Be free to be yourself, by all means. Regardless of your sex, you should be free to express yourself however you want. The part I get confused by is the labelling, as I can't see how viewing the words 'men' and 'women' as being identical to 'masculine' and 'feminine' is a good thing. In fact, I think this is what produces sexism. The word 'man' or 'male' has always related to biology. We call male chimps male because they are the ones that produce sperm and have a specific anatomy; identity isn't a condition to being male, only your biology is. None of that has anything to do with who you are as a person, nor should it. Thus, if you view being male or female as a performative exercise, you are being sexist, as you're inviting those socialised norms of 'females are feminine' and 'males are masculine' more rigidly into your life. Again, you can wear whatever you like, do whatever you like, but as soon as you say 'I don't identify with being male because I like feminine things' that is *you* saying that being male means you have to be a certain way, and I think that's where the problems appear for me, as someone who is opposed to sexism the way no doubt many people here are.
Being authentic is very important! Nice videos and nice way to explain and share how you feel and how you want others to see you. You are authentic...and very beautiful!! Love and blessings on your path my friend!!!
This stuff is just too complicated and too ridiculous for me. You know, if you're weird, you just weird why do you got to try to put a fancy name on it? If your a man who likes men or even wears women stuff you just gay, why complicate stuff?? Is totally fine to be gay. But seems like people are starving for attention so much now they want to you know put all kind of different levels and branches into stuff just be gay or whatever it is you want to be. If you want to dress like a clown or a dog or a woman or whatever you want to be it's fine you know who cares in other people's not going to like it but oh well you know that that's why you do it cuz you like to be controversial and you like the attention so have fun with it.if you like it I love it😁 me i couldn't care less either way. I feel like the LGBT community nowadays isnt happy with people just respecting them and let you guys live your life in peace. Is like LGBT people wanna push the homosexual and transgender and all those other terms agenda on everyone else, like they wanna force it down people's throat. Just be happy with yourself and stop trying to make others understand you. Who cares?? As long as people know they must respect you because your a person not a wall or a car, is all that matters. Stop complicating stuff. You don't see me trying to explain to evryone i come in contact with the reasons why im overweight! If they dont like that's their problem im not gonna lose sleep ovee it. Worry bout your immediate family and those you love flack the others!!!
Thank you for making a video that can speak to sooooo many people that feel so desperately alone because of how they feel about their gender. I shouldn't wear a skirt because I'm a guy or get my nails done. Through years of being told what is "right" and "wrong" you are almost made to forget how you truly feel and become ashamed. That's why beautiful people speaking out about their authentic self is important and helpful. You DO go girl 😘
Although so many of the hate comments on this are frankly...discouraging, terrifying...however, your video helped me, so thank you <3 also, you have really nice eyes
It’s funny how people say gender identity is made up. So is every word ever. These words, gender queer, non binary, etc. are newer words, but what they describe and represent has existed since the dawn of time. There just weren’t words for them. Example: the elbow. People have always had elbows, but the word elbow didn’t exist until the 1600s and evolved from other similar words, as all language does. People didn’t not have elbows and suddenly grow elbows at the invention of the word. Elbows have always existed. Non binary people have always existed. Our language, the English language is just evolving to have words that describe these people properly.
No matter what you think i spilled baked beans all over myself watching cars 2 in the theatres and a black teenager shouted "this nigga eating beans" and everybody laughed
There was an entire video that I found just bashing all of this, and bashing genderqueer people. That made me so furious how the world is honestly so non-accepting. I'm not actually genderqueer, so I can't say I've had to experience any of this, but I'm bisexual, and so AS A PART OF THE LGBTQ PPLZ, I WAS EXTREMELY DEFENSIVE xD I have a bunch of genderqueer friends aswell so to listen to some guy talk shit about all of it made me really upset. Everybody deserves love, and to be respected for whatever decisions they make, and it doesn't matter if other people 'agree' with them, or not. I didn't wanna contribute to the hate too much, so I left a (slightly rude) comment and disliked the vid, then came here. EVERYBODY HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY//NIGHT <33
Quick clarification: Just because you denounce or choose to act like or dress like another gender does not mean you can classify as a new gender. You can definitely *identify* as gender queer, go ahead, but in no way does that make you a new type of gender. There are only two genders: Male and Female (No, non-binary is not a gender it is the absence of one). Also for those who may bring up the point that sex and gender are two different things, they are not, just different words that mean exactly the same thing, search it up on the dictionary. If you really please to say that you are "gender-queer" or any other gender Tumblr fed to you, go ahead, but Gender is classified by sex organs, so if you desire to switch from male to female you have to switch those out (A quite simple procedure). You can easily identify as anything you want, but when it comes to gender, you have only two choices. Thank you and have a nice day.
