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Dude everyone can tell you’re a man bro.

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It dosent matter how many studies or how many scripts you read. You have to be a certain evil to not disclose that with your sexual partner it broke my heart watching my friend get diagnosed because some careless sexual predator liek this

omg amazing thanks a lot!

massive infertile is caused purposely by environment toxins especially in food and medicine. A situation that makes huge profits for the medical industrial complex, big pharma etc. Assuring only wealthy people can breed, or non wealthy go into crushing debt. This is eugenics. This is racism disguised. Surrogacy is absolutely needed, but it's a need created by design by the dominant culture. We need to clean up our bodies, clean up our food , reject the dominant culture and their products.

Much more ethical than the baby mill in pink flamingos ^^ Not as much flare tho 🤔

Wow I also grew up in Kuwait when I left in 2006 but I was 12 what the hell I really wish we got to flup genders for a day sounds soooo fun. I went to Indian Britain system School though. I'm also middle eastern too

I didn't know about surrogacy, I think in Mexico it's still a tabu theme. Thanks for the episode ❤ besos

this short just crashlanded in my brain oh my god

This was such an interesting episode! thanks for setting up this conversation, qc

You’re my favorite podcast! I’m loving every episode I watch, your guests are amazing & you all are amazing~ so much beautiful wisdom and insight is shared every time!! Thanks so much 💛~ nonbinary trans person

00:00 🗳️ Non-binary identity emphasizes autonomy and the removal of rigid societal rules. 00:13 🌈 Gender affirming practices can exist without surgery or hormones. 01:18 🎤 The podcast explores non-binary identities, societal expectations, and gender dysphoria. 01:34 🌟 Heath V Salazar is introduced as an award-winning performer and writer. 02:19 🌸 Emily recently came out as non-binary after identifying as a woman for most of her life. 02:37 🌌 Halal uses her platform to celebrate queer culture and critique societal constructs. 03:19 ⚖️ Non-binary identities challenge societal binaries, encouraging personal exploration of gender. 04:30 🎨 Embracing non-binary identities allows for fluidity between masculine and feminine expressions. 05:44 💡 Gender and sexuality exist on a spectrum, promoting acceptance of diverse identities. 07:06 🛡️ Personal autonomy in gender expression is key, allowing individuals to redefine their relationships to masculinity and femininity. 08:52 💭 The societal understanding of non-binary identities is still evolving, with many still questioning their own identities. 09:15 💥 Non-binary people often navigate societal expectations and challenges to find their unique expressions. 10:28 🎭 Halal reflects on growing up in a conservative environment while exploring gender boundaries. 11:45 🔍 Heath realized they weren't cisgender from a young age, struggling with societal gender norms. 13:14 🔄 The podcast emphasizes the importance of representation in understanding and exploring non-binary identities. 17:24 📚 Access to diverse representations helps reduce confusion around gender identity, particularly for children. 18:30 🛡️ Limiting knowledge and education can lead to greater confusion and misunderstanding in society. 20:00 🤔 Struggling with societal expectations around trans identity and personal expression. 20:18 🧬 Society's rigid standards complicate the understanding and acceptance of trans and non-binary identities. 21:30 🌈 Community dynamics often create pressure to conform to certain gender expressions. 22:00 🌟 Personal acceptance of identity evolves over time, allowing for diverse expressions of gender. 23:12 🧑‍🎤 Gender-affirming practices extend beyond surgery and hormones; they include personal style choices. 24:30 🛤️ Non-binary identities can serve as a stepping stone for understanding one's trans identity. 25:50 💡 Connection to womanhood can be complex, influenced by personal and cultural experiences. 26:40 👗 Performing femininity can feel disingenuous, as seen in personal experiences at traditional events. 27:10 🎭 Code-switching highlights the complexities of identity performance in various social contexts. 29:00 🌍 Cultural backgrounds shape expectations of gender and masculinity, impacting personal journeys. 30:05 🚫 Pressure to conform to gender norms often leads to struggles within queer communities. 31:20 💔 Understanding and respect are vital in navigating familial expectations around gender identity. 32:45 🏳️‍🌈 Gender and sexuality are deeply intertwined, often leading to questions about labels and attraction. 35:20 🔄 Labels can be flexible; attraction to individuals transcends strict categories of gender and sexuality. 36:45 🏳️‍🌈 Identifying as queer allows for broader exploration of attraction beyond traditional definitions. 37:30 🔍 Understanding misogyny and discrimination within queer spaces is crucial for creating inclusive communities. 38:10 ✊ Acknowledging the history and presence of trans men in lesbian spaces fosters inclusivity and understanding. 40:03 🎤 Discussion of navigating gender identity and space within conversations about trans experiences. 40:39 🏳️‍🌈 Importance of inclusivity for all trans and non-binary identities in advocacy and representation. 41:06 🌈 Queer spaces provide a unique environment for diverse identities to coexist, despite existing phobias within the community. 41:49 🕰️ Historical context matters; past visibility struggles inform current identity discussions and fears around representation. 43:00 📈 Rise in non-binary identity visibility correlates with cultural changes and increased media representation since 2014. 45:04 🌍 Accessibility of information allows younger generations to explore and understand their gender identities more freely. 47:48 🧒 Kids need supportive environments to explore their identities without fear of negative consequences or societal rejection. 49:10 📚 Language evolves, and changing it to be inclusive is essential for societal progress; fear of change shouldn't hinder acceptance. 51:30 ✊ Respecting others’ identities is fundamental; understanding is less important than acknowledging and honoring their experiences. 51:42 🎙 Thanks expressed to guests for their contributions to the discussion on gender and sexuality exploration.

