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My ideal sex and romance partner is a man. He is a man who is my mirror, brings out my light and my shadows. When we bring out our shadows, he is someone who can hold space for healing for us both and allows me to do the same. He is not afraid of shadow work, or radical truth or radical responsbility. We necessarily communciate *alot* and we prioritize pleasure education, exploration and esoteric eroticism. He is kind. He is supportive. We collaborate.

Hey, posting my response to @Billy-bc8pI here in case others might be interested and have ideas to contribute.... hope thats ok. We were talking about the purpose of romantic union, being family and/or spiritual growth. I wrote: I love how you formulate the first part -Romantic Union "...is meant for building out families and working as a foundation to help others grow within a stable environment. " Here, a romantic union has both a higher purpose (a purpose that trasncends it) of building families, expansiveness, and a grounding purpose, providing a foundation for the growth of others. As for the second part, do you mean that anyone who values spiritual growth is essentially engaging in self gratification? Does this mean both inside and outside of romantic union? Or only if its through romantic union? Also, if the romantic union is not fertile can it still have a high purpose since it cannot build a family? If so, what? If not, then are all non fertile romantic unions doomed to self destruct? I'm looking for a purpose for romantic union that is outside of itself, a third force that sustains it which is normally building a family. However, some of us have already built families. That doesn't mean we don't still have the same needs as anyone else- the need for companionship, sexual fulfillment, creative collaboration, pair bonding. Growth. Being loved, adored, desired. Seen, heard, understood. There is not one single person outside the religious context talking about higher purpose in romantic union, - purpose that necessitates the romantic bond but trascends it. I actually don't think that spiritual growth is a higher purpose to sacred union because a) spiritual growth happens anyway, in any form and does not require a pair bond b) spiritual growth for one or other person is not outside the union, it is self centered/gratifying as you put it, not outside the self/outside the pair. So I wouldn't even regard it as higher purpose. I would say it's a happy unintended consequence. But not a reason for being in a pair bond. The main reason for being in a pair bond, is that we were designed that way. In fact all addictive behaviors are mimicking the pair bonding brain system. The way to sustain a pair bond is with a higher purpose. (Copyright Lucy Sagaire 2025) Im ok with direct responses if anyone has any ideas. Once I find a good high purpose, Ill find a good partner and know it will last. lucyatmyself @gmail. com (ps. gonna ask chat gpt)

Look for social groups where you will hopefully find other people who are also looking for in person socialization

55, separated, do a fair amount of work from home. I found a good woman using - horror of horrors - a dating app. 55 is hard enough. Separated is a pariah. If I can do it, you can. It does help to be in a major metro like NYC. You’re not going to find people in isolated rural areas. As for office: don’t shit where you eat.

Things have changed ... Our lives are now centralized to our digital devices. Human beings have always been a pain in the a$$ .... But ... We are social creatures. During the first lockdown of the pandemic, I had plenty of time to think. The future was cloudy, so my mind kept taking me back to the past .... What were the best parts of my life? ... It was nothing material, or some superficial BS ... The best parts were my interactions with other people and the world around me ..... Humans are making a massive mistake by trapping themselves inside the digital world.

As a man, I want a feminine woman. I don’t want to date another me.

I am a heterosexal man. I prefer to date women who are confident about being a woman and are feminine.

I'd be into meeting someone but I'm not focused on finding her. It'll just happen. I want to buy a good trail bike

I think all of the advice given by Dr. Klein is useful except for his recommendation regarding the word, 'normal'. This is a useful word because it helps to understand the reality of our environment and is the entire purpose behind data collection and analysis. All people and businesses want to know what is normal or normative so that they can tune their actions/expectations accordingly. There IS a normal penis/breast/ass/head/nose/eyeball/...size. I do agree with his sentiment that any such data point is more useful if coupled up with 'why' do you want to know, and 'how' will you use that information to effectuate the outcome you desire.

At one point in my 20’s I went from a job with a lot of colleagues and social interaction to being the only employee. It was a drastic change for me to get used to, but I found other ways for social interaction.

Sex or intercourse refers to the behavior. Making love adds feeling to the behavior. It’s ok to use both, it simply depends if a person wants to invoke feeling or not.

Hi hate the word D!ck, when with a partner. C0ck is my preferred word. I also dislike when she calls her Vagina a C**T. Pu$$y in a French or Italian accent, is what I prefer to say.

Lack of socializing is starting to get to me though.