"incredibly brave soul" - yep a dude with a penis wearing a frock and lipstick is classed as an "incredibly brave soul" I guess in some neighborhoods dressed like this would be considered incredibly brave. Think I will stick to watching the UFO doco's
First of all, I am sorry if you get harassed by people for the way you are, that is wrong and pointless, regardless of any debate on the issue. However, the thing which always puzzles me about "genderqueer" people is that they seem to have very superficial ideas about gender. Experimenting with heels or bowties is not exploring masculinity or femininity. These are just superficial theatre games. I don't know what you mean by the fact you feel "feminine" inside, but it's hard for me to really believe it is anything like how I experience my biological femininity. Your hormonal cycle doesn't move in the mysterious rhythms mine follows, you don't bleed and suffer, you will never know the sacrifice and joy of nurturing a baby through your breasts. You don't know anything about the curious and strange experience of discovering you have a hole in your body instead of a penis like other little boys. You don't know what it's like to have a man inside you through that hole, act that magnificently sums up the idea of a perfect and simple union you always had vague dreams about when you were younger. You will not have the pleasure of discovering and exploring the changes a female body and psyche go through over the years; changes you could never have expected or anticipated, because nature is wiser and greater than you. On top of all this, you will never know what it's like to be truly masculine either, to follow the path set out by your own biology. So here you are, suspended in a land where you are neither one nor the other, a sort of very colourful phantom, trying desperately to flaunt externally what cannot really exist internally. Is this really life? Or is it rather the refusal to really live it as it is, with its necessary limitations and destiny? I hope you find a way out of the maze of your own sorrow and come to realize that by being neither male nor female, you are not freeing yourself from a prison but condemning yourself to nothingness.
your gender "ideology" is based on materialistic and visual values : makeup , shoes , clothes , earrings.. So if someone decides to wear a mask or a costume regularly to represent an animal like ... well... lets say furies for example ... have they suddenly created a new gender we should call them by ? what if you can't tell the sex of the person wearing the costume or the species of animal they are supposed to be? are we going to need new species / gender neutral pronouns for that too ? what you wear does not create a new gender - there are only two genders because they are based off of the two sexes - male and female
Wait till these people lose their youth, what pride they will feel at age 70, they will at some point that they wasted the only life they'll ever have. So sad our society has sunk to this level, this agenda is a disease and needs to be quarantined.
So do you apparently because you seem to not understand that biology and psychology are two different sciences. Oh, and get a dictionary too so you can look up the definition of sex then the definition of gender and see just how wrong you are.
Not true there r 2 genders and stop being fake and trying to get attention u think ur special but u aren't and u just want the strength of a man but not being the proctor and being responsible but u don't want to be taking care of children eather so u just get ur way and think ur special but ur not so stop this and be a man
Freak
Boys and girls. Period. You're just weird. But you are still a man. End.
Whom ever is cat calling this person needs their ASS BEAT BAD!!
This guy should be in a straight jacket (no pun intended).
what a load of shit lmao
ew
Me when i see you:
Okay so this guy is “Genderqueer” but I can obviously tell that’s a dude wearing a wig and make up. Y’all ain’t fooling me!!
1. Its made up 2.Its made up 3. Its made up 4. Its made up 5. Its made up
Some people are just delusional
1. It isn't a word.
Be free to be yourself, by all means. Regardless of your sex, you should be free to express yourself however you want. The part I get confused by is the labelling, as I can't see how viewing the words 'men' and 'women' as being identical to 'masculine' and 'feminine' is a good thing. In fact, I think this is what produces sexism. The word 'man' or 'male' has always related to biology. We call male chimps male because they are the ones that produce sperm and have a specific anatomy; identity isn't a condition to being male, only your biology is. None of that has anything to do with who you are as a person, nor should it. Thus, if you view being male or female as a performative exercise, you are being sexist, as you're inviting those socialised norms of 'females are feminine' and 'males are masculine' more rigidly into your life. Again, you can wear whatever you like, do whatever you like, but as soon as you say 'I don't identify with being male because I like feminine things' that is *you* saying that being male means you have to be a certain way, and I think that's where the problems appear for me, as someone who is opposed to sexism the way no doubt many people here are.
