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How does this video not have more likes 😢

Wow thank you so much for being honest about the topic

The Favourite Person that is in an intimate long term relationship with a pwBPD will also imprint them making matters worse when they separate. From all the research I've done I don't think that the pwBPD ever gets over the FP.

First I want to thank you for sharing this content. I'm not a fan of how the algorithm works on TH-cam and I feel like your stuff should definitely be up there with the rest of everything else. Pleasantly surprised to find out that you are in the Philadelphia area. Because that's where I'm located as well. I'm just outside King of Prussia. I think it's pretty awesome that there's someone local doing the stuff as well. Please continue to create content. Thank you very much.

This was perfect. I'm dating a woman with BPD. It's undiagnosed , but to he symptoms (getting every video I've seen) are spot on. And it has been difficult. Out of love, I don't want to give up. I want to make her aware and help her on the journey to getting better. But .. she's now 43. This is very deeply ingrained. And unfortunately I fucked up months back. So of course everything I now do is discredited easily. She only seems to see me through that filter and therefore only believes my intentions are to manipulate her. "Assuming" I have good intentions is not on her radar. Fallow that by doing things unintentionally that trigger her episodes or, out of trying to avoid the conflicts that inevitably arise with BPD, I omit details of my day/life because I ever up over defending my self for doing something innocent. Example. I have a healthy platonic relationship with my ex wife/mother of my child. And my girlfriend assumes the worst. So I don't feel free to talk to her openly about my communications with my ex, because if she sees I can have a healthy dialogue that doesn't evolve negativity and maybe shows emotions and time to time. It automatically means I'm having an affair with my ex wife. So in order to avoid that conflict. I avoid communicating with my ex all around her and/or I don't tell her when I text/talk to her. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. I can not be the real me when it comes to handling things with my ex because it's perceived as a threat. If I can be that healthy in a friendship with the mother of my child, then why not go back to her? That's her mentality... But that is a question she refuses to accept the real answer to... Why don't I go back to my ex? Answer; because despite the chaos of BPD, I understand that she suffers with it and that right now it's uncontrolled because of her lack of understanding and awareness of it. But I still love her tremendously because I can see beyond the BPD. Hopefully success will happen. Because when she's not in an episode. She's awesome. And I happen to be patient enough to wait out the storms because I know the sun is still behind the clouds.

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Why can I listen to all this from you but my spouse who has stuck it out 17 yrs says very similar words & I can't hear it? He's studied & spoke with multiple professionals & I can't hear it from him?? 🥺

the honesty and insight you're giving us here is incredible. THANK YOU!

Wow! This podcast offered so much insight to my situation. Thank you Rose! I will keep this in my back pocket as a reminder.

I just want you to know I have been having such am overwhelming week and your voice and information has helped me calm down and saved my mind space. Thank you so much.

This is so helpful. Thank you for this

i appreciate this so much

Whoa, St. John’s Wort is not a placebo! It’s a homeopathic antidepressant, which, if you want to try it, please, please speak to your doctor or psychiatrist. I would also not take melatonin if your doctor does not prescribe it. Yes, you can buy these over the counter but they are not FDA approved, therefore, please seek advice from all medical sources.

Not only should you be taking a probiotic but also a prebiotic. I have a company that I trust but like she said, do your research.

what's wrong with acknowledging that you're splitting? youll never be able to change without noticing your toxic behavior. i think cause i feel things so intensely, i refuse to believe other people feel the same way as i do? i don't think its, i lack empathy.....

Very interesting! I would love to know more about walking through scenarios with my pwBPD. What to do, tips and tricks, pitfalls to avoid. Thanks!

Great video ❤️❤️❤️

What perfect timing for this episode, me and my oldest daughter were talking about our struggle with this yesterday 🙏

Hoping to connect with my daughter , diagnosed with BPD. In observance mode currently. I wish she would actually listen to this, and then we could talk about it. She would not , and probably could not.....

Character In the video It's great, I like it a lot $$

Thank you for this Rose. I had some joy and pride in how far I had come in all of the hard work to recover until I listen to this episode. It has thrown me right back into ideation and the realization that I'm a monster who does nothing but hurt people around me. To think the last 18 years of my love life were completely fraudulent because I don't know what love is according to this theory brought great clarity to what a parasite I am and how none of the work with professionals are on my own was worth a darn. Thank you thank you for bringing clarity to my need to leave my wife and kids and family and everyone that I care about and just disappear as the tyrannical, manipulative, controlling, sociopathic freak that I am.

