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How to Boost Happiness with Gratitude: Transform Your Social Skills
In this empowering video, Ryan shares a transformative approach to enhancing your happiness and elevating your social skills through the power of gratitude. Discover why managing your emotions is a cornerstone of social success and learn practical steps to cultivate a positive mindset. Gratitude isn't just a feel-good buzzword; it's a powerful tool that can reshape your perspective, improve your interactions, and lead to a more fulfilled life.
Ryan dives deep into:
The Importance of Emotions in Social Skills: Learn why your emotions are the foundation of effective communication and how they influence your body language, tone of voice, and choice of words.
The Mechanism of Happiness and Sadness: Understand the psychological dynamics behind happiness and sadness and how shifting your expectations can alter your emotional state.
Practical Gratitude Practices: Ryan outlines easy-to-follow gratitude protocols designed to integrate positivity into your daily routine, from listing things you're grateful for each day to using specific triggers as reminders to focus on the positive.
Long-Term Benefits for Social Skills: Discover how consistently practicing gratitude not only boosts your happiness but significantly improves your social interactions and relationships.
Whether you're looking to improve your social skills, enhance your emotional well-being, or just inject more joy into your daily life, this video is packed with insightful tips and practical advice. Ryan's approachable style and real-world examples make this a must-watch for anyone on the journey to personal growth and social mastery.
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Brendan Kavanagh and the Chinese Incident
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In this video, Ryan, a social skills coach with over 11 years of experience, provides a detailed analysis of the controversial Piano Gate situation involving Dr. K and a group of Chinese individuals. Ryan delves into the nuances of body language, subtext, and social dynamics that many may have overlooked in the heated exchange. The incident unfolds as Dr. K, known for playing public pianos, enc...
How To Have An Unlimited Social Battery
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👋 Hey everyone, it's Ryan, back with another social skills video! Today, let's dive into the concept of "social battery" - how long you can last in a social situation before needing a break. I'll share insights on what influences your social battery, how it relates to being an introvert or extrovert, and most importantly, how you can have an unlimited social battery! 🔍 Exploring Social Battery:...
How To Fix Your Mind Going Blank In Conversations
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👋 Hey there, it's Ryan, and I'm back with another social skills video! In today's episode, I'll be addressing a common challenge - what to do when your mind goes blank in social situations. Whether you're navigating conversations, struggling with nervousness, or just looking to enhance your social skills, this video has got you covered! 🌟 Topics Covered: Managing your own emotions: The key to s...
Over 50 Social Skills Shorts For Texting And Social Media
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We offer a free trial session of one to one social skills coaching for more info visit our website socialshortcuts.com/ To join the social skills WhatsApp group chat where we discuss social skills & you can ask questions etc. click this link - chat.whatsapp.com/HDGWvzLtsOo... I have over 180000 followers on TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@socialshortcuts To see the video course on how to never run out...
Am I Too Old To Enhance My Social Skills?
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Hey everyone, it's Ryan! Welcome back to another video on improving your social skills. Today, I'm tackling a common question: "Am I too old to enhance my social abilities?" and its close cousins - "Can I still make new friends?" and "Is it too late to start dating?" In this video, I'll break down why these concerns are unfounded and offer some valuable insights. Firstly, if you have the capaci...
Overcome Nervousness In Social Situations Faster
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Hey, I'm Ryan, and I've been immersed in the world of social skills coaching for over 11 years. In this comprehensive video, I'll divulge powerful techniques to swiftly conquer nervousness and negative thinking in social interactions. With a keen focus on optimizing your confidence and approach, you'll be equipped to navigate any social scenario with ease. 🔥 Chapter 1: The Power of Positive Per...
How to Choose the Right Clothing for Better Social Experience!
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In this insightful video, Ryan shares an effective strategy for enhancing your social interactions through the choice of clothing. Discover how selecting the right attire can not only draw attention but also provide easy conversation starters. Learn how incorporating clothing with intriguing designs, stories, or personal interests can significantly impact how others approach and engage with you...
Confidence Tip - Comparing Yourself To Others