00:00 🎥 Introductory remarks highlight the personal nature of dating experiences for trans individuals. 00:43 💬 Discussion focuses on the unique challenges of dating as a trans person, including issues of validation and fetishization. 01:30 🗣️ Miss Miles shares her past experiences of dating, feeling that her partners often fetishized her identity. 02:12 🚩 Fetishization leads to unrealistic expectations around intimacy and sexuality, causing discomfort and objectification. 02:54 🏗️ King discusses the lack of representation for trans individuals in media, which affects societal perceptions and relationships. 03:58 ⚠️ Content warning issued for discussions about violence and discrimination against trans individuals in relationships. 05:01 🌐 Both guests emphasize the need for safer spaces and communities for dating and building relationships as trans individuals. 05:47 🤝 Miss Miles recounts the emotional challenges of dating, including feeling more like an object than a partner. 06:50 ✊ King stresses the importance of understanding self-worth and setting boundaries in relationships to avoid harmful dynamics. 08:22 📈 Discussion about the growth in awareness and education about trans issues within society and its impact on relationships. 09:53 🔄 Miss Miles shares her journey toward self-love and how it positively influences her dating experiences. 10:14 🔍 King mentions the importance of navigating intimacy while transitioning, highlighting both positives and challenges. 11:49 📉 King reflects on the difficulties of intimate relationships pre-surgery and the importance of personal comfort in intimacy. 12:41 💔 The impact of societal beauty standards and personal expectations on self-worth in dating for trans individuals. 14:20 🌱 Both guests highlight the positive shifts they’ve experienced in their dating lives, focusing on self-acceptance and growth. 15:38 🛡️ Conversations about the need for safe sex practices and addressing intimacy issues in relationships post-transition. 17:01 🔄 Miss Miles expresses her openness to dating cisgender individuals if they are respectful and educated about trans experiences. 18:15 ✨ King shares his preference for dating other trans individuals, citing ease of understanding and shared experiences. 19:27 📊 Statistics show higher violence rates against trans individuals, emphasizing the importance of safety and awareness in dating. 20:05 💔 The experiences of trans individuals affect everyone they meet, highlighting a societal issue rooted in cisgender attitudes. 20:31 🔍 The lack of ongoing dialogue about violence against trans people, particularly in the Black community, perpetuates harm. 20:50 🚷 There is a widespread bystander effect, with many failing to protect vulnerable communities from harm. 21:16 🛑 Developing intuition about unsafe situations is crucial for trans individuals to navigate their environments safely. 21:55 ✂️ Many trans people avoid unsafe spaces, often opting for queer events to ensure a safer experience. 23:00 🤝 Friendships can be conditional; true allies must support the trans community, not just individuals. 24:06 🧔 Hyper-masculinity in Black men may contribute to hostility towards trans individuals due to societal expectations. 25:19 ⚔️ The internalized homophobia in some Black men leads to fear of being perceived as non-masculine when interacting with trans people. 26:06 🤨 White cisgender men may feel more emboldened to act harmfully due to their perceived societal privilege. 27:25 📉 Navigating professional spaces often requires code-switching and dealing with the risks of being marginalized. 28:25 ⚠️ Trans individuals frequently have to advocate for themselves, often encountering dismissive or harmful responses. 29:53 👜 White men may leverage their privilege in relationships, treating trans individuals as disposable. 31:07 💬 Trans individuals are not obligated to disclose their identity but should prioritize their safety when considering it. 32:43 🕵️‍♀️ Safety checks and open discussions about trans identities can help mitigate risks when dating. 34:36 🚫 Disclosing trans identities can lead to harmful reactions, reflecting deeper societal issues of transphobia and misogyny. 35:23 🎬 Media representation of trans individuals often perpetuates harmful stereotypes and fails to offer new narratives. 37:55 ❤️ Positive depictions of intimacy in media are rare but can help shift societal perceptions of trans relationships. 39:09 🗣️ Communication about respect and boundaries is vital when dating a trans person to foster understanding. 39:59 🤝 Building friendships with trans individuals can deepen understanding and appreciation of their experiences. 40:04 💬 Checking in with your partner regularly fosters intimacy and understanding. 40:10 🧠 Recognize that not all trans individuals have the same self-awareness or advocacy skills. 40:28 🔄 It's essential to create a supportive space for partners to express themselves and evolve. 41:02 🎉 Prioritizing comfort and open communication enhances the enjoyment of intimacy. 41:45 🛋️ Therapy can help individuals understand their needs and unpack internalized issues. 42:36 📖 Journaling and discussing past relationships can clarify personal boundaries and expectations. 42:54 ⏳ Long wait times for therapy are common; it's beneficial to get on waitlists as soon as possible. 43:30 🚩 Be mindful of red flags in dating, such as fetishizing or objectifying trans partners. 44:38 🌟 Healthy relationships involve seeing your partner as a whole person, not just their trans identity. 45:04 💔 Heartbreak is a valuable teacher regarding personal boundaries and relationship dynamics. 45:26 ⚠️ Caution is advised when dating significantly older individuals due to potential predatory behavior. 46:09 🚫 Relationships based solely on fetishization are unlikely to be healthy or fulfilling. 47:04 🔍 Healthy relationships require mutual interest beyond superficial attractions or identities. 48:17 🎶 Follow King on Instagram and check out Miss Miles for trans advocacy and makeup services. 49:02 📺 Explore more about the Black Trans experience through additional resources linked in the description.