Thank u for educating 🏳️🌈❣
Being authentic is very important! Nice videos and nice way to explain and share how you feel and how you want others to see you. You are authentic...and very beautiful!! Love and blessings on your path my friend!!!
man up dude
Respect yes but "loving" everyone...not so sure about that.
yessssss.
This poor guy looks ridiculous...
This stuff is just too complicated and too ridiculous for me. You know, if you're weird, you just weird why do you got to try to put a fancy name on it? If your a man who likes men or even wears women stuff you just gay, why complicate stuff?? Is totally fine to be gay. But seems like people are starving for attention so much now they want to you know put all kind of different levels and branches into stuff just be gay or whatever it is you want to be. If you want to dress like a clown or a dog or a woman or whatever you want to be it's fine you know who cares in other people's not going to like it but oh well you know that that's why you do it cuz you like to be controversial and you like the attention so have fun with it.if you like it I love it😁 me i couldn't care less either way. I feel like the LGBT community nowadays isnt happy with people just respecting them and let you guys live your life in peace. Is like LGBT people wanna push the homosexual and transgender and all those other terms agenda on everyone else, like they wanna force it down people's throat. Just be happy with yourself and stop trying to make others understand you. Who cares?? As long as people know they must respect you because your a person not a wall or a car, is all that matters. Stop complicating stuff. You don't see me trying to explain to evryone i come in contact with the reasons why im overweight! If they dont like that's their problem im not gonna lose sleep ovee it. Worry bout your immediate family and those you love flack the others!!!
I’m pooping. This guy is a pansy.
A little question so whom are you attracted to?Please don’t be mad I’m just concerned
Thank you for making a video that can speak to sooooo many people that feel so desperately alone because of how they feel about their gender. I shouldn't wear a skirt because I'm a guy or get my nails done. Through years of being told what is "right" and "wrong" you are almost made to forget how you truly feel and become ashamed. That's why beautiful people speaking out about their authentic self is important and helpful. You DO go girl 😘
Although so many of the hate comments on this are frankly...discouraging, terrifying...however, your video helped me, so thank you <3 also, you have really nice eyes
Nope you're a guy who likes to tart his self up for attention.
You are adorable ❤ Keep it up ♡♡
It’s funny how people say gender identity is made up. So is every word ever. These words, gender queer, non binary, etc. are newer words, but what they describe and represent has existed since the dawn of time. There just weren’t words for them. Example: the elbow. People have always had elbows, but the word elbow didn’t exist until the 1600s and evolved from other similar words, as all language does. People didn’t not have elbows and suddenly grow elbows at the invention of the word. Elbows have always existed. Non binary people have always existed. Our language, the English language is just evolving to have words that describe these people properly.
I love you.
There are 2 Genders. Not 1 not 3 not 5 not 10. 2...there are 2 Genders. Get in in your Brains. 2 fucking Genders! Thats it.
Ik it's been like 3 years, but sex doesn't equal your gender.
@@kingdomgalaxy_ You're a degenerate and a pedant if you actually believe that
Nah but for real there are only two genders it aint no fucking spectrum
No matter what you think i spilled baked beans all over myself watching cars 2 in the theatres and a black teenager shouted "this nigga eating beans" and everybody laughed
Thats a lie he never gets cat called in a non joking way
dear fucking god
There was an entire video that I found just bashing all of this, and bashing genderqueer people. That made me so furious how the world is honestly so non-accepting. I'm not actually genderqueer, so I can't say I've had to experience any of this, but I'm bisexual, and so AS A PART OF THE LGBTQ PPLZ, I WAS EXTREMELY DEFENSIVE xD I have a bunch of genderqueer friends aswell so to listen to some guy talk shit about all of it made me really upset. Everybody deserves love, and to be respected for whatever decisions they make, and it doesn't matter if other people 'agree' with them, or not. I didn't wanna contribute to the hate too much, so I left a (slightly rude) comment and disliked the vid, then came here. EVERYBODY HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY//NIGHT <33
5 more reasons I want to end it all
This guy is so salty about some shit lol
Quick clarification: Just because you denounce or choose to act like or dress like another gender does not mean you can classify as a new gender. You can definitely *identify* as gender queer, go ahead, but in no way does that make you a new type of gender. There are only two genders: Male and Female (No, non-binary is not a gender it is the absence of one). Also for those who may bring up the point that sex and gender are two different things, they are not, just different words that mean exactly the same thing, search it up on the dictionary. If you really please to say that you are "gender-queer" or any other gender Tumblr fed to you, go ahead, but Gender is classified by sex organs, so if you desire to switch from male to female you have to switch those out (A quite simple procedure). You can easily identify as anything you want, but when it comes to gender, you have only two choices. Thank you and have a nice day.
