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Hi, Here is Juliana and it feels great having you here!
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How to overcome anxiety and overthinking in relationships
• How to overcome overthinking in relationships if you deal with anxiety and an anxious attachment style. Do you often feel overwhelmed by anxiety, especially in dating and new relationships?
Click play to hear all of this and:
- Understanding the Impact of Anxiety on Relationships
- Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energies
- Practical Tips for Overcoming Overthinking
- Harnessing Your True Energy for a Stronger Connection
What if I told you that this overthinking might be causing an even bigger disconnect with your partner?
And what if you’re not even aware you’re struggling with anxiety in dating or separation anxiety in relationships?
You’re not alone. Many women face these challenges without realizing how much anxiety and overthinking are affecting their relationships.
In this episode, you’ll uncover the hidden effects of anxiety and overthinking on your connection with your partner.
Whether it’s anxiety in long-distance relationships or anxiety and communication in relationships, we’ll explore how these issues can impact your relationship dynamics.
Inside, you’ll discover powerful strategies to manage anxiety in relationships and regain control.
We’ll dive into how balancing your feminine and masculine energies can transform your approach to relationships.
Ready to learn how to stop overthinking in dating and build a stronger connection?
Whether you’re new to these concepts or have been searching for ways to handle anxiety in early dating, you’ll gain practical insights to shift your mindset and energy.
Click play to hear all of this and:
1:56 Understanding the Impact of Anxiety on Relationships
8:00 Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energies
14:15 Practical Tips for Overcoming Overthinking
16:00 Harnessing Your True Energy for a Stronger Connection
This episode is for you if:
• You’re tired of letting anxiety control your relationship.
• You want to understand how to balance your feminine and masculine energies.
You’re ready to break free from overthinking and build a stronger connection with your partner.
Click play to hear all of this and:
- Understanding the Impact of Anxiety on Relationships
- Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energies
- Practical Tips for Overcoming Overthinking
- Harnessing Your True Energy for a Stronger Connection
What if I told you that this overthinking might be causing an even bigger disconnect with your partner?
And what if you’re not even aware you’re struggling with anxiety in dating or separation anxiety in relationships?
You’re not alone. Many women face these challenges without realizing how much anxiety and overthinking are affecting their relationships.
In this episode, you’ll uncover the hidden effects of anxiety and overthinking on your connection with your partner.
Whether it’s anxiety in long-distance relationships or anxiety and communication in relationships, we’ll explore how these issues can impact your relationship dynamics.
Inside, you’ll discover powerful strategies to manage anxiety in relationships and regain control.
We’ll dive into how balancing your feminine and masculine energies can transform your approach to relationships.
Ready to learn how to stop overthinking in dating and build a stronger connection?
Whether you’re new to these concepts or have been searching for ways to handle anxiety in early dating, you’ll gain practical insights to shift your mindset and energy.
Click play to hear all of this and:
1:56 Understanding the Impact of Anxiety on Relationships
8:00 Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energies
14:15 Practical Tips for Overcoming Overthinking
16:00 Harnessing Your True Energy for a Stronger Connection
This episode is for you if:
• You’re tired of letting anxiety control your relationship.
• You want to understand how to balance your feminine and masculine energies.
You’re ready to break free from overthinking and build a stronger connection with your partner.
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Attention all men.Take my advice.And stay single.its is not worth.it.i was used.Ruined my life.All golddiggers.Dont ever trust.I am not a fruitloop .All the same.
I will never trust any woman.I got used.I have never over it .I lost two friends because of Golddiggers.Now there Gone.God put us here to be loved .Not to be ripped off.Rather have my car.
Never heard of Hello a Golddigger.Hello they are out there.I know I have been there..Destoryed my life.Thats why in in 25 years .5 weeks married never bothered again.If you knew my story you be shocked.All women rip off men..All to do with money.
LADiE$: This world is going to fall apart. It’s your fault. Don’t cry to us men when it does. You deserve it.
Finding love isn’t hard for modern women. Modern women’s expectations of men are preposterously high and their own valuation of themselves as women is even more ridiculously higher.
I was indeed in a relationship with a malignant narcissist before. The second person I met showed similar behavior (love-bombing, secrecy, push-and-pull...) and I thought he was just another narcissist I had attracted despite having been to counseling and healed from the first experience. I went no contact for two months, reflected on the situation how we never argued, and wished him a happy birthday then. We re-connected. Turned out, he told me he was in therapy and his therapist told him he was a dismissive avoidant. He's actively working on his trauma and does not want to commit to a relationship before he can be the person he wants himself to be for others. This experience has taught me to not be super fast to label somebody a narcissist. Since I have been through that experience before, I could tell the difference as my bond deepened with my dismissive avoidant friend who's taking accountability and has never blamed me for anything.
