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So articulate and higly intelligent man..what a survivor...❤❤

I wish Julia hadn't interrupted Charles and so unnecessarily with so-called "expertise", which was mostly not even well-timed let alone in true relation to Charles. This is another awful example of the difference between acting like a therapist and actually being a therapist.

Presumably some of the perpetrators are still alive so why aren't they being prosecuted, he mentions a woman who wrote in his diary only referred to as me but left an address so must be traceable

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What a most excellent and exceptional interview: 3 Cheers for both these superb survivors. An Australian, 75yo lady, who utterly admires them both for their revelations, presentation and endurance.

How brave !

Evviva Buzz 🙌🏽🫂🧡! The warmth of this man is immensely beautiful to witness. “The parents thought he’s alright, he’s one of us!” But who is “one of us”? Isn’t wealth accumulated precisely because “worth” isn’t seen in life itself? Aren’t the accents, the furnitures and the titles made to feel “the other” “unworthy” so that their “ownership” can make one feel “worthy”? And if “your worth” is “your capacity to satisfy me” how can children be seen as “worthy”? Heartbreaking to hear that a child would think “sweet” was the exchange currency for maternal love. I saw a comment on a TH-cam video that said “When the mother stops loving the child, the child doesn’t stop loving the mother. The child stops loving him/her-self”. “We need love”: if love is a need, i.e. a relationship necessary to survival, would any loving parent send their child to a boarding school? Who is expected to fulfil the loving relationship with a child in a boarding school? “He wrote such jolly reports” doesn’t mean “he showed care, affection, curiosity and respect for our little ones”

Yes it’s true… it’s just so much harder when your history is one of abandonment tho? So if the evidence has been shown that you are worthless and will be rejected as a child, it sets up the insecurity which is so hard to shift (from my experience) it’s sad 😢

Annabel, how can we make sense of these moments we remain behind to live through? I am very sorry. I was 58, Clarence 60 when we found out overnight there were days left. We married at 20 and 22. Locally, I was given 30 min at a time in CCU until I was able to transfer him to Vanderbilt where we could be together at all times. It was stunning to let go of so much of those days before, all the growing up together, it was wonderful - and it was gone in 42 days. “Dignity+Love=Us❤” is the last thing he wrote to me. I was fortunate to remarry about five years later. So open to remarrying after that great experience of before. Then … the same frank delivery of the “incurable, untreatable, maybe get away if you can now” with our heads spinning and readjusting everything with such little guidance. We had eight months - and he died at home last year. We all did our very best - and can only hope that clinicians will readjust their approach - I have been a part of that system, and I am ashamed. But the love remains. And as much as it hurts, I would rather be vulnerable than have those hard hearts beating inside me. Sending you so much love.

I can repair … I can come back together … Julia, you’ve also almost described the repair of ourselves following the death of a partner, and it’s such a hopeful message … cutting down the urgency we all feel of whether we’ll right ourselves again - it’s very helpful. Thanks for that.

What a very articulate gentleman

Resentful adult children are scarier than any other living being. I'd rather be faced with a hungry crocodile than an adult child who wants to remind you of all your mistakes and still expects you to pay for them, literally. How does one navigate that!.

Oh this has made me feel so seen 🤍 Will definitely be subscribing!

I used to go and sit in a mall where there was activity and human beings. When i became vegan my depression improved 50% which i did not expect.

More recovery in the affected side of your face Julia 🥰 i can also see a little blink movement in your eye as well

Chilling but also hopeful. Thank you, this is hugely helpful 🙏✨

I discovered your channel yesterday and have been enthralled by your interviews, your guests, and the information shared by you and your daughters. How lucky am I! Thank you so much 🌷🌷🌷

No I'm still in survival mode I make less money than my parents did

This is a super interesting video. I'm a native swede who loves psychology, and this really makes a lot of sense and helps me understand some of the people who have fled here because of wars.

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God Bless Charles and Heal him Totally ✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏‼️

Such a wonderful, gentle trio. Keep doing what you do - it’s helpful in so many ways

My husband has been in a vegetative state for a month after 17 years of illness. People ask me if the freedom feels good. I’m using the freedom and alternating socializing with alone time, but it’s not really for the enjoyment of doing it. It’s to survive emotionally. No it doesn’t feel good. I feel tired. I wouldn’t swap the freedom I have now to have the last two weeks before I lost him, but I would swap it to have the extra two or three years with him that I was hoping for.