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Welcome back to another insightful video on enhancing your social skills, brought to you by Ryan, a seasoned social skills coach with over 11 years of experience. In today's session, Ryan delves into one of the fundamental elements crucial for building confidence and achieving emotional stability. 🌟 Key Takeaways 🌟 Avoid Unhealthy Comparisons: Discover why comparing yourself to others can be co...
How To Make Your Conversations Flow Like Water
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Unlock the Power of Conversations! Join Ryan, a seasoned social skills coach with over 11 years of experience, as he reveals the secrets to keeping conversations flowing effortlessly. Learn how to never run out of things to say, become more interesting, and even add a dash of humor to your interactions. Discover the key habits that can transform your social skills over time: Diversify Your Know...
Mastering Social Skills: The Power of Thinking Fast
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Welcome to another insightful social skills video with Ryan, a seasoned social skills coach with over 11 years of experience. Today, we're diving into the crucial topic of quick thinking in social situations. Discover why individuals often struggle in social settings despite their intelligence. Ryan explains how prioritizing slow, perfect thinking can hinder your success, while embracing quick ...
48 Flirting Shorts
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Welcome to our comprehensive guide on mastering social skills! In this video, we'll explore various aspects of social interaction, from giving compliments that stand out to deciphering attraction signals. Compliments: Discover how to make your compliments unique to each person, focusing on their personality rather than just their looks. We'll share tips on initiating physical contact and buildi...
The Power Of Positive Emotions
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Welcome back to another insightful video on mastering social skills! In today's episode, we delve into the essence of effective social interactions and explore why the power lies in attempting to cause positive emotions. Join us as we unravel the secrets to becoming a true social dynamo. 🔥 Key Points Covered: Unlocking the Core Concept: Why Attempting to Cause Positive Emotions is the Ultimate ...
Exercise To Practice Starting Conversation From Nothing
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We offer a free trial session of one to one social skills coaching for more info visit our website socialshortcuts.com/ To join the social skills WhatsApp group chat where we discuss social skills & you can ask questions etc. click this link - chat.whatsapp.com/D3StbXpNxUL21T8jPXKI7W I have over 180000 followers on TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@socialshortcuts.com To see the video course on how to n...
How To Be More Funny
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We offer a free trial session of one to one social skills coaching for more info visit our website socialshortcuts.com/ To join the social skills WhatsApp group chat where we discuss social skills & you can ask questions etc. click this link - chat.whatsapp.com/D3StbXpNxUL21T8jPXKI7W I have over 180000 followers on TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@socialshortcuts.com To see the video course on how to n...
Social Skills Exercise For Humour - Giving Funny Examples
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Social Skills Exercise For Humour - Giving Funny Examples
How to deal with someone twisting a story away from the truth
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How to deal with someone twisting a story away from the truth
How to overcome seeming unfriendly if you don’t laugh much
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How to overcome seeming unfriendly if you don’t laugh much
How to overcome seeming unfriendly if you don’t laugh much
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How to overcome seeming unfriendly if you don’t laugh much
Social Skills Exercise - Reframing (mainly good for managing emotions & persuasion)
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Social Skills Exercise - Reframing (mainly good for managing emotions & persuasion)
Why Taking Risks Is Preferable In Social Situations
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Why Taking Risks Is Preferable In Social Situations
How to stop conversations being boring
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How to stop conversations being boring
Key signals to read people's minds X99 (99 body language shorts)
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Key signals to read people's minds X99 (99 body language shorts)
66 Social skills shorts for making and maintaining friendships
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66 Social skills shorts for making and maintaining friendships
27 Humour Shorts
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27 Humour Shorts
How to make a good conversation starter
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How to make a good conversation starter
144 Conversation Shorts
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144 Conversation Shorts
How to manage emotions
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How to manage emotions
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  • @chango-f9z
    @chango-f9z 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What about crossed legs ?