00:00 🔪 Mocha describes a violent encounter where she was stabbed, highlighting the dangers faced by sex workers. 01:18 👮‍♂️ Mocha criticizes police inaction and mistreatment during her arrest, expressing disappointment in their lack of humanity. 02:10 🏳️‍⚧️ She emphasizes the systemic issues in the criminal justice system regarding the treatment of LGBTQ2S+ individuals, especially trans people. 03:37 🏛️ Mocha shares her wrongful conviction story, illustrating the biases she faced due to her race and gender identity during the legal process. 05:00 ⚖️ She discusses the challenges of being deadnamed and misgendered in court, highlighting the lack of respect for her identity. 06:30 🕊️ Mocha reflects on the emotional toll of being labeled a murderer despite being a survivor, illustrating the trauma endured. 08:05 📚 She highlights the lack of support and understanding from legal professionals about the complexities of trans experiences. 10:00 🔄 Post-incarceration, Mocha finds empowerment through community support, though healing from trauma remains a challenge. 12:15 🏢 She explains recent policy changes in Canada allowing trans individuals to be housed according to their gender identity, but notes ongoing challenges. 14:02 ⚠️ Mocha reveals that many trans individuals remain in solitary confinement despite legal protections, which is considered torture by the UN. 15:45 🔍 She criticizes the reluctance of the justice system to implement necessary changes, suggesting entrenched biases and systemic failure. 18:20 📞 Mocha advocates for the role of outside activists and community members in driving meaningful change within the justice system. 19:30 🔥 She calls for unity and empowerment among those affected by the system to reignite efforts for systemic reform. 20:03 😟 The experience of torture in prison is largely mental, characterized by sleeplessness and being trapped in one’s thoughts. 20:40 🪞 Trans individuals face intense gender dysphoria in prison due to a lack of access to gender-affirming products and healthcare. 21:13 🧔 For the speaker, the inability to manage facial hair and grooming significantly affected their self-esteem and mental health while incarcerated. 23:51 ⚖️ There is a concern about impostor syndrome among trans individuals in prison, with some gay men falsely identifying as transgender to avoid harsher conditions. 25:18 🚨 The legal system lacks proper evaluations for identifying genuine transgender individuals, which contributes to misunderstanding and discrimination. 27:02 📊 Trans individuals are disproportionately incarcerated, with biases leading to their victimization rather than protection. 29:14 🔄 Solutions for the systemic issues faced by the trans community include dismantling existing discriminatory structures and rebuilding them to be inclusive. 30:47 🛠️ Change is difficult to implement due to resistance from those benefiting from the current system, highlighting the need for continued advocacy. 32:50 📚 The speaker is working on a book about their experiences as a transgender woman in prison and is seeking support for editing and publishing.