Younger men are not bad at all. They are just a bit childish.
Women have some many options. Dozens. Why worry?
Pleased to hear you raising awareness around repelling thoughts/actions not serving women and pushing good guys away. This is something I see all the time as a single guy and is really off-putting.
You're better off single.
its not v modern world thats lost its only half v western world were feminism has caused v damge. men r beter off going to non feminised countries 2 fnd gd wives n mums.
Maybe not a choice to be single, but men don't want a phony modern female. They can't attract any good men. No chance
Not in America. 👈
Men dont ever trust.You will lose evertthing.Ruined my life.God put us here to be loved.not to be ripped off iwas .Thats why i dont trust .women.
My advice to stay single.you will get ripped off Like ieas.you dont get over it.I will ever trust women again.
I have been single for 25 years .married for 5 weeks.,never bothered. I live a lonely life.Sorry i got used .Never got over.I think about it.every day.All women are golddiggers.
You've no gold... so stop talking nonsense. You seem to follow channels like this and leave the same comment. Or it was the car comment you used to leave. Your nuts 😃
It's easy, be of beautiful genetics and good mind,… and that gives much more opportunity to thrive socially, and with intimate relationships.
I would challenge that belief
@@julianajoy😂😂😂😂😂
very possible if your woman is not a feminist affected by woke mind virus, but instead a genuine woman that just loves you and wants to be with her man.
I hear you 👍🏻
😂 oh FFS 😂😂😂 no wonder the boys are melting down 🤦🏻♀️
men are holding back because if the woman leaves us, the court system will strip us of everything and award cash and prizes to the lady that broke the government contract,,until this changes we are out,,,but woman will just blame men and not do enything about , and why would they when men are such a cash cow
Yes that’s unfortunately a common problem
Dont bother.All golddiggers
Yeah some for sure
@@julianajoyALL
@@julianajoy all women are into consuming and not into giving.
Can you go into details? Because I never met a gold digger. You mean the upper echelons where there is actual wealth?? You ever hear of a prenup..that guy trolls channels leaving ridiculous comments about his car and women are bad.
Kenneth you have no gold... you wouldn't be on here as a successful man. Successful men don't go on TH-cam leaving comments on relationship channels. Or MGTOW nonsense. Most successful men don't even go on social media. Its just passive scrolling. They can get attractive women easily.
What’s the song?
Don't paint everyone with the same brush.
😂😂😂😂😂 yer funny… that’s funny…
Women are struggling because their biology is in conflict with their politics and social conditioning. You cant have equality and hypergamy at the same time. Successful men have always married “down” in terms of status, and have always been willing to share their resources with less accomplished women and children. The problem is the “Tall woman syndrome”. Women want a man that is taller than themselves in status and competence….no matter how tall they are themselves. But the higher you climb, the smaller your pool of mates becomes if you are unwilling/resent having to choose someone “shorter” (less accomplished) and share your resources. That is women want the freedom and power of equality. But want to hold on to the privilege of hypergamy. Can’t have both. The math doesn’t work. Especially when you do put women with a pool of superior men? They simply “raise their standards” even higher. They feel a drive to pursue the best of what is available. Either chasing a perfection that doesn’t exist, or will never commit to her should she stumble into it.
Yes, this is exactly why I recorded this episode ✌🏻
@@julianajoy The other issue is that, collectively, women tend to treat men who they perceive to be of lower status/lower attractiveness than themselves disrespectfully. That is a mortal sin if you want to enjoy the company of men, and form long lasting relationships with them. Men who are healthy won’t tolerate it. Men of high status/attractiveness who see a woman do this will lose respect for her and avoid her. The damaged men who will put up with it, lose her respect even more, and she treats him even worse in a vicious cycle. It’s a destructive cycle that leads to women being alone or in marriages where they actively make their husbands miserable…and ultimately themselves as well. “If you want to see who a woman truly is. Watch how she treats men who have nothing to offer her. “ --Anonymous
To answer the titles question. Liberal Feminism is your answer. Men are done having their pride and ego stomped on by thankless B....'s
Recently coming back on the market, I'm amazed at how many young and older married women approach to be a secret side chick.
approach in person?
@@bonsummers2657 Yes.
The culture present in today's society does not value relationships. People are no longer settling and it's easier to be alone. That is the truth of the matter. Modern popular culture is diametrically opposed to relationships. We all follow the culture to some extant, unless you make a conscious decision to rebel from it.