  • @arielle6073
    @arielle6073 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Another nice internal memory strategy is association - connect their name with something (whether it’s a famous person or someone else you know by the same name, and focus on the similarities or differences between the two)

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@arielle6073 that’s a good insight thank you

  • @PeterQuentercrimsonbamboo
    @PeterQuentercrimsonbamboo 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You mention body language… I might wonder what it means when your body is wobbling and bobbling as you talk to us… -:)

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PeterQuentercrimsonbamboo I have ADHD hahaha

    • @PeterQuentercrimsonbamboo
      @PeterQuentercrimsonbamboo 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SocialShortcuts Ah... I see... in that case I'll certainly add it to my list of notes about observing bodylanguage :-) - thanks muchly for an actually insightful giggle :-)

  • @d1rtyharry378
    @d1rtyharry378 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My humour is pretty good but only when I make fun of my sister. When it comes to others I can't speak even a word 😭

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@d1rtyharry378 why do you think that is?

    • @d1rtyharry378
      @d1rtyharry378 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SocialShortcuts it's because I think my humour is based on making fun of others. And I think I can get too insulting? My sister never takes it personally and she knows I love her a lot so my jokes are not real insults. But with others I think I might offend people. And also I think maybe if I make fun of them, they may make fun of me for a lot things. I am too insecure about a lot of things too. I think it's the latter. If I can maybe own my insecurities, I won't get care if I make some offensive jokes that I don't mean. What do you think?

    • @ymaaw3735
      @ymaaw3735 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@d1rtyharry378 Wow I realized this about myself a few months ago too. That's so strange that another person has the same experience including feeling insecure when others make jokes at my expense. I'll share my experience with you to maybe help you and myself too. I realized most of my jokes were at the expense of others a few months ago. This actually lead to two female coworkers hating the hell out of me over time, every interaction becoming more and more nasty and subtly disrespectful, and eventually them stopping talking to me altogether. Their issues and toxicity aside, I realized my contribution was not being respectful towards others when making jokes at their expense. Funny people often have the attitude of being positive and respectful with others. Weird, right? I didn't realize that before. I also figured out that being funny in other ways is 100% possible and is what most funny people do most of the time and only using light teasing instead of what we are doing. They know their limits of teasing people by returning to their base of being positive and respectful. Lessons learned about humor: There are different types of humor (mine are sarcasm, exaggeration, self-deprecation-self-enhancement, dark humor...etc), you can recognize what makes something humorous (surprise, incongruity, superiority...etc), and there are ways to develop humor as a skill (exercises for word association, or what this video shows and so on). Knowing this enables me to become better at humor over time. It could help you too. A feeling of superiority can make something funny, did you know that?! I didn't. That's probably mostly why we laugh when jokes happen at the expense of others and why others laugh at us when it's our turn to be the butt of the joke. Self-enhancing humor and self-deprecating humor operate on that as well as the element of surprise that the joke has. So, I suggest focusing on surprise to make humor. There's a way to create surprise for laughter. Two skills: Main skill is to recoginze the expected or assumed meaning of a sentence, the sub-skill is to twist the meaning into something else. I learned this from a guy online with a site called a funnier you. Check it out. Hope this helps.

  • @spontaneousbootay
    @spontaneousbootay 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    how lovely!

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@spontaneousbootay thanks ☺️

  • @americanfighter6988
    @americanfighter6988 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂😂

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@americanfighter6988 😄

  • @papabear90
    @papabear90 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lol I had no idea this is the same channel as the command and conquer man

  • @guitar300k
    @guitar300k 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    for me now on, to overcome irrational fear, I just take a deep breath, that's all

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@guitar300k do you breathe in any particular way?