00:00 🏳️‍🌈 The speaker emphasizes that queer advocates don't want to "groom" kids but want to support clean, safe environments for children. 00:37 🎙️ Caleb Robertson, a queer and trans advocate and drag performer, joins the podcast to discuss representation and dealing with anti-trans protests. 01:53 🗳️ The podcast sets the political context, explaining recent Canadian anti-trans policies and protests fueled by a mix of Christian and Muslim conservatives. 03:02 🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Caleb shares emotional experiences from a counter-protest, highlighting the strange feeling of needing to defend basic rights, like the right to exist. 05:24 🚸 Caleb reflects on seeing parents at protests holding signs about ownership over their children, noting a recurring anti-vaxxer presence in unrelated protests. 05:41 🎭 Caleb describes performing at drag story times and the surreal experience of needing police protection for what is meant to be a joyful, inclusive event. 08:03 🛑 Caleb expresses sadness over the harm caused by protests and the fear that children raised in hateful environments will internalize negative views about queer people. 08:43 🤝 Allies are essential to creating safe spaces, with many attendees at drag story times being straight and cisgender families who value exposure to diversity. 09:18 📚 Story times focus on messages of acceptance and diversity, not on explicit queer topics, contrary to protesters' claims. 11:12 👶 Caleb argues that children should be allowed to express themselves freely and that being trans or queer is not indoctrination but a natural expression of identity. 13:45 💔 It’s heartbreaking to see children brought to hate-filled protests, and Caleb fears the long-term emotional damage this could cause. 15:08 👗 Caleb recounts how gender non-conforming appearances, like wearing a dress, are natural and should be accepted without judgment. 17:24 🌈 Caleb stresses that children should be exposed to positive, inclusive environments and not made to endure bullying or trauma first. 18:18 🏫 Caleb highlights the importance of schools as safe spaces for queer kids, countering the focus on "parental rights" with an emphasis on kids' rights. 20:00 🚫 Trans people are real and not dismissed by scripture; attempts to deny their existence lack textual support. 20:28 💻 Most kids learn about gender ideology and LGBTQ+ topics online or from friends, not through school curricula. 21:12 📚 The Ontario curriculum introduces sexual orientation in Grade 5, focusing on body autonomy and consent. 21:44 🏳️‍🌈 Kids can learn about gender identity in Grade 8, which is appropriate for their developmental stage. 22:39 🚸 Younger kids exploring their gender identity doesn’t equate to medical intervention; it's about self-discovery. 23:03 🚻 Gender-neutral bathrooms are a practical solution for inclusion without compromising safety. 23:50 🔍 The fear of trans people causing harm in bathrooms is unfounded and distracts from real issues of consent and assault. 26:22 🏡 Homes should be safe spaces for kids, free from bullying and judgment about their identities. 30:41 📖 Parents should actively engage with diverse materials and discussions to create a safe environment for their kids. 32:31 ❤️ Positive feedback from parents and kids fuels the motivation of queer creators, highlighting the importance of support. 33:38 🌍 It’s crucial to inform ourselves and have difficult discussions to protect LGBTQ+ rights and freedoms. 36:05 ✨ Trans youth should know their existence is valid and they are loved, despite societal challenges.