Sean, I love your attitude. Do you have a TH-cam channel?

you are not a burden

My ex was exactly like this. I know I did the right thing by walking away. I saw the toxic relationship he had with his "best friend" and I knew I did not want to be in that spot! The tyranny is exactly what our relationship was.

Hello Rose, I've heard in one of your videos that you own a support group for BPD patients on Facebook, but your Facebook links are down. I would be really interested to join this group and i would like to know how to join.

What a great decision Sam and well done on going a harder path for life, treating you bpd rather than the easy path of letting it define you. It’s great to hear your story, well done again, I imagine your life experience is Tripple what most people’s is at your age. “ The choice thing is really hard” I like that line, years ago I was so mad at a friend because they pointed out that my bf at the time couldn’t ‘make me’ anything unless they held a gun to my head, I was so angry and it was only months down the track I realised why, because if someone isn’t making me, then I’m responsible and if I’m offended or angry then I have chosen to be that way, there is always another choice. And yeah I get that if people do something like cheat on you, etc, whatever, of course you’re going to be hurt, but there are many choices in that, angry, sad, indifferent, resentful, you might even be happy if you look at it in the right light, string free brake up with serial cheater, just as example, still a really hard thing to do in the heat of the moment. Another short cut that helped me was asking when I was offended, angry etc, what else could this be? My friend late, sooo disrespectful... well what else could this be? My friend late, is she okay? Again hard to remember when emotions are running hot.

My partner is 48, He had massive sexual emotional and physical abuse as a child. I’m really committed to trying to make sure that he’s well in the future I love him very much. However I find that I have my own traits that point to borderline in some instances. And you’re certainly right about the therapists and hospitals and everyone else don’t want them especially a 6 foot three very fit very muscular man who can throw a tantrum and then actually disassociates and not remember what he’s done in that tantrum. 😞

A parent has one obligation to a child - to love him/her. There is just no excuse for this failure.

This explains things so well Thank you 😊

Excellent video!

Brilliant! I just received this diagnosis and now that I’m personally affected, I see the terrible stigma it carries. Of course we can recover! I would think the first step is to have the humility to see that some of my behaviors are negatively affecting others. I hard pill to swallow.

I feel like all these videos of bpd make me feel like I’m a psycho. I didn’t think that most of these things were not normal.

What your mother did to you, that's worse enough. It sadden me very much that we lowered our standards of how people should treat one another, to a point that childeren are expected to be resilent to a parent treating them like this.

can someone have more then fp ?

The worst part is we don't even know what we did until it's too late. When my FP died, i have vowed NEVER to have another favorite person. Thank you for this!

Amazing commentary...

If I could disassociate for the rest of my life, I would.😔

Guys recovery exists dont stop to fight it❤️❤️❤️

Thank you so much for this💗

Thank you for covering this topic

Dear Rose, thank you so so much for your Podcast. I've been listening to it on spotify for half a year now and you changed, if not even saved my life. This is such a precious resource and I am so grateful to you for kicking my ass and telling me I do have choices and that I can change and be a better person. I hope you have a wonderful week.

My cousin has cast me in the role of her enemy for NO reason that I can understand! She has been giving me the silent treatment for over a year while love bombing all of our other cousins/. Does that sound like she might have BPD? She is definitely not at peace with herself. But I think she hides that from most people. She kisses up and kicks down (and I'm down, apparently!) So I feel like I'm burdened with this insight in to her thinking.

Omg.. the words you speak, are just like hearing God speak to me.. #lifesavior

Thank you so much for making your podcasts, your brutal truth is helping the start of my recovery so much. You've helped me realise I have a choice in my behaviours and that bpd does not define me. Currently in the process of detaching from my "favourite person" and getting back on track with my own life purpose and my own happiness... I'd love to see some vlogs in the future!

Do you have more pod cast than 10?

Rose I'm following was first diagnosed 20 some odd yeat ago in a child custody psych eval I denied it until 2 years ago when I was hospitalized again for suicide ideation anxiety and all kinds jazz have not found much treatment for this psychological problem BPD I find your group and you're podcast highly enlightening would really loves more help

Is it also possible to change the way you feel about things and not just your behavior/response to triggers? I’ve been in therapy for 2 years and I cannot say I feel better at all although I can better control how I interact with others

Thank you so much for this!