@@electricjc yes… and this is pretty sad because we do feel better with a (good) partner on our side
So what advice do you give to men when 75-80% of divorces are filed by women? Does that mean that 75-80% of men are bad or at fault for failure in they're marriages? Because the message being sent by this is the majority of men are bad! What would you tell men that have lost they're kids, homes, with these kind of statistics? What would you tell men when the courts favor the woman in regards to they're kids and homes? What would you tell men when they're wives make more money than they do? What would you tell men that are married for 25+ years and the women decides to end the marriage? What would to tell a man that has been married 5 times and believes in marriage that one died and 4 filed for divorce? I've seen the studies in US universities and the UK that have found the divorce rate has climbed to a rate of women choosing to work? Was it really necessary for the woman to enter the work force to help provide the needs of a family? What do you tell the man that raised 4 kids on his own, home schooled his kids, run his own business on one income? What do you tell the men that don't want to date for marriage because of the divorce rate? They're are so many good men out there that provide well for they're families, are a good Dad and a good father and the wives decide they want to end the marriage?
NOPE. The problem is just women.
Repeal the 19th
@@lanejensen455 Women hit menopause and then they divorce.
What about capitalism and its values we get indoctrinated early on? I actually think the impact of it is WAY bigger than any of your points you made. Thats also the reason why man have similar issues finding a partner. Same for homosexuals. People have issus finding FRIENDS. God damnit. The values we all get taught early on fucked us up deeply and disconnected us all from life.
You should look up how women rate men on dating apps. The average man is not "good enough" for the average woman. Women reject 90%+ of men after a quick glance without even talking to them. Thus the current dating landscape.
Yes this sadly the case
Get off them and approach in the flesh or cultivate a friendship first. You need to put some effort in. Join a club talk to women. If you think apps are hard my God you haven't truly lived. Look at what men did in the past... 🤣
@@jessicahitchens6926 if guys could get attention from women in real life then they would never bother with the dating apps lol. There's significantly more men than women on the apps for that reason. Approaching in real life comes with the risk of being labeled "creepy, weird, inappropriate, etc." or the woman will say that he's bothering her or some other thing to demonize the guy and frame the situation as if he's doing something wrong. Which can easily get him kicked out of the venue, group, lose his job, etc. Most guys would rather not deal with all that. And we have the data from dating apps now to show that she's most likely not interested anyways. If real life was so much better, guys would be approaching women all the time and there would be practically no market for dating apps. They wouldn't be the multimillion dollar industry that they currently are.
The illiberal hate cult of recent/current feminism has produced many western women that offer nothing to men except hostility, entitlement, and drama…. & many men are understandably responding by walking away and finding a lot more peace and sanity in their lives….that’s the current dynamic.
Im European. Have worked in China and Japan for years. The difference in "quality" is just too high. Too many empowered and self centric Ladies in the west. Not worth the Drama. No thanks
Hear you
Independent and successful women Struggle so much to find compatible matches. the problem is that they have developed a level of individual worth that they can't see the value a man brings aside from saving money on home maintenance. Congrats to all men of the past for creating a world for women so egalitarian that they can't even pair bond with us anymore.
There have been so many great comments here I think I may record an episode talking about the feedback from men because we need to hear this
The truth hurts! The host can't really embrace it, her comment is flat.
@@julianajoyit will fall on deaf ears.
Most of independent women are avoidants, who just act very destructive way.
modern culture has no more moral values that's why true relationship is hard to find.
It has values. The problem is that shame has died. Somewhere we came up with the idea that people are entitled to feel good about themselves no matter what they do or how they behave. So there is no longer any ability to enforce any behavior standards.
Shame is badly needed... Judgement and discrimination is needed too.
@@kellygreenii if the people has no more moral values it is also spontaneous that they are already shameless of doing immorality and wickedness.
I've been told I'm not enough for so long that I don't know if it's worth trying to find someone anymore.
@@Tim_G_Bennett this is pretty sad and indeed sonnend women are going overboard with the understanding for what is good, bad and enough
How does one "specialize" in "energetics in relationships" - seriously?!?!?! That's one of the most ridiculous comments and titles I've ever heard 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Finding love is hard because women fall in love with falling in love. ALL of the onus on a relationship falls on the man to court the woman, make her feel heard and understood, blah blah blah... It's simply not worth it for men to entertain women; social media and feminism have destroyed them. The saddest part: women still can't figure this out 🤦♂
Fair representation.
Women on dating apps are swiping right on about 5% of profiles, and men on roughly 60%. So really it's these 5% that are not committing, not serious etc. 95% of men are ignored. I would assume the same is happening on social media - women ignore / ghost 95% of the men, and get ghosted / ignored / pumped and dumped by the top 5%.
yes, that´s a huge problem and I am teaching women to be open
@@julianajoythat’s the ONLY problem… Until women get it through their individual and collective thick skulls that they CAN NOT “¢HANGE” him to want her over the hoards of other women he gets to sleep with, they will continue to suffer a predictable fate.