I always return the cart. I contacted the state board of elections and rescinded my right to vote. I don't want to harm others in any way. I want to find my tribe and become as independent of the system. I don't want to completely disconnect but I want to be completely independent of it. I've been making myself as valuable to the world as I possibly can so move about the matrix as care free as possible, which has become pretty difficult if you know what I mean. I do want to reconnect with nature though, it's the main reason I moved here.

Looking for a gender-neutral oil rig worker

I'm indifferent at this point.

That's what cafés are for

Mainly coz of toxic high milage ho's with more head baggage than Heathrow ✈️

No they don't...they like to piss men off 24/7 Ever notice how they always find new ways to piss you off..ain't no coincidence???

Hi Schahrzad - i wonder how your parents came up with your name? Is it a reference to Scheherazade? - THANK YOU for posting cool videos- you look beautiful ! As for the dysfunctions today- having grown up in the turbulence and soul searching 70s and 80s- for me having been called honey, darlin' or babe by waitresses, teachers, etc. it was a different time- very tolerant- at work I've been called "Old School' and male chauvinist too, well it is causing defensiveness and no longer spontaneous- - but thank you for mentioning the decline of communities - it reminded me of Steve Bannon in a rolling stone Interview saying he doesn't believe in society- a big lack of belonging or unity is NOW an issue because we are all scrolling online - our attention is on a screen - and the passivity/ dopamine from gaming a very interesting problem among young men- as you mentioned it in your other video based on Dr. Glauser- so please keep up the thought-provoking content- your understanding and insights are valued!

I saw my divorced younger sister struggling to bring up two kids. On the other hand there were divorced males struggling to keep up with alimentary payments. I thought of my own upbringing as a child and my parent’s marriage. My Dad working 6 days a week plus overtime in a job he hated. I said no, this is not the life I want. Marriage maybe, kids no.

0:57 "because with men and women being equal they're less attracted to each other". That means that men have to be 10x more masculine than the average man just to be attractive to women. Hence, the thesis: women have sky high, unrealistic standards. And this is due to "equality" being put in place

58yr old male, divorced at 46. Never remarried. All I need is a casual conversation at Whole Foods or a coffee shop every now and then and a couple social events during the year. For me, it's not about peace, its about how I allocate my mental energy. There is no way I will allocate my mental energy for a relationship. I'd rather use it for bingo night while on a solo cruise vacation😁

She said women want you to take them on an adventure. Sounds good but what wasn't said is they want you to take them on the adventure THEY want, not what you want. But if you try to take them on the adventure THEY want, well, now you're a people pleaser because you're doing what she wants you to do. Also, will you women PLEASE stop lying about wanting a man with boundaries. That never works well. Sure, he can set a boundary such as telling you not to murder random strangers, set up a counterfeiting print shop in the spare bedroom, or become a literal prostitute, and MOST women will go along with those. Meaning, a woman will allow a man to set boundaries just as long as they weren't going to be things she was going to do anyway. It gives the illusion that he's a strong leader. But most women will actually defy what a man says just to show that she can. Look at how many videos there are of a man telling his wife or girlfriend that he doesn't want her dressing provocatively and going out to clubs with the girls and then dancing with random men and when a man tells her that, she then accuses him of being insecure and controlling. So no, women DON'T want a man setting boundaries when it restricts what she might want to do. And other women don't mind a man setting a boundary because she actually just wants to show him that she doesn't need to obey his controlling rules. I mean really, ladies, for any of you who want a strong man with boundaries, what boundaries are you even talking about that aren't things you weren't going to do anyway or that you'd allow him to control you? And can everyone stop referring to nice guys in a way that makes "nice" sound bad? Being nice is something we should all want to be and to strive for. I lost my first wife to a bad boy who treated her horribly including all forms of abuse and sleeping with as many women as possible while with her. He even hit on her two younger sisters and went so far as to suggest threesomes. And my ex was loyal to him until the day he died. I'd rather be nice and alone than to lower myself to that. If you have to treat women like that to get attention and loyalty from a woman, I'd like to think I have too much integrity.

