰♥️ (not in a creepy way) -infp

I used to have a hard time expressing feelings. Not no mo. Everyone wishing Id shut up.

You spoke about this in a great way. Good points to mention. As an INTJ (tritype 514) I really look up to the Te Dominant. My Te Parent learns from it and makes me amused by how far efficient Te could be. Though, because ENTJs and INTJs speak the same language as you mentioned, I find ENTJs highly interesting rather than ESTJs. I like ENTJs and wish to have and explore closer relationships with some.

Watching your video, I feel a bit saddened for you. I feel like you're still missing her very much. 😞 Is this your way of communicating to her? 😒 I'm dude by the way, so don't connect to me. Lol 😅

As an INFJ I only had a one ENTJ friend ( although I’d like to have something more 😂) she’s a very independent and strong woman she would act very gentle with me and I adored that , she showed me her favorite pantings and I showed her my favorite books , for me as an INFJ 5w4 , she was more like a fantasy , I hope I was as well to her , one day we knew it’s over , we just said goodbye and that’s it , all respect I wish all ENTJs the best in what’s coming.❤

As an ENFP I disagree with our disability to analyze, we have Te as our third function, which means its still a pretty strong function. I feel like what you’re talking about is that ENFP’s like to discuss ideas in a non-competitive way, while ENTJ’s actually really enjoy a form of competition. As an example, for me personally, I really enjoy battling out two different ideas that seem contradictory to each other, and see which one of these concepts come out as “most plausible” (simply said). What I don’t enjoy is when one person represents one idea and the other represents the other idea. Then it feels like we’re not seeking the truth, but battling each other, having to compete our intelligence against each other where there is one “winner” and one “loser”. While, when you separate the people from the concepts, and instead of battling each other, you look at a distance, analyze the different ideas and let the ideas battle each other (instead of the people), it feels more as if we’re on a journey of truth together, instead of having a competition. This is actually what I really enjoy to do with myself. Having two different perspectives in my head, and each perspective analyzes and criticizes the other. Ofcourse, this is from the perspective of 1 ENFP, which means my opinion is not completely objective, this is just what I feel is most true for me personally.

I have entj best friend, and i am the intj.. our relationship works compatibly.. we will not argue on things because we understand our humours. And it will be picture out like this, " I'm bored going out and staying in my working place or in my room, and she's the one who will say "where are you? I want to see you, let's go to these places".... She pushed me to go out... That lol entj a friend of mine.

I like your storytelling style. Overall, I like your video. Nice energy. I wrote a 416-paged novel, and an INFP and an ENTJ fall in love in the story.

Regarding analytical or deep conversations, I think that when they talk to you, they tend to focus on what you tell them and take the conversation that way. Depending From the environment in which he finds himself, he shows a greater interest in the topic than in the people around him and it is easier for him to speak naturally about a topic, going deeper into it. Sometimes they do not know much about a topic that is talked to them, but they can relate well the ideas that are given to them and also talk about it without knowing much.

Hi, i watched there videos to get more knowldge about my type but i just found shorts and a lots of jokes there, so i want to recommend for you personality hacker chanel it will give you answers for tons of questions.

As an INFP man I can tell that for the first time in my life I would be totally fine letting go of the command and let my ENTJ girl take the lead when talking about some decisions and planning. It is just different, she really makes me feel appreciated.

2：00 lollll i wish i can have a entj coworker !!

Yeahh I kind of sensed, somethings stuck out to me that I didn’t relate as an ENTJ.

INFJ here … you want the deep conversations in a mechanical way, we want conversations in a people oriented way. Some INFJs are capable of that talk depending on your area of interest and their knowledge, but we also crave the deeper emotional interconnections, and we don’t get that from ENTJs

Well explained! I feel like you're getting me as an ENTJ ☺

Genuinely …. You have me doubting myself . 😂😂😂

I think Ni also plays into the ISTP “intention”.

You nailed it buddy! I'm an ENFP, with a few exceptions though. I'm an engineer very technical and detail-oriented and I'm not a procrastinator like most other enfps unlike other enfps but I do wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm the most emotional man anybody's ever met

So you're the opposite of an entj

ENTJ man where have you been all my life?

EnTJ parent who was narcissistic and harsh (not just from a sensitive INFP perception) not for me also the person came across as bipolar and basically steamrolled or disregarded any softness.

Do u feel regretted of letting infj go? 😢 so precious❤

My mom is an entj and she's the definition of style. But she says it took her time and my dad who i suspect, was an enfp to really help elevate her whole look. I don't agree about the analytical/combatitiveness nessicarily maybe because I was raised by an entj. I love analyzing things having debates and researching but I don't feel the need to always prove I'm right. I can comfortably remain silent if the other person is getting emotional or needs to win unless I feel it's serious enough that the truth needs to be said otherwise I can just listen. I admire entjs work ethic, loyalty, dedication, drive and need for the truth. Def agree about the need to be more aware of others emotions. But I also think they're more emotional than others give them credit for, they just don't live in emotion like f types. A lot less combative than infjs for sure. Probably my personal favorite type.

Secretely, though, INFP is the knight and ENTJ is the princess.

She knew the relationship wasn’t going to last. She never trusted you enough to open up. Thats why you didn’t get the deeper conversation. My guess is you complained/ commented about the drive /time /distance ever so slightly so very frequently that she knew.

I love your perspective on this. INTJ woman here and I'm dating an ENTJ man. It's the most fun and teasing relationship I ever had. Even when there are issues, we solve them in a business type of way. Focusing on what makes sense to us in a rational way.

Yeah bro they r not representative for all INFJs, i am for example very lazy. I just hate how u always say INFJs, rather say these 2 i know.

Hi!! Do you know your enneatype?

I think I’m ISFP too

As an INTJ just now coming across your channel, I didn’t think much at first due to the background, but what drew me in is your confidence in the very first frame. Kinda sexy. I’ll come back…👀🤔😊

Intj female, and I realized that an entj is going to be what I need for a long-term partner. I just don't seem fulfilled by other types.

Great, i hope i can meet more healthy entjs, to me its okay you judge me and i judge pepole also the problem is when you hurt me with harmfull and rude way and other pepole and after that you come and say i am an nt person who judge pepole, i love te i love judge i hate being rude and being harmfull. also the entjs who i met them were very toxic, i hope i meet more, thx.

Very insightful and resonates as an ENTJ