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My child same problem normal childran school going

Ahhh god, I didn't know the two had a connection

If it is not with a group of people where you have no choice when. but with a close friend or family, go to the restaurant on off hours because it will be quieter. Look at the menu online so you can pre-decide before going, make sure you have a little snack before you go so that you are not starving while you wait (that is what causes me a meltdown), and before the food comes, expect the unexpected. I ordered something the other day expecting it to be a certain way and when it wasn't I wanted to cry, I mean start sobbing. I was so disappointed and sad and took a long time to wrap my head around it not being what I wanted. My family told me I always ruin going out somehow. I did eventually re-adjust to the meal being something other than what I expected, but by then everyone was in a bad mood. Sometimes I hide my feeling about it, but it feels like a storm.

I get migraine with aura and light sensitivity especially sunlight, I also get slurred speech, can’t think straight at all, hands, feet or face go numb and tingly, I get a blind spot then the aura which is flashing lights and zigzag lines that move and shimmer and shake, then the pain starts. I’m glad I’m not the only one they are horrible

Thank you for the help! I'm neurotypical. I searched TH-cam for "autistic gift giving" to get an idea of how my autistic partner might feel about exchanging gifts for our upcoming anniversary. You gave a very helpful explanation of what you don't like about presents!

In high school before I knew I had autism and migraine, all of my friends would wait for me to say "im hungry, im tired, and i want to go home" whenever they drove me out to hang after school 😂😅

Keep up the good work. You have something important to say. Believe in yourself. Always remember there is no one else like how you deliver it... And someone needs to hear this from you and only you. ❤

Failure to Communicate is so good. Looking forward to hear your opinion on it. Also it is so reassuring that you talk very similar to me in my video essays (not a youtuber, but do video essays from time to time if its the best way to explain something). I had been criticized for the way I speak, so its super reassuring that you do that too. Speaking kind of slowly and with many uhms. I wonder if its an autistic trait?

i really love your cat

My med school exams are in a month + a week and I haven't started... pray for me guys

Set a timer to study for say an hour at a time and then try to take a break. I know us autistics have a hard time switching activities a lot of the time but it will make it easier to learn in the long run.

I have chronic migraines and i experience, nausea, vomitting, vertigo, light and sound sensitivity, and as stated in the video severe headaches. I currently suspect i may have ASD.

Anyone else have migraines in the body not the head for me shoulder s armpits area everyday

Hi, thank you for this video. It helped me to sort out my thoughts. I left a comment earlier this morning, but it has been removed. I wonder if that is because I had a link in my comment.

Dark points you mean floaters

As someone who's autistic, I can relate to this, and I'm horrible when it comes to receiving presents either if it's birthdays or Christmas so I always have to play it cool because if I acted like a jerk then I knew my mom was gonna get on my butt. This one incident takes me back to when I was in 4th grade, we had our Christmas party on the last day before winter break, we did the gift exchange and I got like pretend makeup products and HATED IT to the point that I put it back in the bag and just turned the other way with my back facing the front and arms crossed and said something like "It's not what I wanted", I was expecting either something iCarly or Spongebob related because those were my special interests at the time and I'm a tomboy, but boy were my teachers MAAAAAD!!! Because of how I behaved, they "kicked me out of the party" (well I left class early every day because I took the special needs bus at that time) but I regretted my behavior that day. It's hard now as an adult because I love Seinfeld and Saved By The Bell like last year the day after Thanksgiving my parents sat me down in what I wanted for Christmas and my dad strictly said No Seinfeld or SBTB stuff for Christmas and I was stuck on what to suggest, afterwards when my dad noticed that I didn't have the Seinfeld Calendar I would get every year since 2020, he asked why I didn't get it then I told him the rule he made, that's when both my parents decided to ease up on me. They said whenever you get some money, you can buy yourself whatever you want because I'm an adult and it wouldn't be fair. So that's my story. Always remember that if you don't like the present, thank the person for the thought first, and don't be cruel about it.

It’s interesting, I think the way I would present a video would be quite similar to this.

hello .i have aspergers and very bad migraines .5,a day.if pain is too back i am then .vomiting.mark

That scarf is a game changer, thanks so much!

I guess it's safe to assume she's not coming back lol. I understand, whatever your reasons are, it's just unfortunate! Would've loved to hear more from ya. Wonder if you kept going to school and what else happened with your journey.

I'm also autistic and I study two degrees (International Relations and Modern Languages) and I liked a lot your tips!! For the flashcards I actually started doing them on Anki, which another person already commented here. It's really useful and as you said it helps breaking down the subjects into little, manageable things to remember. I'll try to implement the other tips as well. Studying anywhere other than home seems nice too, because I need to start associating home with "calmness, relax, sleep" so I won't get crazy by the end of the semester.