  • @ok_computer12
    @ok_computer12 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If person A is generally disliked then no matter how funny Person A becomes he is simply not going to get laughs from people around Him

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ok_computer12 this is not true it will make things more difficult but not unable to make people laugh. Nothing in social skills is ever a 100% or a 0% apart from how emotions work fundamentally and aiming to be a good person

  • @prachijain5113
    @prachijain5113 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was amazing! Love the exercise. Excited to try it!

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@prachijain5113 great! Let me know how it goes 🙂

  • @jennyvantonder8634
    @jennyvantonder8634 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loking at this guy. The sing Wiggle that Whatsit"by The Hollies, comes to mind. Sooo energetic.😂

  • @johnrainsman6650
    @johnrainsman6650 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I respect your view. A manager was disrespectfuI to me when practically criticzing me. There was fauIt on my half, sure, but she could've been more patient

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@johnrainsman6650 thanks 🙂

  • @Otaku_vaani
    @Otaku_vaani หลายเดือนก่อน

    He is dancing 👀

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Otaku_vaani have strong ADHD 😝

  • @artyshmunzuk5435
    @artyshmunzuk5435 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very solid advices, man, thank you :) Wish you more subscribers!

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@artyshmunzuk5435 thanks! I’ll be posting more videos soon

  • @RammatavaSamrajya
    @RammatavaSamrajya หลายเดือนก่อน

    Instagram models being social standard of beauty is wrong considering we all came from monkeys. Let them be the comparison. Than every human is beautiful

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts หลายเดือนก่อน

      What if you’re not very hairy like me though

    • @sfllhrz
      @sfllhrz หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then camparison would be from waxed monkey

  • @WillyJunior
    @WillyJunior หลายเดือนก่อน

    Corny as hell but the replay one got me 😂

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ha ha yeah that was a good one

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ha ha yeah that was a good one

  • @user-kk2bt3st6f
    @user-kk2bt3st6f หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hii bro just want to ask will your video help me in dating to make connection with girls and to escalate.

  • @paaquaci953
    @paaquaci953 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very great video...

  • @THEHUESSERGIRLS
    @THEHUESSERGIRLS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tip from me: If you don't waht to talk just ask them questions

  • @kaiakeenn6430
    @kaiakeenn6430 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    damn it I'm starting to realize you might be right 😅

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What do you mean haha

  • @BrunoCorreiaIRL
    @BrunoCorreiaIRL 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did I just found a tutorial about how to Yap (in a attempt to be funny)?

  • @welshie2007
    @welshie2007 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I must be funnier than I thought...

  • @PableshaEskobar
    @PableshaEskobar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @user-os2nq3tq6y
    @user-os2nq3tq6y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hey bro.... your videos are amazing but you dont get views. here at this point i want to say , never get demotivated and keep making these useful videos as there are some genuine viewes like me who daily checks you channel for any new video

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks I really appreciate this comment 🙂

  • @shidehhafezi6826
    @shidehhafezi6826 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    At work, if I don’t like what someone is doing, I keep it to myself and tell myself: “I don’t like how this person is doing things” or “I don’t like when this person leaves this area so messy”. It drains my energy keeping the dislike in my head. I keep it to myself because I am not confident about my social skills- at all- and therefore, I think that I am going to ruin my relationships at work. I appreciate your tip and I will give it a shot tomorrow at work. Thank you!

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey thanks for the comment. Generally this causes more problems than it solves because if you’re storing anger it will end up leaking out in other formats like body language, voice tone etc

  • @hopage6621
    @hopage6621 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, I don't speak english, but I am trying. I am sorry if I have some mistakes here. May you write how to watch your videos to get the most impact? I mean, what videos must I watch? In what order? I am just a teenager from another country, I am studying at school so I want to get something good from your videos, because my social skills are very bad. I'd like to buy your course, but I can't afford it right now. So I'd just like to get advices from you.