@@julianajoy”teaching women to be open”??? You can t negotiate attraction. Women will never be attracted to men who are in the bottom 95% on any physical level. They just won’t. The ONLY things that keeps monogamy in tact as a social game are: 1. social enforcement 2. Natural world adversity (i.e. the world trying to kill you so, you have to bond with a male for cooperation and protection) Absent both of those (namely the second point) women will never find average men sexually attractive. It is in human nature to desire decadence when there is no clearly present threat or adversity. You can’t negotiate desire. Many of those women will never give an average guy a first, let alone second glance… EVEN if he improves himself. The only thing that is left to happen is society must crash and fall. Then natural adversity will re-emerge and the cycle will begin all over again.
@@KennethFabritiushow about meeting by approaching?
@@semprefidelis76 I am not sure what you are referring to?
When sex is free No idea buying it
Typical Narcissist
What is the point of this video exactly? Those are very reasonable boundaries set as unfortunately wemon are used on those sites... why is that not serving then when it is an attempt at serving to protect themself????? Tf? Am I missing something ???
The only scenario in which "Men do not put in any effort", "Men only want to hook up", "Men are OK with the woman talking to other men" makes any sense is the - unfortunately typical - case in which women date out of their league (or if they are in the top 10% themselves: dating only those men who only want to hook up). Women can limit their dates to the top 10% of men but it is quite dumb to expect a relationship as outcome. "Protection" as in "He has to prove himself" (does she have to, too?) sounds quite funny as it probably means that men are expected to pay for even more dates.
thanks for saving me the time typing it out. Many of these complaints women have are because of overextending beyond men that will wife them. Women en mass have fun zoned themselves by not perusing realistic relationships with men that want them. Find someone you personally connect with and have common values because if you think you are so amazing you can lock down a hottie, you would have already done so by now. Then the rest of us "Normal" guys have to play by twice as many rules for the same perks, we are not blind
@@HaukeLaging it’s about the lack of true connection and the women I work with learn how to get to know someone pretty quickly so that when they go on a date it’s meaningful. IMO the ability to create connection is a key responsibility of women in a traditional relationship and something we need more of
I call that (in ecology terminology): “Pursuing a tournament mating strategy while expecting a pair-bonded outcome.” IOW, go ahead and chase the most desirable men. But don’t expect them to give up access to all the other women who want him unless you bring something truly remarkable yourself to the table. That is don’t expect a Brad Pitt to commit to you unless you’re an Angelina Jolie. Otherwise he’ll pull a DiCaprio: sleep with you, then move on when he gets bored.
@@julianajoy True. But it’s also VALUING that connection. Too many women move like male players. They can’t connect. They value superficial traits…then get mad when confronted with the poor character they are (unwittingly) selecting for.
@@julianajoyNOPE. It’s about WOMEN have gone insane with expectations. Women who are an objective 4 on every metric from looks to brains to character to personality expecting a man who is objectively a 9 on every level is insanity… and it is insanity that the global line-of-sight the internet has provided all women who chose to avail themselves of it has only exacerbated the issue. HAREMS are the norm in history. You realize that? Right? It is in human female nature to be willing to share ONE man because he has high status… it’s happened throughout ALL of human history and has become ingrained in female nature. And we are seeing the rise of it again in the modern world.
You were lied to by the system- big corporate interests have figured out how to get women to take out massive loans for useless degrees so they have to work- and they become childless consumption bots
mgtow is the way
It's certainly a viable option now.
Communists have destroyed the family
I have been watching your channel for the past 1 month and I know that your videos are not seoed properly and that is why your channel is not growing properly.
Marriage is hard because what if he has those thoughts too. It takes 2, nothing more simple.
If you don’t know if your man has masculine energy and is making plans but has boundaries. He doesn’t to both. Or you’re still too young and naive.
there is such a nice talk here about women who have increased their body count and hit the wall. They are not single because they choose to be, but because they have destroyed themselves and the best men they can reach already exist in their past and luckily they did not have to live with these broken women... this energy talk is silly, it is much simpler. The woman is simply no good if she cannot tie a man to her! Even ugly and really fat women can do that if they have a heart and are healthy in the head!
How about quitting the woke bullshit and letting the man lead then?
You're not meant to lead.
As a guy: women can forever stay away from me. They did it for the last 20 years so they can fuck off now. My life is so peaceful without a woman