I'm autistic too and I don't really like restaurants either their normally quite noisy with music and bright lights. The music in restaurants really distracting and overwhelming. Why can't restaurants become autism friendly by simply turning the music off or play relaxing music at low level, dim the lighting have comfortable seating, train the staff to become more understanding of autism. Like I went to a restaurant recently I was only in there 5 min because the music they were playing was very distracting me from concentrating on the menu. I the only pub I mostly go to is Wetherspoons because there is no music and no bright lights, so I can concentrate and relax more and not get overwhelmed. And the only restaurant I alright going to is cote brasserie because the music is relaxing and at low level so I could concentrate on reading the menu more than I do with other restaurants. I'm based in the UK so we have different restaurants to other countries. But at least I'm not alone. I'm not the only autistic person who don't like restaurants

Nice video! I would be glad to see more of the same format, I enjoyed it! And I think it's very nice that videos by autistic people expressing themselves in manners not common in neurotypical people have a place on the internet. Certainly it is a bummer to have a piece of media you can watch and enjoy with the comfort from having already watched it before and all of that and then losing it as you become aware of the harmful ideas embroided in it. And I would say BBT is a kinda remarcable case because of its effect on the public perception of autistic people. I myself have been compared to Sheldon Cooper in a mean way by neurotypical people close to me in the past and I know of other autistic people with the same experience

Your cat in the background lol

Also, I honor your stepping up to the plate. I see alot of fear in you, though. You are afraid to offend people. Don't let that stop you from saying what needs to be said, even ruthlessly so. Because not everyone is going to listen to you. But if you speak without fear, more people will at least hear you and notice you and respect you. Even if they disagree

In regards to Aspergers being seen as better than autism. You make an excellent point. Firstly I apologize for the following: I feel This must be said as it is relevant and I need to get it off my chest. I was very pessimistic about my diagnosis (Aspergers) and I saw other people within the spectrum, and thought "Is this how they see me?" And I saw how they were treated and asked myself internally is that what they (neurotypical people) think of me?" And so I heard about how the diagnosis of Aspergers Syndrome was at one point not included with Austism spectrum disorder. I was already feeling like a monster and an outcast because I was mistreated. My decision at the time was, in order to ease the pain of loneliness, see myself as superior to those on other parts of the autism spectrum. As I grew up I had many life lessons and this belief no longer has any basis, foundation, or meaning to me anymore. I no longer use it. And so when you said that Aspergers is viewed as being better than or less severe than other forms of autism, it spoke to a very specific spot of my heart. I'm grateful for this. Yes, I don't have Aspergers Syndrome..... I Have Autism!

Very interesting video, I enjoyed it a lot! I have never been introduced into horsemanship and don't feel particulary keen on trying it but I always had contact with horses and donkeys and mules in my hometown and I got what you meant about enjoying their company instead of planning to do certain exercises with them. I think that this is indeed a topic pretty related to autism: I know that i learned a lot of kinda similar valuable things through the years observing animals like cats, and my father is autistic too and he always said he felt a special connection to horses and learned things about them. I enjoy your videos a lot, hope you upload more of them some day <3

Jontje is autism rare in Germany

Hi jontje

i relate a lot

I struggled to concentrate with the cat meowing jn back round .... is it a cat .. 2 years later.... hope the cat is OK.... have not been diagnosed with autism bit decided to research it after many years of wondering about my beautiful son who is ten years old . Discovered autism presents differently with girls so now I'm thinking both my kids are possibly autistic and maybe myself . Researched autism and headaches because I'm lving l with a headache everyday for most of my days .... and there was a time I linked it to sun exposure and social interaction .... if I don't have to go out of the house I'm good .... so ya ....

My hair is nearly waist length, and this is the kind of hair video I’ve been needing. Most hairstyle videos aren’t too concerned about the way single hair strands can effect your entire nervous system, and the nightmare that is hair touching the back of your neck. So I really appreciate this, and I’m so glad there’s at least one person out there who felt like making this video.

Kenn ich zu gut. War auch schon enttäuscht von vielen Dingen die ich mal erleben wollte 🤣

I also like saying autism more than asperger. Your cat is the star of the video 🤣

One similar accommodation I love is voice to text! I use it on my phone all the time! I also can use it on my computer. For Windows computers, it is keyboard shortcut windows key + H. Then you can just use your voice to type.

I think the tool for cutting seams and tags you are describing is a seam ripper! Great description.

Do you have any tips for one that is struggling with communication,or, ifeel is not being taught the correctly and a lot of teaching is confusing.

i can relate the way she speaks 😭😭😭

Happy New Year, Jontje! Hope its going good so far!

When I'm alone. Pfft I'm not autistic. As soon as people are around. IM AUTISTIC PLEASE STOP TALKING.

I have no idea what's going on with me.

I'm really bad at goal setting and scheduling...

The cat is giving me a migraine?

You are awesome. That is all I have to say.

Hey are you still active because I really like your channel and think you should start uploading again

The headaches I had were at the temple and then the eyes , ears too.... Like a band.

Your explanation was very much helpful... Thank you so very much for making a video on this so very important but not much discussed matter. New subscriber ❤️

Hi, I am either neurotypical or undiagnosed, I have no idea, but those tips make sense to me a lot and I hope that they´ll help me through my uni (I´m studying informatics at a very difficult school)

I understand you, I am very similar to you.

my head shape is very similar to you