It's cool you'll probably do better without me.. ❤

I grew in the 70,s and 80,s i think back then its was more about love and finding a great partner its a whole different world now but we just have to adapt and hope to find that someone out there i have not given completely up yet..and great video and topic as always🙂

The single childless ideology is overly focused on because there is something scary about it. Yes more women are admitting they prefer that path and that's okay. The vast majority of women want a loving husband, children and family. But women also do not want to be controlled or feel trapped. So yes they are smart to make sure they can have their own money. People are essentially saying that to increase the birthrate we must put women back into slavery. Instead we need to change with the times. Destigmatize having children under all circumstances. Focus on helping families raise happy children. Focus on helping men not to be misogynistic. Focus on adequate maternity leave, building great schools, and daycare. Those are some of the many ideas.

Noone talks about the higher purpose of relationships. The dafault purpose is having a family. The other purpose people mention is 'spiritual growth' Long term committed relationsips based on good sex (anything else is platonic friendship) require a higher purpose, but what? Noone talks about this. I also have a problem with purpose for relationships being spiritual growth, as if anyone not in a relationships can only grow spiritually so much whuile those in relationships are spiritually superior. I know that with a higher purpose in a relationship, everything is possible, and all obstacles are temporary. Without purpose, the relationships disintegrates.

The problem is the 19th amendment, birth control and cellphones. Pick one, take it away, and most problems would go away.

Some people like to create drama. This is not gender specific. Avoiding conversation when drama is created (eg refusing to talk abut it, or wlking away) is creating drama not avoiding it.

Morgan my darling You listen to Dr. Robert Glover to get tips to tell men what to do? Wow. So without a man, you have no advice for men? Morgan baby, this is the most important reply you'll ever read. I fell in love with your adventures, your audacity, your awkwardness, your sexy mouth and your beautiful lips. And I know exactly what to do to restore your confidence in men. I'll take a gamble that you're worth it, and chance my manhood that the safest place to be is as close to your tongue as possible. Because, as long as 'you' continue to say the right thing, it's exactly there that I will remain. But betray me, just once...ok

God created us in this environment; life is enough. If the waves are still in life, i think its the woman needs to learn to find equilibrium. EVe followed her wants, women inherited this from their great mother. women tend to become tidal-waved by their own wants You cant manage a woman's emotions, A woman needs to manage themselves in that aspect STop expecting men to micro manage a womans emotions. If they dont care about the words of God, why would they about a mortal mans words? A man can lead the house only if the community around them doesnt tolerate bad behavior. Most societies are rules by the devil. you cant have godly relations when people are jerks WOmen dont be jerks, be cool to each other in life or be judged to destruction

Good content, but very trashy.

Don't worry, anyone who has ever been in a relationship with a woman is well aware that if she isn't already on an emotional rollercoaster of some sort, she'll just create one. The problem for a lot of guys, is the relentlessness of it. I guess the equivalent for women is feeling pressured to always be 'sexy'. I'm tired, why can't she go and vent her emotional tension somewhere else, you know.

Good video! Peace out

This path is simply too much trouble when weighed against the benefits.. Let's just get a mutt from the dog shelter. -C

I'm one of those nice guys/people pleasers. So I just don't bother with women anymore. I find your video highly accurate

Damn! This video is too good. Lot of valuable info spurted. I was in dilemma if setting the boundaries on a modern woman will elicit negative emotions resulting a break up.

Yeah not having a filter and acting on impulse is probably a good idea when ur besides a husband also a dad. Those women wan't the bad guy type that is unpredictable for sexual gradification but also deeply need a secure dad for their children and an emotional connection. You can't have it all girls.

I agree, being a nice guy in the dating scene sucks, that's why I started being an unpredictable assh0Ie to all women in my dating range. And btw, a lot of your advice is the same things themodernfeministmovement are clasifying as "toxic masculinity" LOL

I took your advice. I don't date women. I won't play that game. Winning at that game is not worth the aggravation that comes with playing that game.

Fertility rate is world wide. Testosterone is low world wide. He do not fight wars like before. Males in prison (survival mode) have higher Testosterone. Also, unregulated sex market value where modern women only go after top 20% of men within the community.

Good god. Sounds like a bad video game.

Need, need, need .... That is why these Creatures are all here for.

Insanity

I have a question about the pace thing you mentioned. What are some tips for men to learn to know a woman's pace? because some women love being heard and will talk for hours while others seem to want quicker action for sure but everybodys different some people just don't want drama so they go people pleaser.I see no shame in these women myself but I'm curious to know What some tricks could be to tell.

Good vid... But i would say they seek either.... They just seek ANY emotional extremes....imagine a man making a vid saying we want rational reasoning.... Girls would laugh... And just say "we're different".

Recreational use only