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The best thing you can do I would say would be to practice the exercises. There are a few on the channel. Also join the whatsapp chat too there should be a link in the video descriptions and if not then on the website

  • @martin19072
    @martin19072 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I came into this video kinda skeptical. But surprised at the quality of tips. Deff the best video I have watched on improving conversational humor.

  • @genesissutton8307
    @genesissutton8307 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wow i can't do this at all

  • @TyB95
    @TyB95 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks

  • @timothygilroy1629
    @timothygilroy1629 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is fucking brilliant. What a great way to make life more entertaining, please God I wanna be this witty!!!

  • @xitcix8360
    @xitcix8360 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Idk if I wanna take social advice from a guy making a video in the middle of a crowded street

  • @hinduismwithpremananddasbhagat
    @hinduismwithpremananddasbhagat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yup, you don't have a face for radio. LOL

  • @sydneyhardaway3767
    @sydneyhardaway3767 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “Scalpers-really dangerous barbers” made me chuckle

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@sydneyhardaway3767 yeah that’s one of my favourites hahaha I think my favourite is Ray ban

  • @loonaticgowon
    @loonaticgowon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You look like mark lee

  • @dez9948
    @dez9948 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @HansDelbruck53
    @HansDelbruck53 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are all the female cops in the UK that cnty? And are all the Chinese tourists that rude?

  • @Asdaq454
    @Asdaq454 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    can I do it while scrolling TH-cam on thumbnails and subtitles?

  • @sirg1764
    @sirg1764 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love the trippy cat :D

  • @kaiakeenn6430
    @kaiakeenn6430 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I see you, when you said "Men tend to be more attractive due social skills", I could see you grin thinking that's where I shine baby, how lucky you are above us all my friend.. 🙃

  • @kaiakeenn6430
    @kaiakeenn6430 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant!

  • @kaiakeenn6430
    @kaiakeenn6430 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yes, 1+1 is 2, 😅, you don't say, man, I wonder if that's just a prerequisite they ask each other each time they begin their conversation.

  • @kaiakeenn6430
    @kaiakeenn6430 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    definitely keeping this one in mind as simple as it sounds

  • @HDsharp
    @HDsharp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He touched someone's property without consent!

  • @HDsharp
    @HDsharp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brendan was a racist!

  • @HDsharp
    @HDsharp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Talking absolutely rubbish. You're just regurgitating the smear campaign against the Chinese crew that are just rumours made up to justify Brendans nationalism.

  • @rraa2699
    @rraa2699 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks mate. Good you are putting few video shots, it gives more relaxation while watching.

    • @SocialShortcuts
      @SocialShortcuts 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You mean where it cuts out to another clip and continues the video after? 😄

  • @vinniechudam1835
    @vinniechudam1835 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to know what toothpaste you use

  • @sterlingtimes
    @sterlingtimes 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Doctor Kavanagh is highly educated but his appearance and demeanour are disconcerting. His intelligence and coolness win the day, but he also appears to be producing and directing his performance in real-time.

    • @HDsharp
      @HDsharp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes he's so highly educated he doesn't know anything about copyright right laws do protect work produced in public.

  • @sterlingtimes
    @sterlingtimes 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a fascinating analysis. Thank you. Your critical observation about the police lady is that she is "scared of the implications of woke culture". The police are in far safer territory by following the law of the land, either determined by statute or by judicial precedent: social-cultural rules are unwritten or unclear. Has this police lady attended a police course in social culture or is she "educated" in this respect by the media? Her fault is that she bypasses the law and goes straight to her interpretation of woke culture, and in that lies her weakness. Doctor Kavanagh goes straight to the law while she is working on her interpretation of the "rule of woke".

  • @kaiakeenn6430
    @kaiakeenn6430 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this has to be your longest video so far, I don't mind listening to you for hours but I guess I can see why this series of events warrants a video like this, it's pretty much a buffet for social skills analysis