"incredibly brave soul" - yep a dude with a penis wearing a frock and lipstick is classed as an "incredibly brave soul" I guess in some neighborhoods dressed like this would be considered incredibly brave. Think I will stick to watching the UFO doco's
It's fukin dumb
There are 2 genders. It’s really not that hard 🤷♂️
The definition of gender begs to differ
First of all, I am sorry if you get harassed by people for the way you are, that is wrong and pointless, regardless of any debate on the issue. However, the thing which always puzzles me about "genderqueer" people is that they seem to have very superficial ideas about gender. Experimenting with heels or bowties is not exploring masculinity or femininity. These are just superficial theatre games. I don't know what you mean by the fact you feel "feminine" inside, but it's hard for me to really believe it is anything like how I experience my biological femininity. Your hormonal cycle doesn't move in the mysterious rhythms mine follows, you don't bleed and suffer, you will never know the sacrifice and joy of nurturing a baby through your breasts. You don't know anything about the curious and strange experience of discovering you have a hole in your body instead of a penis like other little boys. You don't know what it's like to have a man inside you through that hole, act that magnificently sums up the idea of a perfect and simple union you always had vague dreams about when you were younger. You will not have the pleasure of discovering and exploring the changes a female body and psyche go through over the years; changes you could never have expected or anticipated, because nature is wiser and greater than you. On top of all this, you will never know what it's like to be truly masculine either, to follow the path set out by your own biology. So here you are, suspended in a land where you are neither one nor the other, a sort of very colourful phantom, trying desperately to flaunt externally what cannot really exist internally. Is this really life? Or is it rather the refusal to really live it as it is, with its necessary limitations and destiny? I hope you find a way out of the maze of your own sorrow and come to realize that by being neither male nor female, you are not freeing yourself from a prison but condemning yourself to nothingness.
"im scared bc I never know who's going to cat-call me" 😂😂😅😅 This is some truly deranged shit right here folks.
Anybody who puts on a wig, make up, and cross dresses and then tells everyone they are “genderqueer” is deranged.
your gender "ideology" is based on materialistic and visual values : makeup , shoes , clothes , earrings.. So if someone decides to wear a mask or a costume regularly to represent an animal like ... well... lets say furies for example ... have they suddenly created a new gender we should call them by ? what if you can't tell the sex of the person wearing the costume or the species of animal they are supposed to be? are we going to need new species / gender neutral pronouns for that too ? what you wear does not create a new gender - there are only two genders because they are based off of the two sexes - male and female
i have never heard of gender queer .... that's a new gender term for the week.
Wait till these people lose their youth, what pride they will feel at age 70, they will at some point that they wasted the only life they'll ever have. So sad our society has sunk to this level, this agenda is a disease and needs to be quarantined.
Boy and girl are not feelings. You're conflating things.
you need basic science book in your life
So do you apparently because you seem to not understand that biology and psychology are two different sciences. Oh, and get a dictionary too so you can look up the definition of sex then the definition of gender and see just how wrong you are.
Wow you're inspirational and beautiful!
We need anti-gay propaganda law in the US like in Russia. First time I feel Russia did something smart. They saw this nonsense coming.
Not true there r 2 genders and stop being fake and trying to get attention u think ur special but u aren't and u just want the strength of a man but not being the proctor and being responsible but u don't want to be taking care of children eather so u just get ur way and think ur special but ur not so stop this and be a man
Just come out already. You're gay, people won't murder you.
This is not at all Trans Gender