- 00:00 ⚖️ The podcast addresses the moral panic around gender ideology and its impact on society, particularly in North America. - 00:25 🔪 Discussion of a hate-motivated stabbing in a gender studies class at the University of Waterloo, signaling growing anti-LGBTQ+ violence in Canada. - 01:40 🤝 Conservative Muslim and Christian groups unite against LGBTQ+ rights in Canada, calling out "gender ideology" in schools. - 03:05 🌈 Protesters express fear of LGBTQ+ visibility in media and public spaces, though they fail to provide specific evidence of harm. - 06:08 📺 Media frenzy is fueling the fear of LGBTQ+ individuals, reminiscent of past moral panics like those surrounding video games and AIDS. - 07:51 🎯 Trans and queer people are being targeted as the "folk devils" of this new moral panic, with fears extending beyond gender to broader societal norms. - 08:40 🚨 Canada is showing early signs of following the U.S. in introducing harsher laws against LGBTQ+ rights. - 09:36 🛡️ The recurring theme of "protecting the children" is used to justify restrictive laws and actions against LGBTQ+ communities. - 12:30 💪 The backlash against oppressive laws often strengthens movements for equality, as marginalized groups mobilize for change. - 13:40 🗳️ Advocating for activism through voting, donating, volunteering, and attending rallies to protect LGBTQ+ rights and counter this moral panic. - 19:11 📢 Many people protest against "gender theory" but can't define it, even journalists struggle to explain it. - 19:52 🎓 A key source of gender theory is Judith Butler, who explains that there are multiple gender theories, not just one. - 20:54 💡 Everyone has a theory on gender, including those opposing gender ideology. - 21:53 ⚖️ It's essential to understand the difference between sex (biological) and gender (social, cultural). - 22:42 🐄 Carrie Lake confused sex with gender in a public statement, illustrating common misconceptions. - 23:40 🔍 Left-leaning gender theory doesn’t deny biological differences but emphasizes that these don’t define life choices. - 25:17 📚 Simone de Beauvoir was a pioneer, stating "one is not born a woman but becomes one," highlighting gender as socially constructed. - 27:02 🧑‍🎓 Judith Butler introduced the idea that gender is a performance, making it real through enactment, not fakeness. - 29:16 🌍 Over time, the concept of gender, family, and sexuality has evolved significantly in society. - 30:10 📖 Even dictionaries like Cambridge have updated definitions of "woman" and "man" to reflect modern understanding. - 30:23 🏳️‍🌈 Some people fear the progress of queer and trans rights, wrongly believing it takes power away from others. - 31:25 💪 Sharing equality doesn't diminish anyone's power, but instead, creates balance for all.

I wonder, if it would be better to remove 2S from 2SLGBTQI+ if indigenous communities feel there is a disconnection and misrepresentation on it being there? I also feel all the 2 spirited I have meet are part of the 2SLGBTQI+ community. My understanding was that the 2S was at the front of the acronym to acknowledge that the indigenous communities are still being oppressed and marginalized in Canada. Also to acknowledge they were the first on this land. Edit: We only use 2SLGBTQI+ is only used in Canada. In America I seen LGBTQIA+ acronym instead.

you're literally trying to kill people with your sick disease and queer or not you tell someone you've got a life changing disease naaa you need help! Your sick in the head if you think it's okay not to tell someone that you ain't hiv

Look at the pinned comment compared to all the others. Myles is a disgusting human who should be locked up

Keep playing with people you'll get yourself killed

It doesn’t matter whether it’s undetectable or not, it’s morally wrong to have sex with someone without disclosing your HIV positive status. The guy who got mad about it wasn’t in the wrong, and acting like he was is insane. You realize how bad the optics are on this? You’ve given right-wingers ammo to use against the groups you claim to advocate for. This absurd discourse doesn’t actually help whatsoever. No one is going to be persuaded to change their worldview from this, it’s just bouncing around in an echo chamber.

this was a very informative video, i'm glad i watched it. i hope more people come across this!