Thank you... this is a good reminder..... I watch too much about the corruption around us, because we're waking up and it's important to understand but it becomes too much, the android phone is addictive, the endless input of "information" becomes addictive

Grief is utterly exhausting

Oh my goodness I’d loved her as part of the Royal family. She’s a beautiful woman. A blonde beauty like Catherine a brunette. Can you imagine the tierras, jewelry etc ? IF ONLY…. I CAN WISH. SHE WAS PROBABLY LUCKY to not be stuck with Harry

does julia samuel cover child loss, she died suddenly at Christmas age 19

does Julia Samuel cover child loss?

You mean generation narcissist.

58% of tiktok users wish it didn't exist. There is a REALLY simply solution. Stop using it and delete the app. I have never used TikTok never watched a TikTok.

And this is being posted on as shortform content

I feel for you Charles 😥 I too was sexually abused at 3 and a half and was assaulted at just turning 14. It has affected my relationships I find it hard to trust and I seemed to attract relationships that were fleeting. I guess this suited my fear of commitment despite wanting a genuine partner. You inspire me. Thankyou 🙏🙏🙏

I think smart phone free schools and not having a smart phone or a social media account until 14 or so but I also think that for some young people access to social media is essential for their mental health but I guess having better access to mental health services or support might be part of it;its difficult as I think for some young people who feel so at odds with their immediate social environment or a lack of peer support or a tribe need to find that online sometimes..like lgbtq or others who simply do not fit in easily to their social milieu. I would love to see how this plays out in schools and what effects can be measured of these provisos are picked up by school,the fact that schools allow phones at school is rediculous.

So much loss for this man.

He resembles Diana.

He has my utmost respect!

Thanks Photon Tube I’m @ Belchers Bar , With Maddie Argy And Big Clive : Hilda

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Parents must always pay close attention to their children. Mothers in particular. Follow your children everywhere and suspect everyone. This has been my number one rule. ☝️ Deep gratitude for having brought the truth to light. This is a very difficult undertaking. For many it is impossible. We listen to you and embrace you with our minds.

This kind of shit is what i want from TH-cam

I think he's a hero, what a lovely guy...... and the poisoned bowl by higson, then Robert montague

While reading this book, I paused put the book down and screamed, THIS IS AN INSANE HOUSE OF HORROR WITH A SADIST FOR A SCHOOL MASTER!!

Being from a poor background I thought if you had money you had no problems, the naivety of a child. So glad you are turning this whole subject around. I wish you well.

2:50 What I Can Do by Mary Oliver The television has two instruments that control it. I get confused. The washer asks me, do you want regular or delicate? Honestly, I just want clean. Everything is like that. I won’t even mention cell phones. I can turn on the light of the lamp beside my chair Where a book is waiting, but that’s about it. Oh yes, and I can strike a match and make fire.

2:50 What I Can Do by Mary Oliver The television has two instruments that control it. I get confused. The washer asks me, do you want regular or delicate? Honestly, I just want clean. Everything is like that. I won’t even mention cell phones. I can turn on the light of the lamp beside my chair Where a book is waiting, but that’s about it. Oh yes, and I can strike a match and make fire.

2 lovely, intelligent, well spoken ladies, wishing you a good and speedy recovery Julia.

The ‘Shitty Committee’!!! Love that! Another great/helpful show

What a touching interview - it helped me a lot. Really thankful that Annabel was able to be so open. Julia, I’m so impressed by your hosting, the show format and your incredible daughters who provided me with more thought and comfort. I think the show title ‘Therapy Works’ might put some people off though. Comes across a bit arrogant. It doesn’t work for everyone.

All private health care for MP's should be outlawed. There is no way our MP's would want to suffer what they seem quite content to put us through. They'd soon be singing from a different hymn sheet if this were to occur.

Oh Annabel, I'm so sorry for your experience and for your loss. I used to be a nurse, and can assure you this woman's cold demeanour (24:57) was not in keeping with those of us who loved our profession and demonstrated respect for our patients, and their relatives. I can feel your pain and resonate with a lot of what you describe from my own grief journey. Julia, you are amazing and thank you for your work.