Great episode!

AMERICA HAS FALLEN!

Imagine there are people in the same community m not disclosing as well.

Ah yes tell me youre from a western country without telling me youre from a western country.

This is such a gross and ignorant take, and it makes me so angry, yes queer women have been subjugated to oppression outside of being LGBT+ but that doesn't mean that queer women have experienced more severe oppression overall. Idk about the US but in the UK lesbianism wasn't believed to be "real" by people like Queen Victoria, this lead to homophobic laws only targetting queer men. This often meant physical violence, castration and in most cases the death penalty only happened to men. Sure queer women had to deal with being queer and being a woman but a lot of prejudice they experienced made them invisible to the same treatments queer men received at the time.

Door dash what a bunch of scumbags. These people need to be in jail. Disgusting human beings.

As a gay man I don't even want to be called queer, as I don't want to associate with people like you.

This is why people think bi women are cheaters. I get it you found out ur bi in a 8 year relationship with a man, but that doesn’t mean u have to go out and sleep with another person. You kinda ruined your 8year relationship. It’s sad really. I’m bisexual in a heterosexual relationship but I would never get with someone else just to experience a certain genital. That’s weird and greedy. Non monogamous relationships are beautiful too, but the way they went about it is not how it’s done.

+1 vote for Chef 😅

Yes it does meen a women a lesbian angvwomen if she hooks up with women and as girlfriends and wife

This is too liberal and not lefty enough. Thanks for the effort, it’s good, not great. Like why advocate for shit living, when you as an activist can be asking for more? I don’t understand this, like you say you hate labour? Maybe let’s go further?

So lovely & inspiring & comforting ✨🥲💛

Ya'll in the comments need to read some queer history books. Non bianary butches are a massive part of our history. Trans women are of course welcome too. Just as long as you aren't a man you can use that label.

There is not a single positive thing about being fat, only negatives. Why would anyone, who is fat not want to lose weight? Being fat is unhealthy, unattractive, limits your ability to move, it only has downsides.

You don't "identify" as LGB. L, G and B are sexual orientations, not a "preference" or an "identity". Just the TQ's are about identity.

I love this podcast so much! Thank you for another educational episode, I learned more of the nuances of the term 2-spirit i didnt know before

I was fat from childhood, unexpectedly thin for a decade, and now I’m fat again. The bigotry is real.

Horror. 💀💀💀💀💀💀

1:41, did you say "Fond du Lac"? As in Wisconsin? That is my hometown! I love y'all! OMG Edit: I googled Treaty 8. It is a different Fond du Lac

Love this topic!

A lot of heteroflexible people are still a little more flexible than even this, but not that much. The big thing is just a major romantic and/pr sexual preference towards the opposite sex with rare or occasional queer attractions.

may your friend rest in eternal warmth. too many similar stories. Please shove it down our throats, we need to not forget or brush under the rug the seriousness of this issue. NO MORE MMIW. Love from MT.

I strive to have a fashion style that rocks as hard as these majesties 🎉❤🎉❤

Poor thing! He doesn't tell his sexual partners that he has HIV because if he does, no one will want to touch him or have sex with him. Stop seeing yourself as a victim because you are not. You are selfish and irresponsible. Also the fact that he looks like Jesus freaks me out, like a twisted creepy gay verison of Jesus Christ.

Amazing video and podcast as always. I really loved this one though, hit home on a lot of important issues within Canada. Hearing their stories was amazing and they are such important voices for the community.

I learned so much from this, thank you! Also, Haley is gorgeous 😍